Billy Corgan Wasn’t Expecting His Dad’s Reaction to His Success

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  • @howardstern
    @howardstern  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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  • @unknownname1681
    @unknownname1681 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    If I bring up anything negative about my childhood my parents also say that they don’t remember that.

    • @ilexevergreen5405
      @ilexevergreen5405 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Perennial denial

    • @351528
      @351528 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      That's called gaslighting.

    • @FarlesNCharge
      @FarlesNCharge ปีที่แล้ว +41

      My parents do the same exact thing.

    • @soundofsulfer
      @soundofsulfer ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Always

    • @echase416
      @echase416 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s part of the Gaslighting they do, narcissists.

  • @alejolopera
    @alejolopera ปีที่แล้ว +395

    I am a father now and I try to be the best dad every single day ... listening to this kind of stories makes me so sad.. poor Billy ...

    • @gary_black
      @gary_black ปีที่แล้ว +10

      me too. Disarm is one of the saddest songs ever. "Disarm you with a smile" A heartbreaking lyric.

    • @gkniffen
      @gkniffen ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *Sniff* Poor, Billy. *Sobs into millions of dollars* ... Poor, poor, Billy...

    • @kristopherryanwatson
      @kristopherryanwatson ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@gkniffen i feel sorry for you.

    • @truthseeker2222
      @truthseeker2222 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      growing up rough can sometimes be a blessing in disguise. Trauma helps creates most of the beautiful art we see. Billy would not have been the same artist without his unique upbringing.

    • @c0rxpseb0i13
      @c0rxpseb0i13 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@gkniffen yes because money equals happiness

  • @Hulkamaniac418
    @Hulkamaniac418 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    Not gonna lie, many times I roll my eyes at some of the stuff Billy says. This almost brought me to tears.

    • @vanbrandon
      @vanbrandon ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same bro.

    • @MacStiles
      @MacStiles ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He's probably making it all up.

    • @princealexander6155
      @princealexander6155 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is probably the reason why Billy is the way he is. He continues the cycle.

    • @lekmusic
      @lekmusic ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It did bring me to tears

    • @olgakim4848
      @olgakim4848 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Too many of us can totally relate and empathize.

  • @brucelee4996
    @brucelee4996 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    I'm proud of you Billy.

    • @raymiejed1659
      @raymiejed1659 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He's so lovely to share this with us. It's really relatable.

    • @annarchy665
      @annarchy665 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💝

  • @bearbear4389
    @bearbear4389 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    No success can replace a father's love. So sad.

    • @jonmacdonald5345
      @jonmacdonald5345 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Some dad's don't love or give a shit!

    • @secondarycontainment4727
      @secondarycontainment4727 ปีที่แล้ว

      But would he have been successful if showered with affection?

    • @blucat4
      @blucat4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@secondarycontainment4727 I suspect so. Some kids can handle or even need the tough upbringing but Billy I think was more sensitive and needed some positive reinforcement.

  • @echase416
    @echase416 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Karen Carpenter had a similar story with her mother. 💔 Narcissistic parenting is so toxic. Amazing you survived, Billy. Deserved loads better.

  • @guillermosahuquillo4499
    @guillermosahuquillo4499 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    He’s voice sounds broken at times… fighting back tears.

  • @BadManN_TheBushes
    @BadManN_TheBushes ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This just goes to show you that no matter how successful you are you're not impervious to the feelings of sadness heartbreak pain and some sort of redemption

    • @constantlylearnandgrow3487
      @constantlylearnandgrow3487 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      of course not. famous people mostly have bigger psychological problems than the average person

    • @mirellalastar
      @mirellalastar ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because you really needed this story to learn that everybody can get sad?

  • @samdeb6506
    @samdeb6506 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I'm not the biggest Corgan fan, great musician but this story breaks my heart. You hear his voice crackle up in the end. Best of luck to you Billy.

  • @kurtdyer
    @kurtdyer ปีที่แล้ว +72

    As a diehard SP fan, it's hearing him tell these stories (even though he tells a thousand - mostly metaphorical - tales in his songs) that make you go "Oh it all makes sense now. I understand why he is SO BROKEN". No other band has brought so many tears to my eyes as SP.

    • @skriabinfly
      @skriabinfly ปีที่แล้ว +9

      "Time heals, but i'm forever broken"

    • @yungalucard9139
      @yungalucard9139 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Disarm is such a powerfully emotional song that manages to be uplifting. Billy corgan is a person I can respect because he bled for the music when he was young.

