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Nov 2018. I was in 12th grade and she was in 9th - I saw a girl other than any other before and since. There was something about her eyes / her "looking and gazing" that was just unreal. We only looked each other into the eyes for a short moment but it never let me lose. The following weeks I got really attracted to her and started to like everything I saw. Her physical appearance as well as her way of doing things. But I never knew her. I never approached her. At first it was bc I thought she was too young and that I could communicate on a deeper level with a "newbie at out school" Mar 2020 - yeah. Nothing happend until now. I wrote her an email bc I tried to find her on a school festival but couldn’t and she never replied. How dumb I was. Why would she open a random email on her school account? May 2020 - school reopened for me as I was in my final year but for no one else. So I graduated 13th grade on June 2020 and never got to see her again. I tried to forget her but couldn’t. Dec 2020 - during December I was in then middle of my mandatory military duty (dunno what it’s called in English) and felt really bad for not getting to know her. Feb 2021 - I met an old friend at the new barrack I was ordered to move to and we talked about what happened the past few year. He also asked me if there was a girl and well, I talked about her the first time ever. Mar 2021 - it’s been a whole year since I last saw her and finally, I got her discord though a friends help. Since then we’ve been writing nearly daily and during summer we played a few times online. It was really fun and one time she even told me that she enjoys playing with me Sep 2021 - I finally felt she was comfortable enough communicating and playing with me to ask her if we could "meet and do something together" She declined bc there would be two events in November where we would meet. I was disappointed but ok. Nov 2021 - the events both got cancelled due to covid and I wrote her everything I’ve been thinking since Nov 2018. After she read it, it took her a few hours, but she replied that we both could take maybe one friend with us and meet in a small group. I couldn’t really believe it but omg. I was happy. Unfortunately our meet-up had to be postponed because we entered our 4th lockdown. Now, I asked her for another date bc it was made public when the lockdown will be over and she instantly read it. But she didn’t reply anything. I guess she’s contacting her friend about that date and whatnot and just "forgot" to answer anything. That’s just like her. Reading, thinking, forgetting that she replies. Last time she seemed pretty dazed about my proposal for a meet-up and wrote some confusing messages. The messages weren’t well curated (for lack of better words) and felt just as if she was talking to me. A few words per message, combined to a confused but somehow cute conversation. I’m hoping she writes back soon. Question: Do you think she’s really interested? Or does she only want to meet me as a friend? I’ve never talked to girls before, to be honest. There just weren’t that many in the classes I was in during school and the military and two internships I’ve hade since schools ended were 99% men. I’ve never wrote anything flirty. Not that I smile every time she writes and that the best things this year have been the times we played together and that whenever I feel down I just need to think about her and that she always looked too cute when I saw her and that her voice, even if it’s just via mic on discord is so comforting and beautiful and…….. It’s true and I kinda want to tell her that. I don’t know why I feel like telling her. I really don’t know. But at the same time I don’t want to tell her that before we met in person. Id feel weird. Should I? The only things I wrote were that I was extremely happy that she said we could meet. Nothing else
Another reminder that why does it seem like what determines most of a man's attractiveness to women or his ability to get a girlfriend is mostly social behavior based or social skills based or just behavioral based things? Because confidence and taking the lead, conversation ability or leadership or behavioral based things or social behavior based things.
woman here. Totally agree with your take on this. I love when the guy takes the lead and has a plan. Don’t rush the sex. Women wanting ltr and quality take it slow
Its not all about what you want though.. Many men just want sex and not ltr. I just dated a girl for 2 months and we did not have sex, she lost my interest.
For LTRs I really only like devout Catholic women who are virtuous. I will still mess with other types of women, but they're never going to be LTR material.
Initiate sex and if she isn't interested after 2-3 dates move on, she's not sexually interested in you. Time is the most valuable resource on earth, don't waste it.
10/15/20 dates before you think about a relationship? Really? I found after 3 dates you know one way or another if you like each other enough to be mutually exclusive... Another thing is that even if I'm dating multiple girls which isn't usually the case, if things do get physical then I prefer to not date anyone else from that point on... If things don't work out then I'll put myself out there again.
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The ability to walk away.
