@@kc270352 I’ve tried almost everything and never got a prayer. It’s like living in North Korea, even if you try your hardest the decision makers can keep you opressed the way women do to me.
This is pure quality advice. Especially about changing your perspective of seeing a girl as a nice addition to your already fulfilled life, not the other way around. Thanks so much, Beast 😎
You are the prize.... Not them. You are doing them a favor by taking time out of your day to spend with them. You are doing them a favor by spending money on them. You bring to the table: A respectable job Money A house A car A lifestyle and good times she would otherwise not be able to afford. You are an appreciating asset and will only become even more valuable over time as your wealth and power continues to grow. She brings to the table: Good looks and s*x. She is a depreciating asset as her looks will fade over time... while your wealth will only grow larger. You can earn more money. She can not earn more pretty.
But I see "game" just like improving how you talk, it's necessary, it does not have to be weird tricks. There are optimal ways to do anything, if you are not good at it naturally, you are just counting on luck...
I've adopted this mentality. I've been at a point where I was constantly seeking several dates per week; the highs were high, but the lows were lower. It even caused to feel like I lost myself and I delved into depression. I got myself out though and I'm grinding hard. Also, I live in Boston and Barcelona Wine Bar is def a good date spot haha.
Very good!! I agree with all you said, the right one can enrich your life, the wrong one can totally destroy your life. A risky and dangerous journey till you find the right one. Even then many never do find the right one.
Been with the same woman 27+ yrs. It is paramount you both trust/respect and have some loyalty .. families are dynamic as we know they bring a lot of good/bad. Look at your goals and if you’re heading on that ,are you a team ? If not. It will never work. Some give n take is needed but you’ll see if it’s an issue if you can’t be yourself ! Run ! 😂
This actually really helped me realize something. Been dating this girl for the last 6 months and she broke it off a week ago after i got the feels for her and she said were on different paths; shes starting her business while i was getting settled into my cardiac monitor career at the hospital. I reckon she just wanted someone doing the same as her. Either way i wish her the best. I really liked her but she couldn't get past that i suppose, so close yet so far. Taking this hurt out by hitting the gym harder.
No, she just didn't like you that much. Don't make excuses for her. Just think of it as her loss and move on. Yes, she might hit you up later, but presume she won't and plan accordingly. And if she does, feel justified, but think very hard before reciprocating. Life is too short for girls who sit on the fence for you. She had her chance. ✌
Honestly bro, she thought she could do better, she thought she was better than you; and she's right, but also, being a cardiac monitoring technician isn't sexy. She wanted to be to smash freely and meet someone better. Just do you and get angry about it. It's not cause you're on 'different paths' that's bullshit.
@sevensevenalways7995 so true, I'm now actually making the most amount of money I've ever made right when she left, I never got to tell her but oh well. I really shouldn't take her back if she does come around, she didn't give me a chance to prove myself as I literally reshaped my life for the better and now I'm talking with a realtor to get my first house next year.
Nothing personal buddy, she lost attraction for you or probably she was using for emotional tampon. In any case, good riddance, you can now learn from it and move on forward for something better. We've all been there.
In this dating Culture i just have 1 Rule. Just stay away from them. Staying on my own was bringing me so much Peace 😂. Problem is this is just for people who are able to live alone. Some people can't do that.
I've been watching you since 4 years and with age I'm realizing, everything you said will always end up being true, like prophecies getting fulfilled because time shows everything with patience. Thank you so much. At first things might be overwhelming regarding what you discussed but with age and practical experience, I haven't found nothing yet that goes the opposite of what you said. Anyway enjoy your breakfast tacos always.
You've got it figured out, I'm impressed with your knowledge, but can you keep that mindset throughout life. One tough point is they never change but they learn just like we do. You will constantly be tested by a better one, not in looks but in technique. Time weakens all of us, until we give up and get the saddle put on us and say yes dear. But! You don't have to, if you know thyself. You already have the information. Im 75 now, fu@k! Still work out, divorced 32 yrs, no kids, etc.. stay strong and never doubt yourself, after you analyzed yourself and go forth! And wear a cup! ....lol..
Thanks for the rules, David. Well I've reached an epitome and that is to work on myself from my style to improving my mood and etc. and well also to stay single as well because I enjoy being happy when I'm single. I know weird, but it's the truth.
This is surprisingly good advice for men. Don't play the game, it just leads to bad relationships and bad self-esteem. Be cool and treat women with respect and understanding. Be polite when you get rejected even. Eventually it will lead to a better you and a better match.
