in my opinion, in a man's 20s you have to acquire wisdom and cunning to be cleverer than the average woman and the woman you will choose. otherwise like he said, you will raise other mens kids, and they will turn your kids against you. they might even turn you against your family, you will find it hard to assimilate your new nuclear family with where you are coming from. other men are even financially wrecked. which is why i say, its good to marry young, but its a huge risk nowadays
That is her own opinion. Women r very bonded with their kids so I dont see how most women will destroy their kids for their entire family. Make it make sense. Dont come here looking to point fingers. If you have a problem with women, its mostly because you lack leadership skills
Women can turn the children against their father at old age. Though my mum is a good women, the devil tried using her to turn me and my siblings against my dad, but the spirit of God made me reject it, If not my dad of 65 year old would have been suffering and emotionally damaged, while his children are highly successful. Women do not forgive even if they offer you sex. If my dad once offended you, atleast he still stayed with the kids and provided for the family. The open rejection I made that day made my mum , till date, always want me to help my dad.( i have completed his house, give them money randomly etc). I didn't make this write-up to disdain my mother, but to let us know the subconcious nature of women. I pray none of my children turn against me, I know God will answer my prayers.
God bless you 🙏🏾 You dodged a true bullet. My mother successfully turned all 3 of me and my siblings against my father, and He is suffering now. I went all of my teenage years and 20s barely acknowledging him, and living my life lost and misguided. I couldn’t recognize it until age 20, and I see now that it has destroyed all of my siblings emotionally. Trying to rebound from all this has been hell on Earth these past few years. I have made many mistakes that provoked my own woman too, can see this nature inside her as well. It’s all so true
I doubt that's a wise decision for your old age especially if you become weak and or have a chronic disease. You won't have compassion even if you have plenty. money. An uncle who was a soldier and a giant now cries cos he didn't stay with any of his 2 wives, he's sick, gets all his food, money and care but anyone who visits him, he begins to complain that none of his family has genuine compassion and that's all he needs. The children sends all the money and when they visit there's nothing personal just like he never did.
You are a very wise man Sir. How I wish every man knows what you know, the world will be a very beautiful place. But unfortunately majority don't know and most will not even believe what you are saying. They are the reason we are in this mess. God bless you and others like you. And may He have mercy on the rest of them.😢
Men have skills and schemes too. And many women have suffered at their hands too. So the WHOLE truth is Humanity is fallen and not without sin....each and everyone of us. The real truth is we ALL need Jesus because NONE of us is perfect.
You are right but men’s schemes are plain…. Get the women in bed. Everyone already knows that . Though these days they have progressed to money rituals
sir, so much wisdom is coming from your teachings and lectures... thanks to God and to you for your courage in life and this possibility of learning from you.
My older sister was close to father and whispered in his ear and I suffer. Yet i am the name bearer and only son. I realised late in.life why she influenced father against me. I am father's name bearer and his only son.
Dr Apoki, you are super smart - all round knowledgeable. Your wisdom is beyond comprehension and comparison. Thanks for always sharing for it's really helping your viewers.
Dr apoki im a 27 year old man watching from india and i accidentally stumbled upon your video. I hope your message reaches all men without religious restrictions because praching good values and wisdom has no religious barriers. Thank you.
Man of God , this video is one of my favourites out of all of your videos , because of the bible references and also you added a couple of hilarious comments , for instance " don't let your erection determine your direction " 😃😃. In my candid opinion this video is a collectors item. God bless you Sir
They have no such skills, it's simply an impulsive instinct controlled by the immediate, they lack foresight, and logic, their profit is always for the immediate, it always ends in tears in the long run..and then they would not take responsibility for their actions.
So when Apostle Paul admonished men to not marry if they are single, these are some of the troubles he was referring to? How would someone live a life of peace if you have to be dealing with someone whom you need to be several steps ahead of, when you are not living in your enemy's camp?It doesn't make sense to me and it sounds like an association with such women is doomed with shortness of life and ill health.Why should you as a man be trying to be steps ahead in the competitive world, then go back home to be the same thing with your wife? Make it make sense. Where is your rest? Solomon talks about enjoying the wife of your youth, how could you when you're competing with a snake in the home. Everything we hear about man-woman relationships these days make less sense more and more.
