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Mr Bailey, can you do a video about the importance of you and your spouse sharing the same values? I think thats very overlooked sometimes in relationships
I started learning calligraphy about 5 years ago I say learn because we can never know anything and never be perfect, all we ever do is practice. Writing with a fountain pen or a quill tip is very diffident for how we are used to writing. Barnes and Noble actually has a pretty good selection of not only pens, but quill tips, ink, paper, and an assortment of books for the beginner. Any fountain pen under $20 bucks is a good place to start. Most of them use an ink cartridge, so you want to make sure that you can easily find cartridges for the pen you purchase. There are pads of calligraphy paper. I find that any heavier stock paper works fine, basically anything over heavier than regular lined paper. Breaking pens is going to happen, breaking tips is going to happen, and making a huge mess is going to happen. There are lots of videos online to help the beginner. I hope this helps to get you started.
When I listen to your videos, I feel like you must know me as you seem to be hitting topics that are really important to me, and answer most of my questions! Thanks! - John
Hello George. Just recently discovered your channel on TH-cam. Excellent. My name is Bill, I presently live in Staten Island NY though I grew up in central N.J. I got started watching you over pipe smoking, I've been a pipe smoker and tobacco enthusiest for 47 years. I'm 57 y/o now, how can this be? It's an interesting story, just want to make sure you get this. I don't do Facebook or any of the other social media things, by choice. Write me back at billy07325@gmail.com. Look forward to hearing from you. Happy Holidays
Good question. The truth is there's just not that many good quality women out there these days. Many women are to busy on career and student loan repayment.etc etc.
women very often write on their tinder profile: if I don't answer, write me on insta. I thought "okay, maybe insta has a better messenger. Makes sense." Today I was liked by a younger girl who didn't have a so sophisticated approach. She wrote "Write on insta. *It's your fault if you don't follow on insta*." I instantly though "Ok. She is only interested in me as a follower NOT AS A PERSON." I now believe it is always the case with these insta girls.
As someone that didn't grew up with a proper male figure in his life, I really apreciate this, and I wish I found this back in my formative years... I guess it's never too late, but still, this would've been great for younger, insecure me. Thank you, man. Keep doing what you doing. And to the people watching, recommend this channel to young males that lack a proper masculine rolemodel in their life.
I've been reading this sort of comment a lot, 'raised by a woman'. If your mom was kind to you and did right by you the best she could, don't forget to value her, while getting the information that you need now. I am not a single mother myself so this isn't about me protecting my ego; it's about remembering to honour your mom if she was good to you the best she knew how. If she wasn't, then it's vital to move on and not allow yourself to become bitter; that's what forgiveness means, letting go, not allowing yourself to continue getting hurt, and letting go, so you can be the best you that you can be. Peace. :)
It’s always easier for a person to say things like that when you haven’t gone through it............it’s not a one & done process. It takes time. Often a lifetime for some people who’ve been scarred long enough by bad parenting. I’m not saying my mom is the worst human being walking this planet, but - in her prime - she definitely wasn’t deserving of mother of the year either. You don’t automatically get honor in my eyes as a parent just because you decided to have children. My mother taught me good values, but she also taught me things that I despise about my bloodline that I’m fixing to change. One of those things is fixing the beta mentality that was groomed into me from a young age, not disliking myself for looking like a man she decided to lay with. Only now when she’s getting up there in age & needs me more than ever does she now want to make amends for all the wrongs she’s done to her children. I agree with you on one thing though, letting go is important. That’s the reason I continue to try & be a better person than I was yesterday.
"Never give a 2nd chance to people who disrespect you." Great advice, good lesson for dating, good lesson for life. And you're right, being the rebound guy sucks. Been there once or twice, and will never do so again.
Personally I don't think the question should be gendered, but rather; The one that wants something should compete to get it. Whether it is a future partner or a thing. And that is something women lack.
Sparkyjohan my point is that if your not a prize, no one will compete for you. Men should strive for greatness, to be a prize worth competing for. In this day and age, a woman who is competent in homemaking is a prize worth competing for, while a woman Who trades on her appearance will have diminishing returns. The same can be said for men but with different attributes and skills. Make yourself a prize worth competing for.
"Listen to the old dogs" cannot be an understatement. With age comes experience and with experience comes wisdom. I appreciate your true self content and you are the definition of a gentleman.
“He stopped loving her today” is still what I’ll probably have carved on my tombstone. Great song for an abandoned husband after 35 years together. I love Alan Jackson’s version. But your lessons are helping me, George, and I thank you sincerely. I’m beginning to see reality as it is and not as I wish it to be.
This man knows what he is talking about. I am of the slightly older generation . Every thing the sultan said I have gone through . We all learn with the education from men that have been there before .
So very true, ,I have been through those things you mentioned and could have done with a youtube channel like yours back in the day, I'm 62 now and bit more wiser but could have done with avoiding the pit falls the Sultan has explained, Any of you young men looking at this, He tells the truth and will more than likely help you avoid a lot of pitfalls with dating, I salute you sir and keep up the good work.
I’m 62 also and was thinking the exact same thing. If this information had been available in the 80’s it would have saved me a tremendous amount of time and heartache.
Regarding relationships with women, remember just one thing men: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. It really is that damn simple, jf you think with the organ inside your skull.
Gray I love your videos. I never had a male figure to get advice about girls, life and random stuff from as I was growing up. I wasn’t very close with my dad growing up and he never really told me about these things. I love hearing about all these things and I hope to see more videos.