For all you ladies who think it's totally OK fine & normal to have a bunch of guys friends & remain civil with exes -- there's a reason why that is continually noted as a huge red flag in video after video & in coaching session after coaching session. So STOP trying to turn it around on us guys as if we are being jealous, insecure, & controlling when it comes to all these dudes texting & hanging around
every advice you tell i was like yeah mah men. trying to high five my laptop screen HHAA. i've been dating for like 5 years and i've meet a lot of women. and all you just said here are all facts. haha right now i stop dating because i alter my focus more in building in myself and my career but i'll be back once im finished achieve what i need to achieve. keep it up bro
Hi David how are you. I'm from Tanzania and I have been watching your vedios for quite a while probably since 2020. I was supposed to graduate tommorow but bad luck that never happened. I just went back and watched your 1 million TH-cam subscribers vedio and I was like I will get my degree soon. Long story short you have insipired me so much, I'm 22 and I know without you I wouldn't be the man I am right now. Thank you so much for the content you create. I will share something so intimate Im a suicide savior because I watched your channel brother you saved my life thank you for every relationship advice from you. You may think you have a small impact in the world but when you go to heaven that's the milestone God will say to you you saved a life.
you are fully right. i know this facts before already and found my dream girl already 12 years ago (she is my first girlfriend becaus me denied all other if there is something not fitting to me and i am 35 now)
TOP TIER: Ask YOURSELF the RIGHT questions. If the only thing she's adding to your life is more drama & more stress while taking away your peace AND your money, then that means she gotta go
This video reminds me of the quote about being well adjusted to a sick society. Or the way that I personally think about it, the evolutionary mismatch. Obviously we’re alive, so we have to live our best lives within the world we’re in but still true.
I call those girls 'chrome'. Shiny on the outside. But, rusting steel underneath. (Song to describe your relation: "Bad Girlfriend" -T.O.A.D.) Also, have you seen (The Crazy/Hot Matrix")?
For me peace of mind and harmony at home is important, so I will probably will be forever single 😂 I don't mind, my home is a place were there is peace and quiet
Last point (saying this as a female) yes! No silly mind games! Please! I would much rather a guy who says great, let's meet as such and such a time. And means it (and yes, I do realise that generally girls are more guilty of this than guys... but I don't have experience of other girls, so unfortunately I can't speak from this perspective 😅). Another really annoying thing: a guy messages you, you happen to hear/see it and respond straight away, and then he takes 5 hours to respond back. How dumb is that? I know you're there because you just messaged me! It's about as transparent as the "I have a friend who really likes this girl..." (yeah, that happened to me too, for real). Honestly, I just can't be bothered.
I have been married twice in 35 years. I can honestly say women are a PIA. It is thankless. It is work but it is a partnership to create and raise kids. To continue the dance of life. Don't overthink it. Don't worry about it. If you connect great. If you don't there are plenty of fish in the sea.
100% bang on. It's amazing how when u pull away how often they try to get in touch even if when it comes down to it they are just in it for the attention. The simp way doesn't work, we learn that 1 the hard way.
Damn... actual decent dating advice on the internet. I cannot over emphasize how much it's not your problem if she ghosts you tho. Women have their own lives an all sorts of stuff going on in their heads. It's nearly always because of their problems and if they think you did something "wrong" you're probably not compatible anyway.
I've been dating a girl for more than 2 years. She's perfect and understanding. She has all the feminine quality A man would want. But my family isn't approving that coz her family standard doesn't match with ours. And I'm fighting against them. Trying my best to have a good life and career. Isn't my feelings have a cost? Ain't I doing the right thing?
@@randomAnnanoumousDude2134 the initial comment says his family doesn’t think she’s up to standard. it doesn’t matter if the family thinks she’s not up to standard. I have a buddy of mine I work with, and his relationship ended because his woman’s parents interfered like this. He’s a great guy, completely loyal, makes good money, but her parents have her so brainwashed since childhood about what type of person she should be with That they don’t approve. This is actually damaging instead of helping.
Fellas, you need to be pragmatic about dating, just like women. Romance will get you in the door but don't let it cloud your judgement. Is she really a pure, innocent flower? Chances are no
Exactly, that's the way! But when you see a girl it worth, you can do everything to make hher happy thats not bad. The thing is if this girl start to ghost or play with you, you just dissapear. Let her know she's not the only one, bcz that will happen only when she really form part of your life. PS: "Love your neighbor AS YOURSELF" This one's tricky bcz its actually 2 laws in 1. If we dont' love ourself, The Game is Over Blessings!
