Thaum Hluas Khiav Menyuam Thaum Laus Nrhiav Lub Chaw Tuag. 6/11/23
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You may love your children with all the love in the world, but don't ever sacrifice everything for them because the return on investment may not be favorable when you needed most. Do what you can as a parent, and don't forget to love yourself along the way.
I applaud you for being so strong for your kids. This is a lesson for all men/women to learn from.
Cas kuv mloog es kuv niaj quaj quaj, koj remind kuv of kuv niam os tus me txiv tsev. Ua kuv nco kuv niam siab zoo tshaj. Ziag no es yuav mus nhriav ib tus zoo li kuv niam qhov twg os lawv aw. 😢💔
Ntuj Aws koj hais li tabsi thaum koj lub zog quaj qaws ces koj yeej tsi nco qab tu siab li os lawv aws tabsi lub sib hawm koj tsi muaj lub zog lawm ced tu tu siab tsi txawj tag li os mog.
Zoo dabneeg kawg rau sawvdaws kawm ua neej nyob kom txhob siab phem rau koj tus txijnkawm thiab cov menyuam.
Omg Hella old and Sill want to the town hoooooo lol
Thov qhuas koj tias koj yog ib leej txiv zoo kawg li, tab sis thaum kawg lub zog yeej hu tsis rov li os vim tias coob tus thaum lawv muaj lawv tus khub, lawv lub neej lawm lawv yuav tsis nco txog koj txoj kev sacrifice uas koj ua rau lawv. Tab ss Tej laus yeej ib txwm hais tias nyuj kub tsis nyhav nyuj hau. Dhau ntawv lawm los lub teb chaws no yog lub teb chaws tshuav nuj tshuav nqi es leej twb los yeej tiv nuj nqis. Cov me nyuam yeej yog yus txoj sia, tab sis, thaum laus lawv yeej kawg pov yus tom tsev laus vim menyuam txoj kev hlub niam thiab txiv yeej tsis loj npaum li niam thiab txiv txoj kev hlub menyuam li.🥲☹️Sad, but true!
I can’t believe the son have the audacity to even ask his father to let her come back. This just proves my point that just because you hold a PHD, doesn’t mean you are intelligent.
My thoughts exactly. I was livid at the audacity of his son.
I'm with you on this 💯...no degree can teach a person to understand a decision, a hard decision like this father had to make. His son used the example of a written book or a written rule that can be edited. A book and one's cultural practices, his faith as a Hmoob person are not something comparable.
You’re a good father. But I don’t believe in putting yourself in debt for your children. You are growing old. You will need money for your own retirement. They will earn more money than you will have ever seen in your lifetime. I believe in sacrifices and helping your children become better. But they can take out loans and pay it back once they get good jobs.
I believe kids should take care half their debts… if they are grown men. not their parents’ responsibility
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I will put myself in debt so my kids can have a better life than I did
@@nyiayaj that’s great! But the thing is, there is no guarantee your kids will love you like you love them. They may love you now but they may not love you when you’re old and sick. The future is not guaranteed . You must always take care of yourself first before you take care of your kids, that’s including finances
I feel the same way. Parents shouldn't have to sacrafice their finance to pay for the children's college. Helping here and there when you can is okay but to sell all my assets, i don't think so. Kids now days will not give you a place to stay when you get old and will not remember all your sacrafices when they start to have a family of their own. I'm sorry but in this day in age, kids needs to learn to take accountability for their future. I alrdy raise them from birth to adulthood, now its their turn to be independant and care for themselves. I have student loans too and i never once ask my parents to help. I fell that is my reaponsibilty, not my parents.
Tus txiv tsev no yog ib leej txiv zoo heev. Pab qhuas koj nawb mog. Thov kom yav laus cov me nyuam hlub koj li koj Hlub lawv os mog
You're such a big hearted father. Thanks for sharing brother.
Your sons took advantage of you. You don't have to pay for their education. They are adult, they need to take loan and pay themselves. They are acting like their birth mom. If I were the step mom, I'd say no too.
Yep, u don't need to be in debt for ur kids, they can do it on their own. Look at my Dr bro n master civil engineer bro etc ...they can do it themself.
