Paranoid Mother Decapitated by Son After "The Sopranos" Inspired Him | Jane Bautista Analysis

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  • @michelegyselinck5400
    @michelegyselinck5400 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    I have schizophrenia, and I have had paranoid tendencies, but now my medication controls them. I never married and had few dates, so since I was single I decided not to have children because I didn't want to raisie them on Welfare. I have two B.A.s but was not able to find work in my line of training, professional Writng in English, so I had to relay on social assistance to eke out subsistence--I wouldn't call that living. In retrospect I don't think I would have been a good mother, so it's probably just as well I never had kids.

    • @kathleensullivan4547
      @kathleensullivan4547 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      ❤that's very responsible and loving of you

    • @Quiggly6969
      @Quiggly6969 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      I'm sorry you feel that way about yourself and I'm sure you have good reasons to believe you might be a bad mom but I can assure you the simple fact you worry about that means you would probably be better at it than many. I doubt it even crossed Jane's mind that she might be a bad mother before she started having kids.

    • @TaurusMoon-hu3pd
      @TaurusMoon-hu3pd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Wise and unselfish decision!

    • @kingcosworth2643
      @kingcosworth2643 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Surely you could get work, it doesn't need to align with your B.A's, it'll be a better life then being on welfare and trying to occupy 16hrs a day with little money

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Even if you can’t get work, because you can’t work too long because of your medicine or whatever your reason, you could volunteer a few hours a day help out an animal shelter or whatever your favorite hobby interest, and that often makes one feel good.

  • @Hypno_BPM
    @Hypno_BPM 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    feel bad for the younger brother, he basically was pressured to go along with his brother and was probably too scared to go to the cops

    • @carolelane6341
      @carolelane6341 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I feel bad for both brothers.

  • @garchamp9844
    @garchamp9844 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    My mother has the same symptoms, and I see a lot of myself in Jason. My parents stayed married, but my farther would live his entire life as a spineless enabler who did everything in his power to avoid my mothers wrath, and him staying around was not a benefit for anyone involved. I totally understand why he would do what he did, even if it was the wrong decision. When all you have ever known in life is being held captured and tortured by your mother, ideas like “just move out brah” is not available to you.

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      My motto is "Never let the bad guys/gals win!" Just like Abraham Maslow who had a horrific mother, do not let the mental illness of your mother destroy your chance at a better life.

    • @dont_harsh_my_mellow
      @dont_harsh_my_mellow 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Still does not justify how he threw away his future and potentially his brother’s over their crazy mother as opposed to escaping and going to stay anywhere else. Sad case though totally. Wow. 😕

  • @IsaBellum-w4z
    @IsaBellum-w4z 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    I have a mentally ill mother and despite nothing excuses this horrendous murder,I can somehow sympathise with him as scary as it sounds.but the mind fck of your mentally sick parents can be overwhelming.its literally torture,esp when you re struggling with issues too..tragic story all around there

    • @ChyroneMcThunderschlong
      @ChyroneMcThunderschlong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This is a tragedy. People give birth to demented individuals, regret having them.
      But, what about when a demented individual gives birth to you?
      A lifetime sentence.

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sorry but…just leave. You don’t owe her anything. You never asked her to bring you into this world. These people have us just to torture us as children, ruin our lives then expect us to take care of them when they’re older. That’s our whole purpose to them and it blows my mind how many people just go along with the plan.
      My mother has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Undiagnosed but her “symptoms” are textbook and apparent.
      I cut all contact almost a year ago and my life has never been more peaceful. We had food and shelter growing up but everything else was chaos. Why would I bend over backwards to take care of someone who never cared to take care of me/us? Nope. She can figure out her own sh*t and I’ll figure out mine.
      I’ll also point out that she never did a single thing for her own parents either. I’m just following her lead 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @rhoho2217
      @rhoho2217 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same. She died when I was 19 and I’ve mostly forgiven but sometimes the anger I felt toward her when I was a teen comes back and scares me.

    • @kevlarkittens
      @kevlarkittens 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Jason was my friend in high school. We both slacked off in journalism. It's good to see a lot of people share your view. I understand why it happened but it's an explanation not an excuse. I do think he should get parol someday. I don't think he's a danger to other people, but who can say how true that is. I never would have thought he'd do this. I used to drive by the ravine on Ortega highway everyday to go to work and I grew up in Oceanside where he eventually dumped the body. I know the place exactly. It's so nuts, still nuts to this day.

  • @maxshea1829
    @maxshea1829 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    "Not man enough to go on a date." Mother is talking to you, Norman! I agree with Dr. G. Jason was a sympathetic figure who committed inexcusable crimes. I'd like to think kids in Jason's situation could report their abusers to social services. Unfortunately, social services can also throw gasoline on a dumpster fire. I've dealt with them in my state and it doesn't always work out. Even when the abuse is obvious.

