I’m a trans man who transitioned 15 years ago and live almost entirely stealth. I would NEVER enter the men’s restroom when I didn’t pass, because it would be weird for everyone involved. If I enter a space that I don’t originally belong to, it is my responsibility to enter that space with respect and humility. It’s like being a polite guest. If any "trans man" would enter the men’s room without no effort to pass, even I would be incredibly offended, uncomfortable and even disturbed. You don’t get to dictate as a guest how to flaunt yourself, regardless if you are in someone else’s home or visiting a foreign country.
It’s really just common sense I don’t understand how these people can’t understand why we wouldn’t want someone who appears fully as a man in the women’s bathroom lmao
The thing is its not even an issue when it comes to transmen because they pose no danger to men... its a problem with trans "women" because they DO pose a threat to women..
It is sad (petty and STUPID!) that a lot of people are cruel to each other because (at least) one person thinks the other is more attractive. It destroys "friendships" and work environments.
What I've heard Blair do is call out people who are militant and say they are trans but make no effort to look female (or male) What people don't seem to understand is that many-- maybe even most women (with xx chromosomes)--tend to have a sixth sense about threatening situations. We've learned to listen to our spidey senses. If I walk into a bathroom and there is someone there who sets those senses tingling I will turn around a walk out. It's not transphobia, it's common sense.
The true transwomen would make an effort to pass as women and try to be non threatening when in women spaces like bathrooms.Men do not understand how scarey it coukd be for a female to sense a man is in a public bathroom.It not a joke.Females find it threatening.It is just an innate female thing.
@@Diablo_Himself Right. I am not transphobic. If I walked into a bathroom and see someone who looks like Alexis or Blaire or even Blossom I probably wouldn't give them a second glance. BUt someone with a beard or is obviously a man (think Alexander Concas Riva who was dressed like a clown in Jubliee's liberal vs conservative trans debate) would make me turn on my heel and walk back out again. They would scare me.
@@heatherturner2366 I suppose that could be the case, but little miss White House lawn seems to have been able to afford several procedures and that's who called Blaire pivileged. 😉I think the wokies just throw out the worst words possible to try and make someone look bad, basically because they have no logical argument. Same with the other accusations that were made. Anyone who knows Blaire, knows that she's none of those things.
@@heatherturner2366 true, but this money didn't simply land on her head, she worked for it. She probably comes from less privilege as some of people accusing her of being privileged.
Compared to most people in the world, she is. She's a fairly well-off, educated white person in a first world country where freedom of speech is guaranteed and she can be open about her trans status without fear of imprisonment or government persecution. She also had the money for tons of cosmetics procedures, allowing her to pass as her preferred sex better than most trans people.
@@JadeEyes1 She isnt white. She also didnt grow up wealthy, all the money she has is a result of her social media platform (that she worked for). Most of the people criticizing her have the exact same rights as she does.
If you are a Trans-Woman shave. If you don't you are a cross dresser. Either commit to being Trans or accept that you are not. Either way is fine by me.
Exactly, the line is in the very word, if you decide not to transition from your “birth” gender to the opposite one, then you are something else and not “trans”, and it’s ok. Non binary cannot be transgender because there is not a gender from to transition. Words have meanings.
...No. You don't need to shave to be a woman. You can shave and not be a woman. You can choose not to shave and be a woman. If shaving makes you feel nice and womanly and you love that? Awesome, go for it, but don't try and sell it as some hallmark of what makes a woman.
@@SanguinaryBlade if you are a man you will never BE a woman and viceversa, shave or not shave. Women with facial hair so thick that need to shave it are very rare and has nothing to do with being trans. Women has XX chromosomes and men XY and there is no way around that, no umbrella, not anything else. Being feminine or manly is a different discussion.
I’m a lesbian and I don’t like or understand the queer woke rubbish in our community at the moment. What I do love is people like yourself, Blaire white, Marcus Dib and Arielle.The coloured hair and pierced septum queers make me cringe too
Haha same! I’m straight and centre-right politically and miss my pink hair and would love to try blue hair, but I’m a tomboy, so scared I’ll be mistaken as non binary 😂 I also want to reclaim rainbows (sorry LGB) lol
I hate getting judged for my fantasy hair but I like it and at 58 my hair color does not define me. For Christmas I did red and green mixed. Blair would look great with pink tips! Trying to take it back one appointment at a time lol.
@@LG-Musique Yeah, I have this rainbow-coloured belt (not a LGBT rainbow), but I'm not wearing it anymore bc all rainbows have become associated with queer, woke activism. It's a cute belt. It's not to parade around my se*uality. Oh, and even if it were the OG gay rainbow, you'd be harassed for not using the new (ugly af) "inclusive" version.
i don't think she goes too far in her comments. those people go way further with their constant accusations and threats, if you know Blair, you know about her childhood wich wasn't as cosy as their little gen Z life !! Blair and you are the face of real transexualness... NOT THEM, and it has nothing to do with politics !! Live and let live !! please, I miss the late 90's and early 2000's
Who are you to say who is a transsexual? Im trans female who has had more surgeries than Blair and Alexis yet I'm left wing, and I'm proud of it. I'd rather walk next to a nonbinary person than a Christian conservative who is trying to F over my healthcare 🤷🏻♀️
I don't think most of the people criticizing Blaire were Gen Z though? I love Blaire and I think she gets a lot of irrational hatred, but I don't know what Gen Z has to do with that. Personally, as a Millennial who is very much in the mom zone right now (agh, I can't believe I said that lol), I don't know what Gen Z kids are dealing with today. I imagine that they're dealing with a lot of the same problems I did because people have been repeating history since history began and also have some things both harder and easier than I did because times just change. On top of all of that, there are people who have it a lot easier than most and people who have it a lot harder than most in any number of people you lump together in a group.
People who claim that trans people are transphobic never ceases to amaze me...talk about disconnect from reality....with that being said Blaire and Alexis are my fav youtubers ❤
I don’t consider Blair to be transphobic but a trans can be transphobic the same way a black person can be racist and self hating lmao look at candace Owen’s … claims she loves her community and black people but does nothing but paint us in a negative light and smear our culture any chance she gets .
One thing i will always respect blaire for is shes willing to call predators out, people like eli Elrick for example a trans person who has admitted and had Instagram posts where they said they would send any kids hormones and instructions on how to use them if that child wants to be trans which is extremely predatory and extremely harmful and dangerous to kids physically, the crazy thing is eli elrick is still getting great publicity and opportunities from "LGBTQ media" despite that predatory behaviour, shes also called out jessica yaniv on multiple occasions for her predatory behaviour, she also called out alok vaid-manon who is an EXTREMELY famous person for the things they have said the main one being "little girls can be kinky too", people always say blaire is bad for the trans community but then the "community" and i use that word loosely gives publicity people like the ones i just mentioned. This is why i think lumping people together as a "community" is never a good thing because the bad people in those communities will have their wrong doings ignored in the name of acceptance.
@@elettramia6380 I still have my septum pierced lol I refuse to take out my piercing. I’ve made myself feel better by thinking if anyone assumes I’m a lib cuz of my hair or piercings that says more about them.
Yep; It be like that. I get pigeon-holed into being both LGBT and a radical leftist. In reality, I’m just an effectively-straight AuDHD tom boy 😭 Looking like I do (a little boy-woman, with tattoos, piercings, tongue split, etc) people always assume I’m far left. Lol… I have moderate views, maybe center-right. But I’m not removing my tattoos, pericings, etc. At least we got Tom McDonald breaking the appearance mold.
I will always have colorful hair I love when people realize my views are not as extreme like they think they are. 😂 my views in the last 4 years are more moderate than they use to be.
I think a lot of what is attributed to Blaire White, is second hand. Someone else has said to someone that Blaire said something and then it becomes cast in metal. I like Blaire White, I don't agree with her on everything and as for her politics, being in the UK, that's her business and doesn't apply to me. My opinion of Trump, doesn't matter as I cannot vote for him and if Blaire likes him, then that is her business, not mine.
100% I watch another TH-camr who recently reacted to a couple of her videos. The amount of people in the comments who said they didn’t like her and said she was problematic also admitted in the same comment that they had never even watched a video, they had just watched tiktok shorts and clips.
I heard Blaire was a "shock jock", ultra right wing provocateur type who trolled people by being super extreme in her beliefs while being a hot girl. If you actually watch her content, you realize quickly that's not at all who she is.
