This book and message is SO necessary in our community. Healing, self awareness and growth are key components in development and black men, we need you to heal and lead now more than ever!
My husband and I both Love this book and found it INCREDIBLY difficult to read. In fact, we both almost quit the book. I was pissed that the dog even exists! Wtf??? My husband almost quit the book because it hit too close to home. Just a few months prior to us learning about The Truth About Men (which we learned about on Sway in the Morning🤗) came just a few months after I sent Kenyon a text saying “I think our marriage is over”. I was DONE dealing with the DAWG! It ran my husband for too long!! But because of Devon’s book, my husband was able to overcome that damn dog, and we were able to reconcile. We decided our Marriage was Worth The Fight! You’ve inspired us to our story, and we are helping so many!! Thank you Sway and Thank You Devon!!! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Strong minded men who do their work are in style. It is so attractive for a man to want to actually be faithful, so many guys would just say that it's just the way they are and it's such a turn off. Thank you Devon Franklin for sparking change in these men.
many men are ignorant of this information and will benefit greatly from this book but i think there are also many men who do not care to do or be better...
They're not required because black americans have no culture nor code of conduct. After crack hit the streets and women buying into feminism ideology, the black family has been destroyed. Now single mothers and absentee father's is the new dynamic for the typical black household, creating furtner dysfunction and chaos in our communities
Accari Cuvell I don’t think that society thinks women are perfect however the stigma is so different if women admit to the same things that some men admit to that woman would be brutally insulted as a hoe or shameful and a tramp whatever woman does this will need to very strong because the double standard will be harsh
I will but i left a comment how Women cheat look at my comment above. Women are worst than Men in so many ways the no good ones. Yes i am a woman i said it . they can jack up a man . from taking whatever hope they have left to taking the children away , using them as ponds there lies and there cheating o i can go on but i do not have time right now. But not all women are like that there still is more good Women than bad. Be Blessed.
AMEN, THIS IS POWERFUL A DIVINE MESSAGE FROM PASTOR DEVON FRANKLIN AMEN. THANK YOU FATHER GOD FOR DOING THIS BOOK THOUGHT PASTOR DEVON FRANKLIN ITS A AMAZING AMEN.
Galatians 5:17 say"For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would." but if you read it all the way to verse 26 the bible explains the nature of our flesh and how to avoid it. However, that's if we are biblically speaking.....
To your point, scripture says, "we've all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God" (Rom 3:23) which in my opinion lends itself to lust (inordinate affection) being apart of the sin state of man. It doesn't mean we have to live there however, I believe we have to acknowledge it to defeat/overcome it. Secondly, scriptures says sin is the product of lust, not vice versa - James 1:13-15 KJV. As you'll note it says, every man (mankind) is tempted when he/she is drawn away by their own lust which results in sin and when sin is complete/finish it brings forth death. Therefore, my conclusion from this is that sin is the result of lust .. just some food for thought.
@@Sandra-ly1ss Lust was manifested when man ate of the knowledge of good and evil. In otherwords, sin is a product of understanding the state between the corporeal division and the gap between omniscience(God knowing Good & Evil In Totality). We were first created knowing only Good meaning God did not want us to suffer or approach his omniscient state, however his creation who knew Evil betrayed Him (Satan).
@@perc-ai ,. I hear ya and I agree that was the original design however, after man's fall the result was what the scriptures I previously stated. However, we can respectfully disagree on the nuances.
Wow that masters pledge is bad! Thank you for sharing. I wish all men Understood manhood doesn't = entitlement to sex. Whoa thank you for sharing your light DeVon ❤️ the world needs it. 💙
Truth. Especially black men. They'll access resources (MAAAYYBE "skim" a book) about making money, tho. But advice on being truly prosperous?? And living an abundant life... (Sigh) And again... to even consider actually spending time reading the book of Proverbs in order to gain wisdom.. which is far greater than silver and gold?? Chile please. Lol (Deeper sigh) Broken men create a broken world. Women are, by nature, nurturers and healers. When men are in proper position, things will aright and align. (Dominion mandate) The true issue is about the heart, soul, and mind of men.