    • @cleopatra444
      @cleopatra444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      social services are a waste of taxpayers money or watever their paycheck comes from ,, clownery and waste of resources at its finest ,, children are rarely helped ,, just watch “ the trials of gabriel fernández “ Its a clear example of how the system fails these children. We need a better way to really help struggling kids while in the “care” of these psychpaths.

    • @srsusansummers3070
      @srsusansummers3070 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So sad but you are right

    • @poindextertunes
      @poindextertunes 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I’m pretty sure 50% of Social Service workers apply for the job with bad intentions. Even more so for foster parents. Unfortunately jobs and situations like this attract terrible ppl. Its so sad. Most of these kids never even get a chance at life. Politicians could change that but theres no money in it

    • @Mili-bedili
      @Mili-bedili 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Social services rarely take female abusers seriously. My brother and I were raised by one. Several times the police have come to our home, saw us bruised and bloodied, and all they'd do is recommend we spend the night at a friend's. It looks bad on law enforcement to arrest a female, especially a mother. Not once was she ever arrested. By the time I was an adult, social services finally contacted her job in child care to let them know she had an abuse record. So now she's permanently banned working with children. It took 7 years for social services to at least do that, but not once was she ever arrested for what she had done to me and my brother.

    • @kenwillis8487
      @kenwillis8487 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      As a licensed foster parent in Tennessee, I personally think we have good services here compared to most! We dealt with Washington state getting my nieces and that was a dumpster fire situation! Not only had they been to there house three times the month their mom committed suicide in front of them in a fifth wheel trailer. They left them in her care with drugs all around and roaches as well as no running water or power! Then took a year to get custody while they stayed in a foster home there in Washington! The first two social workers were lazy pot smoking basement dwellers who didn’t know how to do their job! Finally the third one got them to us but it was to late, they formed a strong bond with there liberal foster family their and they told the girls they would always have a home with them and they could take them to see their dad in prison every month vs our once a year! The girls never could adjust to life in Tennessee and resorted to abusing our children so they could go back to Washington!

  • @LUCKSREVENGE
    @LUCKSREVENGE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    I love how active Dr. grande is on TH-cam. ❤

  • @Curlyblonde
    @Curlyblonde 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I had a mentally ill mother with schizo-affective disorder. It was a daily nightmare growing up and many times I was afraid of her, especially during her outbursts. Anything could set her off. She refused treatment and was impossible to live with. She would become violent and hysterical with the family if she could not control you and you didn't agree with her skewered viewpoints and theories. I left home as soon as I could and moved 1500 miles away to preserve my sanity and to have a chance of a "normal" life. Kept in touch and visited her once a year just briefly. Helped her as much as I could. She got worse as she got older, but she managed to look after herself until she passed away.
    She would have had a happier, better life if she had only gotten treatment.

  • @jkjives1786
    @jkjives1786 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    There was a lot of tension in the relationship, mostly because of the brutal beating part.

  • @francislarv3012
    @francislarv3012 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    If Jason was inspired by The Sopranos then Jane was inspired by Mommy Dearest

    • @jeremyshepherd1700
      @jeremyshepherd1700 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Or Tony Soprano’s mom

    • @steelcurtain187
      @steelcurtain187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well said

    • @daynasafranek7807
      @daynasafranek7807 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Norman Bates, had a mommy, too. 😢

    • @Shelby52690
      @Shelby52690 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is terrible. Never saw this show, but the whole production, directors, cast members, and writers should be sued.

    • @chickenrescuer5245
      @chickenrescuer5245 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hz​92612903044😢😮😢332❤01990861😂😮😂@@steelcurtain187❤😂

  • @Sweet_Tooth_Art
    @Sweet_Tooth_Art 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Sadly it seems violence is all jason knew. I hope the younger brother is OK wherever he is

  • @dianemorton2222
    @dianemorton2222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    She was a horrible Mother. I feel sorry for the two sons. They must have really hated her.

    • @Angie_bae
      @Angie_bae 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My parents were bad too and my brother did the same thing kinda to my mom and is serving time

    • @JP-ht6nm
      @JP-ht6nm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He was 20. Didn’t have to be there. Poor, poor murderer

    • @Mr.Quinlan888
      @Mr.Quinlan888 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@JP-ht6nm - Maybe he was staying there to protect his younger brother. We don't know. We weren't there.

    • @JamieLedweather
      @JamieLedweather 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The victim blaming is absolutely disgusting

    • @ALINA-eo1cr
      @ALINA-eo1cr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Mr.Quinlan888 He could have taken him with him. He should have gotten a job and rented an apartment somewhere. Most probably he just inherited genetically some really bad traits from his parents, like violence and a desire to hurt people. He also should not have involved his brother on it.

