Nrauj Hmoob Tag Yuav Meskas Thiaj Tau Zoo. 5/15/2023
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Word! I’m a Hmong man myself. Everything you say is completely correct. That why I don’t live in a cities where there’s so many Hmong people. I dislike our og Hmong mind set. I got my own mine set for me my wife. We don’t need people dragging about us. And kisssing ass nope. Just me my wife kids that all that matters to me.
Well said brother
If only majority of Hmong men had the same opinion and personality like you.
I like your mind set, keep up the good work.
Well said! This here is the truth!!!
Thank you for being a true man, brother!
Wow....kuv ntshai tsam peb cov txiv neej hmoob raug ua yawg nrauj tag lawm ne....vim yog lwm haiv neeg hlub hlub poj niam ne
I am with Niam Ntsuab Teev. Kuv khwv kawg thiab but Kuv yeej nyiam li no. Nyiam kwv tij thiab phoojywg, at the same time I make time for myself and love myself.
To the Hmong women that doing this. You choose to do this and you sacrifice everything for your husband happiness but you. We can’t blame anyone but yourself for not loving you.
Everything is a risk. Even giving up yourself and putting your significant other first. This woman is not perfect I believe her message is different.
You're saying " one shall be all perfect or go screw yourself " that's very ignorant as we all know no ones perfect.
@@cuayang5827 who saying what? “One shell be all perfect or go screw yourself” I didn't say that, don't put words in people's mouths. My comment was just a general comment and not blame her or anything for doing it.
Don't generalize all hmong men. I see hmong women who married meka, mev, kaydo and get treated as bad or worst and many flock back looking for hmong men.
Absolutely right.
Yes, because of these mentality that makes younger generations think that hmong man are bad and decided to marry outside but it doesn't always end well. We should teach our sons to be better man and teach our daughter to choose better.
Because they think they are Mika and no Hmong anymore 😂😂😂
It depends on the man you pick and choose to marry.
I think we all want to be in a good marriage, a marriage with respect, love, and understanding is the bottom line. After listening to your story, the only difference I noticed between the two marriages was that the first husband did not respect you and the second did. All this complaining about how much food was wasted, how bad the traditional Hmong religions are versus the church way, or how much you sacrificed for this and that. All this has nothing to do with how bad your marriage was or whether one race is better than the other. We all want happiness in our marriage and I am glad you got that at the end. May you continue to be happily ever after in the second marriage.
I agreed completely. She also had every opportunity to be the change she want to see when it comes to wasteful food, cheating spouses, Hmong culture etc. Instead she bashes on everything because she was allowed others to tell her what to do and how to live her life. At the end when she put her foot down, it appears that great things started happening for her. I just wish more Hmong women could be on the proactive side instead of the reactive side.
I think if you’re going to talk crap about your life then do so. You should NOT generalize about the entire Hmong community and talk sh**t about them. Some old traditional Hmong homes are not disgusting like you described.
She didn't say all of it. If you're offended then just move on. She's got really good points on the hmong community in general overall, but that don't mean every single hmong household. If you're one of the "good" household then don't let it affect you, that's all.
This applies to most households, not all!!
I told my husband that I don't wanna live like that. We barely host anything in our house. I like my house to look pretty and have nice things. When you have parties, other people's kids doesn't respect your house and parents doesn't teach their kids manners. If you want a pretty house, it's best not to host a lot of events at your place.
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Sister kuv agree 💯 % os txhua yam koj hais yeej muaj tsheeb os!.. kuv nrog koj zoo siab koj dim plaws txoj kev lwj siab no os!! Peb pojniam hmoob yeej hlub txiv heev nawb!!😊
Tsis nkag siab tia cas nyob sab tim ko e hmoob pheej muaj ib co pa tha
As a woman do whatever makes you happy not all men are the same not all white black man are nice. It depends what you choose . The decision you make will change your life.
Agree!
