The fact that the girls could instantly feel something was wrong with Joe and how the male friend kept telling her she was being paranoid is how it is irl too. He kept defending joes actions as romance. This happens a-lot when women point out something a man does that makes them feel uncomfortable. Female friends would instantly know to be vigilant but male friends will chalk it up to them being paranoid.
@@lils4341 Hm. Think it just makes it obvious the differences in thought between men and women. You say it's a problem that the men aren't that concerned- I say it's a problem that you're overly concerned. Okay, I'll give it to you, turning up at her house was slightly stalker like behaviour- but it might have been an alternate route to work and he might've just wanted to see what kind of place she had- I've done it to co-workers (male AND female) out of curiosity when I wanted to take a more circuitous route home so I can ride my bike (but not aimlessly, I don't enjoy aimless riding I need a destination.) As long as he only did it once it's not a problem- I've never intentionally gone to a co-worker's street after the first time and I've only done it to like three co-workers, I'm not gonna go that far out of my way, it's just a side-destination, a reason to expand my riding radius. The online shit looking at her profiles etc, that's not stalker behaviour either- EVERYONE does that. You gotta know who you're dealing with, it's why we ask for Instagram now instead of a phone number. With IG we can see the shit you get up to and if you're in like five places with bikinis and on boats and shit- you're a whore and most dudes will smash and pass you. Your IG is basically a reflection of whether you're run through or not. If your IG checks out that you're not just a one night stand then your FB profile is the next port of call- learn if you have any pets (compassion), kids (liabilities), what your family is like, where you work so what sort of income you're earning as to what kind of girl you are- if you're working at an office but on a yacht in your IG, some shit isn't adding up. It's not stalking, it's background checking, vetting to make sure of who you are before I commit resources to wooing you. It's the modern equivalent of asking around about you to see what you're about- which imo is more creepy because then you know about it- whereas what you don't know, won't bother you.
@@TheK-PopInPublicAuthority sorry to be the one to say it, but everything you described is NOT normal behavior. I’d recommend seeing somebody for that… best of luck, and get well soon 😕
Una vez leí un estudio que decía que las mujeres siempre solemos estar más alerta ante los peligros, siempre queremos prevenir antes de que ocurran las cosas, es algo natural, mientras que los hombres no se alarman tan rápidamente, tardan más en detectar ciertos peligros.
Well naturally with the way woman can easily become victims of murder crimes and sex crimes committed against them mostly by men and where men can easily overpower most women, women will have that instinct to stay on guard at all times. As a woman myself, it becomes second nature to make sure you protect yourself from danger. Whether a woman decides to listen to that instinct or not makes or breaks their potential of becoming the next victim.
@@anonnnymousthegreat On the flip side, men seemingly feigning ignorance or assuming these actions aren't nefarious is clearly a problem. There is no world in which Joe's actions are supposed to appear "okay" so thinking otherwise & ur statement puts the responsibility on women when they aren't the ones doing anything wrong (just out their existing)
his smile was predatory, on an instinctual level, women/people can sense that because we are also animals. animals dont use language which can be honeslty disracting at times but read body language and tone of voice and facial expression and eyes. joes eyes and expression were those of a predators. Women can sometiems be a bit more intune with their animal instincts because they often can be dealing with hyper vigilance, especially in countries and eras of high crimes, and or violence towards women by men so they can "sense'/ see when a man is predatory.
kyoungJun was agreeing with what Joe was doing the whole time defending his actions until the end when he finds out that Joe is actually a stalker psychopath and when the girl compared KyongJun to Joe because he was agreeing with Joes form of love is kind of a side eye moment... and then he gets all defensive about it after finding out its about a psychopath... yikes
It seemed like he really wanted to give the guy the benefit of the doubt well past what's normal... but hopefully being called out like that was a wake-up call, bc that way of thinking is very concerning.