  • @ChyroneMcThunderschlong
    @ChyroneMcThunderschlong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    "Suffered tremendously at her hands...."
    Not anymore.

    • @DhyannForester
      @DhyannForester 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Macabre but very true!

  • @GigiRulesTheRoost
    @GigiRulesTheRoost 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    I cannot believe those boys were not taken away from this insane woman when they were just little boys. I bet Jane told Jason all the time that his father killed himself because of him. This is all so horrific and tragic. I wonder how the younger son is fairing all these years later?

    • @michaelwaninger3155
      @michaelwaninger3155 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      If she refused to let him "transition" at 7 yr old they'd take him.

    • @GigiRulesTheRoost
      @GigiRulesTheRoost 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@michaelwaninger3155 oh boy ain't that right

    • @JustMe-fo4ev
      @JustMe-fo4ev 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@michaelwaninger3155 lol imagine writing this

    • @GigiRulesTheRoost
      @GigiRulesTheRoost 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@d.thomas6988 😅

    • @psychokitty7268
      @psychokitty7268 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@d.thomas6988Look up Jeff Younger, then tell me it's propaganda.

  • @MarleneTrujillo-uc8bj
    @MarleneTrujillo-uc8bj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As a survivor of child abuse from my mother I can totally understand why a child would kill their parent

  • @bthomson
    @bthomson 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Those childhoods were horrendous!

  • @littleeva
    @littleeva 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I feel bad for those abused children. How awful to be stuck with a mother like that. I don't think either of those children should have been charged with anything. They had no choice with such an awful person for a mother.

  • @Jath2112
    @Jath2112 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    It's...kinda funny that the paranoid lady....had a neighbor who followed her and apparently spied on her.

    • @dimarks444
      @dimarks444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      That struck me as odd too!

    • @paulsto6516
      @paulsto6516 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Gladys Kravitz comes to mind.

    • @daynasafranek7807
      @daynasafranek7807 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It actually is kind of ironic 😂

    • @dimarks444
      @dimarks444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@paulsto6516 I remember her from a long time ago! 😂

    • @paulsto6516
      @paulsto6516 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@dimarks444
      Bewitched

  • @ShelleyBean1808
    @ShelleyBean1808 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    You have become part of my daily ritual, Dr Grande 😅

    • @shawnfoster4506
      @shawnfoster4506 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Mine too....if you know what I mean

    • @TransKidRevolution
      @TransKidRevolution 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😲

    • @sansnom508
      @sansnom508 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Uh oh. It's a short trip from ritual to obsession to addiction 😂

  • @Carole67182
    @Carole67182 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    How different these boys could have been had they had loving parents.

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The fathers may have been decent men had not the first committed suicide and the last left. It was the mother who was indecent to her boys. Being born a biological female does not mean a woman is a loving parent.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@nanettevantriesteharder2469 And being born a biological male does not automatically make the man a responsible and loving father

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Genes also play a big role. Jane had problems from the start. Their dad was possibly prone to depression but whether that's genetic or not, who can say.

    • @ChyroneMcThunderschlong
      @ChyroneMcThunderschlong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And being born doesn't mean you deserve to live.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@briskettacos that’s true, it’s hard to tell.

  • @zangmo
    @zangmo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Dr. G, what about battered victim syndrome ? It's often invoked for women, but this is quite parallel

  • @erinderuiter7298
    @erinderuiter7298 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    So these poor kids were never taken away from the crazy woman. Then the oldest son decides to kill her because she’s been making his life and his brother’s life a living hell he gets 25 to life.. What he did was wrong, but he shouldn’t get life in jail. He should get really good therapy for his mother being crazy and then get to live whatever normal life he could possibly make out of what his mother has done to him and his brother.

    • @ALINA-eo1cr
      @ALINA-eo1cr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm pretty sure that he got such a long sentence due to the extremely violent nature of the murder and the premeditated part. He should have gotten the death penalty due to that, but his upbringing was a mitigating factor.
      Besides, he was already an adult and could have simply gotten a regular job and left the house. Instead, he planned his mom's murder in a torturous way and used a movie as inspiration.
      He also wanted to kill her because he gained pleasure from it. He probably beat her for hours if her bones simply disintegrated when the doctors touched the body. He even cut her in pieces. He really didn't need to do that because it's not like he did anything with the body. He simply threw her over a hill. He is clearly a psychopath.

  • @gsdogsmom
    @gsdogsmom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    All my sympathy is for the abused kids.

    • @francisgalton2678
      @francisgalton2678 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I hear you. Mothers can be the worst

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@francisgalton2678That is why good fathers are important for children to have in their lives on an ongoing basis. Like a Venn diagram of two partially overlapping circles, mates need to be able to share common core values, belief systems, attitudes, and behaviors and be able to appreciate/cope with the differences in relationship with each other to raise kids properly in a balanced mentally and physically healthy manner.

