I realized I was just an ATM..

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  • @Levithos
    @Levithos 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Dude knew what he wanted and didn't want, then either went for it or cut them from his life. I respect that.
    The help he gave the ex was a chance. If she took it, it could change her life. If she didn't, she would be stuck in her rat hole for the rest of her life. He didn't give her money, a new home, but a chance. He already gave her a home, she blew it. He gave her money, she blew it. So, I'm glad she didn't blow that chance.

  • @karishma_k
    @karishma_k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    OP sounds like a genuinely nice person. Ex lost a gem!

  • @kilamkam
    @kilamkam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Yeaaaa this dude is better than me.. Cheating on me when Im in/recovering from a coma?.. You get nothing.. Giving her the house was a fluke but that would have been it.. Sending emails for a job for this pos is wild lol....

  • @John.Philip.Tan876
    @John.Philip.Tan876 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    OP's brain had to be hard factory reset for him to see clarity. Glad he recovered.
    Man I was just praying "please have a prenup" for OP

  • @joshuawesteros5345
    @joshuawesteros5345 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She’s playing 5d chess and reeling him in slowly, he knows it and is covering his weakness with being a good person. He will be back with her eventually.

  • @johnbradbury8610
    @johnbradbury8610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    OP left out the 12 years of being a simp

  • @nachtwaya8721
    @nachtwaya8721 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Ex was an idiot. Didn't know what she had until it was gone.

  • @GraveUypo
    @GraveUypo หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    takes a prenup and still leaves everything to her. 🙄

    • @TheSpongebob1919
      @TheSpongebob1919 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah, I understand why she cucked him 😅

  • @1Scimetar
    @1Scimetar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I'd say one thing. If the ex remarries someone besides OP, I'd bet she's going to ask him to be the man-of-honor.

    • @essenceofnothingness
      @essenceofnothingness 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      sounds like he would be more than happy to wear a dress.

    • @1Scimetar
      @1Scimetar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@essenceofnothingness That would be his choice, but an occurrence of a man-of-honor is just what happens when a lady thinks that a dude is the best fit for her maid-of-honor at her wedding, and yes, best women can happen as well for similar reasons on the groom's side of things.

    • @essenceofnothingness
      @essenceofnothingness 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@1Scimetar the dude has no balls, I wouldnt be surprised if he paid for the wedding and the honey moon because he is such a nice guy.

    • @1Scimetar
      @1Scimetar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@essenceofnothingness He already said he's helping her by giving her an opportunity, not giving her money directly like you're talking about. After all, if he was as spineless as you're talking about, he would have just taken her back and given anything she would have asked for. Instead, he just talked one of his friends into giving her an honest chance, and she's got to put in the effort to make that work.

  • @lamarlo4437
    @lamarlo4437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    OP is a bit pathetic and toxic and I knew it when he said he wouldn't actively avoid her as if he knew he would be seeing her at some point. Also he didn't block her from social media, which means he wants direct yet indirect way of still being in contact with her. He's playing some weird game and he needs to completely rid himself of her. The comment of you guys do you and I'll do me is condescending, since you're typing to strangers and want their opinion on everything. Eventually they'll get back to together, he's taking the long route.

  • @DeMarcusFountain-sv6fi
    @DeMarcusFountain-sv6fi 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good man right there. She better thank her lucky stars that her ex is a genuine good guy. She didn't deserve any help from him but he gave it anyway.

  • @collwyr
    @collwyr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    its amazing how all these stories magically end with them having some kind of relationship with the person who wronged them, whether its ex partners/partners/siblings.
    can't say I've met a single person who once they got rid of their betrayer they ever had anything to do with them again, maybe thats because that was reality and not fiction where people want to come out on top and remain the "better" person in a jesus like fashion of forgiving sins.

  • @darrellgray191
    @darrellgray191 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    she was tired of you and wanted your security and have fun with someone else. Women like wild reckless fun with someone who will take advantage of her and never be there for her. Never ever fully trust your spouse completely

  • @chetp8423
    @chetp8423 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Magnanimous man, lives life on his own terms.

  • @phillipschwoerke8374
    @phillipschwoerke8374 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Saw this story before but this one had more updates/info. I have no problem with him giving her the house to escape. A also have no problem with him helping her get a new job. Now fixing her problems with money, I would have been against that. This guy is a free spirit and freedom means more to him than money.

  • @cbtcrusader7699
    @cbtcrusader7699 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    what is the point of marriage if you are going to be 'child-free'?

  • @legiontepes3474
    @legiontepes3474 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Op is defo too nice and a pushover.

