Brother, you’re a noble man. Keep doing right by everyone around you and you will always be blessed while people sit back and mock at you. Don’t mind those people.
I think all Hmong son(s) should start paying for their bride! This generation son's don't care about their parents like the old generation. Once the parents are old and became disabled, the sons send them to nursing home so all Hmong son should pay for their own bride.
Also back in the days, people get married as teeny boppers. Of course they won’t have money. They barely hit puberty. Nowadays, people marry later in life as adults. No need for the parents to pay anymore. Hmong people don’t know how to change with the times or differentiate between necessity and tradition. in a sense, yes, it was tradition but also necessity.
Some ugly guys R so mean too. It’s all about how the parents raised their kid(s) n environmental influence plus the temperament within the gene. Extra credit goes to those good looking guys with stable life.
A smart man keep his family together! A stupid man betray his own family. Good story you are not ugly at all, your beautiful inside shines your outside look
Just hope neither one of you take each other for granted. Family is everything, but please remember your main family from your parents also matter too. Please balance out the two, and never favor or the other unless there's a really good reason to do so.
You’re truly a loving, caring, kind and sweet husband, who adores your wife and kids. They are your priority! I wish many Hmong men would be like you; understandable.
I seriously don’t understand these hmong men who feel so entitled about their family buying a wife for them. You married your wife for yourself not your family so you should pay for your own.
I look now 90% hmoob man now are like your brother to our women. Don't spend time and never care his wife and family just care about himself and his friends only. That's go to homeless if without the wife.
You are right about everyone wants to be love especially us women. Looks are not everything. Once you grow old you become wrinkle and ugly no matter how good looking or beautiful you may be when you are young.
Beauty is just a bonus. True beauty is from within. It’s hard to find loyalty. Some women don’t appreciate men like you. I’m glad your wife see the good in you instead of looking for ib tug zoo nraug.
In summary, if you are not handsome, be a nice guy. My husband needs to hear this lecture because he’s not handsome but he still acts like a king. Oh right, my mother-in-law put him on a pedestal, unlike this guy’s mother who taught him the truth about life.
I think this is just a insecurity issue. Theres always someone for somebody in this world. You say your ugly but you got a "beautiful" wife. Hint..quote! Are we suppose to feel sorry of this story? Are we suppose to pity him? At least you got a wife and kids...just live life on with them. 🤔
Good story, but for things to turn out good, it has to go both ways. You can love your wife so much but if she doesn’t care for you, it will not work. She needs to see and appreciate your love and love you back in order for it to work. Seems like she does so good for you.
A good husband/father always sets his first priority for his wife and kids. Family members and friends come second…Yeah, happy wife, happy life…!👍😊
Duh...happy wife, happy life!!! Some of these men needs to recognize!!!
Hais tau Zoo heev li o tu Siab thiab lub Ntsiab lus zoo tshaj plaws yog kev kawm uas zoo heev li
Brother, you’re a noble man. Keep doing right by everyone around you and you will always be blessed while people sit back and mock at you. Don’t mind those people.
Amend brother, I couldn’t agreed more. Family first, everybody second.
Niam laus koj paus yeem nrog kuv hais ib zaj neej neeg os kuv nyob nyab laj teb os
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Love your story brother. It's a very powerful and good influential story.
Amen! We need more man and think like you out there.
Tu me txiv tsev koj lub siab zoo thiab txoj kev hlub muab rau koj tu niam tsev thiab koj cov me nyuam tseem zoo tshaj nyiaj kub ua rau peb ntshaw ib tug qauv zoo li koj mog ua tsaug rau koj muaj lub siab zoo qhia kom cov txiv koom siab tsa2 ntswg tias lawv muaj hwj chim tsis txawj hlub poj niam me nyuam tsam thaum nws muaj mob tsis muaj neeg lees thiab tu nws ce tsis tau lub zoo ntee
Xav kom peb cov txiv neej hmoob siab zoo li koj xwb lau!!
Hais yog kawg lawm
What wise thinking. Happy wife, happy life. Happy husband, happy life too. It works together. Wishing you much love and happiness, brother.
You are a true hero, you made a good example for all the hmoob men that don’t respect their wife
A good heart and knowing not to take your wife for granted. Show her the appreciation she deserves will always win.