@@Kingdom_Of_Dreams No i doesn’t seem that way -.- it seems he thinks that controlling behavior and checking up on everything the woman you say you “love” do, is ok -.-
@@kimleemoon well, I know it :) and also Koreans in general ( from what I observe in mass media, so …you never know ;p) Koreans often believe that - what others do, and what is “popular” , whatever it is is, it must be OK ….. -.- And that is sad :|
The show talks from Joe's perspective so it sympathises his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
@@Melarona23 Yeah but like I feel like even when seeing things from Joe’s perspective it’s very easy to sense that what he’s doing isn’t right - like yes, people stalk others on social media but it never goes to that extent. Like saying that finding someone’s address through stalking isn’t weird is kind of alarming
The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
wow this video is very telling. the women were very quick to pick up on joe’s psychopathic & dangerous behaviour while the men kept on insisting otherwise…
Someone pointed out it’s interesting the show is called “you” and it’s about a psycho-stalker falling in love with a woman who doesn’t seem to reciprocate his same feelings. So if you are watching this show, when people ask, “what are you watching?”….the answer instinctively would be, “you”. So it makes you sound like a psycho-stalker like the main character.
Joe was outside her house watching her, not even knowing her also and it wasn't stalking?! Say what now😐 Does stalking have more than one meaning I don't know about
interesting how the girls were easily able to pick up on how creepy joe is while the guys were more slow to realize and even somewhat defensive of him..
That show is so good, and so creepy. The women reacting to it were spot on. It’s so important to trust your gut instinct when it comes to things like that. I tell my daughters that, if someone gives you a strange vibe, trust yourself. Don’t be mean as in bullying, but make sure you are in a safe location and/or with friends. And call me or dad lol
The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
It's funny when people thought it would be romance then suddenly there's stabbing, grinding, obsessing over someone and killing. My gosh. YOU is a crazy series. Season 2 had me uttering "Oh my gosh" the whole time 😬
So concerning that the guy didn't see Joe's actions as stalking.. good to know he would also totally be capable of cyber searching a girls adress and spy on them
Well, hold on your horses. The guy probably thought that it was a romantic series he didn’t think it was horror. Can you not read he says “that’s not the general I was thinking of.”
@@M_usef no matter what the genre is which is understandable he might not know, the act of stalking someone online to go to their address is not good in whatever genre.
online yeah because everyone does it online, its free information, you dont need to stalk to get information people upload voluntarily. the stalking begins when thy stalk you in life. dont act as if you never checked your crush or a first date online.
The show talks from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
@Pear109 stop making excuses in every comment. it's getting annoying and anyone with half a brain who isn't a weirdo can tell its stalking regardless of what Joe says
@@Pear109 Stop making excuses for him. He is clearly defending the stalking and gaslighting her. It takes quarter of a brain cell to know this is stalking.
not that one guy keeps saying its not stalking. Really now? what else wud be stalking if not this? stalkers do this and call it love. the girls cud tell something wasnt right with Joe (the actor does such a good job with sutble expressions) and identified him as being stalker
The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
@@Pear109 yeah ik. He was only talking abt the genre of the show as 'this isnt what i thought'. He still didnt say "oh thats def stalking" but instead told her friend that she was paranoid. The social media stalking part we can forgive bcz ppl's profiles are public but not every1 follows their "crush" around or install cameras in their house. Even tho he saw Joe doing that he was still like "wait thats not stalking" prob thinking maybe something else wud be revealed to show Joe's motivations for doing that but no matter what it cud be, its still stalking. Not all stalkers are killers but killers are stalkers first. It escalates
@@Pear109 you keep writing this same comment under people's comments. just give it up. it doesn't matter if it's from joe's perspective, anyone with common sense can see that it's creepy. especially after he showed up to her house. and that guy was STILL DEFENDING HIM. so he's a creep too.
@@pearluniverse7878 Calm down, I was just saying to give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Tons of people miss read things all the time, when the character showed up to the house the reactor could of thought that he was invited. You never know what people are thinking or feeling, we aren't mind readers.
@@Pear109 there’s nothing to calm down about bc I’m not upset lol there’s nothing to misunderstand, any man that defends another man through stalking especially after he goes to her house and watches her through her windows, goes everywhere she goes and even follows her at night is a creep. Argue with yourself bc you sound crazy. “Could’ve thought he was invited” to watch her through her window?? Are you insane? You must be his secret channel or something with how hard you’re trying to defend his weirdness
Men can misunderstand is not an excuse. When in doubt u are supposed to ask and not assume. Its scary how none of these men understood Joe but the women knew something was wrong. Its a great series though.
Not really anybody with the common sense could be able to tell that what Joe was doing was psycho. It has nothing to do with men or women as a whole . That Korean guy was just dense as fuck.
