Beans Aloo | Ft. Sonal Jha and Diptii T Pujari | Mothers & Daughters

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  • The 'recipe' to becoming a mother is often quickly shared, discussed over dining tables and reviewed over lunch, but are we ready to serve it ourselves yet? One quiet afternoon in the midst of a lazy weekday, a mother and daughter discover something intriguing about motherhood over lunch. What starts off as a casual conversation ends over a sweet masaaledar note of victory - the victory of beans aloo!
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    Mother: Sonal Jha
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  • @nidhirawat6086
    @nidhirawat6086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +490

    the most beautiful thing i have seen...not every girl wants to be mother of her biological child....she can be a mother in different ways....and it should not be a big deal...it is her and her partner's choice....😙

    • @anubhutialok470
      @anubhutialok470 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true.

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So true @NidhiRawat

    • @nidhirawat6086
      @nidhirawat6086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Garima Obrah Motherhood should be a choice and not compulsion!!!!😊

    • @nidhirawat6086
      @nidhirawat6086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BlushChannel Beautiful story!!

    • @deepanjalinaik3507
      @deepanjalinaik3507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for talking behalf me n many like me.....this video beautifully depicts the 'mothers at heart'

  • @shreyaagrawal5610
    @shreyaagrawal5610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Adoption is really an excellent step, there's nothing more good than giving an orphan kid a new life n love

  • @twinkle1195
    @twinkle1195 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    It's about yesterday when I was thinking about my future and decides that I'll have two children.. one adopted and other one biological..and today I saw this beautiful story which has confirmed my perspective

    • @peerlessp3155
      @peerlessp3155 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That exactly I think...

  • @90sagarikaroy22
    @90sagarikaroy22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    The girl looks like Bhumi Pednekar+Tanushree Dutta

  • @raviprasad6676
    @raviprasad6676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    That line "ahsaan to maanega" has taken the whole meaning of video. Its amazing the people who are involved in making such a beautiful message didn't find anything wrong with that line. How the creative team who were so amazing while thinking and writing for this didn't get a fall back after watching that scene.

    • @dstudio6278
      @dstudio6278 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True I also felt the same...

  • @roni2498
    @roni2498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    Adopting a child does not mean a mother less than a mother or the adopted child less than a child. So beautifully expressed, cant wait for the time when i have my own adopted kids.

  • @srijasinha9326
    @srijasinha9326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Being a mother is the toughest job in the world ,Thank you sooooo much Mom for always being there with me.
    A salute to all the mothers for their hardwork,dedication,love and affection.❤️💕😍😘

  • @nidhithakur9277
    @nidhithakur9277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3798

    Sab Thik tha, Lekin adopted bacha Aehsan toh manega Ye nahin bolna chahiye tha. Aehsan karne ke liye Thodi na bacha adopt karte hain

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +404

      Hey Nidhi! We didn't mean to demean adoption in any way and our apologies if it came across like that. The idea was to convey in a light-hearted manner that if you go for adoption the child will be grateful which sometimes even the biological kids are not grateful for i.e. the amount of love & care that parents put in to bring up a child.

    • @ai172
      @ai172 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      I agree with your sentiment, Nidhi. That did prick me too:)
      Having children - biological or adopted- should not have any "agenda". Period.

    • @nidhithakur9277
      @nidhithakur9277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      @@BlushChannel I understand your perspective . Your team did try to bring about a very important topic of not necessarily be bound to have a biological child to cherish the feeling of motherhood. The concept is really overwhelming but to tell you the truth after the video the only thing which got stayed with me is that one intention of adopting a child "ahsaan toh manega" or in other word " they 'll be grateful". I don't agree with this intention at all. I know a lot of people who have adopeted kids nd trust me none of them had this feeling that they are doing this so that these kids will be grateful to them one day..... Anyways, My suggestion is to keep bringing the new content like this but please review the script with some perspective..... Much Love

    • @nidhithakur9277
      @nidhithakur9277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ai172 Yes , agreed.

    • @sampradatiwari5977
      @sampradatiwari5977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I think it was well said, kyuki khud ke bache ko kitna bhi karo dunia ki sari khushi do lekin yehi sunne milta hai ki itna toh sab parents karte hain.

  • @Msshrutinayak
    @Msshrutinayak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Dear Team, great attempt to bring out a message that motherhood should be from willingness (let it be biological or adopted) and not by society pressure. If I am not wrong, people opt for parent hood as they want to experience that beautiful feeling that's all. No other expectation :-) Thank you for putting up a good thought. Keep it up ❤️

  • @aayeshaumair5098
    @aayeshaumair5098 5 ปีที่แล้ว +840

    Girl looks like Bhoomi Pednekar.

