It’s not just dating relationships as is shown here. This is affecting all forms of human interaction. Relationships with your employer, friends, doctor, lover, and everyone else. Every relationship that is not paying off we cut bait and go somewhere else.
the thing is... the guys with experience with female attraction, the ones who girls have always wanted since puberty , know girls are the players. Its when we call them out for it is when their view on him changes, they will project all of who they are onto him and say thats him. While the guy is actually trying to move on while waiting for her to apologize and change. But they dont change...thats us projecting who we are onto them. You gotta know who you are so they cant make excuses , thats when they realize they cant replace you
Why would girls be able to be players when they have no game? Seems you are enabling their game to be easy while making yours hard on yourself, why would you do that?
@@jackdaniels9019 basically the female can only really change when she takes on the traits of the man. She'll call you a player cus she knows other woman instinctually are attracted to you too just like you and every other guy is desiring that female too and if you say youre not that then she changes to believing , youre not that. If you act like a slut she takes on those traits, if you are superior and humble and embody that character , she will do the same. You act unsure and constantly thinking youre unworthy she will feel unsure and unworthy and then you act insecure and she takes on that trait. its like looking into a mirror, whatever you project has a reflection. She also is projecting so you have to be mindful what you reflect back because it happens so quick and they are evolutionary more adapted to this emotional play. you might not realize what youre reflecting back is not who you really are its them or what you think they would want to hear instead of what turns them on which is who you are and say and do and hence not what they first saw in you that they chose you for. Thats why i say they are the players , because in their eyes youre the hoe or the guy next door theyve had a crush on you just have to be a good choice and be aware of what needs projected and reflected back. basically put yourself in their shoes because we are always trying to impose onto them and they know this early on but men experience this and instinctually know it, but we dont rationalize it and learn it till after ,depending how lucky / hurt theyve gotten in the bond. There are dudes out there that are whipped and their lady plays them and they wouldnt even know because she is such a good player, but then a guy on that same level encounters her mirroring can break the whole thing apart because then , she finally feels seen. That is the excitement these woman are talking about, its just they havnt met guys on that same lvl of experience. everyone has a past its just when some learn it they opt out of the game and refocus their mirror on themselves to maintain dignity because it gets degenerate and what you deserve changes into who you are projecting. Most dont realize how far gone they are. It is difficult to understand and idk if i made it easier lol but the main thing is to think of yourself as a mirror reflecting because that will bring the partner you desire to project to you. Thats how you get them to chase you and only project who you really are for them to be who they really are, thats chemistry. Or if you want to be a player and not care how they play you you can project whatever persona you think they want. thats game. So if you know who their persona truly is and not their projection and you know yourself... you can realize you are simply a better character than them and therefore the best they could get at any time because remember...its a mirror.
"these guys are on a clock and IF THEY KNEW THAT" admitting that too many women do not know how to communicate to save their lives. "You should just know".....
I know women in relationships right now that message me just about every day. Nost if them are with them because of habit, comfortable and do t wanna start over but live the attention from other men
Maybe he's done too, and he's just hoping you leave. Like what's taking so long? There's the door; don't let it hit you in the you-know-what on the way out. Bye!
Pretty simple solution. Give her enough space to pursue you and meet you half way. If she refuses to make an effort and insists that you treat her like an entitled princess, then you know the score. Walk away.
Why would I give a fuk if a relationship is I choose you and you choose me. Feelings come and go and come again yet you focus on the relationship. Mature girls know this. Shity girls give this advices. If you can’t be yourself in a relationship, obviously improving consistently, then that relationship isn’t worth it.
Willingly or not, she's talking about monotony in a relationship. When you stop being mysterious and she can see all there is to you and it doesn't match the fantasy she had about you, she bails. This is why you never, NEVER, should EVER share a flat with a woman if you want her interested long term but you don't want a family with her. You've to make your pressence wanted and yearned. If you are always around, you're just another dude.
It’s like you’re just always stalling for the inevitable moment when stops and goes “Oh, I got him figured out now. This is my cue to pull back.” And when she pulls back that’s my cue to leave.
OPTIONS. There is no mystical super secret reason.. her options are bad, she's staying until she has a potential better. It's not rocket science. Why are you at your current job... Because you are stuck for options. You would leave for a better paying job with more freedom if you had the choice. We are all out for variety.
Why would she be able to generate options without value to attract them? Before you say “they’re given value and we arent”, that is the entire issue I am pointing out here
It’s this attitude that is causing Civilization to take a nose dive. Intimate relationships/marriages are not jobs. It’s a life-long commitment involving feelings and a mutual respect between partners for the purpose of raising stable nuclear families and a healthy society.
Seriously fellas, if you don't realise it by now then you'll probably never understand, but the only conclusion that we can come to from this video is to NEVER GET MARRIED. A woman's feelings can change at any time. She can get the ick over any small thing, and that means that she will eventually check out. Then you are headed to an expensive divorce.
never chase women, only chase your ambition and potential
That’s logical
It’s not just dating relationships as is shown here. This is affecting all forms of human interaction. Relationships with your employer, friends, doctor, lover, and everyone else. Every relationship that is not paying off we cut bait and go somewhere else.
