The aunt is getting on my nerves…she was strong on this stage prior to this she was complicit as well. She is talking over everyone and it’s the young lady’s story.
Honestly, I was DEEPLY disturbed by the father's response once he received the news, because he seems so DISCONNECTED when he heard the news, such a poor excuse of a father figure.
I love how Karamo made him take accountability and that he pointed out that the father didn’t even acknowledge her after the result. I was waiting for the dad to get up and embrace her.
The mother should have been there! If the mother said he wasn’t the father and he not on the birth certificate Tyrelle has no rights and the mother doesn’t have to do a DNA test! The sister is in the middle but she could have did a DNA test as well.. But 30 years ago child custody was different and he had no rights. I hope they can bond together.
When this 32 old woman says she not blaming her mother.. my jaw dropped. Your mom carried the lie and didn’t handle her business. I understand the aunt because she like she said she was young they didn’t have a blood test. Nobody wants to be disappointing and be attached to a child that’s not there’s. But yet again, she blames everybody, but her mother.
How can he say that he never left her when he was never there. He couldn’t be a father because he wasn’t ready. He didn’t know how to be a father. Her mom should have sorted it out a long time ago.
Wow that was deep when she said she is ready but her 8 year old self isn't. Koramo you are so bright and I see what you are doing and how you are helping. Trauma is at the root of so many issues, we have to make healing a priority!
I really don’t like how these men blame everyone else why they couldn’t be around. There should be NOTHING to stop you from being with your child! NOTHING!
Thats should be true but in this world we living in its just not possible,my dad couldnt come around me and i understand exactly why so dont say that shii
The mother needs to take accountability too and she needs to take out her anger towards her as well because as a woman, why don’t you know who’s your baby father is and not want to be sure ….
I’m glad she found her father but her anger is misdirected at her aunt. The only people responsible for finding out if you were blood is your mother and father. Although he told the aunt this information, sounds like she might’ve been a pre teen or teenager. What was she supposed to do? Knock on her momma’s door with no proof and stir up shit? Her father was wrong for not trying to confirm her DNA but, in the same breath, her mother sounds like she was playing games. “She’s yours” this week but next week “this ain’t even your child.” It’s trifling hood behavior and she really only has her parents to blame for that missing piece of her life. No one else. I myself am an aunt who has a brother who has several kids that he isn’t taking care of. It becomes A LOT to deal with. The first two of my brother’s kids, we helped pick up the slack. But when you come around with baby 3, 4, 5 etc and he isn’t pitching in financially but expecting his extended family to support HIS kids, it’s way too much. Our family told my brother that if he had any more children we would not be pitching in financially and that he would have to figure it out. Sure enough baby momma number 3 and 4 popped up on our doorsteps with their hands out. We have nothing more to give. When folks are laying down y’all need to start asking yourselves these questions: do I want to pro create with this man/woman? If I do, can I afford these kids if my partner isn’t there? How many kids does my partner currently have? Is he/she a good father/mother to those kids etc? The women my brother impregnated knew he had 2 kids and no job to care for these children yet they decided to have kids with him anyways. At this point, y’all need to figure it out and stop expecting extended family members (who also have their own kids, homes and bills) to help you raise your children. I feel sorry for people like the young lady on the show but folks cannot take away from their own homes and kids because your mother and father are irresponsible. It is what it is 🤷🏾♀️ Thank you for coming to my Tedx Talk 😌😂
If we would think about our extended families, we'd make better decisions, socially and financially. Your power is in your family. Dont let anything or anybody including yourself, drive you away from kin.
Well, if their whores and sleeping with multiple men, then the chances of not knowing who the father is. It's increased. There are no good reasons to not know who fathered a child. The only excuse is being violated, like you said. Any other reason is a bad choice. Smh
I understand that the man did wrong, but the mother is also very wrong for telling the man that she wasn't his child. The mother should have been there to hear it😢
Excuses, excuses stop making them- you’ve made them for 32 years. You say” you should have trusted me” .. Just be real with yourself and say you were not there and don’t blame anyone else. Your daughter is willing to forgive you, please be there for her. Stay Blessed🙏😊
It was a different time and when a woman tells a man that the chuld is not his what is he supposed to do? Its different for black men when the police are called. Forcing his way into a situation can be deadly. I feel for the young lady but her mom told him she wasn't his!