Thank you George! I wished I had someone to talk to about this stuff. I'd never heard of a transitional guy but then I've never been intimate with a woman until this year at nearly 30. Put simply it's gutted me. I didn't know what heart ache was until now and we weren't even dating... just best friends with some benefits. 1) She started getting REALLY into me and we messed around after she separated from husband. 2) She began secretly seeing this other guy and lied about it to me. 3) She swore he was a loser and told him off for good as she got back with her husband. 4) Then she went BACK to loser after a permanent split from husband. 5) A few months after this she suddenly came back around to my depressed ass and things got really hot for about a month. I thought I'd gone to heaven. Without notice she was off like a light switch back to loser guy and has been there since. Due to circumstances I knew that we could never officially be together but that doesn't mean my heart didn't want it anyway. But to care for somebody that you've grown close to, find out that it's mutual, and then get this person ripped away twice in the same manner is almost too much. Insanity, depression, and dark thoughts don't even cover how I've been this year. Literally went from the best to the worst time of my life...twice.
The sad part is I'm still depressed, see her multiple times at work, and if she left her current situation I'd get suckered into my emotions with her yet again.
@@JV-tk9yn Hey, I know of those weak moments. I can only offer an advice. Do not talk to her for some time. It might not be true but for some time act like you deserve better companion than her and if you two get into a relationship you would be at a loss.
@@JV-tk9yn You're being her emotional pillow. She's not the real deal for you. The woman who's worth it will care about and appreciate you, as her man.
@@mulapare2593 You're right, I was her emotional tampon for so long. It's weird how a woman would claim to have feelings for a guy who becomes her chat buddy and confidante. Usually they get put in the friendzone, which I did, eventually...or more like the stay here until I feel horny, bored, lonely, or have relationship troubles zone. I've never had a girlfriend or even close, so this was me getting to experience what most do in junior high or younger except as a full grown man. It's pathetic. I'm hoping to meet women with school and new work this fall.
Start talking to other women ASAP. Talk to as many as you can meet. When heartbreaker contacts you, wait 1-2days then contact her back that you’re busy. Unless it is guaranteed sex, then meet up at your convenience. You’re not a priority in her life, don’t make her a priority in yours.
I think Bonham had the biggest musical influence - his placement of syncopated kick and snare interacting with guitar riff rhythms was monumental and speaks to the way all modern drummers play.
You said a transition relationship in the long term is rare. We are both coming off divorce. It sure feels right to me. If not stoicism to the rescue. I can’t say I haven’t been warned
Thank you for your time and energy. You’ve joined the ranks of my many online mentors. A cell in the digital surrogate father avatar that replaced my absent one. Thank you.
I grew up a mama's boy with two older sisters. Dad was always out of town on business. I was set up for failure as far as dating women not by their fault. Glad to find this channel.
I'm in an exhausting situation right now with a woman who is living with me (and on the verge of leaving), who I've known for over 45 years (since she was 16, she's now 63). 15 years ago we were married for two years before she left me, that's a story for another time. 7-8 years ago she became disabled and called me to ask, (playing the sympathy card), if I could give her a place to live without her having to pay too much because she was on disability and couldn't support herself any longer. My first, and biggest mistake was falling for the "sympathy card" that she played and saying yes. As George has said in the past, "Never invite misery into your life". Fast forward to present, I'm 6 months away from retiring from my current career and moving down south, she is NOT coming with me, she will return to the Philadelphia area to be around her children (who she is also somewhat estranged from) and grandchildren. I'm sending her your way George, steer clear, lol. I have finally woken up and realized that she is not interested in an Alpha male, she wants a pliable/Beta male if any male at all. She has continually made me feel as if there was something wrong with me and even suggested I seek out some sort of anger management advice because of the way I act when we get into an argument. No, I do not and have never been physical with her, but yes, I have been very loud with her during some of our arguments or disagreements. I don't know, something inside of me simply refuses to be apologetic for being and acting like an alpha male. I guess it's just in my DNA. Needless to say these last six months before it's all said and done are going to be very stressful. All of her "things" are still here even though she packed a bag and left 3-4 nights ago during an argument. We just started texting earlier tonight trying to get each others points across to each other to no avail. I know this situation needs to calm down some if for no other reason than she still needs to get her things out of the house and I still need to live here until the spring. It's just fucking exhausting. Sorry for the rant.
@steven roscoe Your absolutely right, they were bad decisions on my part based on emotions rather than logic. Things have calmed down now between the two of us and she has been gone for two months. I think what pissed me off was how she started acting after she moved in with me, she started acting as though we were still married, again, my fault for letting her continue to think and act that way. The entire decision to allow her to move in with me in the first place was a bad one, I guess I just didn't want to feel like a shit if I had said "no, sorry, I can't help you" when she first asked, lesson learned.
@steven roscoe Good idea, although at 65 years old I never thought I would be in a situation like this again, plus, in my situation, I work 12 hour nights and sleep days and live in a state that I was not born in, I don't have any "friends" to speak of, I've had to pretty much turn myself into a hermit to survive working these 12 hour night shifts. I just can't wait to retire in 6 months and move, so I can work on getting a "real" life back. Thanks for your advice.
My advice to you go get some boxes. Pack up the rest of her shit, find out where she is and drop it off there ~ nice guy approach. Alpha Approach ~ call her up and let her know she can pick up her stuff tonight but in the morning you will be dropping it off at Salvation Army/ thrift store. You are not an independent storage unit and if it was the other way around the woman would sell what she could and trash the rest
Your whole mentality is seen by your posture by your physique by your skin your eyes your feet how you walk ,your hair every fucking thing is representing who you are inside.To the wise eye a man can understand and calibrate any human being by just a single glance.
