Day Five / Looking Through the Aftermath pt1

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  • @debraadamsadams6955
    @debraadamsadams6955 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot Change. Change the things that I can, and the ability to know the difference.

  • @elissarn8529
    @elissarn8529 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I lost it as soon as you mentioned your babies' pictures. IT'S OKAY to be upset about the loss of your stuff, especially the sentimental stuff.

  • @CONSTELLATION_PEGASUS
    @CONSTELLATION_PEGASUS หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Going through a house after a fire is definitely rough. I've been there, so I understand. From my experience, you might be surprised at what can be saved. The photo albums that are charred, on the outside, might have actually protected the photos inside. At least that was my experience. Since they are so tightly closed, the photos could well be intact. A tub of soapy water, a lot of Formula 409 and some scrubbing was my route, and it could surprise you at how many things can be saved. I was certainly surprised at what I was able to save after my house burned. You two being safe is, of course, definitely the most important thing, and I know people say, "It's just things.", but they are things that make you happy, some have memories attached to them, some could be family items, so it is perfectly OK to cry over them. I know it is a roller coaster going through a house after a fire. It's like a "Twilight Zone" feeling. My parents and my grandmother, (all of them gone now), put in a lot of time, work and money helping me remodel the house I lost to fire, and I think that was the worse part of the loss for me. Everywhere I looked in that house I could see where their hands had been, and had been there with love. Thank God you two are safe, and prayers are going up for you 🙏

  • @PamelitaSi
    @PamelitaSi หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    True things can be replaced but some cannot. That’s the heartache and so understandable, Tammy. Cry, cry, get mad, yell, cry some more because we all understand. So glad you have many of your photos that can be reprinted. That ol’ rain has bad timing. 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼

  • @crescentmoon374
    @crescentmoon374 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Tam Tam ~ true they may be just THINGS as you say, but they were YOUR things,YOUR memories and you have every right to feel the way you do now, so sorry for all you are going through ~ miss you all so much and as always sending hugs, love and prayers 💕🙏💞

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! Thank you! 💔❤️‍🩹

  • @megk.4599
    @megk.4599 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I know it’s painful to see your home like this 😔. Somehow though, among the ashes, I see a happy cherished family lived in this home & my heart swells with gratitude knowing all are safe 🥰. Sending continued prayers your way as you push forward to a bright & happy future together 🙏.

  • @gingermast4389
    @gingermast4389 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I kept thinking about your wall of vintage fabrics. So sad - buy you're all ok and you can't be replaced. Again - love you guys!

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ginger, luckily my fabric all my vintage fabric is still intact. My sewing room was in a whole Nother building where I do hair, so I will be venturing in doing a lot more sewing now and making things for a while until I build up my vintage business of hard goods again.

    • @kathyhodges7054
      @kathyhodges7054 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@vintageuprisingtxso glad to hear that whole building was spared from fire. 💜

  • @dm7761
    @dm7761 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Heartbreaking... sending love. 😢

  • @Grace2010H
    @Grace2010H หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Grief is so very personal. Everyone does it differently and within their own time frame.
    Whatever you are feeling is normal for you. Sending many ((hugs)) and continued 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @susanstone930
    @susanstone930 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Of everything you have lost, the personal memories are the hardest to deal with. The collectibles can still be replaced over time. Fire is the greatest fear all collectors may have with the abundance of stuff we gather. No life was lost and that is most important. The only material lost of which I have endured, was while trying to move in a 30 day time frame, I had a heart attack and ended up in the hospital. While there my Landlord threw alot of my memories into a dumpster. The real valuable antiques bought over 40years he sold in an estate sale told to me by the new house owner. The early personal stuff was the hardest, like two ceramic tree I made and and the family aluminum Christmas tree and my school memories. I was angry for a long time as you may be. I had to tell myself, you can't take it with you. It made me so sad for and David when I saw the aftermath. The photos hurt, knowing you loved your family around you. Hopefully salvaging some things may give you hope. A new day will come and new collections and that house you always wanted. Love and prayers.

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Oh Susan that is heart breaking! That makes me want to go find that guy and tell him “how the cow ate the cabbage”! That makes me angry for you. But you are right, we can’t take it with us in the end even though I have joked about taking a u-haul with me.
      I have read every comment , and you guys have helped me get in the right mind set as hard as that may be. I am working my way there. We feel the love and prayers from everyone. We love you guys!❤️‍🩹

  • @karenchasenvintage2029
    @karenchasenvintage2029 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I cry along with you! I can not imagine what you must be feeling! I wish I was there to help you.