  • @shellysingh1786
    @shellysingh1786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A bond between a child and his parents is one of the most beautiful bonds.

  • @asingh3837
    @asingh3837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This story is so true, relatives colleagues friends who would never call u on holi diwali or in need but these people will always pop in to make you feel worst.

  • @nidhulek
    @nidhulek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    The mother needs to stop socializing with such toxic neighbors/friends.

    • @rxftrxft8208
      @rxftrxft8208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That was my thought exactly.

    • @dalijalan451
      @dalijalan451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Society puts too much pressure on girls, then to get married then to have babies, come on there is no end. Married or not adoption is gr8t giving better life to another. Most importantly being a good human does not come with pressures but helping those less fortunate

    • @anuou792
      @anuou792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Then she would be lonely yaar. Because India is full of nosey aunties.

    • @1230aaish
      @1230aaish 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ann I Agree. All aunties be it your neighbors or family related all talk nonsense. Giving unwanted advice.

    • @Navjotjhutty
      @Navjotjhutty 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nikita Dhulekar love it really true

  • @user-cj5kq3mn6l
    @user-cj5kq3mn6l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Most beautiful concept. I am 65 years old have two grown up boys. When I got married I really wanted to adopt a child, as I firmly believed being a parent for an orphan is the greatest gift to the child and there’s nothing better that one can do in life. My husband didn’t agree with me. My elder son believes that he wants to be a parent to an adopted child.
    I totally agree that this world has become a total chaos. Instead of bringing another soul it’s better to take care of a soul who is less fortunate and bring happiness to their life.

    • @shuchi15
      @shuchi15 ปีที่แล้ว

      Adoption means the kid would give you a family… not that you would give her a home… orphans are okay, we need to understand that they arent unfortunate… u are the unfortunate one who will be lucky to get to adopt a child

  • @chandreshjohnson9912
    @chandreshjohnson9912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow! The depth and innocence of emotions expressed with humility and captured with simplicity. I'm touched to see such a mature and respectful disagreement between two generations, where both women chose to forego their egos but not love. Very thoughtfully written and enacted. SUPER!

  • @raishahasan04
    @raishahasan04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    Such a beautiful topic and society needs to understand that... not every girl bears the dream of having a child or being a mother since her childhood...this is something the society has imposed on them.....some girl can think differently...and yap it's natural.... and yap adopting a child is also a very beautiful thing in this world...😊

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, sure it is ❤

    • @mrnoname2578
      @mrnoname2578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I have a sister..unka divorce hogya or unka ek baby hai 6 saal ka...vo mujhse kafi dur dusre state me rehty hai akely doctor hai to dinbhar hospital me rehty hai..or mera bhanja kabhi crutch me akela ya kabhi aaya bai ke pas akela rehta hai vo chhotasa bachha...I can't stop my tears vo log bahut aqele pad gye hai...kabhi jab me jata hu to mera bhanja kehta hai 'mama aap mere pas ajao plz...usey parivar ki kamiehsus hoty hai....I am 28 but is dunia ke bare me kafi kuch smjh aya hai/

    • @Beadsnweaves
      @Beadsnweaves 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mrnoname2578 true.... i understand the pain your sister is going through.

    • @mrnoname2578
      @mrnoname2578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Beadsnweaves thanks ...pray for her..

    • @hereisalfi
      @hereisalfi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes 🌈 🙂 💞

  • @shailymittal7290
    @shailymittal7290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    agar iss duniya mei ek nayi jaan ko laane se darr lgta hai to sabse acha hai ke unn nanhe bacho ko ek ghar diya jaye jo already aa chuke hain .

    • @sonamgupta9334
      @sonamgupta9334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes you are right

    • @durekhan387
      @durekhan387 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pher tw bacha bazar lga kry ga waha ab bacha peda ni koi kry ye soch bnany ki soch logo main dalo. Waha waha ...... dar tw marny se b lgta hy pr marna chor do . Kiu dusary logo k kharab krny main lgy ho

    • @LivinglifeWithmaham
      @LivinglifeWithmaham 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree wd u

    • @KKBrar-jp4fo
      @KKBrar-jp4fo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jo bache adopt kroge unka khone koi drr nhi .. aur agar apna bacha ho ton usse khone ka drr hai ....waaa yr

    • @anniejoseph7324
      @anniejoseph7324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@KKBrar-jp4fo I don't think that is what she meant.. We can give a good upbringing to kids who don't have a family.. That's a good thing.. Don't confuse that with infertility or giving birth to own kid

  • @Kjbhhhhbvvgehejejekoooje
    @Kjbhhhhbvvgehejejekoooje 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Last mom replied beans aloo
    That's sound to love yourself at every moment.
    Thank God mother feel herself too.