I just ran into this channel. And I enjoy it.! It was a foggy cold morning watching TH-cam,From what I understand this is some type a mature person’s men’s health show. I like it
Man Goerge u hit it right on the head most women just looking for weather u look lie the type they can use or what ever. Good information George once again you on point keep it up hope your work.
I do love fountain pens yourself. I'm not quite sure what the attraction is but it's just so much more satisfying than using a normal pen. Starting cheap works well just so you can get used to writing with one (get one that uses standard cartridges). Eventually you can transition to using better ones and buying pots of ink that you can use to refill the pens yourself.
Hey Sultan - I stay away from the dating game , I'd rather focus on improving myself , I put my spare time into doing what I enjoy i.e playing guitar , gym , going to watch my football (soccer) team every weekend with my Dad. I'm not prepared to chase women , If the Good Lord wants me to have a beautiful wife then it will happen at His will , not mine, If you can control your flesh ( carnal urges) , then life will become so much more simple.
You're awesome Gray thanks for another solid video. Pipe smoking is one of my favorite past times and the relationship advice that you provide is real and effective. Thanks a lot
I've been watching your carnivore videos. Love them! This one is interesting; didn't know you were doing videos about dating. I stopped on-line dating. The men I met were always trying to compare me to what their idea of what a woman should be. Everyone has their preferences, which is fine...but some would comment on my un-painted nails and suggest I should paint them. Some would talk about breast implants on our date. I mean, really??? My breasts are nice. I think the internet and media has been contributory to unrealistic expectations about what is "normal" in a relationship and what is normal in sex. I am a very young looking 56-year old female who is single and fit, now that I went keto, I look really good. I find most men my age are looking for women 20 years younger. So women in my age range are left behind. It is sad and I have much love to offer, but find very shallow mentality when it comes to men. Most of the women I know who are married, their husbands expect the house to be cleaned, the food to be made, and income from her as well as sex as often as they like. After seeing what they go through (and I was married for 22 years) I am happy that I am independent and do not have someone demanding things from me and pressuring me to "take care of all their needs" when my needs are ignored. I think it a cultural thing and an age thing. Maybe the younger men have less expectations for their women. I would love to have a wonderful man in my life, who is a conscious caring loving individual, who thinks about his woman too, not just about himself. Because I am a giver, and love to show my man that I care, I hope that I can find a man some day, who can reciprocate; that would be a great match :-)
If it's any consolation some of those men who are seeking a woman 20 years younger will realize in by their 60's, when some begin losing their hard-ons, that they cannot completely satisfy and keep up with a woman 20 years younger as they age. (Yes, there is oral, etc. BUT...let's be honest...) Now not every man has an erectile issue, but pure medical statistics show that about 1 in 2 do end up with some issues (due to their crappy diet and ensuing health problems) and a woman 20 years younger may not be as understanding when she could easily go bang some 30/40's year old man who can go 3 times in one night and has the stamina to keep up if/when wanted. I'm 44 and seeking a life companion as well, but I still need someone who can be an energetic match sexually and a 60-year old may not be able to, nor would I be interested in anyone over 55 max. tbh. Anyway, glad I found this channel, as the Sultan seems quite fair in many of his assessments of both sexes.
When I was younger my friend had a gf and he treated her like shit in my opinion. She was a friend of mine, so I told him he should treat her better as a suggestion. He agreed and within a few months, she turned it around and treated him like her bitch. The problem was is he was one way. Then he switched his behaviors and it made him look vulnerable and weak. I have no doubt if he hadnt followed my advice she would still be with him. I was taught to treat women right. I don't know what right is anymore. I know that women don't want a pet. They want to be the pet
I know you stay away from carbs. But a daily dose of natural raw local honey will prevent seasonal allergies. Just a small dose with coffee or green tea. I put it in my oatmeal each day. No allergies now for 3 years.
David Simpson I heard the same advice about local honey 🍯 so I tried it I added honey to my coffee and my protein shakes. I still have allergies it it never stopped me from using honey 🍯 I love the natural sweetener ❤️
Raw local honey changed my life. I teach and run a side business repairing/servicing pools. Seasonal allergies would knock me down and out sometimes. The raw local honey eliminated my seasonal allergies challenges.
Wow you’re good, very inspiring conversation it’s like you’re looking me straight in the face and telling me what I’ve been doing years ago but I’m completely different now I’m learning more and more from coaches like you thanks a lot
Just had my first transition GF... fuck was it a 2 month ride. Drop dead gorgeous, tons of baggage, amazing sexual chemistry, 100% toxic. Stoicism has kept my emotions at bay and brush this off.
Of those choices....John Bonham as he’s unique in his following the guitarist more than the bassist. CW is steady and solid. Peart is a technical master. Bonham is groovier without sacrificing power. In fact, he IS the Hammer of the Gods!
