Kevin Samuels On Not Being Married Why Kids Are Deal Breakers

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ม.ค. 2021
  • AUC Freshman List Music Video Countdown • AUC Top 10 Music Video...
    📸 INSTAGRAM / allurbancentral
    📉FACEBOOK / allurbancentral
    🖥 VISIT OUR WEBSITE allurbancentral.com
    💬 TWITTER / allurbancentral
    😎 JOIN THE TEAM www.allurbancentral.com/work-...
    🤓 UPLOAD YOUR VIDEO TO OUR CHANNEL • How To Get Your Video ...
    💻 Business email: info@allurbancentral.com
    #AllUrbanCentral
  • บันเทิง

ความคิดเห็น • 698

  • @zero1188
    @zero1188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    women need to find men with kids just like them and stop chasing after the ones that dont want them

    • @liyah1675
      @liyah1675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😐

    • @AJweathersby
      @AJweathersby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Men with kids don’t necessarily want women with kids either, for all the same reasons a childless men don’t. Those kids are bills, they allow baby daddies to potentially have authority and decision making power within his house, he wouldn’t have the same respect as the real dad, probably wouldn’t be allowed to discipline those kids, and every dollar he gives those new kids is a dollar taken from his own. Most of the time, men don’t have custody of their kids, so they may as well be childless as far as dating is concerned.
      A woman can date a man with kids and not necessarily have to be a stepmother. Any man dealing with a single mother is signing up to be a stepfather.

    • @Barlowh2o
      @Barlowh2o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@AJweathersby bingo

    • @phoenixphillips7413
      @phoenixphillips7413 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯

    • @larrytompkins5719
      @larrytompkins5719 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AJweathersby facts

  • @WallyWest96
    @WallyWest96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why the fuck is it so hard for women to understand that them bringing their child to the table isn't a fucking reward?!?!?! Unless that kid has your name on the birth certificate or adoption papers another mans seed can never be an asset to your life! Women refuse to accept this!

  • @thatawesometrucker
    @thatawesometrucker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    I'm a single woman with no children and believe me when I say that men with a bunch of children is not a good look either... I don't disagree with what he's saying but that shit work both ways!!! I'm not dealing with no kids and baby momma drama✌🏾🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @nickming8738
      @nickming8738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yea but thats not as common as dating a women with kids and even dating a man with kids his kids are with there mother's 9 times out of 10 your kids are staying with the new guy your dealing with

    • @love-gu8ow
      @love-gu8ow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@nickming8738 so you're saying broken homes benefit men more when it comes to new relationships because men don't have their kids most of the time 🤔

    • @animebrospodcast4577
      @animebrospodcast4577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree , but MANY WOMEN DONT DEAL WITH THEM, why? Because they want it to be special not having a kid with some1 who’s been through the experience and we understand that but most women won’t

    • @chrismacks3640
      @chrismacks3640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Everyone does not have baby mama drama

    • @animebrospodcast4577
      @animebrospodcast4577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@chrismacks3640 but they assume that for every woman

  • @jemiah9437
    @jemiah9437 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I remember this girl telling me the next guy she dates has to have no kids while she has 2 of her own I looked at her like how dare you say that ! You want someone to come in and take care of yours but he can’t have none !!?? Make that make sense

    • @thar7347
      @thar7347 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Crazy

  • @steveross4151
    @steveross4151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Not my DNA, not my problem.

    • @kandiced722
      @kandiced722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So true.

    • @steveross4151
      @steveross4151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kandiced722 🖐🏽

    • @irenebuford8930
      @irenebuford8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Children are not problems whether they are your DNA or not... I suggest that you watch what you say because God is listening to you... You may be the problem never the child, if a person can not genuinely care for a pet or a child that is not their DNA, they are somewhat wicked... Your heart ain't right and it is a great blessing for any child DNA or not to not be in your presence... 'My Thoughts'...

    • @skinnylozano9707
      @skinnylozano9707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@irenebuford8930 your delusional he's responsibility is to raise and create his own family children are a liability and a burden to single men u made your decison of having kid so then don't cry when men don't want baby mamas

    • @irenebuford8930
      @irenebuford8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@skinnylozano9707 Not delusional I am a woman of God... I also never said there was anything wrong with a man having and wanting his own family, however what makes a child yours is love... My heart being different than yours does not make me delusional... This is why so many children are in foster homes because we are so concerned about some DNA instead of worrying about all children and caring for them... Love is stronger than DNA... Also keep in mind just because a child is your DNA does not mean that child will love you when you grow old... I have loved many children, my biological children and children that were not my DNA and I will continue to do so... Thank you very much gentleman!!...