I never understood why these Korean reaction channels never just picked up a massively popular show like Game Of Thrones and have people react to it as a weekly series, easy money and good content for a western audience. It would provide an eastern perspective on one of the most popular and well known TV shows ever.
인스타그램, 페이스북 등 좋아하는 사람에대해 찾아보고 알고 싶어하는 우리들의 행동과, 스토커의 심리 그 종이 한장차이의 묘사. 그리고 분명 스토커 덕분에 여성이 나쁜 상황 속에서 벗어 날 수 있는 상황에서는 순간 스토커를 지지하게 되기도 하며, 보는 사람의 심리도 왔다갔다 하게 만드는 정말 잘만든 스토리라고 생각했는데, 시즌 을 거듭할 수록 내용과 장르가 산으로 갔음 ㅠㅠ
something is very wrong with men. how did they think any of what he was doing was okay? that guy that kept defending joe is very strange...like something is very wrong with him to be defending those actions and thinking what joe was doing was completely okay until the end. scary.
I mean if you seen the trailer then obviously you get that there something wrong 🤷♀️ but the man here thought that this was a romantic series while the girl understood the trailer 💁♀️ that’s why the men saw everything in pink while the girl was realistic.. it’s because of there initial preconception that they were biased in there following thought 💭 so no the man is not crazy nor is all the man like that 🤓 you can see it with the other guy here 😅
I always want a follow up on these when the guests themselves want to watch the rest of the series at home. I always wanna know their thoughts about the series overall lol I do think the one guy tried to look at Joe’s actions in a positive light instead of what was actually happening on screen because he didn’t have a context to what the series was. His initial thoughts were a romance series, therefore I don’t think he picked up on the wtf Joe was doing that the rest of them did. I know when I initially watched this forever ago, I thought it was just a romance before I started the episode(though quickly caught those flags)
WTF DOES HE MEAN "no it's not stalking" HE IS LITERALLY FOLLOWING HER AND FINDING WHERE SHE LIVES THAT IS STALKING. Those guys ESPECIALLY the blue shirt one is such red flags.
I can understand the men trying to give Joe the benefit of the doubt all the way up until he finds her address; at that point if you still think that he's in the right, then you're red flag too!
I'd love to have an analysis of why guys cannot comprehend that his behavior is not right and how girls are so in tune with their gut and how they knew to recognize the signs
Dude at around minute 7 saying it's not stalking?? 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 *holy shit i paused to make this comment then the next thing he did was call the girl next to him paranoid???? 😡 ** god...really hope this made the dude self-reflect on what he considers "romanctic" 😬
Girl: this is stalking Guy: this is not stalking What is wrong with this dude that it's okay with this behavior and somehow he can relate in some way.....that's worrying
The guy who keeps saying no it’s not stalking is creeping me out more than Joe…how are they not able to tell this behaviour is concerning,this is ample context to deduce that,man are scary fr
So sorry, I'm a male but looking a the difference of the girls and boys (esp) is just concerning? How come you normalize those behaviors? I know korean men thinking is one way but this one's just disgusting.
KyoungJun *WHAT THE FUCK* man😮💨 how could u not see Joe as a creep from a mile away? 🤨I've always liked ur reactions but sorry to say this but that's *VERY CONCERNING* & I'm worried 😳😳💀
I am glad you guys reacted to "YOU" it's one of the best shows ever to be made, at least for me, since its my favorite show, good's up to the actor that played "JOE GOLDBERG"...He did an amazing job, spectacular acting, the best I have seen and the other actors Aswell, I can't wait for season 5..but it will come out in 2024, but its wroth my wait. Love it.
To be honest there are many Womans non Koreans, who had have, relationships with Korean men, and the conclussion is that they are very obsessive, similar to the guy in the serie. But for the guys watching have to know that this is the history of a stalker.
omg even if u think everything was fine til the house part its ok but how can u say its not stalking after that wow the guy with blue shirt is weird 7:15
genuinely found it so interesting how all the girls picked up on joe's red flags, about how unsettling every little action of his was, while the guys were trying to just give him the "benefit of doubt" and calling it destiny lol
I Can understand the benefit of the doubt part because we hear everything from joes mind and we’re trying to understand him, it gets tricky but after season 1 Can longer be played 😭
so many ppl have already pointed out how the blue shirt guy's such a red flag for defending Joe, but for me it's the way he keeps putting the girl down and being adamant that's she's wrong and calling her defensive to the point where she starts doubting herself. It's toxic to have ppl like that around you. Run, girl.
