I Confessed To My Wife After Bringing Her To The UK, She Couldn’t Forgive Me & Divorced Me - Man
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The man is very intelligent about his choice of words he use to answer DJ Nyame. Carefully listen
A very intelligent and a smart father who loves his family and kids so much.His answers to all the questions are superb.
Dj NYAAMI thanks for bringing this experience father here to share with us 🎉
He owned up to his mistakes and face the consequences. Very positive approach to handling and facing life challenges and looking after his children. Still going strong 💪. Keep trying until you get it right...*so be it*
in my 27 years, as a ghanian haven’t heard of any women divorcing in Ghana after they find out their men give birth outside marriage. The wife could even take the child just for the husband to be around home, this would have ended differently if the woman was still in Ghana. Am not supporting infidelity though 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Sit there I divorced mine , and got married 6 month after.
He cheated on his wife and had a baby outside of his marriage yet he's saying he doesn't trust his wife smh
@@user-ug7yp4tf8x😂😂😂😂 Dassal!
@@veraassabea4594Right?!? He should please help us make this make sense. 😂😂
@@user-ug7yp4tf8x😂😂😂Dassal!
I have forgiven you in advance la...
The fact that you were able to work things out for me to join you , confess paaaa de3, you are my ideal man wai❤
Sorry for asking please are you the ex wife?
Sorry I’m not gonna bring any woman to America for any benefits.Find your own way and work on your documents cos I won’t help you.We all smart now so good luck to the men and women doing this stuff.
That woman is making excuses with that case, she might have a boyfriend in Ghana, the man loves her with the children, he could have married that woman, this man has worked very hard, the woman is wicked, is good he moved on
Nice interview Very honest , wise and smart man.
Well spoken, cheer up life is short
. Berma nsi nsuom ansa na wa"ham.👏👏👏👏💯
I agree with him 💯 its always good to marry from your own people
The woman has regretted big time, i'm being honest because this is not any issue for it to course alarm
Like seriously would the man also accepted the wife if he find out she gave birth to a baby with a different man ?Men stop justifying cheating pls
@@phyllisakuoko8343why wouldn't he accept it if his wife had been abroad 10 yrs without a husband and she's been supporting him and the kids during those years? U dont expect someone to be faithful to u if u haven't seen the person in 10 yrs. Remember, everyone has needs that must be fulfilled. She should be happy qnd grateful he brought her to europe. Some men would've neglected their families
@@randominterestingvideos4733love your submission but this might be only your thought what about the rest of
@@phyllisakuoko8343 the rest of what? Will u wait 10 yrs for your husband in abroad if u saw more handsome men than him there and couldn't return back home during that time?
@@randominterestingvideos4733 then have to accept the consequences
DJ Nyameee keep up the good work; that’s the nature of woman.
This man is awesome and wise❤ much respect to you, Sir. I have learned a lot ❤
Very wise Man❤
Sharp guy...I like his thinking and decision making
A whole life lesson learned in less than 1 hour , bless you DJ
He should have confessed to the woman when she was in Ghana.....#wisdom
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She will have faked that it wasn't a problem till she reached there with him
You're a very honest person for accepting your mistakes. Lesson learned; we need to forgive one another and move on in life.
So this guest cheated on his then wife and somehow the wife is a bad person because the husband brought her to England. How are ppl reasoning this days 🤦🏽♀️
😂
Ummm, not shocked, when men can do anything in our culture.
He said nkrataa nti oooo but they wife should have forgiven him after he personally told her
Bo ho biom!!!! Hahaha
So should he have lied to his wife?
You're very smart man.
Similar thing happened to a friend mine.
Never try to bring your current wife to UK,,,if you do so,,,then prepare for divorce
Especially when u know u cheated on her
😂😂😂😂😂@@MsStefy01
@@MsStefy01😂😂😂😂
Not all women are bad but 90% are will divorce with bad minds
DJ Nyami I agree with your guest for his reason why he married from his hometown. I wish him good luck in his new chapter
He should have told the wife the truth before bringing her abroad. That way she could decide if she wanted to continue with the marriage or not. You can't judge her reactions after she joined you. Transparency is very important, no matter what the consequences might be.
She could pretend bcus of abroad
This man is very intelligent and wise....
So this man left his woman for 10 solid years. Had an affair and had a kid on top of it. Yet, wonders why the wife couldn’t be understanding???😂😂😂😂 how would he feel if the roles were turned. The least he could have done was disclosed that to her in the early stages
If the roles were reversed, the man wouldn't be in the UK
You're judging him for being honest. Do you know what the woman did in those 10 years? Hear both sides before you conclude. Although your or my opinion both don't matter in his life lol
@@robertagreenslade5434😂
He left his wife to cater for the kids but couldn't return for 10yrs. He took care of the kids and her needs during those times but his needs wasn't satisfied. He even brought her to europe. Most men wouldve neglected their families. U dont expect someone to wait for u 10 yrs and be faithful without his sexual needs being satisfied. If the tables had turned, I'm sure he'd understand. Maybe he wont continue the marriage but he also wont disrespect her wife like that for supporting him financially for 10 yrs.