  • @mysticteaparty
    @mysticteaparty ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Unfortunately this happens more often than people think. It also is true with your friends. People don't expect you to succeed. They think that success is reserved for people from inside the TV. Even if they try to be supportive, they don't really think that someone they know could actually become IT. I understand this mentality as this kind of success is extremely rare but as an artist that is trying to become IT, you need to be your own biggest fan. Don't wait for someone to believe in you. You will get disappointed.

    • @user-rs7fc6cv2g
      @user-rs7fc6cv2g 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep, and with siblings too. I've noticed certain people really liking to be around me when I'm clearly not doing as well as they are in something, yet they're nowhere to be found when I'm happy with what I'm doing. They also want to knock down whatever good things I say about anything.

  • @vectorhold6489
    @vectorhold6489 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    damn.. Thats one of the most bittersweet stories I've heard in a long time. :(

  • @JL897139
    @JL897139 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow this is really sad, how is he not crying. I guess he made his peace with it

  • @rbeezy42
    @rbeezy42 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I try to always remember this kind of stuff when I'm parenting my daughters. Kids don't forget

    • @kelle0285
      @kelle0285 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some kids do.

    • @mr.brenman2132
      @mr.brenman2132 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kelle0285Who?

  • @BwInNewJersey
    @BwInNewJersey ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Smashing Pumpkins are part of my life soundtrack. I love the music thru to my soul.

  • @j_music_8779
    @j_music_8779 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Made me tear up listening to that.

    • @WhyTheHorseface
      @WhyTheHorseface ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Absolutely. Me too. Made me realize that things that seem insignificant to me as a parent can be crushing to my kids. I gotta be better.

    • @Mebthe12luvulongtime
      @Mebthe12luvulongtime ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@WhyTheHorseface don't forget what you just said, that was real and please act upon it.

  • @bungle3912
    @bungle3912 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Billy Corgan seems a lot happier these days, which is nice.😊

  • @mirellalastar
    @mirellalastar ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Very real talk, many sons can relate, I'm sure.

  • @johnstitt2615
    @johnstitt2615 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Selective memory goes both ways.

  • @prairieboypools
    @prairieboypools ปีที่แล้ว +38

    God bless you Billy. You were able to transcend what many couldn’t and reach heights most thought impossible. And here you are all those years later still standing tall and rockin’ and rollin’. All the best to you and the band going forward!

  • @evapierce1090
    @evapierce1090 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Billy is amazing and talented. So glad he's one of the greats that are still making music.

  • @Simonchez
    @Simonchez ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Holy crap, so heartbreaking. What a lesson to let go of your shit and love.

  • @Urm0mz
    @Urm0mz ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Billy and Courtney bonded over childhood traumas.
    Why do people think they were so close without having anything in common!

  • @Jnevergoesout
    @Jnevergoesout ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Crazy story, it means a lot of courage to share it.

  • @bradfoster8146
    @bradfoster8146 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The song, "Lyric" by his short lived band Zwan is such a beautiful song. It's in my top 10 songs ever

  • @redxixex679
    @redxixex679 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Billy's really pushing the fashion world to the next level. Nice.

    • @barryshaw7304
      @barryshaw7304 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you are going to Alaska in January he nailed it!
      Lol!!!

    • @ChrisS-nj3ye
      @ChrisS-nj3ye ปีที่แล้ว

      LOLZ, nice one.

  • @LegendoftheGalacticHero
    @LegendoftheGalacticHero 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m just happy that Billy is in a place where he can break this generational trauma and enjoy his family

  • @skriabinfly
    @skriabinfly ปีที่แล้ว +22

    A million men have a similar story but without platinum records to go with it.

    • @kristopherryanwatson
      @kristopherryanwatson ปีที่แล้ว +13

      true. but what's your point ?

    • @princealexander6155
      @princealexander6155 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kristopherryanwatson I think the point is those million men didn't resort to douchebaggery as a life philosophy as a result. They moved on with their lives and tried to become better people

  • @jeremywanner4526
    @jeremywanner4526 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Unfortunately pain and suffering creates amazing music.

  • @larrygarcia6356
    @larrygarcia6356 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow…..really fu*ked up. And yet very much relatable.

  • @reggaeluv2000
    @reggaeluv2000 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Aww, I like hearing that his dad was reading MCIS lyrics and listening to the album.
    Better late than never at all regarding seeing the greatness within his son.

    • @blucat4
      @blucat4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Silent appreciation doesn't do anybody any good.

    • @reggaeluv2000
      @reggaeluv2000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@blucat4 everyone is guilty of doing such though. Doesn't mean one needs to appreciate/praise constantly

  • @jmcastaman
    @jmcastaman ปีที่แล้ว +26

    We can only try not to make the same mistakes with our kids and to heal the young version of ourselves.