Yawm txiv yus poj niam ntshaw kev hlub xwb yog koj hlub tiag ces hais lo lus hlub xwb koj twb tsis txawj hais tsis txawj ua zoo raws koj poj niam siab thiab au yog cov tsis txawj hais lus hlub tsis txawj yuav paj pub poj niam li no ces tsis paub hais lawm thiab lauj txawm koj txom nyem nyiaj thiab kub los yuav txhob txom nyem lo lus zoo lo. Lus hlub thiab pob yawm txiv
Love of a parent(s). Karma's will come back to the kids. Only 1-5% kids will acknowledge of parents love n support. This is a learning experience knowledge being cautious of being parent(s) with over loved to our children
Gave all his money away to help his children, then will be expecting them to take care of them in the future. Talk about living life backwards. Save up for your retirement, so you can take care of yourself and bless them with more money in the future instead of being a burden to them and their marriages.
Cov dab laug plu tuab kawg nkaus. Lawv tsis xav siv nyiaj faus tus muam ces muab pov rau tus yawm yij thiab cov mi nyuam. 😂😂
These kids took after their mom. Took advantage of their dad. Going back to care for their mom after dad sells house to pay for education. Sell his house to pay for their education!!! Ridiculous!!! Ridiculous!!!
Npam lawv niam loj kawg nkaus. Sib nrauj mas yuav tsum hais kom tu txhua yam teev ntawv notary rau sawvdaws tuav txog hnub tuag. Qhia kom sawvdaws ntse zog ntxiv.
Kuv yog 1 tug poj niam thiab yog ua li tus niam no ua 6 nws cov menyuam yeej siv g tau 6 phab zoo leej niam .tab sis kuv hais 6 txhua2 tus poj nrauj poj ntsuam cia peb rhawv kom tau 1 txog kev pam tuag pub 6 peb next generation women hmong thiab seb .cas txiv neej hmong yuav 10 poj niam tuag g muab teeb meem qhov no yog peb cia lawv nriav kev pam tuag 6 peb xwb
Why do people only want to come back when it only benefits them?
The son is right. Tradition is just all about how you practice. However, the son need to realize that his mom and dad are divorced. His dad have nothing to do with the mom anymore other than taking care of the kids. Son is well education but not wise at all!
After the mom left and the dad did everything he possibly could for all he’s children financially, he should be respected and love by all he’s children no matter what . The father’s decision should matter and be considered first always.
Your son is ungrateful after all your sacrifices putting him through schools! I want to hear your story the day he send u to the nursing home because that’s what’s going to happen. His wife already gave u a hint when they first bought a house. Sad to say but it’s reality.
Tus uncle/grandpa, u sacrificed so much for your kids. However, i don't think they will love u or take u in when you're old. Your dil already warned u not to sell your house so u and your wife could grow old in there bc they won't be able to care for u guys. The norm now a days is that educated rich kids send their sick elderly parents to nursing home lawm xwb. So expect to be sent there.
Tus hluag Tom gab nrov dua tus xub luag !
Ua tiag nyiaj thaum kawg mam tsim txiaj !
Soap box; I have never understood why some children feel the need to ask for a handout in their college years. Apparently this happens all the time according to these stories. I have a master's, in all my years of schooling, I've never asked my parents for a handout; tuition, books, gas, room and boarding - anything period. What ever happened to responsibility and accountability? And if you say its because schools so hard and you need to focus on that and not money making to make ends meet, well I paid for both my degrees and managed to get a 4.0 gpa. There should be no rhyme or reason for you to be hustling your parents for tuition money 💔
I totally agree. My husband and I both paid off our school loans on our own with no help from our parents. My son is in college and I help him sometimes with gas money because I know it’s nice to get some help. He doesn’t ask for money, just my signature to co-sign for his school loans. As parents, the best tool or lesson we can give our children is how to be independent.
I'm not selling any assets for My kids' education expenses. I expect them to "have skin in the game" too so they better work too or get loans ans scholarships on their own! This doesn't mean I don't support them. I completely do but you cannot expect to get a full ride from your parents unless they are filthy rich.
Hais rau cov niam cov txiv uas zoo li tus poj niam hauv zaj neej nov…thaum yus tseem ua tau noj taus yus tsis muaj kev cia siab rau cov me nyuam na, thaum yus yuav tuag txhob cia siab rau cov me nyuam thiab. Lawv tsis tshuav nej nqi mog.
