Lacey is very religious. She did an interview talking about when Ben asked her to do this with him. He said "you aren't going to preach to me are you?" She said "not unless you want me to" he replied "please do." He has come out saying he believes in a higher power and people like Lacey have helped him slowly become more religious and you can see it in some of his later songs. Ashes of Eden is basically him asking God if it's too late and wondering if God would even want him.
@@toyotaecw I am not religious either, however her story of being stopped in a church on her way to commit suicide, I cannot explain how the people she met knew, but some things are not to be explained. The story is beautiful and I am here for it.
I don't know who's censoring my comments about brainwashing, but you need to stop. There's nothing beautiful about Lacey "finding God" the way she did.
They do sad songs very, very well. It may not be the most obviously emotional, but "Forget It" has always resonated with me on a really depressing level too.
I divorced an addict that never got better. My mom was an alcoholic and she tapered off drinking a bit very late in life but could not undo all the damage she had done, particularly to me, over the years. They both lost battles with cancer in the last couple of years, my mother most recently in late 2020. It's terrible the damage addiction does to everyone in the addict's orbit. But there is healing after ♥ Breaking Benjamin has always been my favorite band, I always feel like they pulled their lyrics straight out of my brain. Have an amazing week!
I've been addicted to drugs since I was 16. I'm 40 now. I've FINALLY reached 17 months SOBER! Longest I've ever been sober. How I came across this song is a story that absolutely no one would ever believe, but it saved my sobriety and life that day. I almost left behind a SOLID 21 year marriage and three children that day. I owe these two MY LIFE!
It’s been a long time but hope you’re still doing strong and have become happier and healthier both for yourself and the family around you. Sending love
That line when Lacey says “I feel nothing anymore” fucking kills me. I listened to these songs when I was younger and it’s crazy how powerful they become after you experience life a little more.
It’s one of the best collaborations I have ever heard. The song was powerful enough, then add Lacey’s voice, and a more acoustic based background, and it’s brand freaking new again. Really enjoyed it. Alex’s review was great as well.
With the acoustic guitar and Lacey's vocals, this one feels hopeful to me. It makes me feel like instead of being stuck, it's from the perspective of someone who's coming out of their depression and agony, and looking back as a sort of farewell. I hear the chorus and imagine someone trying their best to gently pull away from a toxic influence, asking them why they're still so miserable, and "is this the way it's got to be?". In general it just feels like it's coming from a person that's grown, found their purpose, and is ready to move on so now they're breaking ties with whatever held them back, but they're doing it as gently as they can, as though they can't bring themselves to be as negative and hurtful as whatever they're letting go of. The last verse, and especially the last line, doesn't feel like it's someone committing suicide; it feels like as far as the toxicity, the agony they've dealt with for so long "I feel nothing anymore", like they've finally broken free.
People interpret song meanings differently. This song is amazing and hit so hard because it can be interpreted in many different ways. I was born with a rare neurological disorder and suffered from anxiety and depression my entire life. We each have our own agony we deal with. Its how you deal with that agony that determines what kind of person you become.
Dear Agony was the album that helped me through my time in recovery. It wasn't easy leaving my addictions cold turkey but it was worth it. 14 years of damage wasn't easy to fix but life is so much better now. Now I use that same album to remind me of the struggle and keep moving forward. There is not one song on Dear Agony that doesn't hit home personally. Benjamin is a great artist waiting for more music.
Alex, BB helped me through my depression, saved my life you could say. Their songs are so much farther beyond other music, they have such a beautiful gift.
I've been listening to Breaking Benjamin for 10+ years and this song in particular with Lacery Sturm just hit different. Their voices compliment each other so well. It's also one of my favorite songs by them. I struggled with alcohol addiction and this song always brings me to tears.