  • @hansikapuri
    @hansikapuri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    They made an entire shortfilm on my favourite sabzi...😌❤

  • @prasantakumarbehera3797
    @prasantakumarbehera3797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think adopting a child is a good choice . Giving the love of family to someone who don't have a family is a good work

  • @anzellaful
    @anzellaful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    Loved❤❤❤ motherhood should be an option not compulsion ❤

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Yes, cuz motherhood is a choice and women should not be judged for it.

    • @meggs4588
      @meggs4588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Exactly... omg i cannot believe i am hearing this from someone else as well.. i wish everyone could understand this.. i hope one day they will

    • @jayalakshmivenkataraman7547
      @jayalakshmivenkataraman7547 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@meggs4588 and me hearing from 2 girlzs :)

    • @sanghamitrasaha
      @sanghamitrasaha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So true yaa

    • @StarAllure
      @StarAllure 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      PLEASE WATCH!!!!! YOU WILL BE GLAD TO SEE WHAT IT IS th-cam.com/video/Hnnow21YoZk/w-d-xo.html

  • @zainabrose96
    @zainabrose96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Really loved this video! I myself am an adopted child. I love my foster mom more than my bio mom. 💖
    Love from Pakistan! 🇵🇰

  • @love4uswati
    @love4uswati 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is exactly the way I feel. Thank you for showing this thing in such a beautiful way.

  • @sharadhadevi1205
    @sharadhadevi1205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Who really feel that she is the twin sister of bhumi pednekar😍

  • @ananyasrivastava1284
    @ananyasrivastava1284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was literally searching how to make aalo beans vegetable recipe and ended up watching this
    Btw back to making aalo beans ..

  • @ainysoomro9677
    @ainysoomro9677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Wow
    I just got tears while watching the end...
    I myself an adopted child
    And she is absolutely right adopted bacha kabhie chorh k nahi jata....

  • @SunetraBanerjeeBass
    @SunetraBanerjeeBass 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    So, it all comes down to the selfishness - who’ll look after me when I’m older .. So much for the concept of “unconditional love” 😂 .. And adopt a child - he/she’ll be “grateful” !! Wonderful concept of motherhood ..
    I’m very motherly and I’ve taken the decision of not having a biological child .. I want to adopt one as a single mother .. But I want to adopt for the happiness of enjoying everything that a mother could do for her child, not for gratitude or for looking after me when I’m old ..

    • @frangipani.19
      @frangipani.19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Finally a sensible comment!

    • @surabhisnbengre2516
      @surabhisnbengre2516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The decision of not having a biological child...is extremely appreciable and noble act...I personally was highly impressed by that...adoption is certainly much much more better than being a biological parent

  • @urmiladevi2131
    @urmiladevi2131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The ending was so so so much good....A smile comes on my face when she said Beens Aalu....

  • @jiggyjiggy2404
    @jiggyjiggy2404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    dont know how but i smelt that baingan being roasted ❤❤

  • @akshaykalasapur8681
    @akshaykalasapur8681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Good message.... Already we are burdened with huge population...Adoption is best way to tackle population and improve life of unfortunate ones. It's time we take tough measure to address the issue regardless any caste and religion for upliftment of quality life of citizens.

    • @muthuarasugopal
      @muthuarasugopal 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please someone adopt me

    • @manaswitadas4751
      @manaswitadas4751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Respect your thinking Sir....we need more ppl in our society like you...

    • @nr8937
      @nr8937 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who has to be born will be born, if not today then tomorrow.
      If not in your home, then in other person's home.
      Souls are ever living, so body dies but not soul.
      And everyone is born with their own destiney to live.....

    • @akshaykalasapur8681
      @akshaykalasapur8681 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Climate change is major issue for our planet. Population control is the one important step to reduce burden on our earth.

    • @dr.nehaverma7839
      @dr.nehaverma7839 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manaswitadas4751 7jlm gu7900000

  • @Poetry_in_the_peaks
    @Poetry_in_the_peaks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I always wanted to adopt a child.. I feel as If I m looking myself through their conversation... ☺👌
    I m not against motherhood in biological sense but I have this feeling of adoption n giving life to someone who doesn't have..
    God bless all❤❤

    • @anubhutialok470
      @anubhutialok470 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah. Me too.