I got lucky in that my gal simply never knew or accepted inside that she was gorgeous. I am also the second guy after her dysfunctional marriage she has ever “been with”. Pair bonding was not compromised, etc. Just a good woman who has managed to tolerate me for 20 years.
I had an ex like this. When I broke up with her she showed up to my house kicking and screaming. She wouldn’t leave. After the situation escalated I called for Siri to dial 911 and she snatched my phone before it went through. That’s when we stared at each other both knowing that she could smash my phone and I couldn’t do a thing about it…shit was legendary
My girl got black out drunk two days ago, and made out with one of her coworkers at a bar..She’s super apologetic and claims she can’t even remember doing that and she regrets it. I’m at a crossroads, heart broken and don’t know what to do, does anyone have any insight here? Appreciate the thoughts in advance
I agree with what you said... But when a woman just ghosts you after telling you she wants to meet again and even kissing on the first date and then ghosting without sYing anything (which Btw I think one could call psycho behavior) it is fair to get mad. It is just too easy to say 'sorry, I am not interested'
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game. I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again. I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life. Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot. Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing. Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training. It just really feels me with anger and rage whenever people and Society have the mindset or still think men have it better than women do in dating or just human mating in general. I'll never forget what one guy said and this only added fuel to fire in regards to my anger and rage about the cards on dealt with for being born male. "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say that pissed me off even further, got me so mad, that its no appropriate for me to say what was going through my mind when i read that comment that pissed me off even further. Yes I know there's no such thing as fairness but I'm not afraid to admit that over the years in my life I've hated being born a guy or I just feel that it is unfair being born a man. Yes I'm aware there's no such thing as fairness, I just get very angry and enraged whenever people and Society still think men have it better than women do.
What about the women who are not tens? Who are not head-turning gorgeous? They feel invisable too. They have to work harder than most guys. And it doesn't matter how amazing they are otherwise either. I find it telling that even this guy says they still have to be really attractive (in addition to all these other attributes).
The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
Very very true!!!
No, the most painful thing is being an incel who never gets a chance with women at all. Trust me.
@hens13 and who's fault is that? all you guys do is complain seriously, no helping you fools at all 🙄
@@kc270352 I’ve tried almost everything and never got a prayer. It’s like living in North Korea, even if you try your hardest the decision makers can keep you opressed the way women do to me.
You go girl
1.beauty aìnt shit
2.Ask the right questions
3.don't be a slave to pleasure
4.boys get upset
5.Don't play the game
This is pure quality advice. Especially about changing your perspective of seeing a girl as a nice addition to your already fulfilled life, not the other way around. Thanks so much, Beast 😎
You are the prize.... Not them.
You are doing them a favor by taking time out of your day to spend with them.
You are doing them a favor by spending money on them.
You bring to the table:
A respectable job
Money
A house
A car
A lifestyle and good times she would otherwise not be able to afford.
You are an appreciating asset and will only become even more valuable over time as your wealth and power continues to grow.
She brings to the table:
Good looks and s*x.
She is a depreciating asset as her looks will fade over time... while your wealth will only grow larger.
You can earn more money.
She can not earn more pretty.
@@im1who84uI like this new mindset u gave me king 👑. Im gonna be the UFC world champion within the next 5 yrs
@@The_Alpha_Silverback Glad I could help.
The rule number 5 (Do not play the game), makes a lot of sense. When I starded to not care about the "game", I met my wife.
But I see "game" just like improving how you talk, it's necessary, it does not have to be weird tricks.
There are optimal ways to do anything, if you are not good at it naturally, you are just counting on luck...
I've adopted this mentality. I've been at a point where I was constantly seeking several dates per week; the highs were high, but the lows were lower. It even caused to feel like I lost myself and I delved into depression. I got myself out though and I'm grinding hard. Also, I live in Boston and Barcelona Wine Bar is def a good date spot haha.
Very good!! I agree with all you said, the right one can enrich your life, the wrong one can totally destroy your life. A risky and dangerous journey till you find the right one. Even then many never do find the right one.
Been with the same woman 27+ yrs. It is paramount you both trust/respect and have some loyalty .. families are dynamic as we know they bring a lot of good/bad. Look at your goals and if you’re heading on that ,are you a team ? If not. It will never work. Some give n take is needed but you’ll see if it’s an issue if you can’t be yourself ! Run ! 😂
Powerful message, stay beastly!