    • @ebg3624
      @ebg3624 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree ❤

    • @ALINA-eo1cr
      @ALINA-eo1cr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nanettevantriesteharder2469 Dude, there is no point for this comment on this video. His dad committed suicide, so he was also clearly mentally ill, just like the mom. These 2 people should not have had children at all because they were selfish and suffered from grave mental illnesses that prohibited them from doing their duty as parents.
      This isn't a case of a single mom who had had a previous good partner and was stopping him from having access to the kids. All the parents involved in this story were deadbeat parents and should not have had kids at all.

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ALINA-eo1cr First of all, I am not a dude. Second, I was referring to Matthew's father, Jose, not Jason's father, Armando. Jane was mentally ill and treated her boys badly, as a single mother.

  • @BabbittdaWabbitt
    @BabbittdaWabbitt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dr. G. Telling the truth about humanity one sad story at a time.

  • @sandydee8003
    @sandydee8003 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    I don’t understand how people can move through life this mentally unstable and not have some sort of intervention??

    • @briangarrow448
      @briangarrow448 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      This country doesn’t have a comprehensive mental health care system so many people who need help are missed and never get treatment. Many people who might have helped them were probably struggling with their own mental health issues or any number of other major issues.

    • @ChyroneMcThunderschlong
      @ChyroneMcThunderschlong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Who would intervene?

    • @sandydee8003
      @sandydee8003 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@ChyroneMcThunderschlong My first thought was through the school system when the children were younger. (Social Services, etc.)

    • @lolazal1
      @lolazal1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Insurance based healthcare

    • @ilovezzz2012
      @ilovezzz2012 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@sandydee8003 That’s probably why Jane and the kids moved around so much. Her paranoia could have also included losing custody of them. The real question is why did no one else in the family help the kids? Aunt? Grandparents? They knew she was unstable enough to beat her mom, but left her alone with 2 kids?

  • @jackedkerouac4414
    @jackedkerouac4414 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    As a huge Sopranos fan I couldn’t click fast enough.

    • @Hilz28
      @Hilz28 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This crime was definitely inspired by the Ralphie Cifferetto debacle 😱

  • @cobrafan1403
    @cobrafan1403 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    He may be guilty of murder but the provocation by the mother makes it manslaughter or 2nd degree murder

  • @matthew.stevick
    @matthew.stevick 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +552

    ⚠️ just a reminder: he will NOT be diagnosing anyone in this video; only _speculate_ on what may happen in a situation like this.

    • @seneca2403
      @seneca2403 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

      If you enjoy this video, please like it.

    • @davidglad
      @davidglad 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      It's like shows that say "meant for mature audiences," while the more fun ones add ".. but you'll probably listen in anyway"

    • @cindymcanders
      @cindymcanders 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      I’m still waiting on him to make shirts that say this.

    • @madeleineprice3556
      @madeleineprice3556 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      if you’re speaking in past tense speculate needs to be speculating instead of

    • @taylorkai4144
      @taylorkai4144 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      it wasn’t even past tense smdh

  • @maxshea1829
    @maxshea1829 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    "Blanks you. You're just a security guard. You can't do anything." (slow clap) You can be smart at school and dumb at life!!

    • @Rose-x9w3j
      @Rose-x9w3j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Security guards can't shoot people

    • @cmorangarcia
      @cmorangarcia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I know people like this. They are very smart with high degrees, but can’t last on the jobs.

    • @ALINA-eo1cr
      @ALINA-eo1cr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm confused. Are you saying the security guard was dumb or the kid was dumb? I don't remember if it said that he was good at school.

    • @ALINA-eo1cr
      @ALINA-eo1cr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cmorangarcia I'm assuming it's because they have personality issues. I know some people like this. They are either lazy or just have narcistic tendencies or are very argumentative, always wanting to be right. The kicker is even if you explain it to them, they still think other are to blame. If you're smart, but can't get along with people, you will fail in life.

  • @manewland1
    @manewland1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Another Monday morning, another morning coffee, another backlog of videos to watch as I begin my week. Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande!

  • @camellia8625
    @camellia8625 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a sad situation for all involved

  • @MM-bi9qm
    @MM-bi9qm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was a very good analysis. Sad, but thank you!

  • @MegaLivingIt
    @MegaLivingIt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    That woman was a nightmare and shocking that health care agencies did not step in.🌿

  • @kevlarkittens
    @kevlarkittens 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow, finally someone does a video on this story. This is my high school friend. I remember when it happened. Jane was a horrific person. I'm not surprised it happened. He still should be in prison but I really think Jason should get parol someday. This is really a messed up case.

  • @nickh.4917
    @nickh.4917 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My grandfather said, “If you plant corn you get corn. If you plant beans you get beans. And if you plant trouble you get trouble.” Jane planted trouble.

