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Be Careful Who You are Good To (SOUFLOTV TALK UP DI TINGZ) REAL LIFE
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 พ.ค. 2015
- Souflo is one of Jamaica's top vloggers on youtube and has made his channel one of the ones to tune in to by putting in the hard work and delivering good content consistently but in this video he talks about his drama with one of his wives and mother of two of his children. Dont forget to like, comment, share, subscribe and remember, there is always a lesson to be learned on SOUFLOTV.
that's why it annoys me when some women walk up and down and bash fathers when there are women out there just as bad and even worse
It's a long story I am wounded U.S. veteran also I am a Jamaican I've been into the same situation like you with my son he is 26 now and things are good between us right now. Don't give up keep your head up things Will fall in place my brother peace.
Carlos McLeod Wounded vet. 11b infantry combat vet 1-18 infantry , salute you family, blessings and feel free to contact me when ever
Some kids do not understand the what they call "tough love" but as they grew older and become adults themselves that's when they will understand...glad to see that both of you are in a better place now
Ann marie Wilson yes, very true and thank you. All is well
Nothing they try to break a strong man will work....it will only make him stronger...he will be tested and then have a testimony...blessings to you my brother
So true it sad but stay strong u are a good man ok
venice vaughan I try. Bless up
Hear you but you know it's all about learning from choices you make good or bad. Your great dad
Wowwwwwwwww. My husband & I are about to embark on a journey similar to the one you're coming out off, and we have so many doubts. We thought we were paranoid too! Thank you sooooooo very much for posting. You have nooooooo idea how parallel my life is to yours, except that, I'm the current wife. Thanks again SouFloTV. Keep the FAITH🤝🙏🏽👊🏽
Mic. Sher-Will you two keep the faith as well and get closer to each other and stay that way because situations like these can break a fragile union.
souflotv you have a good education use it to the best . don`t allow yourself to be drag down.
Stay strong my brother , the song said who feels it now it , I go true it for 7 years
King Abuja up up up
You are a great father, God bless you!!!! Do not dwell on her negativity, keep on doing your great parenting!!
Thank you for sharing with us, SouFLOTV. I've been through that and more with my ex-husband. He's a mess and miserable soul. He drag me to Court, lie on me to the Justices / Courts and was found to be a liar more than twice. I remain single and he remarried. Yet, supposed to be happy with the other woman. He pulled out ALL the stops (deep pockets). Had me in Court every 3 months for 18 months. Play games with child's mind, stop visits (7+yrs). I always give him liberal visits until Courts set a schedule b/c he was straight clowning. The Devil's a liar and Truth ain't in him.
You gotta have Faith.
FAITH w/o works is dead. I'm also a Veteran. I already know the mindset. However, our training may also help keep certain things on track -- in life, work, home, etc.
Yahweh will provide. I'm a witness to that! Peace & Blessings ✌.
Jah know star mi feel it. I am currently 34 and I'm not yet married nor do I have any children. Not that I don't want kids but I've seen parents struggle to ensure their kids get the best out of life and unfortunately when they get old they turn their backs on you or even worst take their parents life. 😢
Theodora Green just make sure you are ready for that journey
It takes a king to raise a king and it comes with rules and discipline
SouFlo hush mi feel it fi u mi see how u love up all ure kids dem their mother sounds like a nut case she don’t want any of the kids she is using dem to get back at u for some bad mind reason because she see u a do good in ure lives kids sometimes don’t think as parent u want the best for them SouFlo just be strong and think about the life u made for u and the fam keep the faith
Ann-Marie Cupidon-Richards you hit the nail on the head and I wish her all the Good in the world, blessings
That's very true,they say your family will bring you down faster then a stranger.