@@hhoges9895you hit the nail on the head. People have an opinion about her based on a 30 second sound byte of her that someone else is taking out of context and responding to.
Thank you, Liam for putting Alexis singing in the final edit!! Alexis, you have a good voice! You should sing more on camera! And I know you've said you've given up dance, but I would love to see you dance sometime. Gotta love that first trans person calling out Blaire for having "very strong views" while at the same time airing out their own "very strong views"! I'm SO tired of the extreme leftist mentality that everyone else but them is wrong about everything!! It's SO closed minded and SO intolerant, yet they claim to be the ultimate authority in tolerance! It's mind boggling! While what Blaire said about the "non-binary communist snorting anti-depressants" may be "cruel", she's not wrong though! If they wouldn't always ACT that way, we wouldn't be able to have that stereotype about them. Sure, I'm sure there are some that aren't that way, but the vast majority ARE!
Hello Alexis! First time I have come across your content. I clicked on it because I’m a follower/subscriber of Blair White’s. I’m a 58 year old lesbian that isn’t very thrilled about the current state of LGBTQ++++ in regards to the indoctrination of children from the likes of Jeffrey Marsh and other TikTok creators that target children. These people that claim to be transgender these days are posers. It hurts my soul for the children that actually DO suffer with gender identity. I can’t begin to imagine how hard it is not just on the child but that child’s loved ones. It’s like these people are taking the piss out of them. I watched slowly the way they were coming for the kids and I didn’t fight for my rights as a lesbian in the 80’s to see drag queen story hours for young children. Had I known then what I know now I would have stayed in the proverbial closet. But with that being said, when I found Blair I didn’t read the title to the video properly. I knew it was about the radical left trans videos. Like the ones you reacted to here. I didn’t even realize right away that Blair was trans. I was blown away by her. She restored my faith in humanity that day. I just wanted to say YOU my dear are a breath of fresh air! Beautiful, obviously intelligent, well spoken and deserving of respect. I spent 2 months in the UK last summer to fight against pedophilia (I attended a conference) I loved the country loved the people and can’t wait to return! Great video! I am looking forward to seeing more. I promise no long comments next time… 😬
I'm bi, and I feel like the hated stepchild in the community lol. Hell, in college, after my gf and I broke up, I went on ONE DATE with a guy TWO MONTHS after we broke up, and I lost every single LGBT friend I had made, and kicked out of my campuses LGBT club for "betraying" them by "going back to men". Uh, I'm bi, y'all, you knew this from the start. There's just so much hate in the community, especially when it comes to someone that may disagree with the current status quo.
I really don't like to hear that - unfortunately I have not heard for first time. Today's *biphobia* is mostly worse from LGBTQ+ side than from heterosexual-majority.
Alexis, you and Blaire are the sane voices people need to hear (Blaire is just a little more brutal in her delivery). You would have a phenomenal podcast! You gals have a Good Cop/Bad Cop vibe.
Have you seen Amber Amuadi? If you like Blaire and Alexis, I think you'd like her. She's hilarious, makes great points, and her reactions are priceless. Highly recommend!
Crazy timing for this actually but rose montoya, the trans woman who is banned from the white house and says blaire white isnt good representation for trans people has been accused of SA by 5 trans men recently, now we dont know if its true or not as of yet but from what ive seen from the people who are accusing her they do seem genuinely shaken up by their experiences with her.
Rose also claims their dog is trans. Rose is a mess. I don't want to say off the bat I believe the SA claims but I'll say IF it's true, I'm not going to be surprised.
I've watched Blaire White's video where she spoke about being abused by her parent and thought that might have influenced her decision to go forward with being trans. I feel like a lot of her opinions are just smartass/verbal defensiveness. She can be judgemental and insecure which comes off as a superiority complex. Despite this, I do find her interesting because she has that damaged inner child that is still very visible. Some of Blaire's complaints are valid and she is beautiful. I can see why people are envious of her and try to use her to get attention for themselves.
That first person (Montoya) calling Blaire White a poor representation of trans people has five SA allegations levied against them by five different trans guys within the last 24 hours so it’s quite ironic that they have the nerve to claim Blaire is the one who is poor representation. Smh
I think a lot of people are jealous of Blair White, trans and non-trans women because she’s gorgeous. She’s prettier than the average born female like my son thought she was pretty and was shocked to find out she was trans. Just like he was shocked to find out Gigi gorgeous it was trans And he’s like but they’re beautiful… When you get facial feminization surgery, how much it feminizes your face depends on what the surgeon does not the hormones there’s a lot of people who don’t get the facial feminization surgery. They’ll never get it because they don’t wanna have it they’re not gonna look like you were Blair without it and I just think maybe they’re jealous. Maybe they can afford it but I’m starting to see a lot of entitlement in the gay community. I am a part of the gay community and it is changed so much since the the late 90s to early 2000s
You ever thought about a collab with Blaire? Would be interesting and I love you both. You because you're a calm sweetheart and Blaire because she's an "in your face" sweetheart. She sounds harsh but that doesn't make her a bad person, she obviously cares too.
I have had colored hair for almost my entire teen/adult life (I’m 41 now) and it’s really frustrating how it’s now associated with nonbinary/super woke liberal people. I have been called “they/them” in the nonbinary way a couple of times and it is so jarring to me. In the past I had short hair and it made me look somewhat boyish. At the time I was fine with it but now looking back it didn’t make me feel very attractive and I can recognize it may have been part of my low self esteem. I try to look as feminine as I can now and it’s actually somewhat insulting if people put that label on me when I am clearly presenting fully female. I am not going to change my hair color because of it but I hope people will choose to get to know me and realize I am so far from that type of person.
My straight daughter cut her hair ultra short and coloured it for fun. Everyone she worked with thought she was 'coming out', which just made her laugh.
The "ick", such a woke leftie term... Blaire speaks facts, that's why these so-called "trans" people don't like her. They especially don't like her saying "I am a biological male, I was born male. I changed to APPEAR like a woman".
You know the crazy thing is Blaire has been doing and saying almost the same things with barely any change of stance and everything she said 8 years ago has happened, she warned them all and they calls a trans woman transphobic despite most of them not being gay or trans. queer label i personally believe is the new 'emo' like Blaire said, but I dont care what others do or see thenmselves, im just not going to call anyone a they/them singular, or it/its which is just next level dehumanisation and indicates an urgent need for therapy. I also think its gross that 'NB' just insert themselves into the 'trans umnbrella'; and call people like you transphobic if you don't simple accept them as being in any way related to your life experience whcih clearly it doesn't
Blair will also vote for people who will not only probe her healthcare but also make it harder for her to obtain hormones. Much like cis women, if a trans woman votes for Republican it's essentially like a victim of sexual assault sleeping with their abuser. Yes, some people on the left take LGBTQ too far with neo identities and it's weird but I'd rather walk with them than walk next to a Christian conservative that wants to F me over. I'll be voting Biden in 2024. At least he protects people like me.
I dont why but last time i was i a Club in munich and a "guy" in a dress, no hair, full beard, chesthair come to our table and ask my buddy if he can get his number. He said no iam not interestet and the person shorts "iam sich of transphobic idiots" and walj away. This was in a normal club no special gay Club. This is the kind of person i dont like.
It’s totally ok for you to just say “I like Blair white”… like it feels like you are apologetic for findings her funny etc. you don’t need to explain yourself. Blaire is hilarious and one of the best trans women I’ve ever come across. She is honest and beautiful and has no fucks to give lol we love that!!!
I have the same physical reaction as you do, Alexis, to Blaire White. She can be brutal. I do have great respect for her. She did start her TH-cam channel starting her journey years ago. I do not understand how anyone can claim real transsexuals can be transphobic. Makes no sense. Blaire was on that Jubilee panel with another trans woman on the conservative side that did not look feminine and Blaire was nothing but respectful. Personally I would love to see you on Buck Angel's show. You both give out such positive vibes.
I like Blair but I don’t agree 💯 % with everything she says but she has the right to her opinion. Many or most Transsexuals are on the conservative side of life and most of us are appalled at what’s going on in this Transgender world. Live and be happy but don’t infringe on others rights and don’t put Transsexuals under their leaky umbrella because we never needed it.
