Chioma finally addresses the issues that developed between her, IYABO OJO & TOYIN LAWANI on Rholagos
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I dunno if it's just me though buh "Go and continue creating crayons" still sounds like a very badass insult to me🤣🤣🤣💔
I love it tho 🤣🤣🤣
Sorry but does Laura creates crayons?
@@simisolaadetayo8937 I think what chioma was referring to is the fact that she draws with crayons on her fashion sketch book. So indirectly, she works crayons😸
@@ChiomaTheTraveller Thank you
@@simisolaadetayo8937 Laura? Who mentioned Laura? Did you watch the show
My point of view still stand about Chioma, I admired her in the beginning but she's just a basic girl that lacks emotional intelligence from the way she handled the conflict between her, Laura, Carolyn. She no do well.
Naaa she's just a mean girl
@@sonaodafen688 well both said
Stop blaming Chioma, Carolyn is the bad one let's he clear
I don’t know y people don’t get that Chioma was not raised in Nigeria, she will express herself anyway she feels like and she’s still one of the realest on that show. Her definition of friendship is different from the next person’s. All of u shud go n focus on ur focus
@@aamialee3075 that you're not raised in Nigeria doesn't mean you should lack EQ. We're not talking about cultural differences, we're talking about character.
I agree with Chioma totally.
The drama , housewife of Lagos had no moral lessons at all.
They only flaunted women who were rude proud and silly.
I agree with Chioma here. There is a difference between a friend, an associate, and best friend. There’s a difference.
She studied in the uk, I have kids here in the uk, they says it as it is. You can not call someone that is not close to you your friend. They are programmed that way.
A big difference just learnt that now
And a client. 😅🤣😂
@@chiomachinedo2860 yes big difference & very important to set boundaries on certain ppl who want to perceives as your friend & get in your business, privacy is really important !
As a Nigerian who was raised in England, you just don't go around calling anybody your friend and we are use to expressing our feelings, she is just being real.
Yes I love chioma😊😊
I watched the show and it was the tone with which she said "she's not my friend" and the face she made with it. You can make a blunt statement and soften it with a smile. She was very blunt with a mean face! Laura was understandably hurt. As someone who grew up in the UK, she should also have learnt how the Brits are so good at giving subtle insults with a smile plastered on their face😊
Her energy is somehow lol ….she isn’t for everyone but the people she’s for will appreciate her for who she is.
The queen of Focus on your Focus 😂😂😂😂
In our country, everyone throws the word “friend” around loosely. You meet someone once, and they immediately call you friend. An acquaintance is NOT your friend. If you haven’t been to mine and we haven’t done intimate things, you are NOT my friend. Chioma rest biko you are not in the wrong. Laura has insecurity issues, she thinks dancing alone in front of strangers is the same as facing strong women. As for Toyin, her crayons are a disaster, everything about her is a disaster. But CHIOMA this is a tiny bit hypocritical, haven’t you seen any of the HOUSEWIFE franchises? It’s DRAMAAAAAA ALL THE WAY. People don’t watch housewives or big brother to be inspired. Girl now you need to focus on YOOOOUR focus. Still love you
Dyggg DRAMA is the content of all these reality shows
spot on, not everyone is a friend. Chioma is a star.
Focus on your focus, lol.
Still Love Toyin though
Where is ur stand chiona, only u talk say Toyin dey spoil Laura fashion show..why do u hv inferiority complex or pepper body nd always wants to be heard ..only say Carolyn say ..Are u not tired ok f talking.
I guess she did too much and wasn't natural or bn herself
That show is a No No for me ...Toxic.
Come on Chioma that was an insult.. continue Creaton crayons was definitely a shade..so if you are going to insult someone please own it up with your full chest...
It's like telling her to continue selling GOAT HAIR/MEAT as a shade to her hair/food business! Chioma, be humble!
Watching this interview, I respect how men would just meet for the first time and call themselves brothers. It wouldn't have hurt Chioma to generalize this notion of friendship and see Laura as her friend if they had been somewhat friends online in the first place. Where does her high notion of friendship leave her with Carolyne? It's lack of people skills and this putting up a cold front that is lacking in emotions as a lawyer makes you less endearing to what real friendship requires. She acted like a secondary school girl being cold to Laura because Laura wasn't cool with Carolyn. Inherited beef is not one of the qualities of a good lawyer. At the end of the day, she is not really friends with Iyabo and definitely not friends with Toyin. Iyabo is more of Toyin's friend than she will ever be. Remember at the beginning when Iyabo and Toyin were eating together; they mocked your accent. Chioma and Carolyn are cut from the same cloth. She has no similarities with Iyabo. She is alone. Identifying Laura as a friend is having an ally. Something you learn in politics.
Did you really watch the show ?
U are damn right. I like Chioma o even tho Laura was doing too much at some point, Chioma did not handle the situation well and I didn't like how they all treated Laura.
Chioma was the youngest but she tried handling everything, Carolyn did not end up being what chioma expected , I love chioma and I still choose chioma , iyabo and toyin as my favorite housewives
Women should lift their fellow woman. Just disgusted by the lack of emotion displayed on the show. Let love lead
I personally was so disgusted at the show. I learnt nothing from it than me running more far away from our women. If this is what women called been friends I truly will continue to keep to myself .
Exactly
It’s just showbiz. I’ve never watched it though.
You don’t need to learn just watch and enjoy common
Real housewives don’t teach you anything. You watch for the drama, didn’t you hear her say they didn’t even know who will be on the show? They where not friends.