So so sorry souflo I see u r a handsome man n u have been a stability in my life I grow every time I listen to n read ur blog. Most of them cover subjects that I like n I'm interested in. Ur clarification on subjects that matters r brilliant. I'll need u to pls ans the request on fb until u call. Congrats on ur accomplishments n how much u have advanced so proud of u. XOXO say hellow to ur entire family n big up Brains CONGRATS on her pregnancy hopin for a bouncing baby boy that will make her so pure n true lots a work lol keep well we will talk. Donna
drewmarethify link me on Instagram or Whatsapp so I can fulfill your request. Blessings family and Brains is well
Keep ur head up bro u do z best u can leave the rest to z father e got ur back
Donovan Sharpe up
U need to b careful, that she doesn't bring drugs, & plant it in ur home, & then she goes & tells the police that u r pushing drugs.
You are right , anything is possible when dealing with some one like this
Don't stress yourself in them just keep doing what you doing as long as you know you did the right thing don't worry about it everything will turn out right at the end everything will fix itself it'll be better it'll get better you'll see
Souflo send him back to his mom and watch and see how quick he will run back to you once he learn his mom cannot teach him how to be a man.
TruthSeeker1Ty I couldn't do it
TruthSeeker1Ty true. But he’ll also see that she’s not who he thinks she is.
I have a personal friend Souflotv that did 2 terms. That shit was rough when he came home the last time. But I know for a fact that can handle this small adversity. Which is a strengthening, only advancing you for the future. More health and strength.
Soul Flo I are one of the very few bloggers that I listen to. I rate your honesty and how true to life your situations are . It’s amazing the things our children do and how they try to play us . I think you are great dad and the kids know that too . Things will get better
Typo u are one of the very few
carmen powell faith and hard work
SouFLoTV : AMEN ! Been there and done that too. I'm a Veteran as well. Faith without Works is dead. Keep up the great work with your family 🙏.
Souflotv hold your head up and be strong cause you are a good parent and I understand what you are going through and don't blame yourself for others hurtful actions. You did not do anything wrong.
This so interesting wow I can’t believe that you went through all this. You are a strong and great man and you will be alright and you are alright. Stay bless
Constant Abadeen The battle is real but we are warriors, bless up fam
Humble blessings to you and your family.what your saying is fact not by yourself I agree when you lie you could never look at your child again what else will they do to destroy your family thank you for sharing.
Many of us men have a familiar experience keep up the positive works souflo !!!!!!
Soulflo I admire your hard work and determination to give the best to your youth or should I say your family .
Never give up on your child. He will eventually see the light be there for him
Rita Robinson i will as its my duty, thanks for the support and good advice
True so true I had something similar done to me, my son and I are now the best of friends and he now hate his mother and he and I are best friends now, it is important that you keep a log-book with notes of dates and times of what has been said and to who or even secret recordings with a USB stick you can buy them for less than $20 now off the inter-net these days, or better still use your mobile phone then transfer the Audio files to a computer at home, or even transfer it to a memory stick and hide it in a secret and safe place, many guise are doing this now when they are communicating with a BLACK-WOMAN on even being Inter-met with one because what you did or did not do or say today can bite you in the A$$ years later........ Remember a BLACK-MAN is always guilty if he cannot proves he is innocent......
Yo my baby mama try get me out too bro just keep doing good to her she will always need you before you need her God naah sleep souflo in time you will be rewarded by the almighty speaking from experience
Sorry to hear of your situation with your son and his mother. Stay strong brother. God bless.
LadyHp
Keep ya head up soulflo. Not all civilians have civilian mentalities. I had a prejudgmental lack of respect for Jamaicans before watching your channel. You made me see Jamaicans in a different light despite all of my negative experiences. Keep doing what you do, I can tell you're a good decent dude.
This is touching, keep up your good work...peace.
Souflo i being there we no it ...never trust anyone ....
I was STRICT but they are independent young adults today...my youngest is "Eagle the Comedian" TH-cam him. You are a great parent, NOT their friend! Blessings!
Much respect, always love and treasure your children, but anything or anyone, (example your ex.) that threatens your happiness and well-being, release them and stay far away as possible. Stay strong!