  • @adotintheshark4848
    @adotintheshark4848 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The way Jane ended up, she had every right to be paranoid.

    • @aero4379
      @aero4379 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Self filled prophecy.

  • @TigersandBearsOhMy
    @TigersandBearsOhMy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The way she treated her sons, I don't care what anyone says, that WAS self defense. Their lives may not have been in jeopardy at the time of the incident, but they were clearly at risk in general.

  • @saturn722
    @saturn722 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Whoever said people aren’t influenced by what they see in movies, tv, video games only have to look at the long list of murders where the killer admitted using ideas from violent media. Many thrill kills tend to be a copycat’s only motive or in this case the motive was his anger at mental mom and The Sopranos became the influence in how she would be killed.
    Very bizarre indeed!

  • @drshoe8744
    @drshoe8744 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    I've heard that Insanity is hereditary, you get it from your children.

    • @imcharming4808
      @imcharming4808 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      OOHHH we got a comediann here!!

    • @hjlydia
      @hjlydia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lol😅

    • @Leo_Pard_A4
      @Leo_Pard_A4 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Nice one

    • @paultorgerson8776
      @paultorgerson8776 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Barroom Chee!

    • @adotintheshark4848
      @adotintheshark4848 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      your kids will drive you crazy

  • @Jessrenee294
    @Jessrenee294 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My favorite channel 😍 Dr. Grande!

  • @averagejoe1773
    @averagejoe1773 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Guy I grew up with Mom was the same way... He was a 5'2 white kid covered in scars. I remember one day I was like Kevin was you in a gang or something cuz you got cuts and shit all over you... I guess his mom used to abusing horribly... I think stuff like this goes on more than you know.... And let me tell you this guy is literally blank and I mean literally... The things he experienced in his childhood I can only imagine.... So I definitely feel for these boys

  • @matthewbrown8679
    @matthewbrown8679 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Jason was responsible for his actions, but consideration definitely should have been made for what she put him through. If he can ve verified to no longer be a danger to society, he should be out in time to still have a life.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I think he would need a lot of therapy first at the least since his brother didn’t make the same choice he did.
      It’s too bad they didn’t give therapy to the mother way back when she was a teenager and was showing schizophrenic or some other psychological problems

    • @melissaharris3389
      @melissaharris3389 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I suspect Jason had battered person syndrome, a severe form of PTSD. He really believed his life was in danger from his mother at all times.
      Being a victim of prolonged, sustained abuse by an intimate partner has been used successfully as a defense or a mitigating factor by women but with much less success by men. I don't believe it's ever been used as a defense by an abused child that killed their abusive parent successfully. Which I find hypocritical. An adult being abused is infinitly more able to escape their abuser than a child whose literary and legally trapped with an abusive parent.

  • @Meditations2024
    @Meditations2024 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    She clearly tortured her sons and the sentencing should have reflected that IMO.
    She shouldn't have even had custody of those boys, clearly. She obviously was incapable of even taking care of herself.

  • @AntSol1992
    @AntSol1992 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Jason never had the makings of a varsity athlete.

    • @robhill4352
      @robhill4352 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      HE WAS SLOW!! STRONG AS A BULL. HANDSOME LIKE GEORGE RAFT!!

    • @rosihantu1
      @rosihantu1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Small hands

    • @robhill4352
      @robhill4352 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rosihantu1 haha thats what daddy usedtuh say

    • @sharonhoyt2133
      @sharonhoyt2133 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Uncle Junior?

    • @AlwaysHalloween000
      @AlwaysHalloween000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@robhill4352 Yeah and I play shortstop for the Mets

  • @shanecrump7932
    @shanecrump7932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve experienced paranoid psychosis from taking meth but I can’t imagine living with that naturally. What a tragic story. I feel bad for every person in this story. Even the ones who were jerks. I especially feel bad for the younger brother.

  • @JDoe001
    @JDoe001 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I feel sorry for them all. This is a tale of extreme tragedy.

  • @elizabethwarman9028
    @elizabethwarman9028 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Dr Grande,
    Excellent analysis. What is the old saying? You create what you sew!
    As always I learn something new from your videos.

  • @lindabarron2181
    @lindabarron2181 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I would say the mother was the monster

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you again Dr. Grande 🙏

  • @g6ter1
    @g6ter1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    your post cadence is amazing

    • @holaizzy
      @holaizzy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agree!

    • @lawrencetorrance7051
      @lawrencetorrance7051 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hardest working man in show business

  • @XanderShiller
    @XanderShiller 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "How could you ma? Your only son, your middle child..I do right by you AND YOU TRY TO HAVE ME WHACKED?!" 😂

  • @stantheman4964
    @stantheman4964 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I agree with the final thoughts on this one.

