Does He Like Me - 5 Signs He Doesn’t Like You That Much
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ค. 2024
- Does He Like Me - 5 Signs He Doesn’t Like You That Much
Are you spending too much time wondering if a guy likes you?
In Todays Video, I will share 5 signs that He Doesn't Like You and Will Waste Your Time.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Does He Like Me
00:59 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 01
02:11 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 02
03:05 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
03:40 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 03
04:57 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 04
05:53 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 05
07:51 Closing
1. Lack of Communication
In today's constantly connected world, slow or short replies can signal a lack of interest. If you're the one initiating most conversations and his responses are unenthusiastic, it might be time to reconsider.
2. He keeps Canceling
Everyone cancels sometimes, but consistent flakiness shows disrespect for your time. Someone who prioritizes you will make an effort to keep plans.
3. He Wants a Secret Relationship
A guy who truly admires you will want to shout it from the rooftops! If he keeps your relationship hidden, it could be a sign of deeper involvement elsewhere or a desire to keep his options open.
4. He Pulls Away After Intimacy
If his affection fades after intimacy, it suggests he sees you as a physical rather than emotional connection. True commitment goes beyond the bedroom.
5. Makes Excuses To Avoid Commitment
Beware of guys who offer excuses to avoid relationships. Whether it's "not being ready" or focusing on "themselves," these are often ways to let you down gently.
Remember, you deserve someone who makes you a priority. Don't waste time on confusing or inconsistent behavior. By recognizing these signs, you can free yourself to find a partner who is genuinely interested.
Ismael Gomez III
I'm a Cuban - American Relationship Coach, Author, and Speaker.
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It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
It’s very sad that a young woman would not be wise enough to recognize the value of a man like you!! I’m sorry that she did not return your feelings towards her. It was her loss. I do hope that you have found a beautiful woman who does appreciate and highly values you!! Thank you so much for your insight and support for women!! You are truly a gem!!!❤
1.) lack of communication
2.) he keeps canceling appts
3.) wants a secret relationship
4.) pulls after physical intimacy
5.) excuses to avoid commitment
List of the harsh, cold truths 😢
Agree 😢
It's to save you from these and move on actually run away from those types and multi date.
He's married
The relationship is just sexual.
What about age differences? A gap by 20 years?
Don't chase, don't beg, no booty calls. Don' make an effort for him that he doesn't make for you. Ghost and block him.
@janewasson4845 how can I do that ..when he's right here..
It's ok if you want him there, and you can see by his actions that he truly cares.
@@janewasson4845 who
Thankfully, I am old-fashioned woman, so if a man doesn't show much initiative, I show none at all. That solves this problem right away.
That's just the right attitude!! Which I had to learn the hard way... but now I know!
This happened to me. This guy "slightly" flirted with me. He just showed me mixed signals. I had questioned myself if he is really interested in me or not. Then one of his friends gave me so much attention and very good signals that he likes me. The first guy was jealous. Lol. He even asked me why I am always talking about his friend. Dude! One moment you were flirting with me, the other time you became cold as ice! What was I supposed to get from your "game"?
I am just going to grow old with 100 cats....I am just going to put dating on hold. And put the love into myself.
8 🐈 😻 🐈⬛️ 🐱 🐈 😻 🐈⬛️ 🐱 & 1 aussie shepherd combo. 🐕
I already did, minus ➖️ the 🐈 cats.😅
When a girl is not a hot b1tch, no man will ever have a high-interest in her. That's my destiny and I'm making peace with it.
Good girl ❤ I took me 3 years of dolo work n I'm still workin on it, but, but, but, I think I may have finally found real love
I implemented this years ago and I have never been happier ❤😄
If you have to ask, he doesn't like you that much. It's that simple. When you're into somebody, you can't stop thinking about them. You can't wait to talk to them and spend time with them. If someone is not showing much enthusiasm or it comes and goes, they don't like you. You are better than nothing when they are bored or don't have other options.
That’s really insightful. How has it influenced your perspective?
That's my daughter. She likes a guy. He moved into our house because my daughter lives with me. He doesn't have a job. She gives him money. She bought him a phone. She pays for all his entertainment. He took over her car. She likes him but he only likes her as a friend. He monopolizes all her time. Now my daughter and I are in crisis because of him. I told her he's using her and she won't listen. Am I wrong?
I stopped hoping to find a good man years ago. I decided to pour all that love and hope and effort on me and my personal development. And on books, instead of cats😊 Not everyone can find The Person, some of us, I think, were born to be alone.
You don't need too many signs. It's consistency. Period. When a man loves a woman he will be screaming at the top of his lungs that she is his basically.
I'm with you on that.
Agree! My Grandmother said when a Man loves a Woman he will do anything to be with her
@@jessicaagosto3633 absolutely.