This song hits home for because because of the mental health issues I've experienced, both myself and witnessed growing up; my mother has both physical and mental issues (which both feed each other), and those issues caused me to develop my own that I'm still dealing with. The whole Dear Agony album, and this song in particular, has a special place in my life
I saw breaking benjamin live in December and Lacey came out for a surprise song and they played dear agony and it was so powerful live. I love this song
so sorry to hear about your troubles in life I can relate to a very stressful life dealing with a loved one that's difficult to watch them hurt themself or others but I have faith all will be well in the end! I'll be praying for your families well being
Thanks for what you shared in this video. For years, I struggled with depression and anxiety. I’ve done things to myself that I wasn’t very proud of and There were many moments when I wanted to end my life because I wasn’t feeling the love and happiness that I was longing to feel. I’ve conquered those demons and became recently engaged to a wonderful woman.
Am glad you went and listened to this version, I actually like this one more then the original. If this is going to be a new thing you do, I know another song you did was Popular Monster by Falling in Reverse. You should check out Halocene's cover of that song, its absolutely lit man. Also, I ask every now and then but please check out the lovely lady's from Lovebites, should do either Raise some hell or Holy War. You won't be disappointed.
I’m not aware of Lacey having an “addiction” I am aware before finding Christianity that she struggled with depression and thoughts of suicide. Her own form of agony.
She did used drugs, she said it in her first book, before going suicidal she used to hang out with problematic people, doing drugs like cocaine, weed and lsd
ngl I use reaction videos like this to find new music and this is absolutely gorgeous. Mad respect to both singers, and to you for being so open about your experience. Great reaction, thank you
I've been watching your channel for a few years now. Your videos were and are a pre-go to work ritual. People can see it on your face and in your eyes how authentic you are. Just to let you know it hasn't gone unnoticed.. Thanks man...
Lacey Sturm is one of my favorite voices she has a songs with skillet, apocalyptica, we as human. She is famous for flyleaf. Her new stuff is good too.
One of my favorites, Breaking Benjamin is incredible and this version is powerful. Check out the other songs off this album! They can't make a bad song!
That song had so much potential but I find it very disappointing. The volume of Ben's voice is way too low, with the exception of when he sings "ya you breathe just to know you're alive". Also, Diamante doesn't really have a good voice.
At this point listen to all of some of their albums like you you did with Metallica. Listen to Phobia, Dear Agony, Dark Before Dawn and We Are Not Alone.
So agonizing but yet so so beautiful. I know the feelings of child abuse and childhood pts, suicidal thoughts and I tempted fate. I got addicted but i was one of the few lucky enough to make it to a good rehab. The thing they taught us was to love one another. I came away from there with an immense love for people especially those who suffer from mental illness and addiction. It makes me teary eyed just writing this. Sending good loving energy to everyone here and all those suffering.
Wow Alex this is the first time hearing breaking Benjamin. What's ironic is I just watched A reason to fight by Disturbed. I just love your personality and your reactions
There are some that don't like this version - but to me, this is just incredible. And Alex you nailed it - their voices together work SO well on this: you can feel the emotion they both brought to this, matching each other, finding great spots to highlight - and the playing of the band just tops it. An unbelievable version of an awesome, awesome song. Alex - so glad you did this one - thank you (as always)!!!
Hey Alex! Lookin fit, congrats on getting married and you just look all around happier. I love your videos and I love who you are bro. Keep up the videos and great reactions. Glad to see you’re doing well brotha!
Alcohol addiction destroyed my family when I was a child. This song hits home.. much love to those that have also had to go through similar or worse issues with addiction. Stay strong.
I never knew that I needed another version of this song until I heard that Lacey was on the track. Now I can't go back to listening to the original as this is the only one that lives in my head now.
Lacey was incredible in this. I got the chance to see BB perform Dear Agony with Lacey Sturm at the Sonic Temple fest, and it was an incredible performance! I don’t know if I’ll get that chance again lol
Ben's voice has just fucking aged so damn well. I've seen him live 3 times (since Dark Before Dawn, so I didn't see BB back before the hiatus and reforming of the new band) and every time had just been better than the last.
I connected with this personally also. The vocals and lyrics stirred up memories and, for a moment, took me to dark places that seemed like a dream, but we're in fact, reality. Life can be so bittersweet. Loved your beautifully sincere and heartfelt reaction.
Petition for Alex to go on a breaking Benjamin reaction marathon 🙌🏼
Where do I sign
I vote that he reacts to this entire album.