  • @jeremiahdavis3398
    @jeremiahdavis3398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    I’m sorry guys if a woman have kids run 🏃🏾‍♂️

  • @chefsabbaa7896
    @chefsabbaa7896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is the man who will bring black nuclear families fashionable again.
    I get you K. S.

    • @unidentifiedguy8253
      @unidentifiedguy8253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fortunately, there are probably as many caucasian and hispanic males following him as well. Basically dudes that don't spend all their time on X-box and have good paying careers, but can't find women they want to dump their resources into. Their modern counterparts put career over family, but these men are looking for a counterpart that has the same drive and ambition towards a family. Being a six figure earning white guy looking for a tradwife, I am speaking from experience.

  • @drummajor101
    @drummajor101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    *More Kevin Samuels and less Derrick Jaxn*

    • @andreaa.1393
      @andreaa.1393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Thank you derrick is just lying to these women for the money

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Preach 💯💯

    • @ShutterSpeedGaming
      @ShutterSpeedGaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yessir! Derrick is a Simp.

    • @akolathian4311
      @akolathian4311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andreaa.1393 facts

    • @jaylow57
      @jaylow57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@andreaa.1393 I don't follow any of these people. However, with the same sentiments, wouldn't Kevin Samuels be lying to men for money?

  • @lavonnealexander6936
    @lavonnealexander6936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I wouldn’t date a men with kids either. Hell no his baby momma drama, he can deal with that shit by himself.

    • @carltonpadgett6848
      @carltonpadgett6848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Listen the reason why there’s a lot drama is because the man doesn’t hold himself accountable and having this in check before meeting you.

    • @carltonpadgett6848
      @carltonpadgett6848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      My wife had a baby when I meet her. Something we did was me not trying to play father and dad, but to be his father and not his dad. My son has been the biggest blessing in my life and proud to be his father.

    • @twilliamswithluv
      @twilliamswithluv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      All I can say is run from guys as well with several children & however many baby mama’s. Why do guys think women don’t view them in the same way.

    • @nystateofmind954
      @nystateofmind954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@twilliamswithluv if you’re a high earning high value man it doesn’t matter...

    • @tjaspire
      @tjaspire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@twilliamswithluv Right! A guy like that is a liability. I can't have your crazy ex beating down my door because you didn't pay child support. I *needs* my peace!

  • @d.i.e.1338
    @d.i.e.1338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Keep spitting knowledge KS you can tell he spittn truth because people are getting angry anger out of emotional insults are a sign of selfishness and low self accountability especially if the person their mad at is speaking calmly keep preaching Kevin i salute you

  • @monicag6715
    @monicag6715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    And to childless women - it’s a liability too.

  • @BlackGal318
    @BlackGal318 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow he had a child he didn't even claim...It's hard to even listen to him when he wasn't a father to his own child...

  • @hardhitt3r410
    @hardhitt3r410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    He living the best life shiiiii

    • @phoenixphillips7413
      @phoenixphillips7413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @rasta487
      @rasta487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Its supposedly coming out that he's years behind in child support for a child of someone he chose to have intercourse with. If true women, men or whatever 3rd bride he chooses maybe should check into that unless it's just more about the appearance of things. You might have to help him pay if true.

    • @elijahgavin6706
      @elijahgavin6706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rasta487 wasn’t his kid apparently, step kid

    • @joegreen4333
      @joegreen4333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Churrrrch!!!

  • @alonzofuller7517
    @alonzofuller7517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kids are a liability periodt!!!!

  • @Deeroc25
    @Deeroc25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    See wut da male lions do when they take over another lion’s pride ..... hint .. it’s not a good day for dat old lion’s cubs 💀

    • @irenebuford8930
      @irenebuford8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Human beings should not be behaving like the animal referred to as a 'Lion'.... 'The Lion' is not using 'Logic', the lion is using 'Emotion', when he murders the female lion 'Cubs', so as human beings we should logically love all children whether they are ours are not... The Lion is not intelligent, but we should be!...

    • @b.c.gamingss
      @b.c.gamingss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@irenebuford8930 Why should my money and resources go to a child that is not mine? Also we are animals. That lion is not using emotion it is simply removing competition which is a logical conclusion based on survival of the fittest.

    • @irenebuford8930
      @irenebuford8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@b.c.gamingss Where your money and resources goes is your choice, however raising or helping children that are yours and not yours can be a form of blessings and good karma... Someone who is biologically connected to you may not be there for you when you are old... Don't ever do something that is in your heart not to do because that is a disservice to that child... I am amazed that it has came to the point that we live in a world that ask why should resources go to children that are not theres... My relatives loved me and children that were not our biological relatives... I was raised that all children deserve love... I feel you on the resources, I guess your money is not going towards the orphanage...

