Korean Actors Who Married For Popularity And Didn't End Well

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  • @aleviemsaf
    @aleviemsaf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8029

    "the fans have expressed their wishes for the couple to stay together for the sake of their sons happiness" ah yes, the child would be soooo happy living with parents who constantly fight

    • @bangtanmoosahu
      @bangtanmoosahu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +399

      A child should not live like this. Fighting between parents is the worst trauma for a kid. Even I have live with my biological parents and they always fight and their fighting stills hunts me.

    • @NovalieSweet
      @NovalieSweet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      Agreed, it would actually be better if the parents divorced instead of using their children to stay together, just for the children to constantly see their parents fight and think that's a way a relationship should be. And constantly questioning themselves if they are the problem

    • @jyadidtnova1051
      @jyadidtnova1051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      That's why communication is more important in a relationship, than having kids to make your significant other happy. If you can't communicate with your partner, don't even think about have kids. Otherwise your kids will end up hating you, for being raised by a stubborn single parent, who can't stay in a relationship.

    • @justhairr
      @justhairr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Exactly, i know some kids wishes their parents go back together but living with parents that are hurting ecah other way more depressing

    • @Cezeji1
      @Cezeji1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      The fans opinions shouldn't have any bearing in anyone's life

  • @cr0wsnest
    @cr0wsnest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4097

    Forget the age gap. The red flag is really "we dated for a month"

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      I used to think that too but if arranged marriages when the 2 did not even know each other can be happy and blissful, then even a month of dating is sufficient. Often times it is a matter of can you accept, love, tolerate and adjust after marriage. That is much more important than what you know prior to marriage.

    • @anymenezes3314
      @anymenezes3314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      i really think the same, but i realized that in korea they marry fast anyways and the divorce rates are higher too

    • @CrankDatJonasBoi
      @CrankDatJonasBoi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj You just proved why it's not sufficient. A month dating is not enough to get to know someone. If you choose to tolerate them after that the fact that's different, but you cannot learn anything about anyone with only a month of dating. You're learning to settle and tolerate what you got stuck with, that is not love. Love can only come after a long period of figuring out your relationship and how to work together. You can't love anyone in only one month.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@CrankDatJonasBoi Not necessarily as I have seen arranged marriages be happy and blissful while others who have dated for years to no avail. My sister in law’s parents were in an arranged marriage but have been happily married for 60 years. My other friend who dated her current husband for 3 years before marriage is now unhappy and wants to divorce so it just depends. My brothers best friend married only after 6 months and they are now happily married for 21 years. Therefore, it truly depends as knowing anyone well like you think beforehand does not guarantee anything. Plus, a successful marriage takes much more than just love. My main point is knowing someone for a long time before marrying them does not guarantee happiness and an everlasting marriage. You make it seem like marrying right away is always bad which it isn’t. The thing is growing with them as you progress through life after you get together is much more important as people grow and change just like you do.

    • @shivangi1390
      @shivangi1390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj exactly I was about to comment the same ..

  • @snehabhat4876
    @snehabhat4876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3329

    Asking a unhappy couple to stay together for the sake of the child is sick.

    • @nothingavailableleft
      @nothingavailableleft 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Actually it's not. If they can go to therapy and learn not to fight in front of the kid. Divorce is traumatizing.
      Every child wants their parents to be together.
      Who says they get to put their happiness before the happiness of their child? When I become a mother I am ready to sacrifice all my happiness for my child. My child's happiness will become my happiness.
      So what if I grow to dislike my husband? I'm sure I can tolerate him and pick up a hobby to give me happiness instead. Or a book. Or start dancing zumba.
      Don't become a mother if you think your life will still be about you.
      The birth of a good mother is the death of a woman. Don't have children of you are not ready to put them first.

    • @oweesposts5227
      @oweesposts5227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      @@nothingavailableleft Your children mental health and not having trauma,should be your first priority,because a loveless marriage can destroy a child,unless you think children are so stup!d,that they can’t see or sense,that there’s something going on with their parents,it’s so backwards for you to think that,what a child needs is a loveless,hating each other,can’t stand each other marriage,so far as the parents are together,just because you have no dignity doesn’t mean you should teach your children that it’s okay to have no dignity or self love,if you are a mother who thinks making your children stay in an unhealthy environment,just because you are afraid of losing your marriage,then you shouldn’t be a mother

    • @snehabhat4876
      @snehabhat4876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@nothingavailableleft As a kid I was traumatized everytime I saw my parents fight. It makes the living environment very toxic. If a couple wants to split and do co parenting they should be allowed to do so.

    • @SarouneGougoune
      @SarouneGougoune 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@nothingavailableleft not every child wants their parents to be together ahah. Growing up my siblings and I all wished our parents would divorce because they clearly weren't happy together and it made everything more difficult. 🤷‍♀️

    • @nothingavailableleft
      @nothingavailableleft 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@oweesposts5227 I hope you will have more grace by the time you have a family than accusing people you don't know of having no dignity because that is not very kind.
      I'm sorry your parents were unable to make it work. Don't blame me for being determined and having my own values.

