My Unfiltered, Raw and Real Breastfeeding experience !!!
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Me talking about my experience and journey on breastfeeding.. as real and raw as it gets !!
All I wanna say is that whether u breast feed or give top feed to your baby , you are a kick-ass mother and your child loves u so don't be harsh on yourself ❤️
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1st two days milk produce a little bit... Only mom knows that
Same was me.. I also delivered 28th...i also pumped and give milk to my baby...
Aap apne baby boy ko kbhi nhi dikhati ho , agr humm log femly Hai to
Faaltu ka experience dete rehte ho
😍😍😍❤
Even though ur a new mother, the thing I love about you is that you don't forget to post videos. and as a follower, we love this
Awesome Kishwer. This video is really helpful for every new mom or to be mom out there. I am a mother of 10 months old and went through all these feeding problems. I feel you and baby should be happy and healthy even if it is breastfeed or formula feed. God bless you. Lots of love.
Thank you for being real kishwer !
Loving all your vlogs ❤️
So amazing to hear such a raw and real experience on breastfeeding..Much needed support for new mommies in today's world.. Loved your pregnancy journey and love your postpartum vibes too.. God bless your beautiful family..
New mommy from Melbourne! Rightly said - newborn mothers mental health is equally important too. To each it’s own. Lets enjoy this new phase instead of stressing out! 🤗🤗🤗
I just delivered and c section. I totally relate to you. It's real painful sometime to adjust the whole process is damn frustrating. Good you shared these feelings upfront.
You shouldn't even feel guilty about it. It's absolutely fine. There is nothing to worry about it. Just be you and there is no need to listen what others think about you as a mother 🤗♥️
Felt soo gud hearing you that no mom should be judged based on feeding choice..thank you.
Woah…what an apt apt video. Been there, felt judged, almost judged myself to being ‘not a good mom’…and it stressed the hell out of me and resulted in my behaviour with my new born..but slowly realised that every mom is different and every baby is different. It’s most important for the baby to be healthy and happy. So after some months (yeah it took me almost 3-4 months) I cared a damn about what ppl say and did what was best for my baby. Kept her tummy full with MILK and her face with happy smiles…lots of love to u guys as a family and blessings to Nirvair😘
Awesome thank you ☺️ soooo much ,I have been loving u since ur HipHip Hurray days n to see u being amazingly true n same personality it feels great !I have been following u recently n ur story is just same like mine almost all the time , so whenever I feel low or confused ur videos boosts my morale up !So glad to have u as a part n do keep sharing ur honest videos, it’s just fab …God bless you dearie😘😘
I just loved the part when you said don't judge any mother every mother is different and knows what's best for her child.. Thank you for being so candid about sharing ur experience it will not only new mommies but will also help other people around her to understand that she is going through a lot the least we can do is not judge her lots of love❤
Kishwar I m also pregnant. It's my second month so pray for me, every thing would perfect 😍🥰🙏🙏
Waheguru ji bless you😊
Yes, I am also pregnant.wish me luck.
@@sonaliskitchen5526 tension mat lo sab acha hoga.pr mujhe baby hone ke baad sweet bhej dena😊
God bless you and ur baby 🤗
@@amanpreetkaur3909 thanks dear
Thank You Kish❤️ For talking about this 👍🏻 I am not a mother and married but yes I see women in my house going through this as a mental stress. thank you so much for talking about this and spreading this across on this platform👍🏻 Hattsss off to you ❤️ you are a great mother
Thank God I have watched your video. I have a 3 months old baby and been going through similar situations. So relatable. This gives me courage
Thank you so much for this video as my baby didn't latched i really needed this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️lots of love
OMG OMG, This is fully my story eyes welled up 😭😭my bub is 6 months old now Thanks a ton for motivations ❤️❤️
U r a very positive person....this video has encouraged me a lot....nd it has also reduced my stress
Even I am facing this issue but it’s fine now that my girl is on top feed. She is two months old now but I have no stress and yes you rightly said don’t listen to others. It’s you and your baby.
Kishwer everything u said is exactly what I am going through….my baby turned 8 months today she refused to take breast milk after 2 months, my lil one used to cry and get cranky and finally decided to give formula milk as my supply was low …best decision I took my baby is hail and hearty now started solids as well …don’t listen to ppl too much there are thousands of mothers outhere who is going through the same situation ….formula milk is great not like before , now it has all the nutrients and vitamins which baby needs …jus chill and enjoy the motherhood ❤️
My daughter suddenly started refusing bottle. Every single time i try to give formula through bottle she is crying like anything. I am totally clueless about what to do?
