That statement is so true...that's why I'm happy I went through alot (At first I was like what the f#ck, how the f#ck, why is this happening) and then when the dust settled and I realized errrrr single person I ever did something for in life (Some did nothing for me period) turned on me for their own "Personnel" reasons" I picked myself up and said "Never again"....so now how my life is set up I literally have no friends (In my head) so it's alot easier for me to say f#ckem & wish them well at the same time bc I'm over it and it's like once you heal yaself (bc people will swear it takes years to heal when that's a lie) & you close in on those who caused you hurt, who betrayed you, who did uncalled for shyt it literally feels like dead weight has been lifted off you bc now your not entitled to do none of the things u use to do, bc one thing about people who aren't your friends is they give 0 f#cks about you and will attempt to cut you where they think you'll bleed the most. I seen some shyt but the main thing I'm grateful for is taking credit for building myself, so building myself back up is gonna be a blast bc I don't have that dead weight or obligation with people anymore and that shyt feel good trust me....with friends you care about what they feel/how you make them feel but once you no longer have that it becomes about what "You" feel period...so if I'm not feeling something within myself I'm gonna fix it...F#ck a friend at this point bc I'm a fun person who can socialize with "Men" & "Women" (Bag both sexes if I choose although I've had women push up 😉)alike bc I have charisma, charm, spunk & I'm crafty so ain't no need to trip 😂😂😂...live ya life for you and in return life will be good to you bc I ain't gonna lie friends & family use to stress me the f#ck out bc I was always trying to fix their problems or assist with shyt but man oh man being free from demands, cares, worries & fustration feels so good, I doubt folks will really understand who I REALLY am once we are no longer friends👌
there is a story that i heard. i want to share it “a son asked his dad to invite 100 of his friends to his party. the dad went out and instead of telling them “come to the party tomorrow”, he told all of them “my son is extremely sick, could you guys come over tomorrow to be there for him”. the next day only 5 people came, the son asked the dad where his friends where. the dad told him, these are your real friends.
@@PandaBearUwU XD Hey I was just trying to think about it logically, i mean even tho it was just a example, it still needed reason and logic like literally i doubt anyone has 100 friends irl that live nearby. ...I overthink things too much
@@nefelibata4190 even if youre very very busy, wouldnt you have even tried to make time? Especially the girl in the car. She couldve placed the phone on speaker and drove. If not, she couldve called later after parking. If not, before she sleeps. If not, during her break time. If not, during public holidays. However that answer she gave meant that "Oh, Im not interested anymore." If you were truly someone's friend, their priority is higher than yours. Isnt it fine to visit a friend in the hospital after a horrific accident? "I'll call you next time," but when is next time? Hell, she couldve died then and there.
Nefelibata how is it not easy? I understand there’s work and lots more. But how about leaving them on speaker ? Or talking to them while you are doing something ? Multi tasking is always a great thing to do and it saves time. If that girl was truly a real friend, she would have said to the girl that she will call once she arrives at her house or tomorrow or something, not just be like “Oh, I knew” and just hang up that she wasn’t interested anymore.
i was hit by a school bus with my friend one month ago. many of my friends reached out. some felt bad but most wouldn’t even care to see me. i’m only 13 and it showed me who my real friends are. (and yes besides a broken hip and brain injuries, i’m recovering :)
Makeup and Me! - my car was T-boned in 2008. I have a severe brain injury, and multiple other injuries I deal with on a daily basis. I understand what you are going through. Some of my friends live in the next state over, and everything was good as long as I made ALL of the effort to see them. Now that my eyesight is not as good, the only person by my side on a daily basis is my daughter. Just a couple of friends remain ... The people who stick by you become your family. Sending light, love, prayers, well wishes and great juju to get you through :)
I love how people with so many friends say they have no friends. And then there's people like me, who think they have friends, but in the end, you're just alone, and you pretend everything is fine, when it is not.
Yes I have also so many frds and i thought that they are my best friend.... But not...with time i realize they are not my frdsv. They only come to fulfill the needs from me...and when thing done. They will leave u. that's why I came to know that a human's best frd is only herself. No one can understand us.... Then anyone. I think bst frnds is only for luckiest person.... Not like me
It's sad when you realize everyone does not feel the same as you. Some people are givers, feel deeply, honor friendships/relationships. And others just turn the page without a thought.
Right👍👍 , that's what i first thought about and sometimes i think its not about being friends that i have to be there for someone or show care its just because i am a human and i have a heart i hope i don't have fake friends like who knows
My dad was hit by a car and knocked off a cliff. He was admitted into hospital for a very long time in a foreign city. People who he thought cared about didn't visit or message him to find out how he was. They still haven't. People who he never kept contact with flew to see him. Called him every day. Messaged him every day. It taught my whole family how some people aren't there for you. We know who cares now. My father is happy and healthy and now our family has family friends who stood by him and stand by us. People who we thought cared are gone. People are temporary.
Hmm that's life for you My partner left me when I wasn't expecting She broke me But I am ok now And I know God will send forth a good relationship to me A loving one I am open
I accident 4 years ago, I lost 7 of my front teeth, I saw my family was very embarassed and felt burdened because of me, my friends came to visit me, after I showed my wound they were horrified and looked away at me, after that no one came to see me again, I feel alone and lonely, until now I am alone, I feel I don't have anyone in this world. Now I am 18
I used to fight with my mom a lot for not allowing me to hang out with certain friends I had, & disapproving of them. One day I got real sick, & needed lots of pampering & TLC. She made me soup. Gave it to me. Also gave me my meds & was checking on me constantly. If I threw up, she would clean the mess up without any hesitation. She told me some words I will never forget, & made me open my eyes to reality. She said, 'You fight with me constantly, but ask any of those friends of yours to do half of what I am doing for you now.' Enough said. It already had crossed my mind before she said it. I started to gain the highest love & respect for her ever since then..
Hmm that's life for you My partner left me when I wasn't expecting She broke me But I am ok now And I know God will send forth a good relationship to me A loving one I am open
@@prerana2765 Hmm that's life for you My partner left me when I wasn't expecting She broke me But I am ok now And I know God will send forth a good relationship to me A loving one I am open
I donr have Many Friends I mean i have None So its ok.....:Lemme tell you why im Lonely theres a girl in our class i rlly hate And she just Stole all my friends she nevere came and asked me and my bestfriend just abandoned me so Im loneley As you have expected...😫😫😫
My exact scenario! For the past two yrs! Real Hell! Recovering! Love, Friends, Relatives everyone left me in cold even wen I'm dying! Now just sitting inside four walls & surfing net and doing nothing! Waiting to recover still.! Typing wit tears! Plzzzzz have some Humanity!!!!! Leaving someone on their Hard time is Worse than Hell.!!!!
Hey, I don't know you but I can assure you these weren't friends in the first place. A friend will stay with you, even when it's bad, hard, even when you disconnect and won't talk for a long time, they will somehow come back into your life and prove over and over again that they are worth it. The real friends are the ones you can feel comfortable with, that understand you and will do everything is in their power to make you feel better, to help building you up again. You and them will grow up and get more mature and you will also tighten up your relationship, your connection will become stronger and you will no longer have to keep wondering if they deserve your trust, because you will already know the answer. Please, stay true to yourself, even if you are alone, make yourself as a friend until someone else will come into your life and will prove that they are the ones. Also, when I m feeling down, I get refuge at God, He loves you and He is the friend we all want to have. Think positive, I know how it feels, I also had and I still have a hard time because my plans don't work out the way I wished but I will not give up, you ve got this. I know you can go through this!💕
What got me through these tough times of loneliness is what my grandpa would say, 'Nothing is *better* than nonsense' Appreciate the loneliness. It means you don't have bed people in your life. You have to start from nothing to get somewhere
Hey Khushi Rao... Hi plz don't cry I can understand going through same circumstances may b I don't knw ur story but I can feel ur pain..... U r so strong and courageous.... And special as well
If you will do good to u then only good things will come to u...stop crying and think about your future.. Start loving yourself .. It will surely help you. I promise then you wont need anyone in your life to fill your lonliness.. Stop thinking start doing😊😊😊😊
Get well soon .... Sorry for what happened but u r really lucky that you came to know who all are your real friends.... Don't worry, just love yourself as much as you can ....
Yeah same I only need my family girlfriends/boyfriends come and go just like friends but (if you have close good family) family is forever they're the ones that matter fuck the rest of the world
This is why people see me as reserved and guarded. It's not that I'm shy it's just that I'm not going to waste my time putting in effort for people who won't really care about me and who are just gonna be fake and betray me in times like these.
