This relates so much. Just ended a videocall with my boyfriend that I did not talk to since 8 days. I feel like we are drifting apart, I always have to initiate contact; because of his depression, he feels stuck at home with no job, afraid to go to a therapist. He feels like he is behind and has to recover the last 15 lost years in 3 years (my mental deadline). He told me he was always told as a kid that he needs to suck it up and not show emotions, that men don't cry. He is a cancer, nailed that as well. I wanted to talk, but he doesn't want to, because it always ends in a fight, he said. I am in a glow-up, somehow, just went to a work-related seminar this week out of town. I feel like he is jealous. He is always watching my photos that I post online, stories and so on, never comments or gives feedback though. I waited 11,5 years and feel like we are not going anywhere.
Dealing with a Leo. Long distance. He’s too closed off . Does not initiate any text/call/ anything. So I stopped initiating and going on with my own things.
Praying 🙏 for my 🦀❤️ to heal and return.
This relates so much. Just ended a videocall with my boyfriend that I did not talk to since 8 days. I feel like we are drifting apart, I always have to initiate contact; because of his depression, he feels stuck at home with no job, afraid to go to a therapist. He feels like he is behind and has to recover the last 15 lost years in 3 years (my mental deadline). He told me he was always told as a kid that he needs to suck it up and not show emotions, that men don't cry. He is a cancer, nailed that as well. I wanted to talk, but he doesn't want to, because it always ends in a fight, he said. I am in a glow-up, somehow, just went to a work-related seminar this week out of town. I feel like he is jealous. He is always watching my photos that I post online, stories and so on, never comments or gives feedback though. I waited 11,5 years and feel like we are not going anywhere.
Long distance with pisces, old boyfriend ❤
Dealing with a Leo. Long distance. He’s too closed off . Does not initiate any text/call/ anything. So I stopped initiating and going on with my own things.
Gosh would be nice if it’s me 😮
The same old story just different day.
Clarify mental jail maybe?