Truth. Especially black men. They'll access resources (MAAAYYBE "skim" a book) about making money, tho. But advice on being truly prosperous?? And living an abundant life... (Sigh) And again... to even consider actually spending time reading the book of Proverbs in order to gain wisdom.. which is far greater than silver and gold?? Chile please. Lol (Deeper sigh) Broken men create a broken world. Women are, by nature, nurturers and healers. But we are responsive. When men are in proper position, things will aright and align. (Dominion mandate) The matter is about the character - the heart, soul, and mind - of men.
Animals insects humans all are naturally attracted to what look good to them. This term Lust is dumb. This is normal. So do dogs lust after other dogs? Do insects lust after insects ? It's sounds so stupid. Guys and woman are always going to be sexually attracted to what looks good. Devon shouldn't feel bad about it. It's a natural thing but salute the men who fight their urges.
@@Dablkwid0w2008 Believe it or not there are a lot of women who really are okay with just fucking. They don't need to fall in love. They live in abundance and need just one person to validate them in every area or fill a void. Women love to fuck.
Why would you need to talk about your lust for other women in a marriage? If you already decided you're not going to act on it, why bring it up? That would only instill insecurity in the wife...
Sin is the byproduct of our mistake at the Garden of Eden. It was NOT meant to be this way, but the serpent tempted us and now SIN is our punishment for knowing both good AND evil until it is removed later on.
She may or may not have. But, ultimately, that's irrelevant if she's thinking about another man. That's up to her to resolve. He's talking about taking personal responsibility for himself and doing everything he can to live with dignity, himself.
@@phantomdreamer3801 Having dignity is about doing what's right despite what anyone else does. That way you are unshakable. That way, no matter what anyone else does, you will have a dignified life, bcuz dignity will be a part of who you are.
I find it odd that as pastor he didn't even include the necessity for the transforming power that only comes thru Jesus Christ!! No wonder he is struggling!! The lust (the flesh) is a condition that men and women both suffer from equally. Yet, it is manifested in different ways. Men want more women. And women want someone else's man ( the seduction). These are just two examples. But we both need help. I wouldn't expect someone who wasn't a Christian to include this information of transformation. But as a pastor, I find this omission to be very strange. I would have to ask, "Are you really trying to help men"? And are you really serious about helping yourself! If so, go back to the "SOURCE " for all help. And this time give 100% of your heart ! Then you will find it!
This book and message is SO necessary in our community. Healing, self awareness and growth are key components in development and black men, we need you to heal and lead now more than ever!
My husband and I both Love this book and found it INCREDIBLY difficult to read. In fact, we both almost quit the book. I was pissed that the dog even exists! Wtf??? My husband almost quit the book because it hit too close to home. Just a few months prior to us learning about The Truth About Men (which we learned about on Sway in the Morning🤗) came just a few months after I sent Kenyon a text saying “I think our marriage is over”. I was DONE dealing with the DAWG! It ran my husband for too long!! But because of Devon’s book, my husband was able to overcome that damn dog, and we were able to reconcile. We decided our Marriage was Worth The Fight! You’ve inspired us to our story, and we are helping so many!! Thank you Sway and Thank You Devon!!! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Strong minded men who do their work are in style. It is so attractive for a man to want to actually be faithful, so many guys would just say that it's just the way they are and it's such a turn off. Thank you Devon Franklin for sparking change in these men.
Shout out to the real men like me that don't cheat.
Devon is a true inspiration. This book is yet again a must read from him. God bless this man and his mission.
😂😂😂
I always say, "Don't talk at me, talk to me. Respect those whom you expect the same from.
I will add that sometimes we forgive from the heart but the head/mind has an issue with forgiving!
many men are ignorant of this information and will benefit greatly from this book but i think there are also many men who do not care to do or be better...
They arent required to do better, by women or other men
They're not required because black americans have no culture nor code of conduct. After crack hit the streets and women buying into feminism ideology, the black family has been destroyed. Now single mothers and absentee father's is the new dynamic for the typical black household, creating furtner dysfunction and chaos in our communities
B Authentic that’s true. And apparently they don’t see the need to do it for themselves
"Anything we suppress we empower" omg lawwddd yes why are we like this? 😥
Devon!!!! Always bringing the real true man of God!!!!!