    • @b.c.gamingss
      @b.c.gamingss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@irenebuford8930 This makes no sense. Is it a blessing or karma? Those are two different things. You might not know this but children are expensive. Paying for another mans responsibility is simply a liability.

    • @irenebuford8930
      @irenebuford8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@b.c.gamingss Whether it is a blessing or not depends on the child, its likes gambling, you could win or lose.. You have a right to your views, however with so many people focusing on who the child biologically belongs to, there will be many children that will suffer because many people don't prefer to be bothered with them.. Children are expensive, so I absolutely agree with you on that.. Do what you feel is best for you...

  • @ychanan36
    @ychanan36 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Shalom/Peace family

  • @efrain926
    @efrain926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Talk to guys that have seriously dated a single mom and you will hear experiences ranging from "absolute disaster" to "it has challenges and I won't do it again". You will never hear one say, "what a wonderful experience that was".

    • @dappa311
      @dappa311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Efraín Jiménez Laughing Out Loud you damm right , I speak from experience , never Fucing date a woman with kids ,not even one ! Waste of time a resources , it’s a trap , they looking for a financial provider . Stay far away !

    • @velasquezcarter2963
      @velasquezcarter2963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m sure that’s everyone’s ex 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @ifyjoanna
      @ifyjoanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've heard a single mother tell her child to act right she's looking for a stepfather. Try dating a single mother with grandkids. 😱

    • @efrain926
      @efrain926 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ifyjoanna ouch!

    • @mbaxter22
      @mbaxter22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Word. Trust me, don’t do it. You will NEVER be the true father no matter how selfless you are. In the end you will be emotionally traumatized.

  • @calebhenderson6507
    @calebhenderson6507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The was a fire response. And a good answer to a dumb question. Lol

  • @KaliefMartin
    @KaliefMartin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Deal breaker for me! Our people are raising kids the wrong way. This is hurting are single mothers future.

  • @love-gu8ow
    @love-gu8ow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    All the unmarried men with kids in the comments saying kids are a liability 😂

    • @levelheaded6130
      @levelheaded6130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Married with kids ..... and when I was dating kids where a liability , she was distracted and eventually got back with the baby daddy, whew dodged a bullet I ain’t no simp either she just had history and DNA shared with that man.....life just keeps moving on!

    • @GucciManeFrom
      @GucciManeFrom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let me guess...single mom?

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Until the children go to university, the military, or just move out.. don't bring a man home! Once they're out..go ahead! The kids are the first priority..not your sex life!

    • @Nicole215
      @Nicole215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *I agree with you 100%, which is exactly why I haven't dated or been with any man since my divorce in 2015. God first, then my two boys. What God has for me will come at the right time. No man comes before my boys, ever!!*

    • @williamj.dovejr.8613
      @williamj.dovejr.8613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Nicole215 Good for you! I wish you the best!

    • @Nicole215
      @Nicole215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@williamj.dovejr.8613 - *Thank you very much!* 🤗

    • @amazinggrace313
      @amazinggrace313 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that's exactly why childless people need to stay away from single parents. A spouse does not come after kids, periodt. And since you are alone with children and you know you can't give your partner the proper priority, just leave them alone because you can't make them a priority all the while they can, which isn't fair for you to get priority while they do not. Just skip on down the road ....

  • @michaelmathews3469
    @michaelmathews3469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Listen up ladies 🚺....straight 🔥 💯 and facts.

  • @mrnike505
    @mrnike505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Single moms make some of the best hookup partners

    • @DMRCapitalHill
      @DMRCapitalHill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Make sure you wrap up and be smart

    • @DamianSabre
      @DamianSabre 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There's a reason they got pregnant in the first place 😂

    • @tranayajordan8508
      @tranayajordan8508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      W.e

    • @jimhya2588
      @jimhya2588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's a LIE... They have to be back home soon...their kids wake up...it just doesn't feel right

  • @mellobandz_2325
    @mellobandz_2325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Way he said yes 🤣🤣

  • @thinkfreely5178
    @thinkfreely5178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    You can’t build a legacy with someone else’s kids bro.

    • @nicolemarieemusic
      @nicolemarieemusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree. I don’t have kids but when I say I don’t want to date a man with kids I get side eyed by people. I tried dating a guy with kids and it just didn’t work out. I can’t do it.

    • @thinkfreely5178
      @thinkfreely5178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nicolemarieemusic Your not wrong. Its one of the most important aspects of building a family. The children have a natural attachment to their biological parents that TMH has distilled within us. That bond is inseparable and DNA is what ultimately makes your legacy transferable not a last name.