I fulljoyed this video big up yuhself SOUFLO
Jah knw star mi feel it fi u mi boss
Wilton Blagrove so it go still is life
Stay strong and be safe ok God bless u
Nicole Dyer thank you, bless up
I'm happy u r sharing I notice u some yrs back n the only reason I watched n read any of ur comments on particular issues bc u shared n explained all the issues. The issues r real ones n I'm commending u on ur bravery, the love n understand u shared throughout ur program with ur children, ur work n ur hardships in life. I understand n can relate to ur to the problem u have with not wanting to b a civilian again my son started when he was 17yrs fresh ou of HS if I ever get to meet u n Brains I'll tell u the rest of his yrs. I'm giving u this information bc I want u to continue been the strongest human being possible for u, the children n ur family. I see u r very much intelligent n u r not stuck n fictions u r dealing with real life experiences. We're r also here to help each other if u ever needed a characters refrenced hit me up I'll do u justice. I need u indulge urself into work n get the best layer u can get to clear ur name. Don't figh for him to b back in ur presence fight for ur name. Sad that I said that well u can't fight for someone who doesn't want to b with u it would b a waste of money n ur heart string pull out bc he's so bitter against u n may b his younger siblings. U need to get some healing. I see u work with Brains I believe she is a very strong, talented, intelligent n a beautiful young woman I love the chemistry between both of u. After the court n the n if u maintain custody only then u get together with him to repair his life n ur relationship with him.
All the best warriors 🥇🥈🥉🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲. Jah Guide⭐️🐘⭐️🐘⭐️
I hear the pain in your voice be strong you're a good dad
God bless you, Soulflo, stay strong and keep the faith
Soulflo I have similar problem with my 15 years old son just be wise bro
KENRICK HIGGINS all we can do is be good to our children and champion their cause without disrespecting their other parent. End of the day, the child will grow to realize what is and who is what. Bless up
sorry to hear that bro you said it man, it no easy black woman is like that, i do hope he is a better boy by now since you upload this video. be strong bro do your thing and you will be fine. peace and love dear brother.
You should have not let her stay at your house. She is x. Anyway, train up your child in the way they should grow. One day he will thank you for being a good father.
Ann Gor why should I not have let her stay at my house?
soufllo your child has to see this for his self that his mother doesn't really want him. please keep the door open for him. just like you said all that he is doing is to be placed with his mom. Once he sees the light he will be beyond broken hearted be there to mend it. You won't regret it.
Rita Robinson you are absolutely right and so things have played out. I continue to pray for great strength to continue to do what is required to keep my children together and to raise them with stability and discipline.
Stay strong. I know how you feel. You may want to let him go be with her for a little while so you can get your thoughts and heart together.
you should take her to court for child support.Let she take him and see what would happen.He do not want to be with you because you are too strict.His mom is the one who is putting things in his head.SEND HIM BACK TO HIS MOTHER.Let the police listen to the words of the song.Sorry my friend, i have been there before.you will be ok, god is good.He is going to regret it. Keep her far away from you.She is JEALOUS .Don't feel bad you are doing the right thing.
I know how you feel I am going through my own drama.
Damali McLean you will be ok as long as your intentions are good
SouFLoTV I definitely will be because progress means to move forward no matter what tries to hold you back.
- he wants to have his own way-- and he is doing things to keep you and his mother from exchanging information.
I was once on that road god will help you
Everybody have their problem trust me
Jenjen Sawyer facts
You're a good man.
Keep the faith
Damn mi general a dat a gwaan long time mi nuh send a text.. So sorry about the situation.. Keep yo head up get a good lawyer and defend yourself don't let nobody get the best of you.. You work too hard bro. I just got through the same issue. I did exactly what you did and still with her for the sake of my kids because I need to see my kids everyday. Still love your son but let him lay in the bed he makes. Stay strong yo kno how.. One love..
UpFull Man still with her just for the kids sake? Hmmm, that's a topic worth discussing. Big up and bless up
- I want you to know Children are very smart, tricky and set parents against each other ( sometimes)
I know this is old but it not his fault his mother put him up to that. Do you still have them.