    • @arcpd123
      @arcpd123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Divya.. so true..not today but since college i wanted to adopt a child.. but sadly i got married to a family who cannot accept this idea at all.. i have one kid of my own and i want the other kid by adoption but have to family support.. its very difficult in india and indian mentality.. good such videos are being made..

    • @Phoenix.219
      @Phoenix.219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I too always wanted to adopt a child....but somehow my boyfriend whom I am planning to marry doesn't like that concept....he says if there is some problem or complication then it's perfectly fine to adopt a child but if u can have it naturally then why just do it that way...I want to bear a child in future but also want to adopt a child...it has always been my dream

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @DivyaSharma we are so glad that you could relate to this video and we share the same thought process ❣

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Phoenix.219 We hope your dream comes true!😇

  • @trinayanakaushik811
    @trinayanakaushik811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    The video completely defeats the real purpose of adoption. Adoption is for a better life to the child not to the parents. Adoption should involve gratefulness from the parents'side towards the child because he/she gave them experience of parenthood, not gratefulness from the child's side that he/she was adopted and taken care of.
    May be this wasn't the intention but really the video makes me feel very bad. Adoption is still a taboo and a very sensitive topic, therefore utmost care should be taken while making anything on it. This very much distorts the concept of adoption.
    It was really irresponsible of the makers.

    • @neelamyadav1672
      @neelamyadav1672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      exactly what I wanted to say. My sister in law is adopted and my in laws never forced anything on her. They adopted her to give her a better life not because she will be their budape ki lathi. She is living her dream life with her boyfriend 700 km away from us in northern Canada.

    • @dalijalan451
      @dalijalan451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I feel same for adopting pets, love them to peices they are my kids too...;)

    • @malvikathebest2171
      @malvikathebest2171 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      agree

    • @TheCapsulateIon
      @TheCapsulateIon 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally agree!

    • @manalighosh9728
      @manalighosh9728 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Adoption is taboo???? It's really sad that anyone would say this.

  • @MaithiliPhysio
    @MaithiliPhysio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    Such a beautiful story..thats exactly the same conversation me and my mother had few years back..
    Me and my husband dont want to have a child..I think humans are not an endangered species on our planet..and natural resources are limited..so if we are not producing children means we are helping mankind..
    Female's should give birth to a child to feel like a woman is not true ..its a thought process came out of f our patriarchal societies mind.
    I feel adopting a child just to have someone for your old age is purely selfish..its not love..
    You guys did great job..it needs courage to come up with new thought process..

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hey Maithili, we are so glad that you liked the video. Yes, the idea behind this short film is how motherhood is a choice and women should not be judged for it. In the same, we tried to explore how a woman can experience motherhood in so many ways other than conceiving a biological child.

    • @MaithiliPhysio
      @MaithiliPhysio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BlushChannel loads of love and best wishes to you ..❤❤❤

    • @Worldofvii
      @Worldofvii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good to see people like you exist.....

    • @MaithiliPhysio
      @MaithiliPhysio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @ARP design STUDIO No..thats not our priority in life..our dreams are different ..me and my husband travelled entire India on our bicycles ..In june we did 1500 km bicycle touring in Europe..
      We will be going to ride across America ( California to Florida) this year for 2 months( 5 April to 10 th June)..we want to travel the world on two wheels..🤗

    • @priyankashukla3572
      @priyankashukla3572 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@BlushChannel please try and make some more stories like this .. if will really help us to convince our family and relatives..we are also having so many tough conversation every now and then .. it will take time by society will accept it .. we don't want children.. doesn't mean we don't love them

  • @Rock91824
    @Rock91824 5 ปีที่แล้ว +778

    Beta : Aaj dinner me kya h ?
    Maa : Beans Aloo
    Beta : me nahi kha Raha.
    Ye story kon batayega? 😂😂😂

    • @gauravkaushik4903
      @gauravkaushik4903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Nhi kha raha to bharta kha ke dophar ka.. 😜😜😜😜

    • @sakshistinyspace
      @sakshistinyspace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Or she can say, Khana hi pdega otherwise I'll adopt a child and will kick you out forever! 😂😂

    • @rehan_rana
      @rehan_rana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bharta hai na dopehr kaa

    • @drishtigaur4875
      @drishtigaur4875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ghar Ghar Ki Kahani

    • @kanu3556
      @kanu3556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂

  • @sowmyaiyer716
    @sowmyaiyer716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this! Such a refreshing film and a beautiful bond between a mother and her daughter.