Devil's advocate. If we didn't hear Joe's internal dialogue and changed the music to romantic music, this would be a romance movie to a point😅😅 I've seen Kdramas being as toxic as this but because the music is wistful, people lose their minds
“You” is that show! It’s so good! I have watched all 4 seasons and Joe is a true psychopath. “You” reminds me of the show “Dexter”. Both characters are lovable psychopaths. You is definitely worth watching!
The fact that the girls could instantly feel something was wrong with Joe and how the male friend kept telling her she was being paranoid is how it is irl too. He kept defending joes actions as romance. This happens a-lot when women point out something a man does that makes them feel uncomfortable. Female friends would instantly know to be vigilant but male friends will chalk it up to them being paranoid.
yessssss how they didn't instantly find something wrong with his behavior the way the girls did speaks volumes.
@@lils4341
Hm. Think it just makes it obvious the differences in thought between men and women. You say it's a problem that the men aren't that concerned- I say it's a problem that you're overly concerned.
Okay, I'll give it to you, turning up at her house was slightly stalker like behaviour- but it might have been an alternate route to work and he might've just wanted to see what kind of place she had- I've done it to co-workers (male AND female) out of curiosity when I wanted to take a more circuitous route home so I can ride my bike (but not aimlessly, I don't enjoy aimless riding I need a destination.) As long as he only did it once it's not a problem- I've never intentionally gone to a co-worker's street after the first time and I've only done it to like three co-workers, I'm not gonna go that far out of my way, it's just a side-destination, a reason to expand my riding radius.
The online shit looking at her profiles etc, that's not stalker behaviour either- EVERYONE does that. You gotta know who you're dealing with, it's why we ask for Instagram now instead of a phone number. With IG we can see the shit you get up to and if you're in like five places with bikinis and on boats and shit- you're a whore and most dudes will smash and pass you. Your IG is basically a reflection of whether you're run through or not. If your IG checks out that you're not just a one night stand then your FB profile is the next port of call- learn if you have any pets (compassion), kids (liabilities), what your family is like, where you work so what sort of income you're earning as to what kind of girl you are- if you're working at an office but on a yacht in your IG, some shit isn't adding up.
It's not stalking, it's background checking, vetting to make sure of who you are before I commit resources to wooing you. It's the modern equivalent of asking around about you to see what you're about- which imo is more creepy because then you know about it- whereas what you don't know, won't bother you.
@TheK-PopInPublicAuthority I'm not reading this shit anybody justifying Joe needs help. Go argue with yo mama k? Have you a blessed day.
@@TheK-PopInPublicAuthority you wrote this long ass comment just to say a whole bunch of nothing while letting the world know you're an idiot
@@TheK-PopInPublicAuthority sorry to be the one to say it, but everything you described is NOT normal behavior. I’d recommend seeing somebody for that… best of luck, and get well soon 😕
The girls: he's a stalker, he's crazy
The boys: he likes her, that's fate, that's normal
its so interesting to see how the women picked up the red flags so quickly and the men had a more "lets give him the benefit of doubt" first mindset
Una vez leí un estudio que decía que las mujeres siempre solemos estar más alerta ante los peligros, siempre queremos prevenir antes de que ocurran las cosas, es algo natural, mientras que los hombres no se alarman tan rápidamente, tardan más en detectar ciertos peligros.
almost like there’s a reason for that 🤔🧐 men, do better
Well naturally with the way woman can easily become victims of murder crimes and sex crimes committed against them mostly by men and where men can easily overpower most women, women will have that instinct to stay on guard at all times. As a woman myself, it becomes second nature to make sure you protect yourself from danger. Whether a woman decides to listen to that instinct or not makes or breaks their potential of becoming the next victim.
@@anonnnymousthegreat On the flip side, men seemingly feigning ignorance or assuming these actions aren't nefarious is clearly a problem. There is no world in which Joe's actions are supposed to appear "okay" so thinking otherwise & ur statement puts the responsibility on women when they aren't the ones doing anything wrong (just out their existing)
my thoughts exactly!
