@@ladusingh2141 leave india go to Islamic country try to burn their national flag ? Go to any other country try to ruin that country’s native culture u will get to know what going to happen to u If u are so disappointed with india simple solution move to Pakistan Vande matram 🇮🇳
I returned to India as a US citizen after being abroad for 20 odd years. One thing I would recommend is that don't judge others, make your own decisions. One place is not better than the other. It all depends on multiple factors and where you are in life, what is your priority etc. Above all, have courage to take decisions. Don't sit on the fence for too long otherwise, life will pass by. I moved back primarily to spend more time with parents and experience India's rich spiritual traditions. It's so worth it. Jahan bhi raho, khush raho....and don't compare. You are unique and you need to make your own decisions.
Can it be called "returning" or just making the best of all the worlds one can get ?? Atleast one can appreciate you revealed you are not an Indian. Others like this video maker and several in comments are creating a false sense (i say fooling) of "returning" without telling if they surrendered GC and citizenship or not. Hiding this can only be for one obvious reason, otherwise they would have shown Indian passport from a roof top.
"Seeing their reaction we almost made out decision "is the most important line in your video. The best thing u could do for your parents is return home. They dont want your expensive gifts they just want you around
My cousin and her husband moved back to India from the US and live in Goa. It will take brave people to move back to India, after living in a society which is so different. Indians have too many children and their culture does not change much wherever they go. It is about money. Most Indians who manage to immigrate have language, skills and money.
Your story is so much inspiring, leaving a settled career and lifestyle of 11 years and suddenly transition to different lifestyle. You need courage to do something like that. Hats Off to you. I also lived in US . But, I wasn't able to adjust myself there. After 2-3 months of moving in US, I started feeing lonely. I didn't had any friend and relatives there during my bad times and my health started deteriorating. One day I called my maa and said I am coming back to India. She was like happiest person on the earth. And, then after 6 month living in US I came back to India. For me life in US was good but not the life I wanted to live. Now I am really happy with my decision.
Thank you for sharing your story, @Asmit Singh. What you did also needs immense courage! I am so glad you are happy now and have no regrets about coming back. Good luck!
I can imagine the happiness of your mother when she heard that you are coming back.. Mostly it's the old parents who suffer the most when young children leave them for settling in Canada, australia, usa etc... In my area (Haryana and Punjab) people are crazy for leaving India to go to Canada, Australia .. It's so depressing to see their old parents left behind crying most of the times specially mothers when they miss their sons daughters... Even if parents go to foreign after 4-5 years most of them come back after spending 2-3 months most of them saying " Wahan mann nhi lagta" because there is no one to talk with them ... It's a kind of disguised slavery specially in Canada which noone talks ( I know these thinks because my brother is there )😔
Love your story. I lived in US for 40 plus years and decision to go back home (Thailand) is very difficult. I went to school in India too for 10 yrs and love India too. I am glad you make up your mind. Most of our relatives are here in US and we live in the same town. We visit Thailand every other year for vacation. As we get older traveling like that will end soon. Glad to hear your story.
Welcome back to India Ma'am 🇮🇳❤️ I hope you and you're family are enjoying back here in India! 😊 So glad to know that people are returning back to India happily! 😊🇮🇳
I moved back India in 2018 after spending 6 years in US, I lived in India for 4 years and returned back to USA. I feel usa gives you better job opportunities, great weather, quality of life
USA may give u all these things in life. But u willn’t have the sense of belonging when u live in a foreign country. U are missing out on living with parents, among your own people and above all that divine energy that you experience in India. At the end, it is a matter of priorities.
India gives u better opportunity if you are from top colleges, India doesn't tolerate mediocrity. So, if one is from average college it's better to move out anyways
@Rishabh Shah, thank you! You are in a different phase of life right now though. I'd say enjoy it to the core, learn new things, go out, explore the world, explore the people, explore the culture. When you're done doing these, and the pull toward the motherland becomes stronger, you can always make a decision at that time. Good luck!
Thanks for sharing and you presented the reasons for you to move back to India very well. I have to admire the bold decision you took rather than wavering. As a working woman, I have to admire that you are bringing up two children and thus you give importance to family values. Most married Indian Professionals are limiting to one child these days. Hindu TFR going down to 1.5 or lower shall adversely affect demographics like in China and Europe in a decade. I had health and career problems in my late 20's to 30's as I finished PhD only at age 34 and then children's births were delayed but we still have two children. We could not relocate to India as I settled down in life only by late 40's as I had additional burden to financially support my parents and siblings in India but we are able to bring up our children in USA with Hindu values and family values.
we recently moved to US at the age of 45 for our sons education. And its been very hard for us. One advantage I got is I found a job here .My parents are dead so I am not missing India .I miss Indian food and weather.
u forgot forefathers who shed blood in india so selfish desicion i am so proud to be indian i wana die here❤ our forefathers fought so much for this land kindly broaden your view and come back happy to your native country
Excellent Prerna.idea of sharing this experience is itself a great 👍. It’s a mejor decision. It is definitely useful to many people thinking of shifting . Very nicely explained
We got a chance to move to US. Initially like every other person we were also thrilled to get such an opportunity. But we thought and worked it out a lot in our minds. Finally decided not to go. It was really tough to take such a decision. We wanted to be close with our parents and families whenever they needed.
Here my husband left to US in nov, we will be joining him in a month or two . My bro left to US in feb 1st week. I lost my father during my graduation..my mom has been living alone from past 15 yrs coz of our studies, marriage and jobs...this guilt is killing me
@@ladusingh2141 India is very much safe. This is the reason why BOTS and Pakis like you are able to spread carnad. Never heard if a church being burnt. Yes, heard of a Hindu girl child ( in Andhra Pradesh) committing suicide when her matron, Christian nun was trying force her to give up Hinduism and adopt Christianity.
We are both uk citizens and have one 6yo son. We are happy in our life. But Hume always india attracts karta he, especially our indian lifestyle, food, morning evening walk, weather and functions. Me gujarati hu. Cralwey city me hamre bahot se relatives he lekin unki lifestyle bahot hi struggled and below the basic rahi he. Matlab logo ne whole life ek hi kaam karne me nikal di. No outing, no restaurant, no function, no gathering, bas kaam kaam kaam and sit home when get retired. Muje esa nahi karna. Muje apne logo me rehna pasand he. Hum 2019 me one year ke liye ahmedabad move huye the. Acha raha one year lekin kyu bas vapis aa gaye. I want to live in india.But sochta hoon kese himmat kare. Ghar he, business he, sab leave kese kare. 😊
Welcome to India. We are happy that you joined us. You have taken right decision at the right time. There is lots of happiness, joy hidden in your life which you will explore in near future. I know you can' t go back to US the situation will be worst then. I an sure you have shared some of your experiences in US but not all the negative part. Thank you so much.