Skill and knowledge helps one eat hot food without getting the tongue burnt Spend time with men whose wives LOVE them( not just the ones the wives respect, there is a difference. Many women use respect to manipulate men) and find out what they did Dont throw away the baby and the bath water.
The best way to deal with a bad wife is to not deal with her ,dont give her your location ,dont give her your money ,dont give her any reaction an see how she will ruin herself an kids all by herself😂😂😂😂
Praise Jesus Christ! Please read in in The Holy Bible John 3:16-17, John 14:6, John 10:10, Matthew chapter 24 and Revelation 21:8. HALLELUJAH! God bless.
When Sarah was lamenting to Abraham to send Hagar and Ismael, her son away because she was getting puffed up, And Abraham was relenting, God told him LISTEN TO WHATEVER YOUR WIFE SAYS!! Men, take note of that word “Whatever”😂
Men tend to pay too much attention to their work and other women not knowing their woman is getting her revenge skillfully. Do right and a good woman will be your reward and bring you favor. It’s up to you to maintain that favor.
Older men should start telling nd talking to we ,younger ones this way so we learn early. Funny enough most older men are just simp 💯 nothing u can learn from dem about women nd their mischievous ways 😆 😅. Daddy apoki ur different 💯
Who tell you? I fear women even as a woman. If woman want to finish u she is determined to do so. Don't underestimate the dogged determination of a woman. Partners compliment themselves not competing, if u dont support each other to reach goals to be fulfilled there will be a gap PERIOD!!!! Because we don't know tomorrow. Only God knows.That is why men don't live long, the life expectancy of men is shorter than women.
“If a woman wants to finish her husband, the devil sits down to take notes” Pure Facts!
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in my opinion, in a man's 20s you have to acquire wisdom and cunning to be cleverer than the average woman and the woman you will choose. otherwise like he said, you will raise other mens kids, and they will turn your kids against you. they might even turn you against your family, you will find it hard to assimilate your new nuclear family with where you are coming from. other men are even financially wrecked. which is why i say, its good to marry young, but its a huge risk nowadays
Let him cook! 😂
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Protect this man at all costs...may God give him extra long life.
Amen.
Quote: "Don't Let Your Erection give you Direction" Dr. Charles Apoki
Like I always say: One Erection, False Direction
My best friend who is a woman told me that a woman will destroy her entire family just for her to be happy even for a short while.
That is her own opinion. Women r very bonded with their kids so I dont see how most women will destroy their kids for their entire family. Make it make sense. Dont come here looking to point fingers. If you have a problem with women, its mostly because you lack leadership skills
That's exactly what my wife did... now lives in regret.
Your best friend is a woman? She right
Sad that she sees you as her “best friend”.
My father once said " a woman will ruin a nation"
Senegalese people witness it first hand ,sonko a political party leader was accuse of rape which burn senegal down for months🎉🎉
True
If a woman is planning evil against her husband, Satan sits down to copy notes.
This shook my heart! Very deep!
Women are full of guile whereas men are often straight as you say. Best to be on guard
Women can turn the children against their father at old age. Though my mum is a good women, the devil tried using her to turn me and my siblings against my dad, but the spirit of God made me reject it, If not my dad of 65 year old would have been suffering and emotionally damaged, while his children are highly successful. Women do not forgive even if they offer you sex. If my dad once offended you, atleast he still stayed with the kids and provided for the family. The open rejection I made that day made my mum , till date, always want me to help my dad.( i have completed his house, give them money randomly etc).
I didn't make this write-up to disdain my mother, but to let us know the subconcious nature of women.
I pray none of my children turn against me, I know God will answer my prayers.
Amen.
Facts
Wow! God will bless you abundantly for your Boldness to share this information, and for not walk on the council of your mother.
God bless you 🙏🏾 You dodged a true bullet. My mother successfully turned all 3 of me and my siblings against my father, and He is suffering now. I went all of my teenage years and 20s barely acknowledging him, and living my life lost and misguided. I couldn’t recognize it until age 20, and I see now that it has destroyed all of my siblings emotionally. Trying to rebound from all this has been hell on Earth these past few years. I have made many mistakes that provoked my own woman too, can see this nature inside her as well. It’s all so true
@@joshrobertson3419Jesus heals everything… Focus on Him
Very true sir.. the worst is if she is an unbeliever her skills become deadly darts ..