"he is not stalking"???? bro, he literally went to her house.
also, so proud of the girl who said "i don't like his smile", good sence
his smile was predatory, on an instinctual level, women/people can sense that because we are also animals. animals dont use language which can be honeslty disracting at times but read body language and tone of voice and facial expression and eyes. joes eyes and expression were those of a predators. Women can sometiems be a bit more intune with their animal instincts because they often can be dealing with hyper vigilance, especially in countries and eras of high crimes, and or violence towards women by men so they can "sense'/ see when a man is predatory.
the fact that the guys didnt think that there was something wrong with the guys says a lot .......wow
kyoungJun was agreeing with what Joe was doing the whole time defending his actions until the end when he finds out that Joe is actually a stalker psychopath and when the girl compared KyongJun to Joe because he was agreeing with Joes form of love is kind of a side eye moment... and then he gets all defensive about it after finding out its about a psychopath... yikes
Yeah that give me the creeps
Sus indeed
Red flags all over this video
It seemed like he really wanted to give the guy the benefit of the doubt well past what's normal... but hopefully being called out like that was a wake-up call, bc that way of thinking is very concerning.
nah frrrr red flag
The fact the guy didn't think he was doing anything wrong is concerning.
It sounded more like he was playing it up to make the girl seem more surprised when she was proven right lol
@@Kingdom_Of_Dreams No i doesn’t seem that way -.- it seems he thinks that controlling behavior and checking up on everything the woman you say you “love” do, is ok -.-
VERY concerning
@@Blania well he is a Korean man. And from the stories I have heard this is not uncommon behavior for them (in general)
@@kimleemoon well, I know it :) and also Koreans in general ( from what I observe in mass media, so …you never know ;p) Koreans often believe that - what others do, and what is “popular” , whatever it is is, it must be OK ….. -.-
And that is sad :|
the one guy who keeps on going « no this isn’t stalking » kinda gives me the creeps like what do you mean it’s normal?? 💀💀
ikr like bro im scared for the women in your life
The show talks from Joe's perspective so it sympathises his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
@@Melarona23 Yeah but like I feel like even when seeing things from Joe’s perspective it’s very easy to sense that what he’s doing isn’t right - like yes, people stalk others on social media but it never goes to that extent. Like saying that finding someone’s address through stalking isn’t weird is kind of alarming
@@_laurenolo_ Ikr this is lowkey scary
@SHELE i feel like it’s still very easy to see that what he’s doing isn’t right though
Ngl that guy who kept saying that ain’t stalking was making me go like 🤨🤨
Same
Fr the ML literally found the girl’s address thru cyberstalking then WENT TO HER HOUSE AND STARED AT HER?? Creepy 💀
The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
@@Pear109 its clear just by looking at his actions that its wrong. You dont need to know the show to see that
@Mieya Young I know, I'm just giving him the benefit of the doubt. After all, they looked a little confused at the beginning of the movie.
wow this video is very telling. the women were very quick to pick up on joe’s psychopathic & dangerous behaviour while the men kept on insisting otherwise…
That guy is a walking red flag. He kept gaslighting the girl for saying the show is about stalking.
Someone pointed out it’s interesting the show is called “you” and it’s about a psycho-stalker falling in love with a woman who doesn’t seem to reciprocate his same feelings. So if you are watching this show, when people ask, “what are you watching?”….the answer instinctively would be, “you”. So it makes you sound like a psycho-stalker like the main character.
what are you watching? im watching you😮
thats cute
Dude who kept saying “its not stalking” is the biggest red flag 😂
Joe was outside her house watching her, not even knowing her also and it wasn't stalking?! Say what now😐 Does stalking have more than one meaning I don't know about
The fact the guy is defending Joe when the girl says he's stalking is making me worried :P
interesting how the girls were easily able to pick up on how creepy joe is while the guys were more slow to realize and even somewhat defensive of him..
That one guy that was like "that isn't stalking" was so bloody annoying 😆😭🤨. Like dude, are you looking in a mirror lol
I’m sorry but the guy in blue gave me the creeps the way he kept saying it’s not stalking and saying it’s love😬
That show is so good, and so creepy. The women reacting to it were spot on. It’s so important to trust your gut instinct when it comes to things like that. I tell my daughters that, if someone gives you a strange vibe, trust yourself. Don’t be mean as in bullying, but make sure you are in a safe location and/or with friends. And call me or dad lol
Nahhhh, ladies be careful around guys like blue shirt 😭
as always women knowing when they're in danger as soon as things starts to feel weird, our sad reality! :)
not that guy saying it’s not stalking… 🥴
The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
@@Pear109 the social media part i agree i wouldn’t call it stalking but when he said the address part wasn’t stalking i was like hold up
@Cheetah lol, yeah, I agree.