Niam tsev hmoob ces yeej zoo no tiag zaj neeg neej no yeej hais yog lawm
Nrog koj zoo siab ua koj tau tus neeg hlub koj o. Tso tus liam txwv pov tseg mus yuav tus siab zoo.
Nrog koj zoo siab thov qhuas koj uas koj tawm tau ntawm lub neej tsaus 2 ntuj lawm koj cov lus no ces yeej yog txhua lo txiv neej hmoob ces yeej muaj lub siab phem lim hiam khav theeb tsis txawj txoj kev zoo tab sis txawj txoj kev phem xwb tos tsis muaj haiv thiab tsis muaj teb chaws
Tus me niam tsev koj hais yog tshaj li thov peb cov niam tsev yuav tsum hlub peb tus kheej thiab pauv peb txoj kev khwv thiab txoj kev hlub tus txiv lawv hlub yus li cas yus hlub lawv li ntawv xwb txog thaum kawg thiab tsi mob yus mog cov me viv ncaus aw!!!❤❤❤
I hardly EVER comment on your videos but I do listen…
We shouldn’t compare ourself “Hmong” people to others. In every community there’s good and bad men and women no matter what color they are. We just don’t see it. Some love you more than others. I have some aunts who’s husband love them deeply. People have different personalities. All people again no matter what color what language they speak we have good and bad.
Hmong Ladies, do not giveup but fightback. Most people drinking and eat big party said what ever they drink or eat is their money. So we can not say aword. We need to change our life styles of eat big and drink a lot. We spend more than we have and make our ladies suffer a lot.
Omg those weekend jingle bells and unnecessary gatherings are so tiring. I see some family jingle bell and they spend lots of money so people can pack all the food leaving nothing left for the family. Some people don't know how to leave after a jingle bell. Mind you the people of the house work hard and they probably need rest but can't kick anyone out. People over stay and drink alll the way til midnight. Like damn... ya don't know to leave people's house. Might as well start telling those who stay to start cleaning, especially those big pots and pans. Maybe next time they know to leave or else they gonna help clean haha😂
Yeah peb hmoob noj haus Phaum lam zog lawm
Pab thas Hmoob, funny concept. Ua si is more like it.
Hmoob mekas noj ntau2 noj loj2 hmoob thiaj rog2
Ab txhob haig li og twb yog lawv muaj nyiaj es lawv noj qab2 xb es lawv thiaj rog zog xb og
No matter how some women do for their men it’s never enough.
Twb yog Kuv nes tu hlub poj niam tsaj cov hmoob nas
Tu siab dhau lawm os tiam no yug los yog poj niam hmoob yuav tiv kev lwj siab lwj ntsws mus txog hnub twg
Txiv txoj kev hlub ces Cas ho muaj ib Tse minyuam, yog tubnkeeg tsis muaj kev kawm thiab siabphem xwb
I agreed with what May said at the end. Some Hmong women are too mloog2 lus to the point where they sacrifice everything they have including themselves. Set boundaries early, live within your means, do those things that you want to without asking anything in return, and self love/self care should always be #1 priority. Dont wait until its too late to do that.
Agreed! Many of these women sacrifice themselves to the point of risking their health and they have no self love. It’s also because they put their “good for nothing” husbands on a high pedestal.
@sonihawj yep and not put their partner as an equal part. Once their hard work backfire on them then they complain and bash Hmong culture. I know couples who are excellent Hmong leaders and still see each other as equals. It's actually very empowering to see that.
@@maipha8560 Yes, you hit the nail on equal partners. Most Hmong men don’t see their wives as equals but second class citizens. Unfortunately, most Hmong women just accept it without challenging it because they were also taught at a young age to hwm tus txiv lub taub hau and that he’s above her.
@sonihawj perhaps back home but not here in the USA or at this time. It truly takes 2 hands to clap in this country.
@@maipha8560 Hopefully, our younger generation will stop this kind of mentality. Many of these stories say otherwise. Most Hmong men still think they can do whatever they want because they are at a different level than women.