I am a woman but I have my own concerns about a married woman who claims celibacy for 10(!) years.
'Abrokyire-going' leaving spouses for long periods such as this brings about BIG ISSUES!
At the end of the day, this unfortunate situation has a lot to do with our economic hardship and our individual ways of resolving them.
Thank goodness the children are doing well with their education.
If you are planning bringing your wife to join you in abroad just prepare your mind and spirit about divorce so that you don't get shock when it hits you!!Just prepare for divorce.Protect yourself and everything that you have.
Aswear
How
The truth is most women back home are still in marriage for survival, so once they get over here ,they are like village fowl that has been release from a cage
Why bring her sef
Hhmm God bless you for this advice
Hi Mr. Asante, long time no see. I hope you're doing well. This is Nesto, Paa Kow's (Ice Tee's) friend. We used to live at Kentinkrono together. I'm also in the U.S. Nice seeing you again.
To be honest, some women are heartless.Aborokyire mu ns3m pii.Agya i salute you w'ate ,ayekoo. GOD will safeguard all your endeavors.
🚨it’s good you confessed, but you should have done it while she was in Ghana and if she was ok to forgive before bringing her !!!. Most of time people unforgiving people like her you will investigate and find out she also probably cheated while living in Ghana anyways 😂
Was thinking so😅
Even if she did, she didn't bring a child home😂😂😂.
I think it will be difficult to forgive most Ghanaian men when they cheat because they aren't romantic mpo😂😂😂😂
You are right
@@hannahowusu-ansah2491 hmmm
Respect big man 💪
How can a child born in uk comes to ģhana to fight for dad's property?àfrica mentalities and properties
@@peacesempare4855 There is always two sides to a story, read between the lines
FOOLISH TALK, HOW DO YOU KNOW THE PROPERTIES ARE IN THE NAME OF BOTH THE MAN AND THE WOMAN?
Exactly bro African mentalities hmmmmm
Some of these things you should hv assess ur wife first before telling her,some secrets are better send to the grave
Eii Patricia 😂😂😂. I guess we will never know yours
He did his best for telling the truth from his own willingness but my brother should have read Micah 7:5 carefully before telling her
@@nnsuromannsoocompanyltd4893 that's where the assessment comes in,y3 wh3 kruni anim ansa na yama ne rice oo
@@kingshomes8546 yh silence is golden
How do you hide your child till you die? You want him to be a dead beat father?
You should have told her when she was in Ghana.
Men sometimes makes mistakes Oo ah …. Some ladies too are heartless
Hmmmm@@kofisikasika5603
@@kofisikasika5603there is no guarantee in life abt anything. Most important is to be able to live with your decisions and if not try your best to make amends but for the rest move and like he said enjoy your life. That’s it
men can cheat and still love his wife. If woman cheats, her love for the husband is dead. it is two different things. some men cheat just because of loneliness or for excitement, or pleasure or lust, but will still love his wife and keep his wife. If woman cheat or go behind her husband, it will be difficult for that marriage to continue, deep inside her the love for her husband is gone.
You are very much mature person paaa
🙄stop that silly justification. And what you said is not🎉 true. Your ego won't let you understand that women can do the same for loneliness and excitement. Let your woman do same and all hell will break loose. Don't do something you know you can't take when reversed.
she have her owns plans famm 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I think in the womans mind she divorced him already in Ghana before coming to Uk ,she wanted to come and find small fault so she can stand on it to make their divorce an open one
🤔 you’ve a point
Which is small fault? Will the man forgive her if she had given birth for another man in Ghana before traveling?
FOOLISH TALK! WILL ACCEPT IT IF YOUR WIFE ABROAD COMES TO TELL YOU THAT HE IS HAVING A CHILD FOR ANOTHER MAN BECAUSE SHE NEEDED NKRATAA. STOP YOUR FOOLISH JUDGEMENT ON HIS FORMER WIFE!
You made the greatest mistake for not telling her when she was in Ghana, that would have shown you her reaction, good or bad.
I really like hw this man talk wow beautiful
I hope he makes the effort to talk to his ex wife. What he did wasn't right but one can also argue that the ex-wife was also just in her decision to leave marriage. Its tough but he needs to reach out to her for the sake of their kids.
The biggest compensation to forgive was the man to send her to UK...such a selfish woman 😢
Man you made a good decision of not bringing your children.
❤I SALUTE 🫡 THIS MAN ❤
If he had told her whilst in Ghana, she would have had no problem with that, just because she wanted to come to Abrokyire.
If you had told her whilst in Ghana, you could have saved your effort and money for bringing her to UK. Sorry Mr guest but that was a slow move
A lesson indeed,you shud know the kind of woman you are marrying very well,
If a man cheats he expects forgiveness. But the other way doesn’t work. What would you have done if she had told you whiles you were away, she slept with someone. You cannot hurt someone and determine how she should cry/react. You really hurt her. There should have been another way to solve it.