I am a new mom... and i can't explain how painful my breast feeding was... the bruises and everything with c sections ....moreover the breastfeed digest very easily ... feeding baby every 2 hr and also in night... have to sit and feed every time.. hats of to all the mom... and i adore my mom more after being a mom myself... may Allah bless her with all the joy in this world and hereafter... may our kids grow up and become our heart's delights...
Happy Month Dayyy!! 🥺💗💗💗
Thank you so much , it was feeling like yah my story. Even i was in nursing home , a nurse came and said why can't you make bond , he was so cranky that he was forced to latching . The hospital days was like a nightmare. I tried to make him breastfeed but it just didn't work . Thankyou so much for making this video.
Awesome video ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰every word she told is true!!
You are really a good mother♥️😍. Your child is very lucky to have such wonderful parents. 🤗😘 You both are very good parents.😘🥰😍♥️
This is exactly what I went through! Moms shouldn't be judged for their choices.
Loved it ❤️
You are fully capable of giving him what he needs , you are his mom, God chose you to be his mom not all of us. Happy for you and him. He is so lucky 💖💖
Totally correct, there are a lot of mothers who are forced to breastfeed which leads to post partum depression, anxiety and it’s not good for every mothers mental health. FED IS BEST and it’s high time people need to understand and allow mothers to make the choice for their babies. Babies need to be feed either through the breast or through bottle they really don’t care or won’t remember when they grow up
Yayy😍😍
Amazing ❣️
Superb❤
Awwwww you are a bestest mom didi🤗❤🧿Nirvair is so lucky to have u as a strongest and bestest mom ❤🧿
Whatever u say it's all practical...but the fact is people always judge others becoz they don't have any other business 💯....so ya just be safe nd smile like u guyz always do😍😍😍
100% agree, even i hv gone through exact condition that u r facing, its very tough time, specially when u ll stay in a joint family situation is much tougher... No body ll understand what is postpartum depression..
Hi Kishwer, I delivered a baby boy on 15th Aug and had a c sec too. Every word in this video is so true. I had a similar experience. But like you said a happy baby makes a happy mommy, breast feed or formula milk doesn't matter😄
You both are Best parents you guys inspire us alot love u mam
Went through exactly the same Kishwer.But at the end you are his MOTHER.you are the best,people question,blabber.My child is 9 months now and he is much healthier and not obese like other kids may be
Thanks for this video...i went through the same stress and eventually gave her formula....but at that time no one was there to tell me that it's ok.... everyone juged me...
Even I was told that my baby is not latching properly because I had an elective c section.
But know it fells good to know that there are mothers who face these things and it's normal.
I liked your unfiltered , raw experience, hats off to you, you are the most wonderful mother. People who judge mother's love based on just breast feeding are so so foolish people.
I am also a new mommy and I also went through all this problems....on breast feeding and people telling me do this and do that don't give your baby formula milk and all that...but as you said its not important what others say....
Thnks for the amazing video and boosting our confidence
Lots of love and blessings to you and your baby ❤️🥰
I m also a new mommy with C Section Delivery n also faced same problem with my baby n was feeling very much guilty that I am not able to breast feed my baby bt after watching your video I felt little good. Thank you for making this video....
I had same exp...good to hear I was not alone :)
Thank you for sharing your experience you are so nice
Yes Mam i m also experienced these situation. these all happens to me also. people are simply judge us. so dont worry.
U just said it right. Mother should be happy. But ppl around become sooo judgemental that they generally lead to even depression. I just haye these judgemental ppl who r always ready with opinions n judgement without even understanding the new moms mental health
Completely agree with you ,i was also on the same situation
I can relate to her almost everytime.
Thanks much :) this is really really amazing, so positive, so encouraging :)
I get positive vibes from u ....u trusted God n God gave u such a gift in form of a cute angel.. ..
I really want to thank u for making this video and make me feel good.I am also mummy of twins and I have faced the same problem. Even if there is one child there is a problem in feeding and I had to feed two babies which was not possible. Even they never get satisfied with breast milk so had to give top up formula milk to them . I used to feel guilty that I can't give my milk to my babies and also feel the pressure of asking all the relatives but then I stopped thinking and did what was possible and tried to give a good healthy life.