  • @SureshChandra-bo4tv
    @SureshChandra-bo4tv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just clicked the video... By seeing the title of beans alu cause...I love them...but here..one more lovely thing rise up.....it's call Destiny❤️❤️❤️❤️and how...our thoughts came in front of us in different ways...❤️❤️❤️

  • @aylaumair
    @aylaumair 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is a great topic which society does not allow any woman to talk about... a woman should not be seen a production machine... not every woman dreams to be a mother... it is not compulsory just how a society has made it so...

  • @deepikagupta4274
    @deepikagupta4274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Loved it. 👏👏👏 Dipti as a mother played soo well

  • @172Elysium
    @172Elysium 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where was Sonal Jha hiding all these years? She is a terrific actor. Effortless acting by all actors. Great story, script, direction. Loved it.

  • @kashfia_7767
    @kashfia_7767 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally someone make a short film in this social n familial fact. Hats of 🤗 ♥️ from Bangladesh

  • @dhanig6905
    @dhanig6905 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Loved the topic! Society need to start adapting to the new thinking.Was waiting for such Video. Blush never fails to surprise me! Not everyone wants to bear a baby ,its a woman's body and her choice. Noone should and can force her.And come on! Many Many orphans waiting for a good home... Adoption is the thing!

  • @invisibleme7969
    @invisibleme7969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Best short movie I hv ever watched, not only becoz of their awesome acting but also because I could relate to every bit of it.
    This exact conversation takes place between me and my mom everytime, whether it be over phone or face-to-face.... My mom would say me the things this mom is saying...and I would be saying the exact things this daughter is saying.... I am really shocked that someone's script so matched my real life dialogues 😅
    In my selfless opinion, I believe that a couple's decision to remain child-less by their own and mutual choice should be respected by the parents/other family members and everyone in the society. No one should be forced to accept parenthood just to prove their reproductive capabilities or because its a tradition to become a parent once one gets married.
    C'mon!! India is already over-populated, because so far everyone (almost), probably, was busy trying to prove their capabilities to give birth to their children OR to make kids who would look after them when they bcom old....
    Jo bachha paida bhi nhi huwa uspe responsibilities thopi jati hai ki woh burhaape pe maa-baap ka sahara bane.... and then when the child is born then the parents pressurise that child to become first ranker in every step of life and earn pride for their parents... the responsibilities as a child (beta/beti) never ends.....
    Ek toh bolte hai ki apne maa-baap ka dekh-bhal karni chahiye, burhaape ka sahara banna chahiye, phir Doctor/Engineer banna chahiye, phir shadi karna chahiye, phir apne bachhe bhi paida karni chahiye, social responsibilities bhi uthani chahiye....
    Arrey! Ghar mein ek bachha aa jayega toh burhe maa-baap ko attention, care aur time kaise koi de payega.... Not everyone can depend on maids or other helpers. Ab ki time pe har kisi ko padhna chahiye, khud ko aage badhana chahiye, I dont want/expect ki koi aake humaare ghar pe maid bann ke kaam karke apna life barbaad kare.... We all shud be independent and self-sustainable, at least wen we can still work on our own.
    So, if someone is already overloaded with responsibilities as a daughter, a daughter-in-law, a wife, a sister, a sister-in-law, a professional / service person / business woman, as a social worker and so on....and if she doesn't want to accept motherhood because she is not ready for the responsibilities as a mother, as being a "parent" is the most serious and intense responsibility...., then others (parents/society) should not force her/them to become parents.
    "Law of Nature"....is a big term. There are many things that are "Law of nature", then why only "giving birth to child" is held as the foremost Law of nature.....when the world is alredy so much over-populated.
    The people who really want to become parents are there to preserve our mankind.... so atleast spare the ones who dont want to become parents.
    (No hard feelings, its just a message to the ones whose daughter/daughter-in-law/son/son-in-law too want to stay child-less by choice, plz try to understand their situation and respect their mutual choices and feelings).
    Pardon me if I said something that I shouldn't have said.

  • @plasticfoodsog2955
    @plasticfoodsog2955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Come on yaar ! Every video of yours is making me cry. Either I am too sensitive or you guys are doing really amazing job.