  • @mellowmoods8393
    @mellowmoods8393 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm from San Marcos, and Oceanside, and used to run right down this street on South Pacific street!

  • @julieyoung3315
    @julieyoung3315 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good Evening, Dr Grande. 👌

  • @AVantinfluencer
    @AVantinfluencer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Doctor Grande, you're the best... I have to hear at least once a week your intro... "I'm not diagnostic anyone, just offering my analysis". 😊😊😊

  • @lysawoolley2113
    @lysawoolley2113 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Did I hear right? Jane brutally beat up her mother. Wth
    Edit: watched the rest. Paranoia 😢 undiagnosed mental health issues. I feel for the kids

    • @melissaharris3389
      @melissaharris3389 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much pain could have been prevented if Jane's family had pursued charges for the assult on her mother.
      Just because it's family doesn't mean it's not wrong.

  • @Trav_Can
    @Trav_Can 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    It reminds a bit of Ed Kemper. It's what can happen to a boy raised by a horrible mother. Ed had an epiphany while on the prowl with a couple of girls in his backseat. He realized he didn't want to hurt the girls, it was his mother that was the problem. So, he dopped off the girls, and fininshed off his mother problem. Then he turned himself in. Which is admirable.

    • @TaurusMoon-hu3pd
      @TaurusMoon-hu3pd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pity too. Waste of a highly intelligent mind😢

    • @ChyroneMcThunderschlong
      @ChyroneMcThunderschlong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean, yeah, I guess.

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bad parenting is a huge problem in society's school, social, and criminal justice systems. Risk factors for serial killers come out of intergenerational patterns of dysfunctional family behavior. Bad people should not have children, whether they are mothers or fathers.

    • @TaurusMoon-hu3pd
      @TaurusMoon-hu3pd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@nanettevantriesteharder2469 Bad parenting is a huge problem. But to be fair, if parenting created who you are, then all siblings in a family would have identical temperaments and personalities. People ARE born hardwired a certain way.

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TaurusMoon-hu3pd I can understand and appreciate your confusion, but it is actually a combination of both nature and nurture as is seen in epigenetics-genetics. In biology, epigenetics is the study of heritable traits, or a stable change of cell function, that happen without changes to the DNA sequence. During the critical growth periods of human development from womb to tomb seen in the stages of neuron development a) neurogenesis, b) migration, c) differentiation and myelination, d) synapotogeneis, and e) apoptosis each individual, even those involved in groups of multiple births, is uniquely exposed to concentrations and combinations of water-soluble and lipid-soluble elements and compounds that cross the placenta. For example, domestic violence that commonly occurs during each progressive pregnancy gets worse with the birth order of each child, releases high levels of the toxic hormone cortisol in the freeze, flight, fight, or fawn response of the mother and unborn child. Also, a mother that tries to numb the emotional and physical pain through self-medication over the courses of several pregnancies can create an even greater problem. That is why every child is different to one degree or another.
      I researched genetic inheritance of autosomal dominant, X-linked recessive, mitochondrial disease polygenic mt DNA for my research paper, "Why Would Susceptible Families Not Get Genetically Tested for Mitochondrial Dysfunction?" for a longitudinal study design of Huntington's Disease across generations during my Master of Public Health. I did a deep dive into my paternal grandfather's side of the family, which had gone through the Dutch Famine (1944-1945). I also did a deep dive into my paternal grandmother's side, which had gone through the Irish Potato Famine (1845-1852). Economic hardship is the top Adverse Childhood Experience that leads to early death. Regional, such as the aforementioned, famines are highly studied examples of familial, maternal, and fetal nutritional deprivation before, during, and after pregnancy. MELAS (mitochondrial encephalopathy, lactic acidosis, and stroke-like episodes) is specifically associated with the Dutch Hunger Winter. MELAS is one of the family of mitochondrial diseases that include MIDD (maternally inherited diabetes and deafness), MERRF syndrome, and Leber's hereditary optic neuropathy, which was characterized in 1984. A feature of these diseases is that they are caused by defects in the mitochondrial genome which is inherited purely from the female parent. The most common MELAS mutation is mitochondrial mutation, mtDNA, referred to as m.3243A>G.

  • @aaronmann4809
    @aaronmann4809 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    What a horrible childhood. Jason should have just taken his little brother and moved away somewhere, far from his mom.

  • @BamaCyn
    @BamaCyn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I would have been yelling "NAILED IT" if I had made a B in algebra. So sad that this mother screwed up her kids so badly. The last part sums up exactly how I feel.

  • @KimberlyLetsGo
    @KimberlyLetsGo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    He wasn't given a fair shake from the very beginning.

  • @thecorrectoification
    @thecorrectoification 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That's unbelievably sad.

