When you think about it, it's REALLY weird strangers want to know. I can understand asking 1). If you're dating Alexis 2). If you're a trans woman thinking about it yourself. But even if you were the latter there are plenty of other people comfortable discussing it.
@@dante6985hi there, Whilst I understand where you're coming from, I struggle with also keeping my mouth shut too sometimes which is why I chose not to comment online that often, but I do think that as mature adults 'we should have a think before we speak' attitude, even if you're a fellow trans woman like Alexis ♥️ hope it's nice where you are!!
@@bridmcgrath3606 Hey, I really have no idea where you're coming from. To reiterate, and I thought this was pretty clear, my points where: 1). It's weird that people want to know about other people's bottom surgery. 2). I can understand asking if you're dating her or a trans woman yourself (but even if you are the latter there are other trans women who are comfortable talking about it to ask instead). You seem to be insinuating (nicely) some kind of "you should keep your mouth shut" message and I have no idea where that's coming from. I thought my message was respectful and uncontroversial. So... yeah, you might want to make sure *you* understand what people are saying before you reply.
it’s completely your decision, but the risks are insane, the cost is insane, but not as high as the cost of your health and sanity if something goes wrong. sending love❤
Good for you!!!!! This is so important- having boundaries and being OK with enforcing them. Why are people so obsessed with other people's genitals and where they put them?? So long as it's consenting adults, then it's no one's business. Keep bringing class back- you are absolutely one hell of a classy woman. I'm a fan for sure!
I have to be honest people can't help but wonder when a trans person, like yourself, is so open about their transition, I guess it's just human nature to ask questions. Having said that I don't blame you for keeping some things private ❤ I love your content, you are a beautiful, grounded woman, I especially love your open common sense ❤ Love to you & Liam ❤
You are such a lovely transwoman. I absolutely respect your commitment to boundaries but also for being such a ray of light in the middle of so much current madness
I personally am not impacted by your surgery status 😂 Sorry you get these questions. On the topic - One thing I wish we would normalize as a society is, if people want to leave their bodies as is, great! So few people see that part of a person and if it works for someone they shouldn’t feel pressured by society to have to change their bodies in very painful ways to “completely transition”. Let’s be accepting of personal choice ❤
Absolutely. And I love Alexis and it's entirely up to her what parts of her life she wishes to share. It's one of those things like sexual orientation, for some reason people are *really* curious about it but unless you're considering dating the person (And Alexis is taken) it shouldn't matter.
@@dante6985you know I don't even think about down stairs. I actually don't want to know. Don't know, its just something that does not come to my mind cause I guess I don't care. It is more about the person for me.
I got my sex change and I have to say it is a very personal and challenging decision to make. And my advice to anyone who’s thinking about getting the surgery is they have to do it for themselves nobody else.
I disagree. If you want bottom surgery, you should get a proper surgeon to do it for you. DO NOT do it for yourself. I'm just having a laugh. I hope you are happy with your choice and your outcome!
@@44LillPuffin what are you apologizing for? They said they had a sex change and it was a personal decision, which is true, it is. Nothing to apologize for.
@@willarcher7929 because every one of these surgeries is "botched" a vagina is nothing like an inside out penis and this person is going to be having medical issues for the rest of his life now. Not only that, because cutting body parts off isn't any physical help, the suicide rate goes back up to what it was before the surgeries by around the 10 year mark, amd no doubt its because the weight of what they have done is finally sinking in and they realise that the surgeries are never making anything better. People are having feces coming out of there wound because of these surgeries. It's diabolical what they are doing to people.
Imagine walking up to someone & asking them aboit their genitals!! How entitled can people be!!! Jeez. Full respect to you Alexis. You've handled a very rude, confronting situation with absolute class. Those people who asked such out-of-line questions don't deserve such grace.
