I have a lot of respect for Josh for opening up to us about his struggles. Showing us the real side to life. Its helping more ppl than he probably realizes
Yes same !! I love how Real and Genuine this couple is I wish them many blessings in their relationship and I can't wait to see them walk down the aisle too !!
For all college students out there, please make sure you do internships while you are STILL in college. I got my $60k offer during my senior year of college because I interned at the company for two summers. That’s how you get “experience.” Grades don’t translate to real world success. Also start investing now. If you do, by 30 you will have an amazing net worth.
Dee Thank you!! I’ve been trying to get some HR experience. I am a junior right now. Did the company you interned at offer you the job or was it a different one?
@@melindajohnson17 Your college should have some internships. Ask around. Junior Year is almost over. If you are into HR apply to internships with the state. The NJ the Department of Labor just finished asking for interns yesterday. other states might be finishing up soon so apply soon. Check INDEED.COM
Chico Jude Thank you!! I actually live in NJ and I did apply for some internships with them. I’m looking to here back from them while I apply for other companies.
I think josh having to hit rock bottom alone is the reason he is who he is today sometimes you gotta pull yourself outta the ashes life buried you in and you become unstoppable
“She is what we call a keeper. Not a rider. Not somebody who holds the pistol. No girl should ever have to hold the pistol for you. That’s your choice” 😂😂
My mom and I went to the Papadeaux’s in Chicago. They messed up my order and I asked for the manager. Josh came over and he was sooo nice and accommodating. I drove myself crazy trying to remember where I knew his face from and it wasn’t until we left the restaurant did I realize it was from this channel! My mom and I made sure to tip well. Happy to hear you guys are flourishing together
It's great to see a young lady that truly understands her worth and a young man that acknowledges, respects and strives to be a man that can match her worth. I can definitely see the growth and maturity in each of you. Continue to soar.... together ❤.
Josh could’ve easily let her leave and settled with someone that didn’t care if he was doing anything with his life but he loved Isi so much that he did WHATEVER to keep her. This is a prime example of how a man will do what he needs to do to get or keep the woman he loves.
A lot of College students need to hear this,it can be really rough even years after you leave College.not everyone gets their dream job right after College
WOW!!!!! When I tell you, you will NEVER know a persons story by just looking at them. Josh and Isi are two really strong people and they are good for each other. Crazy enough I saw that something might have been a struggle for Josh when he did his apartment tour video, with this thumbnail looking like he still couldn’t believe that he was in his own place. So proud of you guys. Keep bring the quaaaality videos guys!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕
I literally got divorced because this is how my ex husband was and would not get it together.. married or not.. I couldn’t do it to myself.. Good for you guys for making it they and good for Josh for seeing the importance of getting himself together.❤️ Your wedding will be very special..
WoW... Josh’s story brought me to TRARSSSS. It’s crazy to think that you guys were 4 years deep in the relationship and Josh was keeping all of this to himself. I learned so much from just that portion of the video alone. It makes me soooo happy to see you guys together and Josh back on his feet! God bless you both and Here is to a bright future for the both of you❤️
Mayyn honestly this warms my heart so much This right here proves that there's hope for love in this world Not love that flaunts finessing and all that But love that actually carries the fundamentals of a life long bond😭😭😭 Yoo this is making me so happy
He also had to come to grips that his life plan was not coming to pass. It can be humbling and depressing. He had to see another path of success. Sometimes it's hard to get out of that mindset. It's like feeling like a failure when it's actually not. It's setting you up for the next step.
I respect the fact that, you guys were willing to share this. Hearing genuine experiences from people like you two, motivates the rest of us to keep going. It sucks to be in the position that josh was in, but Thank God he is doing way better! we Love to see u! and Isi a real one!!!! I knew we were birthday twins for a reason #Virgo!
I love the realness, that’s why y’all are goals. The good, the bad, and the ugly and I admire that about you guys. Y’all are soo relatable and a blessing to me and one of the BEST TH-camrs, PERIODT. Thank you Josh & Isi!
She’s a real one .. I am so glad she didn’t settle for less and that josh didn’t take her for granted ❤️❤️❤️ very beautiful testimony ❤️❤️❤️ God bless youuu
The testimony that Josh told was life touching it was real and Straight to the point. How Isi stay encourage him didn't leave him she kept believing him that he will be successful in life!! This is a real friendship that's how they started and they couldn't leave each other hanging that real! I'm a real fan love this couple, y'all keep that fire going and bring them videos rolling! Peace, Love and hair grease!!!
Currently going through what josh went through after collage .... dat postgrad depression is real. Employers really don't care about ur grades especially if u don't have experience and it socks. Thanks for sharing ur story.
I just turned 20 & I'm sooooo scared of "adulting" & I feel like I can't explain to anyone around me why I'm this scared! This video taught me alot...1) Don't believe everything u see on social media. 2) Never bring urself down for a man, the one that really loves u will work hard to come up so he can be with u. 3) hard work pays off!!!
I love that Josh noticed the love Isi has for him to do better FOR himself then RECIPROCATED and showed gratitude for her helping him. I know about this job struggle. I got my degree in December (ceremony in May) and having crazy trouble finding something to pay what I think I should be making smh.