The Real House Wife franchise is very chaotic
Chioma does not need to explain herself about the whole friendship saga with Laura
I am not against anyone oh, but Chioma your makeup and hair is too fake, I think you over do this makeup thing and the hair feels like it doesn't move freely, too layed down fake. I use to like Chioma in the beginning of the show- now I am observing, loved her relationship with Carolyn, but after they dragged Carolyn under the bus, it shocked me. Why do people overly makeup? We are all created prefect, lets learn to love our natural looks and hair please.
Madam So the hair on ur dp is it yours😂😂💀💀
@@ayvocals3048 don't mind her, this is the sign when hater just want to criticize you for no reason
@@ayvocals3048 🤣😩
Shhhhh… you’re making a noise. BHOD
This is my business page- so the photo is of a model - that's not me.
She lacks emotional intelligence.
A lot
how?? They aren’t friends so what’s the problem
@@damilola2365 Emotional and Social Intelligence is what makes a transformational leader. Because she runs businesses, she is seen as a leader by younger people she employs. Her countenance on the shows reunion could have been void of any shady comment.
I didn't watch the show because it was just exhuming toxicity..... l don't know how people enjoy/get entertained with roughness, razzness, fights, guile,... nah not for me....
As in erh
Gaslighting way too much. Own the truth girl, this is pathetic.
Please those of you saying its nothing but negativity biko don't watch haba
The show was nothing but extreme negativity
Chioma can never go wrong in my eyes 🥺🥺🥺
I could spend a whole day watching her speak ❤️❤️
I love you Chi 😘😘
I love you for this😊😊
Exactly, that showed put out a lot of negativity
You are loved, Queen.
Chioma grow up in that space of affluence so she thinks and behaves as such. I don't fault her for actually wanting some more interactive activities before she can tag you a friend. We can seat here and blame her for stuff it won't just change the fact that all ladies were messy and drove a disappointing narrative of the show
I don't even think it's about the space of affluence cuz some people are just naturally cautious and guarded like me for example I don't throw the word 'friend' around loosely. There's a lot it takes for you to be my friend
Which affluence? Basic london street girl lol
I stopped watching the show when there was a fight and Laura wished Iyabo untimely death. I would never support or follow Laura. She is gross. I am not a fan of Chioma but I respect her hustle. Her best friend needs to stop the surgeries and get help for dismorphia.
Well I thank God I didn't waste time, data and energy watching some children in adult body fight. E for pain me well well
🙄🙄🙄🙄 I’m not going back on my opinion about Chioma after all that she displayed on the real house wives show. She was someone that I thought had “herself put together” but she knocked herself out of my list of classy and empowered young ladies on social media.
My opinion!
Na you be Character Supervising Chairman of the Federal Republic of Nigeria (CSCFRN) ni..... Hiiaaa ooo we Nigerians shaa, okwu anyi na adikwa egwu sometimes 😏
I would hope you don't judge people based on your assumptions.
@@ChiomaTheTraveller 👏👏👏
@@ChiomaTheTraveller 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
I agree, loved her on Instagram, hated her on the show. She’s a mean girl😒
Chioma and her fake life... you where on twitter at age 11 mstcheeeew
Why don’t you just admit you can’t hear proper pronunciations!!! She said Lebanon not 11.
Even me shock too 😃 🤣. AUNTY no hear Lebanon. She hear 11
I like Chioma and the way she expresses herself. Without a lie detector, you can tell she is saying the truth.
After watching season 2, I can't understand how Chioma was not able to relate to what Faith was saying about how the other cast members were pressurising the friendship between Faith and Laura also.
Wooow she own brass and chooper
Love her
Chioma does no wrong in my eyes.❤️❤️❤️❤️
Me too, she’s a solid chick.
I hope you don't have her death fish eyes 😂😂😂😂😂
Aswear..
So friendship constitutes talking on the phone and hanging out together,… this girl thinks too highly of herself, that’s all I gather.
Yes
Yes, that's what friendship constitutes. There's a difference between a friend and an acquaintance. Normalise differentiating the 2.
Yes
@@doreenyong1483 #preach
That's so not true about her being full of herself. She's right cos in real sense, how can there be friendship without these ingredients especially in this century? Especially not talking on phone, where's the friendship then? Think and think well
I love Chioma and I admire her 😊 she's the longest of all of them
Well she's just being herself
It was only necessary that she speak her mind about toyin, laura and Carolyn
I have a thousand and one people wearing same dress! What going on?
Honestly chipmaker is an inspiration to me as a lady
And honestly she is too classy for the show
Chioma is very pretty 😍
Love her
Why is ur videos always short
She has class and a lot of it.
❤❤❤❤ I love her
Chioma u inspired me to work soooo hard and not depend on a man for money but to make my money, look beautiful and then I will pick any man I want.
This narrative always makes me laugh, you guys act like you are the only ones 'working' and people that collect money from men don't. I am a working class lady and still reaches out for assistant when needed, it not a depend matter, why would a man date you without spending on you? na wa ooo.
@@aniduaisha6620 Tell them
Love her always
Her accent always gets me
Wat r u wearing now?
Chommy love, i love you girl 😘😘😘😘😘
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Chioma Ikokwu is so beautiful aahhh!🤗🤎 I've never seen her makeup free buh I can bet she has greattt facial skin, the freshness is on another level💯🧡....