After 41 years in USA, will go back to India and move into my new custom made house currently under construction with all modern facilities including solar panels etc! Spend retired life there!,
how about your children sir, they must be grown ups now and most likely will not come to india. This is also my plan, but in a dilemma to stay away from children (who will by then will not move out of US)
Many plans this way, coz it’s difficult to survive during old age, it’s difficult to drive during health emergency. Your kids won’t be around…. Difficult to manage your household in your 80s, moving snow, move your lawns, payment towards mortgages etc etc ( just to pay home tax people work in their old age in US) . list goes on. So few r smart enough to move back to home country so that they get to live life like a king n queen size. Coz they can afford all workers. 😂 Many hidden stuff which we never know. 😅 I worked, stayed here n got relatives who lived many years and they don’t want to move back but they know the reality of their old age. Still America is fantasy to so many. But as a women I feel our kids must grow in our country and learn our culture more than being behind money all the time. It’s the fact….
Thanks for sharing your story me and my husband just recently moved back from USA to India in 2023 January this year. It was also tough decision for us as I am in middle of my pregnancy and so we moved because of my health not being well there and had no help from parents or anywhere else. But seeing your story makes me feel that we will also settle down nicely in India slowly as time moves and will be happy
@@ladusingh2141 its getting worse better dont come bk or we all will rape your wife multiple times a day and make viral videos So yes better stay abroad annd be safe man
It’s so surprising that all the people in the comment section hating on her seems so negative and sad while people who are supporting her decision seems so welcoming and loving! That explains a lot
The comment section is filled with so much haters and critics like who the hell are these people to judge someone? Its her life. Leave her alone. If she wants to live in India great and not wanted to in USA it is her right and her life. I have many family members who live abroad. I know domestic help is not an issue for anyone. My uncle even purchased this huge property, yet he moved back because his mother died last year in February, he got into three brain surgeries, then lockdown in India happened and his dad has to move to his sister's place who herself had a newborn grandchild and let just say his father and his brother-in-law could not adjust under same roof. Look long story short his parents never wanted to move from India and for approximately twenty five years he stayed abroad now that their were family problems arising he moved back this year to India. I am saying that everyone has personal issues they don't want to share. Some people are happy to let their parents stay in elderly homes some don't.
Castism is major problem uncle... All the upper caste eat and get wealthy from West ... And after being Rich... Reminder of India struck to their Mind... Can't you see discrimination cause Racial abuse, Castism, gender bias mentality
India at top because of inequality... All the rich people sewer even today get cleaned up by Dalits... Even today.. and you think people should take lightly comments on maid etc...
Kudos to your family for this decision. I moved back to India after 13 yrs in US. You won't regret the move and you haven't mentioned the social issues of US. Second gen Indians ending up not married, late marriage, interracial marriage, too independent and getting lost, high divorce rate, step parenting etc.., our kids don't have to go through all that non sense. Think about these too if you want to move back to US. I believe Indian parents inadvertently pawned the future of their children for the sake of money and comfort in US. Sad thing is the next gen has to pay the price.
@@indirachandra4329 True. But if India is bad, imagine how worse US is. It's all relative these days. Still you can bet 99% for a marriage to last long term in India verses 50% in US.
Please do not put words in my mouth I did not say that India is bad you misunderstood me. This is 21st century it is about Freedom. About marriages In India also dating living together so what is the different between US and India divorces happening India changed a lot in that aspects.
@@bennetrajendran1145 What most them won't share is the term called "woke culture". Mostly these people think they have been woken from dream and now can rise and tell other what is right and wrong.
No domestic help in US. Extremely expensive medical treatment. No freedom to change employers or do own business. Sometimes, racial abuse, especially children in school. Folks file litigation on flimsy grounds. Too many folks carry personal weapons. Moving around without own vehicle is expensive. Vegetarian food not readily available in restaurants. House rent quite high. Loneliness. If you make reasonably good amount in India, life is very comfortable for family. More comfortable than even an American earning a million dollars an year, because even that American cannot afford to hire a full time chauffeur, cook, domestic help. In India, very common for reasonably well off families to have one or more domestic help. An Indian family earning 150,000 dollars yearly is likely to hire 3 or more full time domestic help.
Agree with you on some issues you’ve mentioned; but there are few other things to consider. As you’ve said: 1) Yes, there is no freedom to move jobs or start business on H1/L1 visas, but with GC, that is possible ! Yes, I understand the waiting time for India born citizens for GC though, technically impossible under the current system which sucks ! 2) India has its advantages like domestic help, but if you see closely, getting one also has become increasingly difficult or expensive too 3) Needless to mention, major Indian cities and physical infrastructure sucks, especially in Mumbai/ Thane area and mainly in monsoon. Air pollution is the major problem here. 4) Agree about the family bonding issues as she has mentioned, but there is no way to predict that kids will continue to maintain forever when they grow( even things in India like family values are bit declining). Madam, Please do not take this as an offence or like; my personal observation. 4) Again education in India ( as per current era) is fine till grade 12th; again rat race starts post that ! Yea , her kids can circumvent that since they are American by birth! Even good quality education from KG in India is an expensive thing 5) Other issues which matter most to me are corruption, filthy roads , unregulated traffic, hooligans etc. Certain things also exist in the US or other developed nations too; I’m not denying but too minuscule to consider.
"Chauffeur, cook, domestic help" is not a valid reason to move back to India. It just reveals how people want to keep people working in such roles and refuse to bring them out of such professions. How about learning to drive and make your own food so that the chauffeur and cook can get an education and come up in life??
That's because America considers them humans and offers them a basic minimum wage. You have all the labour for cheap here because they have been traditionally oppressed. Funny thing is that you you don't even realise it.
Subscribed, I don't know how I ended up here, may be universe is helping me to take the right decision at right time, I am glad that I watched this video. Love from Dubai
Good for you ..u r lucky to have such a great family and friends back home that gave u reason to go back..I don’t have any so despite deep feelings I couldn’t make this move..but I know that we have to live with our fortune:) best wishes to u for sharing
I can see a lot of despair , regret and hopelessness behind that smile. That smile is just a fake one and definitely must have faced some problems otherwise one simply doesnt come back with these reasons.