WOW! 🥺. In my head, I really believed they had the most perfect relationship, no issues, no troublesome... but they are ONLY HUMAN. I think the reason I believed that is because of what’s being shown infront of you may fool you to believe that life is going good, until people have the courage to share their real lives with you
Send since most ppl don't show it... let that be the lesson... whether u see it or not... no one's life is perfect... social media is the new high school where ppl can front then turn off the camera/leave school & go back to their regular lives
I Love The Honesty & Vulnerability From Josh To Let Us All In On A VERY Personal Time In His Life . The Struggle Be Really Real For People . Isi Is Definitely A Real One Sticking By Her Man Through Thick & Thin ! Loveeee Y'all ❤❤
I applaud you guys for sharing this part of your relationship. I can totally relate to Josh. You think you have your shit together with school and you’re graduating about to live the best life cause of that degree, but that’s not always the case. I have TWO degrees my bachelors and masters and when he said it’s not even easy to get an entry level job I felt that! I’m just a couple years older than you guys. Two degrees worked in retail (still in retail) to pay my own way and take care of myself, thinking after school finding a job I’ve studied for should be easy WORNG! That’s shit is hard! Retail for me can’t cover my dream to have my own place, unless I’m getting paid beyond minimum wage. I see my boyfriend with two jobs and feel like damn I’m trying to be on that level so I won’t hold us back from getting a place. Even tho he says I’m not I still feel bad. Trust me I want what I want at the time I want it, but God has the final say! God knows my dreams but he has a plan on when I’ll have that dream career. I just have to be patient and keep grinding and be thankful for the job I do have now. Love you guys😊
Whew, chile. My emotions went from, “Oh, wooooowwwwww,” to “Awwwwwwwww,” then back to “Oh, woooooooowwwwww.” Y’all are truly meant for each other. Y’all have seen each other at y’all’s worst, and still worked it out. True love at its finest.
This got me thinking. Reflecting. Evaluating myself and my life as a whole. Thank u for ur BRUTAL honesty. This was worth every minute. God bless y’all! Only up from here on out
I appreciate your honesty so much. Being 25 yrs I thought i would be in a better position financially however life has it's way of taking unexpected turns. You see other ppl in your age range doing great or make it seem like they are doing good, so it's comforting to know that myself and other ppl experience the same thing struggles. We just have to stop viewing others as better and be proud of our ourselves for the little progress.
I' m on a tough spot now after college and I really needed to hear that " my situation doesn't define who I am ". Much respect guys, u booth inspire me and I really appreciate you for openly sharing your experience
I'm actually going through my own "Year 4" and I'm so happy to hear someone else talk about how I feel right now. Thank you for telling your story Josh. This will help me to keep trying and praying for my opportunity to come. Love you guys!
Josh, It's crazy how much my story mirrors yours. Star student in college who didn't have a plan (I had a plan but it fell through). Iffy jobs, hardship, you name it. While my boyfriend didn't put the fire under my ass my mom did. I respect you so much for sharing your story in such detail and I know so many people who are in this situation right now. Unfortunately, college doesn't prepare us to be adults, but here I am almost 2 years later living in D.C. (paying rent) and going to graduate school. I'm so happy for yall.
College is literally that rite of passage that makes or breaks you. Life hits you immediately after graduation and it can get to you. Depression and all. But I'm glad yall made it through!!
I can whole heartily relate to Josh's situation and I'm still in the process of getting myself together. Even though I'm single, I know where I need to be in life at this point and I want be equal with my future significant other. Thanks for being an open book in this video, a true TESTIMONY! Also I wanna see a ring on Isi's finger by the end of year 5!!!!
I'm a 16 y/o and clearly I know nothing about anything but I'm glad to see that you two found each other.. Y'all taught me that whilst love and support are great, you need push your person not only because you love them or you want them to match your current situation (financial stability in you guy's case) but also because you want them to put in effort and become the best person they can be... That hit home Thank y'all 🙏❤️
Hooked on y’all channel n it’s now 3 am 🤦🏾♀️ but I love how y’all do yearly relationship reviews. I see how real and down to earth y’all are. Rare to find on TH-cam !! Isa a real one she’s a motivator she’s strong And she believed in him. Congrats Josh on always preserving!! Learning and growing with each other 🥰 Next I’ll be seeing a 💎 on your finger Isi lol !!!
20:38 - THIS IS EXACTLY WHY SO MANY HIGH SCHOOLERS DONT WANNA GO TO COLLEGE but then they claim that if u dont have a certain degree, you cant get a certain number of jobs and they wonder why almost all of us are depressed🙄 41:25- how Josh be coming up with the BOMB QUOTES.. THATS GOD GIVEN WISDOM RIGHT THERE
Those expectations at the beginning had me saying “chilllllllllld life finna school you real quick” aaaaand it did, but y’all bounced back with the comeback. I love y’all’s honesty Congrats on the 100k🥂
Yo know as a young person you are helping me realise ALL the side that go into a relationship. And helping me realise not everything is sweet. And i appriciate yall so much for that. I can definetly hold off dating for a good minute, i got time.