  • @harujo-koreanperspective1081
    @harujo-koreanperspective1081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1228

    I think in general, it's easier for celebrities to end up being not successful with their marriage in any countries, like being attractive and famous could be a double-edged sword I guess.

    • @anisanurraudah8383
      @anisanurraudah8383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yes. You cant have the best of both worlds. Unless you are being extremely private.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      True to some extent.. not sure about Korea but there are happy Hong Kong celebrity couples so it just depends.

    • @syenas4100
      @syenas4100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjlike he said it's in general, so obviously there will be few lucky exception.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@syenas4100 not really as I have seen quite a few happy ones so it is not just a few exceptions. But that is in Hong Kong entertainment.

    • @syenas4100
      @syenas4100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj you did also said 'a few happy one' and i said 'a few lucky exception' we are on the same page alright. when i said few, it doesn't mean only one or two. It means the majority are not so happy but there's definitely some who does.

  • @_GunpowdertheGabite
    @_GunpowdertheGabite 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1571

    Divorce and unsuccessful relationship AREN'T FAILURES. It happens. People grow apart. We need to stop putting this stigma on others.

    • @nawal10
      @nawal10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well said

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I don't think men and women should marry. Just remain boyfriend and girlfriend

    • @arminalert4795
      @arminalert4795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@fearless6947 its nothing wrong being a married couple, divorce is pretty normal things

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@arminalert4795 Exactly, divorce is a pretty normal thing, that's why I think men and women should NOT get married

    • @mapuiinun5211
      @mapuiinun5211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen to that👏

  • @shhhimnothere.2878
    @shhhimnothere.2878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2141

    The reason I wouldn't do an age gap larger than 5 years older or younger, is because of the generational gap there'd be past that. I know myself and I wouldn't be able to put up with someone so much older than me that they sound like a parent, or someone so young I have to take care of them like a parent. I just want a partner that can live life beside me. Learn things together.... idk that's just me though... also, a Month of dating and then a proposal??? A little precipitous.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      I used to think that but I have changed as age does not necessarily mean you will act your age. Age is just a number as you learn through experiences and stuff too not just how long you lived. Dating time is one thing but whether you can adjust in the long run after you marry. I have seen couples who dated for years to no avail but arranged marriages when people did not even know each other be happy and blissful. Therefore, it just depends.

    • @shhhimnothere.2878
      @shhhimnothere.2878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj fair enough!

    • @justthetruth3950
      @justthetruth3950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      EXACTLY, the more I grow as an adult, the more I confirm this, although there some people who do not act their age, most often than not it usually comes as a red flag in the end.

    • @lorraineferrara78
      @lorraineferrara78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      9 year gap between my husband and I. Engaged after 3 months. Married for 13. Never say never 😁❤

    • @shhhimnothere.2878
      @shhhimnothere.2878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@justthetruth3950 yeah I guess it's just not a risk I'm willing to take. I'm overly cautious 😂

  • @fryeji1423
    @fryeji1423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2002

    Having a child with someone you don’t even love is disgusting, and they completely fucked up that kids life

    • @fryeji1423
      @fryeji1423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@universesays1842 so? That doesn’t justify it

    • @345y5
      @345y5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      modern relationship these days are fkup up anyway. Marriage is a joke ..

    • @ldrago6031
      @ldrago6031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      @@universesays1842 most women had a reason too. In the past women weren’t exactly treated well. What is the man excuse ? Other than hurting the women

    • @dp-oh6kq
      @dp-oh6kq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      @@universesays1842 why are you focusing only on women? The man is at fault too.

    • @universesays1842
      @universesays1842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@fryeji1423 it does as women never stop doing that
      women climb mostly on social ladder thanks to men that they associates and easiest way it's marrying them
      men rarely can do that as majority of women always want a man richer than her or at least on her level but not bellow her
      the exception it's when she is old or too ugly and the man is young and hot
      gold diggers are mostly women,not men
      i never seen women being mad when a gold digger woman finesse a rich man
      a young man finesse a older actress,women quickly crying "that's illegal"
      that's double standard from you women
      stop being delusional that a relationship will work out with a much younger male
      same thing i preach for delusional rich old farts but they ignore me and they end up paying a lot
      those old men are in a decaying state,still young women want them
      it's just gross seeing young women being with mummies or old hags with young gold digger males

  • @imane9919
    @imane9919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +716

    After Eli and Yeonso appeared on We Got Divorced, we learned more about their situation and not only the one side story from his wife that you shared here.
    Their situation is complicated, they had financial issues, Eli couldn't find any job in Korea to support his family and that deteriorated their couple relationship...so he went to USA where his family lives and it was easier for him to find a job there. But as he was separated from his wife and son. . . they always had conflicts and one day out of the blue he asked to divorce because they just couldn't continue like that...
    A discussion they had on We Got Divorced really stuck with me, Yeonso said "we should have stayed together, do you think our son is happy not to have his father by his side?" and Eli replied "but do you think he would have been happier to see his parents arguing every day? "
    More of that Yeonso and Eli's mother didn't get along well and apparently his mother stole money from her, but he didn't even know about that until she mentioned it on that show.
    With We Got Divorced, knetz realized that they still have a lot of affection for each other and even confessed to still love each other. That's why people want them to stick together.
    Btw it seems like after that show, Eli decided to stay in Korea, apparently he found a job in a factory

    • @nurafifahshuhardi8240
      @nurafifahshuhardi8240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Why he not brings his wife and son? He is men, a husband and father. But he irresponsible to leave his family.