  • @asmafarooq1530
    @asmafarooq1530 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's life strategy how much two people love each other and bind themself in new relation called parent it's soooo amazing coz some worried brings happiness like having a child care it raising it wowwww it's so great

  • @sentina2000
    @sentina2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ohh my God, made me cry ,, thank you

  • @sweetyncute
    @sweetyncute 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing 👌 Just loved it. Motherhood is really a matter of choice BUT our society made this a compulsion. Hope our society gets this 🙏

  • @sichi4gauchi
    @sichi4gauchi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    In this era of convenience, impatience and individualism there is no space for shared happiness.
    BLUSH deserves an award for social service from the ministry of health and family in reducing the birth rate. Beautiful videos of this channel are making people who want their own kids embarrassing ☺.

  • @TheRpr2009
    @TheRpr2009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    so true I am also facing the same pressure from society .
    I just dont want the child to come in this world and face the harshness and suffering of this world.
    This conversation is same word to word what I had with my mother but without saying a single word.
    Everybody think that we have some problem and not accepting it in front of everyone.
    Many of my relatives even avoid disclosing their pregnency to me so as to prevent their baby from bad omen😂.

  • @shylajagat8647
    @shylajagat8647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Give life to a needy child. Happiness immeasurable.

  • @mehakbhatia964
    @mehakbhatia964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Melted me down!

  • @annieanthony6751
    @annieanthony6751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    So beautifully conveyed 😍...seems like someone has just read the minds of many girls like us who can relate to it so much 💗
    Just having a biological child doesn't have to be a benchmark to prove to the society that you are a woman or capable or a complete family 👏✨

  • @sourikapatra2189
    @sourikapatra2189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That last word"beans aloo".....i got goosebumps

  • @wastetanz
    @wastetanz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this was gorgeous. excited to watch it with my mom

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ohh you should definitely watch it with her! 😇

  • @007vissa
    @007vissa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s a welcome story that needs to be told. My spouse and I have also decided to go childfree. Save a little for our old age but live in present, follow our dreams also spend time/money luxuriously on ourselves😀 without guilt 😜

  • @archunegi3049
    @archunegi3049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Phli Baar life me jaisa mai sochti Hun vaisa hi Kuch Dekha h ....phli Baar yr ....matlb mai Kuch v Galt nhi sochti aaj bhut Acha lga ki Mai Kuch alg sochti Hun...

  • @pawanpathania5905
    @pawanpathania5905 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very beautiful message. Everyone's take from the video is different depending on their age. I saw a poignant message that being a parent doesn't mean that one stops looking after one's own need. No doubt children come first but a parent, esp a mom,should not feel guilty for prioritising his or her own needs too.By doing so sons and daughters will grow up to be more balanced, matured and understanding adults. Beautiful video.

  • @Hemantkumar-mv5fi
    @Hemantkumar-mv5fi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    very well written and directed.we all proud of you garima

  • @anjaliumanabadimath5656
    @anjaliumanabadimath5656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Exactly my thoughts 😍😍So my thinking is not wrong happy to know there are few more who think alike

  • @prasadc.alande9775
    @prasadc.alande9775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1 Good Thought, Express in way like it touches bottom of a heart.

  • @vaishnaviv6634
    @vaishnaviv6634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Adopting someone is such a blessing for that child. Very nice msg.

  • @thediptanusarkartds3464
    @thediptanusarkartds3464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In one sentence : lovely story . Must appreciate 👍🏼 . 😊

  • @prachigl5563
    @prachigl5563 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Priceless expressions of the Mom .. amazing .. thanks for this movie . Just beyond loved it. .

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you loved it ❤

  • @aishwaryababbar5045
    @aishwaryababbar5045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow...this was something different...loved it...and the end was amazing... 👌🏻

  • @rishitabhatia8818
    @rishitabhatia8818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really liked the concept...something really different and eye opening concept for society...❤️

  • @hereisalfi
    @hereisalfi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I m a Lesbian 💕 N , very proud of it 🌈 I love kids n would love to adopt 🙂 💕

    • @sudhirchandra9790
      @sudhirchandra9790 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Will u marry?

    • @sagarj1741
      @sagarj1741 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I m gay

    • @sagarj1741
      @sagarj1741 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Will u marry me?

    • @suzanacrasto6718
      @suzanacrasto6718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@sagarj1741 ??? You are gay and she is a lesbian...doesn't gay mean you like the same gender and same for lesbian?