I think all Hmong son(s) should start paying for their bride! This generation son's don't care about their parents like the old generation. Once the parents are old and became disabled, the sons send them to nursing home so all Hmong son should pay for their own bride.
Also back in the days, people get married as teeny boppers. Of course they won’t have money. They barely hit puberty. Nowadays, people marry later in life as adults. No need for the parents to pay anymore.
Hmong people don’t know how to change with the times or differentiate between necessity and tradition. in a sense, yes, it was tradition but also necessity.
Thanks for the lecture May 🙄
lucky is your wife...such a loving man.
Yog kawg yus tus txiv tsev niam tsev thiab me nyuam ua phooj ywg zoo tshaj 💕
Some ugly guys R so mean too. It’s all about how the parents raised their kid(s) n environmental influence plus the temperament within the gene. Extra credit goes to those good looking guys with stable life.
Lots of ugly people are mean.
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If you ugly and mean 😂 you really got a problem at least be ugly but nice 😂
A smart man keep his family together! A stupid man betray his own family. Good story you are not ugly at all, your beautiful inside shines your outside look
Awm I like this one
A good faithful heart is more important than a handsome or pretty face.
Yeah. But there are a whole lot ugly people out there with ugly heart.
zoo zoo zoo heev heev nawj zaj no nam thov qhuas tus txiv neej no nawj ua zoo no xwb ces zoo lawm leej twg los caum tsis tau lawm mog ha ha ha
Zoo kawg li o nco qab ntsoov tia yog yu ua zoo lawm ces nw yeej khiav g tau ntawv yu mu li kom mu lo yeej g mu li o
Yog lawm me kwv tij koj zaj lus zoo heev
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Ua ca koj txoj no zoo heev
Just hope neither one of you take each other for granted. Family is everything, but please remember your main family from your parents also matter too. Please balance out the two, and never favor or the other unless there's a really good reason to do so.
You’re truly a loving, caring, kind and sweet husband, who adores your wife and kids. They are your priority! I wish many Hmong men would be like you; understandable.
Thanks for sharing ☺️
Thov qhuas tus txiv tsev no, yeej yog neeg siab zoo txawj xav tus neeg tsis txawj xav ces txawm tsis zoo nkauj tsis zoo nraug los yeej tsis paub hlub neeg.
I seriously don’t understand these hmong men who feel so entitled about their family buying a wife for them. You married your wife for yourself not your family so you should pay for your own.
Brother kuv nyiam koj tus cwj pwm thiab koj txoj kev xav. Txob tus siab tias koj tsis zoo nraug. Koj twb tau lub neej zoo lawm es kuv nrog koj zoo siab mog. Kuv xav tias lub neej tsis yog txoj hmoos tas tas, yog yus lub siab txawj coj zoo, uas qhov zoo ces yog txoj hmoos xwb.
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Yep good man is like you explain and how you are to your wife. My husband is the same way. He puts me, our kids and our life first priority.
Koj yeej yog neeg siab zoo tiag2.muaj ib txhia phem nraug qig taub lo tseem muaj ib tug cwj pwm lim hiam thiab ma haj yam tsi tshuav qhov zoo.
Koj yog ib tug txiv tsev zoo kawg
Suav yeej qhuav suav ntaub zoo xwb
I heard too many stories about not-so-good looking guy get cheated but you’re not, you must be doing something right 😄
Niam tij zaj neej neeg no tus poj niam los txiv neej yog dab tuag ces yeej uv taus cov coob muab poj qaib txi x kab ces niam tsev yeej nyiam
Great story
Wow… this a good husband, some ugly husband have ugly heart too…
Where can I find a good husband like this?
Hahah phemnraug ce kawg nyb qab tiab xwb nb thaub laus
Tsis xum yuav tus zoo nrau siab phem. Tus phem nraug siab zoo yuav zoo mus tag ib tiam. Zoo nkaug zoo nrau nyob laus zus cev nqaij daim tawv yuav txawj ntsu txawj laus. tiam sis lub siab phem tsawm zoo li qub. Hos tus neeg siab zoo yuav nrhiav tsis tau. Yog tias muaj nyiaj xav yuav cov zoo nkauj zoo nraug xwb mas tsis tas yuav2 lawv. Lawv yeej los yuav yus lawm. Tiam 21 no ces txhua2 tus yeej nka qab tiab tag. Thaum yug poob ntav yeej tawm ntawm qab tiab los xwb.