I also agree with you. Because i had been twice in USA on visitor visa. My son is there. I would prefer USA little bit on higher side. See there is no reservations . If you are capable you have a choice for good job there. Most things liked is, 1) Self discipline. 2) Cleanliness. 3) Respect to senior citizens. 4) Respect to pedestrian . 6) Everybody is living their own lives. No interference to anyone's personal life. 8) Very good support of Police. These are some of them. This is my personal opinion. See there are always two sides of every things. One is good for me may be not good for others and vice versa. We are waiting for immigration. I would choose to move there but at present not in a position due to some responsibility of family. In fact she has taken a bold and very wise stap because her family situation and bonding. It is very very hard to come back from USA. It's require a strong self confidence.
Dude seems like you had not been outside India. It depends on individual to individual. I had seen the whole world but let me tell there is nothing like home. The kind of satisfaction and freedom I get roaming with my old friends and sitting in the winter sun on roof in my hometown is unmatchable. Now whether you are eating beef steak in mooresville or drinking beer in nuremberg, nothing can replace the aloo ka prantha and white ghar ka ghee.
In most cases wife objects going back to India even though husband is willing to go. This is my opinion as I heard many cases . Any way welcome back to India. Now with the knowledge you gained in USA ,you can start a new company which can provide lot of employment.
@@theupbeatmillennial 3 of my very close relatives & my friends experience is what I have mentioned. Reasons are 1. Wives want to escape the responsibilities of their mother in laws. 2. False prestige feeling. (They receive lot of respect as NRIs) 3.They don't want to lose comforts of developed economies. 4. Strongly feel their children will be spoiled in India. 5. They will not get good jobs back home.
@@jsmkumar2916 true 👍 two of my neighbours are in deep shit , but don't want to come back. I am looking after one of thier lonely mother, who is a widow too, my next door neighbour. What to say 🤔. Dollars are more important 🤔
India is the best place to be in always.that is for people who no matter what are loyal to India and love her for all that she is in spite of all immense hurdles placed in her path by selfish,cruel plunderers of India.these who go abroad go to enjoy the benefits these countries have made exploiting India Africa etc etc! Best to study live and work hard for your own country,India who gives you so much as against these western countries which use abuse discard you! Ask not what your country can give you,ask what you can do for your country what you can give your country,India!
You took right decision due to concern for parents as this is very rare to see nowadays. Family bonding can be of great help . Though there are many families in USA who enjoy such great bondings although they may not be a relative. Gujaratis and Patels are such community there who live like in India. All the best..
By 2026 Salary cuts will be 60% By2029 1 INR = 3 USD By 2025 Majirity NRI have settle inUAE / INDIA , but it's a Gradual process Madam , Good your destiny u came back quite early Madam
WE MADE OUR COUNTRY BEST ,WE NEVER WANT TO GO FAR AWAY FROM OUR MOTHERLAND ,WE DONOT WANT TO WASTE MONEY ,LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL EVERYWHERE ,SO WE INVEST THAT WHICH IS FOR TRAVELLING OTHER PLACES OF WORLD AND FOR ENJOYMENT ,WE SAVE THAT MONEY FOR OUR FUTURE STAYING HERE IN INDIA ONLY ,BECAUSE WE ALREADY KNOW THIS FACT BY LOGICALLY ONLY THAT WE DONOT GAIN ANYTHING MORE WHICH IS THERE IN INDIA ,SO THANK GOD TO MY DESCION , SOMETIME HUGE SEARCH AND LOGICALLY TAKING DESCION ATLEAST GIVE US SOMETHING ,THANK GOD I WAS RIGHT ON MY DESCION THAT "LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL EVERYWHERE " I DONOT THINK SO U.S.A OR ANY FOREIGN COUNTRY GIVE EVERY INDIAN ANYTHING MORE WHICH IS NOT HERE IN INDIA ,THANK GOD AGAIN AFTER SO MANY GREED OF SETTLING IN U.S.A I STICK TO MY DESCION AND DONOT WASTE MY MONEY ,AND INVEST THAT MONEY FOR MY FUTURE AND FOR MY FUTURE CHILD ❤️❤️ALWAYS I AM LUCKY PERSON 🙏THANK GOD 🙏❤️❤️✌️✌️✌️✌️
She selfishly returned to India to join film industry for fame and glamourous life she was used to live...I Bet her Son gone to study and will not come back.Also I feel whattt a waste of her husbands qualification.He is a Top Doctor/Heart Surgeon in US and now running behind her to Awards nites and cooking Pohas in his Vlogs😅😅 is a joke .Its their choice anyways but can do charuty work in India with his expertise in his field
Thank you mam for this video I m also move back India and my younger kid is 12 years older so think very penic but after your watching your video I m so happy thank you 🙏
Hi Prerna, Thanks for your detailed video! I (26 Age) am also Maharashtrian Punekar who earns better salary here as a software engineer. Just married with slightly better together family income. We dont have plan for kids for next 2 years. I have an offer from Ireland and I am still thinking on it. I wont earn good money there in Ireland but would get a chance to explore abroad with work life balance. Plus point is Ireland gives PR after 2 years. I am thinking on decision, where I will stay for 3 years there in Ireland, if everything suits there I will take my parents or comeback after 3 years with PR in hand. Why I am considering PR of Ireland is because I strongly feel that future/schooling of kids is far better there than in India. I don't have very extended huge family with us here in India, where we celebrate festivals largely. Flights from Ireland to India are also faster than US. But parents in India are heavily dependent on me. What is your thought on this, I would like to know your opinion (based on experience) if you are ok to share? Is there any medium I can discuss with you?
@lubnazeer 1966 haha. Honestly, I do NOT want to be a 'Prerna' for this reason. I am not telling anyone to come back or NOT go at all. My video series is honestly only for those who're considering moving back but are on the fence, or for those who've decided to move back and can use some extra information and assurance of how to go about it. :-)
@@theupbeatmillennial i know dozens of parents who are waiting for their children to see for many years. I feel the pain of the parents and pity for them. Those who go US dont come back Unfortunate for their families back in India
@@stampmaker9384 infrastructure/ mindset of people/ job opportunities/ accessibility of foreign goods and most importantly exposure to globalization has turned entire picture of india now. I have been in Canada for 13 years now and I am a citizen here but leaving it all behind and going back to india soon as I was surprised how india has changed so much now . Even Street vendors or auto drivers has google pay now. You just order groceries online and it will be delivered it to you . I wanted to do my full health check when I was there and the guy just came to my place did my blood sample and a very next day I got report in my WhatsApp.
This moving back to India to be close to one’s parents is so overrated. One can always visit your loved ones every now and then and that is also a good thing
Your parents are unfortunate to have a child like you. It is your moral obligation to be there for them and take care of them. Visiting isn’t enough. They are the most important people in life who have given you unconditional love. Nothing gives them more joy than having their children around hem. Your thinking is pathetic.someday you will eat your words.