They always leave you for another man, doesnt matter what they say
the thing is... the guys with experience with female attraction, the ones who girls have always wanted since puberty , know girls are the players. Its when we call them out for it is when their view on him changes, they will project all of who they are onto him and say thats him. While the guy is actually trying to move on while waiting for her to apologize and change. But they dont change...thats us projecting who we are onto them. You gotta know who you are so they cant make excuses , thats when they realize they cant replace you
Very difficult to understand
Why would girls be able to be players when they have no game? Seems you are enabling their game to be easy while making yours hard on yourself, why would you do that?
@@jackdaniels9019 basically the female can only really change when she takes on the traits of the man. She'll call you a player cus she knows other woman instinctually are attracted to you too just like you and every other guy is desiring that female too and if you say youre not that then she changes to believing , youre not that. If you act like a slut she takes on those traits, if you are superior and humble and embody that character , she will do the same. You act unsure and constantly thinking youre unworthy she will feel unsure and unworthy and then you act insecure and she takes on that trait. its like looking into a mirror, whatever you project has a reflection. She also is projecting so you have to be mindful what you reflect back because it happens so quick and they are evolutionary more adapted to this emotional play. you might not realize what youre reflecting back is not who you really are its them or what you think they would want to hear instead of what turns them on which is who you are and say and do and hence not what they first saw in you that they chose you for. Thats why i say they are the players , because in their eyes youre the hoe or the guy next door theyve had a crush on you just have to be a good choice and be aware of what needs projected and reflected back. basically put yourself in their shoes because we are always trying to impose onto them and they know this early on but men experience this and instinctually know it, but we dont rationalize it and learn it till after ,depending how lucky / hurt theyve gotten in the bond. There are dudes out there that are whipped and their lady plays them and they wouldnt even know because she is such a good player, but then a guy on that same level encounters her mirroring can break the whole thing apart because then , she finally feels seen. That is the excitement these woman are talking about, its just they havnt met guys on that same lvl of experience. everyone has a past its just when some learn it they opt out of the game and refocus their mirror on themselves to maintain dignity because it gets degenerate and what you deserve changes into who you are projecting. Most dont realize how far gone they are. It is difficult to understand and idk if i made it easier lol but the main thing is to think of yourself as a mirror reflecting because that will bring the partner you desire to project to you. Thats how you get them to chase you and only project who you really are for them to be who they really are, thats chemistry. Or if you want to be a player and not care how they play you you can project whatever persona you think they want. thats game. So if you know who their persona truly is and not their projection and you know yourself... you can realize you are simply a better character than them and therefore the best they could get at any time because remember...its a mirror.
@@jackdaniels9019 Don’t put women on a pedestal and learn to see them for who they really are.
@@OnderHassan Thank man, appreciate it
"these guys are on a clock and IF THEY KNEW THAT" admitting that too many women do not know how to communicate to save their lives. "You should just know".....
I know women in relationships right now that message me just about every day. Nost if them are with them because of habit, comfortable and do t wanna start over but live the attention from other men
Pierre my goodness your analysis and articulation is extremely profound. Wow your depth is next level. Do you have a background in sociology?
Maybe he's done too, and he's just hoping you leave. Like what's taking so long? There's the door; don't let it hit you in the you-know-what on the way out. Bye!
We should apply the same concept to them, and lets see how they act
Pretty simple solution. Give her enough space to pursue you and meet you half way. If she refuses to make an effort and insists that you treat her like an entitled princess, then you know the score. Walk away.
Why would I give a fuk if a relationship is I choose you and you choose me. Feelings come and go and come again yet you focus on the relationship. Mature girls know this. Shity girls give this advices. If you can’t be yourself in a relationship, obviously improving consistently, then that relationship isn’t worth it.
2:38 this why should we even bother
"Guys on the clock?" She's running the clock. So shes blaming the guy for running against a game clock they don't see.
Willingly or not, she's talking about monotony in a relationship. When you stop being mysterious and she can see all there is to you and it doesn't match the fantasy she had about you, she bails. This is why you never, NEVER, should EVER share a flat with a woman if you want her interested long term but you don't want a family with her. You've to make your pressence wanted and yearned. If you are always around, you're just another dude.
Facts
It’s like you’re just always stalling for the inevitable moment when stops and goes “Oh, I got him figured out now. This is my cue to pull back.” And when she pulls back that’s my cue to leave.
If you have to go to that extent just to maintain her interest in a relationship then you’re wasting your time. Recreational use only.
OPTIONS. There is no mystical super secret reason.. her options are bad, she's staying until she has a potential better. It's not rocket science. Why are you at your current job... Because you are stuck for options. You would leave for a better paying job with more freedom if you had the choice. We are all out for variety.
Why would she be able to generate options without value to attract them? Before you say “they’re given value and we arent”, that is the entire issue I am pointing out here
It’s this attitude that is causing Civilization to take a nose dive.
Intimate relationships/marriages are not jobs. It’s a life-long commitment involving feelings and a mutual respect between partners for the purpose of raising stable nuclear families and a healthy society.
Not a common trait, very few girls have this stigma. 2 people meant to be, it hardly ever fails.
Not love you but how I feel about you.
Women are scared cats
Seriously fellas, if you don't realise it by now then you'll probably never understand, but the only conclusion that we can come to from this video is to NEVER GET MARRIED. A woman's feelings can change at any time. She can get the ick over any small thing, and that means that she will eventually check out. Then you are headed to an expensive divorce.