This is hands down the best video I've seen in 2019 .
Just finished the book, gives great insight today and for the upcoming future..New Standards & responsibility for the Master over the Dog
We need more guys like Devon. He's speaks the truth.
14:28 - 14:34 Whenever you vilify a man for telling the truth, it may be the last time he chooses to do so. #Bars
I have my copie and my chapter begins now.... Ooohh thanks 💓💓
ooooo weee, that first caller, thank you, the absolute best definition ever on Sacrifice.
This was RIGHT ON TIME, 10 months later. Thank you very much.
Praise God for page 98! Beautiful interview and thank you Devon
Great interview
Thoughts become action!
Any small TH-camrs in the comment section? Let's support each other and grow!
Still waiting for someone in the mainstream to tell the truth about women.
Lol whats the truth bro
David Monroe It will never happen. Society sees women as “perfect”.
Accari Cuvell I don’t think that society thinks women are perfect however the stigma is so different if women admit to the same things that some men admit to that woman would be brutally insulted as a hoe or shameful and a tramp whatever woman does this will need to very strong because the double standard will be harsh
Lol ain't gonna happen.
I will but i left a comment how Women cheat look at my comment above. Women are worst than Men in so many ways the no good ones. Yes i am a woman i said it . they can jack up a man . from taking whatever hope they have left to taking the children away , using them as ponds there lies and there cheating o i can go on but i do not have time right now. But not all women are like that there still is more good Women than bad. Be Blessed.
Shout out to The Town! 🌳 Oak Town baby!
AMEN, THIS IS POWERFUL A DIVINE MESSAGE FROM PASTOR DEVON FRANKLIN AMEN. THANK YOU FATHER GOD FOR DOING THIS BOOK THOUGHT PASTOR DEVON FRANKLIN ITS A
AMAZING AMEN.
He is a wise man who just happens to be sooo fine dang.
Biblically speaking, I don't think we are created with lust. I would correct that here and say lust is the product of sin.
we all fall short of the glory of god, sin is punishment for the mistake at the garden of Eden. Lust and sin are one of the same*
Galatians 5:17 say"For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would." but if you read it all the way to verse 26 the bible explains the nature of our flesh and how to avoid it. However, that's if we are biblically speaking.....
To your point, scripture says, "we've all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God" (Rom 3:23) which in my opinion lends itself to lust (inordinate affection) being apart of the sin state of man. It doesn't mean we have to live there however, I believe we have to acknowledge it to defeat/overcome it. Secondly, scriptures says sin is the product of lust, not vice versa - James 1:13-15 KJV. As you'll note it says, every man (mankind) is tempted when he/she is drawn away by their own lust which results in sin and when sin is complete/finish it brings forth death. Therefore, my conclusion from this is that sin is the result of lust .. just some food for thought.
@@Sandra-ly1ss Lust was manifested when man ate of the knowledge of good and evil. In otherwords, sin is a product of understanding the state between the corporeal division and the gap between omniscience(God knowing Good & Evil In Totality). We were first created knowing only Good meaning God did not want us to suffer or approach his omniscient state, however his creation who knew Evil betrayed Him (Satan).
@@perc-ai ,. I hear ya and I agree that was the original design however, after man's fall the result was what the scriptures I previously stated. However, we can respectfully disagree on the nuances.
Thank you. May GOD continue to bless you, and your beautiful wife.
Powerful!!!
Devon Franklin looks like Andre Bishop from Fight Night Champion.
Aaron Walls classic game
AMEN GOD BLESS AMEN!!!!
So many habits and routines as lil boys into manhood told us to be hunters
I could have sworn that was John Cena from the thumbnail haha
I ain't gone lie I had to do a double take and make sure it wasn't.