Welcome home 🏡 prerna ji ,m y sister & jija ji also came back to india from Austin Texas after 3 years just because they didnt like the lifestyle. They were deeply missing india & their loved ones
Well I am from NY have no kids still living in NY I am here for 35 years I visit india a lot my parents not living in india I wasn’t close to any of my relatives I love staying in USA
If you are not getting a green card, then you must feel lucky about it. US economy is anyways going to collapse, not now but may be by next decade? Why to stay there then?
@@himanshusodha6726US economy grows and ebbs every once in a while . I would not return for that alone . After living here for so long , moving back is not an option
If parents teach their children all the good things in India, they will like. Family gathering, weddings and festival celebration, want to enjoy all this, u will like India. If u tell all negatives about India dirty roads, water shortage etc.children will not like
@Nalini Ganesh I couldn't agree more. Very well said. Are there no negatives, of course there are! There are in every single thing you do, but it's upto us on what we focus and teach our kids. 🙂
Bohto bada ehsaan ho gya aapka... Please aap jaise aatmagyani logon se ek guzaarish ki please aap US mein rahein. Hamare pyare bharat ko dushit na karein
Thank you @Raj Naik. 🙏🏼 True about nuclear families, but these are the realities of the changing times, we have to make do and do our best with what we are offered and what we have 😊
@@theupbeatmillennial The race for money, money , money has killed all the good factors and this race will not stop till we completely destroys this plannet. The destruction is inevitable. Another 2 to 3 years. In India if you have money, you are treated like god, if you are poor the tables turn.
India life is miserable now days . If get green card no one will come back u can sponsor ur parents to stay in usa 🇺🇸 because in usa u have cook and do alone . We cook forgrand children we help them usa is not bad .
Good decision Keep aside the relationships.what is your individual feeling. For me no social life .medical attention. Climate specially winter depressed climate.
Developed country? Rather US should be treated as a terrorist country more than a developed country. Sorry for being political here. But you should have a more generous attitude towards developing countries.
Hey again, @Laxmi! Iyer We rented initially to figure out what area we liked and were comfortable in; then decided to invest. No. Both - my parents and in-laws live where there are no software companies, so we didn't look there.
Hey @ragou p, I'm going to cover that eventually, but did you have specification questions re. the financial side? Those'll help me while making the video. Request you to comment here. thanks in advance :-)
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We also moved to India from US after 13 years in May 2019..feels content seeing your video.. we are so happy in India too…
After getting US citizenship?
@@rohanutep81 obviously no !
Did you surrender your Green Card or revoke US Citizenship ?
But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?
@@ladusingh2141 leave india go to Islamic country try to burn their national flag ?
Go to any other country try to ruin that country’s native culture u will get to know what going to happen to u
If u are so disappointed with india simple solution move to Pakistan
Vande matram 🇮🇳
I returned to India as a US citizen after being abroad for 20 odd years. One thing I would recommend is that don't judge others, make your own decisions. One place is not better than the other. It all depends on multiple factors and where you are in life, what is your priority etc. Above all, have courage to take decisions. Don't sit on the fence for too long otherwise, life will pass by.
I moved back primarily to spend more time with parents and experience India's rich spiritual traditions. It's so worth it.
Jahan bhi raho, khush raho....and don't compare. You are unique and you need to make your own decisions.
Yes, I agree 100%
Did returned to India after 22 years in USA...Now, enjoying SINNY life in INDIA..( without snow, no cold winter)
Can it be called "returning" or just making the best of all the worlds one can get ?? Atleast one can appreciate you revealed you are not an Indian. Others like this video maker and several in comments are creating a false sense (i say fooling) of "returning" without telling if they surrendered GC and citizenship or not. Hiding this can only be for one obvious reason, otherwise they would have shown Indian passport from a roof top.
Well said...each situation is unique
@@raovs4666 bhai florida aa jata.. no snow no winter :)
"Seeing their reaction we almost made out decision "is the most important line in your video. The best thing u could do for your parents is return home. They dont want your expensive gifts they just want you around
My cousin and her husband moved back to India from the US and live in Goa. It will take brave people to move back to India, after living in a society which is so different. Indians have too many children and their culture does not change much wherever they go. It is about money. Most Indians who manage to immigrate have language, skills and money.
Your story is so much inspiring, leaving a settled career and lifestyle of 11 years and suddenly transition to different lifestyle. You need courage to do something like that. Hats Off to you.
I also lived in US . But, I wasn't able to adjust myself there. After 2-3 months of moving in US, I started feeing lonely. I didn't had any friend and relatives there during my bad times and my health started deteriorating. One day I called my maa and said I am coming back to India. She was like happiest person on the earth. And, then after 6 month living in US I came back to India. For me life in US was good but not the life I wanted to live. Now I am really happy with my decision.
Thank you for sharing your story, @Asmit Singh. What you did also needs immense courage! I am so glad you are happy now and have no regrets about coming back. Good luck!
I can imagine the happiness of your mother when she heard that you are coming back.. Mostly it's the old parents who suffer the most when young children leave them for settling in Canada, australia, usa etc... In my area (Haryana and Punjab) people are crazy for leaving India to go to Canada, Australia .. It's so depressing to see their old parents left behind crying most of the times specially mothers when they miss their sons daughters... Even if parents go to foreign after 4-5 years most of them come back after spending 2-3 months most of them saying " Wahan mann nhi lagta" because there is no one to talk with them ... It's a kind of disguised slavery specially in Canada which noone talks ( I know these thinks because my brother is there )😔
@@sachinchaudhary1441 True
Bro same with me feeling depressed and sick in uk dil he nhi lgta
Great decision brother..
Love your story. I lived in US for 40 plus years and decision to go back home (Thailand) is very difficult. I went to school in India too for 10 yrs and love India too. I am glad you make up your mind. Most of our relatives are here in US and we live in the same town. We visit Thailand every other year for vacation. As we get older traveling like that will end soon. Glad to hear your story.
Welcome back to India Ma'am 🇮🇳❤️ I hope you and you're family are enjoying back here in India! 😊 So glad to know that people are returning back to India happily! 😊🇮🇳
Thank you! 😃Excitedly!
But hame India ko banana hai just like china ☺️😊
This is one of the best justification I've heard out of so many videos !
I moved back India in 2018 after spending 6 years in US, I lived in India for 4 years and returned back to USA. I feel usa gives you better job opportunities, great weather, quality of life
USA may give u all these things in life. But u willn’t have the sense of belonging when u live in a foreign country. U are missing out on living with parents, among your own people and above all that divine energy that you experience in India. At the end, it is a matter of priorities.