I don’t know Alexis. Being part of the LGBT community maybe you can offer some feedback on this … It seems like there wasn’t as much controversy 10 years ago as there is today. Meaning, it doesn’t seem like people were as upset about trans women using the women’s restroom then, as they are today. Nowadays, with the addition of non binary people, and self ID, there is a lot more focus on it. I’m not sure that this focus has helped trans women much at all.
I would also think the idea of giving minor’s puberty blockers has also had a affect on trans acceptance . Add the radical trans people advocating for People who like kids in a sexual way it’s just a recipe for a lot to no longer accept any trans people . The majority of people drew the line at anything that can hurt kids.
A lot of it is political theater ( I am talking the US). Transgender women have been using women's rooms for years, yet suddenly it became an issue. Why? Politics. With the acceptance of gay people and same sex marriage in the US at all time highs, the right needed a new whipping boy and trans people were it,a new wedge issues. Especially with their war on abortion rights, they have a target on their back. Yes, issues like trans athletes, issues like self id in womens rooms, trans kids and issues of social transition without parents knowing, blockers, the non binary ppl,ha w added to it. But the reality is the right wing these days lives and dies by wedge issues. The GOP literally the last 2 elections had no platform of things they want to do, it is all division and hate. It all really started in 2015 or so, then think why.
@@india1422 What differentiates the two? That you can't tell? What do you mean by w man in a dress, that you don't know ( and I am asking a general question). The UK self id law or the fitness factory self id policy is idiotic, or the person with a beard and a dress going into a women's room. But let's say it is a trans woman who doesn't look like Alexis or Blaire White but is taller, has big hands, strong features, who comes in, uses the restroom and leaves? Sadly there are a lot of anti trans types who call all trans women ',men in a dress', yet ironically are fine with a trans man with a beard and body hair being there..*sigh*
You can usually tell, when it comes down to a man in a dress who does not pass well, which ones are there because they're genuinely trans, and which ones are there because it's a fetish. Often it's down to body language, but what they're wearing etc. We never had a problem with someone who was genuinely trying to pass but couldn't help their features like height and hands. But if you're a dude just wearing a tight minidress and you're lingering and giving off creepy vibes... different story.
There's no doubt that Blair is beautiful. But look in your own mirror, Alexis! You're stunning!! And thank you for standing up to the woke madness. I'm just a simple straight ally, but I've become ambivalent now when these people are taking over. I go for people like you two, and people who just want to be accepted for loving who they want 🩷💚
Blaire is great. So many tell me to hate her, but I can’t bring myself to . She’s abrasive in ways, but hella funny too. Sure, she can be offensive to others, but those dang one liners and snap backs from her get me every time. 😂 Especially when she pokes fun at herself. She’s awesome.
I love watching you and Blair. I also like Marcus Dib and Buck Angle. I’m 70 years old was a nurse when working. I’m non-trans but I love to hear all 4or you and your opinions. I’m very firm that children cannot consent to treatment.
You two are both absolutely gorgeous! It's like people now days don't even want to be passable, because they want as much attention as they can get. A guy with a full beard and lipstick whining about being called "sir", and things like that. What ever happened to living a normal life?
I really love how middle ground your perspective is, in this time of extreme views points. I appreciate that you do not spread hate, say rude or attacking comments about other creators. You have a very refreshing trans perspective ❤
Blaire has her own opinions and doesn't pander to the LGBTQ+ community. And that pisses them off. Im not trans, but I understand because my beliefs are my own and often frustrate others because they cant fit me in a box.
The transwoman at 2:20 is Rose Montoya and she is currently at the center of a much bigger drama. Details on Buck Angel's latest video as of this comment. She might need to mind her p's and q's.
I have a strange way of looking at trans and non-binary people. I don't think trans and non-binary are necessary the same since trans still falls into the "gender binary" (man and woman). While non-binary falls into being well, non-binary. Other gender identities like gender-fluid and demi-girl also don't really follow the gender binary. So I just thought non-binary was a sort of spectrum of it's own
Mammals are binary whether they like it or not. What they've done is made tomboys and feminine males into an identity. For example, I am a tomboy, and always have been. I wear mens clothing because it's comfortable, not because I'm non binary. I'm a woman who works on cars and prefers male clothing, but I can also quilt, crochet, bake my own bread, and can my own food, which are traditionally female things. Liking both things does not make me non binary, it makes me a woman who does not fit a stereotype. Fashion choices and hobbies do not define your identity
The terms 'male' and 'female' are not gender terms, but sex terms. Gender terms are 'man' and 'woman' which reflect the person based on how society's sees an individual. Someone who is non-binary is still either male or female, but doesn't see themselves as a man or woman.
0:56 If you love the top but it's too tight, maybe you could take it to a tailor to see if they can let out the seams? Clothing doesn't have to be uncomfortable to be cute.
I love the fact that you are always so respectful of the spaces you go into and you understand please keep it up and maybe the people that are not trans who are saying they are for I don't know what reason will learn to be as kind as you hi to Liam
Can I just say I love how Liam edits your videos. The little singing or silly things you do makes you that much more real and authentic and we get to see those parts! So thanks! ❤
I'm a leftist, so are my friends and we love Blaire White. Like you we definitely don't always agree with her but she's so fucking funny and just says the things other people are too afraid to.
I love your peaceful, nuanced, and resepectful energy so much. Its a much needed vreath of fresh air with so many polarizing, aggressive, or careless creators on the internet. No diss to blaire, i love her too, but i need a break from that kind of aggressive sassiness and be in calm😅 thanks and take care alexis❤
Honestly I’m here for it, Blaire goes in and that’s her charm. If somebody comes for you, you have the right to come for them with all your might. She gets a lot worse tbf, you can agree to disagree but for me yeah if they come for you the filter can go out the window.
I truly hope your channel blows up. You're kind and balanced, and you represent a lot of people. Sending all the good vibes, dont forget us little people when youre a famous icon ❤
Blaire White, Buck Angel and Marcus Dibbs prove there are sane people who are actually tr@ns. And a few commenters recommended you, Alexis. So I’m here checking out the channel. ❤ So many of these TikTok creators are so far left, it makes the group look crazy. Very sad. 💔
I am a biological woman, and Alexis I admire you. I also admire the heck out of Marcus (Offensive Tr*nny)! Both of you share about the physical, mental and emotional aspects of your transitions. I have always been empathic toward tr*ns*xuals. Both you and Marcus have helped me to have a deeper understanding of the physical, medical and mental aspects of transitioning. What a privilege to be able to learn from both MtF and FtM Tr*ns*xuals! I hope many young people have the opportunity to watch both your's and Marcus' videos - whether they are male or female. Two people who understand this is not a trend. Transitioning is a life-long commitment! With aspects that can not be undone. Ohhh and Buck Angel! How could I forget him! The 3 of you are a bright light in this turbulent time. Thank you!
08:45 As "trans-" prefix is related to a movement, change, I do not understand why this should include "nonbinary" who are not going anywhere. How about if they simply moved from "trans" to "queer"?
I have checked out several of your videos for a bit now... as well as several of Blaires. From an outsider looking into your world, I think you two are fairly similar. I think you're a bit gentler on where/how you speak. I can relate to your ability to try to see all the angles. However, I think Blaire has seen more of the stupidity that is diluting and ultimately disparaging your community. As such, Blair has no problem being more direct and letting the chips fall where they must. I think it offends her most the gender dysphoria has become a joke and used as a crutch for a social fad. Culturally, we are at a tipping point and need both your methods of delivery, her blunt and callous, and your gentle coaxing. I won't pretend to understand your world. Learning to be comfortable as woman in general is tough enough for me. But I appreciate both ways you and Blaire contribute to the conversation. It has always come down to the children for me, which is how I found Blaire and then you.
I follow you, Blair, Buck Angel, Marcus Dibbs, Brad Plumbo, Curly Boy Chuck, and a few others. I love all of you. I never had a problem with Transpeople before. Blair, however, helped me to better understand gender dysphoria. She also helped me to understand the process, and what it actually does to you. That is why I'm fully against minors transitioning medically. Socially sure, because that gives the child the opportunity to see for themselves if that's right for them when they become an adult.
The moment someone calls another "privileged" they lose credibility with me. People now use it as a dehumanizer that allows them to say or do anything to the other and it's at the least justifiable, and in some cases heroic.