  • @Tmonster-dp4di
    @Tmonster-dp4di 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:37 the notification got me😂💀

  • @john.ajames8867
    @john.ajames8867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kevin Samuels is on point with this. Truth hurts.

  • @irenebuford8930
    @irenebuford8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What if the man was abusive and the woman had to leave him??? Was the woman suppose to marry the abuser and screw the children up??

    • @shawniebaby83
      @shawniebaby83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or what if she's a widow? Does she not deserve love again because she has kids with her deceased husband? I can't believe people are feeding into this guy.

    • @keenansmith7176
      @keenansmith7176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It doesn't make sense to most men to hear that a woman was abused, especially after they have kids with him. So you had his children and then all of sudden he just as started physically abusing you? Not before he got her pregnant? Nah, there is always something off about that story.

    • @MelaniaRose
      @MelaniaRose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@keenansmith7176 you don’t believe it because you most likely think abusive behaviour is normal

    • @keenansmith7176
      @keenansmith7176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MelaniaRose Unfortunately, like majority of women, you have a completely illogical take. Do you have any idea how much abuse I would have to been exposed to normalize it?

    • @unidentifiedguy8253
      @unidentifiedguy8253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shawniebaby83 He addresses that widows and divorcees don't fall into the baby mama category, but the children are still a liability. If the father was a high caliber man, high value men can live with that. He ain't raising crack-head tyrone's children in any multi-verse though, which is most modern women's dilemma

  • @makhanu91
    @makhanu91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Live from Nairobi, KENYA. 💯🇰🇪🖤👌🏾

  • @6844376
    @6844376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn that's a sharp suit! As is the tie and cufflinks.

  • @JahsonnM313
    @JahsonnM313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OG Ksam!

  • @MsChris-m0nk_1
    @MsChris-m0nk_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Who are the low rent people taking advice from him? Love yourself first and everything else will fall into place...stop chasing an illusion and live your life

  • @anthonydavis7946
    @anthonydavis7946 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the same way well said !!!!!. From highland Park Michigan

  • @atrak888
    @atrak888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ALL FACTS

  • @juanitatownsend3997
    @juanitatownsend3997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you .😘 Mr. Samuels for all of your Advice comments. I am a 62 year old female only married once. And I only had one child. I have been through some stuff ok. Thank you sir for all of your advice. May god bless you to. Continue on with what you know. Some of them are just mad about facing the truth.

  • @ogburich43
    @ogburich43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That's a very real question: Ladies, have you raised your children to be assets or liabilities? BOOM!! That's so real!! And many have not raised their children to be assets. Speaking from MY experience.

  • @QUNYC7
    @QUNYC7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    KS is speaking facts!

    • @shutupsimp934
      @shutupsimp934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He was married twice he learned from his mistakes and experience but yet he put off the image of perfection with that being said just live your life according to you and your standards not that of another man

    • @QUNYC7
      @QUNYC7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shutupsimp934 I know is back story and I don't need a learning lesson of how to live my life! I have been living life on my terms for long time now and I'm definitely a man of resources and means!

  • @mikae345
    @mikae345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    KS is speaking facts.

    • @h.j.terrancejr.8219
      @h.j.terrancejr.8219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If he was an upstanding, hard working citizen maybe. If he was some criminal, menace to society or bum, nah.

  • @soulovelee_2433
    @soulovelee_2433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Do his own rules don’t apply to himself? 😂 lol.. this dude is crazy

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣Smh right!

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly he don’t even have a wife

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@aminah761 Lol he has been divorce twice

    • @montez8421
      @montez8421 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣

    • @lisacox3750
      @lisacox3750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No, his own rules don't apply to him. It is obvious. But then again...he isn't a relationship expert. Anyone who goes to him for relationship advice is silly. He is an image consultant which is a big difference from being a relationship expert or therapist. I give him credit - at least he keeps telling people he isn't a relationship expert. So, anyone who listens to him...that's up to them.

  • @611mellissa
    @611mellissa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does he have kids?

  • @lambottv_9965
    @lambottv_9965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There are so many different people in this world. Honestly save urself for a soulmate and take the good and bad. Loving someone can’t be based on conditions. This is crazy to me. People find their self in bad relationships because of these reasons here, standards and criteria. The world is a mess. And we still are basing our love and well being on bs. Wow..... opinions. I got one to.

    • @tcjohnson5764
      @tcjohnson5764 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I take it that you have kids lol

  • @alsimmons1650
    @alsimmons1650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I say no to drugs and to modern legalized fully loaded contracts that's one sided. I did it once and escaped completely intacted with zero baggage.

    • @unidentifiedguy8253
      @unidentifiedguy8253 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice! Lucky break. I've lucked out to never get hitched at this point as well.