Cov tus txiv tsev niam tsev lawv tso lawv tej me nyuam nyob quaj ntsuag tab sis thaum lawv yuav tuag lawv ho tig los ntaim kev txiaj tsim, tsis yog lawm nawb. Hos cov neej tsa zoo tus poj niam no na, lawv tsa tsa lawv tus muam cai na cas lawv ho tsis tha lawv tus muam nawj????
For once, I am glad that the kwvtij refused to do a funeral for the ex-wife. The neej nsta is responsible for her funeral. Good thing the nyab took dad’s side and not let her dumb husband take over the mom’s funeral.
cas koj tsis ntxov ua txhua yam rau lawv niam kom neej txhob puas es lawv thiaj muaj niam muaj txiv nyob ua ke no tsam no ho ua txhua yam kom neej txhob puas no mas lig txiv neej mas yeej zoo li no
This be Hmong OGs- I'm in the wrong but I'm the elder (your parents). Yuav npam koj nawb. Lol
People need to start a college savings fund forntheir children. Whether that be putting money away, investing into some financial product, CD etc. Even if your children decide not to go to college, they'll be better off. Hmong people tend to think backwards. Be smarter.
Koj pab dab laug dev ko tsuas muaj koj xwb yig kuv ces kuv twb nkaug tes rau qhov muag lawm tib ci hlwb rwj xwb thiaj li hais lus li ntawv
You're a good loving father. You may have not known how to express your love to your ex wife or know how to romance her. But you still loved her in your own ways. I pray your kids will take care of you in your old age. You sacrificed a lot for them.
The nerve of her family, pweeee!
Smh 🤦🏻♀️ to the neej tsa for wanting the kids to bring their mom back to do the traditional ways. The facts they knew better but still want the kids to feel guilty and to drive a wedge between the father and the kids.
I’m sure it was because they didn’t want to cough up money for the funeral.
Koj zaj neej neeg zoo kawg li os muam aw 👍🔔😭😭😭👍
Koj cov dabneeg twb tuaj lawv tus muam tog xwb ne cas thaum lawv tus muam tuag lawv kuj tha los paub ua li cas tseem yuav muaj plhu hais kom koj cov tub coj los ua koj dab qhuas nas koj cov tus tau dr. Los koj yog tus pab thiab txhawb xwb as lawv niam poj laib nyob qhov twg los pab nas cov dabneeg dev no ua tsuas muaj plhus txw koj cov tub dhau lawm thiab
I’m a single mom who raised 2 beautiful girls who’s also with college degrees but I never tried to make anyone feel bad for me so.
But that’s just me.
Thank you for being such a good father! Do good and you will recieve grace. Its their mother, they can help pitch in money for her funeral. But they should not take her back culturally for her funeral. I do hope and pray that your children will have better mind sets and take care of you in your old age!
The fall of a wife and a mother…karma always hits hard at the end…kids will grow up and be on their own. As parents, you don’t owed them everything…you can only do so much…you owe your current wife a lot, bro 😎…!
I’m glad you stood your ground, as much as us kids love our parents, we also don’t understand anything about the culture or the parent’s situation… so therefore the kids should not judge or force you either
Did your children apply for financial aid? They could also do work study to help as well.
Koj pab neej tsa dab laug ua heev npaum li ntawv es lawv puas tau muag vaj muag tsev tuaj txhawb koj pab me nyuam kawm tas Doctor na...yog hom neej tsa dab tsi thaum lawv tu muam ua neeg phem lawv tsis hais nrauj tag lawm thaum tuag no kom koj coj lo tha hom neej tsa txawv kawg li....nrauj tas lawm ces kav tsij kom mus coj lwm yam kev cai xwb thaum tuag thiaj li muaj chaw mus....txawm yog neej tsa lo lawv yeej tsis kam lees rov qab lo tha ib yam nawb...hom neej tsa coj li koj pab no mas haj yam phem os...lawv zoo ua rau lwm tu xwb
Putting yourself in debt for your children college some parents get lucky and get taken care off when parents are old. Most parents get nothing in returns and then parents curse the children for a bad life.