Want to say that i LOVE your content. Such a breath of fresh air proving not all trans have the same attitude as some on certain platforms being pushed. Every community has it's good and bad. On a more light hearted note, I know Liam kept your singing in but i think your voice is great
I dont mean this disrespectfully at all, but trans people used to freak me out quite a bit. Blaire started posting when i was in middle school i think and it really helped me understand what trans people are. Im sure im not the only one who feels that way especially for those of us who lean more conservatively. For these people to say that blaire is transphobic absolutely blows my mind. I truly believe that without blaire, trans acceptance would not be what it is todsy.
You are new to me, so hello from Vancouver Canada. I love that Blaire slams the woke, weird misogynists with the colored hair. I'm a 1st gen Punk in my 60s who had colored my hair, had mohawks etc, since 1977. Wendy O. Williams is still my Muse. I stopped doing my hair the way I had done for decades because I did not want to even look like I supported, or was in any way affiliated with the woke alphabet cult. It annoys me every time I look in a mirror, but ultimately it's a small sacrifice. Best wishes to you. You remind me of the real transsexuals I knew and hung with in Hollywood and London, back in the day. Voices like yours, Blaire's, Buck Angel's, and Marcus Dibs' are more important than ever now. Can I just say you look lovely. Cheers!
Alexis, you are just as stunning as Blaire White! You have a different 'look' but youre just as beautiful to me. As a biological woman i would be soooo happy to look like you. Youre radiant and I think your kindness really shines through and makes you glow 💖
You are such a level headed individual thank you for bringing some sanity into this crazy world we live in at the moment . Why are the trans TikTok brigade being so unloving and ugly toward Blaire and others similar, does it come from jealousy and stupidity kind of seems that way, and a lot of ignorance they really need to open a book and educate themselves, that's if they can read that is .
Blair’s a goddess in my opinion. I love her even when I don’t agree with her. And I agree re the coloured hair - I’ve had multi coloured hair for over 30 years and now I’ve gone back to a (relatively) normal colour so I don’t get associated with the idiots.
I WILL SCREAM IT LOUD!!!! I LOVE BLAIR WHITE AND HER COMMENTS !! Blair is real ,non bias for the majority of things 😂, and I love her personality! ( also so freaking gorgeous!!) But privileged is not one of them. Blair is the realest and that’s what brings me back again and again. Alexis, I think you have come such a long way, I’ve been here since the beginning and I think you are so beautiful! We don’t agree on everything,but I’m here for you girl!! Keep doing what you’re doing cuz it works!! ❤
As someone who's been on antidepressants since losing my dad in 2008, I spat my water across my living room when she said that!!! Blaire is fckn hysterical! LOVE her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
There's no sympathy for Devil, there's no sympathy for men. There's is no sympathy for transwomen. There's no sympathy for transmen. The world is a cruel place for many people 💔 😊
I love Blaire so much, I don’t think she goes too far, she is just brutally honest and it’s honestly refreshing. Alexis you are our (UKs) version of Blaire, you are the voice of reason and we love you also, but with that you are over polite - but that’s us Brits.
Also! I really want my septum pierced and used to always have brightly coloured hair, but now I am TERRIFIED to do anything like that anymore because of these militant people online who are so hostile! I do not want to be associated with them at all.
Once again totally in agreement with you. Honestly if “Tara” entered the female washroom with me, I would be confused because as you mentioned she presented as a “man”. I do understand that there are trans people that cannot afford any kind of surgery or they are not able to have the surgeries done for many reasons. I personally had breast augmentation surgery because I breast-fed three children for a total of 4 1/2 years. I was no longer happy with the long, saggy breasts with a golf ball at the end of the sock type of look (I had it done at an early age of 36). I had the surgery because it made me happy and it still does now, at the age of 60. I did not have the surgery for anyone else, I just wanted my breasts back, So, I completely agree with your statement “only have surgery if it is what you want to do” and it makes you feel more confident about yourself. Thank you once again Alexis, for being the voice of reason! ❤️❤️
Once when I was at work, a girl (and she had long hair in a ponytail, earrings, and carrying a purse) approached me and asked where the bathrooms were. I showed her, and said "Ladies' to the left, Men's to the right" at which point she kind of huffily replied that she didn't identify as female or male. To which I thought that she made a lot effort to appear female, and also, she was going to have to choose one or the other, because we don't have a third bathroom.
I think the difference in approach between • Blair, who tends to be outspoken, incorrect to even sarcastic..., • Alexis, who is more diplomatic, understanding and sensitive..., is mainly because: 1) Blair does not hide her political views + she is an open Republican. 2) Blair has been around as youtuber, much longer and has far more reach, making him better known to both supporters and critics. 3) Blair has done a lot of reaction videos, while Alexis doesn't yet - so she hasn't had time to make angry those people on the other side yet. 4) Blair is the target of really nasty messages (threats of violence, graping, etc.), so it is clear that she will definitely not be kind and understanding to such people.
I’m a trans man who transitioned 15 years ago and live almost entirely stealth. I would NEVER enter the men’s restroom when I didn’t pass, because it would be weird for everyone involved. If I enter a space that I don’t originally belong to, it is my responsibility to enter that space with respect and humility. It’s like being a polite guest. If any "trans man" would enter the men’s room without no effort to pass, even I would be incredibly offended, uncomfortable and even disturbed. You don’t get to dictate as a guest how to flaunt yourself, regardless if you are in someone else’s home or visiting a foreign country.
I love this comment and have the utmost respect for you.
It’s really just common sense I don’t understand how these people can’t understand why we wouldn’t want someone who appears fully as a man in the women’s bathroom lmao
The thing is its not even an issue when it comes to transmen because they pose no danger to men... its a problem with trans "women" because they DO pose a threat to women..
Respect ❤ you are a beautiful soul
Unfortunately not all trans individuals, hell, all people in general, are as considerate and respectful as you. Please, teach them your ways Obi Wan.
The person that got facial surgery to "spite" Blaire, Alexis, I think you hit it right on the head. She sounded super jealous of Blaire.
It is sad (petty and STUPID!) that a lot of people are cruel to each other because (at least) one person thinks the other is more attractive. It destroys "friendships" and work environments.
I'm a straight female and jealous of blaire, not getting surgery tho lol
@@kezl3037 me too though I would say envious rather than jealous. Love both Blair and Alexis .
Jealousy and attention seeking, yes.
@@carolynbrubaker1619why would you be
What I've heard Blair do is call out people who are militant and say they are trans but make no effort to look female (or male) What people don't seem to understand is that many-- maybe even most women (with xx chromosomes)--tend to have a sixth sense about threatening situations. We've learned to listen to our spidey senses. If I walk into a bathroom and there is someone there who sets those senses tingling I will turn around a walk out. It's not transphobia, it's common sense.
There is no amount of effort that permits a man to invade women's spaces.
And she is so right for that
Transphobia is an irrational fear, what you are talking about is GENUINE fear.
The true transwomen would make an effort to pass as women and try to be non threatening when in women spaces like bathrooms.Men do not understand how scarey it coukd be for a female to sense a man is in a public bathroom.It not a joke.Females find it threatening.It is just an innate female thing.
@@Diablo_Himself Right. I am not transphobic. If I walked into a bathroom and see someone who looks like Alexis or Blaire or even Blossom I probably wouldn't give them a second glance. BUt someone with a beard or is obviously a man (think Alexander Concas Riva who was dressed like a clown in Jubliee's liberal vs conservative trans debate) would make me turn on my heel and walk back out again. They would scare me.
I am deeply amused by anyone calling Blaire White privileged. Tell me you can't be bothered with someone's bio.
I think part of it is because she has had major cosmetic surgery to pass as a woman, which requires a ton of money
@@heatherturner2366 I suppose that could be the case, but little miss White House lawn seems to have been able to afford several procedures and that's who called Blaire pivileged. 😉I think the wokies just throw out the worst words possible to try and make someone look bad, basically because they have no logical argument. Same with the other accusations that were made. Anyone who knows Blaire, knows that she's none of those things.
@@heatherturner2366 true, but this money didn't simply land on her head, she worked for it. She probably comes from less privilege as some of people accusing her of being privileged.
Compared to most people in the world, she is. She's a fairly well-off, educated white person in a first world country where freedom of speech is guaranteed and she can be open about her trans status without fear of imprisonment or government persecution. She also had the money for tons of cosmetics procedures, allowing her to pass as her preferred sex better than most trans people.
@@JadeEyes1 She isnt white. She also didnt grow up wealthy, all the money she has is a result of her social media platform (that she worked for). Most of the people criticizing her have the exact same rights as she does.