  • @sandragarcia4404
    @sandragarcia4404 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    It's, ok to cry ,cry all you want it's ok. It will take time to get over it. We all understand .

  • @kathleenworkman3884
    @kathleenworkman3884 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    All your beautiful collections and your children’s pictures, albums, irreplaceable items from family…I felt your sighs and your pain… tears, tears…it’s horrible.😢❤

  • @MsSarah32503
    @MsSarah32503 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    All that... and.. the rain and thunder... the ethos cries for you Tammy. Godspeed....

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💔❤️‍🩹

    • @MsSarah32503
      @MsSarah32503 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vintageuprisingtx That is right. Time for healing and looking forward to Good Days to come!

  • @Sonya159
    @Sonya159 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Love you both😢

  • @bevsprague1731
    @bevsprague1731 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Oh Tammy it must be heartbreaking. Please take care and remember we love you.❤❤😊

  • @proudamerican3767
    @proudamerican3767 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Hang in there Tamda. ❤

  • @gramgram8868
    @gramgram8868 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Just so heartbreaking.😭😭, 🙏🙏 for you and David.

  • @debrareed276
    @debrareed276 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I am so sorry for your loss. Things can be replaced, people can't. I am happy you are safe.

  • @gingermast4389
    @gingermast4389 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Instead of you looking for us maybe we can start looking for you.We out here just love you so much ❤

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤️‍🩹😘💗you are so sweet 🥹

  • @lyndarowe7191
    @lyndarowe7191 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    😢 so sad. 🙏

  • @MikeLewis-mm4uq
    @MikeLewis-mm4uq หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I am so sorry that y’all are going through this, love and miss y’all

  • @19Cathy59
    @19Cathy59 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Though it's heartbreaking and it'll be a lot of work but a lot of stuff looks like it's just going to need some cleaning and will be all good again. I Pray the best over you both. Just be safe when sifting through it all.

  • @patriciamason9884
    @patriciamason9884 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    So sorry for your loss. You WILL rebuild! So thankful you did not loose any family members. Things can be replaced. I understand what ya'll are going through. I have been through 2 house fires. I learned to not become so attached to material things, they can always be replaced. Prayers for your family.

  • @debbiegutierrez9147
    @debbiegutierrez9147 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Tammy & David I know it took a lot of strength & courage for you to walk back into your home amid all the loss & destruction of the fire. Cry first, give yourselves some grace as you push forward to rebuild your lives after this heartbreaking loss. So very thankful y’all were not physically harmed. You are so loved & I am keeping you in my thoughts & prayers ♥️🙏🏼🫶🏼🫂🥰💕🩷

  • @harryhumstone3149
    @harryhumstone3149 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Prayers go out to you and your family thank God you’re safe items can be replaced. Memories will be in your mind forever. Take care hopefully something good comes out of it.

  • @BlingaDingDingReseller
    @BlingaDingDingReseller หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hugs. Things can only go up from here. You have to believe that. God has so much ahead. I’m so glad there are some things you can salvage.

  • @kathyday333
    @kathyday333 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m sorry for your loss.

  • @CarolinaPrincess-STP
    @CarolinaPrincess-STP หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’m so very glad y’all got out ok and loved seeing that several pictures look like they made it! ❤

  • @leanndoolin4284
    @leanndoolin4284 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    ❤❤❤ My heart breaks for you both.

  • @bettygallimore9986
    @bettygallimore9986 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Prayers for Tammy and David...🙏 I just can't imagine....you are in my thoughts and prayers daily

  • @kathytappero7179
    @kathytappero7179 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Y’all. I can’t imagine the feeling of loss. Time to start on your journey to getting this behind you and making new happy memories. ❤

  • @marybeth4002
    @marybeth4002 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Know that we love you ❤and are relieved you are all safe. It's ok to be upset - let it out.

  • @lillybuchanan5347
    @lillybuchanan5347 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Yall will rebuild stronger! Praying for yall love Lilly.

