This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear. DONT ignore red flags, don't ignore that voice deep down inside of you telling you something isn't right or ok. Stick up for yourself.... in a kind way. But take care of you, because frankly, no one else is going to.
@@deecarter4658 And I am the queen of ignoring them or rationalizing things. I have sold myself short for so many years but I am FINALLY, at 45, learning to draw boundaries and STICK to them.
I think most people have a memory of a situation where they ignored red flags or simply didn't trust their gut when things didn't seem right. While we may have forgotten the specific red flag we easily remember the price we paid for not paying attention. Playing the "if only I had..." game is no fun at all but learning to advocate for yourself, and doing so, can be a significant challenge especially when you've been taught to agree, comply and accept what others put upon you. Fear of being reprimanded, criticized or perhaps losing an opportunity often keep us from standing up for ourselves. Unfortunately by not doing so we may be accepting by default discomfort, disrespect and even abuse. This is why it is so important to teach children to express themselves as autonomous individuals so they can develop the skills necessary to confidently represent their thoughts, ideas and feelings in personal and professional environments. Making yourself the most important priority is not selfish, it is an act of self preservation, self care and self love. When you take good care of yourself you are better able to take care of others in all aspects of your life.
Melissa McCarthy is such a beautiful lady & has a heart of gold. I could've watched these two ladies for hours. Kelly & Melissa are such incredible woman.
When they were talking about million dollar baby I knew exactly what Melissa was talking about and I totally agree Hillary swank deserved her Oscar more than anyone
Melissa is one of the most beautiful women I've ever layed my eyes upon. She's BEAUTIFUL inside and out. I love her❤ She's full of integrity, wisdom and grace 🙏
I can't imagine a life without Melissa Mccarthy! This women saved me so many times. She kept my sanity in check by making me lose it in laughter. God Bless You Melissa and THANK YOU FOR NEVER GIVEN UP 🙏 ❤ ♥ EDIT: YOUR MOM IS PROUD YA DIDN'T TAKE IT OFF LOL
No she’s not good. She turns almost every conversation about herself. She was asking Melissa about almost quitting then before Melissa even answered she interjected that she almost quit. Then the conversation shifted to her and Melissa never told her own story. This is such a common way Kelly conducts her interviews. And not to be mean spirited but if Kelly was like this during her marriage, then that could have played a part in the divorce.
I'm so glad both of them didn't gave up on their talents. I fell for Kelly ❤️ when she traded places with Randy. I would have always wondered what happened to her. My life would be different if she never got famous. Melissa you keep up the great work you do too your a great comic show actress 😊
I love watching Kelly do this because it feels so much more like a conversation. Not bashing any other, famous (hint) talk show hosts on right now, but the conversations don’t always feel authentic.
I cannot imagine a world where either one of these ladies is not famous... Melissa McCarthy's work has been a delight, if I am sad or depressed or stressed I know I can throw on one of her movies and feel better by the end of it, because she is so good and the roles she takes are ones that have helped me a lot...more than most award winning movies have, noteable exceptions are Robin Williams movies, and thats because he did serious roles like no one else can, he can have you balling your eyes out one moment then dying of laughter the literal next moment, it's God level performance when you can do that. A world without Kelly's career and influence on music, no her music is astoundingly good, it has uplifted me, it has made me move to the music, it has made me cry and it has just made me feel alive in times that I otherwise was numb to everything else.
Wow That made me tear up a little. It was touching to hear them two discuss how hard and difficult their lives can be, in being famous. They both almost gave up on their careers. And how Melissa said she talks things out. Im glad im not the only one that does that.
I'm so glad to hear you say it, because this is REAL LIFE! and all those influencers showing just the glamorous parts and pretending to be just "blessed" make me feel confused about my own experiences! you are special for showing us what it really is like and how to push through the challenges!
No joke that it must be SO hard being a woman in the Entertainment industry! For all of you ladies like Kelly and Melissa, we thank you for not giving up! Seriously, the amount of feelings yall have brought out in me over the years, and the times where your God given talents have soothed me through difficult times...has been nothing short of many blessings. PLEASE dont ever leave us! 100% Yall have no idea the importance of your work for people just trying to make it through life
Yes! Speaking up in the moment is HARD. Especially when you are in the minority or you are totally alone in that feeling or perception. Peer pressure happens ALL over the place. Pressure from people who say they are trying to do what's in your best interests when really they are not. To go against the current, especially against authority figures like your boss or your director etc is extremely difficult and frightening then 10 × worse if you are female.