  • @sysiphuspeart9012
    @sysiphuspeart9012 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    One day he will say "Can I analyze the case of (...)? No. They are too dumb. I just can't stand it. Pick again."

  • @cybermandan1960
    @cybermandan1960 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    WTF I'm literally watching The Sopranos right now 😂😂😂

  • @marilynmcmahon5932
    @marilynmcmahon5932 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    If child services were involved maybe Jason could have the help he needed and the murder would not have happened.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      If the mother might’ve had help as a teenager after she beat her mother and they realized she was schizophrenic or some other problem. Maybe she might’ve had medicine to take or something to help her and she might’ve been a better mother, or chosen not to be a mother who knows this is just a theory also.

  • @gonzojr.8648
    @gonzojr.8648 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great assessment Doc.

  • @fightingtosurvive6527
    @fightingtosurvive6527 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Covering one's windows with aluminum foil indicates a drug-induced paranoia.

    • @JohnnyDanger36963
      @JohnnyDanger36963 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      meth

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How do you know this?

    • @filipefigueiredo9847
      @filipefigueiredo9847 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@JohnnyDanger36963 yeah I've seen people (during their meth benders) doing that kind of stuff

    • @susankeith326
      @susankeith326 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Many people do it in order to reduce air conditioning bills .

    • @JohnnyDanger36963
      @JohnnyDanger36963 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jojo-o6o6w yes it does.

  • @maryrichardson6029
    @maryrichardson6029 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always interesting
    Thank you ❤

  • @feraudyh
    @feraudyh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can you discuss the case of Petra Pazsitka? She disappeared for two decades and was found alive again.

  • @echopeakbicycling85
    @echopeakbicycling85 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Reminds me of serial killer Edmund Kemper and his relationship with his mother.

  • @CapSolo010
    @CapSolo010 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I know what episode of the sopranos he’s talking about. The one with Ralphie

    • @AntSol1992
      @AntSol1992 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep

  • @orionspur
    @orionspur 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We want "situation like this" merch! (please)

  • @Sarah.Riedel
    @Sarah.Riedel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    "Jane thought that people from Mexico were hiding in her bushes and living in her backyard" I mean, she may not have been wrong there

    • @cleopatra444
      @cleopatra444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂😂 #facts

    • @hrdley911
      @hrdley911 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂 True dat!

    • @Hatbox948
      @Hatbox948 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lol!

    • @adotintheshark4848
      @adotintheshark4848 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      with the state of our open border, she had a point

  • @alainpreveaux2428
    @alainpreveaux2428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Sounds like Jane lost her head around 1979.

  • @cosmicgirl1116
    @cosmicgirl1116 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg... I thought I heard it all.... until NOW

  • @damienluxford4480
    @damienluxford4480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I miss Tony Soprano. He was cool.

  • @DotToryX
    @DotToryX 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The oddly timing of this coming out while I'm rewatching the Sopranos.

  • @gigicolada
    @gigicolada 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Too bad Jane’s mother didn’t press charges all those years ago. Not saying it would have helped, but maybe could have.

  • @Kcourt1996
    @Kcourt1996 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ayyyyeeee!!! Who else thought that was Eminem in the thumbnail 😅

  • @michaelperez9966
    @michaelperez9966 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Jason was an adult, and didn’t have to live with his mother; but what was the alternative? Being homeless?

    • @ChyroneMcThunderschlong
      @ChyroneMcThunderschlong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Here we go.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He was in college, lots of college boys get a cheap apartment and three or four of them can afford the rent together. At an earlier time he had two jobs at once, one at a chemistry lab and one I think at a restaurant.

  • @bold810
    @bold810 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Grande, I honestly, sincerely enjoy everything that's you, but

  • @ElleEmenopy
    @ElleEmenopy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I find it a tad ironic that this paranoid woman was actually being followed by her neighbor on at least one occasion.

  • @carolann3249
    @carolann3249 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mother created her monster. Edmund Kemper had a similar mum . Both mothers were killed . I do feel for him though, growing up with no real stability and not much positive care .

  • @ChyroneMcThunderschlong
    @ChyroneMcThunderschlong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Twice this year has my mother assaulted me over ridiculous reasons resulting in cuts to my face.
    And both times have I been ignored by people I asked to help me.

  • @Chopper650
    @Chopper650 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    jane sounds like a real keeper

  • @easternkiwiz
    @easternkiwiz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Armando "could not live without her" and she was "all he ever wanted" RIP Armando

    • @lochnessmunster1189
      @lochnessmunster1189 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If they'd stayed together, he probably would've left her after becoming sick of her. That's the crazy part.

    • @easternkiwiz
      @easternkiwiz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@lochnessmunster1189 If Armando had committed a murder-suicide, taking Jane out at the same time, he would have spared their son Jason the job, and saved him from a life in prison

    • @lochnessmunster1189
      @lochnessmunster1189 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@easternkiwiz Good point. RIP Armando.