  • @tapsman1967
    @tapsman1967 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    seems like Reddit has a problem with accepting forgiveness, people want blood xD

    • @johnnyhall9154
      @johnnyhall9154 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I know, he offered her an opportunity not money. It was up to her to make it work

    • @juniormon7514
      @juniormon7514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Reddit has a problem with him not moving on . She used him for money , cheated on him when he was in a coma (probably during there whole relationship) got a house and 1yr of alimony. But after that all that he still doing her favors .

    • @VRDejaVu
      @VRDejaVu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@juniormon7514and that means he actually moved on. He isn't holding a grudge. He is doing it for someone whom he shared part of his life.
      I wouldn't do it but it is perfectly understandable for him to decide to do it.

    • @juniormon7514
      @juniormon7514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@VRDejaVu huh ? Moving on means she's out of his life . I can understand if he randomly bump into her and had small talk but he's still in her life doing her favors . She's still using him .

    • @johnbradbury8610
      @johnbradbury8610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@juniormon7514 Exactly, he even said he would have turned around

  • @vamaranthus4555
    @vamaranthus4555 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Op is a genuine simp. Ladies, get in line for a turn at the gullible atm

  • @juniormon7514
    @juniormon7514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    To her credit she didnt not bad mouth me....ummm duh . You gave her a free house and is paying her alimony even tho you didnt have too. She won lol

  • @TheBigExclusive
    @TheBigExclusive หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Sigh. She spent his money, cheated on him, got a free house, and 1 year worth of cash. Then when she mismanaged her money and lost the house, she begged him for help, and he said yes and helped her. So yeah, she played him like a fiddle AGAIN.
    When redditors point this out, he gets defensive and denies it.
    There's a difference between being kind and being a nice guy doormat. The sad part is that this guy doesn't realize it. He seriously thinks he took the high road.

    • @GraveUypo
      @GraveUypo หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      yeah. he rewarded her streets behavior. that's not something that should be done

  • @VRDejaVu
    @VRDejaVu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how redditors asked the guys to tell them what events he has forgotten as a way to prove the story is real...
    Like, big life changing events yeah, someone would have told him but the small stuff that probably only him and the wife knew, how the F did they expect him to know that je had forgot about them?
    What a bunch of dense MoFos.

  • @bored0886
    @bored0886 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Guy is a simp but he is rich rich so i guess he can afford to be one... They way he just spend or give things is wild for me

  • @dman052470
    @dman052470 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I want to know what happened between him and Peach!

  • @essenceofnothingness
    @essenceofnothingness 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    the posters of these threads always sounds like such a sissified betas, giving his cheating ex a house a car and money and that part about calling "the passenger princess" princess peach made me cringe so hard, no wonder their wives always end up cheating on them. I bet he takes selfies with his mouth wide open.

  • @NootNoot67
    @NootNoot67 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This story just goes to show that men are in love, women are in business.

  • @JordanPNW
    @JordanPNW 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "I'm going to Canada"
    "I'm planning a trip it'll be the first time i leave the United States"
    I listen to these things because i'm trying to familiarize myself with "AI voice to the point that i can recognize it in a crowded room. But wow, are these stories easy to spot as fakes. It's a whole lot of fantasy fiction from red pill dudes.

    • @SubRedTales
      @SubRedTales  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hey! So OP said he has been traveling across the country for 5 years and will go to Canada in a month or two. Then he got offered a trip to South America. Based on this, it seems he has not visited Canada yet, and South America will be the first time he travels outside the US. That being said, I have no way of verifying if the story is 100% true, so it could be fake.

  • @livdawson4216
    @livdawson4216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing guy🙆🏼‍♀️🤗

  • @josephvictory9536
    @josephvictory9536 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Iv read a lot of these and this is the first one that i felt the guys response was correct. Not everything needs to be fought to the end. Not only did she lose a gem, she doesnt even get the buttress of abuse or hate that would let her turn it around in the long run. The more time that passes, the more she will kick herself.

  • @michealmeyn1194
    @michealmeyn1194 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This guy is a push over

  • @thecursed01
    @thecursed01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this story got reposted by so many other computer voice channels already. this one just uses an even more terrible voice. unless your goal is to actively try to kill the genre and be as a terrbile person as you can be, ...WHY?

    • @SubRedTales
      @SubRedTales  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Hey! We all get our stories from the same source, so sometimes reposts happen, but I try to avoid them as much as I can. Also, this video includes more information and all the latest updates regarding the wife situation, which are missing in many other videos. (Regarding the voice, I have a poll and discussion in my community tab!)

    • @mintcarrier
      @mintcarrier 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wahhh wahhh wahhh…bruh stfu…cursed indeed…can see why 😂! Whiny sum bish!

    • @mintcarrier
      @mintcarrier 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@SubRedTalesyou’re doing great man…don’t listen to the trolls…he contributed to the channel regardless as haters can’t hate quietly 😂!