  • @11UncleBooker22
    @11UncleBooker22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello young men Uncle John here,
    understanding women with children, as I do, children are an EVERYTHING breaker.
    Not sorry..........

    • @conkersquirrel8872
      @conkersquirrel8872 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your words of wisdom will echoe in my mind forever. Thank you.

  • @TheTerminator1187
    @TheTerminator1187 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is all💯

  • @domisthebomb09
    @domisthebomb09 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lotta salty single moms here...

  • @Will008
    @Will008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He speaks truth.

  • @KatlehoMolekoSterkspruit
    @KatlehoMolekoSterkspruit 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw Steph Is Cold greeting Kevin on the live feed

  • @sayitloudblkmedia98
    @sayitloudblkmedia98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Samuel, ever watch Boondocks... "Ni@@a you gay!"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @robertcarter4914
    @robertcarter4914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wouldn’t date her if she had kids as well.. I’m not some super nanny aka atm 😂... Lit 🔥

  • @daronwilliams7244
    @daronwilliams7244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Why didn't you share a link for Kevin Samuels page? You used his content to support your page. So support him.

  • @anthonybarnes4483
    @anthonybarnes4483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RIGHT!!!!

  • @roolyfe
    @roolyfe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real talk! NUPE!

  • @vickirichards5186
    @vickirichards5186 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Deal breaker for me too. I have no children and not trying to be with a guy with kids, ijs, lol

  • @Qbdoesit24
    @Qbdoesit24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kevin woke men up 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @goat918
    @goat918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    FACTS

  • @MrFurmama
    @MrFurmama 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aye F-n Men he hit it right on the head.

  • @idrism5290
    @idrism5290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    You can be the greatest step father in the world but the moment the real father comes into the picture you will always be 2nd best. Although this was just a tv show Will almost left uncle Phil to be with his pops after all that.

    • @unidentifiedguy8253
      @unidentifiedguy8253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sadly, that is the case for sure. Even in Guardian of the Galaxy 2, dude had to find out his biological father killed his mother before he ditched him, and then only appreciated his adopted father when he died to save him. Never gonna be me.

    • @keked9231
      @keked9231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😔

    • @Kirtymonma
      @Kirtymonma 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@unidentifiedguy8253fam that blue nigga kidnapped him tho 😂

  • @matsumi6554
    @matsumi6554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Actually open-minded person question: does this line of thinking apply when the WOMAN is part of the equation that DOES NOT have any children and the man does? I’m 30 with no kids, my own home, a full-time career, and a small business. Does someone in my position need to make space for a another woman’s child?

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you want the man, absolutely. Women and men are not the same for the 50-11th time. I'll use Kevin Hart for example. He was married to Torrei had 2 kids then got divorced. He met a single woman with no kids and married her, they now have 2 kids. If Kevin leaves Eniko he can still meet and marry another woman and have more kids and on and on until he's 60 if he wanted to. If you don't want men with kids then this is not your concern with all due respect. U should seek out men without kids. But in no way will you ever be able to move like men. That's nature. You don't have to agree.

    • @inyourdreams444
      @inyourdreams444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Girl run in the opposite direction. *sigh* The drama with the kids & other woman still is the same. Let him go be with his family or do the walk of shame they expect single mothers to do. I am also a childless woman and I treat baby daddies how men treat single mothers. I want no parts in raising, watching or being there for children a man created with another woman. If he created 1-2+ single mothers what makes you believe you won't be next in line? Not to mention half of his income automatically goes out of the door to support that child and if you are married & he owes, there goes a portion of your taxes off into another woman's bank account. I have a family member with no kids dating a man with 4 children & she was financially sound before dating him but is now struggling due to helping him after child support takes a majority of his check. Sounds beneficial to your life or not? RUN.

    • @matsumi6554
      @matsumi6554 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@inyourdreams444 I have one thing I want to pay for right now and kick out of my home: my mortgage. Tossing every spare loonie, toonie, dime, nickel, and quarter at it (yes, I’m in Canada). Only other entity I’m paying for with a heart beat right now is my pet. And she don’t give no drama. 😂😂😂
      It’s the men that have multiple kids from Vancouver to Toronto, with multiple women and are part-time fathers. Can’t come to me with that conga line. I’m good over here doing my one-two step.

  • @politicallyincorrect4126
    @politicallyincorrect4126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They’re deal breakers for women too just not as much but believe me. I’m a 21 year old female and I would never marry a man with kids . I have no kids, why should i settle for that baggage?