4:47 'Snorting anti-depressants' is one of the tamest thing Blaire has ever said
Right exactly my thoughts haha
It made me laugh 🤣🤣
its the sheer amount of pure passive aggressive =p you go from calm to "daaaaamn roasted" within 2 seconds
😂😂😂😂 I love Blair!
I think she comments about transwomen with beards or look more male and not trying to look female. More transvestite than transexual
Alexis I’d so love to see you and Blair White together on a TH-cam cast.. in a lot a ways your both the same. As in class.
Yessssssss please! All the awesome ones❤😊🎉
Ps. Kelly is a beautiful blonde her too❤😊
Agreed 💯
I would love to hear a conversation between the two of them!
That would be AMAZING!
Alexis, please do this!
The 1st tik toker is now being investigated for SA against 5 trans men.
Wow. It's almost as though transwomen behave like men and know who to victimise!
No shit! Woah
Yes, i heard that too
oh snap, oh darn who would have thought
@@doomdecepticon933 we all know This Never Happens ;)
If you are a Trans-Woman shave. If you don't you are a cross dresser. Either commit to being Trans or accept that you are not. Either way is fine by me.
Exactly, the line is in the very word, if you decide not to transition from your “birth” gender to the opposite one, then you are something else and not “trans”, and it’s ok. Non binary cannot be transgender because there is not a gender from to transition. Words have meanings.
All men are men all the time. Clean shaven men are men. Bearded men are men. Transwomen are men.
@@monicaavendano5553 right!? They want to be trans soooo bad. It completely nullifies their argument as it’s practically saying they crave attention.
...No. You don't need to shave to be a woman. You can shave and not be a woman. You can choose not to shave and be a woman. If shaving makes you feel nice and womanly and you love that? Awesome, go for it, but don't try and sell it as some hallmark of what makes a woman.
@@SanguinaryBlade if you are a man you will never BE a woman and viceversa, shave or not shave. Women with facial hair so thick that need to shave it are very rare and has nothing to do with being trans. Women has XX chromosomes and men XY and there is no way around that, no umbrella, not anything else. Being feminine or manly is a different discussion.
I’m a lesbian and I don’t like or understand the queer woke rubbish in our community at the moment. What I do love is people like yourself, Blaire white, Marcus Dib and Arielle.The coloured hair and pierced septum queers make me cringe too
I'm a gay boy and I feel the exact same way.
Ugh they took the septum too?!? Mine was pierced before half these people were born 😂
Have you watched buck angel. Good content similar to Blaire and marcus
Same!!! I dont even go to pride anymore, it doesnt even feel
Safe 😂
Buck angel is really good too @@lauriewashburn867
Lesbian here. We really do need to reclaim colored hair... I miss my pastel-pink hair. But I really don't want to be associated with these people.
Haha same! I’m straight and centre-right politically and miss my pink hair and would love to try blue hair, but I’m a tomboy, so scared I’ll be mistaken as non binary 😂 I also want to reclaim rainbows (sorry LGB) lol
I hate getting judged for my fantasy hair but I like it and at 58 my hair color does not define me. For Christmas I did red and green mixed. Blair would look great with pink tips! Trying to take it back one appointment at a time lol.
Go for it!!!! I’m straight more conservative, but I have purple hair, and I love it,
@@LG-Musique Yeah, I have this rainbow-coloured belt (not a LGBT rainbow), but I'm not wearing it anymore bc all rainbows have become associated with queer, woke activism. It's a cute belt. It's not to parade around my se*uality. Oh, and even if it were the OG gay rainbow, you'd be harassed for not using the new (ugly af) "inclusive" version.
I can't win against Blaire in an argument so I will just say how horrible she is. This is what it looks like here.
i don't think she goes too far in her comments. those people go way further with their constant accusations and threats, if you know Blair, you know about her childhood wich wasn't as cosy as their little gen Z life !! Blair and you are the face of real transexualness... NOT THEM, and it has nothing to do with politics !! Live and let live !! please, I miss the late 90's and early 2000's
Who are you to say who is a transsexual? Im trans female who has had more surgeries than Blair and Alexis yet I'm left wing, and I'm proud of it. I'd rather walk next to a nonbinary person than a Christian conservative who is trying to F over my healthcare 🤷🏻♀️
I don't think most of the people criticizing Blaire were Gen Z though? I love Blaire and I think she gets a lot of irrational hatred, but I don't know what Gen Z has to do with that. Personally, as a Millennial who is very much in the mom zone right now (agh, I can't believe I said that lol), I don't know what Gen Z kids are dealing with today. I imagine that they're dealing with a lot of the same problems I did because people have been repeating history since history began and also have some things both harder and easier than I did because times just change. On top of all of that, there are people who have it a lot easier than most and people who have it a lot harder than most in any number of people you lump together in a group.
Theres no such thing as a "reals transsexual" its a made up concept like vampires or fairy's...
People who claim that trans people are transphobic never ceases to amaze me...talk about disconnect from reality....with that being said Blaire and Alexis are my fav youtubers ❤
I don’t consider Blair to be transphobic but a trans can be transphobic the same way a black person can be racist and self hating lmao look at candace Owen’s … claims she loves her community and black people but does nothing but paint us in a negative light and smear our culture any chance she gets .
One thing i will always respect blaire for is shes willing to call predators out, people like eli Elrick for example a trans person who has admitted and had Instagram posts where they said they would send any kids hormones and instructions on how to use them if that child wants to be trans which is extremely predatory and extremely harmful and dangerous to kids physically, the crazy thing is eli elrick is still getting great publicity and opportunities from "LGBTQ media" despite that predatory behaviour, shes also called out jessica yaniv on multiple occasions for her predatory behaviour, she also called out alok vaid-manon who is an EXTREMELY famous person for the things they have said the main one being "little girls can be kinky too", people always say blaire is bad for the trans community but then the "community" and i use that word loosely gives publicity people like the ones i just mentioned. This is why i think lumping people together as a "community" is never a good thing because the bad people in those communities will have their wrong doings ignored in the name of acceptance.
I stopped dying my hair cuz I didn’t want people to think I was crazy liberal.
I use to want to dye my hair dark blue but never did because of the leftist uniform
@@elettramia6380 I still have my septum pierced lol I refuse to take out my piercing. I’ve made myself feel better by thinking if anyone assumes I’m a lib cuz of my hair or piercings that says more about them.
Yep; It be like that. I get pigeon-holed into being both LGBT and a radical leftist.
In reality, I’m just an effectively-straight AuDHD tom boy 😭 Looking like I do (a little boy-woman, with tattoos, piercings, tongue split, etc) people always assume I’m far left. Lol… I have moderate views, maybe center-right. But I’m not removing my tattoos, pericings, etc. At least we got Tom McDonald breaking the appearance mold.
I will always have colorful hair I love when people realize my views are not as extreme like they think they are. 😂 my views in the last 4 years are more moderate than they use to be.
Same lol, I had pink, purple and blue, sometimes one of them, sometimes all 3, but not now! 😂
I think a lot of what is attributed to Blaire White, is second hand. Someone else has said to someone that Blaire said something and then it becomes cast in metal. I like Blaire White, I don't agree with her on everything and as for her politics, being in the UK, that's her business and doesn't apply to me. My opinion of Trump, doesn't matter as I cannot vote for him and if Blaire likes him, then that is her business, not mine.
I really appreciate her stance on the subjects of Transgender.
100% I watch another TH-camr who recently reacted to a couple of her videos. The amount of people in the comments who said they didn’t like her and said she was problematic also admitted in the same comment that they had never even watched a video, they had just watched tiktok shorts and clips.
And rarely do her detractors truly listen to what she says in an entire vid.
I heard Blaire was a "shock jock", ultra right wing provocateur type who trolled people by being super extreme in her beliefs while being a hot girl. If you actually watch her content, you realize quickly that's not at all who she is.
@@hhoges9895you hit the nail on the head. People have an opinion about her based on a 30 second sound byte of her that someone else is taking out of context and responding to.