I would love for each of these awesome women to have their own separate time to share their stories about this. It was my impression they each had a lot still to share. Namaste, my friends.
my very close friend of many years was honored to let hillary play her role in the movie conviction a true story .. I was dumbfounded how she captured her every thing .. wow amazing talent
Melissa talking about us being called crazy and stuff when we are speaking about our feelings and having the sense of something’s not quite right is so true. I'm honest now; today, I felt that my son thinks or thought about giving up on life, and I talked about me feeling it with everyone in the family and his teacher too and having to feel that as a mom is so painful. My mom understood, but there was this moment of them thinking, I'm making it up. It even hurts writing it out into the open. I sincerely believe that talking about these issues has to become normal. Just because the other is not feeling or recognizing it on the surface doesn't mean that we're making stuff up or are crazy or that it doesn't exist at all. I said my truth and what the cause of it could be; they felt offended. But what am I supposed to do? Shutting my mouth because it couldn't be true or cause effort to look at it and watch it happen? It's necessary to speak up, and sometimes this shifts a situation, even if they choose to blame me.
Melissa has such an amazing ability to tell very interesting stories. Thankful these two beauties stuck it out, love having people like them in the entertainment business!
Everytime I see Melissa McCarthy I cant help but laugh 😂😂 my all time favorite movies from her is identity theft and Tammy ! I'm so glad she didn't quite she's so beautiful and a hilarious actor 😂♥️
I'm really feeling a dramedy-chick flick script vibe with these two awesome and hilarious women. Can someone please screenplay that ASAP? We really need more good comedies in this shit world RN.
I had the exact same reaction to Million Dollar Baby when I saw it years ago! I cried so hard that my eyes were practically swollen shut and my sinuses were completely clogged. Hillary Swank was incredible, as was Clint Eastwood. Watch it alone if you don't want to be seen bawling.
Hilary Swank is incredibly underrated even though she has 2 best actress Oscars .....her ability to make you empathise with her characters are second to none ....I wish she did more stuff !
Kelly is adorable, and I love her in this role, but she needs to learn how to listen. Not everything has to come back to her being able to relate. I hope her team will catch on to this, but you think someone would have by now. Hopefully with some time and experience....
Two of the most honest open and true to themselves women in entertainment today (along with Reba and Dolly of course) stay strong and just always be yourself. Thank you so much. (would love to be ya'll neighbor)
Love Melissa McCarthy ❤❤❤. She is such a good actress. Million Dollar baby was a great movie. I also cried for about 20 mins. Why hasn't Melissa been in any movies for a while now? I miss seeing her on screen.
yea I love MM - and I saw the headline didn't know who's show it was - I was shocked - this is Kelly Clarkson? Wow she's really changed - I didn't even recognize her
I love both these two women. My favorite American Idol and Melissa McCarthy. Someone once told me I looked like MM the girl on Gilmore Girls, which I hadn't watched.
My "only" walk of shame was in my hometown of Ft. Hood, TX. We lived next door to a Colonel. That morning I walked up the road, about three blocks from a boyfriend's house. Our neighbor was standing in his robe, with slippers, and coffee and his dog, Churchill. We used to dog sit Churchill. The neighbor said to me, as he sipped his coffee, "good morning." I replied, "good morning Sir." I was mortified and so caught! ! This Colonel went on to become, Retired General Tommy Franks. I never snuck out of my house again. He also did not tell my parents. He knew, I was not about to do that again. lol
This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear. DONT ignore red flags, don't ignore that voice deep down inside of you telling you something isn't right or ok. Stick up for yourself.... in a kind way. But take care of you, because frankly, no one else is going to.
I agree
Omg me too and there are so many BIG RED FLAGS
@@deecarter4658 And I am the queen of ignoring them or rationalizing things. I have sold myself short for so many years but I am FINALLY, at 45, learning to draw boundaries and STICK to them.