Peter Martin I can't give up! I want to find people like me.. you are me right? we are rare surely but we exist don't give up find you in others I am sure you will find good friends ☺
Peter Martin idk if this makes me crazy, but I just love them all. And I love so hard. And I’ll keep loving people even if they hurt me. That’s the best part of life; just being in charge of your own existence and loving people even if they have nothing to give you
“Everybody isn’t your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn’t mean you are your friends. People pretend well. At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people, so pay attention.”
I've discovered people have very different views on what friendship is. For a lot of people it's purely someone fun to hang out with & they don't want more than that , or to be around if things are tough.
F riendly R eally awesome I ncreadible E verlasting friendship N ever will stop being there for u D aring sometimes 😉 S omething i could never be God bless you all!!
True friends are those people who had been with you even in your darkest hour .👭 Real friends are expensive and hard to find , so never betray them ( if you have one )💞 Remember , The only friend whom you can thrust completely 💯 is yourself . Love from India 💖
I had 1 friend, she was literally my favourite person, we did everything together, I was going through a shit time and she left me. I helped her with her shit and she abandoned me when I needed her the most.
That's what happened to me, but that's only the best part of it all. I wish I could just make her understand that we both made mistakes, but she doesent want to accept it, and as hard as it is... I think I lost the most important friend I had.
I m gonna talk to u.....hi raiyyan....whats going on......nd u knw wht everyone is suffering frm celebral palsy....some physically nd some most of thm mentally.....so no one is normal.....
I don't know what I'll do without my parents in my life. I truly feel my mother and father are the only people who care about me and they are the only people who love me unconditionally ♥️🤧. I love you mom and dad. You guys are the best parents in the world 😘
I just realize'd that i dont have any real friends... I cant be real with them. they change who i am. and im this weird girl. and there like the cute and fabulous one when i try to be myself.they just say ew. when i say a joke thay everyone at my family laughs at. they say what the heck are you saying. and then continue's what there doing i want a friend that who will guide me love me for who iam who will cheer me up when im sad. a friend that treats me like family. if you dont have real friends. i hope you find one who will love you for who you are
you deserve more, u can talk to me if u want because I know what u feel. u can chat with me on hangouts app or just mail me , don't worry im not a crazy pervert!! im a girl!!! here it is : maryammanahil6@gmail.com im taking the risk of my mail getting hacked lol but I totally understand u and would love to chat to make u feel better
It's really a heart touching video which is based on reality. Recent Scenario, everyone have more than 100 friends in their friend list but during the toughest times we'll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you.
2 months ago. I had a major accident and was hospitalised for 4 weeks. I was told by the doctor that i will heal only after 2-3 months. I was sad that my family had to go through all of this because of me. I am not so good with people so i didnt know what to say to all my relatives who visited me. After 2 days of my accident i was curious as to why none of my so called best friends visited me after such a devastating accident. At last, after a day of questioning my friends in my thoughts i was so depressed. I slept for 9 hours and when i woke up.... i was greeted with a jolly and warm environment. I was so surprised because all my best friends were there. And i was so happy and i started crying...... they took care of me and my parents were happy for me and my parents went home. My friends were all very happy that i survived. And after hours of chatting i asked why it took them 4 days to come to visit me. They asked me if i didnt realised it or was not told about it.. but i was hospitalised 800 km away from our home town and that the hospital in our town was not well built for my treatment.. so i had to be transfered.. and that they were only told after 2 days of my accident Some times misunderstandings happen and may break relationships like glass but the hope of fighting it can only be acquired through trust.... i am only 15 years old and my friends travelled 800 km for me on their own.... i guess i am very lucky to find friends like them. I hope that i will also be a friend who can be trusted
If something happened to my bff I wouldn't be able to see them not because I don't care because I can't see someone I love in pain I am very weak in my heart but I try to appear strong I don't want people to look at me when I am weak and she looks up to me I was the one who protected her from bullying and took so much pain for her
Yeah, it’s shitty, but that’s just how business works. I’m assuming he is an agent. If she is unable to preform the job, they can’t continue to employ her
After any relationship fails for not forginving or really love a care about a person trusting god whom we dont see is hard trusting anyone is hard yet we have to keep trying to at least trust a few people that are in our path sometimes we have to ask i was in hosptil in 93 with pnumonia roommates stole babysitting money while i was in my own husband didnt care to come see me it really devistaed me on top of all that the house were my husband bought together because he wants what is best for me didnt stay to help
Me: (thinks) if I get hit by a car? Will I see who my real friends are? **gets hit by car** 2 days later: Me: did any of my friends come to see me? Nurse: what friends? Me: ok I guess not
Ayanika Majumdar i understand that. That is when u realise they r not really your friend. STAY STRONG!!! (Sorry if im annoying BUT i just love to encourage and inspire ppl something like that)
I'm 19 never had anyone that has ever called me there best friends. It all every time turns to be me calling them my best friends but for them really I'm not. The only time the ones I get to call my friends talk to me or as how I'm doing is when they need a favor from me or are bored and have no one else to talk to. I have cone to embrace that I'm the problem maybe I'm not like able. You know people might say that I'm just making this up for the net but I don't care everyone has there right to think. I have never had anyone to tell my problems, my secrets, to cry with or to be happy with. All my life I didn't have anyone to talk to to trust unconditionally so I choose to stay quiet 😶 and it really did affect me to the point that I can't talk to people anymore without over thinking if they will like me or not... I don't wish anything like this to happen to anyone, so what I do is keep it all inside me and always keep a the tiers in and a smile always. If nothing good is made for me why not make others life better than mine. Some tinesbi feel like my chest is almost busting out and I want to scream and cry. Thou crying comes so easy to me I fight it and I've become so good to be called a faker. I have grown to love my bed cut that's where I feel comfortable being. It knows my every single night. But you know what make the difference don't treat others the way they treat you be there friends no matter what it doesn't matter if they swear you as a friend or not. Be there for them in all times thou they weren't for you. SPREAD LOVE ❤️ AND RESPECT.
As i a person who cant express my thoughts well, i felt every single word you wrote. Ty so much as i can now be able to tell others thanks to this comment.
linda ruth don't worry... at least you don't have fake frnds who pretend to be your besties. I did and i erased them from my life. One day you'll have a friend who understands every word of yours and even your silence. They are difficult to find but most difficult to lose. Have a nice day mate:-)
I still haven't found a 'root' friend. And the ones I had, I've lost them because I've changed, I am not the one I used to be any longer. All my relationships have changed since I changed, some have dissolved, others deepened. In the friendship subject, my only "root" friend is my mom... 😞
I relate to this so much. I feel like every time I go through something major in my life I change so much as a person no one even really knows me anymore so why would they stick around. Even my siblings and grandparents seem to have been "branches" always by my side until something they didn't like or understand happened so the only one still checking in and really wanting to know how I am is my mum. And I really thought I had some good real friends.
I feel like I'm the opposite of these people.... I would be there, chatting and watching videos with them. I have a friend who's having a bad time mentally and I'm ready to be there for her, but she looks to everyone else but me. I have all this help to give, but nobody wants me
I understand you girl. The fact that your ready to be there for them but they dont bother with you and it hurts. And then there is nobody for you either. Meh life is a bitch
My “Real Friends” make fun of me in front of me. I tell them to stop they say their sorry, but it doesn’t change a thing. It really does hurt . I give them multiple chances but they expect to get more. The only reason I don’t leave them is because.... I don’t want to feel alone, at this point I do feel alone. any advice? Edit: It’s over now! Thank you everyone for helping me out 💗
Sometimes being with toxic people is worse than being alone. If you stay with them it only will make you feel depressed and like the problem its you, when it isn't. Some people just aren't for us, no matter how much we want things to be different. Someday you will find people who understand you, but most important you have to find yourself first. Love and accept yourself and you will understand your value. Right now you are with them because you dont value yourself
I also thought this, 5 years back , when i lost everything . Than one day i decide , i will fight my battle alone on my own . Today i am standing alone but i am very happy bcoz i found myself when everyone left me alone for dying.
Shivesh Gupta i can understand coz m facing the same... On bed since last few weeks and no one came to see me other than my family. Got to know who are the real ones.
I agree. In high school and college, many of us had as much as like 10 friends. But after graduations, that declines and you’re lucky to even have like 2 or 3 good ones.