Hmoob cov haistias poj coj noj yawm coj ua ces txiv neej ces npaj Los ua Los haus Los nyob Los ua huabtais xwb, pojniam ces mloog lus npaumcas, siab zoo npaum Cas, ua qhev npaum twg Los zoo tsis txaus. Cov ua tau licas yuav li ntawv tsis tas muab yus txojsia Los tam tsis zoo dabtsi. Nrog koj zoo siab tus niam tsev
Tus niam tsev koj qhia tau zoo kawg
Lub Life uas nyiam2 pab tha ces yog neeg Tsi muaj hlwb es nyiam meej mom xwb Tsi muaj qab ntxhiab li os
Not all hmong men are like what you say in this story. There is an old saying that state "you are who you hang out with" so if you let your husband hangs out with those type of groups, then he will become them. I cook, clean, take care bills and hold a steady job b/c I choose to love and help my wife. Just remember that one bad apple doesn't represent us all. I am sorry that you feel that way but there are good hmong who love their wife and kids unconditionally. Congrats to you on your new marriage, but please don't stat us all as one.
Cov txiv neej tsis paub xav tsis paub hlub poj niam ces kawg qha qhuav li xwb tsis txawj xav tsis txawj pab poj niam. Yus yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej xwb. Ua tsis tau raws lawv siab xav siab ntshaw ces lawv hais qhov yuav niam yau nkaus xwb. Yuag tau nrhiav tus lwm haig neeg yuav xwb xaiv tus zoo yuav tseem zoo dua yuav hmong.
Hais tau yog tshaj plaws li peb cov niam tsev yuav tau hloov po😢
Men should not encourage the other man to have an affair or get a second wife. They wouldn’t like it if other ladies tell their wife to cheat on them or divorce them. Like the old saying, “if you can’t say anything nice, keep your mouth shut and don’t say anything at all.”
That is wishful thinking. If some were so thoughtful already they wouldn't give such bad advice. But then there is reality vs fantasy and only a brainless man who can't think for himself must learn the hard way. Once they go single and broke, it won't be that easy to find another good partner. Out there, the dating game is not that easy.
Ab ca koj zaj dab neeg tu siab li kuv zaj thiab od
Niam laus kj ma ua yg
This is the kind of story that should be told only about yourself and blame only your spouse! You can not say men/women can’t/can do this/that! If you are telling your story, you need to use your spouse name only! If your husband/wife cheat, it’s you and your spouse! Don’t blame all men/women!!!
I completely agree with you. It's the person and not the race/ethnic group...lol. I've seen plenty of horrible meka folks...LOL. I've seen very good and honorable hmong men. And of course vice versa.
That's true, they act like meska don't cheat.
That’s true. My blood was boiling while listening to the story.
For real!
Not all hmong man are like you said. Good luck to you great that you found the one that love you. I see now a days hmong women drink more than the guys 😄.
I do see alot of us hmong sisters bust their butt off cleaning n cooking at parties it's very sad. After hearing these kind of stories I'm glad I married a different race. I'm the one that sits and enjoy.
Many hmong women who marry out of race are running back to hmong men, I don't understand that either. 😆😆
Help cooking & cleaning for parties it all about supporting each other , Meska don’t do this because they eat hamburgers, sandwiches snack u can just go buy at the store like that no cooking. This lady created all this work for herself..
It’s really not the race. It’s who you marry. I still have to cook for my white husbands family events. Make friends with your nyabs, and you too will get to enjoy parties. I dislike when Hmong women marry outta race and think they’re better than everyone else like this lady. At the end of the day, we all still have fish sauce on our counter.
Waatch dogs,
I married to a Hmong man and I sit and enjoy too. This has nothing to do with race, but it all depends on the person. You could still be married to another race and still slave to them if you don’t put your foot down or know self-love.