True
India gives u better opportunity if you are from top colleges, India doesn't tolerate mediocrity. So, if one is from average college it's better to move out anyways
You do what you like but everything has a pros and cons
I am so proud of you Prerna.... 👏 Okay... I got more clarity on moving from Germany to India after watching this video
Good decision..
So you enjoying now..
@@sonikasoni8691 back to India
great decision.i feel everything you said .. I am a student here, your personal life becomes easy but you sacrifice mostly everything.
@Rishabh Shah, thank you! You are in a different phase of life right now though. I'd say enjoy it to the core, learn new things, go out, explore the world, explore the people, explore the culture. When you're done doing these, and the pull toward the motherland becomes stronger, you can always make a decision at that time. Good luck!
Hey, are you still in us?
Thanks for sharing and you presented the reasons for you to move back to India very well. I have to admire the bold decision you took rather than wavering. As a working woman, I have to admire that you are bringing up two children and thus you give importance to family values. Most married Indian Professionals are limiting to one child these days. Hindu TFR going down to 1.5 or lower shall adversely affect demographics like in China and Europe in a decade. I had health and career problems in my late 20's to 30's as I finished PhD only at age 34 and then children's births were delayed but we still have two children. We could not relocate to India as I settled down in life only by late 40's as I had additional burden to financially support my parents and siblings in India but we are able to bring up our children in USA with Hindu values and family values.
But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?
we recently moved to US at the age of 45 for our sons education. And its been very hard for us. One advantage I got is I found a job here .My parents are dead so I am not missing India .I miss Indian food and weather.
You can get indian food in restaurants living in USA and cook also.
u forgot forefathers who shed blood in india so selfish desicion i am so proud to be indian i wana die here❤ our forefathers fought so much for this land kindly broaden your view and come back happy to your native country
Excellent Prerna.idea of sharing this experience is itself a great 👍. It’s a mejor decision. It is definitely useful to many people thinking of shifting . Very nicely explained
Thank you so much 🙂
The way you speak is so clear and have a connect… looking for more videos
We got a chance to move to US. Initially like every other person we were also thrilled to get such an opportunity. But we thought and worked it out a lot in our minds. Finally decided not to go. It was really tough to take such a decision. We wanted to be close with our parents and families whenever they needed.
:Consider yourself lucky: the US is overrated, a sham that exploits the uninitiated.
..same here. Children in school. Retired parents would have been left alone. I sometimes still regret it.
Here my husband left to US in nov, we will be joining him in a month or two . My bro left to US in feb 1st week. I lost my father during my graduation..my mom has been living alone from past 15 yrs coz of our studies, marriage and jobs...this guilt is killing me
But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?
@@ladusingh2141 India is very much safe. This is the reason why BOTS and Pakis like you are able to spread carnad.
Never heard if a church being burnt. Yes, heard of a Hindu girl child ( in Andhra Pradesh) committing suicide when her matron, Christian nun was trying force her to give up Hinduism and adopt Christianity.
Seriously underrated but highly informative
Thanks so much @Pranjal Upadhyay. This means a lot to me :-)
We are both uk citizens and have one 6yo son. We are happy in our life. But Hume always india attracts karta he, especially our indian lifestyle, food, morning evening walk, weather and functions.
Me gujarati hu. Cralwey city me hamre bahot se relatives he lekin unki lifestyle bahot hi struggled and below the basic rahi he. Matlab logo ne whole life ek hi kaam karne me nikal di. No outing, no restaurant, no function, no gathering, bas kaam kaam kaam and sit home when get retired.
Muje esa nahi karna. Muje apne logo me rehna pasand he.
Hum 2019 me one year ke liye ahmedabad move huye the. Acha raha one year lekin kyu bas vapis aa gaye.
I want to live in india.But sochta hoon kese himmat kare. Ghar he, business he, sab leave kese kare. 😊
Welcome to India. We are happy that you joined us. You have taken right decision at the right time.
There is lots of happiness, joy hidden in your life which you will explore in near future.
I know you can' t go back to US the situation will be worst then. I an sure you have shared some of your experiences in US but not all the negative part.
Thank you so much.
Explained very nicely madam.
Considering future of kids its good decision as bonding with family members is important.
Thank you so much 🙂
India is rising slowly slowly that's why people are returning
After 41 years in USA, will go back to India and move into my new custom made house currently under construction with all modern facilities including solar panels etc! Spend retired life there!,
how about your children sir, they must be grown ups now and most likely will not come to india.
This is also my plan, but in a dilemma to stay away from children (who will by then will not move out of US)
Many plans this way, coz it’s difficult to survive during old age, it’s difficult to drive during health emergency. Your kids won’t be around…. Difficult to manage your household in your 80s, moving snow, move your lawns, payment towards mortgages etc etc ( just to pay home tax people work in their old age in US) . list goes on. So few r smart enough to move back to home country so that they get to live life like a king n queen size. Coz they can afford all workers. 😂
Many hidden stuff which we never know. 😅 I worked, stayed here n got relatives who lived many years and they don’t want to move back but they know the reality of their old age. Still America is fantasy to so many. But as a women I feel our kids must grow in our country and learn our culture more than being behind money all the time.
It’s the fact….
Thanks for sharing your story me and my husband just recently moved back from USA to India in 2023 January this year.
It was also tough decision for us as I am in middle of my pregnancy and so we moved because of my health not being well there and had no help from parents or anywhere else.
But seeing your story makes me feel that we will also settle down nicely in India slowly as time moves and will be happy
But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?
Caught you .....means right now not happy and regretting the move 😂🤣😆
@@ladusingh2141 its getting worse better dont come bk or we all will rape your wife multiple times a day and make viral videos
So yes better stay abroad annd be safe man
It’s so surprising that all the people in the comment section hating on her seems so negative and sad while people who are supporting her decision seems so welcoming and loving! That explains a lot
The comment section is filled with so much haters and critics like who the hell are these people to judge someone? Its her life. Leave her alone. If she wants to live in India great and not wanted to in USA it is her right and her life.
I have many family members who live abroad. I know domestic help is not an issue for anyone. My uncle even purchased this huge property, yet he moved back because his mother died last year in February, he got into three brain surgeries, then lockdown in India happened and his dad has to move to his sister's place who herself had a newborn grandchild and let just say his father and his brother-in-law could not adjust under same roof. Look long story short his parents never wanted to move from India and for approximately twenty five years he stayed abroad now that their were family problems arising he moved back this year to India.
I am saying that everyone has personal issues they don't want to share. Some people are happy to let their parents stay in elderly homes some don't.