    • @imane9919
      @imane9919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      @@nurafifahshuhardi8240 He left to find a job in USA, he couldn't find any job in Korea. When he finally worked, his wife was supposed to join him in USA with his son. But Yeonso wanted to raise his son in Korea. They kept on fighting about the situation, at the end Yeonso accepted to join him in USA but it ruined their couple relationship....at this point there was nothing left and he ask for divorce .... Yes he should have tried harder for his family. But their situation is very complex and I don't think that we, as an external person, can afford to judge them.

    • @BelanceM
      @BelanceM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I feel like Eli has done enough sacrifices.
      She should have got it together and went to the US
      You're a grown women. The man's working in a factory now. Went from kpop to a factory villainize him. Besides it'll actually be better for the baby to have lived in both places. She must admit she was scared.

    • @imane9919
      @imane9919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@BelanceM she was ready to follow him in USA, Eli is the one who asked for divorce before she joined him in his country. He did that because their relationship was already destroyed with all their quarells and he wanted to make her free.
      She did nothing wrong, she was always accommodating, (except for her mother who didn't get along with her) I don't think there is anyone to blame on this story, they both did their best but money ruined that beautiful couple

    • @irinimyeon2520
      @irinimyeon2520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I also heard some people saw her even selling luxurious bag to support her family bcs eli having a hard time and can't find job at sk at that time. I honestly don't blame both 100%. Both of them having a hard time maintaining the relationship. Financial issue, citizenship issue, the in-laws issue. Its so complicated but they decide to split up despite still have a love left in both of their heart. And to add they already have a responsibility which is their son. Its so messy :( but still, we also only know what they expose to us. As for all this info, I'm very skeptical on eli. If one of them really use the other, I hope the one get punished. If both really love each other, I'm sorry for them. But afterall, I just hope they find their happiness either together or separately, and their child will not affected much such as get bully at school etc. Poor kids.

  • @itsjenniex
    @itsjenniex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    Honestly in Elis case it would be better for the two of them to just live seperately but rather not too far away from each other so they can both see their son regularly. I doubt that their child would be happy living with two parents around that either constantly fight or have a weird / cold mood around them.

    • @victoriashevlin8587
      @victoriashevlin8587 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I absolutely agree, and I cannot believe the amount of people I've seen in the comments shaming unhappy couples remaining together for 'the children's sake'. It's widely recognised in psychology that it is detrimental to children in those relationships to be around the only real role models they have who dislike or even hate each other. Let alone the fact that it fosters unhealthy beliefs and expectations in the developing persons mind , it can also set them up to see being abused/abusive as NORMAL rather than unhealthy or dangerous.

  • @NghtMonster
    @NghtMonster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    Banning a mother from seeing her children? This is so cruel. Considering how wealthy they are, what happened to common decency? Are they all not educated? Can she not take them to court?

    • @Aya-te6cv
      @Aya-te6cv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Money talk.. sadly

    • @eifleefjn8002
      @eifleefjn8002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Because they are "wealthy"

    • @simsgazytech2013
      @simsgazytech2013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      they are adult already now. high probability she met them now.

    • @zvezdoblyat
      @zvezdoblyat ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol being wealthy doesn't make you smart

    • @seminpark4528
      @seminpark4528 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wealthy family, you watched K dramas? idk about them taking to court since idk how the law works in South Korea but they are definitely educated, I think they just dont care because obviously wealthy, tsk tsk.

  • @cherryblossom7442
    @cherryblossom7442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +627

    i have a feeling that the second husband used her to pay his 7 year debt and used her to be on tv. When she was of no use he left and came back when they offered him a tv show. Heck he didnt care about his baby and wife

    • @ichieyamato
      @ichieyamato 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      They were quite showy in the househusband show.. like every few minutes Eli would ask for a kiss. Didn't know he's like this tbh.. He also mentioned that he lost fans cuz of his marriage with her. Even if that's fact, what kind of a husband would say that? There were married people who stayed as his fans, he even got fans for being a father idol at such young age. Which made me had a peek of what his priorities were tbh.

    • @soulmechanic5539
      @soulmechanic5539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      We still didn't know all about what happend in they life there's more thing why they not along we didn't find

    • @akinyemioyindamola4875
      @akinyemioyindamola4875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      E

    • @steph3694
      @steph3694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      That husband is really shameless. Why couldn't he even pay for his own car? Divorced and still expecting the ex wife to pay for his car is just... Shameless. I really hope she doesn't get back to him and finds a nice new man

    • @soulmechanic5539
      @soulmechanic5539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@steph3694 I don't think they love each other before maybe they marrieg because of they parent

  • @Leo-nh9ui
    @Leo-nh9ui 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    the last case gives me britney spears vibe. How can you not allow her to see her children that she birthed wth.