@Stacey Yang I married a hmong man and I'm sitting right now as I'm typing while he's cleaning the kitchen and vacuuming.
Ib nrab txiv neej Hmoob ces tsuas nco hlub lawv tus kheej xwb yeej tsis nco hlub tus pojniam li
Kj ua zoo
Its your life, nobody walks in your shoe. Do what makes you happy. I too dislike busting every weekends at crazy hmong events. Every now and then is okay, but i like my peace and relaxation time. My sanity and self care is way more valuable.
Thuam thiab cem lub neej tus txiv xwb os, txhob cem thiab thuam txoj kev ntseeg.
Watching my parents, my sisters and aunts traumatized me. Pushed me further and further away from these type of men. I know there are good Hmong men but I’ve met few and far in between. My husband is not Hmong and I don’t have to deal with any of this. No nyab duties, or no relative duties. I just have to be a wife and mother which is all that matters to me. Now I see my own sisters who married modern Hmong men suffer the same path our mother suffered. But we are the only one who can save ourselves. Stop waiting for your man to love you. Love yourself first.
Agreed!
Totally agree what you said about our Hmong Christian people. We Christian men love our wives, support them, help them, be there for them, etc…We know that God created them from our ribs, so we can protect and love them…
Stop depending and being addicted to plastic surgery! Go exercise!
Exercise is too much work tho. 😅 If people are too lazy to workout, then just eat less. Stop eating greasy food too.
@@MissPeachie yes exercise is very time consuming so you have to make it into a lifestyle. It has many great benefits to it.
Being on a diet doesn’t work for everyone, including me. Weight training doesn’t only help tone the body beautifully, but also give you the strength to become more independent (being able to lift heavy things yourself without depending on men).
Es yog no cov ua khwv 2 npaum li cas lo ho twb tsis tau ib los lus zoo li tu siab tiam no yus los ua ntxhias hmoob
Txoj me kev ntsaw txiv paj tha quav dev quav beer quav cawv os. Ib co paj tha quav beer no nas tej chim tsis tau beer haus ces los cem poj niam me nyuam, cem kwv cem tij thiab. Tab sis nws tseem muaj ib co poj niam nyiam2 cov txiv quav beer quav cawv no kawg thiab ov.
Kuv ces ua lub ko lawm xwb tiag niam laus aw, txhob ua2 txiv neej hmoob qhev los twb tsis tau kev hlub
You said that you have not met a hmong man that loves his wife and let's her rest. Mines! He is a wonderful man that loves and respects me. He is in his late 50's...so most of those men that age are old school..lol. I help out when I want too. He never forces me and if he has visitors, he lets me know ahead of time and then I can decide whether I want to cook or serve snacks. If I tell him that I am tired, he tells me rest and he will do the cooking and cleaning. He never lets me do yard work.
You got yourself a unicorn, hold onto him. I’m young and my Ex Husband’s mentality is similar to this lady’s ex husband; he was always abusive too. My ex in-laws told me to Siab Ntev and never helped to correct their son.
Nope, I will not marry Meka because I like my Hmong men. There are still good Hmong men out there.
yup if you lucky to marry a good hmoob men
That's true. I won't swap my hmong husband for any other race.
Tsis txhob rawm maj mus qhuas qhuas tias koj tus txiv Meska hlub hlub koj os, Hnub twg kav yus laus mus nce hauv toj lawm mas thiaj xam tau. Hmoob los ib yam tus zoo yeej zoo. Tej zaum koj tub nkeeg los ua ib tug zoo niam tsev Hmoob xwb.
Respect your story. you lost someone but you also found someone. I love my wife. I jealous of her. I respect and honor her. she is the one and only in this life.
Leej twg los yeej xav ua lub neej qhib rooj nug los ma tab sis tus txiv yuav tsum saib taus thiab hos
Yes, my husband loves and supports me.
Nyas yeej hus 2 nyas kwjtse le las mas, peb Hmoob tug cwj pwm yeej zoo le ko los mas.