Beautiful young lady. This type of history is ugly & constantly repeating itself. I had the pleasure of mentoring a young lady whose mother would call her very ugly names & wouldn't tell her who her father was. Her mother & the father promised they would never tell until he dies. He died when she was 18 years old. I grew up with both of her parents. I had no idea. Their little secret really damaged their daughter. She's 36 years old and had been through so much. If you're going to enjoy the pleasure, enjoy the consequences. Children deserve so much more. 😮
He knew that was his daughter.... and did nothing. He claimed the son, but not her. This is the weirdest case I've ever heard. This man could have had all his sisters and her cousins embracing her. Jesus
I'm glad she had the DNA closure and I hope he comes around more. He reminds me of my brother. In fact looks just like him. My brother was non emotional like him but he love his children. My brother and family had to go through almost the same situation. He impregnated this girl who family had bad blood for generations like the Hatfields & McCoys. Their family murdered some of my relatives and my family murdered some of theirs as well. So her family moved her out of town to give birth and raise her child with other relatives. One day she visited back and her grandparents had my niece in the grocery store. My auntie who didn't not play had to chase them down in the aisle to look at that child. They hurried up and left the store. At the time I didn't know what was happening because I was young. There was a big age gap between me and my brother. My aunt told me that was was your niece and she said it's a damn shame people hold grudges this long.
I don't know the outcome but I'm wondering why she holding the aunt so accountable. She haven't said anything about her mom allowing her to call some other guy dad for years and not going force him into a dna test.
I’m sorry but is her mom not around anymore ? Because all this misdirected anger towards the aunt don’t make sense . Your mom suppose to be involved with helping you solve this situation because she the reason you are here . Your dad also has a hand in it because he knows if he slept with your mom there’s a possibility simple as that . 🤷🏾♀️
This is ridiculous. That man had ZERO, ABSOLUTELY no rights to assert himself. He wasn't on the birth certificate, mom said he wasn't the father, so save all that anger & accountability for Mom. Mom was the one sleeping with 2 friends.
I don't know if she will ever be able to move forward with her dad and heal. I think she gonna keep rehashing him not being there and he gonna fall back again.
The first episode sort of annoyed me, for the simple fact that it’s so many excuses, but not a lot of accountability. She can’t be mad at the aunt nor anybody else but her MOTHER and FATHER, they laid down and conceived you, they made that decision, they are the only ones who owe you any explanation. I’m glad she can heal that part of her, but baby, it ain’t auntie fault.
You know it’s VERY unfortunate that couples change when children are involved but WOMEN PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE whatever the situation be honest with your children about who their fathers are, allow them to see them regardless if they have moved on, as long as the other person is not harming them, and don’t use your kids as pawns. CHILDREN NEED THEIR FATHERS!!!
All these people look alike. Glad you find your daddy. We all make mistakes, change your thinking and you all will change your lives and move on to a better things.
The Auntie didn't lay down with them, and it wasn't her responsibility to reach out. She couldn't make her brother do anything, and she didn't have to take care of her! Sorry not sorry!
You are a good woman cause girl I could never forgive a man and his family for abandoning me. They are so cold-blooded stayed right around the corner from you. You don't need them tell them give you the picture that was worth more then them being involved in your life sad
Her aunt was in the way Karomo, you are so critical of her Father he didn't get to speak. I've never met my father, and I am 56. But if it ever happens, I would listen to him. They woman and Karomo just attacked him. Never heard his side and details of why he did what he did. He was a kid.
He's full of it, he knew that was his daughter. If he wanted to see her, he could've went to court to fight for visitation and make a real effort, instead of excuses. He's a deadbeat.