12:20 ( video time )Thank you so much for saying it twice.I'm a newer viewer and just went through this with a woman and we were together for 8 months and Never saw it coming,not for one second. Something didn't feel right and I even asked her if "we were good"...she said "yes"...We had both agreed to hide our dating profiles but I had to check and there she was with a private picture she sent. I wasn't given a reason just that she "should have done things different" and the "apology" she gave me sounded like a forum letter she would send clients after their insurance claim wasn't approved..she is in that profession. I was hurt,then mad and then hurt again because I missed her even though she messed around on me and then pissed off with myself for feeling that way.She said she had only messaged men but no sex..I know B/S....Thanks George for all your help and getting me to pull my head out of my butt on this one,I mean it...Will have to come down there to PA one day for a cut and beard care. All the best and hope you have a good day tomorrow...Ken London Ontario ( hope you didn't spit out any coffee while laughing at this one) ;)
I NEVER UNDERSTOOD THE AMERICAN CONCEPT OF DATING ( AS FAR AS I UNDERSTOOD IT), I.E. HOOKING UP WITH SEVERAL PEOPLE AND POSSIBLY ENDING UP WITH SOMEONE YOU LIKE THE MOST OUT OF THE BUNCH...HERE IN GERMANY IT IS RATHER THAT YOU MEET SOMEONE YOU LIKE, GO OUT WITH THEM, AND IF THE CHEMISTRY IS RIGHT, START A RELATIONSHIP...SOMETIMES THEY ARE SHORT, SOMETIMES THEY END UP IN MARRIAGE, BUT THE IDEA OF HAVING MULTIPLE SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS, MORE OR LESS, PARALLEL WITH SEVERAL PEOPLE BEFORE YOU DECIDE WHO IS BEST FOR YOU, SEEMS TO BE A RECIPE FOR DESASTER...IF WOMAN WOULD TELL ME, THAT SHE HOOKED UP WITH OTHER DUDES, IN THE SAME TIME FRAME THAT SHE WAS WITH ME ( BUT IN THE END SHE LIKED ME BEST), SHE SURELY COULD KEEP ON FUCKING THEM DUDES, NOT ME..BUT THEN AGAIN, I AM NOT AMERICAN!
I have a beard a lot of tattoos and am wearing a flannel right now and funnny thing is you have a beard, flannel on and tattoos as well that comment at the end about it had me dying Sultan.
George aka Sultan Hemingway... Thanks Sir Bruno, wish I ran into your stuff sooner, I was that transition guy and got my heart ripped out my asshole... Everything you say is the Raw Truth...
Don't go off the deep in, just adopt stoicism. Hope you're doing alright. Damn shame your friend couldn't find a way out of his mental anguish. Cheers!
I’m having the time of my life dating and experimenting. I enjoy it when there’s good conversation, chemistry, and fun. It is a challenge and game. It’s a mind game. With physical, and at times, emotional consequences good or bad. So much of what you say I’ve experienced by trial and error.
You give really good advice and to be honest with you im 14 years old gonna be 15 in a couple of months and just bt watching some videos off your channel really makes me think about things and helps me so thank you👌👍
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Mr Bailey, can you do a video about the importance of you and your spouse sharing the same values? I think thats very overlooked sometimes in relationships
This is amazing advice.
I started learning calligraphy about 5 years ago I say learn because we can never know anything and never be perfect, all we ever do is practice. Writing with a fountain pen or a quill tip is very diffident for how we are used to writing. Barnes and Noble actually has a pretty good selection of not only pens, but quill tips, ink, paper, and an assortment of books for the beginner. Any fountain pen under $20 bucks is a good place to start. Most of them use an ink cartridge, so you want to make sure that you can easily find cartridges for the pen you purchase. There are pads of calligraphy paper. I find that any heavier stock paper works fine, basically anything over heavier than regular lined paper. Breaking pens is going to happen, breaking tips is going to happen, and making a huge mess is going to happen. There are lots of videos online to help the beginner. I hope this helps to get you started.
When I listen to your videos, I feel like you must know me as you seem to be hitting topics that are really important to me, and answer most of my questions! Thanks! - John
Hello George. Just recently discovered your channel on TH-cam. Excellent. My name is Bill, I presently live in Staten Island NY though I grew up in central N.J. I got started watching you over pipe smoking, I've been a pipe smoker and tobacco enthusiest for 47 years. I'm 57 y/o now, how can this be? It's an interesting story, just want to make sure you get this. I don't do Facebook or any of the other social media things, by choice. Write me back at billy07325@gmail.com. Look forward to hearing from you. Happy Holidays
My advice. Stay off of tinder, or bumble or match, all dating sites in general. Dating sites are a woman's paradise and a mans unfortunate reality.
OK but where does a 37 year old man meet someone? It seems everyone is taken.
Good question. The truth is there's just not that many good quality women out there these days. Many women are to busy on career and student loan repayment.etc etc.
women very often write on their tinder profile: if I don't answer, write me on insta. I thought "okay, maybe insta has a better messenger. Makes sense." Today I was liked by a younger girl who didn't have a so sophisticated approach. She wrote "Write on insta. *It's your fault if you don't follow on insta*." I instantly though "Ok. She is only interested in me as a follower NOT AS A PERSON." I now believe it is always the case with these insta girls.
@@blueaardvark1717 get out and do stuff.volunteer at a hiking club,biking club.Network.
@@blueaardvark1717 date with intention.have standards on the type of woman you want.dont get physical .
This is the most red pilled content out right now. Every episode is full of back to back truth bombs.
Spoiler: The secret to the vortex method is stirring with chopsticks as it is the only way to optimize the flavour on the molecular level.
wheelzwheela add a pad of butter to your coffee it makes the flavor of the coffee much better
Yes I love that “you don’t give second chance to people who treat you like shit”
"You don't give 2nd chances to people who treat you like shit and don''t give you the proper respect that you deserve."
AMEN BROTHER !!!!
As someone that didn't grew up with a proper male figure in his life, I really apreciate this, and I wish I found this back in my formative years... I guess it's never too late, but still, this would've been great for younger, insecure me. Thank you, man. Keep doing what you doing.