Too many people are always looking for a true friend without first looking at themselves to see if they themselves are what they seek. Aim to be that person no matter what and never let how anyone else treats you change the person that we should all strive to be.
but the thing is, sometimes im tired of being the caring one. when i cared, no one does. when i stopped caring, everyone else does too, and now i can see that the golden rule does not work , or those people i had in my life were just too ignorant to notice
Sweetheart, life can be good or bad, depending on how you choose to look at it. Be a friend to someone else that is in need and see what wonderful things will happen for you both:)
Rahat Pradhan, I'm sorry to hear that. But this is how the world is going and it is sad. You can be better by choosing to be different and be the change you want to see in others. Slowly but slowly, things will change. I wish you well
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Same 2 years ago or three something terrible would happen every week and no one would care but it was that stupid retarded class if ur curious i can tell u everything
Man, is that why I’m the one that always calls and never gets calls back? No one ever calls me. Sometimes I wonder if I should even try anymore. *throws on blanket of isolation* Welp, better get comfy. Edit: I had no idea that I made this comment haha, let alone when I was 16. I really appreciate ya'lls input and the fact that you can relate. I'm about to be graduating hs and college and will be moving across the country soon to continue my studies, so hopefully I'll make some rad friends there. In the meantime, I will continue to talk to people, put myself out there, and just keep enduring life. It's tough af, but I'll make it through
@@juniebunnz you have to believe it. You know that saying. Something alongs the line of " if something bad happens look for the helpers"? We are the helpers.
@@juniebunnz When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping. Fred Roger
I’m the friend who tries to care so much, but people can’t tell. My expressions aren’t that dominant so it’s kind’ve hard to tell what my emotions are. I hate it so much sometimes.
There are no friends, only acquaintances. The earlier you learn this harsh lesson the better. Learn solitude embrace solitude. Work on yourself everyday to leave a dent in the Universe before you die. (Y) On a side note, Parents can be likened to the Roots. Value them, Respect them. :)
There are some friends who don't leave you even if its going to be super tough for them. Value friends too. Seems like you don't have such friends or you're just showing off
That’s not true. Not every friend is a close friend, but there are people that will stick to you no matter what. I have a bunch who’d for example travel for hours once they figure I got a problem
Parents are not the roots. They didn't choose you and you didn't choose them. They may be related by blood but in the end that doesn't matter. Parents can be awful. I have first hand experience in how friends are far more valuable and how the belief that parents are perfect is very damaging as you try and find the best in them where it's not there.
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Rescue a dog and you will have a friend for all their life.
I had a puppy . He was soo loyal and friendly to me . We used to talk like how secret friends do . Unfortunately , he died in an accident when he was 3 months old . I'm missing him soo much 😔. I painted a white toy puppy which looks like him , to remember the memories I spent with him .💖💞
I've suffered with Bipolar Disorder for almost 2 years now, along with sever anxiety, and in this crucial time in my life, I realized that I almost had no true friends. What few friends I did were either always busy or JUST not interested. The loneliness only worsened the symptoms since most times they were all I had to think about. What was worse than that was that I realized that my fake friends made me skeptical of the genuine ones who wanted to be there for me later on in life. I didn't know how to feel comfortable with people going out of their way to be there for me, check up on me, ask how I was doing, etc. Not only are fake friendships unfruitful, they can ruin you for a lifetime and cause you to distance yourself from those who care the most about you. Yes, we must differentiate between real and fake friends, but also be careful not to cast away those who genuinely care about us. We all need someone we can break down in tears in front of, cry with, confess to, laugh with, to share our thoughts, feelings, passions and opinions with. Don't be quick to assume everyone in your life is a snake in the grass, but don't be too afraid to call something what it is and deal with it.
It's sometimes a hard life lesson to learn. I'm grateful to those who showed me that they are my true friends, also for those who showed me they are not.
On July 15th, I slipped and fell down during work. Ended up getting a compound fracture on my left arm, I am lucky though the bone did not break through the skin. Even though it was a small injury, I notified my friend because I was originally going to pay her for something, however I had to use my saved up money in case of emergency for Hospital bills. After explaining the situation, she surprised me the next day at my door with a get well card and flowers. Like I said, it wasn't a HUGE injury. But she was kind enough and showed she cared. I have known her now for a good, 10 years now. No one has done that for me, no one else wise. That is a true friend.
But I hate me so i dont wanna be my friend. I have an amazing bf and amazing friends tho and I love all of them, but i just want me outta my life. But at the same time i want myself here for them. I'm confused
My husband is my root of a tree he’s my strength when I am down he cares he works he looks after me he takes away all my cancer pain he rubs my back nothing Is to much trouble for him even in the night he’s there for me no hair no eyebrows but he tells me am beautiful everyday Lost parts of my body still tells me he loves me more every day we cry together we laugh together he’s my husband and my best friend he holds me when the pain gets to much he sits with me in hospital for hours he talks to me my husband is an human angel 😇 I thank him every day He’s a wonderful man love your loving wife and I thankyou for all your loving and care xxx
You are very blessed. I'm sorry to hear you are going through that. Look into an integrative or functional medicine doctor and improve your immune system by eating whole healthy food, no processed food or grains. God bless and prayer for you. I found so much good information and resources here: thetruthaboutcancer.com/category/nutrition/
I don't have parents my father died 3 month ago, i was feeling so lonely but my friends were always with me whenever i feel sad or alone they always makes me happy. I am so lucky to have a best friends like them❤️
As a fat girl I have friends i was like waoo i have friends too but they just with me just for there time pass and now I am all Alone with all the hate some funny names a little bit of bulling and yeah I AM STILL STRONG ☺
i feel u but dont worry there will be a few people out there whos wiling to be ur friends not the fake one but the real friend 😊 cheer up I am so proud that u are such a strong person, well if u dont mind I can be your friends
Only my parents was my real friends. Everybody have priority in their life, even my adult children but i am myself real friends and i choose best for myself.Best video .
I wouldn't have been able to stop worrying and staying with them for as long as possible a day. I would even stay there and sleep there, but most likely, I wouldn't be able to sleep worrying them all the time
Tbh all my friends aren't really real-friends but I would literally break my hand to make them happy. I don't know why but I feel like I'm giving them something they'll never give me back.
I got hit by a car too (:: Only 3 of my friends came To see me. One of them, moved 3 hours away she cane all the way to me, whilst one of my other "really good friends" sent me a message 3 weeks after saying "I heard something happened, is that true???" and a "ok bye".----.
Let me rewrite it in a sentence: "People in your life are like parts of a tree. In troubled times, the leaves will blow away, the branches will break off, but the roots will stay" - Jay Shetty, August 2018.
I am lucky enough to have real friends since I was 13 that still visit, keep in touch with me and we do things together like camping, canoeing and ice fishing. I am now 62. They are the people I trust and are the same as the roots on the tree as is my family. I only wish more people would hold their true friends close and they too hold them close. Life is shorter than you will evr know.
@@alphyzqrw7222 I met my now wife several years after being in a six year relationship with a woman who then decided to break up. She wasn’t contented with me. I also underwent depression because of that but I was able to overcome it after two years break up. What I did is concentrate on the things I like to do and also hanged out more with my friends. I keep a small circle of good friends rather than have many friends but are not true to you. Though I almost lost my emotions due to that. But one thing, my ex while she was also a great woman, I then realized she wasn’t worth it as she was a social climber.
Some of the toughest parenting is trying to raise my kids how to be a good friend..for things like this exactly. I feel like people have forgotten how to be a friend.
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Fake friends are like shadows.
Staying in the daylight. But leaving in the dark.
Wow
So true. We should be friends lol😄
Shiiiiit that hit close to home..
That and the majority of people that you meet are fake friends, got to choose your friends carefully.
Man, listen....
“Not everyone you lose is a loss”
*wow you’re right*
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I don’t get it
They might still mean something to you, just not a good thing
That statement is so true...that's why I'm happy I went through alot (At first I was like what the f#ck, how the f#ck, why is this happening) and then when the dust settled and I realized errrrr single person I ever did something for in life (Some did nothing for me period) turned on me for their own "Personnel" reasons" I picked myself up and said "Never again"....so now how my life is set up I literally have no friends (In my head) so it's alot easier for me to say f#ckem & wish them well at the same time bc I'm over it and it's like once you heal yaself (bc people will swear it takes years to heal when that's a lie) & you close in on those who caused you hurt, who betrayed you, who did uncalled for shyt it literally feels like dead weight has been lifted off you bc now your not entitled to do none of the things u use to do, bc one thing about people who aren't your friends is they give 0 f#cks about you and will attempt to cut you where they think you'll bleed the most. I seen some shyt but the main thing I'm grateful for is taking credit for building myself, so building myself back up is gonna be a blast bc I don't have that dead weight or obligation with people anymore and that shyt feel good trust me....with friends you care about what they feel/how you make them feel but once you no longer have that it becomes about what "You" feel period...so if I'm not feeling something within myself I'm gonna fix it...F#ck a friend at this point bc I'm a fun person who can socialize with "Men" & "Women" (Bag both sexes if I choose although I've had women push up 😉)alike bc I have charisma, charm, spunk & I'm crafty so ain't no need to trip 😂😂😂...live ya life for you and in return life will be good to you bc I ain't gonna lie friends & family use to stress me the f#ck out bc I was always trying to fix their problems or assist with shyt but man oh man being free from demands, cares, worries & fustration feels so good, I doubt folks will really understand who I REALLY am once we are no longer friends👌
As someone once said:
" True friends are like diamonds,--- precious and rare....