    • @user-dn3hs9fh9d
      @user-dn3hs9fh9d 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      INDIA who will give to adopt a child .. go and know the rules of ORPHAN child adoption house.. first you go to pshycology Doctor you will change. This lesbianism, GAY habbits will ruined your life and your partner's life also. At the time of connected to you lesbian Frriend there is a person is a BOY what with 10 yrs you think just a kid. One time mistake it's just a mistake again and again it's your fault. COURTS will say no problem means you end your life don't disturb if other life 120 crs people will control with COURTS is not possible. Human relationships damaged screw the society. There is no PERSONAL LIFE there is no public life read this book TRANSCEDING THE LEVEL CONSCIOUSNESS written by DAVID R. HAWKINS you will change the mind set. LESBIANISM GAY CULUTRE those are SEXUAL HABITS or child days BAD EXPERIENCES not a LOVE not RELATIONSHIPS ... yaad raakh mey kya bol raha hun.. after 50+ age ... we are FARMERS we love MUD, plants, animals...

  • @roshnigawandi
    @roshnigawandi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The other day when I spoke to my friend about adoption, I was literally in for a rude shock. I was dismissed saying you can’t love an adopted child cuz you dont keep them in your womb for 9 months.
    When I told her that this mentality is wrong and you shouldnt be discriminating like this, she still didnt get my point.
    I was shocked that how could a sensible person like her say such shitty things.
    We really need to educate our society on such topics.

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Roshni, just a thought - we think maybe you should show her this short film to change her perception towards adoption.

    • @roshnigawandi
      @roshnigawandi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      BLUSH really hope so..

  • @kritikabansal3492
    @kritikabansal3492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mein abb ye 2 baar dekh rahi hu kyuki mujhe ye video bhut pasand hein ❤️❤️❤️

  • @soniaarora5970
    @soniaarora5970 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally, they made a short story that didn't explain but understood the real issue. The new generation is not against children. They are smart enough to understand that you don't have to conceive and deliver a baby to become parents but adopt one.

  • @sanjuktadutta5825
    @sanjuktadutta5825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Really very nice story

  • @nidhiinwtc
    @nidhiinwtc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thoughtful story ....very interesting and connecting with our current time .💐💐

  • @meghnathakore3860
    @meghnathakore3860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice story
    Beautifully presented
    And i completly agree with the concept

  • @nileshvasa8473
    @nileshvasa8473 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superbbbbb words is small for this story ..what a healthy conversation between mom-daughter duo....I love this 😍😍🥰😍😍🥰😍🥰😍🥰😍

  • @MANISHA-pg2yy
    @MANISHA-pg2yy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Parents ne hume isliye born nhi kiya ki hum unki care krenge budhape me balki wo hume pyar krte hai isliye born krte hai or bda krte hai parents selfish nhi hote or yhi emotion bachho ko unki care krne ke liye force krta hai ki wo humse kuchh nhi chahte 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @sonalikasharma9608
    @sonalikasharma9608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amazing concept and a very important issue to address in the current scenario. I'm glad you guys made this. Commendable work by the artists.

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Glad you liked it 🙂

  • @PreethiVlogs
    @PreethiVlogs 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wah! What a mind blowing movie 👌 👌 👌 👌 👌 👌 👌

  • @sudeshnadas3245
    @sudeshnadas3245 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mothers are the best! They give up everything for us.

  • @sagarchaudhary9327
    @sagarchaudhary9327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    Meri bhi ek ladki hai aur mera dream h ki mai ek bacha adopt karugi dua karo mera dream pura ho jaye

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hamari dua aapke sath hain❣😇

    • @RGVPT323
      @RGVPT323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sagar Chaudhary inshaallah... Uparwala apke iss sapne ko jaroor pura kare.....

    • @HarpreetKaur-hy3ck
      @HarpreetKaur-hy3ck 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ameen

    • @sahilsyed2850
      @sahilsyed2850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Are waah.achha laga
      Even non muslim saying insha allah, ameen. Very good brothers💪👍😍😘

    • @sanjuktadutta5825
      @sanjuktadutta5825 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wish you..... Best of luck....

  • @SijiVarghesesizzlingme
    @SijiVarghesesizzlingme 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Really, how low a human thinking and concept gone done! Adopting a child to make them feel debted

  • @hosakereananth4709
    @hosakereananth4709 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    After seeing this short film, I am so hooked...may not want to bollywood rubbish, truly!

  • @tinakar3256
    @tinakar3256 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful way of thinking. Motherhood should be an option not a compulsion. Adopting a child doest not mean a mother is less than a mother.