I’m so happy for her and I got very emotional (in both positive and less positive ways while in my own healing process) when she said “I wanna be able to say- ima call my daddy and he gon’ beat you up!” I couldn’t feel that hit me any harder than it did. Getting this kind of closure and sense of a true fatherly figure and shoulder to lean on, is a dream and seeing this happen for someone else gives my own inner child a bit of healing and I hope more people get to have this kind of closure for themselves.
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That Auntie needs to be a counselor. Very well spoken, I love how she frames her responses, and uses logic in a non-threatening way.
I said the same thing 😂 she thought she was Iyanla
@@lisaking6400exactly 😂 I was like damn she host #2
Uhhh maybe with some additional training . Specifically trauma
No training necessary when it's gifted from the heart. Big Ups to the Auntie for sharing God's Gift 🙏💙🙌
I thank the auntie for holding her brother accountable.
She ain’t let up one bit cause she seen it for herself
She held him all his life
Because that usually doesn't happen. Sisters RIDE HARD for their brothers!!!
The aunt is getting on my nerves…she was strong on this stage prior to this she was complicit as well. She is talking over everyone and it’s the young lady’s story.
Her mother didn’t come because she didn’t want to take accountability for her part.
Girl I said the same thing
He cldnt he get her on the phone 📞 during the show
The mother played a vital key in this scenario
Honestly, I was DEEPLY disturbed by the father's response once he received the news, because he seems so DISCONNECTED when he heard the news, such a poor excuse of a father figure.
That part
Karamo's emotional intelligence, intuitive awareness, sincerity, and empathy are off the charts -- he's a true gift to humanity! ❤
I love how Karamo made him take accountability and that he pointed out that the father didn’t even acknowledge her after the result. I was waiting for the dad to get up and embrace her.
The aunt should not have been there. She was in-between the situation. This was between the daughter and father.
Me too, but he might not know how to show love. I'm thinking you're not jumping up & loving on her 😢 ? They look & act alike.
That girl looks EXACTLY like him
Exactly!!!! Nose and all.... Beautiful ❤️
It's soo crazy I don't seeeee it
Karamo pays attention to details He employes analytical skills and psychology in reassuring and caring for his clients . He does a phenomenal job
Regardless of the situation he always tries to show empathy to all sides. I love it
He has a degree in it
And he was also a social worker
She’s angry with him, but is she holding her mom accountable too?
Her mother told her the truth... he ran from it.
She's beautiful, smart and strong young lady I ever listened her story!
These mothers need to be held accountable for their actions as well! Brainwashing your children isn’t healthy and isn’t right
how was she brainwashed? aint nobody gon tell a 3 yr old that aint her daddy and it seems like she always knew abt tyrelle....
Facts, nobody wanna have that conversation tho
@@wilsontl83 I noticed that!! Your so right
Nope . Women can never do nothing wrong . They are perfect and blameless.
Exactly that’s why she didn’t even want to show up!
Sounds exactly like my story. But my mom left me 😢 my dad stepped up and whole time my mom family was right around the corner.
Wow!
She's so charming, im glad she healed and good for Karamo to have a tv *wife snd a daddy* 😂😂
I’m so happy for her she looks just like her father ❤
And they act alike.He said he knew she was his . Nothing like being sure though !
The mother should have been there! If the mother said he wasn’t the father and he not on the birth certificate Tyrelle has no rights and the mother doesn’t have to do a DNA test! The sister is in the middle but she could have did a DNA test as well.. But 30 years ago child custody was different and he had no rights. I hope they can bond together.
When this 32 old woman says she not blaming her mother.. my jaw dropped. Your mom carried the lie and didn’t handle her business. I understand the aunt because she like she said she was young they didn’t have a blood test. Nobody wants to be disappointing and be attached to a child that’s not there’s. But yet again, she blames everybody, but her mother.
Her mother should have been there with her on the show...😢
Her dad is not taking accountability at all. Thank God for her aunt
What an amazing aunty ❤ so happy it turned out this way so they can now heal & love each other. Gods blessings 🙏🏼this had to be my fav episode!