False friends are like leaves,--- found everywhere"
Love it ! I have a couple of diamonds and a lot of leaves.
Wow
Patsy Stone same
...and they make a good crunch when you step on 'em
Haha twisted blossoms
The more I get to know people, the more I come to the realization that being alone is not so bad after all.
Oh my god so so true
@@firstnamelastname3897 don’t say oh my g it’s disrespectful
But the more I force myself to be alone the more lonely I get
True said bro
Exactly!
there is a story that i heard. i want to share it
“a son asked his dad to invite 100 of his friends to his party. the dad went out and instead of telling them “come to the party tomorrow”, he told all of them “my son is extremely sick, could you guys come over tomorrow to be there for him”. the next day only 5 people came, the son asked the dad where his friends where. the dad told him, these are your real friends.
Electrified ! Cool story
I appreciate that
Who has 100 friends tho, i mean unless they're online friends but idk how that works if they're supposed to go to his party.
Still a cool story tho
@@wolfdogamer47439 lmao what type of things go in your brain 😂😂
@@PandaBearUwU XD Hey I was just trying to think about it logically, i mean even tho it was just a example, it still needed reason and logic like literally i doubt anyone has 100 friends irl that live nearby.
...I overthink things too much
*You are never too busy. It is just priorities*
Shit up, it's not that easy.
@@nefelibata4190
even if youre very very busy, wouldnt you have even tried to make time? Especially the girl in the car. She couldve placed the phone on speaker and drove. If not, she couldve called later after parking. If not, before she sleeps. If not, during her break time. If not, during public holidays. However that answer she gave meant that "Oh, Im not interested anymore."
If you were truly someone's friend, their priority is higher than yours. Isnt it fine to visit a friend in the hospital after a horrific accident? "I'll call you next time," but when is next time? Hell, she couldve died then and there.
Nefelibata how is it not easy? I understand there’s work and lots more. But how about leaving them on speaker ? Or talking to them while you are doing something ? Multi tasking is always a great thing to do and it saves time. If that girl was truly a real friend, she would have said to the girl that she will call once she arrives at her house or tomorrow or something, not just be like “Oh, I knew” and just hang up that she wasn’t interested anymore.
True
I am 100% agree
i was hit by a school bus with my friend one month ago. many of my friends reached out. some felt bad but most wouldn’t even care to see me. i’m only 13 and it showed me who my real friends are. (and yes besides a broken hip and brain injuries, i’m recovering :)
Take care
Makeup and Me! - my car was T-boned in 2008. I have a severe brain injury, and multiple other injuries I deal with on a daily basis. I understand what you are going through. Some of my friends live in the next state over, and everything was good as long as I made ALL of the effort to see them. Now that my eyesight is not as good, the only person by my side on a daily basis is my daughter. Just a couple of friends remain ... The people who stick by you become your family. Sending light, love, prayers, well wishes and great juju to get you through :)
I’m so sorry, how are you?
wish you a speedy recovery. hope you’re doing better now
Skull Rage LOOL
I love how people with so many friends say they have no friends.
And then there's people like me, who think they have friends, but in the end, you're just alone, and you pretend everything is fine, when it is not.
@Brad Smith yah dude
Yaa💜
🥺🥺🥺💜💜💜no body is ours except our creator Allah 🥺🥺♥️
Yes I have also so many frds and i thought that they are my best friend.... But not...with time i realize they are not my frdsv. They only come to fulfill the needs from me...and when thing done. They will leave u. that's why I came to know that a human's best frd is only herself. No one can understand us.... Then anyone.
I think bst frnds is only for luckiest person.... Not like me
GOD has a beeter plan for you and that includes ral people who love you😊....GOD bless you🙏
When my best friend was sick, I went to visit her in the hospital without even hesitation. But when I was sick, she didn’t come
It's sad when you realize everyone does not feel the same as you. Some people are givers, feel deeply, honor friendships/relationships. And others just turn the page without a thought.
You should your friend she is fake and God bless you dear😊😘
It hurts when you realized that you are wrong about the people you trust
Maybe She didn't know or wasnt able to come
Same thing happened with me also
Even with a scar like that, She's still beautiful to me lol
SERVENT OF GOD, CREATOR OF LIFE she’s beautiful it any way
one question when u wrote lol did u mean lots of love
Jacinta Logue no it means laughing out loud. She said that because most people think she’s “ugly”
THE WORLD IS UGLY BUT YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL TO MEEEEEEEEEEE
She is. Screw the scar
Not really, I'd like her to give that scar to me. She'd look the way she did, and I... Who cares 'bout me
this is the reality of real life
freestudy4u :(
1.7kth like
No shit
Yea
Reality is sinister
My best Friend is Mirror
When I laugh it also laugh
When i cry it also cry"
- Charlie chaplin
People in the comments are thinking if they have a real friend while I’m thinking if I’m a real friend
Right👍👍 , that's what i first thought about and sometimes i think its not about being friends that i have to be there for someone or show care its just because i am a human and i have a heart i hope i don't have fake friends like who knows
Same!
Adie Reynaldo bro you aren’t alone
daaaamn! so deep bro
Relatable..
My dad was hit by a car and knocked off a cliff. He was admitted into hospital for a very long time in a foreign city. People who he thought cared about didn't visit or message him to find out how he was. They still haven't. People who he never kept contact with flew to see him. Called him every day. Messaged him every day. It taught my whole family how some people aren't there for you. We know who cares now. My father is happy and healthy and now our family has family friends who stood by him and stand by us. People who we thought cared are gone. People are temporary.
Blissful Universe im glad hes okey god bless you ❤️❤️
Blissful Universe I'm glad he's okay. Wish you and your family the best.
.
May god bless you and your family. STAY STRONG!!! (Sorry if u think im annoying BUT i just love to give ppl inspire or something like that)
I pray that he's okay now 💕💕
Be a real friend instead of wasting time looking for a real friend
Good phrase
true. but all of us have ups and downs. we cant be strong all the time. hence why we need someone to return the favor
Oh that touched my heart
What is the use of being so. ..when they don't reciprocate
Oof that's good
When tragedy hit me, I realized I only had myself; no friends or family to rely on. It has made me stronger and helped me reprioritize my life.
Same!!!
True😔
When i realized that "friends" and family members didn't care then my first priority became *SELF DEVELOPMENT*
Hmm that's life for you
My partner left me when I wasn't expecting
She broke me
But I am ok now
And I know God will send forth a good relationship to me
A loving one
I am open
Same here. I had family that only did whay made look good in the church. 🙏🥀
"Some friends are like shadows, you only see them when the sun shines."
-Michael Jackson👑
Welp, either live a lonely life or make the sun always shine. Good luck with that.
well he certainly liked to stare at stars...
King Allen very true at school
U learnt nothing from the Lego Batman movie?
Even when the moon shines there is a shadow.......
I accident 4 years ago, I lost 7 of my front teeth, I saw my family was very embarassed and felt burdened because of me, my friends came to visit me, after I showed my wound they were horrified and looked away at me, after that no one came to see me again, I feel alone and lonely, until now I am alone, I feel I don't have anyone in this world. Now I am 18
I'm gonna assume ur a girl I am one too u know just be one of those women who inspires the young girls out there
PS now u have a new friend ....
ME!!!
@@munyoromoses thank you so much 😄😄😄😄
@DonutKitty Fluff, thanks😄😄😄
Aww I'll be ur friend :)
Btw I don't know you but I am very sure that you r beautiful and precious
@@mellymaria7564 thank you 😄😄😄
Well.. Can't trust people nowadays fake is becoming a new trend
@MaikaBon Лена uwu same
Damn. That is highly true yet sad.
And we all know as soon as a trend happens majority of the population has to follow it.😒
WORDZ 😎
Better to be alone and trust family and God
I used to fight with my mom a lot for not allowing me to hang out with certain friends I had, & disapproving of them. One day I got real sick, & needed lots of pampering & TLC. She made me soup. Gave it to me. Also gave me my meds & was checking on me constantly. If I threw up, she would clean the mess up without any hesitation. She told me some words I will never forget, & made me open my eyes to reality. She said, 'You fight with me constantly, but ask any of those friends of yours to do half of what I am doing for you now.' Enough said. It already had crossed my mind before she said it. I started to gain the highest love & respect for her ever since then..