It's funny when people thought it would be romance then suddenly there's stabbing, grinding, obsessing over someone and killing. My gosh. YOU is a crazy series. Season 2 had me uttering "Oh my gosh" the whole time 😬
Yeah, Joe is something else😂
@@kimleemoon ohh you bet 😅
So concerning that the guy didn't see Joe's actions as stalking.. good to know he would also totally be capable of cyber searching a girls adress and spy on them
Well, hold on your horses. The guy probably thought that it was a romantic series he didn’t think it was horror. Can you not read he says “that’s not the general I was thinking of.”
@@M_usef no matter what the genre is which is understandable he might not know, the act of stalking someone online to go to their address is not good in whatever genre.
@@kimjansen660 obviously stalking is not good. It’s just that the guy is probably dense s.
online yeah because everyone does it online, its free information, you dont need to stalk to get information people upload voluntarily. the stalking begins when thy stalk you in life.
dont act as if you never checked your crush or a first date online.
@@rainbows5232to the point of searching for their family's accounts and her home address? Hell nah
what the hell is wrong with that one guy Kyoungjun
The show talks from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
@Pear109 stop making excuses in every comment. it's getting annoying and anyone with half a brain who isn't a weirdo can tell its stalking regardless of what Joe says
@@Pear109 Stop making excuses for him. He is clearly defending the stalking and gaslighting her. It takes quarter of a brain cell to know this is stalking.
I'm just saying, maybe give him the benefit of the doubt. They don't know english he could have been confused, you don't know.
@@Pear109 lmfao do you not see the Korean subtitles 💀
not that one guy keeps saying its not stalking. Really now? what else wud be stalking if not this? stalkers do this and call it love. the girls cud tell something wasnt right with Joe (the actor does such a good job with sutble expressions) and identified him as being stalker
The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.
@@Pear109 yeah ik. He was only talking abt the genre of the show as 'this isnt what i thought'. He still didnt say "oh thats def stalking" but instead told her friend that she was paranoid. The social media stalking part we can forgive bcz ppl's profiles are public but not every1 follows their "crush" around or install cameras in their house. Even tho he saw Joe doing that he was still like "wait thats not stalking" prob thinking maybe something else wud be revealed to show Joe's motivations for doing that but no matter what it cud be, its still stalking. Not all stalkers are killers but killers are stalkers first. It escalates
@@Pear109 you keep writing this same comment under people's comments. just give it up. it doesn't matter if it's from joe's perspective, anyone with common sense can see that it's creepy. especially after he showed up to her house. and that guy was STILL DEFENDING HIM. so he's a creep too.
@@pearluniverse7878 Calm down, I was just saying to give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Tons of people miss read things all the time, when the character showed up to the house the reactor could of thought that he was invited. You never know what people are thinking or feeling, we aren't mind readers.
@@Pear109 there’s nothing to calm down about bc I’m not upset lol there’s nothing to misunderstand, any man that defends another man through stalking especially after he goes to her house and watches her through her windows, goes everywhere she goes and even follows her at night is a creep. Argue with yourself bc you sound crazy. “Could’ve thought he was invited” to watch her through her window?? Are you insane? You must be his secret channel or something with how hard you’re trying to defend his weirdness
7:28 feels like this guy is lowkey gaslighting her..if that's not stalking then what is🤨
Men can misunderstand is not an excuse. When in doubt u are supposed to ask and not assume. Its scary how none of these men understood Joe but the women knew something was wrong. Its a great series though.
the difference between the women and men😂😂 the women knew immediately something was wrong and to run away
I came back to this because it stuck in mind for some reason but…she was already yelling “run away!!” not even a full minute in 😭😭
Not really anybody with the common sense could be able to tell that what Joe was doing was psycho. It has nothing to do with men or women as a whole . That Korean guy was just dense as fuck.
@@m.hol4229 Alright thanks for clearing that up. Have a good day
What’s wrong with him he keeps saying it’s fun and not stalking.. so odd
The boys really need to understand the difference between "love" and "stalking"
This KyoungJun always creeps me out
Why does the guy keep excusing Joe's behaviour??