Thank you, Liam for putting Alexis singing in the final edit!! Alexis, you have a good voice! You should sing more on camera! And I know you've said you've given up dance, but I would love to see you dance sometime. Gotta love that first trans person calling out Blaire for having "very strong views" while at the same time airing out their own "very strong views"! I'm SO tired of the extreme leftist mentality that everyone else but them is wrong about everything!! It's SO closed minded and SO intolerant, yet they claim to be the ultimate authority in tolerance! It's mind boggling! While what Blaire said about the "non-binary communist snorting anti-depressants" may be "cruel", she's not wrong though! If they wouldn't always ACT that way, we wouldn't be able to have that stereotype about them. Sure, I'm sure there are some that aren't that way, but the vast majority ARE!
Hello Alexis! First time I have come across your content. I clicked on it because I’m a
follower/subscriber of Blair White’s. I’m a 58 year old lesbian that isn’t very thrilled about the current state of LGBTQ++++ in regards to the indoctrination of children from the likes of Jeffrey Marsh and other TikTok creators that target children. These people that claim to be transgender these days are posers. It hurts my soul for the children that actually DO suffer with gender identity. I can’t begin to imagine how hard it is not just on the child but that child’s loved ones. It’s like these people are taking the piss out of them. I watched slowly the way they were coming for the kids and I didn’t fight for my rights as a lesbian in the 80’s to see drag queen story hours for young children. Had I known then what I know now I would have stayed in the proverbial closet. But with that being said, when I found Blair I didn’t read the title to the video properly. I knew it was about the radical left trans videos. Like the ones you reacted to here. I didn’t even realize right away that Blair was trans. I was blown away by her. She restored my faith in humanity that day. I just wanted to say YOU my dear are a breath of fresh air! Beautiful, obviously intelligent, well spoken and deserving of respect.
I spent 2 months in the UK last summer to fight against pedophilia (I attended a conference) I loved the country loved the people and can’t wait to return! Great video! I am looking forward to seeing more. I promise no long comments next time… 😬
I'm bi, and I feel like the hated stepchild in the community lol. Hell, in college, after my gf and I broke up, I went on ONE DATE with a guy TWO MONTHS after we broke up, and I lost every single LGBT friend I had made, and kicked out of my campuses LGBT club for "betraying" them by "going back to men". Uh, I'm bi, y'all, you knew this from the start. There's just so much hate in the community, especially when it comes to someone that may disagree with the current status quo.
I really don't like to hear that - unfortunately I have not heard for first time. Today's *biphobia* is mostly worse from LGBTQ+ side than from heterosexual-majority.
@@Muf315 Very true. I haven't encountered a straight person that hates/judges bi people in YEARS, but I get it from the LGBT community all the time.
Alexis, you and Blaire are the sane voices people need to hear (Blaire is just a little more brutal in her delivery). You would have a phenomenal podcast! You gals have a Good Cop/Bad Cop vibe.
Have you seen Amber Amuadi? If you like Blaire and Alexis, I think you'd like her. She's hilarious, makes great points, and her reactions are priceless. Highly recommend!
Crazy timing for this actually but rose montoya, the trans woman who is banned from the white house and says blaire white isnt good representation for trans people has been accused of SA by 5 trans men recently, now we dont know if its true or not as of yet but from what ive seen from the people who are accusing her they do seem genuinely shaken up by their experiences with her.
Rose also claims their dog is trans. Rose is a mess. I don't want to say off the bat I believe the SA claims but I'll say IF it's true, I'm not going to be surprised.
@@user-op6kt8pg9y And Blaire White didn't show her tits on the White House lawn. But Blaire is the bad rep. Riggghhtttt....
Considering the nadty and disgusting things said to Blaire I have no problem with how savagely she replies...I'd say a lot worse. 🤷♀️
I've watched Blaire White's video where she spoke about being abused by her parent and thought that might have influenced her decision to go forward with being trans. I feel like a lot of her opinions are just smartass/verbal defensiveness. She can be judgemental and insecure which comes off as a superiority complex. Despite this, I do find her interesting because she has that damaged inner child that is still very visible. Some of Blaire's complaints are valid and she is beautiful. I can see why people are envious of her and try to use her to get attention for themselves.
She is honest most people are too jelly to stand for truth
I loved your singing and I was glad Liam left it in
Perfectly said
That first person (Montoya) calling Blaire White a poor representation of trans people has five SA allegations levied against them by five different trans guys within the last 24 hours so it’s quite ironic that they have the nerve to claim Blaire is the one who is poor representation. Smh
It's always the pretty ones that get hated.
not true, im ugly and i get hate too
@@lizzyluv96 by other trans women?
And its usualy the ugly t. That create most problems trying to get extra privilage
@@lizzyluv96it’s true I definitely hate you 😘
“Ugly”- non normie people get bullied. Pretty people get hated.
I think a lot of people are jealous of Blair White, trans and non-trans women because she’s gorgeous. She’s prettier than the average born female like my son thought she was pretty and was shocked to find out she was trans. Just like he was shocked to find out Gigi gorgeous it was trans And he’s like but they’re beautiful… When you get facial feminization surgery, how much it feminizes your face depends on what the surgeon does not the hormones there’s a lot of people who don’t get the facial feminization surgery. They’ll never get it because they don’t wanna have it they’re not gonna look like you were Blair without it and I just think maybe they’re jealous. Maybe they can afford it but I’m starting to see a lot of entitlement in the gay community. I am a part of the gay community and it is changed so much since the the late 90s to early 2000s
“When someone shows you who they are…believe them.” The truest words ever spoken
Not original, Maya Angelou said it, but still true!
I am a bit confused about the non-binary calling themselves trans- seems like very different journeys.
You ever thought about a collab with Blaire? Would be interesting and I love you both. You because you're a calm sweetheart and Blaire because she's an "in your face" sweetheart. She sounds harsh but that doesn't make her a bad person, she obviously cares too.
I have had colored hair for almost my entire teen/adult life (I’m 41 now) and it’s really frustrating how it’s now associated with nonbinary/super woke liberal people. I have been called “they/them” in the nonbinary way a couple of times and it is so jarring to me. In the past I had short hair and it made me look somewhat boyish. At the time I was fine with it but now looking back it didn’t make me feel very attractive and I can recognize it may have been part of my low self esteem. I try to look as feminine as I can now and it’s actually somewhat insulting if people put that label on me when I am clearly presenting fully female. I am not going to change my hair color because of it but I hope people will choose to get to know me and realize I am so far from that type of person.
My straight daughter cut her hair ultra short and coloured it for fun. Everyone she worked with thought she was 'coming out', which just made her laugh.
Blaire has struggled. She doesn't give the "ick" so she's liked by straight people too
The "ick", such a woke leftie term...
Blaire speaks facts, that's why these so-called "trans" people don't like her.
They especially don't like her saying "I am a biological male, I was born male. I changed to APPEAR like a woman".
You know the crazy thing is Blaire has been doing and saying almost the same things with barely any change of stance and everything she said 8 years ago has happened, she warned them all and they calls a trans woman transphobic despite most of them not being gay or trans. queer label i personally believe is the new 'emo' like Blaire said, but I dont care what others do or see thenmselves, im just not going to call anyone a they/them singular, or it/its which is just next level dehumanisation and indicates an urgent need for therapy. I also think its gross that 'NB' just insert themselves into the 'trans umnbrella'; and call people like you transphobic if you don't simple accept them as being in any way related to your life experience whcih clearly it doesn't
She is totally right, colored hair was for cool people then like most everything else it was co-opt’d
Trust Blaire to keep it real 😂😂
Blair will also vote for people who will not only probe her healthcare but also make it harder for her to obtain hormones. Much like cis women, if a trans woman votes for Republican it's essentially like a victim of sexual assault sleeping with their abuser.
Yes, some people on the left take LGBTQ too far with neo identities and it's weird but I'd rather walk with them than walk next to a Christian conservative that wants to F me over. I'll be voting Biden in 2024. At least he protects people like me.
I dont why but last time i was i a Club in munich and a "guy" in a dress, no hair, full beard, chesthair come to our table and ask my buddy if he can get his number.
He said no iam not interestet and the person shorts "iam sich of transphobic idiots" and walj away.
This was in a normal club no special gay Club.
This is the kind of person i dont like.
It’s totally ok for you to just say “I like Blair white”… like it feels like you are apologetic for findings her funny etc. you don’t need to explain yourself. Blaire is hilarious and one of the best trans women I’ve ever come across. She is honest and beautiful and has no fucks to give lol we love that!!!