Yes and no. And no and yes. Generally, I couldn't care less. But then there's the discussion of which restrooms, and particularly changing rooms/locker rooms, are transgender people to use. I already hate communal changing rooms (pool, gym etc) as is. But then in comes a "woman" with fully intact male parts and openly changes into swimwear in the same room as the rest of us... That's where the rubber meets the road for many. And that's where this topic, unfortunately, has a place.
How entitled can people be? Picture a fully grown man filming himself masturbating in a female toilet, or competing against women in a contact sport like wrestling and tweeting about taking pleasure in breaking women’s necks and jaws.
I think you've answered this perfectly, just because you've got the question doesn't mean I'm going to answer because really it's none of your business. You are a lot more polite, so I wouldn't be surprised if people still keep trying to get the answer but stay firm, it's nobody's business but yours.
Just because someone wants to know, it doesn't mean that you must tell them. You have every right to set your personal boundaries. I am personally grateful for your contribution to my knowledge on the subject of trans people. Thank you.
Some things are private and don't need to be spoken about. It's between you and Liam whether you have the surgery or not. And you don't need to tell anyone who doesn't need to know. Love your channel and how you handle contentious topics. You're a classy bird! ❤
My Step Mother askes me if my niece has it or will and it upsets me that she keeps asking. I keep telling her that it is no one business except my niece and her partner. Hold your ground on this. We all deserve having some things for ourselves. Much love to you and Liam.
I really respect you for putting your boundaries in place and sticking with them. We would never judge you for sharing/not sharing, we just appreciate you for who you are.
Totally agree with you Alexis, share only what you are comfortable with. I really enjoy your videos because you always make sense and come across as such a lovely person. I'm amazed that people would ask you such a personal question frankly, surely most people would be aware that these two things are something that you haven't discussed so why would they ask? Beyond my comprehension.
If anyone is interested in following a mtf bottom surgery check the youtube of Maya Henry, she goes into great detail about her experience with it. . . Some are curious about it and that's ok. It's also OK to not want to discuss it. Love and respect!❤
Thank you for sharing your journey ❤ and may I say, your hair is fabulous 👌 👏 👍 respect to your boundaries 😊 those aspects of yourself are very personal, and you have every right to choose who you open up with❤😊
I find it incredibly disturbing that people are more interested in whats going on in someones pants than their own lives, relationships and kids. Theres seriously something wrong with anyone asking about your private parts. Thats NO ONE'S business.
All humans deserve to have boundaries and have them respected. Good for you for sticking with it. i think that too often public figures are pressured to the point of giving in.
A good friend has begun her journey. Love her to bits and just want her happy. I love her regardless. Long story short I just wanted to say thank you. I love your content and told her about you. You shine my dear. Elegance and grace. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. For being you.
You are so amazing I love how you do keep some thing private as you should. I still can’t believe you are a transgender to me your just one of the girls and if I was very in the area we’d so have to go out for wine
It is NO BODIES business if you did, didn’t or going to. I don’t follow you to know everything. I follow you bc I enjoy your posts. You are allowed to be you & this old Practicing Catholic (57) will still follow your posts! Thank you for sharing what YOU feel comfortable with! 🥰
You have helped so many people - including " non- trans" ( f want of more sensative expression!) by shareing, educating,showing and asking/ reaching out....etc to have more understanding,acceptance n achieve inclussion f others as well! All done with grace,charm and wit! Absolutely no need to divulge any more than what you do! Everyone is entitled to privacy! ❤ N no need t " justify" either!
I love the way that you addressed this question. You're polite, yet firm at the same time. It is so hard striking that balance. I feel like as women many of us have been conditioned to be people pleasers, and so it can be very difficult to set and enforce boundaries. I appreciate how you handled this situation.
As a trans female who has had bottom surgery, it's no one's business girl so never feel the pressure to tell no one. In fact, majority of people in my actual life don't even know I've had it and I let them assume. I've always felt that things like this are personal. But people think us trans women don't deserve privacy and they don't believe we have boundaries. I've had to put so many men in their place already. People are nasty and nosy.