7:18 ...HOW IS THAT NOT STALKING?? WOW, so red flag these guys
Even a blind person could see what Joe was doing wasn’t normal, someone check that man’s past dating history… asap
7:40 No bro, A woman's intuition is always right. He's a stalker LOL
I never understood why these Korean reaction channels never just picked up a massively popular show like Game Of Thrones and have people react to it as a weekly series, easy money and good content for a western audience. It would provide an eastern perspective on one of the most popular and well known TV shows ever.
Never doubt women's intuition lmao, they understood what was going on right away!
Can we please make this a series??? Pretty please I’d like to see them recap the episodes so far🥹
All in favour say aye!
Same!!!
I think they have other things to do in their life
@@TheMorSkull01 not everyday lol...
How is it not stalking when he googled her, found her location, her boyfriend and all her friends 😂
인스타그램, 페이스북 등 좋아하는 사람에대해 찾아보고 알고 싶어하는 우리들의 행동과, 스토커의 심리 그 종이 한장차이의 묘사. 그리고 분명 스토커 덕분에 여성이 나쁜 상황 속에서 벗어 날 수 있는 상황에서는 순간 스토커를 지지하게 되기도 하며, 보는 사람의 심리도 왔다갔다 하게 만드는 정말 잘만든 스토리라고 생각했는데, 시즌 을 거듭할 수록 내용과 장르가 산으로 갔음 ㅠㅠ
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❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂 1:35
❤😂😂❤ 1:43
❤😂 1:50
😂❤😂😢 0:03
Why did it take so long for the boys to see that the protagonist's actions were abnormal and worrisome?
something is very wrong with men. how did they think any of what he was doing was okay? that guy that kept defending joe is very strange...like something is very wrong with him to be defending those actions and thinking what joe was doing was completely okay until the end. scary.
The dude who was gaslighting like crazy was rather concerning 🤨
7:18 this ISNT stalking??? HUH how far does someone have to go for it to be considered stalking to you sir? tf
I want to see more of their reactions. 😁
I mean if you seen the trailer then obviously you get that there something wrong 🤷♀️ but the man here thought that this was a romantic series while the girl understood the trailer 💁♀️ that’s why the men saw everything in pink while the girl was realistic.. it’s because of there initial preconception that they were biased in there following thought 💭 so no the man is not crazy nor is all the man like that 🤓 you can see it with the other guy here 😅
the guy that said “no no no it’s not stalking” 😂😂😂😂 um what?
7:23 i really don't like this dude... his comments and reactions makes me uncomfortable 😣
I always want a follow up on these when the guests themselves want to watch the rest of the series at home. I always wanna know their thoughts about the series overall lol
I do think the one guy tried to look at Joe’s actions in a positive light instead of what was actually happening on screen because he didn’t have a context to what the series was. His initial thoughts were a romance series, therefore I don’t think he picked up on the wtf Joe was doing that the rest of them did.
I know when I initially watched this forever ago, I thought it was just a romance before I started the episode(though quickly caught those flags)
funny that the women knew right away that he's a stalker and the men didn't...like hm...
The way the women automatically knew joe was a creep 💀
WTF DOES HE MEAN "no it's not stalking" HE IS LITERALLY FOLLOWING HER AND FINDING WHERE SHE LIVES THAT IS STALKING. Those guys ESPECIALLY the blue shirt one is such red flags.
I can understand the men trying to give Joe the benefit of the doubt all the way up until he finds her address; at that point if you still think that he's in the right, then you're red flag too!
More of this please!!!
I'd love to have an analysis of why guys cannot comprehend that his behavior is not right and how girls are so in tune with their gut and how they knew to recognize the signs
Dude at around minute 7 saying it's not stalking?? 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
*holy shit i paused to make this comment then the next thing he did was call the girl next to him paranoid???? 😡
** god...really hope this made the dude self-reflect on what he considers "romanctic" 😬
Theres no way the guys dont think this is stalking right? The whole point is that hes a stalker. Lol
Bro i thought i would be alone on how weird it is how women and men interpreted Joe stalking beck.... im like y'all can't actually be serious
even from Joe's perspective you can see it's stalking and there is a big red flag 😂
Girl: this is stalking
Guy: this is not stalking
What is wrong with this dude that it's okay with this behavior and somehow he can relate in some way.....that's worrying
이거 리뷰하고 정주행 했다...