I have the same physical reaction as you do, Alexis, to Blaire White. She can be brutal. I do have great respect for her. She did start her TH-cam channel starting her journey years ago. I do not understand how anyone can claim real transsexuals can be transphobic. Makes no sense. Blaire was on that Jubilee panel with another trans woman on the conservative side that did not look feminine and Blaire was nothing but respectful. Personally I would love to see you on Buck Angel's show. You both give out such positive vibes.
I like Blair but I don’t agree 💯 % with everything she says but she has the right to her opinion. Many or most Transsexuals are on the conservative side of life and most of us are appalled at what’s going on in this Transgender world. Live and be happy but don’t infringe on others rights and don’t put Transsexuals under their leaky umbrella because we never needed it.
I don’t know Alexis. Being part of the LGBT community maybe you can offer some feedback on this … It seems like there wasn’t as much controversy 10 years ago as there is today. Meaning, it doesn’t seem like people were as upset about trans women using the women’s restroom then, as they are today. Nowadays, with the addition of non binary people, and self ID, there is a lot more focus on it. I’m not sure that this focus has helped trans women much at all.
I would also think the idea of giving minor’s puberty blockers has also had a affect on trans acceptance . Add the radical trans people advocating for People who like kids in a sexual way it’s just a recipe for a lot to no longer accept any trans people . The majority of people drew the line at anything that can hurt kids.
A lot of it is political theater ( I am talking the US). Transgender women have been using women's rooms for years, yet suddenly it became an issue. Why? Politics. With the acceptance of gay people and same sex marriage in the US at all time highs, the right needed a new whipping boy and trans people were it,a new wedge issues. Especially with their war on abortion rights, they have a target on their back.
Yes, issues like trans athletes, issues like self id in womens rooms, trans kids and issues of social transition without parents knowing, blockers, the non binary ppl,ha w added to it. But the reality is the right wing these days lives and dies by wedge issues. The GOP literally the last 2 elections had no platform of things they want to do, it is all division and hate.
It all really started in 2015 or so, then think why.
I'm not upset about Trans women using
' my'bathroom. I'm just about men in dresses using my bathroom
@@india1422
What differentiates the two? That you can't tell? What do you mean by w man in a dress, that you don't know ( and I am asking a general question). The UK self id law or the fitness factory self id policy is idiotic, or the person with a beard and a dress going into a women's room.
But let's say it is a trans woman who doesn't look like Alexis or Blaire White but is taller, has big hands, strong features, who comes in, uses the restroom and leaves?
Sadly there are a lot of anti trans types who call all trans women ',men in a dress', yet ironically are fine with a trans man with a beard and body hair being there..*sigh*
You can usually tell, when it comes down to a man in a dress who does not pass well, which ones are there because they're genuinely trans, and which ones are there because it's a fetish. Often it's down to body language, but what they're wearing etc. We never had a problem with someone who was genuinely trying to pass but couldn't help their features like height and hands. But if you're a dude just wearing a tight minidress and you're lingering and giving off creepy vibes... different story.
There's no doubt that Blair is beautiful. But look in your own mirror, Alexis! You're stunning!! And thank you for standing up to the woke madness. I'm just a simple straight ally, but I've become ambivalent now when these people are taking over. I go for people like you two, and people who just want to be accepted for loving who they want 🩷💚
Blaire is great. So many tell me to hate her, but I can’t bring myself to . She’s abrasive in ways, but hella funny too. Sure, she can be offensive to others, but those dang one liners and snap backs from her get me every time. 😂 Especially when she pokes fun at herself. She’s awesome.
I love watching you and Blair. I also like Marcus Dib and Buck Angle. I’m 70 years old was a nurse when working. I’m non-trans but I love to hear all 4or you and your opinions. I’m very firm that children cannot consent to treatment.
You two are both absolutely gorgeous! It's like people now days don't even want to be passable, because they want as much attention as they can get. A guy with a full beard and lipstick whining about being called "sir", and things like that. What ever happened to living a normal life?
Blair is savage and I admire her for staying strong in the clap backs.
Alexis, your amazing as well and I love your content.
Isn't Rose Montoya being scrutinized for 5 counts of SA? Rose is in no position to comment and is not the judge on what is 'problematic'.
I really love how middle ground your perspective is, in this time of extreme views points. I appreciate that you do not spread hate, say rude or attacking comments about other creators. You have a very refreshing trans perspective ❤
Have you watched Buck Angel’s videos? He’s a trans man and I love his content.
I watch him just because I find him really interesting! The same with Blaire ,Alexis and Marcus.
Blaire has her own opinions and doesn't pander to the LGBTQ+ community. And that pisses them off. Im not trans, but I understand because my beliefs are my own and often frustrate others because they cant fit me in a box.
Gurl, u looks so pretty 😭❤️ (mega beautiful top, especially the color ^^)
Thank you so much!! X
The transwoman at 2:20 is Rose Montoya and she is currently at the center of a much bigger drama. Details on Buck Angel's latest video as of this comment. She might need to mind her p's and q's.
I have a strange way of looking at trans and non-binary people. I don't think trans and non-binary are necessary the same since trans still falls into the "gender binary" (man and woman). While non-binary falls into being well, non-binary. Other gender identities like gender-fluid and demi-girl also don't really follow the gender binary. So I just thought non-binary was a sort of spectrum of it's own
Mammals are binary whether they like it or not. What they've done is made tomboys and feminine males into an identity. For example, I am a tomboy, and always have been. I wear mens clothing because it's comfortable, not because I'm non binary. I'm a woman who works on cars and prefers male clothing, but I can also quilt, crochet, bake my own bread, and can my own food, which are traditionally female things. Liking both things does not make me non binary, it makes me a woman who does not fit a stereotype. Fashion choices and hobbies do not define your identity
The terms 'male' and 'female' are not gender terms, but sex terms. Gender terms are 'man' and 'woman' which reflect the person based on how society's sees an individual. Someone who is non-binary is still either male or female, but doesn't see themselves as a man or woman.
0:56 If you love the top but it's too tight, maybe you could take it to a tailor to see if they can let out the seams? Clothing doesn't have to be uncomfortable to be cute.
I was thinking the same but it make be tipe clothing what hard change.
I adore Blair she’s just straight up about how she feels
I love the fact that you are always so respectful of the spaces you go into and you understand please keep it up and maybe the people that are not trans who are saying they are for I don't know what reason will learn to be as kind as you hi to Liam
Can I just say I love how Liam edits your videos. The little singing or silly things you do makes you that much more real and authentic and we get to see those parts! So thanks! ❤
I love Blair shes so beautifully harsh. I love you, Alexis - you're so sweet. You're like the good and bad trans angels.
I'm a leftist, so are my friends and we love Blaire White. Like you we definitely don't always agree with her but she's so fucking funny and just says the things other people are too afraid to.
Im pretty sure you get more pretty every time I see you🤓 Keep being a great person, the world needs more of them!!
Both of you are beautiful and so well put together
I love your peaceful, nuanced, and resepectful energy so much. Its a much needed vreath of fresh air with so many polarizing, aggressive, or careless creators on the internet. No diss to blaire, i love her too, but i need a break from that kind of aggressive sassiness and be in calm😅 thanks and take care alexis❤
I watch Blaire, Thai Rivera, and
CurlyBoyChuck
So do I . They're all great.
As a woman i felt so safe listening to you idk how to explain but you have a very kind aura ❤
Your instincts are faulty.
@@soniaess28 really? 😂
@@Xoxocutegirl yes
Alexis, your facial expressions and side eye are priceless! 😂. Love your reactionary looks, makes my day. ❤
Honestly I’m here for it, Blaire goes in and that’s her charm. If somebody comes for you, you have the right to come for them with all your might. She gets a lot worse tbf, you can agree to disagree but for me yeah if they come for you the filter can go out the window.
“Who snorts your anti depressants” 😂 nearly killed me!
Great observations Alexis. I love Blaire White, she's so sensible.
Also I love that top on you, great colour, great cut.
Marcus Dib and Buck Angel for the trans man experience.