@@scrapdragon7887 Ember first, and then Aurora. :)
Just do all the albums in order!!!
Can I vote multiple times for this? Breaking Benjamin and then Three Days Grace
Ben: 6’4”
Lacey: 4’11”
This song: MASSIVELY BEAUTIFUL!
“Damn Lacey, you’re short as hell!” This doesn’t help when scaled with Benjamin
haha so true, I just looked it up, and hes 6'4. So 4'11 Lacey, standing next to 6'4 Benjamin.
oh wow shes 4'11
Ben makes me look short and I'm 6'1"
I'm 5'2
why u don't use metric system like normal people? :(
Lacy Sturm with Apocalyptica "Broken Pieces".... you will not regret it.
YES YES YES!
I effin love that collaboration!!!
YESSSSS
YESS
Or "Heavy Prey" - lacey sturm feat. Lenardo.
You need to listen to the entire Dear Agony album, it’s beautiful and emotional and heavy all at the same time. Every song is amazing.
FACTS. I Will Not Bow is a banger.
@@drax1526 Fr!!
It's ridiculously good. I remember when it first came out and just being utterly blown away. Really important album for Ben as well
Dear Agony was the first Breaking Benjamin album I ever bought and it's still my favorite to this day.
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Lacey is very religious. She did an interview talking about when Ben asked her to do this with him. He said "you aren't going to preach to me are you?" She said "not unless you want me to" he replied "please do." He has come out saying he believes in a higher power and people like Lacey have helped him slowly become more religious and you can see it in some of his later songs. Ashes of Eden is basically him asking God if it's too late and wondering if God would even want him.
Saw Flyleaf at a Christian Music festival in 2005, been a fan since
I’m not really a religious man myself but Lacey’s story of how she found God is absolutely beautiful.
@@toyotaecw I am not religious either, however her story of being stopped in a church on her way to commit suicide, I cannot explain how the people she met knew, but some things are not to be explained. The story is beautiful and I am here for it.
I love lacey
I don't know who's censoring my comments about brainwashing, but you need to stop. There's nothing beautiful about Lacey "finding God" the way she did.
Listen to "anthem of the angels" by them, it's probably their saddest song.
Saying "saddest" like it’s supposedly a good thing
**Ashes of Eden**
They do sad songs very, very well. It may not be the most obviously emotional, but "Forget It" has always resonated with me on a really depressing level too.
@@KaiserSoze679 fair enough, I suppose everyone weights each song differently in their own eyes depending on their own feelings.
love the Red pfp😌
I divorced an addict that never got better. My mom was an alcoholic and she tapered off drinking a bit very late in life but could not undo all the damage she had done, particularly to me, over the years. They both lost battles with cancer in the last couple of years, my mother most recently in late 2020. It's terrible the damage addiction does to everyone in the addict's orbit. But there is healing after ♥ Breaking Benjamin has always been my favorite band, I always feel like they pulled their lyrics straight out of my brain. Have an amazing week!
Sad to hear that. I hope you'll find strength to cope with your losses. Stay strong
@@maartenvdberg1205 Thank you.
Lacey is one of my top 10 vocalists ever. Right in the mix with with Lzzy Hale and Amy Lee
If you want to hear Lacey scream, cover Flyleaf "I'm So Sick" - amazing vocals in that one
The live Family Values version is sick!!
Exactly
Her scream is so raw
@@wttjrd1 Ikr
The decree? Perhaps the rawest scream in years
Please 'Ashes of Eden' by Breaking Ben!
yassssssss!!!!
And 'the dark of you'
IMO one of the best songs ever made.
One of my favorites of all time!
Keep them rolling..... Breaking Benjamin “What lies Beneath” is a great song. Check it out!
that is absolutely one of the GREATEST song of breaking benjamin, tbh, the whole dear agony album is pure gold.
@@LeoBlackFenix 🙏🏽
One of my favorite songs from that album!!!!!!!
That song resonates with me so so badly
Please do Flyleaf again. All Around me and Cassie are fucking badass
And there for you!
@@TenaciousJoe24 and the acoustic versiom too
Omg, I haven't listened to flyleaf in FAR too long!!!