That's isn't nice people keep bothering you about that issue it's really nobody's business but yours and the people in your life should you choose to say whatever is whatever. Have a great weekend Namarië 🎉
Good on you. It is your privacy, your boundaries. They call them private parts for a reason. You have every right not to share that. And it is your body, no matter what anyone else says you should do or why, this is your decision. Waving hi from Quebec.
Of course I've wondered, and I'm curious, but it's none of my business. Nobody's business but yours! I have a friend that's a transwoman, and she did get bottom surgery. When I first met her, she still had her male parts. I actually didn't know she was trans. She started her transition at age 18, and I didn't meet her until she was in her late 30s. I told her I never would have known if she hadn't told me. And she ended up telling me when she planned on having her bottom surgery. I asked her if it was okay to ask her what she was having surgery on. And then she told me, but before she did, she said, "ill understand if you don't want to talk or be friends anymore." It broke my heart that she felt she had to say that. I didn't care either way. I liked her personality. I could care less what she had between her legs. But I did ask if it was okay for me to ask questions about it, which she said yes. She sent me before and after pictures of everything. She was so so so much happier after having it done. And her surgeon did an amazing job. I told her that if I didn't know, I'd never be able to tell she wasn't born that way. I told her I was just curious about all of it. I wasn't trying to offend her in any way or anything. I'd just never met a transwoman before. And I tell her constantly to let me know if I ever do offend her. But she's very down to earth and doesn't get offended easily. What some people find offensive, she finds hilarious. And of course it's personal preference for everyone whether they have it done or not. I know its extremely expensive and time consuming, and I can imagine alot of complications can arise from it to where I'd understand why someone wouldn't go through with it. My friend said she surprisingly didn't have alot of pain, but I'm sure that varies for everyone!
I'm so confused... I thought you did mention getting bottom surgery, in a video with Liam... Maybe I misunderstood what was being said. I respect your choice, of COURSE; I guess seeing this just confused me because I thought you nonchalantly mentioned having gotten it in a video. GOOD FOR YOU CREATING BOUNDARIES 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 not enough creators do that. 👏🏾💯👏🏾
I understand people being curious - I have to admit to being curious myself - but I think that's an intensely personal question and I would never ask. If you decide to share anything about it, yay or nay, then great. If not, then great. That's up to you, darlin'. I mean, BOUNDARIES, people....
OMG! People are so rude sometimes. That’s way too personal. I’m wondering if they think they know you because you are so personable, bubbly, you share some happy events, Liam (who we’ve all grown to love too), your emotions at being outed at work etc,,, Blaire & Buck have also disclosed their bottom bits. This in NO WAY gives anyone the right to dare ask you that at all, I have one of those brains that thinks why the Fu*k would people ask that. The truth is we don’t know you personally, we know what we see of you and that you are a kind, funny and very loveable person. Tell them all to “Sod Off!” 😂😂😂😂❤❤
Good for you! Can you imagine someone asking ANYONE other public person about the state of their genitals. So, hun... do you have flappy labia. What color is your vulva? Pinkish? More purple? Dude, does your penis curve? Is it really skinny? How about one of those short mushroom shaped ones? That said, as an American, the first line of your video your accent makes it sound like you're saying "my Bob surgery" which seems like a great name for it! On Bob surgeries in general, I'd be terrified! I've just heard too many nightmare stories! I think it takes a ton of bravery to do that, and I'd be so happy for anyone who didn't feel like they needed to go through all of that.
Please don't hurt yourself so horrible this way! The blokers have already made you castersted for always! Yes you do not ned in and out of hospital for the rest of your life and constantly getting infection and horrible complications! So NOOOO! PLEASE LOVE YOU SELF! don't take a short cut to the medical hell!!!! Who there is no way out of!
I think that is so disrespectful I think every lady should have some kind of privacy that's something I would never talk about on any level only to my husband and I privacy is everything much respect you many positive blessings abundance to you and youres....♥️
I have opinions on bottom surgery. Sure do. And if I actually knew you in person and you asked, I'd share them. But imagine asking a perfect stranger about their genitalia? Gross.