I try to take good care of their health. Good wishes to u and ur baby. Big fan from very starting of ur career.❤️
It was the same night 5 Oct two years back when my baby was two days old and he cried literally the entire night.. That day onwards started my bf journey.. Full of doubts, judgements and what not. Could totally relate with you. It's been two years and now he decides when he wants which milk :) it's challenging but very beautiful. All the best 🤗
Beautifully explained kishwer.. I'm a new mom.. Gave birth last week.. Going through the same.. Your video helped alot.. Thank you ❤
Totally agree wid u .. nobody knows a child better than his/her mother
My experience was almost same...my son is 4 months old and nw he enjoys breastfeeding... everything takes time....☺️...so please don't judge any new mom on breastfeeding..
Same thing happened with me also..Thank u so much for sharing your experience.
This video is really helpful kishwer .I can completely relate to this .I have gone through exactly same situation and I was feeling so bad and guilty for my baby after watching your video I feel relaxed. Thank you so much for making such videos.My baby is 28 days old .
Kishwar u r absolutely right...even my neople was very much flat...and my baby does not able to suck ..and started crying..so just for my and my baby satisfaction i started giving her formula milk .
Well for this problem you can use silicone nipples. I do have flat or inverted nipples and couldn't able to feed my baby girl. I brest pump 1st, and then feed her in bottle. it was so much time consuming .But these nipples changed my life. My daughter's now 20 months old and still feeding her with suavinex silicon nipples. You can try this, will help you alot.
Why doesn’t TH-cam have a heart Icon instead of 👍 ❤️ I love your honesty baby nirvair lots of love princeee🌼❤️
Suyyash bhaiya 😂😂 kitni tension ho rahi hai ... never saw him calculating so much
This is exactly what I experienced Kishwer. I felt as if you are telling my story
Completely agree with you😍... Felt so good ,had same experience 🥰🥰take care nd lots of love for lil one.. By gods grace my baby is 1 yr old now nd donig good🤞🤞
Such a beautiful video!
Hello ma'am.. it feels so great to hear such words from you.. I'm exactly on same boat like you and my thoughts regarding breast milk and formula milk is same as yours.. loads of best wishes to your lil bundle of joy..
Thanku for addressing this.. thank you for letting ppl know that this is completely normal ❤️
You are very right, I agree with this and I am also going through the same thing.
Beautiful video. Kudos ♥️
Thanku girl...I really need this..i took the decision to formula feed my daughter and fealt very guilty about it but now feel better to see your video.
Thanks alot passing through same situation
Lots of love to nirvair❤️
I am also struggling with the same . Thanks to you for motivating us ❤️
Every word you’ve said here is what I felt
Same happened with me but then strictly my Doctor said that you have to feed him by your own milk only.. but now the problem is, my son is 10 months old and he is not eating anything other than milk 🙄
Am an anesthetist n absolutely agree with you that no stress absltly is warranted over anything..kudos kishwar.god bless you
Very beautifully explained
Even I had the same problem thanks for the advice
Breast milk supply depends on demand n supply rule. Mother's milk is the best. As you are able to feed the baby. Make him latch more with anyone's help. If he is fed with formula, he won't be hungry anymore n will not latch. Baby's sucking reflex will be developed even before he/she is born. We just need some assistance to feed them. I had a similar issue, the nurse used to assist by holding the baby close to me. After discharge, my mom n mom-in-law helped with the same. Only after 2-3 weeks I managed without help. So make him latch more. The bond n comfort they get with breastfeed, nothing else in the world can compensate that. Happy feeding Kishwer.
Whatever u said in this video is 100%true few struggles with breastfeeding is so true 👍 and same problem I m also facing latching issues but with time hopefully everything will be good babies take time ...all the best and thanks for this video....God bless you 🙏
Yeah I also delivered
a princess on 25th august… my situation is exactly same as urs feeln so relaxed now that I m not alone…so true whatevr u said 🥰
Same story.. U are not alone.. Absolutely
Just a Suggestion, Babies dont take breast feed when you start giving them Bottle because bottle is very easy to latch. I have twins and giving them breast feed after they got used to bottle was very difficult and at last they stopped breastfeed. Don't take me wrong , I am not judging you but just sharing my experience. its totally a mothers choice at the end because she is the first and last person to take care of the baby. my twins are 2 years old now and were totally on top feed since they were 3 months old. They are all fine and as active as a breastfead baby.
Very useful video to new mom.thank u mam for sharing ur experience. I also go from this stage.i feel postpartum depression due to low milk supply . But now feel better to watch ur video. Everybody Judge me like u experience
True story 😍 Mothers should not be judged whatsoever!! They only know what they go through and how and why they decide what they do. I also delivered my boy ( my second born) on Aug 23 and can absolutely relate to what you say.