Don’t forget that you’re still worthy Josh. Whether or not she had walked away, it wouldn’t have defined you as a person. BUT she is a real one for staying and being real with you
From a 63-year-old viewer of Josh and Isi, Josh is a wonderful young man, Isi is a wonderful young woman, they are going to always be together and successful, may God continue to bless them, they have proved they can do this life together--this video is wonderful.
Wow Josh, what a TESTIMONY! Pride will get you in all kinds of messes. I understand. Also Isi, can we have a video on what motivated you to start your TH-cam and how to remain consistent even if you weren't seeing the results you wanted too?
Thats the thing I like about this couple. They show the real. They show how everything is not always all smiles and giggles. Thank y'all for showing us realistic relationship videos
I’m crying 😭 isi is the definition of a ride or die because she took his struggle and yours and still stayed with home and josh is awesome person when I tell you that’s your soulmate like god had a plan for y’all and I can’t wait too see where life and god take y’all I love you and josh and I’m really proud of you ❤️❤️
"You can't let life win." I sat down with a bowl of spaghetti and clicked 'play'. I never expected to cry in this video. These stories remind me that God is good. Thanks for sharing. God bless you guys
i started watching this channel waaay back in like 2017 & just by watching their goofier videos you would never know how much they, especially josh has been through! i feel so proud of u guys & i admire your resilience! may God bless your relationship for many years to come 💕
Deep. I saw it though. I remember saying she was out growing him if things didnt change. Well the beauty gang wasnt feeling my comment.🤣🤣 I'm so glad you stuck to your guns & look @ him now!!
I’m year 4 Josh-ing it right now so this video helped me to feel like there is light at the end of the tunnel . I need about 4 Isi’s to threaten me to get my life together cause I’m really hard headed 🥴
I love this video guys! Thank you Josh, I’m going through the post grad life right now, I recently graduated last December and it’s like I’ve applied to SOOOO many jobs and it’s like I will never get the experience if y’all don’t hire me, I have the degree so now what. My mind just been everywhere and I feel like all ends are exhausted but this helped me see that my situation now is only temporary and I appreciate y’all for sharing ❤️
China Lawrence yea it hit really hard for me too in 2018 but if I could go back and be smarter I would take a full time job doing anything and while working there apply and interview for something in ur degree field
Elise Cromwell Thank you girl! That’s what I had to get out of my pride and come to realization about because it was sending me down a long depress road
Young love, Josh I’m really proud of you for hanging in there with your lovely QUEEN. A lot of young men and old men for that matter would’ve been ran the other way in your situation but u stood up like a REAL BOSS!!! And face your setbacks and adversity head on. Keep believing in yourself and continue to rise to your greatest potential. I have been watching you and ISI videos for some time now and I can truly say Josh you have evolved tremendously keep up the awesome Flowage if u will. Please excuse my run on sentences. ❤️ u guys all the way from Detroit
I love how Josh is not afraid to admit his wrongdoings. And how Isi isn’t afraid to voice how she feels bc I know she only wants to help him. I’ve always watched Isi but now watching their couple videos. I’ve been hooked. This relationship is really inspiring. ❤️
I’m at 9:05 into the video and paused because I am emotional. Didn’t even know that was happening and pride is something man. I live by the Bible quote: “Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.”- Proverbs 16:18. Basically meaning having pride will always lead to darkness and bad times. You learned the hard way and had to pull yourself out of it, but it made you stronger and a better person. Hopefully this taught you to ask for help with people close to you like telling Isi and her mom. I went through that and when I read one of my favorite authors books called “Go Tell It On The Mountain” by James Baldwin, tell me why I saw that exact quote and I felt like God was speaking to me.❤️
Omg this video was so relatable lol preach guys, people always say popular couples are goals but are they willing to go through the up and downs that come with that long lasting relationship! Awww you guys are so cute! Yes amen josh. Isi is a keeper!
I’m new to the Isi and Josh channel...and I just fall in love with them more and more when I watch a video of them. This video made me cry hearing Josh story and Isi really being there for him and pushing him because she saw his true potential 🥺 Josh testimony...WHEW! God really came through and showed out👏🏾👏🏾 This video really moved me in so many ways.
Year 4 did not define you. So yes, we still team “get you a Josh” lol. We all have to remember we have faults but to move forward in order to better ourselves and that’s what you did. Isi is great and I loved 43:45-end 😂.
Guys thank you for sharing your personal life with us. Man or Woman we all have struggles. Wishing you both the best, keep being each others best friend and don't take it for granted.
Honestly, my boyfriend and I stick with each other, even though, I am the one who has the thoughts of breaks or even breaking up just like Isi. However, I know that we're approaching our 2nd anniversary and I believe that we will begin or continue to change and evolve our relationship. He sticks with me even through my darkest days and I greatly appreciate it. He also does a lot for me at my age and I want to do the same once I get another job and spoil him like he does me.