And to the people watching, recommend this channel to young males that lack a proper masculine rolemodel in their life.
I'm with you. Never had a Dad to teach me man things, had to figure stuff out on my own the hard way.
I've been reading this sort of comment a lot, 'raised by a woman'. If your mom was kind to you and did right by you the best she could, don't forget to value her, while getting the information that you need now. I am not a single mother myself so this isn't about me protecting my ego; it's about remembering to honour your mom if she was good to you the best she knew how. If she wasn't, then it's vital to move on and not allow yourself to become bitter; that's what forgiveness means, letting go, not allowing yourself to continue getting hurt, and letting go, so you can be the best you that you can be. Peace. :)
I'm sorry yyxy that you had to go through losing you mom at such a young age. Happy New Year. :) God Bless.
It’s always easier for a person to say things like that when you haven’t gone through it............it’s not a one & done process. It takes time. Often a lifetime for some people who’ve been scarred long enough by bad parenting. I’m not saying my mom is the worst human being walking this planet, but - in her prime - she definitely wasn’t deserving of mother of the year either. You don’t automatically get honor in my eyes as a parent just because you decided to have children. My mother taught me good values, but she also taught me things that I despise about my bloodline that I’m fixing to change. One of those things is fixing the beta mentality that was groomed into me from a young age, not disliking myself for looking like a man she decided to lay with.
Only now when she’s getting up there in age & needs me more than ever does she now want to make amends for all the wrongs she’s done to her children.
I agree with you on one thing though, letting go is important. That’s the reason I continue to try & be a better person than I was yesterday.
truth
"Never give a 2nd chance to people who disrespect you."
Great advice, good lesson for dating, good lesson for life.
And you're right, being the rebound guy sucks. Been there once or twice, and will never do so again.
Women should compete for you not you competing for her.
Damn straight. They outnumber us apparently, why should we be the ones doing all the effort.
Personally I don't think the question should be gendered, but rather; The one that wants something should compete to get it. Whether it is a future partner or a thing. And that is something women lack.
Sparkyjohan my point is that if your not a prize, no one will compete for you. Men should strive for greatness, to be a prize worth competing for. In this day and age, a woman who is competent in homemaking is a prize worth competing for, while a woman
Who trades on her appearance will have diminishing returns. The same can be said for men but with different attributes and skills. Make yourself a prize worth competing for.
I one-up'ed this until my finger refused to function anymore.
Amen! Woman was created for man. Not, man for woman.
"Listen to the old dogs" cannot be an understatement. With age comes experience and with experience comes wisdom. I appreciate your true self content and you are the definition of a gentleman.
“He stopped loving her today” is still what I’ll probably have carved on my tombstone. Great song for an abandoned husband after 35 years together. I love Alan Jackson’s version. But your lessons are helping me, George, and I thank you sincerely. I’m beginning to see reality as it is and not as I wish it to be.
This man knows what he is talking about. I am of the slightly older generation . Every thing the sultan said I have gone through . We all learn with the education from men that have been there before .
So very true, ,I have been through those things you mentioned and could have done with a youtube channel like yours back in the day, I'm 62 now and bit more wiser but could have done with avoiding the pit falls the Sultan has explained, Any of you young men looking at this, He tells the truth and will more than likely help you avoid a lot of pitfalls with dating, I salute you sir and keep up the good work.
I’m 62 also and was thinking the exact same thing. If this information had been available in the 80’s it would have saved me a tremendous amount of time and heartache.
Regarding relationships with women, remember just one thing men: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. It really is that damn simple, jf you think with the organ inside your skull.
Gray I love your videos. I never had a male figure to get advice about girls, life and random stuff from as I was growing up. I wasn’t very close with my dad growing up and he never really told me about these things. I love hearing about all these things and I hope to see more videos.
Thanks Zac
I have left them there texting on the phone
Thank you George! I wished I had someone to talk to about this stuff. I'd never heard of a transitional guy but then I've never been intimate with a woman until this year at nearly 30. Put simply it's gutted me. I didn't know what heart ache was until now and we weren't even dating... just best friends with some benefits.
1) She started getting REALLY into me and we messed around after she separated from husband.
2) She began secretly seeing this other guy and lied about it to me.
3) She swore he was a loser and told him off for good as she got back with her husband.
4) Then she went BACK to loser after a permanent split from husband.
5) A few months after this she suddenly came back around to my depressed ass and things got really hot for about a month. I thought I'd gone to heaven. Without notice she was off like a light switch back to loser guy and has been there since.
Due to circumstances I knew that we could never officially be together but that doesn't mean my heart didn't want it anyway. But to care for somebody that you've grown close to, find out that it's mutual, and then get this person ripped away twice in the same manner is almost too much.
Insanity, depression, and dark thoughts don't even cover how I've been this year. Literally went from the best to the worst time of my life...twice.
The sad part is I'm still depressed, see her multiple times at work, and if she left her current situation I'd get suckered into my emotions with her yet again.
@@JV-tk9yn Hey, I know of those weak moments. I can only offer an advice. Do not talk to her for some time. It might not be true but for some time act like you deserve better companion than her and if you two get into a relationship you would be at a loss.
@@JV-tk9yn You're being her emotional pillow. She's not the real deal for you. The woman who's worth it will care about and appreciate you, as her man.
@@mulapare2593 You're right, I was her emotional tampon for so long. It's weird how a woman would claim to have feelings for a guy who becomes her chat buddy and confidante. Usually they get put in the friendzone, which I did, eventually...or more like the stay here until I feel horny, bored, lonely, or have relationship troubles zone.