Peeeeee you damm hooooo hahahahahahahha
Like i Always Said, LaM kawm tawm xwb tsis yog kawm tiav dr nawb ! Nyiag dab laug los yeej ruam.tib Yam. Lawv tus muam yeej nrauj lawm nab. Thaum tuag ces Kom yus Pam. Hais rau nws hais tias noj tsis tag os. Es Kom nws mam UA lis ntawv rau lawv tsev neeg Tom lawv SAB Seb puas tub qraug lawv os.
Koj hai yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog
Many Hmong people including Hmong Tub Ntxhais txawj ntse can't even get out of the circle
Definition of a father
koj yog ib tug zoo txiv tsev kawg thov qhuag koj og.cov poj niam liam2 li kom thov kom khaum kom npam li kom xwb mas
Ntuj aw ua cas kuv Tus kheej es ib sim neej kuv yeej tsis tau kuv Tus txiv ib tes paj los yog ib Lo Lus hais rau kuv thaum kuv Lub birthday mother day ib zaug los tsuav nws ua siab ncaj rau yus thiab txhob tham hluas nkauj xwb ces kuv twb zoo siab Lawm os Tab sis yus tau Tus tsis hlub tiag ces tseem ua zoo los Luag tseem khiav mus yuav Tus tshiab lawm thiab os
Kuv xav tias tus neeg tseem ceeb dua res paj thiab Mother’s Day. Yus tau tus neeg lub siab thiab nws txoj kev xwb yeej zoo lawm tsis yuav yuav paj yuav khoom ub khoom no. Thaum muaj mob sawv tsis taus thiab pluag tsis muaj nyiaj thaum no peb thiaj paub hais puas sib hlub tiag.
Txawm yog li ntawd es meskas thiaj tsis kam yug minyuam coob coob li peb hmoob ne!
Lub neej tsis tim cov mes nyuam. Tim neb ob tug laus xwb tiam si neb muab cov mes nyuam rau txim qhov ua ntsuag ciaj. Lawv muaj cais hlub neb ob leeg.
Tsuas muaj niam txiv hlub mes nyuam xwb feem coob ces coob mes nyuam hlub tsis tau niam thiab txiv.
You are a very good father but i dont think paying for your kids college is right.. thats their dream they should be in debt not you.. because when they done and making money they dont help you pay half your bills.. for kids who keep asking their parent for college money.. why?
Zaj neej neeg no tu niam npam raw nw cov lu foom xwb o
Kuv xav g pam os yog u twb g tau ua phem 6 niam thb txiv. Youg niam thb txiv ua phem lawm g us zoo 6 los g pam. Hnib no kuv yog niam lawm thb kuv paub mi nyuam g tau taij kom peb yog lawv yu nro xav muaj mi nyuam xb yu 2 niam txiv ua muaj txoj kev sib hlub muaj xb
Cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no ces yeej siab phem li no ntag nawb lawv aw....
Tus dab laugh phem xeb os kev
Please man…….if every bad deed a wife does it a curse in her deathbed then 90% of Hmong men are sinners and child neglect, they would all be cursed and not die
For real.
Koj cov me nyuam lam kawm ntawv siab xwb lawv hais lus me nyuam yaus. Niam nrauj lawm ua tsis tau yus dab qhuas lawm o
Tus niam, Tus txiv loj leeb kawg rov qab los rau menyuam xwb.
I'm just curious 🤔 , where's her new lover during her illness. She left her marriageto be with him , Why didn't he take care of her funeral. I guess , she did all that for nothing. I certainly don't feel sorry for her. What goes around, comes around.
Parents don’t need to pay for college. The children can take out student loans. Not sure why Hmong parents were/are still engaging in this approach.
Tus tub tus ntxhais kawm tau Dr. muaj nyiaj ces yus cov ris tsho twb tsis phim nws thiab nws cov phoojywg lawm. Lub tsev thaum yus tu nws loj tsw ntxhiab thiab tsis huv nws tsis kam tuaj nkag. Tej zaub mov nws ib txwm nrog noj tsis qab thiab qias nws tsis kam nrog koj noj. Nws lub vaj lub tsev zoo heev tsis xav kom peb mus tsuj tsam kim heev ces puas lawm. Nws lub sijhawm thiab txoj haujlwm tseem ceeb heev kev tawm rooj los muaj ntau nrog nws cov phooj nws yuav tsis tuaj saib peb. Peb yuav tau paub txog tej no hais tias thaum lawv kawm tag qib siab muaj nyiaj peb thiab lawv sib nrug deb npaum li cas lawm. Peb txhob suav txim rau lawv tsis yog ntxub peb tiamsis yog lawv thiab peb yias taug nyias txojkev sib nrug deb lis deb yuav los tsis taus ua ke lawm.