    • @TheGr8-1
      @TheGr8-1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If that were true there wouldn’t be the majority of the women having children with the minority of men. Shows like Iyanla where 3 men had like 60+ kids between them. Or rappers like Future or Nick Cannon etc. You can try and claim things go both ways but they don’t. And observable really proves this. But it sounds nice. It’s just not true.

  • @Monica-de5kr
    @Monica-de5kr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is more his perspective that's why he was married twice. It didnt work for him 😔 😪. This is not always true to say a man sees kids as a liability. Kevin sees kids as a liability not all men. Most men have children themselves. I just feel this is some immature thing to say as a man.

    • @womansphere4349
      @womansphere4349 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most men don't have kids I seen on iyanla one man with over 20kids from different women it's always the same guy

    • @seanmyles3134
      @seanmyles3134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In general men do see kids as liabilities, unless they're beta males raised by single mothers are the ones likely to fall in that trap to be a stepdaddy.

  • @ericwalker8155
    @ericwalker8155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like Kevin Samuels,

  • @ATLKing404
    @ATLKing404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    sounds to me like he's making excuses for why he ain't high value. At some point you gotta be competent enough to make your own advice work for you. Most of these "gurus" ain't nothing but busters that are projecting

    • @STell743
      @STell743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly.

    • @STell743
      @STell743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      These woman are private. 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @justinwalker615
    @justinwalker615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like this guy because he knows being honest isn’t cool anymore especially when it comes to women honesty is only available when it’s profitable or it works in their favor that’s about it so this won’t go well for most people

  • @sirresebethea
    @sirresebethea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am glad I don’t have any children at 52

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who's gonna be there when u get old?

  • @rubicon4x494
    @rubicon4x494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    How can someone give relationship advice thats been divorced twice??? He cant even choose the right person. Its just like choosing a financial advisor thats been bankrupt twice.

    • @PainxSorrow
      @PainxSorrow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Steve Harvey been doing that shit his whole life gtfo

    • @rubicon4x494
      @rubicon4x494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PainxSorrow Steve Harvey has been married for 13 years. At least Steve eventually got it right, gtfo

    • @joleata1
      @joleata1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Failing can make a person reflect more if they don't blame others.

    • @raya74
      @raya74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly and he has a rotation of women in the dating world at 50 lol

    • @pantherblack2645
      @pantherblack2645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@raya74 he also has money take that way see what happens

  • @sewblue187
    @sewblue187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You didn’t even graduate college and don’t take care of your daughter and talking about kids are a deal breaker omg this man can’t be serious. Why aren’t you married to your kids mom Mr Samuels. This man is tricking y’all men into giving him money lmao and y’all falling for it. Smh you gotta live what you talk brotha

    • @raya74
      @raya74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts! He devalues women based on their age, has been divorced twice and has a rotation of women in his dating pool at fricken 50!

    • @purplelove010
      @purplelove010 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @tye1939
      @tye1939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well, if you actually got your facts right, instead of spreading false information. You would know that his previous wife's daughter isn't biologically his, he was a stepfather. He has no moral or legal obligation to that child. Which is why he commonly advocates to other men not to marry women with kids, because being a stepfather is a bad deal, he experienced it. It's nothing but extra baggage and no benefit to the man. And whether he graduated from college or not is irrelevant, the man is very successful consultant and a excellent communicator which attributed largely to his success on youtube.

    • @sewblue187
      @sewblue187 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tye1939 the fact is buddy ain’t sh*t no need to research to see that some ppl are transparent enough to see off top✌🏾

    • @tye1939
      @tye1939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sewblue187 So why make such an effort to spread a lie about a man who ain't shit? wtf is wrong with you people.

  • @TheGr8-1
    @TheGr8-1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Asking a man why he’s not married is as stupid as if a man asked a woman ‘are you f*n?’ Ridiculous.

  • @kingcappa4331
    @kingcappa4331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ask yourselves about Genetic Traits, co-natural behavior, certain animalities which are literally default settings within a species. A alpha lion 🦁 literally kills and will often eat all male cubs after procuring a rival pride, or after just taking over new territory. This is co-natural behavior which is imbedded within his genetic make up. This is not mine, not of me, not of my lineage because even animals know that the most natural thing that a man can create is a seed line, lineage, an heir. This is embedded into strong willed, wise, and men who possess a rulership mentality. Women and men look up (Microchimerism) the kings of old would not tolerate such that is witnessed in western women.

  • @nickalton
    @nickalton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    KS in intriguing and a mastermind! He has thousands of men and women adhering to his advice and is not married nor plan to be. I agree with some of the things he say but people not together and they break up because they “choose” to. It ain’t always because the man or woman are bad people. People don’t understand that relationships are HARD work. People simply “choose” to give up when things don’t go their way.