    • @Qliphirot
      @Qliphirot ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep, breaking the cycle of abuse.

  • @michaeljacyna1973
    @michaeljacyna1973 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I got to see Billy Sr play on stage with him during their final shows when they "broke up." At the time I thought "how neat." But I really wish I knew some of these stories surrounding them at the time. It would've cast that moment in a new light.

  • @Joramee
    @Joramee ปีที่แล้ว +32

    That's a cool story. I bet many parents never got the chance to say that to their kids before they passed away.

  • @TOCC50
    @TOCC50 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I bet he cried a lot, most people shouldn’t be parents

    • @dawgpost90
      @dawgpost90 ปีที่แล้ว

      Parents are human beings and are flawed.

  • @yukoncorneliusjr8273
    @yukoncorneliusjr8273 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So that’s where he gets his pettiness from.

  • @FrankValchiria
    @FrankValchiria ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow breaks my hearth to hear this, yet i'm grateful he channeled this into great unforgettable art, you have helped thousands if not millions of kids feel seen

    • @kelle0285
      @kelle0285 ปีที่แล้ว

      I broke my hearth. Heck, I busted down the whole chimney.

  • @antiratrace
    @antiratrace ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Must be really cold in the studio, he's wearing more winter gear than I wear snowboarding

  • @trevorbacque8175
    @trevorbacque8175 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Listening to this , pushes me to be there for the kids.

  • @mac_pe
    @mac_pe ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Remember people, love your children. Show them your love and attention.

  • @Jedithtv
    @Jedithtv ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a crushing story to hear

  • @bornwild3955
    @bornwild3955 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for sharing Bill

  • @greghandle
    @greghandle ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Did it play a part in the writing is the question and I bet it did cause your music helped and inspired a lot of people during hard times

  • @saywhat9158
    @saywhat9158 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The question then becomes was it worth it if that rejection had a large effect of driving his accomplishments and success? You rarely get greatness from a happy and comfortable life.

    • @larrygarcia6356
      @larrygarcia6356 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Damn good question. Everything happens for a reason.

    • @buzzcrushtrendkill
      @buzzcrushtrendkill ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh I believe so. What drives a person to act upon a dream and the need to express is much why an oyster makes a pearl.

    • @Christopher-md7tf
      @Christopher-md7tf ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Stop romanticizing suffering and abuse. Depression is not a creative or productive state of mind.

    • @ph-vf5hx
      @ph-vf5hx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      said no nepo-baby ever

    • @ghostwalk2446
      @ghostwalk2446 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Christopher-md7tf It was a simple question followed by a simple observation, no mention of "suffering", "abuse", "depression", and nothing was "romanticized" at all, chill

  • @dorsia6938
    @dorsia6938 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It reminds me of the scene in inception where he pulls out his kid drawning from the dads safe.

  • @larrydanadavid2435
    @larrydanadavid2435 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Billy Corgan should realize more than anyone that people aren’t perfect.

    • @Rocket-rs1eb
      @Rocket-rs1eb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that’s his point

    • @seekthetruth824
      @seekthetruth824 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      His father's behavior was more than just not perfect. He was abusive

    • @yourmom9951
      @yourmom9951 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@seekthetruth824
      Stop being such a baby. It’s called tough love.

  • @jsmithsemper4848
    @jsmithsemper4848 ปีที่แล้ว

    SMASHING PUMPKINS. AMEN. Just brilliant & beautiful & timeless.

  • @michaelsasso2215
    @michaelsasso2215 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The story of my life

  • @magicwindow6682
    @magicwindow6682 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am always interested on imaging how the parents of celebrities think about their kids success and this is really fascinating

  • @donthompson567
    @donthompson567 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can so relate to this story

    • @E.C.2
      @E.C.2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A lot of Gen X and younger can relate,it's 1 of many reasons for our looming demographic winter.

    • @manhalen7046
      @manhalen7046 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@E.C.2 Just stop.

  • @JMcLeodKC711
    @JMcLeodKC711 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can relate a bit. Realized a little late what big drinkers both my parents were.

  • @taylorcuthrell4123
    @taylorcuthrell4123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Saw the Pumpkins in 2007 in Asheville. Best. Show. Ever.

  • @AV57
    @AV57 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s so hard to know in the moment if you should applaud your kids’ achievements or try to make sure they stay humble so they don’t squander the opportunity.

  • @troystaunton254
    @troystaunton254 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Turns out I have the greatest parents ever.