Same.. I used to fight so much with mom but then I realized how important she was.
Nice👍
Hmm that's life for you
My partner left me when I wasn't expecting
She broke me
But I am ok now
And I know God will send forth a good relationship to me
A loving one
I am open
@@prerana2765 Hmm that's life for you
My partner left me when I wasn't expecting
She broke me
But I am ok now
And I know God will send forth a good relationship to me
A loving one
I am open
@@williamsjames3002 I hope you'll find the best one soon
I feel so bad for her :(((( like gurl ill be ur friend :(((
I donr have Many Friends I mean i have None So its ok.....:Lemme tell you why im Lonely theres a girl in our class i rlly hate And she just Stole all my friends she nevere came and asked me and my bestfriend just abandoned me so Im loneley As you have expected...😫😫😫
Me too
@@imnotascoolasuxd5649 that happened once to me and i ended up losing my faith in humanity. ..... for a while
You need to have compatibility to be friends with new person.. Or else that's just pity/sympathy & it won't last long
Just Fitting IN :3 happened to me 2 years ago after that I knew who were my real friends and stuck with them
My exact scenario! For the past two yrs! Real Hell! Recovering! Love, Friends, Relatives everyone left me in cold even wen I'm dying! Now just sitting inside four walls & surfing net and doing nothing! Waiting to recover still.! Typing wit tears! Plzzzzz have some Humanity!!!!! Leaving someone on their Hard time is Worse than Hell.!!!!
Hey, I don't know you but I can assure you these weren't friends in the first place. A friend will stay with you, even when it's bad, hard, even when you disconnect and won't talk for a long time, they will somehow come back into your life and prove over and over again that they are worth it. The real friends are the ones you can feel comfortable with, that understand you and will do everything is in their power to make you feel better, to help building you up again. You and them will grow up and get more mature and you will also tighten up your relationship, your connection will become stronger and you will no longer have to keep wondering if they deserve your trust, because you will already know the answer. Please, stay true to yourself, even if you are alone, make yourself as a friend until someone else will come into your life and will prove that they are the ones. Also, when I m feeling down, I get refuge at God, He loves you and He is the friend we all want to have. Think positive, I know how it feels, I also had and I still have a hard time because my plans don't work out the way I wished but I will not give up, you ve got this. I know you can go through this!💕
What got me through these tough times of loneliness is what my grandpa would say, 'Nothing is *better* than nonsense'
Appreciate the loneliness. It means you don't have bed people in your life.
You have to start from nothing to get somewhere
Hey Khushi Rao... Hi plz don't cry I can understand going through same circumstances may b I don't knw ur story but I can feel ur pain..... U r so strong and courageous.... And special as well
If you will do good to u then only good things will come to u...stop crying and think about your future..
Start loving yourself ..
It will surely help you.
I promise then you wont need anyone in your life to fill your lonliness..
Stop thinking start doing😊😊😊😊
Get well soon .... Sorry for what happened but u r really lucky that you came to know who all are your real friends....
Don't worry, just love yourself as much as you can ....
Don't expect anything from anyone..
True
Well you should expect support from friends.....
@@trashgoblinz and your family...
This is why I stopped having expectations completely...
@@trashgoblinz except ur friend not giving it and judge u instead
I talk with like 30 people or more everyday, but No friends. I trust no one. So I am only with my family
You made the right choice
Yeah same I only need my family girlfriends/boyfriends come and go just like friends but (if you have close good family) family is forever they're the ones that matter fuck the rest of the world
your lucky dude
@@UnKnown-gj6bp yup👍😆
@MEAT POPSICLES •89 years ago •Just talking to them and not being fake lol
This is why people see me as reserved and guarded. It's not that I'm shy it's just that I'm not going to waste my time putting in effort for people who won't really care about me and who are just gonna be fake and betray me in times like these.
Peter Martin same for me... i’m reserved and guarded too
Same.
Peter Martin I can't give up! I want to find people like me.. you are me right? we are rare surely but we exist don't give up find you in others I am sure you will find good friends ☺
fluffle sings dude, maybe we're twins ?? Cuz you just described me ..
Peter Martin idk if this makes me crazy, but I just love them all. And I love so hard. And I’ll keep loving people even if they hurt me. That’s the best part of life; just being in charge of your own existence and loving people even if they have nothing to give you
"I didn't lose a *friend* , I just realized I never had one..."
@Johnny Ortega’s Father Your the One who is a loser. Not him not everyone else ..
Most people never will, welcome to the club.
@@ziruiwang4806 *Welcome to the losers club asshole*
( IT reference )
L
He got the idea from the anime quotes video
I really fear that situation because I don't have anyone to call a friend
Then be socialize or learn to be in human connection!💖💖💖
Lukyamuzi Baric bro i am ur friend... love from india
Prathi prathu hope if so I shall be grateful, just whatsapp me on +255742902411 or Instagram @baricprince
Those who do not have someone to call as a frnd, he or she has their God by their side. So don't worry, remember nd depend on ur God 😊✌👍
Mehebuba Arfin when you dont believe in God, so youre still forever alone..
“Everybody isn’t your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn’t mean you are your friends. People pretend well. At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people, so pay attention.”
So true
I've discovered people have very different views on what friendship is. For a lot of people it's purely someone fun to hang out with & they don't want more than that , or to be around if things are tough.
The Fake ones will ALWAYS use you While Laughing with you.
That's why I love you antakshari
If my friend called me and said they were in the hospital even if it was midnight I'd frikkin go see them even if I had to run there myself
Sandra Ho Same I would freak out
As would I, if I had a friend...
Same
same
But the thing is , would they do the same for you ?
“Not everyone you lose is a loss”. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will have room in your life for better people. 🙏
Mhm true
Mhm true
Well said.
When someone always says "Sorry, I've been busy" u know u need to move on...
I Concur 💯!! I chaulk it up to their loss & they did me a favor !
The word Friend is easy to define, but it’s hard when some people don’t understand about the word -FRIENDSHIP-
Now YOU
Are VISE
daviddaboss69 wIsE
F riendly
R eally awesome
I ncreadible
E verlasting friendship
N ever will stop being there for u
D aring sometimes 😉
S omething i could never be
God bless you all!!
It is just a meaningless word that people use to get close to you so that they can obtain more money and status for themselves.
depressed 14 year olds
True friends are those people who had been with you even in your darkest hour .👭
Real friends are expensive and hard to find , so never betray them ( if you have one )💞
Remember ,
The only friend whom you can thrust completely 💯 is yourself .
Love from India 💖
Doctor: How are you feeling?
Me: I just got hit by a car how do you think I feel?
Syd Thekid What a dumb question
🤣🤣🤣
Me: and no friends that value my love
Syd Thekid hhhahaa thats funny 😀😁😂💝
The SN hajaaha ha 😉😂😁
The true friends are not those who celebrate happy moments with you
True friends are those who stay with you during your worst time 😬
Exactly, but true friends stay on both occasions
True friends are mostly there for you
Thank you
For
That
indeed
Mine: runs from me when I get hurt
"Not Everyone you Lose is a Loss." Drop Mic...
Prosperous RLT3 *applause
Applause 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
*Mic drop starts playing*
Right indeed ah
Very well said!!!
The most fortunate people are the ones who have friends holding their backs in bad times and supporting them in every step they take.
I had 1 friend, she was literally my favourite person, we did everything together, I was going through a shit time and she left me. I helped her with her shit and she abandoned me when I needed her the most.
me to.
I hope you'll feel better soon
That's what happened to me, but that's only the best part of it all. I wish I could just make her understand that we both made mistakes, but she doesent want to accept it, and as hard as it is... I think I lost the most important friend I had.
The exact same thing happened to me last year! Hope you are okay now
So relatable, same
Jay you are my real friend because I am suffering from cerebral palsy and no one like to talk to me
❤️
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
I will pray for you.
I m gonna talk to u.....hi raiyyan....whats going on......nd u knw wht everyone is suffering frm celebral palsy....some physically nd some most of thm mentally.....so no one is normal.....
Hey RAIYAAN,, how are you,, we are listening, so you just speak ,, there will always be someone to listen to , just don’t give up ...
Mohd.Raiyyan khan I’ll talk to anyone that needs someone. What’s up? 😀
When I was small I got afraid of ghost
As I grow elder I'm afraid of people
Why be afraid of the dead when you can be afraid of the ones alive
@@honeyacharya7815 but- thats what he said
Your fear of ghost evolved to fear of humans
Then when you become an elderly, you'll be afraid of the ghosts of people.
You're right... i'm not even enough to worry about these things but i am..
I dont even know why...