    • @unidentifiedguy8253
      @unidentifiedguy8253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Relationships aren't for everyone. However, the main reason for breakup is what Kevin addresses. A man that will do well in society are those that can follow the rule and social norms to some point, which also means successful modern men have been following the feminist prescribed beta male archetype. Women go for these dudes for their money/resources/stability, but cheat on them with "bad boy" types that ignore the feminist "norms" and display masculinity/alpha traits, while typically being about a hobo loser since their bucking of rules and social norms makes them often unemployable and ex-cons. If men put down the X-box controller and focus providing for their family, regaining their confidence and masculinity, and leading their women, then women wouldn't be getting bored with a simp beta-male partner always trying to please her, lowering divorces, infidelity, etc.

    • @flyingsolotiltheend3058
      @flyingsolotiltheend3058 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is what KS was trying to get some of these viewers a chance to see, but some don' t want to see the mirror attached to the message.

  • @phoenixphillips7413
    @phoenixphillips7413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😍
    #i LOVVVVE his bluntness😍

  • @tonyalston4838
    @tonyalston4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Go to KS live... He's a beast

  • @uncomfortabletruths5219
    @uncomfortabletruths5219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here we r again with another episode of uncle Sammy great unrealistic expectations lets watch as his wifeless ass tells us off again lol i love it go awf old man😌💅😉😂😂😂

  • @trublu2644
    @trublu2644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Beautiful women are taken cuz the guys know they have to have money to keep them simple...

    • @rasulkhalid5773
      @rasulkhalid5773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's alot very attractive female's with men who has average pay. You guys make any excuse to get unattractive female's smh

    • @HeLIEl
      @HeLIEl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I beg to differ with that dumb statement i have a woman, very attractive who got with me when i was piss poor broke and helped me while i was down now i'm helping her been together 10 yrs and going strong tf

  • @PassportG
    @PassportG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yep. Big deal breaker.

  • @yusufcagowayne1990
    @yusufcagowayne1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not my sperm not my concern

  • @MsAngie-he5uv
    @MsAngie-he5uv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤔No lies detected! 👏

  • @kandiced722
    @kandiced722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What if the child father pass a way ?

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nobody cares if your drug dealing BD got killed in the streets. Makes no difference

    • @kandiced722
      @kandiced722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tonyalston4838 So all black man are drug dealer ?
      My child father pass away from a heart attack. He had 20 years on the job. He was a hard working man.
      Like my father. No drug dealer over here.

    • @GoldMeadowsOnTv
      @GoldMeadowsOnTv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tonyalston4838 you sound ignorant. Know that. Lol

    • @JohnDoe-gc1kt
      @JohnDoe-gc1kt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kandiced722 dont listen to these bums. Find your happiness my love 😁

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not a one size fits all. So what if a parent passes away. U can't help that now can you?

  • @BDAILEY702
    @BDAILEY702 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve only dated 2 girls who had a kid. Long story short, they are weirdos yo. It’s a deal breaker because unless that man was just a dead beat, there’s a reason why the BD isn’t in the picture… and now the woman is trying to bring you into a situation where you have to take care of their kid… and you didn’t even make your own kid yet… its just a wild situation to even consider putting yourself in.

  • @jennyjenjen9180
    @jennyjenjen9180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He got kids though. Some woman don’t want to deal with men that already have kids too it goes both ways.

  • @rasta487
    @rasta487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Reminds me a little of steve Harvey. So much strong advice for a male who is responsible for the family but they didnt do whatever was needed to stay within their vow to their marriage & children.
    At least he's wearing a suit?🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @raya74
      @raya74 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lolll dont forget divorced twice and has a rotation of women in his dating pool at fricken 50 lol

    • @rasta487
      @rasta487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raya74 🤦🏾‍♀️....if this type of smoke & mirror routine wasn't on the spectrum of depressing, it would be hysterical.

  • @mikalrage7316
    @mikalrage7316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Imagine being this vapid and transactional in everything.
    I’m not saying anyone should put up with bullshit… only to that human connection is its own reward to anyone who isn’t a psychopath or narcissist.
    I suspect that psychopaths and narcissists are this guy’s target audience, though. We’ll see in the replies I get.

  • @phoenixphillips7413
    @phoenixphillips7413 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:24 💯🎯😍

  • @barrybae5345
    @barrybae5345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Because you want a Man Dude !!! KS is an old DIVA

    • @h.j.terrancejr.8219
      @h.j.terrancejr.8219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shaming tactics no longer work, so you can stop trying that. The man is telling the truth, top tire men don’t want any one else’s responsibility to deal with. It’s a terrible return on investment, and men are finally admitting it!