I've never had a girlfriend or even close, so this was me getting to experience what most do in junior high or younger except as a full grown man. It's pathetic. I'm hoping to meet women with school and new work this fall.
Start talking to other women ASAP. Talk to as many as you can meet. When heartbreaker contacts you, wait 1-2days then contact her back that you’re busy. Unless it is guaranteed sex, then meet up at your convenience.
You’re not a priority in her life, don’t make her a priority in yours.
The older I get, Charlie Watts’ simplicity speaks to me more! Great video as usual!
She is swipping days before she breaks up with you!
She has been swiping throughout your relationship.
She already emotionally left you three months ago.
Thank you Sir! The algorithm is bringing me to your older content. I love it.
This guy legitimately saved my life after divorce. Full of wisdom. Thank you sir.
This Gentleman is so wise, listen up young fellas, I wish I had this advice when I was younger , yeah made a ton of mistakes, never too old to learn--
This is a must-watch video at least a dozen times , if not more! Everything he said has happened to me!
I think Bonham had the biggest musical influence - his placement of syncopated kick and snare interacting with guitar riff rhythms was monumental and speaks to the way all modern drummers play.
For stoicism-Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
That book is the 1st thing I read every morning!
Sultan of silver, King of the vortex!
King of the Vortex is Black Beard and black beard only.
Thank you, sir. I wish you good health and a long life. God bless.
Just realized I've been suffering for 20 plus years cause I was the rebound guy & I've never healed from that hurt of believing madness. Thank you.
So much wisdom here!
I can totally relate to this whole piece.
Great job!
I love your channel, I know it’s geared toward men , but I think your advice will work for women too 💖💖
Yes ma'am. I try to create content to benefit all humans. Welcome aboard and thank you.
Great episode today thanks George
You said a transition relationship in the long term is rare. We are both coming off divorce. It sure feels right to me. If not stoicism to the rescue. I can’t say I haven’t been warned
How did it go
Thank you for your time and energy. You’ve joined the ranks of my many online mentors. A cell in the digital surrogate father avatar that replaced my absent one. Thank you.
You’re videos got me fxcked up George! Lol wish I would have seen these before I got into my last relationship 😂
Please stir counter clockwise. This stimulates the chakras and de ages us.
I grew up a mama's boy with two older sisters. Dad was always out of town on business. I was set up for failure as far as dating women not by their fault. Glad to find this channel.
I'm in an exhausting situation right now with a woman who is living with me (and on the verge of leaving), who I've known for over 45 years (since she was 16, she's now 63). 15 years ago we were married for two years before she left me, that's a story for another time. 7-8 years ago she became disabled and called me to ask, (playing the sympathy card), if I could give her a place to live without her having to pay too much because she was on disability and couldn't support herself any longer. My first, and biggest mistake was falling for the "sympathy card" that she played and saying yes. As George has said in the past, "Never invite misery into your life". Fast forward to present, I'm 6 months away from retiring from my current career and moving down south, she is NOT coming with me, she will return to the Philadelphia area to be around her children (who she is also somewhat estranged from) and grandchildren. I'm sending her your way George, steer clear, lol. I have finally woken up and realized that she is not interested in an Alpha male, she wants a pliable/Beta male if any male at all. She has continually made me feel as if there was something wrong with me and even suggested I seek out some sort of anger management advice because of the way I act when we get into an argument. No, I do not and have never been physical with her, but yes, I have been very loud with her during some of our arguments or disagreements. I don't know, something inside of me simply refuses to be apologetic for being and acting like an alpha male. I guess it's just in my DNA. Needless to say these last six months before it's all said and done are going to be very stressful. All of her "things" are still here even though she packed a bag and left 3-4 nights ago during an argument. We just started texting earlier tonight trying to get each others points across to each other to no avail. I know this situation needs to calm down some if for no other reason than she still needs to get her things out of the house and I still need to live here until the spring. It's just fucking exhausting. Sorry for the rant.
@steven roscoe Your absolutely right, they were bad decisions on my part based on emotions rather than logic. Things have calmed down now between the two of us and she has been gone for two months. I think what pissed me off was how she started acting after she moved in with me, she started acting as though we were still married, again, my fault for letting her continue to think and act that way. The entire decision to allow her to move in with me in the first place was a bad one, I guess I just didn't want to feel like a shit if I had said "no, sorry, I can't help you" when she first asked, lesson learned.
@steven roscoe Good idea, although at 65 years old I never thought I would be in a situation like this again, plus, in my situation, I work 12 hour nights and sleep days and live in a state that I was not born in, I don't have any "friends" to speak of, I've had to pretty much turn myself into a hermit to survive working these 12 hour night shifts. I just can't wait to retire in 6 months and move, so I can work on getting a "real" life back. Thanks for your advice.
My advice to you go get some boxes. Pack up the rest of her shit, find out where she is and drop it off there ~ nice guy approach.
Alpha Approach ~ call her up and let her know she can pick up her stuff tonight but in the morning you will be dropping it off at Salvation Army/ thrift store.
You are not an independent storage unit and if it was the other way around the woman would sell what she could and trash the rest
Go east perhaps Thailand enjoy freedom and happy living on ease
Just came across your channel and it's a gold mine!
Confidence affects posture.
Betas always slouch.
Your whole mentality is seen by your posture by your physique by your skin your eyes your feet how you walk ,your hair every fucking thing is representing who you are inside.To the wise eye a man can understand and calibrate any human being by just a single glance.
What about meeting someone at eye level to create a comfortable environment to converse?