As a guy who had about 4000 tinder women matches.
He’s 100 percent correct on all his points.
Especially the don’t play the game one.
In all my years watching You-Tube, I have never come across any video this good and which speaks to me so much.
This actually really helped me realize something. Been dating this girl for the last 6 months and she broke it off a week ago after i got the feels for her and she said were on different paths; shes starting her business while i was getting settled into my cardiac monitor career at the hospital. I reckon she just wanted someone doing the same as her. Either way i wish her the best. I really liked her but she couldn't get past that i suppose, so close yet so far. Taking this hurt out by hitting the gym harder.
I feel you man. Go out and meet new women. Hit her back up in 6 months 😉
No, she just didn't like you that much. Don't make excuses for her. Just think of it as her loss and move on. Yes, she might hit you up later, but presume she won't and plan accordingly. And if she does, feel justified, but think very hard before reciprocating. Life is too short for girls who sit on the fence for you. She had her chance. ✌
Honestly bro, she thought she could do better, she thought she was better than you; and she's right, but also, being a cardiac monitoring technician isn't sexy. She wanted to be to smash freely and meet someone better. Just do you and get angry about it. It's not cause you're on 'different paths' that's bullshit.
@sevensevenalways7995 so true, I'm now actually making the most amount of money I've ever made right when she left, I never got to tell her but oh well. I really shouldn't take her back if she does come around, she didn't give me a chance to prove myself as I literally reshaped my life for the better and now I'm talking with a realtor to get my first house next year.
Nothing personal buddy, she lost attraction for you or probably she was using for emotional tampon. In any case, good riddance, you can now learn from it and move on forward for something better. We've all been there.
Im kind of going through something with a girl i was dealing with and this video def snapped me back to reality THANK YOU 🙏🏽💯
In this dating Culture i just have 1 Rule. Just stay away from them. Staying on my own was bringing me so much Peace 😂. Problem is this is just for people who are able to live alone. Some people can't do that.
Well said! Good attitude - love you’re channel!!!
I've been watching you since 4 years and with age I'm realizing, everything you said will always end up being true, like prophecies getting fulfilled because time shows everything with patience. Thank you so much. At first things might be overwhelming regarding what you discussed but with age and practical experience, I haven't found nothing yet that goes the opposite of what you said. Anyway enjoy your breakfast tacos always.
I really needed to hear these words, fit perfectly for what I'm going through. Thanks a lot, big bro!
Quality advice! Not playing the game and not being a boy when plans flake is something I needed to hear.
Definitely one if not the best video in your channel
Don’t pursue for looks only. Pursue for both looks and personality.
I have to add, the Manscape trimmer is also an excellent precise beard trimmer. The LED light helps you see what you're doing under your chin.
This video literally came at the most perfect time it possibly could. Thank you so much, you have no idea how much this video has helped me.
This is a good one Dave! Keep it up
Probably the realist video on TH-cam rn
Kindness
Loving
Respectful
Nothing else!
You got red pilled sorry to hear, much respect
You've got it figured out, I'm impressed with your knowledge, but can you keep that mindset throughout life. One tough point is they never change but they learn just like we do. You will constantly be tested by a better one, not in looks but in technique. Time weakens all of us, until we give up and get the saddle put on us and say yes dear. But! You don't have to, if you know thyself. You already have the information. Im 75 now, fu@k! Still work out, divorced 32 yrs, no kids, etc.. stay strong and never doubt yourself, after you analyzed yourself and go forth! And wear a cup! ....lol..
Thanks for the rules, David. Well I've reached an epitome and that is to work on myself from my style to improving my mood and etc. and well also to stay single as well because I enjoy being happy when I'm single. I know weird, but it's the truth.
Great reminders bro. Respect
Love this Format that you use David! Great tips. 👍
This is surprisingly good advice for men. Don't play the game, it just leads to bad relationships and bad self-esteem. Be cool and treat women with respect and understanding. Be polite when you get rejected even. Eventually it will lead to a better you and a better match.
Don't chase women, be the best you and then you get to choose, choosing the wrong one will destroy your life though..