  • @dipsdash8797
    @dipsdash8797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Why this mom looks younger than her daughter??😂

  • @mukundchimnani4005
    @mukundchimnani4005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Extremely Slow In The Beginning.
    Equally Amazing in The Conclusion.
    A Thumbs Up for This.

  • @rashmicarryon
    @rashmicarryon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what a great story.... it is time to change the world...

  • @karmeeleon
    @karmeeleon 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    From the short film, "Methi Ke Laddoo" to this (Beans Aloo). I'm so glad you did a film that promotes adoption and not clinical help like Methi Ke Laddoo did. India is a country that already faces over population so it's about time we encourage adoption to early couples.

  • @satarupadutta5509
    @satarupadutta5509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    Adopt a child ... to mk it look after u at old age.. cz he wd hv to be grateful for being adopted. Adopting kid or servant? Sick

    • @hereisalfi
      @hereisalfi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely B*🔥🔥

    • @parulparida8280
      @parulparida8280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Then why we give birth? For our selfishness. Buddhape Mei saath dega. Same thing.
      Adopt or give birth... same selfishness.

    • @sugunajandhyala7326
      @sugunajandhyala7326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do we consider our own children as servants when they serve us when we grow old?

    • @preetigrover6127
      @preetigrover6127 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi satrupa.. Are you the friend of umeed.. Stayed in Karol Baghel at PG

  • @treeberry4
    @treeberry4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    First, nice depiction of a society who are self-proclaimed intrusive well wishers between a couple. Who think they have the right to decide when & necessarily a couple should have kid.

  • @sreeharin5106
    @sreeharin5106 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eventhough not agreeing with the concept of adopting a child.. but the story n the presentation .. simply awsome...

  • @sumi_s11
    @sumi_s11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful 💕

  • @lakshmib6081
    @lakshmib6081 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I want to share this video with my friends and family really what I wanted to say them

  • @ajithchandran2039
    @ajithchandran2039 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg guys, i am absolutely in love with your content..

  • @earthkart2483
    @earthkart2483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful beautiful, incredible thought and performances. Keep it up. worth a watch

    • @BlushChannel
      @BlushChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so heartfelt. Couldn’t thank you enough.

  • @dreamkatchervideos3365
    @dreamkatchervideos3365 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    who else thinks she looks like tanushree dutta? 😂

  • @yashwithashetty1876
    @yashwithashetty1876 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    such a beautiful video with such a beautiful message.. loved this video. and these neighbours and relatives r more worried abt others life then their family. y to get a child to this cruel world better adopt one.

  • @victorialobo6585
    @victorialobo6585 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    BEAUTIFUL MOVIE....BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE...LOVED IT...👌👍

  • @priundefined
    @priundefined 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    How can beans aloo be someone’s favourite dish.!!!!

    • @DiptiTiwari999
      @DiptiTiwari999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I love having it with rice. #BeansAndAlooLoversExist 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪

    • @sreetamadatta8694
      @sreetamadatta8694 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      My thoughts exactly! 😂😂😂

    • @divyapipal3723
      @divyapipal3723 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We exist

    • @varshac116
      @varshac116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love it with chapati!

    • @veddixit
      @veddixit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@varshac116 I would prefer it with parantha and hot tea 🍵 in breakfast. My one maid use to cook 🍳 for us. Amazing days. 😊

  • @clashinglegend8466
    @clashinglegend8466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ham to karne se darte h khi ho na jaye 😊😊sahi kahi ho na jaye

  • @jinupriyachakma6322
    @jinupriyachakma6322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a beautiful story🥰🤩

  • @PeacePlease.
    @PeacePlease. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well Done - Well directed, acted, setting, cast, relatable scenario and a Social Issue worth addressing!! The world has changed so much in the last few decades , and crimes against children have increased so dramatically, that in this day n age, keeping a child safe is easier said than done. Protecting enough and over-protecting is also quite debatable, because today one can never be too careful. Yes, I couldn't agree more: Motherhood - (Parenthood) should be a choice not an expectation, and surely not a compulsion. Moreover, there are so many good children in need of parents, a home - that it makes good sense to consider adopting instead. It would also help our population from growing more than is good for our planet. A Win-win Decision, indeed!!

  • @rakeshsarvabhotla4998
    @rakeshsarvabhotla4998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think according to biology making offspring is the very primal instinct in evolution. Going through this process is a roller coaster of many things socially, biologically too

  • @ruthadlakha
    @ruthadlakha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wanna eat bhaigun bharata so bad 😋