Or you might have scoliosis
Posture affects confidence... Physical leads to mental... Counterintuitive but it works
Absolutely right on the transition person
I just ran into this channel. And I enjoy it.! It was a foggy cold morning watching TH-cam,From what I understand this is some type a mature person’s men’s health show. I like it
Never buy hair tonic from a bald barber .
Great advice, glad I stumbled on this channel.
Personality is everything, You got to make em laugh.
Thank God for the comeback George
Man Goerge u hit it right on the head most women just looking for weather u look lie the type they can use or what ever. Good information George once again you on point keep it up hope your work.
I do love fountain pens yourself. I'm not quite sure what the attraction is but it's just so much more satisfying than using a normal pen. Starting cheap works well just so you can get used to writing
with one (get one that uses standard cartridges). Eventually you can transition to using better ones and buying pots of ink that you can use to refill the pens yourself.
Hey Sultan - I stay away from the dating game , I'd rather focus on improving myself , I put my spare time into doing what I enjoy i.e playing guitar , gym , going to watch my football (soccer) team every weekend with my Dad.
I'm not prepared to chase women , If the Good Lord wants me to have a beautiful wife then it will happen at His will , not mine,
If you can control your flesh ( carnal urges) , then life will become so much more simple.
Great use of the zeppelin lyrics!
You're awesome Gray thanks for another solid video. Pipe smoking is one of my favorite past times and the relationship advice that you provide is real and effective. Thanks a lot
You tell it like it is
He doesn't just give advice, he is the advice
I've been watching your carnivore videos. Love them! This one is interesting; didn't know you were doing videos about dating. I stopped on-line dating. The men I met were always trying to compare me to what their idea of what a woman should be. Everyone has their preferences, which is fine...but some would comment on my un-painted nails and suggest I should paint them. Some would talk about breast implants on our date. I mean, really??? My breasts are nice. I think the internet and media has been contributory to unrealistic expectations about what is "normal" in a relationship and what is normal in sex. I am a very young looking 56-year old female who is single and fit, now that I went keto, I look really good. I find most men my age are looking for women 20 years younger. So women in my age range are left behind. It is sad and I have much love to offer, but find very shallow mentality when it comes to men. Most of the women I know who are married, their husbands expect the house to be cleaned, the food to be made, and income from her as well as sex as often as they like. After seeing what they go through (and I was married for 22 years) I am happy that I am independent and do not have someone demanding things from me and pressuring me to "take care of all their needs" when my needs are ignored. I think it a cultural thing and an age thing. Maybe the younger men have less expectations for their women. I would love to have a wonderful man in my life, who is a conscious caring loving individual, who thinks about his woman too, not just about himself. Because I am a giver, and love to show my man that I care, I hope that I can find a man some day, who can reciprocate; that would be a great match :-)
If it's any consolation some of those men who are seeking a woman 20 years younger will realize in by their 60's, when some begin losing their hard-ons, that they cannot completely satisfy and keep up with a woman 20 years younger as they age. (Yes, there is oral, etc. BUT...let's be honest...) Now not every man has an erectile issue, but pure medical statistics show that about 1 in 2 do end up with some issues (due to their crappy diet and ensuing health problems) and a woman 20 years younger may not be as understanding when she could easily go bang some 30/40's year old man who can go 3 times in one night and has the stamina to keep up if/when wanted. I'm 44 and seeking a life companion as well, but I still need someone who can be an energetic match sexually and a 60-year old may not be able to, nor would I be interested in anyone over 55 max. tbh. Anyway, glad I found this channel, as the Sultan seems quite fair in many of his assessments of both sexes.
You are a great man. Thank you!
I wish you would have given this message a few years ago when I lost my ex to her ex... would have saved me a lot of time and heartache.
This guy is a legend thanks for the help
When I was younger my friend had a gf and he treated her like shit in my opinion. She was a friend of mine, so I told him he should treat her better as a suggestion. He agreed and within a few months, she turned it around and treated him like her bitch. The problem was is he was one way. Then he switched his behaviors and it made him look vulnerable and weak. I have no doubt if he hadnt followed my advice she would still be with him. I was taught to treat women right. I don't know what right is anymore. I know that women don't want a pet. They want to be the pet
I know you stay away from carbs. But a daily dose of natural raw local honey will prevent seasonal allergies. Just a small dose with coffee or green tea. I put it in my oatmeal each day. No allergies now for 3 years.
David Simpson I heard the same advice about local honey 🍯 so I tried it I added honey to my coffee and my protein shakes. I still have allergies it it never stopped me from using honey 🍯 I love the natural sweetener ❤️
Raw local honey changed my life. I teach and run a side business repairing/servicing pools. Seasonal allergies would knock me down and out sometimes. The raw local honey eliminated my seasonal allergies challenges.
Come on back gunslinger, you're needed!
You're the man George. Thank you for the wisdom
Also totally agree about those certain kinds of people that we should not negotiate with, totally have experienced that for myself.
I read a book when I was 14 about this! glad still works!
Wow you’re good, very inspiring conversation it’s like you’re looking me straight in the face and telling me what I’ve been doing years ago but I’m completely different now I’m learning more and more from coaches like you thanks a lot
Great job! Thanks for your wisdom, G.B.
I am speechless
I was transition guy.
Twice. Pain. Now I know.
Just had my first transition GF... fuck was it a 2 month ride. Drop dead gorgeous, tons of baggage, amazing sexual chemistry, 100% toxic. Stoicism has kept my emotions at bay and brush this off.
Bonham and Baker.