Happy motherhood to all mothers out there ❤️
Same here
Delivered my 2nd baby right after you. 1st was exactly like yours. I experienced everything u gone through. Bt at 2nd time, I know wats right fr her & never look back. Peace ✌
So relatable ❤️
I almost didn't watch the video thinking it will trigger me to think of my guilt and inadequacy. I went through a similar initial journey of delay in milk coming in post my C-section. Following which I had one week of proper feeding experience. Then my baby started getting very restless and cranky during each feed plus was loosing lot of weight and not having enough wet diapers. He was also resisting formula given through the spoon or steel sipper (bondla), so we had to move to bottle feeding. Since then I have come to know that I have extremely low supply which is due to my PCOS. I struggled a lot with negative feelings about myself but today I'm happy with how things are. I am still pumping to give my baby whatever I can, and remaining through formula. But my baby is bonding well with me irrespective and is happy and thriving too and that's all that matters. FED IS BEST!
Hii...I delivered a baby girl 2 days before you....and this video popping out and I saw it...and believe me after watching this video I feel such relief...as I also can't breast feed my baby exclusively...and after watching others video that baby needs to breast feed exclusively I somehow feel guilty...but thank you to be so brave...god bless you and the little one
Can you please share how much time your baby sleeps and his night routine!
I am a first time mother and i faced the exact same problem that you have mentioned…was judged…i was in major guilt…i try to give him my milk as much as possible and he is also on mixed feed…watching your video makes me feel good😊 thank you😊
That's the best thing u said ....end of the day..tummy should be full baby should be happy ....that's when mother is happy 😊👍👍👍
You also are the best mother andddd super amazing human❤❤ and i don't know why i watched this video coz i am 20 buttt reallyyyy love watching you💟💟😅😅
Whatever u said is so very practical dear...exactly d same happened to me...
Thank you so much for making dis video..I completely relate with each and every word what u said
Stay blessed .....love
❤❤❤ I love the cute elephant cushions,complemented well with the bedsheet. You are a supermum already,hope you and the baby are doing well.Sending my love and best wishes.When Nirvair grows up he will be very proud of how you raised him.
Nice to see you ❤️❤️
Can totally relate ❣️
Hey kishwer, good to hear your experience as its help me in my upcoming time of my delivery. Also I request u to please make video regarding baby bag and new mummy bag for hospital so that we get some help actually I donot have any elder at my home and I am going to be a new mommy. Very very thankful to u and me and husband like your videos and knowledge. Take care , god bless u all of u.
I wish someone made this video 1 yar back when I was going through low milk supply and people judged me as a bad mother but after one month of anxiety and stress I started giving formula to my daughter and hamdullilah we were both happy and satisfied....thanks alot for giving hope to New moms...Fed is best...love from Pakistan 💘
Which formula milk you used?
Hey mei bhi same situation se guzar rahi hu mei brstfed b karrhi hu or top feed bhi lkn mujhe ye janna hai ke agar mei aise hi karti rahi to mera milk supply to chalu rahega na ya wo ekdum se band hojayega,? Aftr 1-2 mnt ?
Yes
This helps me
I am going through same journey
Yes..n just b happy n think gd...ur baby vil b happy n gd
I am 8months pregnant , i feel so motivated & happy as if my pregnancy phobia just flew away after watching all your pregnancy videos !!! Kuddos kishwer
Very true when we became mother everyone starts judging us & specially for breast feed & they tried to feel you guilty same thing happened with me my daughter is 1year old when she was small I could not feed her my breast milk because it's not easy how people say it. Sab ye bolte hain ma ka dudh dena hain bacche ko but ye nahi dekhta koi usko bhi bohat taklif ho rahi hain advice dene se aacha help kare new mom's ko vahi bohat hain. After watching this video of yours mera guilt thoda toh kam ho gaya. Thank you 🙏
My mom tells that when i was born she had a lump in her breast which got removed nd then she had an open wound from which the breast milk came out, it was damn painful when she used to get her wound cleansed and dressing done,
So since day 1 i was a kept on top feed, which is actually alright.
And we should stop judging the mothers bcz they already carried the baby for 9months , they can have problems too
Aap bimar pdte ho kya???kehte h top feed laine sai baby aage jaa kr bahut bimar pdte h..or pdhne mai kamzor hote h??
I can totally relate to you.im facing same issue now only there is light progress. Every parent jounrney is different
Totally relate to you...evn i was being judged!evry child is diffrnt ! Close one have to understand this..
Same experience i also started feeling guilty..but when came home everything was fine 2 me
Every new mother journey is same kishwer merchant..but glad u shared ur experience 😊😊