_"Men need to awaken themselves from the slumber. We Pastors have preached some of you into stupidity, into docility"_
I'm with you on this one 1000%.
It’s true. Without intentionally programming people into stupidity there would be less of those to elect for solutions.
"we pastors have preached some of you into stupidity..into docility..wake UP!"..amen!!!
I agree…I settled my woman in a different home and I’m more than happy to love her from afar.
My father and best friend who happens to be a woman tells me the same thing inorder for me to be mentally stable I have to do that 😂😂😂😂
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I doubt that's a wise decision for your old age especially if you become weak and or have a chronic disease.
You won't have compassion even if you have plenty. money.
An uncle who was a soldier and a giant now cries cos he didn't stay with any of his 2 wives, he's sick, gets all his food, money and care but anyone who visits him, he begins to complain that none of his family has genuine compassion and that's all he needs. The children sends all the money and when they visit there's nothing personal just like he never did.
@@alinayili2199 how is that different from when you are old and your wife and kids send you to the nursing home?
It’s even worse here in America.
You are a very wise man Sir. How I wish every man knows what you know, the world will be a very beautiful place. But unfortunately majority don't know and most will not even believe what you are saying. They are the reason we are in this mess. God bless you and others like you. And may He have mercy on the rest of them.😢
Very true😅. He spoke about first borns and it really hit me. I was like if my father knew these things and taught me , would my life be like this?
Trickish skills, yes women have skills indeed.
Men have skills and schemes too. And many women have suffered at their hands too.
So the WHOLE truth is Humanity is fallen and not without sin....each and everyone of us.
The real truth is we ALL need Jesus because NONE of us is perfect.
You are right but men’s schemes are plain…. Get the women in bed. Everyone already knows that . Though these days they have progressed to money rituals
sir, so much wisdom is coming from your teachings and lectures... thanks to God and to you for your courage in life and this possibility of learning from you.
learning alot from your advice and videos thanks much sir
My older sister was close to father and whispered in his ear and I suffer. Yet i am the name bearer and only son. I realised late in.life why she influenced father against me. I am father's name bearer and his only son.
From us who grew up without father's, bless you
wisdom just flowing
Thank you so much sir!
Scary, but true. Thank you.
Wow 👌, this is a kingly revelations.
I've subscribed to your highly educating channel Dr,
Now I understand 😢 be blessed Dr Apoki
I have come across your channel today, but wow!!!
I loved it,
Very much suits my situation, oh God bless you Sir!
Great insight. Thank you sir
Yes sir,.. 😊 great to hear elders speak knowledge
Always happy listening to your videos Sir! More grace. Love you all the way from Plateau state.
Dr Apoki the awakening thank u very much all the way from.South Africa
Your wisdom is greater than human comprehension.
Just loved your words friend.
God bless you.
Yes I am with you Doctor
Thank you sir for this knowledge sharing to men.
Dr Apoki, you are super smart - all round knowledgeable. Your wisdom is beyond comprehension and comparison. Thanks for always sharing for it's really helping your viewers.
I can listen to you talk all day
You messages are educative, God bless you.
Wise words sir.
Thanks for sharing this wisdom..
You have skills too.
Like listening to you every time
Dr apoki im a 27 year old man watching from india and i accidentally stumbled upon your video. I hope your message reaches all men without religious restrictions because praching good values and wisdom has no religious barriers. Thank you.
I like the word skilful not the other way round 😂😂😂
Man of God , this video is one of my favourites out of all of your videos , because of the bible references and also you added a couple of hilarious comments , for instance " don't let your erection determine your direction " 😃😃. In my candid opinion this video is a collectors item. God bless you Sir
Amen
May the lord have mercy upon us!😂😂😂😂
Lord help us !
I'm a woman,you are very right Dr,not all Sha..
