I would be very interested in a video about valuing yourself, loving yourself etc. I found this video very interesting, you are especially clear in your explanations. Thank you
Thank you for the feedback, John. I’m glad to hear that you found the video helpful. If there are specific challenges you find in how to love and value yourself, please feel free to drop a note here too!
The point about feeling like all is my fault - so rings true to me! I kept that alive into my relationships already as an adults, it took long time to let that go.
I hear you. If we were told by our parents (in words or actions) that everything is our fault, or that they expected us to be the hero child and fix their issues for them, or that we have low self-esteem due to abuse, it is easy to go into self-blame. The good news is, once we are aware, we can consciously decide if the self-blame still makes sense, and make a different decision.
Great video! And I think many things you mentioned can be also applied not only to relationships, but also work situation, even weight loss, because deep down the situation somehow serves us.
Thank you so much. This was so helpful. I would love to hear more about Childhood trauma. My therapist and I have agreed my trauma is enmeshment. I’d love to hear your input on how to work yourself out of a family that is toxic and so enmeshed with each other…
I found this relevant to me and would like you to mae a video of loving yourself and valuing yourself. My relationship when a child with my parents i was blamed alot and what you say carrying on in adult relationship with a partner is what enabled him to take full advantage of me and abuse me emotionally mentally and financially. What do not understand is that no one would listen to me as i went to doctors and they made me think it was me and i am in another relationship where i am being abused. I am very weary tired and again fear yes i built and worked to build a home and paid for this and feel to walk away i will be again the pauper and have made my partner once again richer . Its very hard to change when you are not believed or listened to or you are ignored or silence and i am silenced . Are there people who are honest or genuine as i am yet to meet them and i appear to be the mug for being a honest person or naive person as i am told i am gullible . Well that leaves me to believe that i tell the truth but others dont especially men as I am yet to meet one who does not lie about themselves and their past.
Hi Zoria, the scenario you described of survivors of childhood trauma being victimized again is very common, and you may find this video helpful: th-cam.com/video/ayk-VFCC3h4/w-d-xo.html You are not alone; the good news is, once you heal the wounds from childhood, the pattern ends. Hugs.
I would be very interested in a video about valuing yourself, loving yourself etc. I found this video very interesting, you are especially clear in your explanations. Thank you
Thank you for the feedback, John. I’m glad to hear that you found the video helpful. If there are specific challenges you find in how to love and value yourself, please feel free to drop a note here too!
The point about feeling like all is my fault - so rings true to me! I kept that alive into my relationships already as an adults, it took long time to let that go.
I hear you. If we were told by our parents (in words or actions) that everything is our fault, or that they expected us to be the hero child and fix their issues for them, or that we have low self-esteem due to abuse, it is easy to go into self-blame.
The good news is, once we are aware, we can consciously decide if the self-blame still makes sense, and make a different decision.
Great video! And I think many things you mentioned can be also applied not only to relationships, but also work situation, even weight loss, because deep down the situation somehow serves us.
Absolutely, and great insight. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much. This was so helpful. I would love to hear more about Childhood trauma. My therapist and I have agreed my trauma is enmeshment. I’d love to hear your input on how to work yourself out of a family that is toxic and so enmeshed with each other…
I found this relevant to me and would like you to mae a video of loving yourself and valuing yourself. My relationship when a child with my parents i was blamed alot and what you say carrying on in adult relationship with a partner is what enabled him to take full advantage of me and abuse me emotionally mentally and financially. What do not understand is that no one would listen to me as i went to doctors and they made me think it was me and i am in another relationship where i am being abused. I am very weary tired and again fear yes i built and worked to build a home and paid for this and feel to walk away i will be again the pauper and have made my partner once again richer . Its very hard to change when you are not believed or listened to or you are ignored or silence and i am silenced . Are there people who are honest or genuine as i am yet to meet them and i appear to be the mug for being a honest person or naive person as i am told i am gullible . Well that leaves me to believe that i tell the truth but others dont especially men as I am yet to meet one who does not lie about themselves and their past.
Hi Zoria, the scenario you described of survivors of childhood trauma being victimized again is very common, and you may find this video helpful:
th-cam.com/video/ayk-VFCC3h4/w-d-xo.html
You are not alone; the good news is, once you heal the wounds from childhood, the pattern ends. Hugs.