The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
True sigma would be true to himself, seeking for alternative plan or solution instead of constantly bitching, your satisfaction based on your achievement not seeking for "spotlight", stand on the back not becoming a prime target, and well prepared through self reliance
A true sigma male would laugh at a label like sigma male because they dont care what anyone thinks. They do what they do and if people dont like it they can find new friends.
I don't need outer validation of me. I know, myself. If you need outer validation, you are not a sigma man. I take responsibility for all of my actions. I don't make excuses. Excuses is a waste of time and effort
#6. I will argue with you on this one. Specifically once a Sigma is broken inside, he ha very few, if any, outlets to confide to. We don’t want to talk to just anyone. That "anyone" has been my counselors. And if we're broken really badly, it can take a LOOOOOOOOOONG time to pull us out because inside we're analyzing & "fixing" ourselves.
guyh4553. You have to go through all this bad stuff in order to learn about it ! Most people can't be bothered. Sigmas learn. So when you get to 70 yrs old you know all about life ! But it isn't very pleasant. although it's Nice to be Wise !
This is my experience as well. Once trust is broken, it's broken. I'd rather figure it out myself. Because every one is unique. We all have to find our way in life.
Not that I align to insufficiencies to cope. It's understanding strengths and weaknesses, we all have them. It's a matter of being open. Honesty is a lot easier to work with.
Jordan Peterson is no sigma either. No sigma would put themselves in the spotlight so much like he does. Sigma is what you are not who you can become because you think it's cool. The main trait of all sigmas is that they are survivors, not victims of their traumatic past, resulting in their having a hard time trusting other people and becoming self-reliant. It's not something you just choose to become. Even a sigma can have a bad day and yell and scream. Even a sigma can find themselves staying at a job they don't like and being forced to stay in it for a while. You can't make a video describing something you don't understand. A sigma is not a powerful person demanding respect with their presence. They are the shadow that quietly leaves when they feel disrespected. You can't choose to become a sigma. You can only choose to try and act like one. That's why they are rare.
Yeah, I know I don't align perfectly with every trait. I was actually just thinking about that the other day. Sometimes the narrator will mention some trait and I'll say to myself, "That isn't me". I have always known that there are actually very few absolutes in life.
Thank You. A very informative video. Going through life putting yourself into into an archetype is very damaging. Knowing yourself is better to have a fulfilling life. Being a Beta and going about thinking you are a Sigma will land you in trouble.
Someone once told me, "If you ain't f-ing up, then you ain't learning. And if you ain't learning, it's because you're not doing anything". F-ups and failures are the best teachers. When I screw up or make a mistake, I say, "Yeah, I screwed that up and here's what I was thinking. Now I understand blah blah blah". It's not fun, but it's honest. One thing I have learned in my life is that, because of honesty and accountability, if someone suspects me of a mistake that I didn't make, all I usually have to say is "No, that wasn't my doing", and that's usually good enough.
@robertgantry2118 and humbleness of thanking those who had the energy to guide us from our mistakes, making us humans, but now we have another knowledge and support. (But we have to make sure they are not trying to take advantage with us, so we need to think logical at every stance and need additional information to think things thru....)
The irony is, is that a Sigma would not be watching this; they wouldn't care about being qualified as one. A Sigma doesn't look for external validation, which this is. So by watching this or wanting to be a Sigma; many of us have already disqualified ourselves as such...
It doesnt matter if these traits resonate with me... Sigma videos never seize to inspire me and make me feel better of myself while living under my mama basement struggling life
Your wrong about risks being opportunities, they are 'calculated' with most possible outcomes thought of then usually ignored or chance the outcome. We may not calculate a 50/50 or 80/20 outcome but risk and reward is thought about
Everyone should be a leader to themselves, Each Individual has one brain. So navigate it, by Your God given freewill, or Others will do it for you, Sigma males understand This very well. But majority Ignorance refuses to see this . By a covered blanket of insecurities, whether by Fear, majority standard Bias, jealousy, envy and hate, or conformity manipulated methods to keep you under their Control, It’s fear and lack of motivation that’s keeps You stagnant in your insecurity lifestyle. It’s just a reminder, you know and I know this I said nothing new. You have your options to Choose. My advice , take it Or leave it
Imagine someone who really looked into all this lol sigmas are smart well you have to be brave as well and go to from bottom to top bgnsA... Bounce around a little bit if you get bored
Being a Sigma is like being a Freak. You keep quiet about it because people will hate you for it ! I don't bother with people because I am Happy with my 2 Dogs, and my Motorbikes and Machines ! I never fit in with anyone ! I do what I want and people think I'm Lucky ! I take on problems head on although I get sick of it ! I don't depend on anyone for anything. I only take risks when I know I am going to win, but I am 70 yrs old . I couldn't care less what people think of me ! I don't Try to be Sigma. Life is Still a Load of Sh*t although I feel good when I overcome Problems ! I am getting fed up with Fixing Problems though. I'd rather play on my XBox Series X ! All my Friends think X Boxes are for Kids.