  • @heartsincalico
    @heartsincalico 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    it's actually so sad because they HAVE KIDS together. they need to find a way to solve the problems they have between each other but if only one of them care... it'll fruit nothing. this is why you have to be really careful and considerate when it comes to having a relationship, especially when you are a big figure like an artist... so much more problems will arise and once you regret your decision you'll have to bear so many weights...

  • @sasasadarkheart
    @sasasadarkheart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Ukiss used to be my most fav group and Eli used to be my ulti bias…
    I didnt expect it from him… but after years in kpop yes I do admit hardcore fans are blind..

    • @melody3629
      @melody3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      '? divorice and problems are things that happen in life. idk why youre comment bothers me so much but theres something underhanded. if not just ignore me loll

    • @sasasadarkheart
      @sasasadarkheart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@melody3629 did u even watch the video? Or at least read the tittle. Also I’m saying the last sentence for general things in kpop fans world.

    • @melody3629
      @melody3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sasasadarkheart please don't try to be condescending in your reply I didn't insult you nor give you attitude so please reply with the same respect it should be good discussion whether we see this differently. Also I'm not talking about the last sentence you wrote starting from "but after". I'm just having a issue with everything before because it strikes me odd when people say things like "I didn't expect it from him.." . I don't like that phrasing but no hate to you

    • @sasasadarkheart
      @sasasadarkheart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@melody3629 i’m repying you with my calm mind and still in respect, really. This is what lettering can do right? I cant do nothing with you being offend after reading whatever I wrote.

    • @melody3629
      @melody3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sasasadarkheart i can clearly tell that the tone and words youve choosen shown that that your peeved. also i cant really say im offended since there was nothing dircted towrds me personally. so that would be the wrong word choice, another word maybe bt not offended; but again i guess we are just gonna have to agree to disagree. i left my thoughts and what u do with it is whatever ^^

  • @genegenerourou2446
    @genegenerourou2446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child .

    • @jminaj3467
      @jminaj3467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And go hyun-Jung deserves her child.

  • @sheFEISTY.43110
    @sheFEISTY.43110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    I think Eli and his ex-wife got married in the first place was because she was pregnant. Considering the effort they put on the show that they were a happy couple, must be so tiring. In most Asian culture (or in general), it looks bad for someone to even be a single mother. Ji Yeon Soo first rejected Eli multiple times before they got married. Shows she never really liked him that much but decided to give it a chance. I guess that chance got her pregnant.

    • @akuhappy3246
      @akuhappy3246 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @raka banerjee there are comments about them explained their story from both sides together in We Got Divorced. their cased is more than just negative assumption from us

  • @brendamarcus4405
    @brendamarcus4405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Can’t understand mother not getting her kids or not even being able to see them, just because the father of them has more money or his family does. That is inhumane and cruel. The children will suffer for it. Of course the mother will or sometimes it’s even the father that this happens to

  • @welcheee006
    @welcheee006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I still remember about the first couple, when the news about their age gap released my friends were talking the same thing "i might do not have a boyfriend rn, maybe he is still with his dad, or maybe he still on planning" 😂😂

    • @rizsaja2314
      @rizsaja2314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That also common in my country since huge age gap kind of normal here. There was a joke, if you still single, maybe your future partner haven't born yet so you have to be patient :(

  • @renagomezwasuthalainunt3063
    @renagomezwasuthalainunt3063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Children do not make a marriage. It is the couple who is the center of it all. Never ever use ypur children as a weapon to make a relationship work. I feel sorry for them all. They all got married for all the wrong reasons. Keep safe and be well everyone.

  • @blackneko9401
    @blackneko9401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Who said being cinderella surely make you happy ever after?
    When i was still kid, i really like fairy tale example like cinderella story. But after being 20s year old, i know that was totally fake in real world. If you a girl, pure, pretty, kind, poor and miserable, you can't marriage the prince. If you stubborn, you just being break by your family in law, your husband's circle, and of course your own husband.
    That was the example, you can't just see your lover's face, background, job, education, or personality. Look at his/her family, circle, and of course yourself.

  • @_hunter_x_hunter_5809
    @_hunter_x_hunter_5809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Poor Korean and Japanese celebs. People are so invested in their private lives. At the end of the day they are just normal human beings like us.

  • @colby_247
    @colby_247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    wow I remember Go Hyung-jung. She's in a k-drama called Spring Day.

  • @iamchloe8714
    @iamchloe8714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    they are not the only couple who are like that, and this is why famous actor and idol start to date normal people instead of other idol and actor.