"Look at the goosebumps on my legs" Way to casually flex on us with those abs Alex, damn.
Bro a great one is Breaking Benjamin and Diamante cover of Iris by Goo Goo Dolls
Since the Flyleaf requests are back, I recommend "Missing" to see Lacey's wide range of vocals.
Skillet ft. Lacey Sturm - Breaking Free. Absolutely fantastic song!!!
Agreed!
I've been addicted to drugs since I was 16. I'm 40 now. I've FINALLY reached 17 months SOBER! Longest I've ever been sober. How I came across this song is a story that absolutely no one would ever believe, but it saved my sobriety and life that day. I almost left behind a SOLID 21 year marriage and three children that day. I owe these two MY LIFE!
It’s been a long time but hope you’re still doing strong and have become happier and healthier both for yourself and the family around you. Sending love
Hope you're still doing well!
Laceys voice is so soothing and bens can be just as much, the blend is unreal 💯
The feelings from this song it all surrounding.
Now please react to All Around Me by: Flyleaf!!
Or her newest single STATE OF ME which is amazing
That line when Lacey says “I feel nothing anymore” fucking kills me. I listened to these songs when I was younger and it’s crazy how powerful they become after you experience life a little more.
It’s one of the best collaborations I have ever heard. The song was powerful enough, then add Lacey’s voice, and a more acoustic based background, and it’s brand freaking new again. Really enjoyed it. Alex’s review was great as well.
With the acoustic guitar and Lacey's vocals, this one feels hopeful to me. It makes me feel like instead of being stuck, it's from the perspective of someone who's coming out of their depression and agony, and looking back as a sort of farewell. I hear the chorus and imagine someone trying their best to gently pull away from a toxic influence, asking them why they're still so miserable, and "is this the way it's got to be?".
In general it just feels like it's coming from a person that's grown, found their purpose, and is ready to move on so now they're breaking ties with whatever held them back, but they're doing it as gently as they can, as though they can't bring themselves to be as negative and hurtful as whatever they're letting go of. The last verse, and especially the last line, doesn't feel like it's someone committing suicide; it feels like as far as the toxicity, the agony they've dealt with for so long "I feel nothing anymore", like they've finally broken free.
Try "Ashes of Eden", one of my favorites by them.
This song, Ashes, So Cold, Dance With The Devil, and The Diary of Jane are my favorites
Thank you sharing your vulnerable side Alex, you’re awesome!
Yes! Someone finally reacts to this version. Soo good.
Every time I hear this version I get serious chills! I think it’s their harmonies combined with the deep lyrics.
I get the goosebumps every time I hear that chorus start. They sing so well together.
We gonna sit here and ignore the fact that this boy be ripped
“Damn Lacey, you’re short as hell” Ben is also 6'4
And Lacey is 4'9 so yep hence why he looks so tall and she looks so small
@@xPaLmaaHx shit she's the same height as me, I'm 4ft9 aswell. 😱
PLEASE react to old school Flyleaf when Lacey was still the lead singer!
Next should be Ben's cover of Iris ft. Diamante.
Absolutely 1000000000% agree. Amazing. I like when bands bring in bad ass woman. Amy Lee has linked up with a few. So has Diamante.
I was just coming here to suggest this. XD
It's actually HER cover featuring Ben, but yes! That song is fantastic.
diamante ft ben but close enough
Yes it is her cover but the guy made his point. You guys like Spiritbox? They are amazing
Rumor is they are working on a project together, can’t wait to see
People interpret song meanings differently. This song is amazing and hit so hard because it can be interpreted in many different ways. I was born with a rare neurological disorder and suffered from anxiety and depression my entire life. We each have our own agony we deal with. Its how you deal with that agony that determines what kind of person you become.
Couldn't have said it better
My guy you need to listen to "Give Me a Sign" by them, that will hit you in the feels hard.
Dear Agony was the album that helped me through my time in recovery. It wasn't easy leaving my addictions cold turkey but it was worth it. 14 years of damage wasn't easy to fix but life is so much better now. Now I use that same album to remind me of the struggle and keep moving forward. There is not one song on Dear Agony that doesn't hit home personally. Benjamin is a great artist waiting for more music.