Castism is major problem uncle... All the upper caste eat and get wealthy from West ... And after being Rich... Reminder of India struck to their Mind... Can't you see discrimination cause Racial abuse, Castism, gender bias mentality
India at top because of inequality... All the rich people sewer even today get cleaned up by Dalits... Even today.. and you think people should take lightly comments on maid etc...
Kudos to your family for this decision. I moved back to India after 13 yrs in US. You won't regret the move and you haven't mentioned the social issues of US. Second gen Indians ending up not married, late marriage, interracial marriage, too independent and getting lost, high divorce rate, step parenting etc.., our kids don't have to go through all that non sense. Think about these too if you want to move back to US. I believe Indian parents inadvertently pawned the future of their children for the sake of money and comfort in US. Sad thing is the next gen has to pay the price.
India is getting worst in that matter
@@indirachandra4329 True. But if India is bad, imagine how worse US is. It's all relative these days. Still you can bet 99% for a marriage to last long term in India verses 50% in US.
Please do not put words in my mouth I did not say that India is bad you misunderstood me. This is 21st century it is about Freedom. About marriages In India also dating living together so what is the different between US and India divorces happening India changed a lot in that aspects.
@@bennetrajendran1145 What most them won't share is the term called "woke culture". Mostly these people think they have been woken from dream and now can rise and tell other what is right and wrong.
@@bennetrajendran1145 Find peace Bennet
"X+1 Syndrome". Kids of my friends who returned to India after 10-15 years moved to US for studies and work as they were US citizens.
Because kids are subject to parents comsent. Once 18 they have a choice.
Even the greatest migratory birds return back home..You can't live in a luxury hotel forever
Yuup
No domestic help in US. Extremely expensive medical treatment. No freedom to change employers or do own business. Sometimes, racial abuse, especially children in school. Folks file litigation on flimsy grounds. Too many folks carry personal weapons. Moving around without own vehicle is expensive. Vegetarian food not readily available in restaurants. House rent quite high. Loneliness. If you make reasonably good amount in India, life is very comfortable for family. More comfortable than even an American earning a million dollars an year, because even that American cannot afford to hire a full time chauffeur, cook, domestic help. In India, very common for reasonably well off families to have one or more domestic help. An Indian family earning 150,000 dollars yearly is likely to hire 3 or more full time domestic help.
Agree with you on some issues you’ve mentioned; but there are few other things to consider. As you’ve said:
1) Yes, there is no freedom to move jobs or start business on H1/L1 visas, but with GC, that is possible ! Yes, I understand the waiting time for India born citizens for GC though, technically impossible under the current system which sucks !
2) India has its advantages like domestic help, but if you see closely, getting one also has become increasingly difficult or expensive too
3) Needless to mention, major Indian cities and physical infrastructure sucks, especially in Mumbai/ Thane area and mainly in monsoon. Air pollution is the major problem here.
4) Agree about the family bonding issues as she has mentioned, but there is no way to predict that kids will continue to maintain forever when they grow( even things in India like family values are bit declining). Madam, Please do not take this as an offence or like; my personal observation.
4) Again education in India ( as per current era) is fine till grade 12th; again rat race starts post that ! Yea , her kids can circumvent that since they are American by birth! Even good quality education from KG in India is an expensive thing
5) Other issues which matter most to me are corruption, filthy roads , unregulated traffic, hooligans etc. Certain things also exist in the US or other developed nations too; I’m not denying but too minuscule to consider.
Apna kaam khud krna sikho uncle
"Chauffeur, cook, domestic help" is not a valid reason to move back to India. It just reveals how people want to keep people working in such roles and refuse to bring them out of such professions. How about learning to drive and make your own food so that the chauffeur and cook can get an education and come up in life??
@@meetmeinva these boomers are conditioned, just like white privileged karens, they have no empathy for low income people
That's because America considers them humans and offers them a basic minimum wage. You have all the labour for cheap here because they have been traditionally oppressed. Funny thing is that you you don't even realise it.
Subscribed, I don't know how I ended up here, may be universe is helping me to take the right decision at right time, I am glad that I watched this video. Love from Dubai
Good for you ..u r lucky to have such a great family and friends back home that gave u reason to go back..I don’t have any so despite deep feelings I couldn’t make this move..but I know that we have to live with our fortune:) best wishes to u for sharing
I can see a lot of despair , regret and hopelessness behind that smile. That smile is just a fake one and definitely must have faced some problems otherwise one simply doesnt come back with these reasons.
Rightly said
I also agree with you. Because i had been twice in USA on visitor visa. My son is there. I would prefer USA little bit on higher side. See there is no reservations . If you are capable you have a choice for good job there. Most things liked is,
1) Self discipline.
2) Cleanliness.
3) Respect to senior
citizens.
4) Respect to pedestrian .
6) Everybody is living their own lives. No interference to anyone's personal life.
8) Very good support of Police.
These are some of them.
This is my personal opinion. See there are always two sides of every things. One is good for me may be not good for others and vice versa.
We are waiting for immigration. I would choose to move there but at present not in a position due to some responsibility of family.
In fact she has taken a bold and very wise stap because her family situation and bonding. It is very very hard to come back from USA. It's require a strong self confidence.
@@manojshah- 10 percent reservation for forward caste...
Dude seems like you had not been outside India. It depends on individual to individual. I had seen the whole world but let me tell there is nothing like home. The kind of satisfaction and freedom I get roaming with my old friends and sitting in the winter sun on roof in my hometown is unmatchable. Now whether you are eating beef steak in mooresville or drinking beer in nuremberg, nothing can replace the aloo ka prantha and white ghar ka ghee.
@@manojshah- if u are capable then u will also be self satisfied in India itself
In most cases wife objects going back to India even though husband is willing to go. This is my opinion as I heard many cases .
Any way welcome back to India.
Now with the knowledge you gained in USA ,you can start a new company which can provide lot of employment.
@Jsm Kumar, is that true? I've never heard of such a scenario. Why would that be in your experience?
@@theupbeatmillennial
3 of my very close relatives & my friends experience is what I have mentioned.
Reasons are
1. Wives want to escape the responsibilities of their mother in laws.
2. False prestige feeling.
(They receive lot of respect as NRIs)
3.They don't want to lose comforts of developed economies.