You’re great father. Your kids didn’t understand your situation. You held your head strong and fought for your kids as a father should. The biological mom family did want to lose money, so they wanted the kids to take care of funeral expenses. Please take care of yourself. ❤
Koj tus tub Dr ntawm ko yog tsis muaj koj txiv thiab koj niam tshiab nkawd ua zaub ua mov rau nej noj leej twg yog tus ua ? tau ntau lub xyoo thaum nej tseem yau los txog thaum nej loj nws nyob qhov twg pab nej ? thaum nej xav tau kev pab xav tau nyiaj siv leej twg yog tus nyob ntawm nej ib sab pab nej ? yog tsis ua li kuv ua txiv hais ces kuv foom seb puas npam nej xwb ?
Tiag tiag mas cov dab Laug lawv muab los ua kev kawm vim tsis yog Tim koj ne tim niag maum dev xwb maum dev ntshaw2 Lwm tus tshiab saib yus tej me nyuam tsis muaj nqis na es thaum yuav tuag no ho tsis txaj muag kuj kom cov txiv neej yus ntshaw los take care xwb
This is why I have no feelings when I hear stories about step parents not loving their step children. Idiot children.
Tus neeg ua phem yeej kawg npam tsis hais poj NiAm los txiv neej
I don’t believe in Hmong Kev Cai because I feel like it’s created by men and only benefits their agenda. I choose love. I believe the sons are also choosing love. I hate that divorced parents always make the children choose. We are perfectly capable of choosing who we want to love.
I don’t like it when adults bring the children into their adult issues. However, no matter how much the children r thinking about their biological mom from a place of love/forgiveness, they need to comprehend she didn’t do sh*t for them in their 20+ years of life. They also need to understand why their dad is saying “no” to the ex-wife at end-of-life.
Why don't your kids pay for their own education? I don't get it. I know your going to school in all but you can't get a full time or part time job? Is it against the law? Humans. 🙄
Your ex-wife didn't deserve your kids's love! And your dab laug have some nerves to say such a thing. Wow! You are a good father for your children. I hope they will take care of you when you are old. If they refuse, ces kawg npam xwb xwb, no other way. You work your ass off to put them through school, so they at least gice you a place to die. Will see if your sons believe in karma or not.
You are right brother. People should not look pass their children when they are small. And claimed that they have good children left behind. Want to come back for a place to die. When you want happiness alone then get old and die alone.
This story is a good example of having karma kids. Not lucky to have a karma wife than work so hard for this kids to disown u! These are karma kids. But tus uncle.. think of this life u done good deeds already. Next life u will live well.
Cov poj niam xuab li tus no ces tuag ua qabke luag lino thiaj haum xwb
Nyob zoo os muam p y 👉🕡 ♥️🏅💯💚♥️♥️♥️
Ntawm kuv xav mas yog tias nraub lawm mas yog cov tub xav pab mas pab tau nyiaj xwb ua tsis tau dab khua.
You are a bad father! Your fault! Teaching them to hate their own mother that born, love and care for them! You didn’t tell them the truth! That you didn’t love there mother and allowed her to find love from outside!
What does that mean? They won't pee straight?
Nej cov tub kawm ntawv siab siab tiav lawyer doctor ces yeej zoo li no os lam txawj ntse ntaub ntawv xwb lub hlwb yog hlwb npua hlwb quav xwb tsis paub txog dab tsi li os
When your wife asks/ gives you multiple hints to change and you can't do it for her or for the sake of your relationship, I don't feel bad for you at all. I can't even listen past the first few mins after you said your wife came to asked you to change. Vice versa for women/wives who can't change or compromise with their husbands. Your wife was wrong cheating, but YOU also have a blaming part to the issue as well.