You should hear Diamante's cover of Iris (by the Goo Goo Dolls), it features Ben!
Yesss dia is sooo underrated
Agree!! Such an amazing song they covered
Alex, BB helped me through my depression, saved my life you could say. Their songs are so much farther beyond other music, they have such a beautiful gift.
This song is too beautiful. One of the most beautiful Song ever.
You’re the man Alex thank you for your videos. Especially this one. 🙏
I've been listening to Breaking Benjamin for 10+ years and this song in particular with Lacery Sturm just hit different. Their voices compliment each other so well. It's also one of my favorite songs by them. I struggled with alcohol addiction and this song always brings me to tears.
This song hits home for because because of the mental health issues I've experienced, both myself and witnessed growing up; my mother has both physical and mental issues (which both feed each other), and those issues caused me to develop my own that I'm still dealing with. The whole Dear Agony album, and this song in particular, has a special place in my life
I saw breaking benjamin live in December and Lacey came out for a surprise song and they played dear agony and it was so powerful live. I love this song
so sorry to hear about your troubles in life
I can relate to a very stressful life dealing with a loved one that's difficult to watch them hurt themself or others but I have faith all will be well in the end!
I'll be praying for your families well being
Thanks for what you shared in this video. For years, I struggled with depression and anxiety. I’ve done things to myself that I wasn’t very proud of and There were many moments when I wanted to end my life because I wasn’t feeling the love and happiness that I was longing to feel. I’ve conquered those demons and became recently engaged to a wonderful woman.
Am glad you went and listened to this version, I actually like this one more then the original. If this is going to be a new thing you do, I know another song you did was Popular Monster by Falling in Reverse. You should check out Halocene's cover of that song, its absolutely lit man. Also, I ask every now and then but please check out the lovely lady's from Lovebites, should do either Raise some hell or Holy War. You won't be disappointed.
I’m not aware of Lacey having an “addiction” I am aware before finding Christianity that she struggled with depression and thoughts of suicide. Her own form of agony.
She did used drugs, she said it in her first book, before going suicidal she used to hang out with problematic people, doing drugs like cocaine, weed and lsd
@@xPaLmaaHx well now I’m aware… might have to check out the book
I have to say that your positivity is absolutely infectious, and greatly refreshing!
I hope you have a dope ass day!
This is one of those songs that you just close your eyes and let the music take over your soul!
ngl I use reaction videos like this to find new music and this is absolutely gorgeous. Mad respect to both singers, and to you for being so open about your experience. Great reaction, thank you
ive lived this song and its rough to hear it still have to fight everyday to live the right way
I've been watching your channel for a few years now. Your videos were and are a pre-go to work ritual. People can see it on your face and in your eyes how authentic you are. Just to let you know it hasn't gone unnoticed.. Thanks man...
Arguably the best version of this song!! They take this song and bring it up to 100. Love this song
I got goose bumps immediately before you said it brother, that duo is unreal.
Goosebumps are the first words when i hear this songs.. Omg amazing songs❤️❤️
Such a beautiful version, it's easy to forget the darkness of the song.
I've probably watched this video 50 times. Goose bumps EVERY time!
I legit became a fan of this band again last week and it’s crazy the timing of this I literally watched this songs music video last week
This is a powerful duo and they both compliment each nicely fits like a glove 🤘
I got chills and goose bumps at the same time as you Alex. Such a beautiful rendition of an amazing song
Lacey Sturm is one of my favorite voices she has a songs with skillet, apocalyptica, we as human. She is famous for flyleaf. Her new stuff is good too.
Failure (Aurora Version) w Micheal Barnes from the band RED. You won’t regret it.
One of my favorites, Breaking Benjamin is incredible and this version is powerful. Check out the other songs off this album! They can't make a bad song!
Dude! Goosebumps 100%. This was one of my favorite songs of all time. This version is even better.
Try "Iris" with Ben singing. Freaking beautiful rendition of the song!
That song had so much potential but I find it very disappointing. The volume of Ben's voice is way too low, with the exception of when he sings "ya you breathe just to know you're alive".
Also, Diamante doesn't really have a good voice.