  • @minouminou2034
    @minouminou2034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I always knew this relationship wont last not because they dated only for one month but cause he hide the fact that he had a son... no man in love will hide his wife and son

  • @bagofchips8399
    @bagofchips8399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    They took "OMFG LETS GET MARRIED 🥺🥺" to a new level 😂😂😂

  • @swarnikasingh4501
    @swarnikasingh4501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I can't understand why can't she meet her kids?.. Do these people know what growing up without a mother feels like?

  • @MnMnBahr.
    @MnMnBahr. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What! They were in love on that reality show

  • @apiocatherine7116
    @apiocatherine7116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    From the stories, the couples had it coming for them. The institution of marriage will not accept any acting in it but what it was created for.

  • @estherdar7575
    @estherdar7575 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This reminds me of Song Song couple Joon ki using Hye Kyo to boost his carrier/ fame. Couples that Divorce should remain divorced soulmates do not divorce processes / life lessons do. Love each other but do not do life together.

  • @Estonian4life
    @Estonian4life 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's hard to see our favorite idols struggle in life to find jobs and careers after their idol lives ended. Especially in Korea, even for the most simple job the competition is astronomically high and educational background plays an important role. It's always disappointing when some former idols reappear on some reality shows about "life after being an idol" and it shows they all struggle with depression, failed marriages, problems finding jobs and thinking that they are burdens to their families.

  • @nigirlsamantha8888
    @nigirlsamantha8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I just want them to be happy, it's their life. Bless all. Everyone goes through different experiences and different situations. All will go to the same hole. I hope they will be happy with their life soon.

  • @mizzdeegrannde
    @mizzdeegrannde 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marriage in Private and quiet is d best thing.. No cameras, no or less judgement in the public eye."period.

  • @alicea5
    @alicea5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    The last couple…what did the court use to deem her unfit and wouldn’t even let her see her children??!!! Unless she is very very toxic, she should get supervised visitations. Sigh.
    Dating is different from marriage. How do u know someone is gonna be compatible?

    • @EJK-wy3eb
      @EJK-wy3eb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      The ex is the CEO of Shinsegae... Money helps a lot in life

    • @hannahkhin4938
      @hannahkhin4938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Her ex is the CEO of Shinsegae . Those extremely rich people are above the law and government in S.Korea .

    • @coryhawley738
      @coryhawley738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      custody usually goes to the father in south Korea so its common

    • @Elizabeth-ej3yn
      @Elizabeth-ej3yn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      money, reputation and connections. I've watched a lot of her dramas, had no idea she had to deal with this.

  • @obsidian00
    @obsidian00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am obsessed with this channel...and I am not even Korean! Please keep up the great work.

  • @dr2drm88
    @dr2drm88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These chaebol people are the worst bullies denying the mother contact with the children and banning her ads in their stores.

  • @dancingdohl
    @dancingdohl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    For that first couple, did they say themselves before that they met in a club? And even his friends thought he was being a gold digger but he assured them that he loved her?

  • @afshinnanase4736
    @afshinnanase4736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Eli was my bias for so many years. I cannot believe he was like this. I am disappointed.

  • @bwane5961
    @bwane5961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was watching this so seriously until 7:18. What is Yoon Doojoon got to do with these stories???😆😆😆

    • @ronailush
      @ronailush 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad I'm not the only one recognized him 😂 I thought my eyes tricked me

  • @justacomment1389
    @justacomment1389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    7:18 isnt that yoon doo joon from beast/highlight? he looks so much like doo joon

  • @crazyMRRL
    @crazyMRRL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ku hye sun and Ahn jae hyun for me this include on the list😥

    • @mimadzer
      @mimadzer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Mine is Song Joongki & Song Hyekyo...it feels like they were married because of the hype/pressure from public, they should have dated longer before decided to get married

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mimadzer I think they only married because of the characters they played. I don’t think they needed to date longer. Dating time does not dictate a happy marriage for sure.

    • @mimadzer
      @mimadzer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj could be...they were riding the waves...i wasn't even surprised when they divorced

  • @yeoweehuathuat8926
    @yeoweehuathuat8926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be a great parent , fight or argued is a normal family life. Unfortunately some parent fight in front of their kids ,but if they stay together the child will saw the parent try their best to commit to tis relationship for his happiness.Don’t give up on ur relationship .Unless one of the partner aren’t committed then divorce only option ! Divorce always the last resort !

  • @idoulover
    @idoulover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My thing with age gap relationships is as long as the older person isn't waiting for the younger to become a certain age. Aka as long as they met as adults (To me that's 21 but in the US the legal age is 18, which is still too young for me as I was still in high-school at 18)

  • @ireneonly
    @ireneonly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And the last one, the real truth of marrying a chaebol.

  • @mariareed5238
    @mariareed5238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    my husband is 22 years younger than me and when I told his mum we were getting married she grabbed me and gave me the biggest hug ever she has been amazing

  • @idiopathic_x
    @idiopathic_x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    7:18 i thought that was Doo Joon from Beast? 😳

    • @krispykroke
      @krispykroke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is him 😂😂, the daughter took a photo with him and Apink once

  • @lostsoul113
    @lostsoul113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wowww marriage is really scary 😵

  • @sasfishadventures9729
    @sasfishadventures9729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel so bad for the last woman omh

  • @Amazingfreakouts
    @Amazingfreakouts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t even know any of these people but I still watched lol

  • @tiredbylife.5589
    @tiredbylife.5589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    24 and...40...uh? What is that age gap... ... ...chile...