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Very wise words Sir. I am new to your channel
They have no such skills, it's simply an impulsive instinct controlled by the immediate, they lack foresight, and logic, their profit is always for the immediate, it always ends in tears in the long run..and then they would not take responsibility for their actions.
Yeah true talk.
They will do anything for their convenience.
My Father ❤
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A step ahead of them...
if a woman is planning evil against her husband, Satan sits down to copy note... oga i de hear you now...
So when Apostle Paul admonished men to not marry if they are single, these are some of the troubles he was referring to? How would someone live a life of peace if you have to be dealing with someone whom you need to be several steps ahead of, when you are not living in your enemy's camp?It doesn't make sense to me and it sounds like an association with such women is doomed with shortness of life and ill health.Why should you as a man be trying to be steps ahead in the competitive world, then go back home to be the same thing with your wife? Make it make sense. Where is your rest? Solomon talks about enjoying the wife of your youth, how could you when you're competing with a snake in the home. Everything we hear about man-woman relationships these days make less sense more and more.
Ikr, I always wonder the same thing, it not only sounds exhausting but just not worth it in the long run.
Skill and knowledge helps one eat hot food without getting the tongue burnt
Spend time with men whose wives LOVE them( not just the ones the wives respect, there is a difference. Many women use respect to manipulate men) and find out what they did
Dont throw away the baby and the bath water.
The best way to deal with a bad wife is to not deal with her ,dont give her your location ,dont give her your money ,dont give her any reaction an see how she will ruin herself an kids all by herself😂😂😂😂
Brothers, take heed to the message🙏🏾
The man is the head of the wife,not the home. He must govern her,reproof and correct her, oversee her. I speak of Christ and the church.
Truth
I guess whereever in the world, how rich or poor the city is that u livin in, the problems are always similiar
I had the skill to RUN away from an old deacon who tried to lower me onto his bed 😅.
Yes, men have skills too....God bless you.
@@Urbanindacity 😄 funny
Nice exposition on women, sir. Keep it up 👍
Ha ha 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Dr himself
Good advice. But you mixed Sarah and Haggai
Herrrr words! Don't let election give you direction facts
Praise Jesus Christ! Please read in in The Holy Bible John 3:16-17, John 14:6, John 10:10, Matthew chapter 24 and Revelation 21:8. HALLELUJAH! God bless.
When Sarah was lamenting to Abraham to send Hagar and Ismael, her son away because she was getting puffed up, And Abraham was relenting, God told him LISTEN TO WHATEVER YOUR WIFE SAYS!! Men, take note of that word “Whatever”😂
I hope men are listening
Yes oh. Women have skills. We are the weaker vessel.
My best advice to everyman is that "a woman is not a purpose in your life as a man please "
Men tend to pay too much attention to their work and other women not knowing their woman is getting her revenge skillfully. Do right and a good woman will be your reward and bring you favor. It’s up to you to maintain that favor.
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There is no creature worse than one that hides behind makeup.
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Older men should start telling nd talking to we ,younger ones this way so we learn early. Funny enough most older men are just simp 💯 nothing u can learn from dem about women nd their mischievous ways 😆 😅. Daddy apoki ur different 💯
What if I don't want to wake up sir?
Scheme rather
Doctor, don't you think women were a punishment from God to us.
No. Women just show men where they fail at!
@@d.c.5033 really? How come all men fail?
@@markgeorge7426 I didn’t say all men fail.
@@d.c.5033 I said it, because 90% of men have a problem with women
Is your own mother a punishment from God?watch what you say
Hagar not Sarah
Quote of today "DONT LET YOUR ERECTION GIVE YOU DIRECTION!"
@3:50 "if a woman is planning evil against her husband, Satan sits down to copy notes". Good quote.
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Sleep with their father Without fear. pls dont say more daddy lesson learnt.
Manipulative skills 😢😅😅
Women won't like this channel
They fight me like mad but the respectable elderly women love it.
Who tell you? I fear women even as a woman. If woman want to finish u she is determined to do so. Don't underestimate the dogged determination of a woman. Partners compliment themselves not competing, if u dont support each other to reach goals to be fulfilled there will be a gap PERIOD!!!! Because we don't know tomorrow. Only God knows.That is why men don't live long, the life expectancy of men is shorter than women.
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