God. Can you imagine walking up to someone and believing your entitled to very personal and private medical information. Well played here Alexis. Handled with grace. Nobody is entitled to anything from you
Alexis it's private. From what I have learned it is debatable if it's safe etc. Keep safe above all! I saw your conversation with Buck Angel. I was very happy to see the two of you chatting. I had wondered if the two of you were aware of each other. Happy that you two have met.❤
What you discuss is ur choice. 😊 Not to be a part of the problem and just my opinion, but if you have a partner that loves you and ur happy theb why create unnecessary health problems and pain. Don't Do It!! Good luck to you
I think that is the most classy thing I've ever heard. That is part of why YOU and you alone are so successful in this area, you are very respectful towards everyone, yourself included. You are brilliant because you are doing this whole change of life with so much class and dignity. A lot of times people are quite vulgar and over share. You are just perfect about everything, there has never been 1 video where I've thought to myself oh no that's too much. I think you just come off as a good person, which is so important when allowing strangers to learn about trans people.I absolutely do not feel like I'm listening to smut, EVER. Thank you for that as well, you're doing great!
I don't agree with the comments saying trans ppl shouldn't talk about it? Of course, those who feel comfortable sharing and want too should for education and/or support reasons? Very private topic, though, so yes 100 support Alex here. None of our business and I never thought of it till now tbh.
Just because someone is a public figure doesn't mean we need to know all the details about their lives ❤
When you think about it, it's REALLY weird strangers want to know. I can understand asking 1). If you're dating Alexis 2). If you're a trans woman thinking about it yourself. But even if you were the latter there are plenty of other people comfortable discussing it.
@@dante6985hi there,
Whilst I understand where you're coming from, I struggle with also keeping my mouth shut too sometimes which is why I chose not to comment online that often, but I do think that as mature adults 'we should have a think before we speak' attitude, even if you're a fellow trans woman like Alexis ♥️ hope it's nice where you are!!
Amen!! People are entitled to keep certain things sacred in their lives regardless of if they are a public figure or not. Good for you Alexis!
@@bridmcgrath3606 Hey, I really have no idea where you're coming from.
To reiterate, and I thought this was pretty clear, my points where:
1). It's weird that people want to know about other people's bottom surgery.
2). I can understand asking if you're dating her or a trans woman yourself (but even if you are the latter there are other trans women who are comfortable talking about it to ask instead).
You seem to be insinuating (nicely) some kind of "you should keep your mouth shut" message and I have no idea where that's coming from. I thought my message was respectful and uncontroversial.
So... yeah, you might want to make sure *you* understand what people are saying before you reply.
@@dante6985 okay well then ur a hater I think her wanting to keep whatever details private is good for her good bye
Nothing but respect to you, Dear.❤
it’s completely your decision, but the risks are insane, the cost is insane, but not as high as the cost of your health and sanity if something goes wrong. sending love❤
Can we talk about your hair? It's SPECTACULAR!
Good for you!!!!! This is so important- having boundaries and being OK with enforcing them. Why are people so obsessed with other people's genitals and where they put them?? So long as it's consenting adults, then it's no one's business. Keep bringing class back- you are absolutely one hell of a classy woman. I'm a fan for sure!
Good for you! I applaud this fantastic! Just adore you
I have to be honest people can't help but wonder when a trans person, like yourself, is so open about their transition, I guess it's just human nature to ask questions. Having said that I don't blame you for keeping some things private ❤ I love your content, you are a beautiful, grounded woman, I especially love your open common sense ❤ Love to you & Liam ❤
Absolutely.....that is your personal business. You are a beautiful woman no matter what you decide...❤❤❤
Good for you. It's no one's business!
Stay true to yourself. ❤
You are such a lovely transwoman. I absolutely respect your commitment to boundaries but also for being such a ray of light in the middle of so much current madness
Your hair looks amazing! So pretty!
It's good to have boundaries
I don't expect random strangers to ask me about my genitals and so i think it's fair that I don't ask other strangers about theirs.