  • @tammyreneewalker5244
    @tammyreneewalker5244 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So much loss😢but the silver lining I see Tam Tam, is most of your picture albums survived. That would be the shining glory as a Mom.🩷🩷🩷

  • @kbee6078
    @kbee6078 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The pictures and family things can't be replaced but you still have the memories. Of course you are upset by all the rest. These were your things, your lives. It's okay to cry, be upset, or even go somewhere out in the country and scream your head off if that would help. But remember, you are alive and breathing and will make new memories with your loved ones. You might be surprised to realize how many pictures you can replace if you check with friends and family to see what everyone has shared with each other over the years and can print for you. We love you two and Jack, and want only the best for you. Don't ever forget that. ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @StephSellsStuffbytheSeashore
    @StephSellsStuffbytheSeashore หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wow. What a devastating loss… but amazing too what survived. Can all the bittersweet be melted down to create something new? I bet someone would buy all that up if so. I think we’d be willing to buy a lot of the damaged stuff too… A new form of art. I’m just so sorry Tammy… I felt this video deep in my soul… Your home looked magnificent… Hope you can create a new home Godspeed. ❤

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Stephanie ❤️‍🩹

  • @catherinebyrne8628
    @catherinebyrne8628 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm so sorry, such a mess..I wish I was there to glove up and start scrubbing with you.....Cath❤❤

  • @bevsprague1731
    @bevsprague1731 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Such a hot fire.😢

  • @george.carrasco
    @george.carrasco หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes, a glimmer of hope for all our MCM in this video. Thank goodness there is plenty of MCM out there for you to restart… but first comes your health. We are all here with you on your journey. ❤❤❤

  • @doyeworrell1680
    @doyeworrell1680 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s ok Tammy, you have every right to grieve the loss of your home. We all love 💕 you both and are praying for you and your family.

  • @paulalim1476
    @paulalim1476 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Picasocat
    @Picasocat หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My heart breaks for you. I can't even imagine. I'm looking around my house to see what I can send you when you get back on your feet. I know you lost so much of your precious collections. I'm going to start a box for you. This community will help in any way we can. Hugs!❤🙏🙏

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are so kind and sweet. I’m to grateful and happy to have people like you around us!

  • @JennyMack
    @JennyMack หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm so sorry to see so much of your personal things gone. I'd be heartbroken.
    I am happy to see some collections still there. A few things can be salvaged.

  • @Vintagerous
    @Vintagerous หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So hard to see the devastation. My heart truly goes out to you. Big huge hug!

  • @retroredhen3284
    @retroredhen3284 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    😢❤️🦋

  • @ohsusanna8042
    @ohsusanna8042 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sending you both a big hug🤗 and love❤ and prayers🙏.

  • @maeberrycaboodles-patricia975
    @maeberrycaboodles-patricia975 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know most of us would feel the same way. I hope some things can be saved. My heart hurts for y’all. ❤

  • @cindystrout6212
    @cindystrout6212 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m just thankful you and your dog got out OK

  • @sylvialee1079
    @sylvialee1079 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Losing irreplaceable meaningful family belongings is the worse loss of all. Those will never be just things as they are pieces of life shared with people you treasure..... So sorry Tammy and David, this is heartbreaking and bringing it all home for me. Eventually a time will finally come when you won't think about it on a daily basis. Praying for that day to arrive for you soon. Sending hugs and love! 🙏 💔 🙏

  • @patsym5494
    @patsym5494 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Tammy and David Oh my just watched your video. Don't really have the words, to express how difficult it must be how sorry I am. I am praying for you two, its always darkest before the light. Why you have to go thru this only God knows, your name Vintage Rising is fitting You will Rise above this. I don't know you personally I've purchased from you & watched your videos with Scott, Dee and Vinnie. Hearing your voice Tammy fighting back tears, I kept hearing your giggles and fun You always share on videos. THOSE DAYS WILL COME AGAIN YOU GUYS HAVE A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY & Many friends that are supporting you❤❤❤ GOD BLESS 🙏

  • @zeus5814
    @zeus5814 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    🙏🏼Tammy , David , 🐶🙏🏼

  • @KatieRae_AmidCrisis
    @KatieRae_AmidCrisis หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh, my dears. I am just so sorry for what you have been through - and of course are still going through.
    Absolutely - the most important thing is that no lives were lost, and you guys are safe and well. And, yes - 'stuff is stuff' - but it can still hold such a great deal of meaning. These things chart our lives, embody our memories. They merit as much of a grieving process as we feel we need to give them.
    Wishing you all the strength you need to weather this storm, and see this chapter through. I am so glad you have each other.