  • @ashleyparks1738
    @ashleyparks1738 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Parents are so intelligent

    • @yourmom9951
      @yourmom9951 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, Ashley. ❤️

  • @dedalus6
    @dedalus6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing human.

  • @missmew5240
    @missmew5240 ปีที่แล้ว

    😢
    I ❤Billy Corgan

  • @eulogy4anange1
    @eulogy4anange1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Billy is awesome I love him

  • @samcad-ho3ze
    @samcad-ho3ze หลายเดือนก่อน

    I identify with this. Wish I could hug you Billy.

  • @444Dragoncheese
    @444Dragoncheese 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its sad but alot of hardships make people better and stronger,

  • @throwawayavclubber7269
    @throwawayavclubber7269 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aw, damn. Sorry, Billy. That hurts.

  • @jacobfield4848
    @jacobfield4848 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    There is alot of jealousy within families.

  • @triple6758
    @triple6758 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He's a Boomer. You are 'competition' to him, Billy.

  • @danielmoksmann5654
    @danielmoksmann5654 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I mean, if Bill Burr ever wants to portray someone in a biopic...

  • @DannyJuke
    @DannyJuke ปีที่แล้ว

    super relatable

  • @cptpepper7731
    @cptpepper7731 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What's the temperature in Stern's studio? Turn on the heater.

  • @truebelieverthasit6265
    @truebelieverthasit6265 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg *holds back tears.. My mom denies acknowledging wtf A Budweiser model is..

  • @-0rbital-
    @-0rbital- ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Howard should be able to relate to that.

  • @tvman7916
    @tvman7916 ปีที่แล้ว

    Crushing

  • @carlosconesa
    @carlosconesa ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn, that was deep.

    • @yourmom9951
      @yourmom9951 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what she said

  • @Deeroc25
    @Deeroc25 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The depth of pain and alienation in his songs are not the product of a happy childhood.

  • @sheydoll
    @sheydoll ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow wow wow 😢😢

  • @sheabobiney8114
    @sheabobiney8114 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Billy. He's one of the more intelligent celebrities. I can tell he's a deep thinker about shit.

  • @thomasmeyer7793
    @thomasmeyer7793 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Damn bill burr went indie

  • @thaddeuswallenberg4006
    @thaddeuswallenberg4006 ปีที่แล้ว

    thats why billy is billy

  • @treedeblue
    @treedeblue ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Billy was on WWE I can’t get over that.

  • @joshnic6639
    @joshnic6639 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    great clips, but how do we watch the whole thing?

  • @zerosoma33
    @zerosoma33 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro got his cheekbones back

  • @alobo9937
    @alobo9937 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deettekearns9092
    @deettekearns9092 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    DAAAMMMNN.

  • @KarlRock
    @KarlRock ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn

  • @eternallife9786
    @eternallife9786 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's so sad😢

  • @seadawg93
    @seadawg93 ปีที่แล้ว

    😢 💔

  • @ronnieo.6647
    @ronnieo.6647 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow

  • @tatialo37
    @tatialo37 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pain begets success.

  • @jackiep5009
    @jackiep5009 ปีที่แล้ว

    That album stands the test of time.

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He talked about a couple of albums here.

  • @guinnessharvey4476
    @guinnessharvey4476 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Must have been a cold studio

  • @chriscraft77022
    @chriscraft77022 ปีที่แล้ว

    that is crazy

  • @terryfonz4603
    @terryfonz4603 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hurt people hurt people!

  • @crazidirtbiker
    @crazidirtbiker ปีที่แล้ว

    Did billy ever finish that book he was gonna write? I wanna hear the shapeshifter story he touched on briefly on your show before. He supposedly seen someone change into something else while in a room with them. He won’t talk about it but said it would be in the book.

  • @why-fi926
    @why-fi926 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @hugolafhugolaf
    @hugolafhugolaf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is it that cold in the studio?

  • @0BRAINS0
    @0BRAINS0 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are all human.😢

  • @blacksunshine7485
    @blacksunshine7485 ปีที่แล้ว

    Need to put the heating on in the studio by the looks of it

  • @Prebound_
    @Prebound_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All i know is apparently a lot of stuff went down in the year '1976'.

  • @gordonhall9871
    @gordonhall9871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this happens a lot

  • @johnavy1722
    @johnavy1722 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If your a grandpa,God gave ya a second chance

  • @grawakendream8980
    @grawakendream8980 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow

  • @alecaquino4306
    @alecaquino4306 ปีที่แล้ว

    Family dynamics are often very complicated :(