That's bullshit. All the years she married she knows how he is. If your using paper thin excuses to cheat, that's on you not him. Do you even know what love is? The view you have of affection is a bit materialistic isn't it? Some women always find an excuse on why it was the right choice to cheat.
This husband/father knew who he is before and after marriage. Likewise, the wife/mother have always known her husband's way of showing his love and affection. It's simple for some to say, but very difficult for most to actually change. Regardless, the wife will commit her wrong doings and put all the blame on the husband. Her greed and selfishness led her out of her marriage life and children. Heck, she cursed her own children in the worst ways. What good mother will even consider doing that? It was all her own doings that led her to a terrible destructive path to her death bed.
Koj cov tub ntshe koj txhawb yuam kev lawm pob tu txiv tsev....koj muag koj lub tsev yuam kev lawm...kuv xav tias thaum kawg ntshe koj yuav tsis muaj tsev nyob...yog koj tu poj niam Tam sim no hlub koj ces koj muaj chaw nyob nawb....koj cov tub kawm txawj xwb tsis ntse...koj lub tsev ces tag lawm koj yuav tsis tau kev hlub rov qab vim yug tau tub ruam ne....
Cov tub nej coj nej niam thiab nej tsev neeg mus ntseeg Vaajtswv nawj! Vaajtswv tsis xaiv leej twg ntsej muag, tsis xaiv tus muaj tus pluag os mog!
Tos koj tias koj ruam los koj yeej ruam tiag2 npuaj rooj rau koj niag tub dev ko los pob leej twg them nyiaj rau nws kawm ntawd leej twg ua kab ua noog cawm nws muag vaj muag tsev rau nws kawm ntawd nws thiaj kawm tag yog thaum ntawd koj muab ua ntia tseg ntshe nws twb mus ntsaub qab ke lawm npuaj rooj rau meb kwv tij txuag ua dab tsi
Koj tus tub kawm txawj xwb tsis kawm ntse.
The audacity of the brother of the ex-wife.
They divorced, and she did it to herself. No sympathy here.
I hate this kind of neej tsa, playing stupidity. 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
KARMA means...
Koj niAm Raug npaM lAwm.
Koj cov niag Tub ko ntshe lam kawm tau doctor noj quav xwb poj. Ruam tsab ntse kawg.
Dr.🚮🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Koj cov niag tub kov ces lam doctor xwb tsi ntse tib cov niag ruam tsi yog doctors hos yog dogstor xwb lawv niam xam maj kaws av rau lawv ntuj aws ruam tiag tiag koj cov tub os
Koj cov Tub kos puas tau Dr. Tias os thaub. Yog lawv tau Dr. Tias2 mas yuav tsiv rua npuaj kos paub thaub. Tshuab tug neeg tau Dr. Yuav tsug understand hmong nas.
But you’re still thinking about your ex. You don’t mention your current wife at all. Sad!! Move on!
Why can our kids take loans why depend on parents we parents have bills little siblings to take care of it too
And then at the end wen we need a place to die none of the kids don’t want us so. Help some they help some
Let me guess:
this couple got married by way of him kidnapping her.
🤷♀️ Something doesn't sound right. Sounds like he's ugly and at the same time lazy to love her. It's not hard to just buy flowers on her bday. He rather her go then buy something. Maybe the kids can see he doesn't love their mom so thats why they side with her.
Hmoob religion is stupid.
Why, because you think your better then the hmong ppl
Idk why some men say its hard, or that they dont know how to love a wife like others Buying flowers or love card isnt hard at all....
Peb twb tsi paub how to be a wife, a mother but we change ourself to be the best wife/mother in everyway. But then again it also doesnt give the spouse a reason to cheat either smh....
You are right, it isn’t hard but women shouldn’t think that flowers represent love. A man can give flowers and still be an awful husband.
I agree with you. Although I don't condone infidelity, the man could've saved his marriage and everyone from heartbreak, possibly, if he would've given more effort to make his first wife happy. Her requests were simple and reasonable. Yet he was willing to go through all this and in the end, yield to his 2nd wife. He said it himself, he did everything to make her happy so thay she wouldn't make life difficult for him and his kids
@Sweet Rowyn I doubt it. Some people will justify why they do what they do with paper thin excuses. Happens all the time. It was more of her bull crap of trying to get into his head. No flower or cards would've saved the marriage.