I am a Extrovert. Elon is not authentic asked how he bought Twitter. Because he didn't and something is going to give soon, unless he comes clean with me.
Easiest way to find out if you are a Sigma or not, do you chase women, constantly pursuing them or do you let them come to you. When they do make advances or flirt do you always cave in to any woman that shows you attention, or do you shoot them down or reject them regularly? If you are the pursuer or if you cave to every woman that shows you any attention, you aren't a sigma.
If Elon Musk isn't a Sigma then how on earth can he be an Insult to Sigmas ! I don't care about other Sigmas ! I don't recal ever Meeting one in all my 70 yr Lifetime !
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The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
True sigma would be true to himself, seeking for alternative plan or solution instead of constantly bitching, your satisfaction based on your achievement not seeking for "spotlight", stand on the back not becoming a prime target, and well prepared through self reliance
There are multiple angles for every case, and hidden ones others can't see
A true sigma male would laugh at a label like sigma male because they dont care what anyone thinks. They do what they do and if people dont like it they can find new friends.
I don't need outer validation of me. I know, myself. If you need outer validation, you are not a sigma man. I take responsibility for all of my actions. I don't make excuses. Excuses is a waste of time and effort
#6. I will argue with you on this one. Specifically once a Sigma is broken inside, he ha very few, if any, outlets to confide to. We don’t want to talk to just anyone. That "anyone" has been my counselors. And if we're broken really badly, it can take a LOOOOOOOOOONG time to pull us out because inside we're analyzing & "fixing" ourselves.
guyh4553. You have to go through all this bad stuff in order to learn about it ! Most people can't be bothered. Sigmas learn. So when you get to 70 yrs old you know all about life ! But it isn't very pleasant. although it's Nice to be Wise !
Agreed, we talk ourself, thought ourself, calm ourself, grow.our self, and lastly answer our own self.
This is my experience as well. Once trust is broken, it's broken. I'd rather figure it out myself. Because every one is unique. We all have to find our way in life.
@mjohhnson Agreed
Not that I align to insufficiencies to cope. It's understanding strengths and weaknesses, we all have them. It's a matter of being open. Honesty is a lot easier to work with.
Good thing that none of these traits apply to me. Cheers! 🙌🏻
Great video,keep it up.❤🎉😊👏👍💯😎🙂👌👑💪
A true Sigma doesn't give a sh*t about labels or whether he is a "Sigma" or not. He's just out there living his life as he see fit, just like I do.
Jordan Peterson is no sigma either. No sigma would put themselves in the spotlight so much like he does. Sigma is what you are not who you can become because you think it's cool. The main trait of all sigmas is that they are survivors, not victims of their traumatic past, resulting in their having a hard time trusting other people and becoming self-reliant. It's not something you just choose to become. Even a sigma can have a bad day and yell and scream. Even a sigma can find themselves staying at a job they don't like and being forced to stay in it for a while. You can't make a video describing something you don't understand. A sigma is not a powerful person demanding respect with their presence. They are the shadow that quietly leaves when they feel disrespected. You can't choose to become a sigma. You can only choose to try and act like one. That's why they are rare.
Awesome content brother thanks again always. Happy Thanksgiving 💯
Thank you! Happy Thanksgiving!!!
All the sigma males telling us who is and who isn't. Not a sigma male trait.
Yeah, I know I don't align perfectly with every trait. I was actually just thinking about that the other day. Sometimes the narrator will mention some trait and I'll say to myself, "That isn't me". I have always known that there are actually very few absolutes in life.
Thank You. A very informative video. Going through life putting yourself into into an archetype is very damaging. Knowing yourself is better to have a fulfilling life. Being a Beta and going about thinking you are a Sigma will land you in trouble.
Yeah. Obviously, and a better dares not imitate a sigma, lest he breaks😀
This is more like "what not to be as a man", narrated with a pleasant voice. #1 says it all..
Consequences, I accept. Failure, my true teacher. To views, add more angles. Answers, multiple. within, Force -Yoda
Someone once told me, "If you ain't f-ing up, then you ain't learning. And if you ain't learning, it's because you're not doing anything". F-ups and failures are the best teachers. When I screw up or make a mistake, I say, "Yeah, I screwed that up and here's what I was thinking. Now I understand blah blah blah". It's not fun, but it's honest. One thing I have learned in my life is that, because of honesty and accountability, if someone suspects me of a mistake that I didn't make, all I usually have to say is "No, that wasn't my doing", and that's usually good enough.