4. Strongly feel their children will be spoiled in India.
5. They will not get good jobs back home.
@@jsmkumar2916 true 👍 two of my neighbours are in deep shit , but don't want to come back. I am looking after one of thier lonely mother, who is a widow too, my next door neighbour. What to say 🤔. Dollars are more important 🤔
@@jsmkumar2916 NRI are not getting respect in Indian society anymore
@@siritachighibliuchiha7617 yuup , they are worthless, sold their soul for dollars
i m planning to go back to india after living in toronto for 25 years ..thnx for sharing your experience 🙏👍
I'm so glad it helped 😀
Hey ! Did you move yet ? Me and my husband are also planning and we live in Toronto as well
I m also moving from Brampton Canada and so happy after watching this video
India is the best place to be in always.that is for people who no matter what are loyal to India and love her for all that she is in spite of all immense hurdles placed in her path by selfish,cruel plunderers of India.these who go abroad go to enjoy the benefits these countries have made exploiting India Africa etc etc! Best to study live and work hard for your own country,India who gives you so much as against these western countries which use abuse discard you! Ask not what your country can give you,ask what you can do for your country what you can give your country,India!
I am glad that you moved BACK to India. And it's good that you are a TH-camr and making money. Keep it up.
Good decision Madam! Who knows better about family and future !
so glad to hear ths....more love to u n ur family ....
For me, USA life is boring, lonely. Money can't buy happiness. Now i am doing WFH from my village. believe me, i am enjoying.
Just a year a the UK already making plans to move back home just to provide better for the future generations 🇮🇳 nothing like our Bharat ❤🙏🏽🌸💗
You took right decision due to concern for parents as this is very rare to see nowadays. Family bonding can be of great help . Though there are many families in USA who enjoy such great bondings although they may not be a relative. Gujaratis and Patels are such community there who live like in India. All the best..
Patel's are not Gujaratis ?
@@abhilashshettigar9002 😂😂😂
YES ITS COMPLETELY OK TO MOVE BACK TO YOUR HOMELAND
I can resonate with your reasons. Thus, me n my wife toodecided to move back from UK to India...
By 2026 Salary cuts will be 60%
By2029 1 INR = 3 USD
By 2025 Majirity NRI have settle inUAE / INDIA , but it's a Gradual process Madam
, Good your destiny u came back quite early Madam
आपका अनुभव बाटने के लिए बहुत धन्यवाद। अंत में देश वही है जहाँ लोग अपने हो, अपने देश का जाना पहचाना खाना हो और जहाँ भाषा भी अपनी हो।
God bless your Family . Wish you the best in your journey forward. I went thro your stage , and made the best of the space of time.
How did your 6 year old manage with school? Wondering how kids at various age react/adjust to moving back to India.
I too came back here in india after 5 years abroad!!!
You took amazing decision otherwise most of the people I have seen to cry for US visa and really hate those guys.
Well done Prerna! We miss your plays and movies here. Good luck with your YT channel.
Thanks so much @Sanjay Pawar! Your support means a lot every single time 🙂.
WE MADE OUR COUNTRY BEST ,WE NEVER WANT TO GO FAR AWAY FROM OUR MOTHERLAND ,WE DONOT WANT TO WASTE MONEY ,LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL EVERYWHERE ,SO WE INVEST THAT WHICH IS FOR TRAVELLING OTHER PLACES OF WORLD AND FOR ENJOYMENT ,WE SAVE THAT MONEY FOR OUR FUTURE STAYING HERE IN INDIA ONLY ,BECAUSE WE ALREADY KNOW THIS FACT BY LOGICALLY ONLY THAT WE DONOT GAIN ANYTHING MORE WHICH IS THERE IN INDIA ,SO THANK GOD TO MY DESCION , SOMETIME HUGE SEARCH AND LOGICALLY TAKING DESCION ATLEAST GIVE US SOMETHING ,THANK GOD I WAS RIGHT ON MY DESCION THAT "LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL EVERYWHERE " I DONOT THINK SO U.S.A OR ANY FOREIGN COUNTRY GIVE EVERY INDIAN ANYTHING MORE WHICH IS NOT HERE IN INDIA ,THANK GOD AGAIN AFTER SO MANY GREED OF SETTLING IN U.S.A I STICK TO MY DESCION AND DONOT WASTE MY MONEY ,AND INVEST THAT MONEY FOR MY FUTURE AND FOR MY FUTURE CHILD ❤️❤️ALWAYS I AM LUCKY PERSON 🙏THANK GOD 🙏❤️❤️✌️✌️✌️✌️
You have shared some great insights about life.
Home is where the heart is!
@Devadatta India, You summed up the video in one sentence! :-)
Money mula honey rest is BS
Madhuri dixit also moved back to India may be America is not as much glittering as it is seen by us
She is a US citizen so can travel back anytime
She selfishly returned to India to join film industry for fame and glamourous life she was used to live...I Bet her Son gone to study and will not come back.Also I feel whattt a waste of her husbands qualification.He is a Top Doctor/Heart Surgeon in US and now running behind her to Awards nites and cooking Pohas in his Vlogs😅😅 is a joke
.Its their choice anyways but can do charuty work in India with his expertise in his field
Lol, some of them here never been married to understand family dynamics. They think whats shown in bollywood movie or saas bahu serial is truth.
@@nc541 😂😂😂😂
Thank you mam for this video I m also move back India and my younger kid is 12 years older so think very penic but after your watching your video I m so happy thank you 🙏
Amazing video. Thanks for sharing.
Hi Prerna,
Thanks for your detailed video!
I (26 Age) am also Maharashtrian Punekar who earns better salary here as a software engineer. Just married with slightly better together family income.
We dont have plan for kids for next 2 years. I have an offer from Ireland and I am still thinking on it. I wont earn good money there in Ireland but would get a chance to explore abroad with work life balance. Plus point is Ireland gives PR after 2 years.
I am thinking on decision, where I will stay for 3 years there in Ireland, if everything suits there I will take my parents or comeback after 3 years with PR in hand.
Why I am considering PR of Ireland is because I strongly feel that future/schooling of kids is far better there than in India.
I don't have very extended huge family with us here in India, where we celebrate festivals largely. Flights from Ireland to India are also faster than US. But parents in India are heavily dependent on me.
What is your thought on this, I would like to know your opinion (based on experience) if you are ok to share? Is there any medium I can discuss with you?
I am exactly in same shoes as you. But my offer is from Germany. My Indian salary is higher than Germany with great lifestyle.
@@eshantgarg401 I made my decision to go to IE. Good luck bro
@@akshaygodase8067 yeah same to you :-). I am staying back in India.
@@5123karan why take the German opportunity
@@akshaygodase8067 😂😂😂I knew
india has more batter and...advance life then US...now...banking ...infra..jobe....vary fast then US...our Economy...is vary fast...too
Gujju bol raha hain😂
In simple terms Home is where the heart is
Hi preranajee, hope you will be prerana for many others in US.