Nyias yees nyias pob!
May zaj no zoo li (niam Coob Leej )X-W zaj pus yog??…Hahaha …💯👍👍
Zaj no yog niam Patha Coob leejK nyob xeem Minnesota os.
Txiv pob tha ces yog txiv fuab tais, txiv quav beer, txiv qhaug cawv thiab txiv dev xwb es txhob ntshaw os.
Hmong women's do it to themselves
Zoo heev li os kuv ma dhuav hmoob lub neej no tshaj li
All I can say is I’m happy for you for standing up for yourself and knowing your worth. Not a lot of Hmong women would do that because they’re too narrow minded or don’t want a reputation as a divorced woman, disgrace her parents, etc. in this day and age, more Hmong women are stronger and wiser. Who cares what people say or think! They’ll always judge you anyways! It’s all about love and recognizing differences here.
I agree, stand up and your ground
Yus Tau Hais Neeg Twg Ces Yuav Tau Txaus Siab Rau Haiv Neeg Ntawv, Ho Hais Txog Qhov Puv 2 No Ces Tim Yus Tus Kheej Qab Los Xwb Os, Kuv Hais Kuv Xwb Tsis Hais Leej Twg.
I’ve read a lot of weak ass comments. To my Hmong brothers: calm down with banging floor mats. Be a leader and don’t use that title to chase after floor mats.
Hmong sisters: know what you are worth.
I’m a gatherer too. I host a lot of gatherings at my residence. The husband and wife has to work together to serve and entertain the guest. I can’t imagine my wife doing it all.
Not defending hmong men like her ex but not advocating her ways either. To a degree may b American life is true to her experience but not all greens on the other side either. Ask yourself if 100% true, why divorce rate so high among mainstream American culture compare to hmong. Not saying if divorce rate among hmong is lower doesn't mean it's all happy n good. You have to make it work for you n your husband. If not move on. To me, hmong or American there a
Are good men n women in both.
I think American divorces are higher because no one is forcing the wife to ua siab ntev and stay. Also, most white women tend to know their worth and are not putting themselves through misery like most Hmong women.
@soniher to me it's just cultural trends n soon hmong women will learn to stand up on their own n becoming Americanized. Then, there will be less of this sort of marriage experience. However, marriage is marriage, culture is culture n there will always be ups n downs no matter the periods n ethnicities.
A man slaughtered a big cow, lit the grill, and said to his daughter, “Daughter, call our loved ones and neighbors to eat with us... Let us feast!"
His daughter took to the street and started shouting: “Please help us put out a fire at my dad's house!". After a few moments, a small group of people came out; and the rest acted like they didn't hear the cries for help. Those who came ate and drank until swollen. The stunned father turned to his daughter and said to her, “I don't know any of the people who came, I have never seen them before.. Where are our loved ones, family and colleagues?". The daughter said, “These people came out of their homes to help us put out a fire in our house, not for the party. These are the ones who deserve our generosity and hospitality".
Conclusion: Those who won’t help you during your struggle, shouldn’t eat with you at your victory party.
We as a women need to love urself first
Koj mas hais yog tshaj plaws li os tus me niam hluas kuv los raug ib yam li koj thiab kuv tawm tau li koj lawm thiab os dhuav dhau lawm ua tsis tau hmoob cov poj niam lawm os
Koj lam hais xwb tsis muaj tseeb. Koj cov lus twb yuam kev tag lawm nawb me niam tsev
This is the fleecing of Hmong OG, lub neej in America and unfortunately it still happening in 2023. This type families life style will not go far in their future. WE STOP this kind of life style we considered outsiders are more important than at home. Txoj kev coj li no tsis Vam meej.
