Addressing a childhood trauma!

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  • @conniemarlow9719
    @conniemarlow9719 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    God love you honey! Sometimes talking about things will help lighten the load, when shared with other people. ❤ Much love from East TN ❤ keep looking up!
    Ms. C

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Connie 🐻❤️ are y'all getting any snow?

  • @davidvanbrunt4233
    @davidvanbrunt4233 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    To hear about your childhood is heartbreaking , you deserved so much better....your best days are ahead of you pal !!! 🙏❤️👍

  • @richardcox7926
    @richardcox7926 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Progress! Much has changed for the good from your first video and this one.

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm trying Richard. If I can get a Uber rental soon I will be really going ☺️

  • @Leanin3282-q4q
    @Leanin3282-q4q 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I want to say that man was no man he was a product of something. Let's always remember that person and celebrate our joy because of our hardship. Like to say bad words about that parson but won't because I know you're trying to do something good here, and you are. So thankful, about your room and work understanding. I can't do anything for you but offer my friendship and hear what you say, Leanin. I ride bicycle, theme my aka name.

  • @mernewright9278
    @mernewright9278 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Holy crap. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. But look at you. Healing and letting it go.. Proud of you 👏 🥰 XOXO

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes! I have made another video on my first stepdad. He was a violent person.

    • @mernewright9278
      @mernewright9278 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I seen it. XOXO

  • @tracikreutzer5043
    @tracikreutzer5043 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jefferson you're doing so well considering what you've been through I'm sorry for that you were just a child I have so much faith in you and I'm so glad I found your channel you're so brave to go on here and just let it all out so you're still doing great Jefferson and screw that guy you know screw him you're doing awesome though keep up the great work

  • @lorianne1409
    @lorianne1409 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    😢I’m so sorry Jefferson. You should never have been treated that way. We will be here for you whenever you need us my friend ❤

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I greatly appreciate that! I honestly thought I was get picked on at best posting my life on here. I got more things to cover. My ex wife will be a crazy few videos

  • @stevenatkins8061
    @stevenatkins8061 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hi jefferson, remember to feel the little joys in life
    Takecare ok mate
    I'm so glad u have a place to stay, things are getting better slowly
    Well done
    From steve Sydney Australia

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Steve 😊🙏 have a great day or night there my friend

    • @stevenatkins8061
      @stevenatkins8061 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @jeffersonCarter9915 hey buddy no problem
      It's so hot over here might go to the beach

  • @user-et5zl1es7v
    @user-et5zl1es7v 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    That’s rough. Sending a big bear hug your way. 🤗 What a blessing to be able to stay inside now though! What a sweet thing God is doing. 🙏🏼

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's been wonderful last night and today! Leonard is a good influence. Being here will help keep me stay disciplined. He is a Decon in the church and a retired Navy officer. I have rules and accountability here. Most of all it's a good environment here no drugs or alcohol allowed.

    • @user-et5zl1es7v
      @user-et5zl1es7v 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ that’s amazing. You’re inspiring. Leonard sounds the right kind of man to be around. Congrats on making 30 days sober mark!! 👏🏼 👏🏼 Hey, I grew up down the road from you in Smyrna. I feel a connection to middle TNers 😁

  • @Me-dk3lh
    @Me-dk3lh 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hurt people hurt people, I feel ya man I have had chronic childhood trauma. This is good you are talking about it, even better if you get into therapy and start touching on these issues. I’m glad that things are coming around for you, be the hero in your own life and show people how one falls down and gets back up. Everyone needs to see that and that is your mission here.

  • @MarkousMajorSurf
    @MarkousMajorSurf 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Do not apologize. Now u know why u drank! U have suppressed alot of trauma! It's good to get it out!!! Your releasing it finally! When u release it u can heal. We are hear to listen n support u!
    After talking bout it don't u feel better? Do u feel lighter? Ur amazingly strong!
    Congrats on the room. This will be a great year for u, wait n see!
    P.S. Notice the rain stopped after u let it out! Great job to ur friend! U are helping so many ppl! THANK YOU!!!

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes our Decon offered me a room temporarily until his son gets out. 😀 Just in time for the cold to set it

    • @MarkousMajorSurf
      @MarkousMajorSurf 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @jeffersonCarter9915 so happy for u! Look at all u have accomplished! U inspire others! Ty

  • @JesusTheKing777
    @JesusTheKing777 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Forgive your mom. Tell her if shes still here. Forgive her boyfriend even if hes passed. I did that w my dad and we have been very good friends and close ever since. I let it all go and this was key to my recovery 10 yrs ago. It feels good to not accept things but declare them. Im sorry about your pops. You went through alot. Hold nothing brother. We love you and Im praying daily for your victory. Let things die. I pray for yor buddy in SC! Praise the Lord. Lean on each other for support. Thank you for sharing and God bless! You have a strong spirit. I couldn't do what you just did. Respect!

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sadly Momma passed in 2022. I did forgive her and she forgave me. We had a lot of times when we seem to hate each other. But ultimately we loved each other. She did her best all things considered. She was a drug addict in the 80s

  • @shucksful
    @shucksful 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s good to get everything out, man….Let it out, and let it go the best you can. Don’t hesitate to share it all with your subs. We learn to love and you learn to heal.