I knew this guy Craig wouldn't cancel. He'd call 2 hours later saying "something came up. " I gave him a pass the first time. After the second, I ghosted his sorry a$$. Called me at my job trying to be nice, told him I was busy and hung up.
Yasss girl ❤
Better 😅
That's basically what I have done and how I end up being single. Men are far less sincere than we think. And they are there to get what they want which is not love
But, you don't have to have sex if you don't want to.
You can still enjoy some personal time with him.
Caressing, kissing, cuddling and nothing more.
I told him upfront.
I'm not interested in having nothing more than that.
He was okay with that.
They all lie.
@@Cygnus75dang right!
I needed to hear this and confirm I did the right thing by blocking him 5 days ago. For 7 years hot and cold with him. Thank you! 🙏🏻 ❤
He's just meditating😂
To all. Ladies becareful nòt to waste time with peoplle who do not have any intrest in u.
@@ElaineShaw-ob4gj ITS NOT WASTING TIME ..ITS TELLING YOUR STORY SO U CAN FIGURE OUT THE WAY TO LOVE YOURSELF ..AND ITS A JOURNAL THAT YOU CAN LOOK BACK ON AND know that that was your STORY that led u to LOVE YOURSELF and you wouldnt change a thing!!
I LOVE YOUR tough truth. We all need to snap out of the reality we wish we had and wake up to the reality that we actually DO have. This will save so many women years of heartache. Thank you.
So many men out there who waste your time! Where’s the good ones?
Ikr, I do believe that those good men are there but what about the good woman?
@@Silencer796 Few and far between. But I’m a good woman and so are my friends
If you can appreciate a guy who is fun and has great ideas on stuff to do, but just wants to live in the moment and not talk about the future, it might not be that you're wasting time with him but rather you're both accepting things as they are in the moment.
You drive us away.
Amen…it’s really disheartening
He was in, engaged, never canceled a plan and all that stuff until I start having health issues and then he detached himself. Better for the ambulance to come to pick me up rather than him. I believe the beers with his colleagues was much more important… So at my 49 I am not going to start thinking what’s going on or mothering him telling him what is what I expect from my man. So…. Next!
So agree with you. Who needs all the games.
Ladies: consider that your proclamations of there being no good men out there become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Women in general need to heal themselves, whether or not there’s a man in the picture; learn our value beyond sexuality; and start showing up as an empowered persons who don’t “need” a man. Do this and our friend Ismael will be out of a job (much as I love the service he’s offering on his channel). Learning to love and honor yourself - whether man or woman - is the greatest thing you’ll ever do in this life.
God help your beautiful daughters protect their hearts❤
i’m broken, I thought I would be the one , I dated a man who was still in a realationship, it hurts so bad , I sacrificed days just waiting for him to call me, i’m such a fool, thankyou for the videos
We all did it, we all know how it feels. But I promise you, the moment you really slam that door and nail it shut for ever, healing begins. slowly but surely, life does get better, you do heal, it does get easier. Get busy planning your new exciting lifestyle, look after yourself you are number one, always 🎉 ❤
@@KwertyKeys Thankyou! your words had lift me up
@@jessicaagosto3633 you’re welcome! Look after yourself 🥰
You don't know how much you are helping to innocent women out there..a big thank you on their behalf. Huge respect 💪❤
That means a lot. Thank you for your lovely comment.
@@SaveTheMessenger ❤️🙏
@@shubhangisharma5883Honestly I don't care about men and their dumb cues. I'm being amazing myself and when the right time comes, the right person will show up and he's the one without too many excuses. Ladies, don't listen to this video trying to figure out how to win men over. Just blaze your own trails and keep efforts to please men to the BARE MINIMUM. Build your lives and be amazing, and along the way y'all meet the one without the no. 1-5 hottentotthingys. If y'all strong, beautiful and independent, you won't give a thought or time about men's uninterested behaviour. For example, if he gave a lack of communication, a lady that's sure of herself will just shrug and 😂😂😂 and move on to the next person who is surely better than the canceling appts guy. Or for those considering you but wanting secret relationship, you can laugh at his face and make a big L SIGN at your foreheads while sticking your tounges out. THESE sort of things. Identify men behaviour, but don't give them more than 5 seconds to mope about it. Life's too short and there are 8 billions people in this world. Cheers.
Im Having mental break down after watching this lol, crying & feeling desperate cuz all of this sign resonates with the relationship i have right now and i love him so much ..
Hey dear, don't punish yourself. Watch my other videos on connecting with a man emotionally and building attraction. Those can still help your current relationship.