I think most people have a memory of a situation where they ignored red flags or simply didn't trust their gut when things didn't seem right. While we may have forgotten the specific red flag we easily remember the price we paid for not paying attention. Playing the "if only I had..." game is no fun at all but learning to advocate for yourself, and doing so, can be a significant challenge especially when you've been taught to agree, comply and accept what others put upon you. Fear of being reprimanded, criticized or perhaps losing an opportunity often keep us from standing up for ourselves. Unfortunately by not doing so we may be accepting by default discomfort, disrespect and even abuse. This is why it is so important to teach children to express themselves as autonomous individuals so they can develop the skills necessary to confidently represent their thoughts, ideas and feelings in personal and professional environments. Making yourself the most important priority is not selfish, it is an act of self preservation, self care and self love. When you take good care of yourself you are better able to take care of others in all aspects of your life.
That intuition within ourselves knows what it right and wrong for us. Always listen to it. 9X out of 10 it’s the right path for you.
Thankyou ladies for sticking it out. The entertainment industry is better because you two are in it!
Cool comment and i agree
Exactly.Life with suck without Kelly's songs lol
I wish Kelly would do a soundtrack for Melissa's movies😃❤
Ndeed 💙
@@olgasmoviehouse that would be awsome! LOL...I would love for any sound track from Queen Kelly !
Is this a moment where I cry-laugh because my favorite actress and my favorite singer bond over standing up for themselves? It most definitely is
Both are amazing. Love them
Samesies
Melissa McCarthy is such a beautiful lady & has a heart of gold. I could've watched these two ladies for hours. Kelly & Melissa are such incredible woman.
When they were talking about million dollar baby I knew exactly what Melissa was talking about and I totally agree Hillary swank deserved her Oscar more than anyone
Melissa is one of the most beautiful women I've ever layed my eyes upon. She's BEAUTIFUL inside and out. I love her❤ She's full of integrity, wisdom and grace 🙏
I can't imagine a life without Melissa Mccarthy! This women saved me so many times. She kept my sanity in check by making me lose it in laughter. God Bless You Melissa and THANK YOU FOR NEVER GIVEN UP 🙏 ❤ ♥
EDIT:
YOUR MOM IS PROUD YA DIDN'T TAKE IT OFF LOL
I'm so glad Kelly and Drew are host now. I love them they are so real.
I just want to say, Kelly Clarkson is so awesome as a talk show host! I absolutely love her. Needless to say HUGE fan.
No she’s not good. She turns almost every conversation about herself. She was asking Melissa about almost quitting then before Melissa even answered she interjected that she almost quit. Then the conversation shifted to her and Melissa never told her own story. This is such a common way Kelly conducts her interviews. And not to be mean spirited but if Kelly was like this during her marriage, then that could have played a part in the divorce.
Love Clarkson and McCarthy together. They have a great presence together. Love the energy.
Imagine having these two as neighbors ♥️.
Million Dollar Baby was a masterpiece. Hilary Swank did an outstanding job in that movie
I'm so glad both of them didn't gave up on their talents. I fell for Kelly ❤️ when she traded places with Randy. I would have always wondered what happened to her. My life would be different if she never got famous. Melissa you keep up the great work you do too your a great comic show actress 😊
Never gave* 😉
I love watching Kelly do this because it feels so much more like a conversation. Not bashing any other, famous (hint) talk show hosts on right now, but the conversations don’t always feel authentic.
I cannot imagine a world where either one of these ladies is not famous... Melissa McCarthy's work has been a delight, if I am sad or depressed or stressed I know I can throw on one of her movies and feel better by the end of it, because she is so good and the roles she takes are ones that have helped me a lot...more than most award winning movies have, noteable exceptions are Robin Williams movies, and thats because he did serious roles like no one else can, he can have you balling your eyes out one moment then dying of laughter the literal next moment, it's God level performance when you can do that. A world without Kelly's career and influence on music, no her music is astoundingly good, it has uplifted me, it has made me move to the music, it has made me cry and it has just made me feel alive in times that I otherwise was numb to everything else.
I totally get what u are saying, dude!
Wow That made me tear up a little. It was touching to hear them two discuss how hard and difficult their lives can be, in being famous. They both almost gave up on their careers. And how Melissa said she talks things out. Im glad im not the only one that does that.