I don't know what I'll do without my parents in my life. I truly feel my mother and father are the only people who care about me and they are the only people who love me unconditionally ♥️🤧. I love you mom and dad. You guys are the best parents in the world 😘
I just realize'd that i dont have any real friends...
I cant be real with them. they change who i am.
and im this weird girl. and there like the cute and fabulous one
when i try to be myself.they just say ew.
when i say a joke thay everyone at my family laughs at.
they say what the heck are you saying. and then continue's what there doing
i want a friend that who will guide me love me for who iam who will cheer me up when im sad.
a friend that treats me like family.
if you dont have real friends. i hope you find one who will love you for who you are
you deserve more, u can talk to me if u want because I know what u feel. u can chat with me on hangouts app or just mail me , don't worry im not a crazy pervert!! im a girl!!!
here it is : maryammanahil6@gmail.com
im taking the risk of my mail getting hacked lol but I totally understand u and would love to chat to make u feel better
God bless u..✌
Oh girl
You did make me cry !
And thanks for that wish . Hope it will help me soon .
+Disha Dhouliyan hn yrr 😯. .
sch m....
Kbhi kbhi bhut bura lgta h mujhe .....logo ki condition dekh kr😡😢...
hr hr mahadev ✌
+Disha Dhouliyan hehe. .m not a pervert ...but I hve to say...you are beautiful. .☺✌
I’ve been hurt by so many *leafs* and *branches* that I don’t call them my friends anymore , I call them my acquaintances.
Truth! Even family. Times they are the worse.
Call them your dead ends
Lol
HEY SAME WITH THE ACQUAINTANCES LMAO
R.A.L. I LOTTERLY CALL THEM MY ACQUAINTANCES TOOOOO
*gets severely injured in car accident*
_phone doesn’t have a scratch_
Logic.
Every car accident could damage a phone ?
That too iphone 😂
But what if she didn't have her phone in the car accident!!
I drop my phone off my bed and it brakes :/
It's really a heart touching video which is based on reality. Recent Scenario, everyone have more than 100 friends in their friend list but during the toughest times we'll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you.
2 months ago. I had a major accident and was hospitalised for 4 weeks. I was told by the doctor that i will heal only after 2-3 months. I was sad that my family had to go through all of this because of me. I am not so good with people so i didnt know what to say to all my relatives who visited me. After 2 days of my accident i was curious as to why none of my so called best friends visited me after such a devastating accident. At last, after a day of questioning my friends in my thoughts i was so depressed. I slept for 9 hours and when i woke up.... i was greeted with a jolly and warm environment. I was so surprised because all my best friends were there. And i was so happy and i started crying...... they took care of me and my parents were happy for me and my parents went home. My friends were all very happy that i survived. And after hours of chatting i asked why it took them 4 days to come to visit me. They asked me if i didnt realised it or was not told about it.. but i was hospitalised 800 km away from our home town and that the hospital in our town was not well built for my treatment.. so i had to be transfered.. and that they were only told after 2 days of my accident
Some times misunderstandings happen and may break relationships like glass but the hope of fighting it can only be acquired through trust.... i am only 15 years old and my friends travelled 800 km for me on their own.... i guess i am very lucky to find friends like them. I hope that i will also be a friend who can be trusted
I am so glad you have people like that in your life. I hope you treat them well and are thankful for them everyday.
Ur so lucky to have friends like them !!
Omg! So your so lucky! May you and your friends always be together! And you always be happy!
P.S: Never lose them!!
If something happened to my bff I wouldn't be able to see them not because I don't care because I can't see someone I love in pain I am very weak in my heart but I try to appear strong I don't want people to look at me when I am weak and she looks up to me I was the one who protected her from bullying and took so much pain for her
I hope you're better now and I'm glad you have such great friends, treat them right as well :)💕💕💕
People who are like roots dont show off like leaves but they always help you from the inside😊😊
Love You Jay Shetty
You made India proud by 16m on FB
I agree...life is an inside job.
.Not every thing that leaves...is a loss...
+Agree💯✔💥
My like will hit you 1000
“I don’t understand...”
“You’ll understand”
Me: WHAT?!
i get it , bcz u hit me bcz u don't like me to work with u :"D
Sounds like an asshole
Almost 666 likes :O
Yeah, it’s shitty, but that’s just how business works. I’m assuming he is an agent. If she is unable to preform the job, they can’t continue to employ her
Its “You will” so she will understand in the future
With "friends" like that, who needs enemies!
So I just realized I have no real friends and have probably never had a real friend in my life :( yay
Rose Me either rose
Same.
Your not alone
After any relationship fails for not forginving or really love a care about a person trusting god whom we dont see is hard trusting anyone is hard yet we have to keep trying to at least trust a few people that are in our path sometimes we have to ask i was in hosptil in 93 with pnumonia roommates stole babysitting money while i was in my own husband didnt care to come see me it really devistaed me on top of all that the house were my husband bought together because he wants what is best for me didnt stay to help
I can become your friend if you want to. I know it will be difficult to be friends on the internet but if you're really lonely we'll find a way 💗
Plot twist Jessica was the one who hit her
Evan Devin lmao
Lol
Because jealousy was consuming Jessica
😂
🤔🤔🤔🤔
Me: (thinks) if I get hit by a car? Will I see who my real friends are?
**gets hit by car**
2 days later:
Me: did any of my friends come to see me?
Nurse: what friends?
Me: ok I guess not
Lol xD sorry that was a little funny...But you'll always have someone near you!💑💟
Hey it's Maria Sometimes you feel like you don’t 😭 but then you realize you do 🙂
ItsAbbyyy T god is always with you. Just believe
I.. can’t really.. say anything to something so relatable yet it somewhat isn’t.
@@lilyhrtz_
What's so funny about?For me it's not funny because I can relate,I don't have friends,I have fake friends.
Sometimes I really want to distance myself from most of my friends when I start realising the truth about them:(
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Same
You can't be confused about who your real friends are if...
You don't have any friends at all 😉
Feel.
🎶 *all around me are familiar faces* 🎶
Corrupt Neo Oof me
No friends for life lest go :)
ba dum tsss
Oh God I can't believe how easily people leave us when we need them most 🙁
I feel that
Ayanika Majumdar i understand that. That is when u realise they r not really your friend. STAY STRONG!!! (Sorry if im annoying BUT i just love to encourage and inspire ppl something like that)
@@julietscarlet2493 Its fine 😊
Ayanika Majumdar oh yes they can...
I'm 19 never had anyone that has ever called me there best friends. It all every time turns to be me calling them my best friends but for them really I'm not. The only time the ones I get to call my friends talk to me or as how I'm doing is when they need a favor from me or are bored and have no one else to talk to. I have cone to embrace that I'm the problem maybe I'm not like able. You know people might say that I'm just making this up for the net but I don't care everyone has there right to think. I have never had anyone to tell my problems, my secrets, to cry with or to be happy with. All my life I didn't have anyone to talk to to trust unconditionally so I choose to stay quiet 😶 and it really did affect me to the point that I can't talk to people anymore without over thinking if they will like me or not... I don't wish anything like this to happen to anyone, so what I do is keep it all inside me and always keep a the tiers in and a smile always. If nothing good is made for me why not make others life better than mine. Some tinesbi feel like my chest is almost busting out and I want to scream and cry. Thou crying comes so easy to me I fight it and I've become so good to be called a faker. I have grown to love my bed cut that's where I feel comfortable being. It knows my every single night. But you know what make the difference don't treat others the way they treat you be there friends no matter what it doesn't matter if they swear you as a friend or not. Be there for them in all times thou they weren't for you. SPREAD LOVE ❤️ AND RESPECT.
As i a person who cant express my thoughts well, i felt every single word you wrote. Ty so much as i can now be able to tell others thanks to this comment.
linda ruth don't worry... at least you don't have fake frnds who pretend to be your besties. I did and i erased them from my life. One day you'll have a friend who understands every word of yours and even your silence. They are difficult to find but most difficult to lose. Have a nice day mate:-)
Robert Pham tip: express your feelings in a diary... That way you'll feel relaxed and better.
@@mahak0964 thank you ❤
@@robertphamable as Mahak said write everything you feel down you will a little better or even grt. Always works for me
I still haven't found a 'root' friend. And the ones I had, I've lost them because I've changed, I am not the one I used to be any longer. All my relationships have changed since I changed, some have dissolved, others deepened. In the friendship subject, my only "root" friend is my mom... 😞
I relate to this so much. I feel like every time I go through something major in my life I change so much as a person no one even really knows me anymore so why would they stick around. Even my siblings and grandparents seem to have been "branches" always by my side until something they didn't like or understand happened so the only one still checking in and really wanting to know how I am is my mum. And I really thought I had some good real friends.