I love looks, but most of all a girl personality that counts the most because looks fade overtime
That thumbnail along with the title gave me the best laugh of the day! 🤣🤣🤣
One of your best video's really appreciate it😎💪🏻🔥💯
As I always say looks is the trailer to the movie the plot is what lies beneath the beauty
For all you ladies who think it's totally OK fine & normal to have a bunch of guys friends & remain civil with exes -- there's a reason why that is continually noted as a huge red flag in video after video & in coaching session after coaching session. So STOP trying to turn it around on us guys as if we are being jealous, insecure, & controlling when it comes to all these dudes texting & hanging around
Thanks David been following you since 2018, that final point is on point, don’t play the bullshit game.
every advice you tell i was like yeah mah men. trying to high five my laptop screen HHAA. i've been dating for like 5 years and i've meet a lot of women. and all you just said here are all facts. haha right now i stop dating because i alter my focus more in building in myself and my career but i'll be back once im finished achieve what i need to achieve. keep it up bro
Hi David how are you. I'm from Tanzania and I have been watching your vedios for quite a while probably since 2020. I was supposed to graduate tommorow but bad luck that never happened. I just went back and watched your 1 million TH-cam subscribers vedio and I was like I will get my degree soon. Long story short you have insipired me so much, I'm 22 and I know without you I wouldn't be the man I am right now. Thank you so much for the content you create. I will share something so intimate Im a suicide savior because I watched your channel brother you saved my life thank you for every relationship advice from you. You may think you have a small impact in the world but when you go to heaven that's the milestone God will say to you you saved a life.
you are fully right. i know this facts before already and found my dream girl already 12 years ago (she is my first girlfriend becaus me denied all other if there is something not fitting to me and i am 35 now)
This 5 advices are quite helpful. Thank you
Thanks Bro I needed the reassurance God bless
what's up david I would like you to upload a video on how to get over a breakup after 5+ years With steps to improve yourself for a better future
This video came just in time!!!
Great video. The edits were good too
💯 People who have careers don't and should not chase anyone. If you are available let's hang out if not byeee
Thanks man!
Finally the only date video that makes sense.
Facts bro, love the video
ayyy i’m a massachusetts native watching this !
Thank you, thats the answer im seeking......
Not play the game 🙌
I love you David, thank you for such wisdom
Lol that cake analogy, I use it all the time. :)
TOP TIER: Ask YOURSELF the RIGHT questions. If the only thing she's adding to your life is more drama & more stress while taking away your peace AND your money, then that means she gotta go
Don’t let them in
Do not chase them, let them chase you. if not who cares!!! True love will reveal itself, instincts will tell you this.
Awesome video
This video reminds me of the quote about being well adjusted to a sick society. Or the way that I personally think about it, the evolutionary mismatch. Obviously we’re alive, so we have to live our best lives within the world we’re in but still true.
I call those girls 'chrome'. Shiny on the outside. But, rusting steel underneath. (Song to describe your relation: "Bad Girlfriend" -T.O.A.D.)
Also, have you seen (The Crazy/Hot Matrix")?
I'm only into the "have a game" part, nothing interests me anymore, at all
Lemmy Kilmister: "the chase is better than the catch"
You are my man bro really golden advice ubgread yoreself all the time and no more games
Thank you bro❤
Agree with everything!
For me peace of mind and harmony at home is important, so I will probably will be forever single 😂 I don't mind, my home is a place were there is peace and quiet
that fifth one is very important
It's crazy how much women hold most of the control in the dating game. Only high value men hold the keys. Even then women have so many options.
These videos you're uploading these days are gold, keep rocking David!
Last point (saying this as a female) yes! No silly mind games! Please! I would much rather a guy who says great, let's meet as such and such a time. And means it (and yes, I do realise that generally girls are more guilty of this than guys... but I don't have experience of other girls, so unfortunately I can't speak from this perspective 😅). Another really annoying thing: a guy messages you, you happen to hear/see it and respond straight away, and then he takes 5 hours to respond back. How dumb is that? I know you're there because you just messaged me! It's about as transparent as the "I have a friend who really likes this girl..." (yeah, that happened to me too, for real). Honestly, I just can't be bothered.
Great video. Guys who are 8,9,and 10s don't need game. But average men do.
I have been married twice in 35 years. I can honestly say women are a PIA. It is thankless. It is work but it is a partnership to create and raise kids. To continue the dance of life. Don't overthink it. Don't worry about it. If you connect great. If you don't there are plenty of fish in the sea.
100% bang on. It's amazing how when u pull away how often they try to get in touch even if when it comes down to it they are just in it for the attention. The simp way doesn't work, we learn that 1 the hard way.
thanks man very great video man
Damn... actual decent dating advice on the internet. I cannot over emphasize how much it's not your problem if she ghosts you tho. Women have their own lives an all sorts of stuff going on in their heads. It's nearly always because of their problems and if they think you did something "wrong" you're probably not compatible anyway.
