So funny, so cute ! I would love to see the skiing , the lords leaping with cheeses, and the crazy trailing dress with gloves and er rope ?! 😂💖 Beautiful couple.
On the listener letter: it sounds like the "friend" wanted more from the guy but he chose his now-wife. "My friend resented my new relationship" == this isn't that common in opposite sex friendships when they are purely platonic. The fact she didn't invite his girlfriend but did invite all of his other friends' partners and blanked him when he was there is a big tell. The friend invited him to the wedding as almost a "look at me now, I'm getting married to someone else", which is why she was cold to him and blanked him, despite having made the effort to invite him. If she just found him to be a shit friend she wouldn't have invited him to the wedding. Or if she was serious about burying the hatchet, she would have invited the girlfriend/wife too. The fact she invited him JUST to blank him, for me, is the biggest indicator that her feelings for him were not platonic and that was the root of the issue. People don't go out of their way to punish others like that where there are no romantic feelings involved. Friendships, both opposite sex and same sex, tend to become less prominent as people pair up and have kids. I agree with Ryan that if it was just a case of the woman feeling slighted about the friendship, then they should have had a mature conversation about it and resolved it that way. But also, it's rare to have platonic CLOSE opposite friend relationships between people who are married to others. So the friend should have accepted that one day this guy was likely to pair up and then they may not have been as close as they were previously. To me, this just reaks of the friend wanting more from him. P.S. Loved the episode, apologies for the novel XD
Agree with Ryan about the beard tbh, tbf he's going to look good either way, but if his usual look is a full beard, then on one of the most important days of both your lives, it makes more sense to look like how you usually do, it'd be like louise dying her hair ginger for the occasion and then going back to brunette, it won't look like 'Ryan' if that makes sense.
I think let Ryan look as he wants to on the wedding. Not for louise to tell him. Some cruel comments though in this section. She maybe needs to be flexible and less fussy. Her engagement sounded stressful. I would be so upset if a partner cried and was disappointed with my engagement plans. But stop the hate people. They are a lovely couple.
I'm sorry Louise, I think keep the facial hair Ryan. Looks so manly and handsome, and everyone has to feel good themselves. Imagine he tells you to cut your hair short for him for your wedding day. You're both beautiful just the way you are. Gorgeous couple
Many of these Made in Chelsea (former) girls who have gone on to do podcasts (Louise, Sophie Haboo, Melissa etc.) are so terribly un-self-aware, self-interested, status orientated (still) and controlling/demeaning to their male other halves - Now that they are dong unedited long-form podcasts, the amount of quote examples is endless! -Yes, these girls are attractive (and they extend careers by capitalising on their looks), but WOW, it seems like a life-long chore to be matched with them as a man.
Imagine being upset because you were proposed to in LA and not New York, also who's got a home where their garden is big enough for a wedding ?! Your podcast really is an insight into how the other half live. And makes me super keen on better tax/wealth redistribution. Glad the tories are out! 😅
@@byoung8529it is more of an opinion on them as a whole, rather than a specific element. You certainly don't come across like you do relate to them. Maybe don't watch in future. Hate watching is bad for your health. And really rather pointless. I have an opinion on your type of comment. I find it gross. So there you go. My opinion on your opinion hasn't gone down to well with you. Pot, kettle and black
I think you misunderstood the point she was making, due to your biases. Also, if you seriously believe that creating a poorer middle class, is going to benefit the working class, you are surely mistaken and need to brush up on your economics.
@Lucyalicesmith she didn't seem annoyed at all stop making stuff up 😂. Their listener raised a serious issue about their own experience so she was reacting to that what on earth were you listening too? You sound snipey. Yes Louise should be more flexible and easy going but do not be nasty to her. Not needed.
@Lucyalicesmith You need to stop being nasty, look at your life first. You’re not in any position to comment on their life but be grateful they’re sharing their life openly, involving us and giving us true ppl life experiences. You’re not perfect but nasty you won’t be getting any proposals if you continue to hating ppl to satisfy your ego. If you’ve ever been in a rship there’s always up and down (think about your own with your fam first -surely not always perfect 🙄) Don’t make it sound as if life and r’ships is all perfect and airy and fairy- otherwise you’re sounding like fake person. Both Ryan and Louise are beautiful match made in heaven and can see their beautiful companionship. Can’t wait for them to be married! ❤🎉
Has Louise got BPD? Asking as I knew someone very much like this - from hospital trauma last week to now discussing a wedding. Just always seems weird.
This episode was one of the best haha! I can't stop laughing when the chat turned to hen do 🤣
So funny, so cute ! I would love to see the skiing , the lords leaping with cheeses, and the crazy trailing dress with gloves and er rope ?! 😂💖 Beautiful couple.
On the listener letter: it sounds like the "friend" wanted more from the guy but he chose his now-wife. "My friend resented my new relationship" == this isn't that common in opposite sex friendships when they are purely platonic. The fact she didn't invite his girlfriend but did invite all of his other friends' partners and blanked him when he was there is a big tell. The friend invited him to the wedding as almost a "look at me now, I'm getting married to someone else", which is why she was cold to him and blanked him, despite having made the effort to invite him.
If she just found him to be a shit friend she wouldn't have invited him to the wedding. Or if she was serious about burying the hatchet, she would have invited the girlfriend/wife too. The fact she invited him JUST to blank him, for me, is the biggest indicator that her feelings for him were not platonic and that was the root of the issue. People don't go out of their way to punish others like that where there are no romantic feelings involved.