My boyfriend and I are kind in the same situation that you guys were in, you know I’am doing my thing starting to think that he isn’t mature and ambitious enough... but through it all, we’re sticking together no matter what, and I’am kind of realizing now that, we are so young, I shouldn’t stress myself like that because growth comes when it’s ready, and I really thank you guys because I often have this bad habit of comparing myself and my relationship to other’s and knowing that you guys went through the same thing as we are, especially that you guys are one of my favorite couples, it makes me really happy and relief 😩 I’am glad to be one of you’re subscribers, wish you all the best Josh and Isi ❤️
Year 4 Josh was awesome! You worked while living in a car. Amazing determination and drive. It just took you a little while to find your speed. We women have to also know how to be a soft place and encouragement...anybody could face joblessness, depression, becoming sick...We have to be committed through the good and bad times especially in marriage. I pray that God is first in our lives so we are led by Him in our relationships. Beautiful testimony that bad moments do become blessings.
I absolutely love the 2 of you not only as a couple but as inspirational speakers. There's so many things I can say about this video that shows yall stay true to yourselves. Here are a few to start off with, first and foremost yall blessed the food on camera and that shows you are not ashamed of your traditions. Also as a couple you told us the good, the bad and the ugly. No matter what the circumstances may have been there was always support n a boost to keep Josh on track. I feel like yall are meant to be and yall energy is so romantic. I can't wait to see more of yall. I would like to see a proposal, wedding shower, wedding, baby shower and babies. Just pitting that out there, love. Stay Blessed you too
I liked the part where you admitted sometimes the vibe between you guys is off since we only see the perfectly in sync chemistry between you guys. A great reminder that even great couples have to work through things. It’s not always easy and perfect.
I love y’all’s relationship, because of how hard you guys work at staying open and honest while maintaining integrity and respect . which is so rare . God Bless
Josh, you have a keeper in Isi. I was in the same situation and I walked away because the guy did NOTHING to step up, to add on he victimised the whole situation and made it everyone's else's fault for his situation. Y'all i Ieft after being with him for 3 years. Always thought I was in the wrong but now seeing how Josh made it a point to step up shows me that I made a good decision to bounce. Anyway South Africa🇿🇦 here to support❤
FR! I got in to it on instagram about tipping. So many people don’t understand, the government automatically take a percentage of your paycheck to make up for taxes on tips. Serving is designed to live off tips! Not an option! Anyway, I’m happy you got on your feet and this queen stuck by you and pushed you! Love love love!
You need stability before you chase your dreams because dreams don't pay to support you. So many people online talk badly about 9-5 jobs but unless you already have a successful side hustle you're not going to be able to support yourself. I had to learn this the hard way when I took a gap year from school. Thank you Josh for sharing your story!
Wow guys, thank you so much for opening up about such a hard time in your life Josh and isi. It’s also nice to see that even when our relationship get so bad to the point where we feel like we just don’t even want to be with that person anymore but we can always bounce back and get to where you guys are
It’s so beautiful to see realistic standards & the natural process of love 🥺🥺❤️ society has made people believe that true love is all about Birkins and flexing and perfection. Thank you for sharing your truth with us! May God bless your union ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have a lot of respect for Josh for opening up to us about his struggles. Showing us the real side to life. Its helping more ppl than he probably realizes
Definitely more than he realise
Amber Peeks honestly
I agree. This definitely has helped me.
Yeah, this was a level of transparency that took a lot of courage to unveil.
Agree I felt that story .. it's good.
this isn't a story.. this is a TESTIMONY! GOD IS AMAZING! Amen!
Indeed it is.
Hallelujah! Amen! GOD bless you all in Jesus' name!! Amen!!
Amennn
Period!
Amen❤️🙌🙌✝️🙌🌻♥️
Who is praying to get a lasting relationship like this?😊👋👋
I want to see them married in 2022-23 years. I nice wedding Ceremony 😁👌👌👌👌😁😁😁👌
Yes same !! I love how Real and Genuine this couple is I wish them many blessings in their relationship and I can't wait to see them walk down the aisle too !!
I'm sorry but a lot of y'all aren't solid like this
For all college students out there, please make sure you do internships while you are STILL in college. I got my $60k offer during my senior year of college because I interned at the company for two summers. That’s how you get “experience.” Grades don’t translate to real world success. Also start investing now. If you do, by 30 you will have an amazing net worth.
Dee Thank you!! I’ve been trying to get some HR experience. I am a junior right now. Did the company you interned at offer you the job or was it a different one?
@@melindajohnson17 Your college should have some internships. Ask around. Junior Year is almost over. If you are into HR apply to internships with the state. The NJ the Department of Labor just finished asking for interns yesterday. other states might be finishing up soon so apply soon. Check INDEED.COM
Chico Jude Thank you!! I actually live in NJ and I did apply for some internships with them. I’m looking to here back from them while I apply for other companies.
Dee this is such great advice. So many people especially minorities don’t have this info or don’t know where to turn. Work experience is so important.