Auntie is classy n I like the way she stepped off
I was thinking the same thing. Why didn’t he get up? His sister reacted the way a loving relative would. Shame on him
How can he say that he never left her when he was never there. He couldn’t be a father because he wasn’t ready. He didn’t know how to be a father. Her mom should have sorted it out a long time ago.
This young man hosting this show is so understanding and knowledgeable!! 1# family show on the internet
I'm so happy she found her father. They deserve the best they need to heal together ❤️
When u break up with the women dnt mean break up with your child that's not being a man
She verbalized her needs very very well. I wish I could be more like that.
Wow that was deep when she said she is ready but her 8 year old self isn't. Koramo you are so bright and I see what you are doing and how you are helping. Trauma is at the root of so many issues, we have to make healing a priority!
why would she expect her aunt to be the one to find her and not her mother take her to him or him go to her its not the aunts fault 🤔
That's one strong and smart lady right there.
My heart was in so much joy to hear her here those words that your are her father & I hope he steps up no more blame game & excuses
It's not only the dad fault, I don't know why she is not blaming her mum. It's your mum that was sleeping around while she was in a relationship.
I really don’t like how these men blame everyone else why they couldn’t be around. There should be NOTHING to stop you from being with your child! NOTHING!
Thats should be true but in this world we living in its just not possible,my dad couldnt come around me and i understand exactly why so dont say that shii
@@KiloSwordYour father has no excuse.
No one wants to deal with a lifetime of chaos like the mothers want
I just love this show.. It was great to see the young lady on again at the end. Sending prayers and best wishes. Keep us posted.
I hope dad doesn’t disappoint her but his patterns give me doubts. I really want her to have a dad she can be proud of.
The mother needs to take accountability too and she needs to take out her anger towards her as well because as a woman, why don’t you know who’s your baby father is and not want to be sure ….
I Love this "I'm gonna call my daddy', so Happy for her. Happy for both of them.
I’m glad she found her father but her anger is misdirected at her aunt. The only people responsible for finding out if you were blood is your mother and father. Although he told the aunt this information, sounds like she might’ve been a pre teen or teenager. What was she supposed to do? Knock on her momma’s door with no proof and stir up shit? Her father was wrong for not trying to confirm her DNA but, in the same breath, her mother sounds like she was playing games. “She’s yours” this week but next week “this ain’t even your child.” It’s trifling hood behavior and she really only has her parents to blame for that missing piece of her life. No one else.
I myself am an aunt who has a brother who has several kids that he isn’t taking care of. It becomes A LOT to deal with. The first two of my brother’s kids, we helped pick up the slack. But when you come around with baby 3, 4, 5 etc and he isn’t pitching in financially but expecting his extended family to support HIS kids, it’s way too much. Our family told my brother that if he had any more children we would not be pitching in financially and that he would have to figure it out. Sure enough baby momma number 3 and 4 popped up on our doorsteps with their hands out. We have nothing more to give. When folks are laying down y’all need to start asking yourselves these questions: do I want to pro create with this man/woman? If I do, can I afford these kids if my partner isn’t there? How many kids does my partner currently have? Is he/she a good father/mother to those kids etc? The women my brother impregnated knew he had 2 kids and no job to care for these children yet they decided to have kids with him anyways. At this point, y’all need to figure it out and stop expecting extended family members (who also have their own kids, homes and bills) to help you raise your children. I feel sorry for people like the young lady on the show but folks cannot take away from their own homes and kids because your mother and father are irresponsible. It is what it is 🤷🏾♀️
Thank you for coming to my Tedx Talk 😌😂
😂😂😂Your “Ted Talk” was spot on!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽
Karma you are the best “don’t turn red flag green”🤔
❤️
If we would think about our extended families, we'd make better decisions, socially and financially. Your power is in your family. Dont let anything or anybody including yourself, drive you away from kin.
Baby, your Ted talk was IT!
Sad that she had to be as strong as she says she is. She deserved better than the trauma that caused her to build the coping strategy of "strong".