I'm so glad to hear you say it, because this is REAL LIFE! and all those influencers showing just the glamorous parts and pretending to be just "blessed" make me feel confused about my own experiences! you are special for showing us what it really is like and how to push through the challenges!
Bucket list: Coffee at the table with Kelly & Melissa…. ♥️
yes we call them the Car Auditions. You hit it right on the nail Melissa.
No joke that it must be SO hard being a woman in the Entertainment industry! For all of you ladies like Kelly and Melissa, we thank you for not giving up!
Seriously, the amount of feelings yall have brought out in me over the years, and the times where your God given talents have soothed me through difficult times...has been nothing short of many blessings. PLEASE dont ever leave us! 100% Yall have no idea the importance of your work for people just trying to make it through life
That's for sure especially her new albun
Oh my Goddess how long has this interview been out and No One Told Me!?
I love these Ladies!! They are the most authentic I have ever seen!
She’s so wise! Love this.
Yes! Speaking up in the moment is HARD. Especially when you are in the minority or you are totally alone in that feeling or perception. Peer pressure happens ALL over the place. Pressure from people who say they are trying to do what's in your best interests when really they are not. To go against the current, especially against authority figures like your boss or your director etc is extremely difficult and frightening then 10 × worse if you are female.
First time watching. Kelly Clarkson is good at this !
She really listens and gets stuff out like your there.
Great job Kelly .
Two really wonderful people in an interview, love it!
I would love for each of these awesome women to have their own separate time to share their stories about this. It was my impression they each had a lot still to share. Namaste, my friends.
my very close friend of many years was honored to let hillary play her role in the movie conviction a true story .. I was dumbfounded how she captured her every thing .. wow amazing talent
Melissa talking about us being called crazy and stuff when we are speaking about our feelings and having the sense of something’s not quite right is so true. I'm honest now; today, I felt that my son thinks or thought about giving up on life, and I talked about me feeling it with everyone in the family and his teacher too and having to feel that as a mom is so painful. My mom understood, but there was this moment of them thinking, I'm making it up. It even hurts writing it out into the open. I sincerely believe that talking about these issues has to become normal. Just because the other is not feeling or recognizing it on the surface doesn't mean that we're making stuff up or are crazy or that it doesn't exist at all. I said my truth and what the cause of it could be; they felt offended. But what am I supposed to do? Shutting my mouth because it couldn't be true or cause effort to look at it and watch it happen? It's necessary to speak up, and sometimes this shifts a situation, even if they choose to blame me.
best convo yetttttttt just two ladies chatting i could listen alll day
Melissa has such an amazing ability to tell very interesting stories. Thankful these two beauties stuck it out, love having people like them in the entertainment business!
I wish Kelly Clarkson would do a soundtrack for Melissa's next movie❤❤❤
such a great genuine conversation and connection aweee
I wish I could stand up for myself like these ladies
Everytime I see Melissa McCarthy I cant help but laugh 😂😂 my all time favorite movies from her is identity theft and Tammy ! I'm so glad she didn't quite she's so beautiful and a hilarious actor 😂♥️
I'm really feeling a dramedy-chick flick script vibe with these two awesome and hilarious women. Can someone please screenplay that ASAP? We really need more good comedies in this shit world RN.
She is such an incredible person
I love how humble she is and how real
So glad you two are here for us ❤
I had the exact same reaction to Million Dollar Baby when I saw it years ago! I cried so hard that my eyes were practically swollen shut and my sinuses were completely clogged. Hillary Swank was incredible, as was Clint Eastwood. Watch it alone if you don't want to be seen bawling.
Best talk show on tv! 💥 Kelly is so genuine.
If you put 2 lovely women together, it's just like magic! You are both fabulous!
wow this is a really great insightful/moving conversation . More daytime tv interviews should be like this.
Hilary Swank is incredibly underrated even though she has 2 best actress Oscars .....her ability to make you empathise with her characters are second to none ....I wish she did more stuff !
I really needed to hear this. Thank you both for sharing
Great Interview .... relate to what they are saying. Yes be kind!
Thank you so much, I needed to hear that conversation!
just started watching gilmore girls, and what a gem melissa is!!