I personally am not impacted by your surgery status 😂 Sorry you get these questions. On the topic - One thing I wish we would normalize as a society is, if people want to leave their bodies as is, great! So few people see that part of a person and if it works for someone they shouldn’t feel pressured by society to have to change their bodies in very painful ways to “completely transition”. Let’s be accepting of personal choice ❤
You can respond with "A lady never tells"
A lady has to keep some sort of mystery....❤
Girl, you are the voice of common sense. Do you give seminars?
I think some things should stay private,we all have our boundaries.I think you are absolutely correct with this one.
Absolutely. And I love Alexis and it's entirely up to her what parts of her life she wishes to share. It's one of those things like sexual orientation, for some reason people are *really* curious about it but unless you're considering dating the person (And Alexis is taken) it shouldn't matter.
@@dante6985you know I don't even think about down stairs. I actually don't want to know. Don't know, its just something that does not come to my mind cause I guess I don't care. It is more about the person for me.
@@isabelpark7650 Same. I just don't care. I don't know why so many people do.
I got my sex change and I have to say it is a very personal and challenging decision to make. And my advice to anyone who’s thinking about getting the surgery is they have to do it for themselves nobody else.
I'm so sorry that was done to you. I hope you are OK.
I disagree. If you want bottom surgery, you should get a proper surgeon to do it for you. DO NOT do it for yourself.
I'm just having a laugh. I hope you are happy with your choice and your outcome!
@@44LillPuffin what are you apologizing for? They said they had a sex change and it was a personal decision, which is true, it is. Nothing to apologize for.
@@trublgrlHAHAHA I found it funny 😂😂
@@willarcher7929 because every one of these surgeries is "botched" a vagina is nothing like an inside out penis and this person is going to be having medical issues for the rest of his life now. Not only that, because cutting body parts off isn't any physical help, the suicide rate goes back up to what it was before the surgeries by around the 10 year mark, amd no doubt its because the weight of what they have done is finally sinking in and they realise that the surgeries are never making anything better. People are having feces coming out of there wound because of these surgeries. It's diabolical what they are doing to people.
Imagine walking up to someone & asking them aboit their genitals!! How entitled can people be!!! Jeez. Full respect to you Alexis. You've handled a very rude, confronting situation with absolute class. Those people who asked such out-of-line questions don't deserve such grace.
Sorry, this was a visual that struck me funny!!😂
His name is Boris not Alexis and yes he has big d.
Yes and no. And no and yes. Generally, I couldn't care less. But then there's the discussion of which restrooms, and particularly changing rooms/locker rooms, are transgender people to use. I already hate communal changing rooms (pool, gym etc) as is. But then in comes a "woman" with fully intact male parts and openly changes into swimwear in the same room as the rest of us... That's where the rubber meets the road for many. And that's where this topic, unfortunately, has a place.
@@thekingsdaughter4233Well, if they are doing that, you don't need to ask. You can see it 😂
How entitled can people be? Picture a fully grown man filming himself masturbating in a female toilet, or competing against women in a contact sport like wrestling and tweeting about taking pleasure in breaking women’s necks and jaws.
I think you've answered this perfectly, just because you've got the question doesn't mean I'm going to answer because really it's none of your business. You are a lot more polite, so I wouldn't be surprised if people still keep trying to get the answer but stay firm, it's nobody's business but yours.
Good for you! Boundaries are important!!
alexis is the biggest breath of fresh air we all need in the world! we all love you and respect you alexis!
Your hair looks beautiful 😊
Just because someone wants to know, it doesn't mean that you must tell them. You have every right to set your personal boundaries.
I am personally grateful for your contribution to my knowledge on the subject of trans people. Thank you.
That's your business to do what you want.. ❤
Some things are private and don't need to be spoken about. It's between you and Liam whether you have the surgery or not. And you don't need to tell anyone who doesn't need to know. Love your channel and how you handle contentious topics. You're a classy bird! ❤
My Step Mother askes me if my niece has it or will and it upsets me that she keeps asking. I keep telling her that it is no one business except my niece and her partner. Hold your ground on this. We all deserve having some things for ourselves. Much love to you and Liam.