Constant Abadeen yes I still have them, over 7 years now.
you are absolutely doing the right thing brother good luck in raising your children the correct way stay strong don't give up on your son at 13 he is still young perhaps he will realize that he is on the road to prison or the cemetary good luck to you young brother Jah bless
Ok, well there are 3 sides to every story. Hers, yours and the truth. You sound like such a gentle person and I hope you don’t give up on your son as my guess is his mum is the main culprit here. Yes children are manipulative if they don’t get there own way but if his mother was worth a DAMN she wouldn’t coerce the child into this situation. Keep your head up. Remember to pray and ask for clarity in this situation. Take care.
Keep strong no matter what children do children will be children some will talk some won't talk to you about how they really feel you know that's just people in general child or an adult both ways it goes on and
Sorry to hear bro but been through something like that before taking care of my children far 11 years paying their rent putting food on their table taking them to school have someone pick them up from school take home i done my best for them gave them everything y.all could think of until she takes me to court telling the court that she doesn't know where i am when im one who been taken care of her and the kids when the day of the court she as nothing to show of how she been taken care of herself that's just to show y.all how some people really are unGodly heartless wicked evil minded ungrateful💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Timothy Black yes pure wicked but God is real and Karma is very real
My brother I know what you are going through. Just let common sense prevail. It's a means of getting money off you through your son. Don't blame yourself it's a learning experience. Jah guide.
Mr. SoulFlo.... STAY STRONG BROTHER... I hope and pray since the making of this video, things have changed for the better.. You are SO right about LOYALTY, it IS a fantasy.. Especially in today's society .There was an ex that left me for another man,and I am SO THANKFUL we didn't have a child. She came close though... May Almighty God continue to give you the courage to be what SO MANY children (ESPECIALLY BOYS) NEED in their life, A REAL FATHER....PEACE AND BLESSINGS.....
WE LIVE IN AN AGE WHERE PEOPLE DISPLAY POOR CHARACTER, ON PURPOSE AND WE REFUSE TO LEARN THE RED FLAGS. ANYHOW, WE CHOOSE THESE TYPE OF PEOPLE. WE LEARN AND MOVE ON. REMAIN STRONG AND LOOK AT CHARACTER, BEHAVIOR, BECAUSE THE MOUTH WILL SAY ANYTHING. BLESSINGS TO YOU
Dont lose faith, your son is at a cross rods he feel like a Man now but is still a chid dont guve up commuication is the Key in all thing.
Hi Soflo, Blessings and continue to be the BEST DISCIPLINARY FATHER THAT YOU YOURSELF WAS TAUGHT TO BE. I CAN SEE THAT YOU WERE HURT DEEP INSIDE, YOU HAVE DONE YOUR PART TO BE GOOD FATHER, ROLE MODEL, AND MENTOR, NOT FOR YOURS ALONE, BUT BY EVEN YOUR CHANNEL, FURTHER ALONG YOUR CHILD WILL BE SORRY FOR THE MISTAKES HE MAKES, BUT I HOPE GOD HELPS HIM TO HALL AND PULL UP AND BE WISE IN TIME, THAT IS LIFE MAKES A GOOD AND VERY POSITIVE OUTCOME.BE STRONG CONTINUALY, BE ENCOURAGED AND BE BLESSED MY SON.(PEACE AND LOVE TO YOU ALWAYS)👊 I WISH WHEN I WAS GROWING MY CHILDREN BACK IN JAMAICA THEY HAD FATHER WITH THE MINDSET AND COMMITMENT LIKE YOU .
good is going to conquer evil but you live and you learn +souflotv
+Jack King very true and i hold firm to that
SouFLoTV true big man
- he wants to be with the parent who will give him his own way
Keep ya head up homie!
LuxureousProduction thanks for the support family, by the way, what happened to your camera and all your equipment, you need to get your channel popping and we need to get back to the videos and heavy promo,
***** oh boy, i know how that goes, i have a good camera now, im actually putting together a few short film projects, one is almost done, will need actors
30 minute to 1 hour short films, we can discuss that off FB, DONT want to give away too much
Shes gonna b sorry she ever did that u will c so will he
Soflo I identify with everything u saying because the same thing happened to me gave my 2 girls everything I could work a great job and give thing all the trappings young kids need and what they do run after there street father and act ungreatfu and turn against me to try because I discipline them and keep them on track
Be happy you have access because for the past 7 years My xwife cut me off from my 1st son, I dont even know if he is dead or alive. And they are members of the SDA Church.