This is GOLD I wasn’t taught these things in college
I think josh having to hit rock bottom alone is the reason he is who he is today sometimes you gotta pull yourself outta the ashes life buried you in and you become unstoppable
Arrey Nicole big facts
Well said
“She is what we call a keeper. Not a rider. Not somebody who holds the pistol. No girl should ever have to hold the pistol for you. That’s your choice” 😂😂
My mom and I went to the Papadeaux’s in Chicago. They messed up my order and I asked for the manager. Josh came over and he was sooo nice and accommodating. I drove myself crazy trying to remember where I knew his face from and it wasn’t until we left the restaurant did I realize it was from this channel! My mom and I made sure to tip well. Happy to hear you guys are flourishing together
@Breonna Walker
WOW! We will be there (Papadeaux’s) in a few weeks😊
Woww👏🏾👏🏾
Josh: "You were the only light in that zone..."
*Isi gives Josh a peck kiss on the cheek*
Me: I'M CRYINNNNGGGG RIGHT NOW WITH HAPPINESS.
Part?
It's great to see a young lady that truly understands her worth and a young man that acknowledges, respects and strives to be a man that can match her worth.
I can definitely see the growth and maturity in each of you. Continue to soar.... together ❤.
Josh could’ve easily let her leave and settled with someone that didn’t care if he was doing anything with his life but he loved Isi so much that he did WHATEVER to keep her. This is a prime example of how a man will do what he needs to do to get or keep the woman he loves.
So true
Agreed
A lot of College students need to hear this,it can be really rough even years after you leave College.not everyone gets their dream job right after College
Exactly! I tell younger people this all
The time!
I lived in my car with my daughter when she was 3....she'll be 30 in about 15 days and my life is still not where i want to be..pray 4 me
Praying!
Praying
How are you doing?
I’m just happy that isi brought josh to more of a mature state in life
I'm glad he accepted the help. Ego is our biggest downfall
i'm grateful he let her.
It’s like that phrase « Behind every great man is a great woman » 🙏🏾
I like it to say *Beside
Behind = the reason for his greatness.
Not her position
This is the definition of a POWER COUPLE!! "Not cause they're perfect but cause they're progressing" - Michael Todd
WOW!!!!! When I tell you, you will NEVER know a persons story by just looking at them. Josh and Isi are two really strong people and they are good for each other. Crazy enough I saw that something might have been a struggle for Josh when he did his apartment tour video, with this thumbnail looking like he still couldn’t believe that he was in his own place. So proud of you guys. Keep bring the quaaaality videos guys!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕
I literally got divorced because this is how my ex husband was and would not get it together.. married or not.. I couldn’t do it to myself.. Good for you guys for making it they and good for Josh for seeing the importance of getting himself together.❤️
Your wedding will be very special..
WoW... Josh’s story brought me to TRARSSSS. It’s crazy to think that you guys were 4 years deep in the relationship and Josh was keeping all of this to himself. I learned so much from just that portion of the video alone. It makes me soooo happy to see you guys together and Josh back on his feet! God bless you both and Here is to a bright future for the both of you❤️
They are such a underrated wonderful comfortable, and man beautiful black Millennial love
love them, want to see them win, WIN. cant wait for wedding, babies and more flourishing.
Mayyn honestly this warms my heart so much
This right here proves that there's hope for love in this world
Not love that flaunts finessing and all that
But love that actually carries the fundamentals of a life long bond😭😭😭
Yoo this is making me so happy
He also had to come to grips that his life plan was not coming to pass. It can be humbling and depressing. He had to see another path of success. Sometimes it's hard to get out of that mindset. It's like feeling like a failure when it's actually not. It's setting you up for the next step.
I respect the fact that, you guys were willing to share this. Hearing genuine experiences from people like you two, motivates the rest of us to keep going. It sucks to be in the position that josh was in, but Thank God he is doing way better! we Love to see u! and Isi a real one!!!! I knew we were birthday twins for a reason #Virgo!
I love the realness, that’s why y’all are goals. The good, the bad, and the ugly and I admire that about you guys. Y’all are soo relatable and a blessing to me and one of the BEST TH-camrs, PERIODT. Thank you Josh & Isi!
She’s a real one .. I am so glad she didn’t settle for less and that josh didn’t take her for granted ❤️❤️❤️ very beautiful testimony ❤️❤️❤️ God bless youuu
The testimony that Josh told was life touching it was real and Straight to the point. How Isi stay encourage him didn't leave him she kept believing him that he will be successful in life!! This is a real friendship that's how they started and they couldn't leave each other hanging that real! I'm a real fan love this couple, y'all keep that fire going and bring them videos rolling! Peace, Love and hair grease!!!
Currently going through what josh went through after collage .... dat postgrad depression is real. Employers really don't care about ur grades especially if u don't have experience and it socks. Thanks for sharing ur story.
I just turned 20 & I'm sooooo scared of "adulting" & I feel like I can't explain to anyone around me why I'm this scared! This video taught me alot...1) Don't believe everything u see on social media. 2) Never bring urself down for a man, the one that really loves u will work hard to come up so he can be with u. 3) hard work pays off!!!
And planning is very essential in every stage of life
I love that Josh noticed the love Isi has for him to do better FOR himself then RECIPROCATED and showed gratitude for her helping him.
I know about this job struggle. I got my degree in December (ceremony in May) and having crazy trouble finding something to pay what I think I should be making smh.