Forgive me, but I originally thought you meant a BBL! 😂 Got me thinking about how bums are different. But then💡
People be nosey AF😂
thats a symptom from influencers oversharing for a decade now. ofc people are nosey.
I really respect you for putting your boundaries in place and sticking with them. We would never judge you for sharing/not sharing, we just appreciate you for who you are.
Totally agree with you Alexis, share only what you are comfortable with. I really enjoy your videos because you always make sense and come across as such a lovely person. I'm amazed that people would ask you such a personal question frankly, surely most people would be aware that these two things are something that you haven't discussed so why would they ask? Beyond my comprehension.
His name was Boris
It's nobodies business but yours. Make yourself happy. You are an amazing and beautiful person!!!! A lovely lady
1st No one's business.
2nd, Why loose your Orgasmic feelings. No way do I ever want to loose " that loving feeling"...🎉
No one needs to know
Good for you beautiful. You have every right to your privacy even if you are a public figure. Keep healthy boundaries. ❤️
Kudos for sticking to your boundaries❤ Entirely up to you what you do or don’t choose to share. Keep doing what you do❤
Frankly it's non of our business
Nobody's businesses but your own, people will always make you feel like you owe them anwsers, but you really dont good luck with stuff 🎉
If anyone is interested in following a mtf bottom surgery check the youtube of Maya Henry, she goes into great detail about her experience with it. . .
Some are curious about it and that's ok.
It's also OK to not want to discuss it.
Love and respect!❤
Thank you for sharing your journey ❤ and may I say, your hair is fabulous 👌 👏 👍 respect to your boundaries 😊 those aspects of yourself are very personal, and you have every right to choose who you open up with❤😊
I find it incredibly disturbing that people are more interested in whats going on in someones pants than their own lives, relationships and kids. Theres seriously something wrong with anyone asking about your private parts. Thats NO ONE'S business.
All humans deserve to have boundaries and have them respected. Good for you for sticking with it. i think that too often public figures are pressured to the point of giving in.
A good friend has begun her journey. Love her to bits and just want her happy. I love her regardless. Long story short I just wanted to say thank you. I love your content and told her about you. You shine my dear. Elegance and grace. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. For being you.
You are so amazing I love how you do keep some thing private as you should. I still can’t believe you are a transgender to me your just one of the girls and if I was very in the area we’d so have to go out for wine
It is NO BODIES business if you did, didn’t or going to. I don’t follow you to know everything. I follow you bc I enjoy your posts. You are allowed to be you & this old Practicing Catholic (57) will still follow your posts! Thank you for sharing what YOU feel comfortable with! 🥰
You are very classy Alexis 🌺
Good for you love. It’s your business no one else’s.xx
I really hope you don’t okay yeah there
Nothing to do with anybody but you ❤
Your stunning
You have helped so many people - including " non- trans" ( f want of more sensative expression!) by shareing, educating,showing and asking/ reaching out....etc to have more understanding,acceptance n achieve inclussion f others as well! All done with grace,charm and wit! Absolutely no need to divulge any more than what you do!
Everyone is entitled to privacy! ❤ N no need t " justify" either!
Thanks, some things are private.
It really is no one else's business.
It is no ones business.
I love the way that you addressed this question. You're polite, yet firm at the same time. It is so hard striking that balance. I feel like as women many of us have been conditioned to be people pleasers, and so it can be very difficult to set and enforce boundaries. I appreciate how you handled this situation.
I love your content AND YOUR BOUNDARIES, love to you and Liam😊😊😊😊😊😊
As a trans female who has had bottom surgery, it's no one's business girl so never feel the pressure to tell no one. In fact, majority of people in my actual life don't even know I've had it and I let them assume.