Hope Shameka is happy now. Don’t rush into any new relationship. Have fun with your freedom.
Kyla has such a beautiful spirit. I hope she gets what she needs from her dad
He showed absolutely no emotion when those test results were read….
How are you going to tell someone how to be emotional?
He kept saying he didn't need the test because he already knew. Seems like he's just not an emotional person at all
I like the update this girl deserves so much better.
Rejected is hard to heal
When she mentioned she's strong, I Don't always want to be strong, I rather being weak with her Dad I FELLLLLLLLLT that so deeply!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think Tyrelle was like I told them all along that is why he didn't jump up. I know he was the father he was just too sure
He didn't get up because she was still beating him up so hard
I love this man of God @Karamo❤
As a man he left, but as a concerned father you find out the truth. Stop making excuses.
Exactly. As a man, I hate when other men make these lame excuses.
Awwww!! Both episodes were wholesome and the last one almost made me tear up 🥲
It's the mother's fault. No mother must not know the father of their child unless they were ' molested '. Period!
Well, if their whores and sleeping with multiple men, then the chances of not knowing who the father is. It's increased. There are no good reasons to not know who fathered a child. The only excuse is being violated, like you said. Any other reason is a bad choice. Smh
I understand why she has anger, but i think she needs to direct some of that anger at her MOM!!!
I understand that the man did wrong, but the mother is also very wrong for telling the man that she wasn't his child. The mother should have been there to hear it😢
She has to believe him yet he was never there. How can she believe what she couldn’t see or feel.
Excuses, excuses stop making them- you’ve made them for 32 years. You say” you should have trusted me” .. Just be real with yourself and say you were not there and don’t blame anyone else. Your daughter is willing to forgive you, please be there for her. Stay Blessed🙏😊
It was a different time and when a woman tells a man that the chuld is not his what is he supposed to do? Its different for black men when the police are called. Forcing his way into a situation can be deadly. I feel for the young lady but her mom told him she wasn't his!
Beautiful young lady. This type of history is ugly & constantly repeating itself. I had the pleasure of mentoring a young lady whose mother would call her very ugly names & wouldn't tell her who her father was. Her mother & the father promised they would never tell until he dies. He died when she was 18 years old. I grew up with both of her parents. I had no idea. Their little secret really damaged their daughter. She's 36 years old and had been through so much. If you're going to enjoy the pleasure, enjoy the consequences. Children deserve so much more. 😮
Wow! How incredibly selfish they were. I hope she can eventually heal! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
He knew that was his daughter.... and did nothing. He claimed the son, but not her. This is the weirdest case I've ever heard. This man could have had all his sisters and her cousins embracing her. Jesus
Her mom is responsible for all this! She cant be mad as she is the cause of this! She should draw some her emotions and anger to her mom😮
Tyrelle is the perfect example, of a deadbeat father!!!!!!
I'm glad she had the DNA closure and I hope he comes around more. He reminds me of my brother. In fact looks just like him. My brother was non emotional like him but he love his children. My brother and family had to go through almost the same situation. He impregnated this girl who family had bad blood for generations like the Hatfields & McCoys. Their family murdered some of my relatives and my family murdered some of theirs as well. So her family moved her out of town to give birth and raise her child with other relatives. One day she visited back and her grandparents had my niece in the grocery store. My auntie who didn't not play had to chase them down in the aisle to look at that child. They hurried up and left the store. At the time I didn't know what was happening because I was young. There was a big age gap between me and my brother. My aunt told me that was was your niece and she said it's a damn shame people hold grudges this long.
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If the mom tells you ain’t the father go on about your business
I don't know the outcome but I'm wondering why she holding the aunt so accountable. She haven't said anything about her mom allowing her to call some other guy dad for years and not going force him into a dna test.
Karamo, God bless you. You are so kind to others. Blessings Karamo.