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its called having class... get some

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣idk if it’s true but this shit funny 😆

  • @shirleyharrell6093
    @shirleyharrell6093 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just sent this to this guy that likes me, I tell this man that he needs to date younger because the older women that he wants can't have any children. If I end up being with him then I know that we would be out of $50,000 for a surrogate as well as 13 months of Blue Cross . I have to be very careful with this one.

  • @stephbey2567
    @stephbey2567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kevin has kids? He is not married to their mother

  • @Mosaickool
    @Mosaickool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    see this is the first time in a very long time that I black man has been able to have a forum to speak his mind and for the views of other black men.
    and women are really nervous because of this one Kevin Saniels speaking is probably more that are getting ready to speak up as well it's good.
    all we have heard is the feminist point of view now we're going to hear the masculine point of view and thank God this country is ready for it.

  • @lovelybee527
    @lovelybee527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He not married but the first thing he ask a single woman are they married.He probably the mess his marriage up!

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      U realize the women call him? It's a show, right. He's a host so he ask questions of women who want men. What's the matter with you,😀

  • @abundance3696
    @abundance3696 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Liability?? I didn’t know that.

  • @dalvinadams4780
    @dalvinadams4780 ปีที่แล้ว

    R.I.P. The real 🐐💯

  • @blake1267
    @blake1267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Have women ever thought that maybe that there’s a characteristic about them that keeps the good high value men away and causes them to keep attracting no good men🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ That’s why I always tell women to take accountability for themselves, be single for a while and work on self development, lose weight, etc, etc. Most who do so notice a difference on the type they attract.

  • @deesmithsonian7094
    @deesmithsonian7094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm a mother of 3. 2 are young adults and out of my house. 1 is a teenager. However even for me, a man with small or young kids is a deal breaker. We've got to be on an even playing field. Kids Either grown or almost grown or no kids for me to date you. But dating a person with kids works for some. I LOVE my step mom and am thankful for her. It's a personal choice but his words are not law. But there is some truth to what he's saying.

    • @unidentifiedguy8253
      @unidentifiedguy8253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone has their standards. Fact is, since the dude is still typically expected to be the provider, most women on Kevin's show will back-peddle with convictions like "can't cheat" or "can't have kids" when the dude is making high six figures. Every woman seems to have a price.

  • @julianjohnson9401
    @julianjohnson9401 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who stole my gurl? Dat Nupe-KAPsi stole my girl!!!! Yo-00000000!!!

  • @Thula_Impala96
    @Thula_Impala96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I want to see a women actually claim KS

  • @bernitapennick4685
    @bernitapennick4685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Can’t because he’s already married

  • @kalvinsmall3843
    @kalvinsmall3843 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baby moms are a no no bro. I don’t date them. Plus there
    Kids. Lol.

  • @anteup971
    @anteup971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How does he have a rotation when he was out with Six talking about receipts shown...lol. He was out there looking and acting thirsty. You all have short memories with this guy.

    • @chitownfinest3824
      @chitownfinest3824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why u worrying about what he fot going on damn clown

    • @anteup971
      @anteup971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@chitownfinest3824 I would take you seriously, but you can’t even form a complete sentence. You are definitely low value.

    • @chitownfinest3824
      @chitownfinest3824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anteup971 lol that's because im talking to a below average bum

    • @chitownfinest3824
      @chitownfinest3824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@anteup971 u still live in your mammas basement

    • @anteup971
      @anteup971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@chitownfinest3824 I own three homes and make close to 300k. I’m in the position to buy my mom a home with a basement and live in it if I choose, but my current home has 6 bedrooms, 5 baths, and a 3 car garage. I’ll likely have her come live with me. Thanks for your concern about my mom’s living arrangements. 🤣🤣🤣 You right, I am a clown. I juggle these stacks. Don’t worry about me or what I worry about. I’m good. Public forum.

  • @ismaelrodas9169
    @ismaelrodas9169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He speaks the truth but I also think he’s into the dark arts.. homosexuality lol.

  • @theuntouchablegirlkysieisc599
    @theuntouchablegirlkysieisc599 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just sounds like this grease spot needs/trying to find man himself....😂😂😂😂

  • @Thula_Impala96
    @Thula_Impala96 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Castro street bracts you with open arms 🤗🤗 🌈 nothing wrong with it.

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Facts or undeniable facts?...Kevin Samuels is milking this attention from his viral moment. Can't knock his hustle. He went from men grooming their looks to giving his two cents on dating and relationships

    • @KOVIDGOON
      @KOVIDGOON 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He's not milking anything smh this is a clip from his social media. If anything MEDIA is milking HIM!!!

    • @Barlowh2o
      @Barlowh2o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Social media milking him dumb ass