@robertgantry2118 and humbleness of thanking those who had the energy to guide us from our mistakes, making us humans, but now we have another knowledge and support. (But we have to make sure they are not trying to take advantage with us, so we need to think logical at every stance and need additional information to think things thru....)
@@cscf3052 - ...and there are plenty of people who like to take advantage, for sure. You're absolutely right.
The irony is, is that a Sigma would not be watching this; they wouldn't care about being qualified as one. A Sigma doesn't look for external validation, which this is. So by watching this or wanting to be a Sigma; many of us have already disqualified ourselves as such...
Ty 4 this btw
this list is the sigmas shadow in a nutshell. everything we fear being.
Agreed.
It doesnt matter if these traits resonate with me... Sigma videos never seize to inspire me and make me feel better of myself while living under my mama basement struggling life
A sigma male shows truth full stop shows who they truly are full truths
Your wrong about risks being opportunities, they are 'calculated' with most possible outcomes thought of then usually ignored or chance the outcome.
We may not calculate a 50/50 or 80/20 outcome but risk and reward is thought about
i came here to read the comments... i feel let down cuz i was expecting instagram responses
Everyone should be a leader to themselves, Each
Individual has one brain.
So navigate it, by Your
God given freewill, or
Others will do it for you,
Sigma males understand
This very well. But majority
Ignorance refuses to see this . By a covered blanket
of insecurities, whether by
Fear, majority standard
Bias, jealousy, envy and hate, or conformity manipulated methods
to keep you under their
Control, It’s fear and lack
of motivation that’s keeps
You stagnant in your insecurity lifestyle.
It’s just a reminder, you know and I know this
I said nothing new.
You have your options to
Choose. My advice , take it
Or leave it
Imagine someone who really looked into all this lol sigmas are smart well you have to be brave as well and go to from bottom to top bgnsA... Bounce around a little bit if you get bored
Yup
Enough showing cigarettes, proper sigmas don't smoke.
Stop looking to the internet for validation men. You don't need it. Just be your own true authentic self, even if you're a manipulative shallow user.
STOP SHOWING ELON MUSK! HE'S NOT SIGMA!
I appreciate your feedback!
He's a Fruit Cake who plays on Satan's side...he wants u chipped like a dog.
Well, I even told my wife I believe Musk is Sigma but I've been wrong about sillier arguments.
If he's not, than no one is.
@@DontTakeMeSeriously2222a.i robot
💜💜💜
He's both
Being a Sigma is like being a Freak. You keep quiet about it because people will hate you for it ! I don't bother with people because I am Happy with my 2 Dogs, and my Motorbikes and Machines ! I never fit in with anyone ! I do what I want and people think I'm Lucky ! I take on problems head on although I get sick of it ! I don't depend on anyone for anything. I only take risks when I know I am going to win, but I am 70 yrs old . I couldn't care less what people think of me ! I don't Try to be Sigma. Life is Still a Load of Sh*t although I feel good when I overcome Problems ! I am getting fed up with Fixing Problems though. I'd rather play on my XBox Series X ! All my Friends think X Boxes are for Kids.
@@spaceted3977 keep on rocking and rolling ✌️
@@Rocky_Anunnaki Yes ! Thanks !
This video is simply sad. Whoever made it, and apparently society, thinks these categories are something to "qualify for". So backwards
I am a Extrovert. Elon is not authentic asked how he bought Twitter. Because he didn't and something is going to give soon, unless he comes clean with me.
So what?
Me too "so what" ?
Easiest way to find out if you are a Sigma or not, do you chase women, constantly pursuing them or do you let them come to you. When they do make advances or flirt do you always cave in to any woman that shows you attention, or do you shoot them down or reject them regularly? If you are the pursuer or if you cave to every woman that shows you any attention, you aren't a sigma.
This video 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ you can’t teach personality 😂😂😂😂😂
Elon Musk is a jerk, not a sigma male. He is an insult to sigma males everywhere, including me.
If Elon Musk isn't a Sigma then how on earth can he be an Insult to Sigmas ! I don't care about other Sigmas ! I don't recal ever Meeting one in all my 70 yr Lifetime !
You're not sigma. We don't care what others do or say.
No one is sigma male
Wisdom
SO WHAT ?
These Sigma videos got boring realy fast. Looks like narcissist videos to me. I guess that makes me a sigma for recognizing that. Lol
Where does "self belief"end and arrogance start?😶🌫️🫥
Arrogance is rooted in conceit, self belief having faith in your own abilities and to do the right thing… perhaps 🤔
@William-b1s I hear you,I hope you're right,,but what is the right thing?every answer has ,2 questions
@@Barton.d the compassionate thing is always the right thing to do.
@@William-b1s agreed