WOW! 🥺. In my head, I really believed they had the most perfect relationship, no issues, no troublesome... but they are ONLY HUMAN. I think the reason I believed that is because of what’s being shown infront of you may fool you to believe that life is going good, until people have the courage to share their real lives with you
Send since most ppl don't show it... let that be the lesson... whether u see it or not... no one's life is perfect... social media is the new high school where ppl can front then turn off the camera/leave school & go back to their regular lives
Now we can say “Go get you an ISI, they keepers!!” 😂😍
ISI I would love to hear your story about your first job to all the jobs you held to how u came about doing TH-cam videos.
Yes! I definitely agree
44 minutes and a 100K OMG y'all spoiling us 😂😭
This literally sounds like my relationship. Still in that year 4 type of phase. Praying for the year 5 to come soon 🥺
I Love The Honesty & Vulnerability From Josh To Let Us All In On A VERY Personal Time In His Life . The Struggle Be Really Real For People . Isi Is Definitely A Real One Sticking By Her Man Through Thick & Thin ! Loveeee Y'all ❤❤
I applaud you guys for sharing this part of your relationship. I can totally relate to Josh. You think you have your shit together with school and you’re graduating about to live the best life cause of that degree, but that’s not always the case. I have TWO degrees my bachelors and masters and when he said it’s not even easy to get an entry level job I felt that! I’m just a couple years older than you guys. Two degrees worked in retail (still in retail) to pay my own way and take care of myself, thinking after school finding a job I’ve studied for should be easy WORNG! That’s shit is hard! Retail for me can’t cover my dream to have my own place, unless I’m getting paid beyond minimum wage.
I see my boyfriend with two jobs and feel like damn I’m trying to be on that level so I won’t hold us back from getting a place. Even tho he says I’m not I still feel bad.
Trust me I want what I want at the time I want it, but God has the final say! God knows my dreams but he has a plan on when I’ll have that dream career. I just have to be patient and keep grinding and be thankful for the job I do have now. Love you guys😊
Whew, chile.
My emotions went from, “Oh, wooooowwwwww,” to “Awwwwwwwww,” then back to “Oh, woooooooowwwwww.”
Y’all are truly meant for each other. Y’all have seen each other at y’all’s worst, and still worked it out. True love at its finest.
Woah. Y'all went through some deep stuff and the fact that you're still together through all that, wow! I'm speechless. I love you guys.
This got me thinking. Reflecting. Evaluating myself and my life as a whole. Thank u for ur BRUTAL honesty. This was worth every minute. God bless y’all! Only up from here on out
I appreciate your honesty so much. Being 25 yrs I thought i would be in a better position financially however life has it's way of taking unexpected turns. You see other ppl in your age range doing great or make it seem like they are doing good, so it's comforting to know that myself and other ppl experience the same thing struggles. We just have to stop viewing others as better and be proud of our ourselves for the little progress.
She really loves him ❤️ I love how understanding she is.
This future engagement and wedding are going to be EPIC! This storytime blessed me and gave me a kick in the tail preparing for my future. Tfs
I' m on a tough spot now after college and I really needed to hear that " my situation doesn't define who I am ". Much respect guys, u booth inspire me and I really appreciate you for openly sharing your experience
I'm actually going through my own "Year 4" and I'm so happy to hear someone else talk about how I feel right now.
Thank you for telling your story Josh.
This will help me to keep trying and praying for my opportunity to come.
Love you guys!
This is why i freaking love them . They are the POWER COUPLE
Josh,
It's crazy how much my story mirrors yours. Star student in college who didn't have a plan (I had a plan but it fell through). Iffy jobs, hardship, you name it. While my boyfriend didn't put the fire under my ass my mom did. I respect you so much for sharing your story in such detail and I know so many people who are in this situation right now. Unfortunately, college doesn't prepare us to be adults, but here I am almost 2 years later living in D.C. (paying rent) and going to graduate school. I'm so happy for yall.
College is literally that rite of passage that makes or breaks you. Life hits you immediately after graduation and it can get to you. Depression and all. But I'm glad yall made it through!!
I can whole heartily relate to Josh's situation and I'm still in the process of getting myself together. Even though I'm single, I know where I need to be in life at this point and I want be equal with my future significant other. Thanks for being an open book in this video, a true TESTIMONY! Also I wanna see a ring on Isi's finger by the end of year 5!!!!
I didn't skip any of it this was beautiful
thank you for being so vulnerable with your hard times josh. this really helped me, honestly
I'm a 16 y/o and clearly I know nothing about anything but I'm glad to see that you two found each other.. Y'all taught me that whilst love and support are great, you need push your person not only because you love them or you want them to match your current situation (financial stability in you guy's case) but also because you want them to put in effort and become the best person they can be... That hit home
Thank y'all 🙏❤️
Hooked on y’all channel n it’s now 3 am 🤦🏾♀️ but I love how y’all do yearly relationship reviews. I see how real and down to earth y’all are. Rare to find on TH-cam !! Isa a real one she’s a motivator she’s strong And she believed in him. Congrats Josh on always preserving!! Learning and growing with each other 🥰 Next I’ll be seeing a 💎 on your finger Isi lol !!!