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That was very hard to talk about I was horrified

  • @RestoreProPressureWashin-cg6lw
    @RestoreProPressureWashin-cg6lw 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You don’t need to apologize Jeff! That’s horrible! I’m so sorry that happened to you. You’re a bigger man than me for getting that stuff out in the open. I know it’s not easy but it is important to talk about it. I can’t understand how people can be evil enough to do stuff like that to a child. Vengeance is the lords he will repay. I’m here for ya buddy!

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I don't understand it either. It brakes my heart that my Son won't talk to me I was nothing like that towards him. My Son don't even know the stuff I had to go through. I really miss him

    • @RestoreProPressureWashin-cg6lw
      @RestoreProPressureWashin-cg6lw 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ I pray your son will come around soon! 🙏✝️

  • @Javajo
    @Javajo 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everyday is a much better improvement. That’s great that you have been offered a room super good people out there. You are doing great n look so much healthier than you have … remember one day at a time ! God Bless you 😊

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks. Just in time it's starting to snow 😊

  • @Alien-Earth1
    @Alien-Earth1 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank God you will soon have a room to stay. I am so glad your recovery is on track to success! Many blessings to you!

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes I started staying with a Decon from the church last night. It's temporary but just in time. The weather has turned bad.

  • @mistermcluvin2425
    @mistermcluvin2425 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sorry to hear about this bro, sounds traumatic. Be strong brother.

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It was probably other than what I'm about to share today the worst thing he did to me.

  • @FindingNemo77
    @FindingNemo77 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello from New Zealand Jefferson 🙏
    Been following your journey brother congratulations on your sobriety 💯 resonate with your childhood trauma and thankyou for sharing may the universe bring you what you seek❤

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you. I hope your life is good there I've only seen videos and pictures of New Zealand. It's a majestic place! I have a temporary place to stay right now starting yesterday. Oh 30 days sober!

  • @m.g5818
    @m.g5818 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great you got a room mate.👍 I'm out of credit and data. Have to catch up on your videos when I get some money next week. Sounds like your doing well Jefferson. Stay safe in the bad weather and a room will help big time. Thinking of you and like I say thanks so much for sharing your story. Sometimes lots in our lives is from child trauma. Stay safe mate.👍

  • @pammyras
    @pammyras 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    ♥️

  • @EremEdition
    @EremEdition 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I appreciate you. God bless you

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I appreciate you too my friend! Thank you for having interest in my videos.

  • @TylerCorkum-u9r
    @TylerCorkum-u9r 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Stuffs looking up brother god bless stay strong and positive

  • @joejones56
    @joejones56 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m thinking we are gonna miss the worst of the weather here in Philadelphia. Great to hear about you being blessed with a place to have good shelter. Keep stacking the little wins

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A mighty blessing this is where I'm at! I'm glad the storm is south of you. Did you get any snow at all?

    • @joejones56
      @joejones56 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ yea man, the bulk of it hit southern jersey and Delaware. We still got about 4”. I just got back in the house from shoveling and salting.

  • @Kathy-i7y
    @Kathy-i7y 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My heart broke for you

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It took me 6 hours to convince myself to share that. I had that buried inside me. Unforgettable experience

  • @MeTube550
    @MeTube550 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hi Jeff !!! I knew someone would help you.I just scrape by or I would have.

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Your Comments have helped me more than you know. I appreciate the kindness. I thought I would have been shamed and picked on posting my reality on TH-cam. It's hard to press record and talk about it. But it has helped me. You and everyone that comments have been really uplifting. I thank you ☺️

  • @MsJhook
    @MsJhook 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Where I'm at it's absolutely beautiful

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's great news! 😀 It's very grey and snowing here. 😊 But I enjoy the snow

  • @Scott-d7d
    @Scott-d7d 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Brother if it helps you, you've helped me

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💪😊 Were a team! Let's conquer my addictions and fears together!

  • @Leanin3282-q4q
    @Leanin3282-q4q 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's cold and messy stay safe.

  • @putitonthetable3130
    @putitonthetable3130 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hey bro

  • @robertbrown8416
    @robertbrown8416 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Jefferson!!! I want to send you some money,,, but dont know How???? Where

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you have cash app?

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The link for it is on my channel profile. Or you could send it Walmart to Walmart. Do you have a email address?

    • @OpalAllen-j8r
      @OpalAllen-j8r 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Jefferson, there are things worth more than money. That good love, as my mother-in-law used to say.
      The love of God will heal you. You'll be alright now. Love from Ohio. I'm unsubscribing now...

  • @PorchHonkey
    @PorchHonkey 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hey brother, you ain't got nothin to be sorry for. Only thing sorry about that whole story is that 💩🦃 that was beatin on a little kid.

    • @jeffersonCarter9915
      @jeffersonCarter9915  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He would badly handle my Mother in front of me often a couple months into her relationship with him. I felt like that was the worst part of it.