You never change... situations change and that makes people think that you have changed
Aww..
Shall I be your root? 💗
Same the roots are my mom and dad and brother.
If my friend got hit by a car best believe I'll stop every thing I'm doing to go to them
The world isnt like us...
If they're doing bad things to you, there's no reason you have to be like them too.
Same.
Me TOO
I feel like I'm the opposite of these people.... I would be there, chatting and watching videos with them. I have a friend who's having a bad time mentally and I'm ready to be there for her, but she looks to everyone else but me. I have all this help to give, but nobody wants me
This is me. I thought I was alone on this.
Elikao It sucks doesn't it
same
I understand you girl. The fact that your ready to be there for them but they dont bother with you and it hurts. And then there is nobody for you either. Meh life is a bitch
same
My “Real Friends” make fun of me in front of me.
I tell them to stop they say their sorry, but it doesn’t change a thing.
It really does hurt .
I give them multiple chances but they expect to get more.
The only reason I don’t leave them is because.... I don’t want to feel alone, at this point I do feel alone.
any advice?
Edit: It’s over now! Thank you everyone for helping me out 💗
BluSky MH Thanks! I really do appreciate it. I’ll Try To Take Your Advice And Make Better True Friends.
same:(
Sometimes being with toxic people is worse than being alone. If you stay with them it only will make you feel depressed and like the problem its you, when it isn't. Some people just aren't for us, no matter how much we want things to be different. Someday you will find people who understand you, but most important you have to find yourself first. Love and accept yourself and you will understand your value. Right now you are with them because you dont value yourself
You will never be alone💓💓💓💓There will always be a someone who is waiting to make friends with you, and when you find them treasure them💓💓💓💓💓
find new friends, hun. I'm sure there are other nicer people out there
Now i just realized i dont have real friends.....
They dont even care for me....
At first, they always talk and care for me...
But now.....
They dont
Sad, but same
I also thought this, 5 years back , when i lost everything . Than one day i decide , i will fight my battle alone on my own . Today i am standing alone but i am very happy bcoz i found myself when everyone left me alone for dying.
Protection Blood id love to be friends with you
I don't even have friends
Hiro's Arts and Music I feel the same way about my “friend” group right now
The real friend is...
The nurse.
She's just doing her job
@@coonjamalay but she does it well
@@buikhanhlinh2186 definitely. I really like that
army
Lmao
Quarantine !
That's better than fake friends😉😊
Shivesh Gupta I don't know who you are , but your situation was like mine . Stay strong and be happy with people that you trust!!!
Shivesh Gupta i can understand coz m facing the same... On bed since last few weeks and no one came to see me other than my family. Got to know who are the real ones.
@@shankariification Hope you will be Fine
Shivesh Gupta thank you so much!!
Having only one true friend is more valuable then having thousands of fake friends
So true. Especially so-called social media friends.
I agree. In high school and college, many of us had as much as like 10 friends. But after graduations, that declines and you’re lucky to even have like 2 or 3 good ones.
that phone has anti car crash glass
Hahaha
😂😂😂
Bruhhhhh I was thinking that same thing 😂
I want that kind of phone
Wiza Maulana evn I thought d sm..lol
Too many people are always looking for a true friend without first looking at themselves to see if they themselves are what they seek. Aim to be that person no matter what and never let how anyone else treats you change the person that we should all strive to be.
but the thing is, sometimes im tired of being the caring one. when i cared, no one does. when i stopped caring, everyone else does too, and now i can see that the golden rule does not work , or those people i had in my life were just too ignorant to notice
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I used to be like that but I learned on how to understand on how things work and now I have 2 true best friends ( I used to have 3 )
I like you but sometimes we need some real friends
this is why I choose to isolate myself. No one can hurt me, I can't be self-conscious,and won't be judged.
but won't u regret ur life living like that later on? because u can always find the most precious gems in the dirt
U will need someone at some point
I was planning on living like that bc of my peers in college.
eating is gr8 this is the raeson i go outside and will not stay inside. For persons who dont give adamn . No not anymore!
You know who's always there...God!
'Not everyone you lose is a loss'. I felt that.
Wish I had a real friend
Sweetheart, life can be good or bad, depending on how you choose to look at it. Be a friend to someone else that is in need and see what wonderful things will happen for you both:)
Trisha R oh in Paris ? I wish . No one has time for anybody here.
Rahat Pradhan i do too :(
lali :p ok we can be friends
Rahat Pradhan, I'm sorry to hear that. But this is how the world is going and it is sad. You can be better by choosing to be different and be the change you want to see in others. Slowly but slowly, things will change. I wish you well
Is there anyone out there besides me that wants to jump through the screen and hug this poor girl? Damn.
Nobody helps when I'm in trouble. Nobody had sympathy or compassion for me when I was on hard times. So, forgive me if I don't share your feelings.
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Same 2 years ago or three something terrible would happen every week and no one would care but it was that stupid retarded class if ur curious i can tell u everything
@@AlkahestHD I'm interested..
not really I don't feel the acting
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 well i will help anyone even if that person is nobody related to me ....😊💜
Man, is that why I’m the one that always calls and never gets calls back? No one ever calls me. Sometimes I wonder if I should even try anymore. *throws on blanket of isolation* Welp, better get comfy.
Edit: I had no idea that I made this comment haha, let alone when I was 16. I really appreciate ya'lls input and the fact that you can relate. I'm about to be graduating hs and college and will be moving across the country soon to continue my studies, so hopefully I'll make some rad friends there. In the meantime, I will continue to talk to people, put myself out there, and just keep enduring life. It's tough af, but I'll make it through
Thats me too. I care too much. But keep being you. We are special.
Nica I wish I could believe it sometimes.
@@juniebunnz you have to believe it. You know that saying. Something alongs the line of " if something bad happens look for the helpers"? We are the helpers.
Nica hm
@@juniebunnz When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.
Fred Roger
Jay Shetty Was A man with PURE idea and clarity .I love him .
I’m the friend who tries to care so much, but people can’t tell. My expressions aren’t that dominant so it’s kind’ve hard to tell what my emotions are. I hate it so much sometimes.
KITTIEDITS Same.
Emotions are something that I don’t understand either.😔😔😔
Same
Tbh same.
same
I know this isn’t very related but
*I wish someone could understand that knowing people and having friends are 2 different things 😢*
Exactly you are so spot on
Hey army
Hello you r BTS army??
MIN YOONGIIIII!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow nowadays army are everywhere
in 30 years of my life I have never found a true friend.
:/ That's tough...
I can be your friend-
im 15 tho, can i be your friend?. ik what it feels like not having any one in life.
@Shivangi Sharma ' > ' Guess i'm the youngest here-
😖
Same brother 🙌
99% Comments: Talking about fake friends and stuff
1% Me: Wondering how her face is damaged but not her phone
Good point tho...
I'm apart of that 1 percent
BRUHHH LMAO SAME
LMAO THAT WAS THE EXACT THINGI WAS THINKING
Haha
There are no friends, only acquaintances. The earlier you learn this harsh lesson the better. Learn solitude embrace solitude. Work on yourself everyday to leave a dent in the Universe before you die. (Y)
On a side note, Parents can be likened to the Roots. Value them, Respect them. :)
True
There are some friends who don't leave you even if its going to be super tough for them. Value friends too. Seems like you don't have such friends or you're just showing off
That’s not true. Not every friend is a close friend, but there are people that will stick to you no matter what. I have a bunch who’d for example travel for hours once they figure I got a problem
I can relate so much to this is painful
Parents are not the roots. They didn't choose you and you didn't choose them. They may be related by blood but in the end that doesn't matter. Parents can be awful. I have first hand experience in how friends are far more valuable and how the belief that parents are perfect is very damaging as you try and find the best in them where it's not there.
Rescue a dog and you will have a friend for all their life.
You will have a dog, for all their life (which is 1/7 of yours, at best), no less, no more. Just saying
Hey friend, we have the same thoughts. That's true
Exactly❤️❤️
I had a puppy . He was soo loyal and friendly to me . We used to talk like how secret friends do .
Unfortunately , he died in an accident when he was 3 months old . I'm missing him soo much 😔.