  • @jiminswife2312
    @jiminswife2312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waw.. i don't know they are divorce,, i used to like their program, looks harmonis and romantic tho 😲

  • @claudiaclaudia6656
    @claudiaclaudia6656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember watching one episode of that show. The baby didn't look like it belongs to them. The mom massive plastic surgery and the dad's didn't help. They were such an odd couple and I didn't feel the attraction. I didn't bother with that show but i always think about them and remember how shocked i was when I saw the baby. Good luck to Eli and Ji yeon soon.

  • @orophile1842
    @orophile1842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What about Koo Hye-Sun and Ahn Jae-Hyun? I heard that it’s one of the messiest too

  • @Pratiksha656
    @Pratiksha656 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Got married after a month? People are so careless

  • @luvinsweetlife
    @luvinsweetlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi. What are the sites that have Korean shows and dramas with English subtitles?!

  • @enbeh7213
    @enbeh7213 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    eli kim's marriage was weird to a lot of people...

  • @TheCrystalBoat
    @TheCrystalBoat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The last one is sick. Separating children from either of their parents unless the parent is a bad parent (it didn't say she was) is awful and so selfish, especially if done for spiteful reasons. And "fans" saying a couple should stay together "for the sake of the kids" is ridiculous. My parents stayed together "for the kids" and I was like "JUST BREAK UP ALREADY" it was awful.

  • @dmiserv2093
    @dmiserv2093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These days people are getting married and separated as soon as possible So it’s not new in this fast world😁 but SAD for their children🥹especially in celebrities lifestyle!!

  • @anitacoopert1668
    @anitacoopert1668 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eli from U kiss ,smh . You have to support your family … that’s life ..

  • @marielagutierrez6629
    @marielagutierrez6629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:25 You used the wrong picture that's Eli and Ji Yeon-soo

  • @gabsl1552
    @gabsl1552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I dont recommend young people at age of 18-25 not to get married because it’s not yet PURELY MATURE FOR THIS BIG LIFE.
    1. Money for the rest of their life
    2. Attitude (esp big gaps)
    3. Family background (esp against one of the family. It’s too TOUGH to fix.)
    4. How does your wife/husband treat u. Should be EQUAL. SHUD BE SUPPORT EACH OTHER. Not dragging down like old fashioned

  • @mizz_debs
    @mizz_debs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Uhhh her name is "Yeon Soo" Not "Ji Yeon"... Ji is her surname what lol

  • @다미최-w5b
    @다미최-w5b ปีที่แล้ว

    I have lived in South Korea for 43 years . There is the law and then there is the law for the very rich. Two very different things. While this happens in every country, it does not behove any one to get on the wrong side of any rich Korean.

  • @onetwothree8359
    @onetwothree8359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    just wear condom if they just want to do that. not pregnant than married after a years divorce poor the child. married its about understanding responsibility

  • @valentinaangela9177
    @valentinaangela9177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those poor kids :(

    • @roseannabella
      @roseannabella 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's adopt them 😂🤣

  • @infp-t2817
    @infp-t2817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    But it’s so weird.. because for her to not be able to see her children means she got a restraining order against her. Maybe the court ruled that she was harmful or deemed unable to take care of her children.

    • @rmekaningtyas7007
      @rmekaningtyas7007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      You mean Go Hyunjung's case? Her husband's family is crazy rich. I believe they just cut her off from her children using all resources they have. They even ban her from modelling for department stores, which has nothing to do with her marriage at all.

    • @infp-t2817
      @infp-t2817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rmekaningtyas7007 I understand the department store thing since they own them and can use their power to ban her but are they that powerful to mess with the law is what I’m curious about. Because she could sue them, it’s her children custody we’re talking about afterall..

    • @minyoongiswag2602
      @minyoongiswag2602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@infp-t2817 look the ex husband is the grandson of Samsung founder.....m pretty sure blending the law is not out of their hands...don't you know how big is Samsung.....besides the in laws dont even like the wife because she is just an actress...no family connections...no matter how popular of an actress she is...she got nothing on them

    • @hannaansari2921
      @hannaansari2921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @ENFP-T is it really that hard for you to figure out that the rich ex husband used his wealth and connections to block her from seeing her kids out of revenge?this kind of situation is actually quite common

    • @infp-t2817
      @infp-t2817 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@minyoongiswag2602 y’all if she went all the way on variety shows talking about the issue for the whole society of South Korea to start talking about it y’all seriously think the issue just gonna be swept under the rug? yeah sure the family powerful af and has shit ton of connections but they still can’t stripe her of her RIGHTS from completely not being able to get in contact with her children. so im just saying im sure they’re a shitty wealthy family but there’s more to this story.