Friendships, both opposite sex and same sex, tend to become less prominent as people pair up and have kids. I agree with Ryan that if it was just a case of the woman feeling slighted about the friendship, then they should have had a mature conversation about it and resolved it that way. But also, it's rare to have platonic CLOSE opposite friend relationships between people who are married to others. So the friend should have accepted that one day this guy was likely to pair up and then they may not have been as close as they were previously. To me, this just reaks of the friend wanting more from him.
P.S. Loved the episode, apologies for the novel XD
😂😂 watching you guys getting excited is adorable but Louise saying shes will be watching the money then the subject of food comes up 😂😂
Brilliant episode! We need a Part 2 when the wedding plans are officially underway 🤣 x x
I like how Louise and Ryan listen to each other. These two are a great couple and the wedding sounds like it will be amazing. ❤
They clearly love each other but also, they clearly want very different things in life 😂
😂😂 Louise going off on one about the lords leaping got me. Also don't mind facial hair on men 👌
This episode made me realize how much Sam and Louise are similar haha that strawberry tart convo was def very Sam-ish 😂
Agree with Ryan about the beard tbh, tbf he's going to look good either way, but if his usual look is a full beard, then on one of the most important days of both your lives, it makes more sense to look like how you usually do, it'd be like louise dying her hair ginger for the occasion and then going back to brunette, it won't look like 'Ryan' if that makes sense.
U both make a great couple! ❤loved listening in on all the crazy plans! Hurry up already!! Mashallah! 🥰
"Its not origami Ryan!" Dead.😅
I think let Ryan look as he wants to on the wedding. Not for louise to tell him. Some cruel comments though in this section. She maybe needs to be flexible and less fussy. Her engagement sounded stressful. I would be so upset if a partner cried and was disappointed with my engagement plans. But stop the hate people. They are a lovely couple.
He's a great guy marry him quick not a lot of guys like him
Loved this ❤
the body language is adorable !
I'm sorry Louise, I think keep the facial hair Ryan. Looks so manly and handsome, and everyone has to feel good themselves. Imagine he tells you to cut your hair short for him for your wedding day. You're both beautiful just the way you are. Gorgeous couple
I agree he looks handsome with a beard and needs to feel him best. Even if Louise would prefer clean-shaven.
Many of these Made in Chelsea (former) girls who have gone on to do podcasts (Louise, Sophie Haboo, Melissa etc.) are so terribly un-self-aware, self-interested, status orientated (still) and controlling/demeaning to their male other halves - Now that they are dong unedited long-form podcasts, the amount of quote examples is endless! -Yes, these girls are attractive (and they extend careers by capitalising on their looks), but WOW, it seems like a life-long chore to be matched with them as a man.
Imagine being upset because you were proposed to in LA and not New York, also who's got a home where their garden is big enough for a wedding ?! Your podcast really is an insight into how the other half live. And makes me super keen on better tax/wealth redistribution. Glad the tories are out! 😅
More fool you for wasting your own time watching people you don't like on the Internet. Screams misery lol
@@ads13924I do really like them usually, it's just very unrelatable today. I'm sorry you get triggered by an opinion
😮that was not what she was saying she did not want to be hot and tipsy
@@byoung8529it is more of an opinion on them as a whole, rather than a specific element. You certainly don't come across like you do relate to them. Maybe don't watch in future. Hate watching is bad for your health. And really rather pointless. I have an opinion on your type of comment. I find it gross. So there you go. My opinion on your opinion hasn't gone down to well with you. Pot, kettle and black
I think you misunderstood the point she was making, due to your biases. Also, if you seriously believe that creating a poorer middle class, is going to benefit the working class, you are surely mistaken and need to brush up on your economics.
❤❤❤ you
Yes to beard 😂
I want to like them, it just feels there is no chemistry between them, like brother and sister for some strange reason 😮
I'm with you. Always feels like they are so incompatible.
Why doesn’t Louise wear her engagement ring?
she lost it as she lost weight due to everything so its in the house somewhere. they mentioned it in a previous episode.
Is she in her pyjamas or is this new fashion? I can't keep up! They're beautiful though ofc
I think ryan suits his facial hair
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Painful
I can't believe Ryan is insecure about some strippers when he looks like that!!! What's your 5"9 average guy supposed to feel then??!! 😭
Maybe he regrets proposing 😂😂 she's a nightmare.
@Lucyalicesmith she didn't seem annoyed at all stop making stuff up 😂. Their listener raised a serious issue about their own experience so she was reacting to that what on earth were you listening too? You sound snipey. Yes Louise should be more flexible and easy going but do not be nasty to her. Not needed.
@Lucyalicesmith You need to stop being nasty, look at your life first. You’re not in any position to comment on their life but be grateful they’re sharing their life openly, involving us and giving us true ppl life experiences. You’re not perfect but nasty you won’t be getting any proposals if you continue to hating ppl to satisfy your ego. If you’ve ever been in a rship there’s always up and down (think about your own with your fam first -surely not always perfect 🙄) Don’t make it sound as if life and r’ships is all perfect and airy and fairy- otherwise you’re sounding like fake person.
Both Ryan and Louise are beautiful match made in heaven and can see their beautiful companionship. Can’t wait for them to be married! ❤🎉
Has Louise got BPD? Asking as I knew someone very much like this - from hospital trauma last week to now discussing a wedding. Just always seems weird.