Stephen Williams for 7 years??? Nooooo you need to show up
Im not sure what you mean.
I fill u same thing i go true w my stepson
thats why we have to be careful who we procreate with..wonder how things are going now?
Nik G yes we have to be careful who we procreate with. How things are going now? Well, my children still live in my house and they are still struggling to adjust to certain things, growing etc but doing ok
SouFLoTV trust me. i know all too well..but they are here for a reason and purpose right? much respect soulflo. nothin easy about being a parent. especially with teens..one day they will understand..i pray guidance, positivity, peace and direction for you. bless up!
hold it up champ
I’m not sure what is going on these days. Before parents whether they’re together or not they work together for the good of the children anymore. Your Ex is selfish but your son will learn soon enough. Parents whether male or female have been trying to put kids against each other and fail to understand that they’re hurting the kids. God will work it out for you. Only good salvation last, this too shall past. My oldest son is going though what you’re going though. Hate is real
God bless yo bredda
chunk star spibaz whats app 18765542886 bless up fam
Pray to the Most High an ask Him to guide you in finding a way to commuicate with your son he may not no it no but this is the time your Son needs you most
This what mi kid's Fadda n I Ae do ta discipline r children. Take him video gamez awai also ua not have ta spend all that money fa him activities. Basic necessities Iz all him due fa when him being rebellious. I'm serious. Sum children gets spoiled and very ungrateful. Remember ua not want him ta teach ya odda children wrong send him back to him Madda. Thatz what him wantz. Let him see how struggle really Iz. Sum timez children need reality ✓
The potential enemy in your home.i gues in these case's dem usually think its pleasant outa rome🎼
Yes! They want to buss their heads when they reach 18...SMH
Don't give up on him, he his a teenager. Keep trying with him and don't get salty. The mom is the issue.
Wow I feel your pain that is messed up that is wrong what she did but you know what don't worry about it don't stress yourself about it karma is a mother and you know what he's going to wish he never did that you know you do your best to take care of your kids and then they turn around and do something like that cuz they feel like it's better he want to go be with his mom he's going to regret that that's what he wants let him go he going to regret that he going to wish she never said that that's what usually happens when people do things like that and for all you know she probably putting something in his head who knows they got some women that's wicked like that
That's AWFUL! Can't disipline them, but they'll come get them in a heartbeat! She's a freaking idiot! However she will REGRET it for sure! #Craziness! WTF?
Be strong! What's wrong with people tho?!🤔
It's now Nov 2017...i truly wish u well ....how are things at the present moment.....stay blessed
damnn all that you do for she and she a treat you smdh. well well. sorry fi mawgah dawgg +souflotv
+Jack King mi a tell yuh,
SouFLoTV @ TH-cam just keep doing what you have to do for your youth
Jack King every time bredda, every time
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Listen to mom knows best. She shouldn't stay at our house.
Do yourself a good thing..
Look at your son as a little child who does not have the maturity level.
So true
BarzzzzzzzZ🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✌️
ur a good geezer souflo x
Just hold the faith . Time is longer than rop .
Leave him to the dogs , you have more. Not all children is good or should be a live . 12 years old 25 to life
“ Sorry fi mauga dogs, them turn round bite you.”
9:40 you wilding, i figured that out from the beginning. But they aint the only ones though. Fast forward to today how is that relationship?
true talk
Its hard to raise kids now.. Peer pressure etc. U not the only one.. Growing pains ..they actually not in their right minds... All that media crap dont help either. Try doing one on one time with him just dad and son. Dont be too strict.. These are hard times.
Blessings
A RealMeds
Sofo wnen u sorry for dog they turn and bite u keep the faith mon