Naaah the difference between men and women 💀 women exactly felt it
bruh ngl the guy saying that a guy could easily think the card thing was on purpose kinda scares me
The boy who said the MC wasn't a psychopath... Why do you defend that behavior? TvT
Well, hopefully this Kyoungjun guy sees the comments and realizes how creepy and wrong he is, and starts to change his line of thought.
The guy was like : it’s totally normal I do that too when I’m in love ….
The rest of us (women) : Bombastic side eyes
Eu PRECISO que eles assistem a terceira e a quarta temporada de You!!!!!!
The guy who keeps saying no it’s not stalking is creeping me out more than Joe…how are they not able to tell this behaviour is concerning,this is ample context to deduce that,man are scary fr
So sorry, I'm a male but looking a the difference of the girls and boys (esp) is just concerning? How come you normalize those behaviors? I know korean men thinking is one way but this one's just disgusting.
KyoungJun *WHAT THE FUCK* man😮💨 how could u not see Joe as a creep from a mile away? 🤨I've always liked ur reactions but sorry to say this but that's *VERY CONCERNING* & I'm worried 😳😳💀
Sorry but. He’s a red flag. How can someone see Joe’s actions as okay. He literally went to strangers address and watched her from outside.
Lol at the girl who said the guy watching with her was also a psychopath like Joe. 😂
I love this show did not see them reacting to this coming glad they did ❤
Bro that one guy needs to check himself
I am glad you guys reacted to "YOU" it's one of the best shows ever to be made, at least for me, since its my favorite show, good's up to the actor that played "JOE GOLDBERG"...He did an amazing job, spectacular acting, the best I have seen and the other actors Aswell, I can't wait for season 5..but it will come out in 2024, but its wroth my wait. Love it.
Only works in English
@@TheMorSkull01 what?
these guys are creepy for thinking Joe was normal
Bro sus af defending the stalking and obsessive behavior 😭 makes you wonder
wow,,,,,was very unpleasantly surprised with the men's reactions in this vid,,,,,
To be honest there are many Womans non Koreans, who had have, relationships with Korean men, and the conclussion is that they are very obsessive, similar to the guy in the serie. But for the guys watching have to know that this is the history of a stalker.
"what if some sicko had followed you down here "
"isn't that you?"
LMFAOO MY GIRL KNOWS WHATS UP
glad they liked it 😊
omg even if u think everything was fine til the house part its ok but how can u say its not stalking after that wow the guy with blue shirt is weird 7:15
genuinely found it so interesting how all the girls picked up on joe's red flags, about how unsettling every little action of his was, while the guys were trying to just give him the "benefit of doubt" and calling it destiny lol
I Can understand the benefit of the doubt part because we hear everything from joes mind and we’re trying to understand him, it gets tricky but after season 1 Can longer be played 😭
Euphonia serie next pls!!❤
Please more reaction of "You" till next next season
Black jacket girl has great instincts.She seems like a good friend to have
so many ppl have already pointed out how the blue shirt guy's such a red flag for defending Joe, but for me it's the way he keeps putting the girl down and being adamant that's she's wrong and calling her defensive to the point where she starts doubting herself.
It's toxic to have ppl like that around you.
Run, girl.
weird how the dude kept denying that its stalking... then what does he exactly consider stalking if not that?
You is such a great show, I wonder if they watched it 😅, it keeps you on edge all the time
Devil's advocate.
If we didn't hear Joe's internal dialogue and changed the music to romantic music, this would be a romance movie to a point😅😅 I've seen Kdramas being as toxic as this but because the music is wistful, people lose their minds
“You” is that show! It’s so good! I have watched all 4 seasons and Joe is a true psychopath. “You” reminds me of the show “Dexter”. Both characters are lovable psychopaths. You is definitely worth watching!
I would love to see the shins being reacted too since I haven’t seen it. Dunno if there’s a specific reason but I really love their band )
How about next gossip girl??
It great show👍
Dude in light blue shirt is a 🚩
And the girl calling it few times~
🏃🏻♂️...
I love Koreans and Japanese I wish one day I'll marry one
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EunJi are u in the new kdrama "Heartbeat"?!