At this point listen to all of some of their albums like you you did with Metallica. Listen to Phobia, Dear Agony, Dark Before Dawn and We Are Not Alone.
Forgot Saturate and Ember lol
Fit For a King - When Everything Means Nothing
Love you Alex , thanks for the message !
Their heights are so contrasted. Where Benjamin stands 6'3"+ and Lacey is shorter than 5'0". But so cute.
Goosebumps, every single time I hear it.
If you like Lacey Sturm I must suggest her Roxanne cover she did live. It's actually one of my favorite songs ever
@Alex Hefner your positivity gives me strength.
So agonizing but yet so so beautiful. I know the feelings of child abuse and childhood pts, suicidal thoughts and I tempted fate. I got addicted but i was one of the few lucky enough to make it to a good rehab. The thing they taught us was to love one another. I came away from there with an immense love for people especially those who suffer from mental illness and addiction. It makes me teary eyed just writing this. Sending good loving energy to everyone here and all those suffering.
Wow Alex this is the first time hearing breaking Benjamin. What's ironic is I just watched A reason to fight by Disturbed. I just love your personality and your reactions
Very powerful song. Beautiful!!
I just found this a few days ago myself, wow what an incredible remix of an already amazing song.
There are some that don't like this version - but to me, this is just incredible. And Alex you nailed it - their voices together work SO well on this: you can feel the emotion they both brought to this, matching each other, finding great spots to highlight - and the playing of the band just tops it. An unbelievable version of an awesome, awesome song. Alex - so glad you did this one - thank you (as always)!!!
Yeah, me too. Goosebumps are real in this song.
Goosebumps is the true music reaction. Luv the content bro. Keep up the great work
I saw them do this live and omg you don't even know the meaning of chills bro... 🖤❤️
Thank you for explaining the believe tattoo. I quit drinking August 5th 2012. Had to, almost died.
Nevermore, anything off this godless endeavor!! Been asking for a long time! Deep lyrics and AMAZING guitar playing!
Love this vision its so beautiful 🤘 thank u for the message at the end
Hey Alex! Lookin fit, congrats on getting married and you just look all around happier. I love your videos and I love who you are bro. Keep up the videos and great reactions. Glad to see you’re doing well brotha!
Best and most powerful video you’ve ever done🙏🏻♥️
Dude I didn't know I needed this. Thanks man. Much love from Philippines
Alcohol addiction destroyed my family when I was a child. This song hits home.. much love to those that have also had to go through similar or worse issues with addiction. Stay strong.
Same to you bro. Alcoholic and heroine addicted dad, heroine with mom. Dad lost his battle. Our entire family no longer speaks.
I never knew that I needed another version of this song until I heard that Lacey was on the track. Now I can't go back to listening to the original as this is the only one that lives in my head now.
4:56 lacey's voice did she just take my breath away, I only heard 1 song that took my breath away until now 😯👍👍
This song is on constant repeat in my head.
Lacey was incredible in this. I got the chance to see BB perform Dear Agony with Lacey Sturm at the Sonic Temple fest, and it was an incredible performance! I don’t know if I’ll get that chance again lol
2:46 wasn't expecting to get blasted with the abs of the century on my screen during a Breaking Benjamin reaction, but here we are!
I love Lacey’s voice. I hope Flyleaf reunites even if only for one tour. 😍😍😍
She is doing her solo stuff, check out her single "The Decree" from last year, or her latest single from this year called "State Of Me"
Thank you for your words Alex
I absolutely bawled my eyes out the first time I heard this version of the song
Ben's voice has just fucking aged so damn well. I've seen him live 3 times (since Dark Before Dawn, so I didn't see BB back before the hiatus and reforming of the new band) and every time had just been better than the last.
Lacey has also sung with SKILLET before too. She has stepped in for the vocals when Jen (the drummer) could not be there. She has a great voice!!!
I connected with this personally also. The vocals and lyrics stirred up memories and, for a moment, took me to dark places that seemed like a dream, but we're in fact, reality. Life can be so bittersweet.
Loved your beautifully sincere and heartfelt reaction.
I've added so many of your reviews to my playlist! ✌❤