@lubnazeer 1966 haha. Honestly, I do NOT want to be a 'Prerna' for this reason. I am not telling anyone to come back or NOT go at all. My video series is honestly only for those who're considering moving back but are on the fence, or for those who've decided to move back and can use some extra information and assurance of how to go about it. :-)
@@theupbeatmillennial i know dozens of parents who are waiting for their children to see for many years. I feel the pain of the parents and pity for them. Those who go US dont come back Unfortunate for their families back in India
AWESOME DECISION 👌
We are also planning. But thinking of jobs . How did you find job in India. And how are you adjusting with indian work culture?
I just move to us planing to move india after retirement
Love and admire your decision...may god give same inspiration to all NRIs!!
For next generation...good
Definitely moving back!
Thank you for such motivation video. can you suggest some pune areas where US school going kid can easily adjust ?
Hinjewadi, Magarpatta or Deccan
we tried moving to Pune in 1994 but returned after 3.5 yrs.
😂😂😂
India in 1994 and india in 2023 is completely different story my friend
@@amishachudasama2031 in which context? can you please explain?
@@stampmaker9384 infrastructure/ mindset of people/ job opportunities/ accessibility of foreign goods and most importantly exposure to globalization has turned entire picture of india now. I have been in Canada for 13 years now and I am a citizen here but leaving it all behind and going back to india soon as I was surprised how india has changed so much now . Even Street vendors or auto drivers has google pay now. You just order groceries online and it will be delivered it to you . I wanted to do my full health check when I was there and the guy just came to my place did my blood sample and a very next day I got report in my WhatsApp.
Would you share how did you plan on schools and house? Video is great btw
This moving back to India to be close to one’s parents is so overrated. One can always visit your loved ones every now and then and that is also a good thing
Your parents are unfortunate to have a child like you. It is your moral obligation to be there for them and take care of them. Visiting isn’t enough. They are the most important people in life who have given you unconditional love. Nothing gives them more joy than having their children around hem. Your thinking is pathetic.someday you will eat your words.
Welcome home 🏡 prerna ji ,m y sister & jija ji also came back to india from Austin Texas after 3 years just because they didnt like the lifestyle. They were deeply missing india & their loved ones
I hope yoy are happy now in PUNE
nice video and congratulations!!
Prerna awesome video!
Thank you so much 😀
Good video. Enjoy. Be strong.
Well I am from NY have no kids still living in NY I am here for 35 years I visit india a lot my parents not living in india I wasn’t close to any of my relatives I love staying in USA
Is this a consolation for herself ?kids ka to future ab struggle karne me hi nikal jayega
Achieving green card has become impossible nowadays.that has also bee one of reasons why people leaving USA
If you are not getting a green card, then you must feel lucky about it. US economy is anyways going to collapse, not now but may be by next decade? Why to stay there then?
@@himanshusodha6726US economy grows and ebbs every once in a while . I would not return for that alone . After living here for so long , moving back is not an option
@@bryandsouza9905 👍
@@himanshusodha6726 gett ing a US green card is like winning a Nobel prize
If parents teach their children all the good things in India, they will like. Family gathering, weddings and festival celebration, want to enjoy all this, u will like India.
If u tell all negatives about India dirty roads, water shortage etc.children will not like
@Nalini Ganesh I couldn't agree more. Very well said. Are there no negatives, of course there are! There are in every single thing you do, but it's upto us on what we focus and teach our kids. 🙂
Just tell them the truth
I wonder whether children of returning families would be happy returning to India
No
Bravo... plz make one more video in hindi.. u would be able to express your emotions in better way...
Thanks @Sonika soni. That's a great idea. I'll definitely consider it. :-)
Your smile is like dew on the leaf...keep smiling and shining...from where are you originally??🤗🤗🙆♀️🙆♀️💃💃
Bohto bada ehsaan ho gya aapka... Please aap jaise aatmagyani logon se ek guzaarish ki please aap US mein rahein. Hamare pyare bharat ko dushit na karein
Bete faltu me aap itme emotional Kyu ho rahe he ! Jaye apna kaam kare 😂
Was your Green Card application rejected??
God bless you Prerna. India is also moving towards nuclear families. Sad but the festivals are not as grandeur as they were before.
Thank you @Raj Naik. 🙏🏼
True about nuclear families, but these are the realities of the changing times, we have to make do and do our best with what we are offered and what we have 😊
@@theupbeatmillennial The race for money, money , money has killed all the good factors and this race will not stop till we completely destroys this plannet. The destruction is inevitable. Another 2 to 3 years. In India if you have money, you are treated like god, if you are poor the tables turn.
India life is miserable now days . If get green card no one will come back u can sponsor ur parents to stay in usa 🇺🇸 because in usa u have cook and do alone . We cook forgrand children we help them usa is not bad .
@@sunderiyer7484 perfect 👍
Ma'am , is it a wise decision to go abroad for just earn money....for 5-10 years .... From chemical engineering background....recent graduate
M bhi yhi soch k aya tha .. 2 mahine m .. soch khtm hogyi .. paise kamane ki
👍good decision
Hi Mam, is a person eligible to get social security pension after completing 40 points and currently living in India after 58/62..
You moved from usa to india I'd too good
If parents stay in usa next generation will pay the price
Be happy in India
Good decision
Keep aside the relationships.what is your individual feeling.
For me no social life .medical attention.
Climate specially winter depressed climate.
Green card backlog is the main reason moving to india for most of the Indian
What's that?
@@neharai3032 US Permanent Residency
If you are on H1B, it will take more than 100 years to get your green card if you are indian!
True 👍🏻
Exactly
@@pepewr I see.. thank you. I never realised that it takes long period. That means, you may or may not get GC.
Very good ❤️💯
Did you move back after getting US citizenship?
I will return only after my retirement. No compromise with kids future as opportunities in developed countries, are more than developing country.
Developed country? Rather US should be treated as a terrorist country more than a developed country.
Sorry for being political here. But you should have a more generous attitude towards developing countries.
@@himanshusodha6726 what makes you think so?
It means u r still in doubt if india don't suit u, u will go back again to US, and you r here in India for temporary period.
Our children is our responsibility not our parents responsibility, in west and in developed countries grand parents don’t do baby sitting
Prerna did u Buy a house there or rent? Did u look for jobs in the area where ur parents live?
Hey again, @Laxmi! Iyer We rented initially to figure out what area we liked and were comfortable in; then decided to invest.
No. Both - my parents and in-laws live where there are no software companies, so we didn't look there.
foreigner come to india for..chep medical treatment.with....world class...experty
hi Prerna, how did you plan about the financial side of your relocation
Hey @ragou p, I'm going to cover that eventually, but did you have specification questions re. the financial side? Those'll help me while making the video. Request you to comment here. thanks in advance :-)