I’m sorry but is her mom not around anymore ? Because all this misdirected anger towards the aunt don’t make sense . Your mom suppose to be involved with helping you solve this situation because she the reason you are here . Your dad also has a hand in it because he knows if he slept with your mom there’s a possibility simple as that . 🤷🏾♀️
When the results came in he just sat there like….and
This is ridiculous. That man had ZERO, ABSOLUTELY no rights to assert himself. He wasn't on the birth certificate, mom said he wasn't the father, so save all that anger & accountability for Mom.
Mom was the one sleeping with 2 friends.
I think the father didn’t get up because he knew all along that she was his
The baby around the corner…. I love her and the dad
I don't know if she will ever be able to move forward with her dad and heal. I think she gonna keep rehashing him not being there and he gonna fall back again.
I love Karamo😂 great ending to that daughter father situation
She was being very rude and immature towards the auntie
I can't stand these adults keeping secrets..it is a generational curse. Start being open, transparent, and honest!! Too much cruddiness...
The first episode sort of annoyed me, for the simple fact that it’s so many excuses, but not a lot of accountability. She can’t be mad at the aunt nor anybody else but her MOTHER and FATHER, they laid down and conceived you, they made that decision, they are the only ones who owe you any explanation. I’m glad she can heal that part of her, but baby, it ain’t auntie fault.
You know it’s VERY unfortunate that couples change when children are involved but WOMEN PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE whatever the situation be honest with your children about who their fathers are, allow them to see them regardless if they have moved on, as long as the other person is not harming them, and don’t use your kids as pawns. CHILDREN NEED THEIR FATHERS!!!
When the father didnt get up to hug his daughter I was sick and I know she was too
Thanks for pointing that out Karamo
All these people look alike. Glad you find your daddy. We all make mistakes, change your thinking and you all will change your lives and move on to a better things.
If the mom said his were not the father, how did he get a picture?
The Auntie didn't lay down with them, and it wasn't her responsibility to reach out. She couldn't make her brother do anything, and she didn't have to take care of her! Sorry not sorry!
Yes! She said “I am strong but, I’m tired of being strong!!!
filming the divorce is hilarious to me but they needed it bad😭😭
Chimeka good hearted she deserves better uncle karamo 💯always
Woo I like the end.ill tell my Dad he eill beat u up 😅she truly missed it.Thx karamo
Shemecka in the end reminds me of Jaimey fox heart throb “fancy” from his show.
This guy wason here before arguing with his 34 y.o. gay son over how he was treated by his father.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois
I hope he do what he says. Glad she found her dad.
He didn't look thrilled when the results were read.
You are a good woman cause girl I could never forgive a man and his family for abandoning me. They are so cold-blooded stayed right around the corner from you. You don't need them tell them give you the picture that was worth more then them being involved in your life sad
They are are not cold blooded people
Kylar kept on referring to him as DAD even before the results
Everyone talking over each other isn’t helping at all.
Baby b mad atcha momma
Exactly!!!
YES!
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Um no! She needs to be mad at both her Mom and Dad.
Her aunt was in the way Karomo, you are so critical of her Father he didn't get to speak. I've never met my father, and I am 56. But if it ever happens, I would listen to him. They woman and Karomo just attacked him. Never heard his side and details of why he did what he did. He was a kid.
I think all aunties we should be as concerned as she is
Speaking together at once irritates me
Where’s her mom
Nobody listening to the gentelmam...he said the mkther said he was not the father
She is so sweet❤
He's full of it, he knew that was his daughter. If he wanted to see her, he could've went to court to fight for visitation and make a real effort, instead of excuses. He's a deadbeat.
I’m so happy for her and I got very emotional (in both positive and less positive ways while in my own healing process) when she said “I wanna be able to say- ima call my daddy and he gon’ beat you up!” I couldn’t feel that hit me any harder than it did.
Getting this kind of closure and sense of a true fatherly figure and shoulder to lean on, is a dream and seeing this happen for someone else gives my own inner child a bit of healing and I hope more people get to have this kind of closure for themselves.
That father aint bout to do nothing he saying right now lmaooo
Tyrell is still learning to express his emotions.