Much needed advice this is great 😎
Nov 2018. I was in 12th grade and she was in 9th - I saw a girl other than any other before and since. There was something about her eyes / her "looking and gazing" that was just unreal. We only looked each other into the eyes for a short moment but it never let me lose. The following weeks I got really attracted to her and started to like everything I saw. Her physical appearance as well as her way of doing things. But I never knew her. I never approached her. At first it was bc I thought she was too young and that I could communicate on a deeper level with a "newbie at out school"
Mar 2020 - yeah. Nothing happend until now. I wrote her an email bc I tried to find her on a school festival but couldn’t and she never replied. How dumb I was. Why would she open a random email on her school account?
May 2020 - school reopened for me as I was in my final year but for no one else. So I graduated 13th grade on June 2020 and never got to see her again. I tried to forget her but couldn’t.
Dec 2020 - during December I was in then middle of my mandatory military duty (dunno what it’s called in English) and felt really bad for not getting to know her.
Feb 2021 - I met an old friend at the new barrack I was ordered to move to and we talked about what happened the past few year. He also asked me if there was a girl and well, I talked about her the first time ever.
Mar 2021 - it’s been a whole year since I last saw her and finally, I got her discord though a friends help. Since then we’ve been writing nearly daily and during summer we played a few times online. It was really fun and one time she even told me that she enjoys playing with me
Sep 2021 - I finally felt she was comfortable enough communicating and playing with me to ask her if we could "meet and do something together" She declined bc there would be two events in November where we would meet. I was disappointed but ok.
Nov 2021 - the events both got cancelled due to covid and I wrote her everything I’ve been thinking since Nov 2018. After she read it, it took her a few hours, but she replied that we both could take maybe one friend with us and meet in a small group. I couldn’t really believe it but omg. I was happy. Unfortunately our meet-up had to be postponed because we entered our 4th lockdown. Now, I asked her for another date bc it was made public when the lockdown will be over and she instantly read it. But she didn’t reply anything. I guess she’s contacting her friend about that date and whatnot and just "forgot" to answer anything. That’s just like her. Reading, thinking, forgetting that she replies. Last time she seemed pretty dazed about my proposal for a meet-up and wrote some confusing messages. The messages weren’t well curated (for lack of better words) and felt just as if she was talking to me. A few words per message, combined to a confused but somehow cute conversation. I’m hoping she writes back soon.
Question:
Do you think she’s really interested? Or does she only want to meet me as a friend? I’ve never talked to girls before, to be honest. There just weren’t that many in the classes I was in during school and the military and two internships I’ve hade since schools ended were 99% men.
I’ve never wrote anything flirty. Not that I smile every time she writes and that the best things this year have been the times we played together and that whenever I feel down I just need to think about her and that she always looked too cute when I saw her and that her voice, even if it’s just via mic on discord is so comforting and beautiful and……..
It’s true and I kinda want to tell her that. I don’t know why I feel like telling her. I really don’t know. But at the same time I don’t want to tell her that before we met in person. Id feel weird. Should I?
The only things I wrote were that I was extremely happy that she said we could meet. Nothing else
Great topic for discussion, shot Tripp
Another reminder that why does it seem like what determines most of a man's attractiveness to women or his ability to get a girlfriend is mostly social behavior based or social skills based or just behavioral based things? Because confidence and taking the lead, conversation ability or leadership or behavioral based things or social behavior based things.
woman here. Totally agree with your take on this. I love when the guy takes the lead and has a plan. Don’t rush the sex. Women wanting ltr and quality take it slow
Its not all about what you want though.. Many men just want sex and not ltr. I just dated a girl for 2 months and we did not have sex, she lost my interest.
@@davidbrandt8115 well said. Women have become so narcissistic, it's all about what they want.
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For LTRs I really only like devout Catholic women who are virtuous.
I will still mess with other types of women, but they're never going to be LTR material.
@@quiescenttaro6642 there are many Catholic women who are virtuous.
They aren't devout if they're sleeping with you outside marriage
I wonder if they like my smile!
Initiate sex and if she isn't interested after 2-3 dates move on, she's not sexually interested in you. Time is the most valuable resource on earth, don't waste it.
Make cigarettes after sex instrumental Background music while listening to tripp advice
No more boring
10/15/20 dates before you think about a relationship? Really? I found after 3 dates you know one way or another if you like each other enough to be mutually exclusive...
Another thing is that even if I'm dating multiple girls which isn't usually the case, if things do get physical then I prefer to not date anyone else from that point on... If things don't work out then I'll put myself out there again.
Don't tell me, his wallet.
Mr. Krabs: Money! 💰
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Not seen the video, but I would bet on confidence ?
Eh you’re correct, that’s on display when a man takes the lead in a relationship
*Spoiler* : (it's the bulge)
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