Good morning niam ntsuab teev lol 😅😊😢🎉
I agree on wasting food. We Hmong people do waste a lot of food and we definitely need to stop that. Every gathering amount of food wasted we need to stop wasting
Txawmyog xavrauqhov phemeskoj thiajcojphem,pojniam hmoob siab phem tshaj poj dab ntxaugnquntshavthiabos,lwmhaivneeg tu zoo tuphemyeejmuaj1yam
Lub neej tseem tsis tau kawg es txhob maj2 qhuas nawb MOG
Xyov koj zaj da b neeg thaum kawg tseem yuav xaus li cas
Mloog zoo li koj nplaum zog ker sub as tu niam tsev
This is why my husband & I don’t care for the Pathan life.
I dont understand why hmong men want to be a pathan. Hmong ogs are the most greediest people yet they want to be in charge. If I am not getting a paycheck for that role I ain’t doing it.
@@ooinkssies1142 You will only lose more $$$ being a Pathan. Nope, my hard earned money will go to my kids, my happiness not the community.
Since Vang Pao died, I've not heard of new rising pathan. All this political crap died with him....this must be a older generation story. But it's true these ladies work hard and get no thanks but used only. My mom was one of them. I told her only your generation was dumb enough.....😢😅
You make it sound like Mekas men are the saviors. 😂
“White saviors” is what it’s called.
Ploog nej cov neej neeg hmoob nyob sab ntuj vam meej mas kuj tsi vam meej kiag thiab, 50, 60 xyoo es tseem ua hluag ua luaj
txhob rawm maj zoo siab nawb ! kuv twb muaj cov phooj ywg nrauj txiv hmoob tag mus yuav txiv America America twb muab lawv ncaw tawm tag lawm a !
Yes sister we waste a lot of foods at our party function these days. People just want to get a plateful and throw it away mostly and we need to change that model.
I think we eat and drink too much. Eat 30%, throw away 70%. Wowow we need to change.
Lub neej yuav hmoob ces yeej zoo li ko os...peb cov niag txiv es ruam2222 tsuas paub noj mov xwb twb ua phem los mas...
Cov poj niam taw tawg pleb tag tus kheej tsis tu no ces tsuas tub nkeeg tab sis ho xav noj qab xav tau rab loj xwb sim saib mus ma lub neej yeej tsis kawg li o
Hmoob tej kev ntshaw ua Nomtswv tiam no ces kawg li ko mas, Hmoob yuav tau tso tseg tej kev uas ntshaw ua tug loj tsis li neej kawg tawg tag liamsim tag.
Xav xav tsu cov niag txiv pab thas niaj hnub gsuas hais qhov mus sib hua pob txha xwb ces ksv tsij xaws qhov ncauj xwb los mab. Peb li peb yeej hlub thisb psb peb cov poj niam txaus txaus lawm l a ev tsis ntsib kev txom nyem sisb li ko as. Nej cov Hmoob ruam niaj hnub hau cawv haus beer tsid muaj laj iaj ces kawg mus kis ko xwb.
Yog lawm, kuv twb xav muab kuv tso plig lawm thiab tiag.....vim koj hais tau muaj siab heev.
Tus neeg tub nkeeg mas nws hais nws zaj xwb lov kuv xav tias tim koj xwb tus niam tsev peb cov txiv neej yog koj yeej yog ib tug niam tsev zoo thiab khov peb yeej tsis ua hluas li os.
It’s very true that the house wife bares so much for their husbands to take advantage of them. He put her through so much that she was fed up enough to move on and fix herself up.
Ua tsaug rau cov yeem thaj hlo los ua cov “pab tsis tha”. Vim li cas thiaj pab tsis tha, haus cawv thiab npias ua dej. Ho muab dej mus haus ua “tshuaj”. Muab zaub mov, nqaij los noj yov luag 24/7. Ces thiaj overweight sai2….
Thaum kawg thiaj mus pab tha rau ntsha siab, ntsha qab zib, thiab ntshav muaj roj, mob taw vwm, mob siab mob ntsws mob plawv etc……. Thiab pluag noj li muaj. Txom nyem ho nyob li cov nplua nuj. Thaum kawg txoj kev no thiaj tsheej xeeb los ua lub mob lub nrauj lub sib ceg, thiab lub tsis kam sib uv lawm. Tu siab kawg😂
I'm agree with you tus niam tsev.