  • @ehrgeiz0
    @ehrgeiz0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Even if Jason was an adult, he couldn't necessarily leave the house since his Mom kept him under her thumb figuratively speaking. How could he get a job and be independent when his Mom wouldn't let him go on a date?

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      If your adult over 6 feet tall and over 200 pounds, it seems like he could easily escape. Just pull the window down and bust out the screen.
      He did have two jobs and one of the cities they lived in at the laboratory and another job

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s hard to correct my mistakes on this tiny iPad but I meant to write, you are not your.

  • @BallJuiceOfZeus
    @BallJuiceOfZeus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A: she was a hooah!!!
    B: she hit me

  • @jenniferlyons4150
    @jenniferlyons4150 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a sad situation where mental illnesses are passed down to the kids who in turn don't know what a stable household is. Taking away a child's mother away, being a part of handling your dead mother, and your big brother is the killer, so the cycle continues.

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Your true fans love your humor and sarcasm. March 24 is World Tuberculosis Day, National Chocolate-Covered Raisins Day, Flatmates Day, Harry Houdini Day, Right To Truth Day, National Cocktail Day, National Cake Pop Day, and International Day For Achievers. Today is Palm Sunday 2024 on March 24.

    • @birdworldist
      @birdworldist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Chocolate covered raisins are scrumptious 😋

    • @Flamsterette
      @Flamsterette 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@birdworldist They are!

    • @dickjohnson9582
      @dickjohnson9582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not one of those things even remotely applies to or interests me.

    • @birdworldist
      @birdworldist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ⁠@@dickjohnson9582you don’t care for world tuberculosis day?! wtf….?!?!

    • @chesterfinecat7588
      @chesterfinecat7588 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dickjohnson9582 A low openness to specialty days combined with a double dick designation.

  • @Norman-Bates-60
    @Norman-Bates-60 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I would never harm my Mother. 💘

  • @really5453
    @really5453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Does anybody else see the physical resemblance to younger Eminem?

  • @tod3msn
    @tod3msn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We have a society that is enthralled by celebrity and entertainment that has members of the society who cannot distinguish fact from fiction. Believe it or not but actors on shows like "America's Most Wanted" who are reenacting a crime for a tv show get spotted in a supermarket and have the police called on them. People often yell at actors in public thinking they are the characters they play on tv or in the movies. Kids play games on their phones and iPads where they killed guys in these video games and become desensitized to the consequences of violence. Good people who follow all laws suddenly get engulfed by show business and start talking about being "on set" when all they are doing is going to a photographer to get their picture taken. My point is that while it is extreme and horrible having someone inspired by a fictional tv show that is not real is not that unusual.

  • @patrickrpedrus747
    @patrickrpedrus747 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If he knew any better he would've known Quasimodo predicted it wouldn't have gone well.

  • @Historybuffhere
    @Historybuffhere 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Since you’re in the neighborhood, please review the Dale Akiki case!

  • @HeatherHolt
    @HeatherHolt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No sympathy for those who abuse their children. No matter their size.

  • @moemenace5345
    @moemenace5345 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dr. Grande, could you analyze the case of Bossman Jack please?

    • @alelkel3698
      @alelkel3698 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Rat

  • @justin9744
    @justin9744 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Grande: "Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anyone in this video. Only speculating about what could be happening in a situation like this."
    Me as I swivel 180 degrees to face my computer while leaning as far back as I can: "Yes, of course. Please continue, Doctor."

  • @Moviesrockmusicandmore
    @Moviesrockmusicandmore 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That one kid looks like Raymond Burr’s character in Alfred Hitchcock’s Rear Window

  • @JohnWilliams-cx3ip
    @JohnWilliams-cx3ip 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wonder how many crimes are Soprano inspired? The show makes it look so easy.

  • @TonyLat-d1v
    @TonyLat-d1v 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Allo dr. Grande can you do a story on riley strain next

    • @avoiceinthedark2028
      @avoiceinthedark2028 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Got drunk, fell in river. End of story

    • @avoiceinthedark2028
      @avoiceinthedark2028 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My theory is that it’s always drunk men cause they pee in the river and fall in. They are drunk and more adventurous, bad judgement, seems fun to pee in river instead of land

    • @avoiceinthedark2028
      @avoiceinthedark2028 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the happy faces are just cause happy faces are so common, confirmation bias. You need to compare it to the number of happy faces by rivers not near bodies. I’m sure it’s even more

    • @TransKidRevolution
      @TransKidRevolution 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And he removed his debit card from his wallet put it on the ground then took a pee? Makes total sense😂😂😂
      Don't become a detective, nancy drew🙄

  • @audreycasassa1683
    @audreycasassa1683 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These boys never had a chance!