Regardless, I love how he’s a great and honest man. It’s unfortunate that he made the mistake with that illicit act. A broken home affects parenting a lot. The woman should be careful with how she’s handling her boy. School is very important.
His family would have been just a beautiful one if it didn’t break up. He’s a great dad. He only messed up as a husband. I pray that all is restored soon. May God touch all hearts involved🙏
Fri hc kc !
but ask yourself how many women divorce in Ghana after they find out their men give birth outside marriage…this would have ended differently if the woman was still in Ghana.
@@stevoo209 that’s why he should have told her in Ghana
I don't know if you are a woman cheat on your husband and see
I like this guy smart man
You make big mistake
You should have told her when she was in ghana and face the consequences whilst she was there
Afterall she was in ghana and you had nothing to loose
You are right
It will make no difference, she would have divorced him after she arrived anyway
She will keep quiet when she’s in Ghana and once she arrives gives him the middle finger
Why bring her in the first place.
Good point
You see some men? if it happens to be the other way round by hearing the wife was cheating in Ghana 🇬🇭 would he have forgiven her?
Dj ,it depends the contribution 21 years not qualify,contributions is 35 years
Eeeh Men will justify their wrongs all the time period
DJ,until u live here,u won’t understand it.Who in Ghana will understand what goes on abroad?😊
Wowww, some women! women! women!...this woman will regret one day aahh, a man who did everything for you back home, knowing your husband was not having papers and even if he had done this not stsying with this baby mama, you couldn't forgive him to start freshly 😢. Be you sir and move strongly because life is a struggle but with this positive mindset you will get to your destination, all the best sir 🙏
Very sad story but in all your wife didn't try at all because after having a kid with another woman you try your best as much as possible to bring her to the UK, this alone should tell her that you love her
😂😂😂K)t) de3 ne bo dwe3. If the woman did the same, will you be writing this.
Be honest which woman will do that travel to abroad find a another man give birth with the new man and later gather money and bring his first husband to abroad and moreover is not a sin to give birth with another woman according to our culture
So from now on all should learn lessons from this story tell her while she's at home in ghana and see her reaction
@@bobbyjones7428she won’t say anything when she’s in Ghana 🇬🇭 buh once she comes she will grow wings
He could have cheated without bringing another kid in the world
You are still handsome man
The best decision was not to bring your children.
Marry again thumbs up 👍 😅😅😅😅😅
First to comment. Many problems everywhere.
Today I'm early but chale fear them
Inform her when she was still in Ghana and let’s see if she would accept for you to use that nkrataa to borga her or she will divorce you.
DJ should have asked him of the tribe of his ex wife
So sad
Cheating is not right but this man is honest. I will forgive you if you were my husband because there are men who live with their wife and still goes around to cheat. You were not around your wife for years.
Eiiii Fear women ooo hmmm
Woman saying we should fear woman. Hmmmmm. I have taken the advice one time. Thank you very much from the horses own mouth. 😊
She is only looking for excuss to leave the man bcus of some bad influence
That woman is very ungrateful ah
Somebody sacrifice to get where he is to bring even if he that are u suppose to do that ahhh
Hello Hello brother
Is he the son of the late Agya Ntow of akakye and apakye fame🤔🤔🤔
His Fante accent and looks resemble Agya Ntow
😂 u
😂😂😂 I had the same thing in mind
Be careful on your decision 😂
well..the second coming could me worse..make no mistake!..i reserve ma comments...
Oh after Confessed to her.....hmm
I will keep fearing women paaaa but their sweet mhom
@YawScott-fy2hc Let the woman confess the same, and all of you will have different judgments.
Evev though we have not listened to the other side , but the woman is shadow minded
Hmmm 3y3 asemooo
My boyfriend in Uk did the same thing to me he want to Ghana to impregnate another lady and still talking me till one year later and he comfim to me i should forgive him this what he did when he want to Ghana I told him I won't forgive him if it my husband I can forgive him but not my boyfriend
Good decision.. uk here is not for the weak one 😢
@@DanielAdusei9 it hurts but I have to let it go 😢😢
@@queenriegnsadepa8727 it’s well.. which part of Uk u live?
@@DanielAdusei9 I'm not in Uk please
Fear women ooh fear them hmmmmmmm
Hmmm
The funny thing with women is,she left the husband and will end up dating a married man..
@@bbone4390 John tickle it balls
Why didn’t you just cancel her visa and reported the divorce to home office so she can be sent back to ghana . So you carry on with your life . Masa We are divorced so why still stay on my visa eye simple
His story isn't Clear
Body no be firewood
This is not big issue biaaa that will make her live the husband
Are u here in uk?
@@DanielAdusei9 no please
Again
Hmmm.. life in abroad is not easy. I don’t want to say much about this 😢women 🥲