When a man knows he has a good woman. He will do what it takes to keep her. Keep being that man Josh grow from one another❤🥰
20:38 - THIS IS EXACTLY WHY SO MANY HIGH SCHOOLERS DONT WANNA GO TO COLLEGE but then they claim that if u dont have a certain degree, you cant get a certain number of jobs and they wonder why almost all of us are depressed🙄
41:25- how Josh be coming up with the BOMB QUOTES.. THATS GOD GIVEN WISDOM RIGHT THERE
Year 4 was a testimony man! Wow I pray god continues to bless and keep your union
I love how y’all are so honest and don’t sugar coat like the grass is always green ..
Those expectations at the beginning had me saying “chilllllllllld life finna school you real quick” aaaaand it did, but y’all bounced back with the comeback. I love y’all’s honesty
Congrats on the 100k🥂
"Someone who knows that you are better than a situation" a WORD.
This is the most honest couples video I have seen! *newsubbie I came to this video after watching the how we met video.
Yo know as a young person you are helping me realise ALL the side that go into a relationship. And helping me realise not everything is sweet. And i appriciate yall so much for that. I can definetly hold off dating for a good minute, i got time.
Don’t forget that you’re still worthy Josh. Whether or not she had walked away, it wouldn’t have defined you as a person. BUT she is a real one for staying and being real with you
From a 63-year-old viewer of Josh and Isi, Josh is a wonderful young man, Isi is a wonderful young woman, they are going to always be together and successful, may God continue to bless them, they have proved they can do this life together--this video is wonderful.
Wow Josh, what a TESTIMONY! Pride will get you in all kinds of messes. I understand. Also Isi, can we have a video on what motivated you to start your TH-cam and how to remain consistent even if you weren't seeing the results you wanted too?
Thats the thing I like about this couple. They show the real. They show how everything is not always all smiles and giggles. Thank y'all for showing us realistic relationship videos
Josh, you have a testimony you hear me!!! Im almost in tears even watching this!!
I’m crying 😭 isi is the definition of a ride or die because she took his struggle and yours and still stayed with home and josh is awesome person when I tell you that’s your soulmate like god had a plan for y’all and I can’t wait too see where life and god take y’all I love you and josh and I’m really proud of you ❤️❤️
Hold up 😩 I’m going to come back and watch this when I’m home and I have a plate of food in front of me 😭
BeautyInNatural I feeelll this😂😭😭
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Isi your lever of self esteem is goal for real for real !
"You can't let life win." I sat down with a bowl of spaghetti and clicked 'play'. I never expected to cry in this video. These stories remind me that God is good. Thanks for sharing. God bless you guys
i started watching this channel waaay back in like 2017 & just by watching their goofier videos you would never know how much they, especially josh has been through! i feel so proud of u guys & i admire your resilience! may God bless your relationship for many years to come 💕
Deep. I saw it though. I remember saying she was out growing him if things didnt change. Well the beauty gang wasnt feeling my comment.🤣🤣 I'm so glad you stuck to your guns & look @ him now!!
I love that Isi is acknowledging her faults.
AHHH IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS SINCE LAST YEAR 😭
I’m year 4 Josh-ing it right now so this video helped me to feel like there is light at the end of the tunnel . I need about 4 Isi’s to threaten me to get my life together cause I’m really hard headed 🥴
lmaoooo. I hope you're doing better now.
@@mxixsxhgotjamss1171 lol I’m not, pray for the kid 😅
@@NydiaTwitty 🙏🏾❤
I love this video guys! Thank you Josh, I’m going through the post grad life right now, I recently graduated last December and it’s like I’ve applied to SOOOO many jobs and it’s like I will never get the experience if y’all don’t hire me, I have the degree so now what. My mind just been everywhere and I feel like all ends are exhausted but this helped me see that my situation now is only temporary and I appreciate y’all for sharing ❤️
China Lawrence yea it hit really hard for me too in 2018 but if I could go back and be smarter I would take a full time job doing anything and while working there apply and interview for something in ur degree field
Elise Cromwell Thank you girl! That’s what I had to get out of my pride and come to realization about because it was sending me down a long depress road
I can’t wait to have such a healthy and stable relationship like this 😌
I love how they prayed as a couple before they ate. love it
wheewww as a college senior in year 4 of a relationship trust me when I tell yall I Felt Thissss
When he came to the realization that she was a “KEEPER” 😭❤️
Josh is me 😭 I never want to let someone know I’m struggling, it’s something I gotta work on
Young love, Josh I’m really proud of you for hanging in there with your lovely QUEEN. A lot of young men and old men for that matter would’ve been ran the other way in your situation but u stood up like a REAL BOSS!!! And face your setbacks and adversity head on. Keep believing in yourself and continue to rise to your greatest potential. I have been watching you and ISI videos for some time now and I can truly say Josh you have evolved tremendously keep up the awesome Flowage if u will. Please excuse my run on sentences. ❤️ u guys all the way from Detroit
I love how Josh is not afraid to admit his wrongdoings. And how Isi isn’t afraid to voice how she feels bc I know she only wants to help him. I’ve always watched Isi but now watching their couple videos. I’ve been hooked. This relationship is really inspiring. ❤️
I’m at 9:05 into the video and paused because I am emotional. Didn’t even know that was happening and pride is something man. I live by the Bible quote: “Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.”- Proverbs 16:18. Basically meaning having pride will always lead to darkness and bad times. You learned the hard way and had to pull yourself out of it, but it made you stronger and a better person. Hopefully this taught you to ask for help with people close to you like telling Isi and her mom. I went through that and when I read one of my favorite authors books called “Go Tell It On The Mountain” by James Baldwin, tell me why I saw that exact quote and I felt like God was speaking to me.❤️
Omg this video was so relatable lol preach guys, people always say popular couples are goals but are they willing to go through the up and downs that come with that long lasting relationship! Awww you guys are so cute! Yes amen josh. Isi is a keeper!