I've always felt that things like this are personal. But people think us trans women don't deserve privacy and they don't believe we have boundaries. I've had to put so many men in their place already. People are nasty and nosy.
Everone should have boundaries on here,though lots don't! Noones business but your own. Take care pretty lady!
Thank you! I like what you said, personal boundaries. Much respect for you.
❤ Hell yes, let's normalize privacy and boundaries. Alexis with another great pov.
DoNT DO THAT IRREVERSIBLE MUTILATING SURGERY. I have a feeling u won’t but I still had to say it! Love your channel ❤️❤️
What a weird personal question?! I would NEVER feel confident enough to ask someone about their privates!!!
The most important thing is actually ONLY: as long as you're happy, do whatever you like. ☺️
Jesus, imagine asking someone THAT! So incredibly rude.
❤❤❤ would you ask anyone else if they, get fully waxed down there ❤❤❤ Think people before asking personal questions? People are people ❤
Alexis.. there is somethings you keep private and that's all your business.. keep to your boundaries and principles!!
Having boundaries is super important ❤ your hair looks amazing!!
That's isn't nice people keep bothering you about that issue it's really nobody's business but yours and the people in your life should you choose to say whatever is whatever. Have a great weekend Namarië 🎉
Good on you. It is your privacy, your boundaries. They call them private parts for a reason. You have every right not to share that. And it is your body, no matter what anyone else says you should do or why, this is your decision. Waving hi from Quebec.
It is IRRELEVANT what's in the nethers, lol. Your efforts are amazing and obvs- keep that secret!
It is NOBODY'S business but solely YOURS❤❤❤
It's literally no one's business. Legitimately, I don't need to know. I just want you to be your healthy radiant self.
Keeping something private for you is wonderful. 💕
Of course I've wondered, and I'm curious, but it's none of my business. Nobody's business but yours! I have a friend that's a transwoman, and she did get bottom surgery. When I first met her, she still had her male parts. I actually didn't know she was trans. She started her transition at age 18, and I didn't meet her until she was in her late 30s. I told her I never would have known if she hadn't told me. And she ended up telling me when she planned on having her bottom surgery. I asked her if it was okay to ask her what she was having surgery on. And then she told me, but before she did, she said, "ill understand if you don't want to talk or be friends anymore." It broke my heart that she felt she had to say that. I didn't care either way. I liked her personality. I could care less what she had between her legs. But I did ask if it was okay for me to ask questions about it, which she said yes. She sent me before and after pictures of everything. She was so so so much happier after having it done. And her surgeon did an amazing job. I told her that if I didn't know, I'd never be able to tell she wasn't born that way. I told her I was just curious about all of it. I wasn't trying to offend her in any way or anything. I'd just never met a transwoman before. And I tell her constantly to let me know if I ever do offend her. But she's very down to earth and doesn't get offended easily. What some people find offensive, she finds hilarious.
And of course it's personal preference for everyone whether they have it done or not. I know its extremely expensive and time consuming, and I can imagine alot of complications can arise from it to where I'd understand why someone wouldn't go through with it. My friend said she surprisingly didn't have alot of pain, but I'm sure that varies for everyone!
Good call. Some things are meant to be private. Nobody’s business but yours and your fiancés. ❤
I'm so confused... I thought you did mention getting bottom surgery, in a video with Liam... Maybe I misunderstood what was being said.
I respect your choice, of COURSE; I guess seeing this just confused me because I thought you nonchalantly mentioned having gotten it in a video.
GOOD FOR YOU CREATING BOUNDARIES 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 not enough creators do that. 👏🏾💯👏🏾
Agree completely, “personal business” is “personal”.
You are simply beautiful. Keep on thriving ❤
it doesn't matter. JUST LIVE TRUE
Those questions are just invasive. You share so much, about your life, Alexis. People need to respect your boundaries.
it doesn't matter, you are fabulous... stay gorgeous, Alex ❤❤
I understand people being curious - I have to admit to being curious myself - but I think that's an intensely personal question and I would never ask. If you decide to share anything about it, yay or nay, then great. If not, then great. That's up to you, darlin'. I mean, BOUNDARIES, people....