Zoo siab kuv txiv tsis ntshaw lub neej ua pab thas. Tsis ntshaw lub neej nrog ib pab txiv neej ua si haus npias
I'm not married to a hmoob man but had helped my large family events wash tons of dishes !! My goodness, the huge pots !! Flooded the house backyard!!
I am very sorry to say this but we as hmoob women have no compassionate for each other. Peb cov pojniam hmoob no ces tos twb tsis tau ib tug ua txhaum ces ua cuag dev tom dab rau xwb os.
Can’t NOT wait to gossip about any other hmoob women breathe the wrong way. Ya can say what you want I’m just speaking from what I see.
I’m so happy that my husband does not care about drinking and the patha life. Hmong people loves the life of muaj meej mom. We Hmong women need to love ourselves and stop catering to our husbands. If the husbands love us, yeah love them. Good for you sister.
Same here
These pojniam hmoob have nothing going to further themselves so they rely on their husbands fames and reputation. Because of that, they feel the need to whatever jn their power to so call - support- their husbands. When husbands gain fame, they get the shadow of fame of being the niam-
Yep, same with me and my hubby.
Agree
Sound like a 304. That's why we got passport bros. Women are failing to be women. Happiness is the family not yourself.
Traditional or not, you just chose the wrong guy who didn't respect you and your boundaries. I like hosting here and there but I've told my family that if they don't help me clean then don't invite people over. Your house, your rules. You also don't have to play the perfect spouse/nyab to the guests too and you don't have to attend every gathering.
"Nrauj Hmoob tag yuav meskas thiaj tau zoo" is so true. There are a lot of stories on this channel alone where Hmong women divorce their Hmong husband, married a White, Black, Hispanic or Indian man and their lives are so much much better. I haven't heard a single story where their White, Black, Hispanic or Indian husband treated Hmong women badly. This is largely due to yellow fever. So all Hmong women should not waste their time with Hmong men and just all marry White, Black, Hispanic and Indian men. Hmong men has nothing to offer other than he's a Hmong. Hmong men aren't smart, aren't rich, aren't big (has tiniest testicle of all races), has no country... yet Hmong men demand that their wives, kids and anyone younger treat them like a king.
Not a single weekend that we hmong people don't have some sort of events going on! I am also sick and tired of doing these routines every weekend. Why? because I am one of those hard working wife who are fat, ugly, and always overworked at these events and then I spend the whole week in pain from standing all day long and then it starts all over again on the weekend.
I hope you can say no to some of these weekends and get some rest for yourself. You deserve it. Take care of yourself first.
Hmoob noj loj noj ntau dhau lawm. Hmoob ces cov overweight coob tshaj plaws li tej mab tej suav lawm.
Peb cov hmoob tuaj nyob meskas teb no es muaj ib co ua hauj lwm muab ib co noj nyiaj xiam hlwb. Nej cov thawj coj no es xav tias xav xav ua nom li yog ua cas ho tsis mus kawm kom txawj es mus nrog meskas sib tw ua nom nyob pem tsev dawb naj . Mloog nej cov nom teb chaws no mad zoo li nej tsis tau ua dua nom es nej ntshaw ntshaw ua nom kawg li
cov poj niam hmoob yog cov khwv tshaj cov txiv neej moob txawj lim hiam hmoob yog cov nyiam dej nyiam cawv tshaj noj luam lug haug luam lug
Hahaha cia haus kom tuag kiag peb mam pab hlub nej os…tos Kuv tsis yuav poj niam hmoob los peb poj niam ntshaw2 tus txiv haus Beer txiv paj than ne nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb
Good Hmong men exist. They are happily married. You will not find them or meet them.
I agree with you sister 💯 % true