I think that’s a great idea! I was going to suggest Buck Angel but Marcus is a good one to add too! 😀
I truly hope your channel blows up. You're kind and balanced, and you represent a lot of people. Sending all the good vibes, dont forget us little people when youre a famous icon ❤
Blaire White, Buck Angel and Marcus Dibbs prove there are sane people who are actually tr@ns. And a few commenters recommended you, Alexis. So I’m here checking out the channel. ❤ So many of these TikTok creators are so far left, it makes the group look crazy. Very sad. 💔
I am a biological woman, and Alexis I admire you. I also admire the heck out of Marcus (Offensive Tr*nny)! Both of you share about the physical, mental and emotional aspects of your transitions. I have always been empathic toward tr*ns*xuals. Both you and Marcus have helped me to have a deeper understanding of the physical, medical and mental aspects of transitioning. What a privilege to be able to learn from both MtF and FtM Tr*ns*xuals! I hope many young people have the opportunity to watch both your's and Marcus' videos - whether they are male or female. Two people who understand this is not a trend. Transitioning is a life-long commitment! With aspects that can not be undone. Ohhh and Buck Angel! How could I forget him! The 3 of you are a bright light in this turbulent time. Thank you!
I recently discovered your channel and I just have to say that you’re absolutely beautiful. And I enjoy listening to your opinions!
Thank you so much!! X
08:45 As "trans-" prefix is related to a movement, change, I do not understand why this should include "nonbinary" who are not going anywhere. How about if they simply moved from "trans" to "queer"?
I have checked out several of your videos for a bit now... as well as several of Blaires. From an outsider looking into your world, I think you two are fairly similar. I think you're a bit gentler on where/how you speak. I can relate to your ability to try to see all the angles. However, I think Blaire has seen more of the stupidity that is diluting and ultimately disparaging your community. As such, Blair has no problem being more direct and letting the chips fall where they must. I think it offends her most the gender dysphoria has become a joke and used as a crutch for a social fad.
Culturally, we are at a tipping point and need both your methods of delivery, her blunt and callous, and your gentle coaxing. I won't pretend to understand your world. Learning to be comfortable as woman in general is tough enough for me. But I appreciate both ways you and Blaire contribute to the conversation. It has always come down to the children for me, which is how I found Blaire and then you.
When it comes to Blair’s we can all agree on one thing: She has no filter 😂
I follow you, Blair, Buck Angel, Marcus Dibbs, Brad Plumbo, Curly Boy Chuck, and a few others. I love all of you. I never had a problem with Transpeople before. Blair, however, helped me to better understand gender dysphoria. She also helped me to understand the process, and what it actually does to you. That is why I'm fully against minors transitioning medically. Socially sure, because that gives the child the opportunity to see for themselves if that's right for them when they become an adult.
The moment someone calls another "privileged" they lose credibility with me. People now use it as a dehumanizer that allows them to say or do anything to the other and it's at the least justifiable, and in some cases heroic.
Heterosexual female plus Catholic Mom here wanting to let you know you really are great and represent the transgender population well!
Want to say that i LOVE your content. Such a breath of fresh air proving not all trans have the same attitude as some on certain platforms being pushed. Every community has it's good and bad. On a more light hearted note, I know Liam kept your singing in but i think your voice is great
We need more people to have open discussions like this. Would you ever react to Brad Polumbo ? I love his takes on things especially non binary
Blaire White saved me from feeling guilty and believing myself to be transphobic.
I dont mean this disrespectfully at all, but trans people used to freak me out quite a bit. Blaire started posting when i was in middle school i think and it really helped me understand what trans people are. Im sure im not the only one who feels that way especially for those of us who lean more conservatively. For these people to say that blaire is transphobic absolutely blows my mind. I truly believe that without blaire, trans acceptance would not be what it is todsy.
Their jealousy of her beauty is painful
Just seen Buck Angels video about that Rose Montoya SA'ing multiple trans men!
finally someone who watches blair like i do! i don’t agree w everything she says but watching her is kinda like my guilty pleasure
You are new to me, so hello from Vancouver Canada. I love that Blaire slams the woke, weird misogynists with the colored hair. I'm a 1st gen Punk in my 60s who had colored my hair, had mohawks etc, since 1977. Wendy O. Williams is still my Muse. I stopped doing my hair the way I had done for decades because I did not want to even look like I supported, or was in any way affiliated with the woke alphabet cult. It annoys me every time I look in a mirror, but ultimately it's a small sacrifice. Best wishes to you. You remind me of the real transsexuals I knew and hung with in Hollywood and London, back in the day. Voices like yours, Blaire's, Buck Angel's, and Marcus Dibs' are more important than ever now. Can I just say you look lovely. Cheers!
I can’t even actually say what I want to say here on TH-cam… they always retaliate. But I just want people to feel safe in their designated spaces.
Alexis, you are just as stunning as Blaire White! You have a different 'look' but youre just as beautiful to me. As a biological woman i would be soooo happy to look like you. Youre radiant and I think your kindness really shines through and makes you glow 💖
You are such a level headed individual thank you for bringing some sanity into this crazy world we live in at the moment .
Why are the trans TikTok brigade being so unloving and ugly toward Blaire and others similar, does it come from jealousy and stupidity kind of seems that way, and a lot of ignorance they really need to open a book and educate themselves, that's if they can read that is .
Blair’s a goddess in my opinion. I love her even when I don’t agree with her. And I agree re the coloured hair - I’ve had multi coloured hair for over 30 years and now I’ve gone back to a (relatively) normal colour so I don’t get associated with the idiots.
You and Blaire are some of my favourite TH-camrs 😩🙌🏽 you both speak facts and truth which is so fkn refreshing in today’s world!
Thank you so much!! ☺️
Marcus Dib if you don’t already watch him! I find his views so interesting.
I WILL SCREAM IT LOUD!!!! I LOVE BLAIR WHITE AND HER COMMENTS !! Blair is real ,non bias for the majority of things 😂, and I love her personality! ( also so freaking gorgeous!!) But privileged is not one of them. Blair is the realest and that’s what brings me back again and again. Alexis, I think you have come such a long way, I’ve been here since the beginning and I think you are so beautiful! We don’t agree on everything,but I’m here for you girl!! Keep doing what you’re doing cuz it works!! ❤
As someone who's been on antidepressants since losing my dad in 2008, I spat my water across my living room when she said that!!! Blaire is fckn hysterical! LOVE her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As a conservative Christian 60yo woman, I love Blaire. I just won't be compelled to speak pronouns. But I will call her whatever she ASKS.
Snorting antidepressants was funny af 😂
There's no sympathy for Devil, there's no sympathy for men.
There's is no sympathy for transwomen. There's no sympathy for transmen.
The world is a cruel place for many people 💔 😊
I love Blaire so much, I don’t think she goes too far, she is just brutally honest and it’s honestly refreshing. Alexis you are our (UKs) version of Blaire, you are the voice of reason and we love you also, but with that you are over polite - but that’s us Brits.
Also! I really want my septum pierced and used to always have brightly coloured hair, but now I am TERRIFIED to do anything like that anymore because of these militant people online who are so hostile! I do not want to be associated with them at all.
Once again totally in agreement with you. Honestly if “Tara” entered the female washroom with me, I would be confused because as you mentioned she presented as a “man”. I do understand that there are trans people that cannot afford any kind of surgery or they are not able to have the surgeries done for many reasons.
I personally had breast augmentation surgery because I breast-fed three children for a total of 4 1/2 years. I was no longer happy with the long, saggy breasts with a golf ball at the end of the sock type of look (I had it done at an early age of 36). I had the surgery because it made me happy and it still does now, at the age of 60. I did not have the surgery for anyone else, I just wanted my breasts back, So, I completely agree with your statement “only have surgery if it is what you want to do” and it makes you feel more confident about yourself. Thank you once again Alexis, for being the voice of reason! ❤️❤️
Once when I was at work, a girl (and she had long hair in a ponytail, earrings, and carrying a purse) approached me and asked where the bathrooms were. I showed her, and said "Ladies' to the left, Men's to the right" at which point she kind of huffily replied that she didn't identify as female or male. To which I thought that she made a lot effort to appear female, and also, she was going to have to choose one or the other, because we don't have a third bathroom.
I think the difference in approach between
• Blair, who tends to be outspoken, incorrect to even sarcastic...,
• Alexis, who is more diplomatic, understanding and sensitive...,
is mainly because:
1) Blair does not hide her political views + she is an open Republican.
2) Blair has been around as youtuber, much longer and has far more reach, making him better known to both supporters and critics.
3) Blair has done a lot of reaction videos, while Alexis doesn't yet - so she hasn't had time to make angry those people on the other side yet.
4) Blair is the target of really nasty messages (threats of violence, graping, etc.), so it is clear that she will definitely not be kind and understanding to such people.