Girl, same…I had the feeling he was pulling away. I was distraught and upset for days. You know what, there’s billions of people on this planet. Hold you’d head up high, go find your person who APPRECIATES you and will do anything to keep you-hugs ❤
Why would you love someone who treats you like this. You are trauma bonded not in love
@@annaa6259 Because she is in love with what he showed her. She fell in love with a persona. All of us have at some point. I went no contact with a guy who kept breadcrumbing about a year and a half ago. It happens. The trick is to dump him and move on.
You love what you think he is, If a stranger treated you the same way you wouldn't put up with it..
I am hurt lately dealing with most of these points. Held my breath for the whole video. The last line gave a sigh of relief "For your relationships to change ... you need to change!" May we learn, change, and become such that no one, not even us, would take us for granted and hurt us - Aameen!
Ameen summa Ameen❤
Āmiiiin! 💔
Thank you for your time.
As a man, there are some good points here. However, for the first point I know I'm not a good texter. I don't like texting or social media, and unless I'm actually in a relationship or actively dating someone I'm not going to be doing a lot of texting as I feel it's a bit desperate. I'll match the interest level of a woman I'm interested in. If she's more responsive I'll try to be more responsive; if she isn't I'll pull back. I'll primarily use the phone to set up dates and occasionally reach out, but that's about it. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only man who feels that way.
Makes sense. Most women prefer phone calls anyway. If you and this person are compatible, you will probably have the same preferences when it comes to communication.
I like the way you think! I had a man who texted me every day for entire day, that Was Tooo much!! In 5 days I got soo bored of him and now I'm just ignoring him!! Too much is too much!!😮😮
On Android phones and iPhones you can see if someone read your text and when. If you reply to his text fast but you see that he didn't read the reply for hours the chances are he's not that into you. Sure, something could have come up, maybe his work blew up then, but if it's a pattern, then he doesn't really care what you texted back.
You can only see that if they turn on read receipts.
Great video!! So many times we women make excuses for men that we like, but who aren't really into us! We want it so badly that we project excuses for them!! He's shy, he's busy, he's been hurt before, he doesn't really know how to have a relationship, or he doesn't have enough money to take us out!! I've seen men I thought were "too shy", move heaven and earth to be with a woman they were really interested in!
I'm no longer fooling myself!! If you have to wonder whether a man is interested or not--he probably isn't!!
I dated a guy for 4 years that had red flags. So, I decided to date him because the sex was great and I just got out of a divorce. After 3 years I decided to start pulling back and finally told him I want to date other people. He said what about us...and I told him there is no us. I think he was surprised and shockingly hurt.
Everything he says is true!
Go with the ones that treat you the best!
I knew it! I recently broke up with a guy that didn’t want anybody in his group to find out about us. Later I found out he is also dating a girl from that same group and trying to keep it a secret but everyone comments that their interaction is like they are a couple and a friend saw them meeting secretly after work
😢
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I appreciate you sharing that. How did it make you feel?
I wish I’d seen your videos 20, even 30 years ago. It’s so obvious now that I look back!
It hurts to see this and realize it but it is the hitting truth unfortunately, these all are signs of rejection low-key. But probably the secret is to not take rejection personally, when you feel ur not wanted then it’s time to find someone else… 7:44
I dont pursue anyone
Actions speak louder than words. Very true and informative.
I could relate to 4 of them and felt really sad. But yes, thankk youu for sharing soo helpful information so we can walk away from these type of men.
You are so welcome!
Thank you for the HONEST answers.
Spot on! Harsh brutal truths, but they need to be TOLD 💯 so LISTEN
yes, he ticked all the checkboxes and when I was done with his shit, I ghosted him. Since then he wouldn't stop calling me. men like this are just assholes.
Thank you for sharing. What was the outcome of that experience?
I had a cardiac surgoen interested in me. He asked me if I could find more time for us to be togeather i my house. Not even go out. I said look I feel guilty asking my family to take my children for me. He has ghosted me and hasn't phoned back. we work in the same building but I doubt we will see each other. However if he does contac me again I will ask him how bored he is. Litrally too advantage really.
At YOUR house?!? How "considerate" of him. NOT. Move on. Have no more concern for him ever. He's probably trying that w/ others on DL. LoL
Sounds likes you was a side chick...
If he contacts you, you should say you’re busy and hang up. He was trying to use you as a side piece he’s a disrespectful male
It’s unethical to date a patient. What was he even thinking? Stay away from his childish nonsense-you want a man not a dog in heat!
@@brown_eyed_girl don't insult dogs ..
Your advice is spot on and so accurate
Great video and reinforced the fact that my guy is into me. Thanks Ismael and it was that girl's loss. You're a gem ✨
Thank you for the insight!
Are you single? 😉 I love the thing you said about being a private person and not super active on social media. My friends would be like “Why don’t you post more sexy pics on insta?” and I always said it’s because I only wanted to share those with my man. I don’t want anyone to just be able to see bikini pics of me whenever they want. I deleted all the apps from my phone last year and couldn’t be happier.