My musical influences as drummers😁
Of those choices....John Bonham as he’s unique in his following the guitarist more than the bassist. CW is steady and solid. Peart is a technical master. Bonham is groovier without sacrificing power. In fact, he IS the Hammer of the Gods!
I don't disagree with a single piece of advice you've given which is rare. I'm going to be watching more of you. Cheers!
👍
Neal Peart speaks volumes to my percussive soul. He’s also a very good lyricist and writer....
I agree , absolutely never ever send your homemade porn to anybody unsolicited for any reason
I appreciate the Old Gun Slinger,coming back to help his fellow Brother❤️
12:20 ( video time )Thank you so much for saying it twice.I'm a newer viewer and just went through this with a woman and we were together for 8 months and Never saw it coming,not for one second. Something didn't feel right and I even asked her if "we were good"...she said "yes"...We had both agreed to hide our dating profiles but I had to check and there she was with a private picture she sent. I wasn't given a reason just that she "should have done things different" and the "apology" she gave me sounded like a forum letter she would send clients after their insurance claim wasn't approved..she is in that profession. I was hurt,then mad and then hurt again because I missed her even though she messed around on me and then pissed off with myself for feeling that way.She said she had only messaged men but no sex..I know B/S....Thanks George for all your help and getting me to pull my head out of my butt on this one,I mean it...Will have to come down there to PA one day for a cut and beard care. All the best and hope you have a good day tomorrow...Ken London Ontario ( hope you didn't spit out any coffee while laughing at this one) ;)
Again... your voice is so soothing in the mornings waking up and turning to you for some advice... Father figure.
I NEVER UNDERSTOOD THE AMERICAN CONCEPT OF DATING ( AS FAR AS I UNDERSTOOD IT), I.E. HOOKING UP WITH SEVERAL PEOPLE AND POSSIBLY ENDING UP WITH SOMEONE YOU LIKE THE MOST OUT OF THE BUNCH...HERE IN GERMANY IT IS RATHER THAT YOU MEET SOMEONE YOU LIKE, GO OUT WITH THEM, AND IF THE CHEMISTRY IS RIGHT, START A RELATIONSHIP...SOMETIMES THEY ARE SHORT, SOMETIMES THEY END UP IN MARRIAGE, BUT THE IDEA OF HAVING MULTIPLE SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS, MORE OR LESS, PARALLEL WITH SEVERAL PEOPLE BEFORE YOU DECIDE WHO IS BEST FOR YOU, SEEMS TO BE A RECIPE FOR DESASTER...IF WOMAN WOULD TELL ME, THAT SHE HOOKED UP WITH OTHER DUDES, IN THE SAME TIME FRAME THAT SHE WAS WITH ME ( BUT IN THE END SHE LIKED ME BEST), SHE SURELY COULD KEEP ON FUCKING THEM DUDES, NOT ME..BUT THEN AGAIN, I AM NOT AMERICAN!
So good you are great advice man 👍👍👍👍👍
I have a beard a lot of tattoos and am wearing a flannel right now and funnny thing is you have a beard, flannel on and tattoos as well that comment at the end about it had me dying Sultan.
I needed this thank you man.
George aka Sultan Hemingway... Thanks Sir Bruno, wish I ran into your stuff sooner, I was that transition guy and got my heart ripped out my asshole... Everything you say is the Raw Truth...
Been there. Years ago. And I lived to talk about it even though there were times when I didnt want to live. I speak only truth. No time for bullshit.
my best friend killed himself because he was that "transition"-guy for a girl.
I take my redpill daily now
Don't go off the deep in, just adopt stoicism. Hope you're doing alright. Damn shame your friend couldn't find a way out of his mental anguish. Cheers!
I’m having the time of my life dating and experimenting. I enjoy it when there’s good conversation, chemistry, and fun. It is a challenge and game. It’s a mind game. With physical, and at times, emotional consequences good or bad. So much of what you say I’ve experienced by trial and error.
Totally true, mate!
Thank you for this video it makes sense and it really helped
I love your honesty!!!
Hey i bought some tactical soap and all I can say is ITS FUCKING AMAZING! Reorder’d a three pack. Thank you!
Im tellin ya
You give really good advice and to be honest with you im 14 years old gonna be 15 in a couple of months and just bt watching some videos off your channel really makes me think about things and helps me so thank you👌👍
Tread easy young man. Dont fall in love too fast. Pace yourself and first concentrate on your education and future. Save the love for later!!
@@italo512 thank you sir i appreciate it and i dont pkan to fall in love yet but i do date alot of girls my age😂
@@stevenmariscal4468 excellent!! Remember, no one plans to fall!!
@@italo512 thats never been told to me and it honestly made me think and thats gonna stick with me🙏
Damn right. Ask her! If she says no bless her and move on!! Ask!!!
George you were in a special mood that day on this recording - ha!
Great episode !
My Rheumatoid Arthritis says, "Don't shake hands. Haha. I like John Bonham.
I listened to you say, "You're old." You are not old.
Love the quote from "Stairway to Heaven" perfect segway
If coffee could take shape it would be this man
The shaking of hands part is absolutelly prophetic now in the plan de mic world.
Vortex method - stirring coffee w chopsticks counter clockwise
Great lesson 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
I went to a job interview once and the general manager of the place had a problem shaking my hand. Never went back to that place
u speak
i listen
awake now
still in the fight sir🗡️🛡️
Hair gray. Beard white. Most curious is the black eyebrows. Thank you for the great coaching today.
Yes,...smart men walk away from their tests and their BS. Conserve your own Focus and your energy and your attention.