I've been dating a girl for more than 2 years. She's perfect and understanding. She has all the feminine quality A man would want. But my family isn't approving that coz her family standard doesn't match with ours. And I'm fighting against them. Trying my best to have a good life and career. Isn't my feelings have a cost? Ain't I doing the right thing?
If what you’re saying about her is true, then your family thinks about it is irrelevant. Grow some balls and tell them to mind their business.
@@randomAnnanoumousDude2134 the initial comment says his family doesn’t think she’s up to standard. it doesn’t matter if the family thinks she’s not up to standard.
I have a buddy of mine I work with, and his relationship ended because his woman’s parents interfered like this. He’s a great guy, completely loyal, makes good money, but her parents have her so brainwashed since childhood about what type of person she should be with That they don’t approve.
This is actually damaging instead of helping.
Thank U👍the boy/man dichotomy...Good topic for future video, if U get a chance
Fellas, you need to be pragmatic about dating, just like women. Romance will get you in the door but don't let it cloud your judgement. Is she really a pure, innocent flower? Chances are no
Exactly, that's the way! But when you see a girl it worth, you can do everything to make hher happy thats not bad. The thing is if this girl start to ghost or play with you, you just dissapear. Let her know she's not the only one, bcz that will happen only when she really form part of your life. PS: "Love your neighbor AS YOURSELF" This one's tricky bcz its actually 2 laws in 1. If we dont' love ourself, The Game is Over Blessings!
I got lucky in that my gal simply never knew or accepted inside that she was gorgeous. I am also the second guy after her dysfunctional marriage she has ever “been with”. Pair bonding was not compromised, etc. Just a good woman who has managed to tolerate me for 20 years.
Mmmmmm not sure this was supposed to leave the drafts friend 😅😂😂
I had an ex like this. When I broke up with her she showed up to my house kicking and screaming. She wouldn’t leave. After the situation escalated I called for Siri to dial 911 and she snatched my phone before it went through. That’s when we stared at each other both knowing that she could smash my phone and I couldn’t do a thing about it…shit was legendary
Why'd you let her in the house? 😂
@@theelam0fg0d it’s actually quite simple…I’m stupid😂
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Great video!
When god speaks the wise listen 🔥🔥
This man is a G
Real truth 🔥
The cake analogy 😅
These videos are just 🔥
THIS VERY TRUE MAN YOU ADVICE IS TRUE 👍👍
Rule #4 hit home. I can't lie
great video, i love you man, im curious, though, how do you balance your faith life with your growth and success
Every young man should watch this video.
Woman ain’t shit to your focus. What you focus on creatively is your super power. Do what’s right regardless of consequence.
U got my like in the moment U did Ad.
HOW TO BEAST is the best ❤
I think many women are beautiful enough.
My girl got black out drunk two days ago, and made out with one of her coworkers at a bar..She’s super apologetic and claims she can’t even remember doing that and she regrets it.
I’m at a crossroads, heart broken and don’t know what to do, does anyone have any insight here? Appreciate the thoughts in advance
Talking about cakes the whole video is trying to screw up my cut lmao, nice video
I only need manscaped for my beard so what product should i check out.
I agree with what you said...
But when a woman just ghosts you after telling you she wants to meet again and even kissing on the first date and then ghosting without sYing anything (which Btw I think one could call psycho behavior) it is fair to get mad.
It is just too easy to say 'sorry, I am not interested'
Do not play the game. I can't agree more.
Would you say you don't need game if you're good looking? What about the average looking guys?
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again.
I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life.
Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot.
Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing.
Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training.
It just really feels me with anger and rage whenever people and Society have the mindset or still think men have it better than women do in dating or just human mating in general.
I'll never forget what one guy said and this only added fuel to fire in regards to my anger and rage about the cards on dealt with for being born male.
"Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together"
Let's just say that pissed me off even further, got me so mad, that its no appropriate for me to say what was going through my mind when i read that comment that pissed me off even further.
Yes I know there's no such thing as fairness but I'm not afraid to admit that over the years in my life I've hated being born a guy or I just feel that it is unfair being born a man. Yes I'm aware there's no such thing as fairness, I just get very angry and enraged whenever people and Society still think men have it better than women do.
What about the women who are not tens? Who are not head-turning gorgeous? They feel invisable too. They have to work harder than most guys. And it doesn't matter how amazing they are otherwise either. I find it telling that even this guy says they still have to be really attractive (in addition to all these other attributes).