  • @juliemcdonald6822
    @juliemcdonald6822 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    People who've never been through a fire loss .don't really understand.

  • @heatherhuskey-pickngrin
    @heatherhuskey-pickngrin หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm so very sorry for all you have lost! We may not understand why, but I know you will get through this and rebuild better ❤🙏

  • @Andie-
    @Andie- หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dear Tammy and David, I'm so sorry. 😥🙏🙏🙏

  • @melisablack7920
    @melisablack7920 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Continued Prayers 🙏🙏🙏

  • @rhondakeezer4546
    @rhondakeezer4546 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Tammy and David, I am so sorry, but please wear masks when inside to protect yourselves from ash and contaminates in the air.

  • @Andie-
    @Andie- หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I will keep praying that you will be comforted as you go through the heart breaking days and weeks ahead. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤ Sending love from a new subscriber in California.

  • @SharonPadget
    @SharonPadget หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of your lovely home. Hang in there. Things will get better. We’re all rooting for you.

  • @VintageConversation
    @VintageConversation หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    😢😭

  • @jojohnston4113
    @jojohnston4113 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know this is a really difficult job. Hope a good bit can be salvaged as you work your way through. 😢

  • @nannyfufu
    @nannyfufu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤️‍🩹💔 many prayers for you.

  • @2002France1
    @2002France1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching this I could feel your pain. I cried because I know how hard it was for you to walk through your house. Things are important because they have meaning to you. I’ve been praying for both of you and Jack Jack and will continue to every day. God bless you! I’m so glad you are safe from the fire.

  • @deborahjones2716
    @deborahjones2716 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One moment at a time..
    Can't imagine what y'all are going thru ❤❤❤❤
    Love ❤ and prayers 🙏

  • @TheThrillofTheThrift
    @TheThrillofTheThrift หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is really so sad. I can't imagine having to go through something like this. I love you guys! One good thing is that you won't have tons to pack when you do find a new place to call HOME!

  • @debbiewilmarth7389
    @debbiewilmarth7389 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My heart is breaking for you both. 😢

  • @adelaidesocki3595
    @adelaidesocki3595 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So sorry.

  • @sawdust2556
    @sawdust2556 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We’re here❤ You guys are going through so much.🙏🏼

  • @kathyhodges7054
    @kathyhodges7054 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can only send a virtual hug and my prayers.🙏when things calm down I will send you a truckload of tastykake to cheer you!

  • @jomooney6618
    @jomooney6618 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so sorry! I hate that tjis happens to anyone. As a previous commenter said, youd be amazed and what can be savable. In helping my Dad clear our his antique store that burned, its amazing how some things survive intact and can be cleaned up. My husband and i are still dealing with that cleanup since my Fathers passing. If you need any tips or just to talk, let us know! And dont let anyone tell you how long it should take you to "get over it". (I hope u dont run into that) Hugs to you!

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Now it’s getting smoke and soot spots cleaned from hard goods and fabric.

  • @tontitik2125
    @tontitik2125 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Not breathing 🩵🤎💚🦉

  • @george.carrasco
    @george.carrasco หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    👋❤️👍❤️🙌❤️😎❤️

  • @kristinataylorthriftingupn7127
    @kristinataylorthriftingupn7127 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤sending you so much love

  • @andreagennaro6181
    @andreagennaro6181 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi all I kept saying was omg Iam so very sorry about it all I started to cry when you cryed yes it’s all stuff but it’s your stuff and it meant something when you mentioned your kids things and your grandparents i lost it even more stay strong I’ll keep you all in my prayers

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are making me cry now to hear you cried… ❤️‍🩹

    • @andreagennaro6181
      @andreagennaro6181 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vintageuprisingtx no no don’t cry you are all going to be ok gods got you stay strong

    • @vintageuprisingtx
      @vintageuprisingtx  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @andreagennaro6181 ❤️‍🩹

  • @maryvukovich2419
    @maryvukovich2419 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so sorry Life is just so hard sometimes .

  • @beckysvintageandmore6002
    @beckysvintageandmore6002 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's amazing that anything survived. ❤🫂