I’m new to the Isi and Josh channel...and I just fall in love with them more and more when I watch a video of them. This video made me cry hearing Josh story and Isi really being there for him and pushing him because she saw his true potential 🥺 Josh testimony...WHEW! God really came through and showed out👏🏾👏🏾
This video really moved me in so many ways.
Year 4 did not define you. So yes, we still team “get you a Josh” lol. We all have to remember we have faults but to move forward in order to better ourselves and that’s what you did. Isi is great and I loved 43:45-end 😂.
Guys thank you for sharing your personal life with us. Man or Woman we all have struggles. Wishing you both the best, keep being each others best friend and don't take it for granted.
Honestly, my boyfriend and I stick with each other, even though, I am the one who has the thoughts of breaks or even breaking up just like Isi. However, I know that we're approaching our 2nd anniversary and I believe that we will begin or continue to change and evolve our relationship. He sticks with me even through my darkest days and I greatly appreciate it. He also does a lot for me at my age and I want to do the same once I get another job and spoil him like he does me.
Wow! Y’all are truly the realest on TH-cam. Love y’all channel even more now❤️
This made me cry 🥺 ... God bless you guys because I FELT THIIIS !!!!!
My boyfriend and I are kind in the same situation that you guys were in, you know I’am doing my thing starting to think that he isn’t mature and ambitious enough... but through it all, we’re sticking together no matter what, and I’am kind of realizing now that, we are so young, I shouldn’t stress myself like that because growth comes when it’s ready, and I really thank you guys because I often have this bad habit of comparing myself and my relationship to other’s and knowing that you guys went through the same thing as we are, especially that you guys are one of my favorite couples, it makes me really happy and relief 😩 I’am glad to be one of you’re subscribers, wish you all the best Josh and Isi ❤️
Year 4 Josh was awesome! You worked while living in a car. Amazing determination and drive. It just took you a little while to find your speed. We women have to also know how to be a soft place and encouragement...anybody could face joblessness, depression, becoming sick...We have to be committed through the good and bad times especially in marriage. I pray that God is first in our lives so we are led by Him in our relationships. Beautiful testimony that bad moments do become blessings.
I absolutely love the 2 of you not only as a couple but as inspirational speakers. There's so many things I can say about this video that shows yall stay true to yourselves. Here are a few to start off with, first and foremost yall blessed the food on camera and that shows you are not ashamed of your traditions. Also as a couple you told us the good, the bad and the ugly. No matter what the circumstances may have been there was always support n a boost to keep Josh on track. I feel like yall are meant to be and yall energy is so romantic. I can't wait to see more of yall. I would like to see a proposal, wedding shower, wedding, baby shower and babies. Just pitting that out there, love. Stay Blessed you too
I liked the part where you admitted sometimes the vibe between you guys is off since we only see the perfectly in sync chemistry between you guys. A great reminder that even great couples have to work through things. It’s not always easy and perfect.
I love y’all’s relationship, because of how hard you guys work at staying open and honest while maintaining integrity and respect . which is so rare . God Bless
when he say she was his light my whole heart
Josh, you have a keeper in Isi. I was in the same situation and I walked away because the guy did NOTHING to step up, to add on he victimised the whole situation and made it everyone's else's fault for his situation. Y'all i Ieft after being with him for 3 years. Always thought I was in the wrong but now seeing how Josh made it a point to step up shows me that I made a good decision to bounce.
Anyway South Africa🇿🇦 here to support❤
FR! I got in to it on instagram about tipping. So many people don’t understand, the government automatically take a percentage of your paycheck to make up for taxes on tips. Serving is designed to live off tips! Not an option! Anyway, I’m happy you got on your feet and this queen stuck by you and pushed you! Love love love!
You need stability before you chase your dreams because dreams don't pay to support you. So many people online talk badly about 9-5 jobs but unless you already have a successful side hustle you're not going to be able to support yourself. I had to learn this the hard way when I took a gap year from school. Thank you Josh for sharing your story!
Wow guys, thank you so much for opening up about such a hard time in your life Josh and isi. It’s also nice to see that even when our relationship get so bad to the point where we feel like we just don’t even want to be with that person anymore but we can always bounce back and get to where you guys are
It’s so beautiful to see realistic standards & the natural process of love 🥺🥺❤️ society has made people believe that true love is all about Birkins and flexing and perfection.
Thank you for sharing your truth with us! May God bless your union ❤️❤️❤️❤️