A Lady likes to keep Some Secrets, it’s your Choice & Personally I don’t care what you’ve got or not, You’re Just Lovely as You Are, Milady Alexis♥️😃
Go you! Strangers get too comfortable sometimes. Also, I think we need a skincare routine. Youre glowing!!
Why are people asking that..Its really rude. Thats a private thing. People have no boundaries sometimes.
OMG! People are so rude sometimes. That’s way too personal. I’m wondering if they think they know you because you are so personable, bubbly, you share some happy events, Liam (who we’ve all grown to love too), your emotions at being outed at work etc,,, Blaire & Buck have also disclosed their bottom bits. This in NO WAY gives anyone the right to dare ask you that at all, I have one of those brains that thinks why the Fu*k would people ask that. The truth is we don’t know you personally, we know what we see of you and that you are a kind, funny and very loveable person. Tell them all to “Sod Off!” 😂😂😂😂❤❤
Whatever You Decide. Its Your Life.
Respect ❤ Peace.
That's kind of like asking somebody whether they've had their freckle bleached! Its just none of their business really! 😂
Good for you! Can you imagine someone asking ANYONE other public person about the state of their genitals.
So, hun... do you have flappy labia. What color is your vulva? Pinkish? More purple?
Dude, does your penis curve? Is it really skinny? How about one of those short mushroom shaped ones?
That said, as an American, the first line of your video your accent makes it sound like you're saying "my Bob surgery" which seems like a great name for it!
On Bob surgeries in general, I'd be terrified! I've just heard too many nightmare stories! I think it takes a ton of bravery to do that, and I'd be so happy for anyone who didn't feel like they needed to go through all of that.
Please don't hurt yourself so horrible this way! The blokers have already made you castersted for always! Yes you do not ned in and out of hospital for the rest of your life and constantly getting infection and horrible complications! So NOOOO! PLEASE LOVE YOU SELF! don't take a short cut to the medical hell!!!! Who there is no way out of!
In the lyrics of Mind Your Own Business by Hank Williams, Sr.,
If you mind your own business, you won't be mindin' mine!
I think that is so disrespectful I think every lady should have some kind of privacy that's something I would never talk about on any level only to my husband and I privacy is everything much respect you many positive blessings abundance to you and youres....♥️
I have opinions on bottom surgery. Sure do. And if I actually knew you in person and you asked, I'd share them. But imagine asking a perfect stranger about their genitalia? Gross.
God. Can you imagine walking up to someone and believing your entitled to very personal and private medical information.
Well played here Alexis. Handled with grace. Nobody is entitled to anything from you
Alexis it's private. From what I have learned it is debatable if it's safe etc. Keep safe above all! I saw your conversation with Buck Angel. I was very happy to see the two of you chatting. I had wondered if the two of you were aware of each other. Happy that you two have met.❤
What you discuss is ur choice. 😊
Not to be a part of the problem and just my opinion, but if you have a partner that loves you and ur happy theb why create unnecessary health problems and pain.
Don't Do It!!
Good luck to you
Wow that is so unbelievably rude! Tell them to nick off.
I think that is the most classy thing I've ever heard. That is part of why YOU and you alone are so successful in this area, you are very respectful towards everyone, yourself included. You are brilliant because you are doing this whole change of life with so much class and dignity. A lot of times people are quite vulgar and over share. You are just perfect about everything, there has never been 1 video where I've thought to myself oh no that's too much. I think you just come off as a good person, which is so important when allowing strangers to learn about trans people.I absolutely do not feel like I'm listening to smut, EVER. Thank you for that as well, you're doing great!
I don't agree with the comments saying trans ppl shouldn't talk about it? Of course, those who feel comfortable sharing and want too should for education and/or support reasons?
Very private topic, though, so yes 100 support Alex here. None of our business and I never thought of it till now tbh.
Not everything is for public consumption