  • @heiwa_tan
    @heiwa_tan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my your video is quite confusing because you showed picture of Eli and ex-wife during Jin Hua and his wife, and then has Dujun Highlight to portray a son in the last story sjdnjsjdjdh anyway the stories are simple..just please put disclaimer or something

  • @ladydianedjojodiningrat1797
    @ladydianedjojodiningrat1797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohhh Relly they saparate now . Wow

  • @bibiworm
    @bibiworm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What I learned here is don’t do plastic surgery. You will look scary as you age.

    • @TLB-wo7ld
      @TLB-wo7ld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣😱😂

  • @ninadiamant8937
    @ninadiamant8937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Korea, you be wildin girl.

  • @y4wrns
    @y4wrns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    why don't ham sowon find a guy 1970+?
    and why ham sowon choose guy who born at 1994?
    also why jin hua choose to marries ham sowon?
    maybe bfr they got married, there is an agreement between them.
    the conclusion is that both of them are wrong and because they want "popularity" their kids are affected

    • @bamdingayan3906
      @bamdingayan3906 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She did not think according to her age 😤

  • @mishazen6662
    @mishazen6662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why is there Yoon doo joon in 7:18 ...?

  • @FishingtheSkyxd
    @FishingtheSkyxd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:18 wait what the heck, that's yoon doojoon from highlight

  • @kayewilde8871
    @kayewilde8871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The eefing wrong with this? You just name Yoon Doo-joon as the famous actress's child. You kidding me?

  • @btsarmyforever3816
    @btsarmyforever3816 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last one is really sad. She endured a lot of abuse and couldn't even see the kids. But the thing is the individual businesses don't have to use her pictures as a model. They already paid her. It's up-to them if they wished to continue to use her pics or replace them. No laws stating that they have to use the model's picture or videos. If you are going to marry into such a wealthy family while not being that wealthy yourself, you have to think twice. They are the Samsung family. Obviously the level is different. They are in a different circle. Obviously they would not welcome an actress into their family. Pretty sure they were opposed but the son must have convinced her that they will come around and stuff. If your lover's family doesn't like you, don't marry that person. It can lead to issues like this.

  • @annibzht2871
    @annibzht2871 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sorry but that’s Yoon Doojoon from Beast/Highlight @7:19

  • @samrobot6
    @samrobot6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also u kiss ashib dongho i Remember he also was just in a controversial relationship

  • @ruffgook
    @ruffgook ปีที่แล้ว

    eli was gaslighted to crisp. poor dude

  • @wintersprinkle
    @wintersprinkle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    why do you sound like kookielit or something?

    • @juasworld8633
      @juasworld8633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is the same voice actor. Both of those channels are made by huge companies. Aka content farms (other content farms; Anna oop,Anna Solves etc)

    • @wintersprinkle
      @wintersprinkle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juasworld8633 huh? what do you mean? means they copied each other?

  • @gisellebaez4168
    @gisellebaez4168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can you watch the variety show of taste of wife.

  • @02Rainer
    @02Rainer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thumbnail girl look like Mr potato Head T-T

  • @sophiayamagughi
    @sophiayamagughi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw the thumbnail and ELI???

  • @luvsachkash
    @luvsachkash 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last one is worst. Once the children grow up they gonna turn against them for sure

  • @likeyjoy6705
    @likeyjoy6705 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:17 highlight leader?

  • @mojataxko3802
    @mojataxko3802 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:17 Highlight Dujun ?

  • @haritham1060
    @haritham1060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel bad for children

  • @mtimm9023
    @mtimm9023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are not allowing you to see your kids. Yeah. Kinda childish

  • @kevinkevinkevin1909
    @kevinkevinkevin1909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Old women marrying younger man....stop these fantasy of Kdrama marriage.

  • @Serena-p4o
    @Serena-p4o 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this youtube account has the same voice as kookielit smh y’all really a farm

  • @D1LF-L0V3R
    @D1LF-L0V3R ปีที่แล้ว

    This is why celebrities shouldn’t put everything online for everyone to see.

  • @haley4699
    @haley4699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lol with eli, everyone knew they were faking it 😅. And why they broke up... it was more cause she wanted to be famous through him and it did not work. I do not believe her as much because of her past actions and such. She was just always suspicious. Im not saying eli had no fault, but she definitely had a lot of advantage being the only one talking and in Korea. So u only heard one side

    • @Number-lq9jb
      @Number-lq9jb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      she's a model right.So why want to take advantage .She's even pretty too if want to choose another person .
      And as a husband and wife ,it's ok if wife doesn't want to work and take care of the kids while husband work and help the wife when at home.As long the couple agree and tolerance.Thats women choise and the husband too.
      Taking care of children is not easy .Housewives don't have a holiday like when work outsides ,at least have a little break time.

    • @haley4699
      @haley4699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Number-lq9jb she is a model, but not famous nor even popular. She is also considered old in Korea so no one would marry at her age at time. I never said anything about her working though? So I am not sure what u are talking about? I don't think you understood my comment.