Love you both and our lives are blessed from your way of entertainment ❤ 🙏 💕
So refreshing! I 💓them all.
Melissa is my celebrity crush. I just think she's so interesting, intelligent, funny and beautiful 😍
She is one of my favorite people!!!
I love Melissa ! Her eyes are beautiful 🤩
I wish we could have gotten the actual story about when she almost quit acting. I feel like she was interrupted at that moment
Kelly is adorable, and I love her in this role, but she needs to learn how to listen. Not everything has to come back to her being able to relate. I hope her team will catch on to this, but you think someone would have by now. Hopefully with some time and experience....
Love these ladies
Kelly’s show reminds me of back in the days when Rosie O'Donnell had her show ❤️
Kelly I'm so glad you didn't quit
Two of the most honest open and true to themselves women in entertainment today (along with Reba and Dolly of course) stay strong and just always be yourself. Thank you so much. (would love to be ya'll neighbor)
The Queen of Comedy 👑❤️💗
I LOVE both of these ladies! ❤❤ so amazing!
This woman dress so beautifully love Melissa
Heading off now to watch Million Dollar Baby
I’ll have to watch that movie. I haven’t seen it either. It’s amazing what a good cry can do for you.
oh,what and you say! All's WELL!❤❤🎶🎶
I love you Kelly, and I love Melissa McCarthy!!!
Loved their stories of perseverance. Real-life role models right here.
Love Melissa McCarthy ❤❤❤. She is such a good actress. Million Dollar baby was a great movie. I also cried for about 20 mins.
Why hasn't Melissa been in any movies for a while now? I miss seeing her on screen.
Absolutely love you both!!! ♥️♥️
100% listen to your instincts. It saved my life.
So jelly that Melissa is your neighbor! She is my favorite!
So i ended up watching million dollar baby. Wow it's been an hour and i'm still bawling 😭😭💔
Wouldn't you love to be these 2 neighbors and be their friends
You have to advocate for yourself because more often than not no one else will
yea I love MM - and I saw the headline didn't know who's show it was - I was shocked - this is Kelly Clarkson? Wow she's really changed - I didn't even recognize her
Wow amazing and very smart words! Very true
U both are intelligent and can deal with your true emotions
Absolutely Live these two I relate
Love you Melissa!! My two favorite girls!!
She is right. Excellent movie.
Thrilling getting to work w you in Oregon ‼️ Much success to you 😃
Kelly looks beautiful ❤️
I love both these two women. My favorite American Idol and Melissa McCarthy. Someone once told me I looked like MM the girl on Gilmore Girls, which I hadn't watched.
I love this artist 😍❤️
“i’m good for like a month” SO TRUE 😭
Currently looking for the dress Melissa is wearing 💙
Million dollar baby one of my favorites
thank you. 😢❤
I Love Melissa’s dimples and green eyes!
I hope they are friends in real life .
They are!!
I love Melissa McCarthy
I love how both of these women are so relatable. Also where is Hilary Swank???
This is very, very good.
4:56 a guy yelling „TAKE YOUR TOP OFF!“ Melissa: „omg you‘re so right“ hahahah
“These aren’t my people.” Boy…can I relate to THAT! 🙄😂🤪
MILLION DOLLAR BABY IS A GREAT MOVIE. SAD ENDING THOUGH.
OMG SOOOOOOKIEEEE!!!😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️😚😚😚
I'm very glad we all collectively had that reaction to million dollar baby
Melissa ❤
My "only" walk of shame was in my hometown of Ft. Hood, TX. We lived next door to a Colonel. That morning I walked up the road, about three blocks from a boyfriend's house. Our neighbor was standing in his robe, with slippers, and coffee and his dog, Churchill. We used to dog sit Churchill. The neighbor said to me, as he sipped his coffee, "good morning." I replied, "good morning Sir." I was mortified and so caught! ! This Colonel went on to become, Retired General Tommy Franks. I never snuck out of my house again. He also did not tell my parents. He knew, I was not about to do that again. lol
I ❤ the shoes! 💞
Again! Kelly asked a question but answered it and turned it about herself. I don’t love that she does that so much!
The Queen of Plainfield Illinois And The Big Squeeze