@@nicosuave3296 haha it was 530 in the morning where I'm from so I just woke up so I didn't know if I was tripping. At least someone agrees bb
@@tylerwilcox9922 I feel you bro
Wow that masters pledge is bad! Thank you for sharing. I wish all men Understood manhood doesn't = entitlement to sex. Whoa thank you for sharing your light DeVon ❤️ the world needs it. 💙
I hope you this comes in audio...truth most Men that needs this freedom & awareness ... simply don't Read...!☹..💯
Truth. Especially black men. They'll access resources (MAAAYYBE "skim" a book) about making money, tho. But advice on being truly prosperous?? And living an abundant life...
(Sigh)
And again... to even consider actually spending time reading the book of Proverbs in order to gain wisdom.. which is far greater than silver and gold?? Chile please. Lol (Deeper sigh)
Broken men create a broken world. Women are, by nature, nurturers and healers. When men are in proper position, things will aright and align. (Dominion mandate)
The true issue is about the heart, soul, and mind of men.
Truth. Especially black men. They'll access resources (MAAAYYBE "skim" a book) about making money, tho. But advice on being truly prosperous?? And living an abundant life...
(Sigh)
And again... to even consider actually spending time reading the book of Proverbs in order to gain wisdom.. which is far greater than silver and gold?? Chile please. Lol (Deeper sigh)
Broken men create a broken world. Women are, by nature, nurturers and healers. But we are responsive. When men are in proper position, things will aright and align. (Dominion mandate)
The matter is about the character - the heart, soul, and mind - of men.
Andre Lyon writing books now?
🤣😂🤣😂Not him
They look alike
Animals insects humans all are naturally attracted to what look good to them. This term Lust is dumb. This is normal. So do dogs lust after other dogs? Do insects lust after insects ? It's sounds so stupid. Guys and woman are always going to be sexually attracted to what looks good. Devon shouldn't feel bad about it. It's a natural thing but salute the men who fight their urges.
Mikey Domz! 💯
Exactly, our bodies produce 2 billion sperms a day, our bodies are naturally are telling us to go fuck something every day
When you go fuck...tell whoever you're about to fuck that's what we doing and nothing else...see how far you get
@@Dablkwid0w2008 Believe it or not there are a lot of women who really are okay with just fucking. They don't need to fall in love. They live in abundance and need just one person to validate them in every area or fill a void. Women love to fuck.
24:09
Franklin resembles Franklin from GTA 5.
Why would you need to talk about your lust for other women in a marriage? If you already decided you're not going to act on it, why bring it up? That would only instill insecurity in the wife...
Sin is the byproduct of our mistake at the Garden of Eden. It was NOT meant to be this way, but the serpent tempted us and now SIN is our punishment for knowing both good AND evil until it is removed later on.
First
Nature vs Nurture
Why is this guy swearing around a minister!!
Men give the reasons, and usually it's you got fat!
Thinking about it is cheating!
Speek too fast
11:03...as if Meagan never, ever thought about another man since marrying this dude 😂😂
She may or may not have. But, ultimately, that's irrelevant if she's thinking about another man. That's up to her to resolve. He's talking about taking personal responsibility for himself and doing everything he can to live with dignity, himself.
@@1StepForwardToday 🤣😂 I can tell you're a broad.
@@phantomdreamer3801
Having dignity is about doing what's right despite what anyone else does. That way you are unshakable. That way, no matter what anyone else does, you will have a dignified life, bcuz dignity will be a part of who you are.
Haha where the other comments go?
There's not many happy relationships. Divorce rate is very high. Live a happy life go MGTOW.😃
Second lol 😊
I find it odd that as pastor he didn't even include the necessity for the transforming power that only comes thru Jesus Christ!! No wonder he is struggling!!
The lust (the flesh) is a condition that men and women both suffer from equally. Yet, it is manifested in different ways. Men want more women. And women want someone else's man ( the seduction). These are just two examples. But we both need help.
I wouldn't expect someone who wasn't a Christian to include this information of transformation. But as a pastor, I find this omission to be very strange. I would have to ask, "Are you really trying to help men"? And are you really serious about helping yourself! If so, go back to the "SOURCE " for all help. And this time give 100% of your heart ! Then you will find it!