I painted a white toy puppy which looks like him , to remember the memories I spent with him .💖💞
Same happened to me I miss him so much I rescued him it has been two years without him every time I remember him I start to cry😢😢😢😭😭
I've suffered with Bipolar Disorder for almost 2 years now, along with sever anxiety, and in this crucial time in my life, I realized that I almost had no true friends. What few friends I did were either always busy or JUST not interested. The loneliness only worsened the symptoms since most times they were all I had to think about. What was worse than that was that I realized that my fake friends made me skeptical of the genuine ones who wanted to be there for me later on in life. I didn't know how to feel comfortable with people going out of their way to be there for me, check up on me, ask how I was doing, etc. Not only are fake friendships unfruitful, they can ruin you for a lifetime and cause you to distance yourself from those who care the most about you. Yes, we must differentiate between real and fake friends, but also be careful not to cast away those who genuinely care about us. We all need someone we can break down in tears in front of, cry with, confess to, laugh with, to share our thoughts, feelings, passions and opinions with. Don't be quick to assume everyone in your life is a snake in the grass, but don't be too afraid to call something what it is and deal with it.
Glad youve woken up to this reality. Some are still asleep.
There is always some one out there who loves you. I love you
Hey buddy. Really sorry to hear that. Sincerely hope you feel better. Lots of love!
I agree with you
I feel you. Stay strong, and remember. Online friends is wayyy more great than real life. I can be your friend
It's sometimes a hard life lesson to learn. I'm grateful to those who showed me that they are my true friends, also for those who showed me they are not.
2:44 That beautiful poem he explains is fucking beautiful. I don't think I come to that kind of realization until this moment
@@mathgod3193 I think he wanted to tell this "the leaves(fake friends) are the first ones who leave the tree(the person) when storm begins."
The video: **talking about fake friends and real friends**
Me: I don’t even have friends why am I here
Praise the lord Namjesus
@@zartashamehdi My ears aoaorgghh🤪
Namjesus HII ARMYY YOU HAVE FRIENDSS ANDD ARMY/BTS IS ARMY.. BUT SAME I ALSO DONT HAVE FRIENDSS
Namjesus fr huh
el mhm
A real friend... isn't sombody that let your problems disappear.
*But they are the ones that won't disappear when you face problems!*
A.R.M.Y.........
ARMY!!! 💜
Yes
Yo, want to buy a million dollar robot companion fabricated by Hollywood because our product won't leave you when you are in trouble.
Cringey fans
This is the right thing that's y I live alone.I enjoy always my Own Company. Everyone knows everything, but they remain unknown even after knowing.
On July 15th, I slipped and fell down during work. Ended up getting a compound fracture on my left arm, I am lucky though the bone did not break through the skin.
Even though it was a small injury, I notified my friend because I was originally going to pay her for something, however I had to use my saved up money in case of emergency for Hospital bills.
After explaining the situation, she surprised me the next day at my door with a get well card and flowers.
Like I said, it wasn't a HUGE injury. But she was kind enough and showed she cared. I have known her now for a good, 10 years now. No one has done that for me, no one else wise. That is a true friend.
Not everyone we loose is a loss💛
After MBBS smartest quote Ive ever seen
Edit: read*
True :)
"Not everyone we lose* is a loss."
Sorry 😭😭 I was just soo triggered because Lose and loose are two different things!👏😥
Epic lines
The real friend you're talking about is you and only you, mark my lesson of life
True, i don't feel like i could trust people enough. There's time i let something out and immediately regret it (like right now)
👏👏👏👏👏🤘🤘🤘u rock
Very well said
But I hate me so i dont wanna be my friend. I have an amazing bf and amazing friends tho and I love all of them, but i just want me outta my life. But at the same time i want myself here for them. I'm confused
My husband is my root of a tree he’s my strength when I am down he cares he works he looks after me he takes away all my cancer pain he rubs my back nothing Is to much trouble for him even in the night he’s there for me no hair no eyebrows but he tells me am beautiful everyday
Lost parts of my body still tells me he loves me more every day we cry together we laugh together he’s my husband and my best friend he holds me when the pain gets to much he sits with me in hospital for hours he talks to me my husband is an human angel 😇 I thank him every day
He’s a wonderful man love your loving wife and I thankyou for all your loving and care xxx
You are very blessed. I'm sorry to hear you are going through that. Look into an integrative or functional medicine doctor and improve your immune system by eating whole healthy food, no processed food or grains. God bless and prayer for you.
I found so much good information and resources here:
thetruthaboutcancer.com/category/nutrition/
@@contentedspirit9022 thankyou 😊
@@jobyjohn3527 Thankyou so much 💓
Mom: it's because of that Dang phone
Lmao
its true
That would LITERALLY be my mom hahahahaha
XxPanda BearxX lmao
🤣🤣🤣 my mom, when she arrives at the hospital..."Where did u put your eyes?!". 🙄🤣
I don't have parents my father died 3 month ago, i was feeling so lonely but my friends were always with me whenever i feel sad or alone they always makes me happy. I am so lucky to have a best friends like them❤️
God bless you angle child. May you be blessed with all the happiness and comfort you account for. ❤
My father died 3 years ago when i was 12 and my mom is addicted to drugs i don't even know if she is dead luckly my aunt adopted me
Jade Floyd I live with my aunt for similar reasons🖤 I’m sorry
I don't have friends... I only have fake ones... alot! I don't have real friends, my real friend is just myself.
Welp, I wish I had friends 😢
I want to be your frnd👫👫
ill be your friend 🤗
In the end ...u just have yourself;)
Just trust yourself.
Have a relation and socialize is important but u cant dependent on them
Same girl same and I just started a new school and it’s awkward I’m a loner have no one but I’m fine
;-; I would really enjoy being friends. :]
I can relate
I’ve never been in a hospital but I can imagine that no one would even notice that i had an accident.
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As a fat girl I have friends i was like waoo i have friends too but they just with me just for there time pass and now I am all Alone with all the hate some funny names a little bit of bulling and yeah I AM STILL STRONG ☺
i feel u but dont worry there will be a few people out there whos wiling to be ur friends not the fake one but the real friend 😊 cheer up I am so proud that u are such a strong person, well if u dont mind I can be your friends
Dont give a damn to any!! You slay gurl😍😙
joshu kookie that's good that your still strong.💓you'll find real friends one day, it'll get better i promise
I want to be your friend. lunalovegoodfav@gmail.com email me if you want :)
Its oki
Remember life starts at the other side of despair
Only my parents was my real friends. Everybody have priority in their life, even my adult children but i am myself real friends and i choose best for myself.Best video .
If my friend called me and she was in the hospital
I would run bawlinhg to the hospital
I wouldn't have been able to stop worrying and staying with them for as long as possible a day. I would even stay there and sleep there, but most likely, I wouldn't be able to sleep worrying them all the time
@HoneyMelon Xx Please be my friend
I would do the same even tho they wouldn't for me
Tbh all my friends aren't really real-friends but I would literally break my hand to make them happy. I don't know why but I feel like I'm giving them something they'll never give me back.
HoneyMelon Xx I’d do the same .
"Not everyone you lose is a loss". Thank you for these words Jay Shetty.
"Real friends can't make our problems disappear,
But they won't disappear with our problems."
That hit me
I got hit by a car too (::
Only 3 of my friends came To see me. One of them, moved 3 hours away she cane all the way to me, whilst one of my other "really good friends" sent me a message 3 weeks after saying "I heard something happened, is that true???" and a "ok bye".----.
NoName MSP I got hit by a car and my best friend risked getting in trouble with his mum by staying with me until the paramactics
Come
Ohmyfalafel that's so sweet aghh My brother saw me get hit, n he was just crying and screaming saying I was dead
NoName MSP that's really sweet of your brother
@goofyp Ilm lmao
Let me rewrite it in a sentence:
"People in your life are like parts of a tree. In troubled times, the leaves will blow away, the branches will break off, but the roots will stay" - Jay Shetty, August 2018.
I am lucky enough to have real friends since I was 13 that still visit, keep in touch with me and we do things together like camping, canoeing and ice fishing. I am now 62. They are the people I trust and are the same as the roots on the tree as is my family. I only wish more people would hold their true friends close and they too hold them close. Life is shorter than you will evr know.
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The only true friend that I have at the moment was my then girlfriend, now my wife!
You are so lucky!!! I am so happy for both of you!!!
I know I'm late but congratulations.
Lucky you. Am going through extreme depression after being ghosted with a woman i always loved and supported. It really haunt me every time
@@alphyzqrw7222 I met my now wife several years after being in a six year relationship with a woman who then decided to break up. She wasn’t contented with me. I also underwent depression because of that but I was able to overcome it after two years break up. What I did is concentrate on the things I like to do and also hanged out more with my friends. I keep a small circle of good friends rather than have many friends but are not true to you. Though I almost lost my emotions due to that.
But one thing, my ex while she was also a great woman, I then realized she wasn’t worth it as she was a social climber.
@@flip1sba me i dont even have friends
Some of the toughest parenting is trying to raise my kids how to be a good friend..for things like this exactly. I feel like people have forgotten how to be a friend.
They were not forgotten, they just pretend to not care it