  • @genegenerourou2446
    @genegenerourou2446 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The second one is so fucked up, i feel bad for the child.

  • @christinegalloway7101
    @christinegalloway7101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Narcissistic people dont change,they were scammed and seem the parents of these men was in on it,but God dont sleep, they day of reckoning is coming, me to was married to a narcissist and believe me your life is hell,i lost everything walk out with nothing but im at peace,they should just move on,i learned the hard way,praying for kids,

  • @elviedelarosa5028
    @elviedelarosa5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ji jisoo said bad things about Eli's parents. If I were Eli, I I wouldn't let it just pass me by.

    • @ΠαρασκευηΚωστελιδου
      @ΠαρασκευηΚωστελιδου 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      If they treat you like a trash and accuse of deceiving their son you can just say thank you!! What a stupid comment!!

    • @elviedelarosa5028
      @elviedelarosa5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ΠαρασκευηΚωστελιδου I have a lot of bread and I'll throw one back at you for my stupid comment- there's a reason for being trashed!!!!$$$$$$$ if my comment is stupid. Why did you respond to it? What does that make you?

    • @hannaansari2921
      @hannaansari2921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So you expect her to praise them for mistreating her? pretty sure you'd do the same if your in laws treat you badly,it's not that difficult to understand that respect goes both ways,if you mistreat your daughter in law then she has the right to expose you and treat you the same way

    • @elviedelarosa5028
      @elviedelarosa5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hannaansari2921 Respect is the keyword. In-laws are one's second parents. I am a parent and an in law myself. You don't speak ill of your second parents and broadcast it to the world. If and when a misunderstanding happens between me and my in laws, I will make sure I don't forget self respect so I don't regret any wrong actions.

    • @Allison-io6yp
      @Allison-io6yp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elviedelarosa5028 Sadly, she's gone on multiple shows to trash talk Eli and his family. People tend to forget that there are always two sides to a story, and the public has only really heard her side (and how she wants to portray the situation). Eli has never badmouthed her publicly and has remained quiet on their personal matters (despite the horrible things being said about him). You are right, respect truly is the keyword. Perhaps fans should ask if she was respectful toward her inlaws while she stayed with them...perhaps she is not quite the victim she claims to be. And perhaps Eli, and his family, are not the monsters she has portrayed them to be (the family is quite nice, actually). I appreciate your comment.

  • @whatevergoesforme5129
    @whatevergoesforme5129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These women should find better plastic surgeons. Plastic surgery should be subtle to work or else it will be too obvious you got all kinds of "job."

  • @aestridsmay
    @aestridsmay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh why is dujun here lol

  • @bangbangwilliams3763
    @bangbangwilliams3763 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 honestly 🤣🤣🤣

  • @veronicaarias211
    @veronicaarias211 ปีที่แล้ว

    So that show I know your bread to the lands.

  • @iampigoinkoink5185
    @iampigoinkoink5185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1057

    Not letting her see her kid is inhuman !!! She freaking gave birth ...

    • @niksquik_
      @niksquik_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      It depends on the relationship she has with the child, plus who ever has full custody, gets to decide whether or not they want the child to see the other parent

    • @iguessso1790
      @iguessso1790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So? He is still the father and it's now the other way around. If both parents don't live in the same county, things like that happen

    • @iampigoinkoink5185
      @iampigoinkoink5185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@iguessso1790 you guys have no idea ...it happened because when this case happened if some couple divorced in Korea the custody will go to father and well they were quite Powerful too ..they just wanted her so she can give them a kid .. that's it they treated her horribly ..he must have another wife and probably her kid Don't even know he has a different biological mom or those people probably told him she left him... please study about this case a little bit first

    • @iguessso1790
      @iguessso1790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@iampigoinkoink5185 sounds like your comment is bases on assumption. And i was talking about the first story just for clarification

    • @granmamushroom9246
      @granmamushroom9246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@iampigoinkoink5185 that's a lot of assumptions

  • @selena311lol
    @selena311lol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +747

    Eli was once my ideal type from his easygoing nature and humour even tho I stanned many 2nd gen groups but he always felt closer cause he was eng fluent obviously. I remember his departure from UKISS and sudden public marriage/child announcement like it was yesterday. I remember thinking "dang it, it had to be him out of all of them" but wow I had no idea all this happened after cause he fell off my radar from going private for a while... Didn't realise its become so public now!

    • @dors_1255
      @dors_1255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      *when I saw him personally I became a kpop fan and he's my first love huhu*

    • @ROYAL_BTS_ARMY-fp1cf
      @ROYAL_BTS_ARMY-fp1cf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I'm still stuck on him calling her from the United States for a divorce she had to go back to Korea to get the documents and then u pull this stunt that's messed up

    • @HappiAcrossCultures
      @HappiAcrossCultures 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      me toooooo!!! UKISS was my first kpop band ever, i still remember finding 'Neverland' and Eli really sticking out to me. I had no idea it ended up like this!! 😭

  • @trinichan5103
    @trinichan5103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Thats so fucked up. Let her see her children 😭