Excellent thank you
Thank you, for your advice ❤😊
Saved my life,thanks
Thank you ✨
I agree with you very well said❤❤❤
I like your videos
Straight to point and very genuine
Great advice! Appreciate you! ❤
Thank you for this video. It's very helpful.
You nailed it, Ismael! Very honest and to the point!
Thank you for leaving such a wonderful comment.
AMEN to all of this
So true… I can’t stop smiling
Very nice explanation, thank you!
Ur a truthful man , and i love ur factual messages 😅😊
That little anecdote was such a great way to make your point. Great insight! 🙏🏽
Love seeing you ladies watch the full video instead of skipping through it.
Does it f***ing matter though? They always end up wanting you, BAD. I think men don’t know what they want until it’s walking away from them
Ironically you just showed me that he actually DOES like me. Thanks!😊
Thank you so much 😇
Soo Insightful ❤❤
Dude, youre a rockstar. Id take your advice. It’s nice to hear your affirmations that we aint cray cray. Keep up the goid work
Thank you Ismael🙏🌷☘️
Appreciate your advice ❤
Great work
Thank you for your compassionate approach with women. ❤
Thanks Ismail that's most important video for women who has confused about what Men feel and react❤❤❤
Much appreciated 🙌
U helped me now with this video and thank you! 👍
Just found your pages watching live from philippines😊😊😊Great videos
Super helpful, thank you Ismael!
Glad to hear that!
Wow i luv the cold cut honesty
Thanks for sharing this info its so helpful esp women❤❤❤
Reading the comments, I see I’m not alone. There’s a lot of sad, disappointed women in the world.
Thank you
Grateful for this video
Grateful for your comment.
Wow. That was clear and to the point. I appreciated the very interesting anecdote about the situation you had in Cuba aswell. It's so easy to understand when you put it like that. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful. Thanks for watching.
@@SaveTheMessenger No need to thank me. I can't wait for your next one. Thank you.
Ismael thank you for the truth, having wisdom is not easy , however, it saves alot stress.
This was the best video! Thank you. I need to watch it over and over
Glad you enjoyed it!
I love your videos!! They give us more clarity.
Awesome! Thank you!
New subscriber- thank you!!
Absolutely true
I'm subscribing boy ure speaking FACTSSSS !
Oh when you said he hasn't found any one to replace you... that hit home for me..😞
Nice you're putting this info out there for those who need it. But holy cow, do some really need a relationship coach to explain these behaviours? I could have told you this stuff when I was a teenager (pre internet, so replace texting bs/blow-offs/excuses with calling ).
True 💯
This channel is so insightful .
I’m really grateful, you’re a marvel.
Omg Iloved it. You are so sincere. Thanks for the advice. 👍 I subscribed to your channel
I have found your videos most helpful. Before I didn't think I needed to change, I'm fine the way I am. Now, I understand the adjustments I need to make to find a good match. What to look out for and simply accept if things aren't meant to be.
You made my day *feeling accomplished*.
It's louder,
It is clearer
Thanks
Great video! I gave up on dating. At least I'm not listening to someone's lies anymore. :)
Well said ❤valid valid points ❤thank you❤
I'm glad you found my video helpful.
So true
Very insightful
Music to my ears.
Awesome!!❤
Thanks a bunch, you’re so thoughtful.
This older man living in my building got me back by standing me up from time to time because I once told him I wasn't interested in having a relationship then but years later I became interested &; he held a grudge & got back at me by standing me up many times.
Wow - talk about ridiculous
You dodge that losa
You have such good takes! So refreshing 😊 keep up the good work
Thank you! Will do!
I am not sure why this video came up in my recommendations, but I needed to hear this
The universe is peaking to you through me.
This video is so insightful about recognizing low interest in relationships! Do you think a man’s inconsistent communication always means he's not interested, or could there be other reasons like personal issues or mental health?
He’s not interested. And don’t fall for it.
@@caranasser3710thanks for your input! Really appreciate that.
I made excuses for mine…until I got tired of it. He still tries to breadcrumb me…I didn’t want to be a jerk and block him. I will tell him I am and then do it, so hopefully he’ll stop this nonsense
@@deniseunknown4576 best of luck!
Very interesting and informative
Glad you think so!
Bitter Truth, but sadly its the truth and the reality of things 😢
You remind me of Johnny Depp!🙃
Thank you ismael ❤😊
It's really helpful video
It's true if someone has genuinely love & respect for you , distance or any kind of excuse doesn't matter🎉
I love you 😘 so much ismael
Nowadays YOU ARE MY HERO & LIFECOACH❤
I appreciate your comment dear 🙏
@@SaveTheMessenger thank you ismael🙏💐☺️
New Aussie subscriber 😊