Koj yog ib tus txiv tsev siab zoo tshaj yog tias peb cov txiv tsev siab zoo li koj ces ntshe twb tsis muaj neeg sib nrauj li os
Xab tau txiv siab zoo ces mus yuav cov tsis zoo nraug thiab cov rog2 xwb ma.
Xav kom txua tus txiv xav li kov rau cov (only) pojniam coj zoo xwb os
Yog ma
Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no siab phem phem tsis muaj cov niam tsev zoo li koj tus lawm os thaub aw...
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Don't judge you too much of no zoo nraug you zoo nraug inside ces ntxeev mus zoo nraug out thiab God bless you brother
Tus muam koj ua yog tshaj plawg li os ib tus txiv ruam koj tus txiv ces nrauj zoo dhua. Haha
Sweet heart hard to find🤞🏼
Bro, do not love those who do not love you. Do to others as they do to you. Your wife and children are your life and everything.
I look now 90% hmoob man now are like your brother to our women. Don't spend time and never care his wife and family just care about himself and his friends only. That's go to homeless if without the wife.
You are right about everyone wants to be love especially us women. Looks are not everything. Once you grow old you become wrinkle and ugly no matter how good looking or beautiful you may be when you are young.
What a great story.
Beauty is just a bonus. True beauty is from within. It’s hard to find loyalty. Some women don’t appreciate men like you. I’m glad your wife see the good in you instead of looking for ib tug zoo nraug.
In summary, if you are not handsome, be a nice guy. My husband needs to hear this lecture because he’s not handsome but he still acts like a king. Oh right, my mother-in-law put him on a pedestal, unlike this guy’s mother who taught him the truth about life.
That too bad.
You probably put him on the pedestal too that’s why he acts like that.
May you live in Oklahoma?
She blessed to have u as a husband. Very few men can do what u do.
Koj zoo nraug tob2 thiaj kav ntev tag 1 tiam.
niam ntxawm ntsuab teev.xav hnov tej zaj zoo zoo li zaj no xwb mas
Yog ua yawg nrauj es tub nkeeg ua luaj txhob siab phem rau u tus poj niam mas me kwv tij hmoob kuv lub neej mas yuav tau pab u tus kheej nawb
Tsis yog 56years os me yog 65 os
I used to love listening to yor stories but ever since you stop reading the title. I quit. I need to know the title of the story.
I think this is just a insecurity issue. Theres always someone for somebody in this world. You say your ugly but you got a "beautiful" wife. Hint..quote! Are we suppose to feel sorry of this story? Are we suppose to pity him? At least you got a wife and kids...just live life on with them. 🤔
I didn't get it either. Good looking or not, you should always respect yourself.
Another victim of culture tradition and religion
Great message but not sure if I like these kind of “lecture stories”.
Yes. There was a lot of lecturing. I didn't see a need for it either. If somebody wanted to do something, all that lecturing isn't going to stop them.
Thank you for your story brother! Got a lot to learn!! You’re a hero!
This is not a story, should be titled, Advices From An Ugly Man.
Good story, but for things to turn out good, it has to go both ways. You can love your wife so much but if she doesn’t care for you, it will not work. She needs to see and appreciate your love and love you back in order for it to work. Seems like she does so good for you.
True story
May, what is the name of your home health care business in Tulsa?
This is not story telling, it’s more of this dude showing off, BORING!!!!! Need them drama stories.
Koj paub tsawg koj lam khav teeb xwb puaj...koj ces nyob pojniam qab tiab xwb ne👈😁
Yog kawg! Yog nws tus poj niam tsis zoo nkauj ces nws yeej tsis ua thaj zoo2 li ntawv os.
Txhua tus poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj yeej phem sib xws nkaus ces nkawv thiaj tau nrais los nyob thaj nchaw sib nrauj no lawm ntag. Koj los tsis txawj hwm kuv thiab kuv los tsis txawj yoog koj vim nyias tsuas xav kom nyias yeej ntsug rog nkawv tau tsim muaj ntawv xwb.
Seems like you are just doing a whole bunch of bragging 🙄
Most peoples believe you, but I don’t!