THESE women are a rare find, we want our children to marry this breed. The Rorisang of South Africa are the princesses we want to raise in our families, our daughters must follow and love this
You want your daughter to be a virgin at 35, being 35 and a virgin is def not a flex, if she was such a good woman why no man at that old age has not seen her worthy of marriage. I'm not saying ladies shouldn't be chaste but virginity is not synonymous to good character. And realistically speaking, a young gal (virgin at 18) can meet a guy (21) at varsity (since men want gals to build with them) how long will take the guy to be ready for marriage financially, around age 28-30. As a guy would u wait for that long for marriage? it will be as though the girl has only virginity to offer. If her virginity goes, will she lose her good feminine character?
@@gisellethebunny True💯💯 , he might give an example with his granny who got married as a virgin, if he checks the age our grannies got married at and how old our grandfathers were (prolly 20 years while grandfather was 30) there was no dating and getting to know each other and building together. Teaching good character is what's vital, which likely results in a lower body count.
@@gisellethebunny Your response is full of many contradictions, I applaud all women who uphold an upright moral standard. They are not in lust and that makes them healthy, spiritually, mentally and physically. They will offer loyalty to the one husband rather than have the opportunity to cheat in marriage. Preservation means they will avoid (1) Being slept by different boys before her marriage (2) Different children from different fathers (3) Being delayed from growing in their academics and career (4) To be emotionally mature for marriage in their 30s. For your information, you have more chances of divorce when you start dating earlier than at a ripe age
If I may ask, how did I contradict myself? A lady's best years of finding the best mate is age 21 to 30, age 30 the quality of men start declining, as well as her biological clock is on the decline. Age 35, fertility issues surface. Now realistically speaking a gal dating in her prime years is not bad (as she needs to pick the best man she can get while she has time), if she makes the right choice and is feminine she can retain that man, mind you the foundation of marriage takes time to build, during that time while they're building which might take around 8 years if she started dating at 21, can a man wait that long/ can u wait that long? (that was my question.)
What's with the emphasis on women!?I feel like the problem with us is that we make it seem as if God requires virginity and holiness from women whereas that is not the case. I just hate how whenever the conversation of virginity is being spoken about it always sounds like it's expected from women only especially in the christian community which is honestly horrible teaching.Hence we have men who are able to be players and sleeping with different women all their lives but expect to marry a virgin!! 😑 I honestly believe we could do better than to continue teaching virginity to women. Upright living,a body that is sanctified for God, living a holy life holistically is what God requires from us both male and female.
And also we should stop minimizing God's standards to our worldy standards,what God requires is purity(this includes our conduct,speech posture of our heart, forgiveness and so on😮💨). Virginity is not a sign of how good of a person you are self controlled? yes definitely but above being virgins we should really be careful that we don't get deceived to think that we are good but be humble enough to seek cleansing of the heart,be pure.
This is true, God expects both man and women to be holy, and if you read the Bible especially 1 Corinthians , Pauls mostly urges man to keep themselves from sexual immorality. So it’s not only expected from women.
She answered so well. ❤ He tried to trick her. You can slip no matter how many times, it's a journey you are learning. Man is born into sin, and hence, we will slip, we ask for forgiveness and God's grace, and we keep trying or keep moving. You as a person will know weather you being honest to yourself in your journey or not. If a mistake happened don't beat yourself up. ❤
I personally believe we ought to fear God above all. We ought to obey the whole Word of God. Sex is not a mistake it comes from lust. We are tempted when we are drawn away / attracted by our , OUR OWN lust. Meaning we need to be mindful of what we desire, our lusts and pray about them. I know the power of virginity and celibacy spirituality. We can all repent and start over. But we need to start afresh in God. I lost a lot of opportunities to get married because I refused to have sex out of marriage, but I wasn’t a virgin. Galatians 5:24 is a verse to confess when tempted. Always ask help from the Holy Spirit. Be a faithful bride understanding that you are the church and should be blameless before Christ.
It makes sense as to why those men couldn't stay, it felt unfair for them. If you want to get married rather find a guy who is not a virgin but repented to God and is now celibate. Or a virgin guy who myb will try to understand you. Since nothing is impossible with God it doesnt mean it won't be tricky. Good luck.
This is the most kind, loving, gentle and sympathetic I’ve ever seen her be to women… And I thank God because she is so anointed from what I could decipher from her other videos. Coz you really clinch your teeth throughout to get the gems she was saying. This! Exactly this. There is so much of you we need to hear. When truth AND love go together, transformation is not too far behind. Because then a ‘BETTER’ life is accessible for the people who actually need it. Keep at it (WITH LOVE).
This lady is too wise for her age, we need people like her, who can tell others that Jesus lives and still saves hence people go thruogh so much judgement by so called "holy Christians" who fail to interceed and recieve others with true love of God. . It's just now I understand what it meant to be a virgin and wait for mirriage in my late 30's becuase nobody taught me, or prayed on my behalf as a child. I want to tell someone reading this that The love of God surpases all understanding and judgement from people, don.t value youself by your past mistakes because when you give your life to Jesus, His BLOOD washes away everything. We must not base purity on virginity only,. Others stole, smoked, did all lot of things, even in their heart without acting, thats's also sinning. We must know this: By His grace we got saved and transformed through the Holy Spirit. That's why testimonies of faith and revival saves lives. If a man still judges you by your past, he has not seen or experienced Jesus and has no TRUELOVE. If ever I don't get that man, I won't get married.
I feel that the hoster is a bit biased, When the Bible teaches that the people perish because of lack of knowledge, it's so true!!!. Let's make it a habit to learn to know the Bible, it has the do' and the don't with love
True with everything you said but the last part is quite far fetched. Past matters and I can guarantee you people will shame you for it as a way of showing there are consequences to every action so as to teach the younger generation to avoid bad actions. Outside spirituality there is reality, in that reality there are people. God may have forgiven you for your past mistakes which is what matters most as you're building the foundation of your journey to the Kingdom of God but humans are humans, if we don't shame/ punish certain things ppl will keep on doing things in the name of getting forgiven. Would u date a man that was a "R@pi$t" but found Jesus? I'm pretty sure no. Even in the Bible(the old testament specifically) death punishment by stoning was prescribed for several crimes. The interpretation of this is that as much as your sins are forgiven by God, as long as you live on Earth reality/ earthly punishment still exists. When u get to heaven that's where you'll get to enjoy the benefits of finding Jesus but here on Earth, it will be hard for you but who cares abt Earth coz u're leaving anyways. It's ohk if u don't find a man, u can teach younger girls who aspire to find love and get married how your chances were messed up thru lack of knowledge and u found it when it was too late. This will teach them to avoid your mistakes and you'll be fulfilled. Nobody's perfect but there are consequences to all our actions.❤❤❤
@@gisellethebunny I agree it's true, but God works in mysterious ways. You'll be shocked to think you can't get married to a certain type but we know God prepares our heart 1st, and through deep deliverance and baptism of the Holy Spirit your husband can be an ex convict of any crime, for eg..CeCe Winans husband for instance. Only this testimonies are for those Jesus use in His Ministry. If your ordinary it's true you can't marry anyone, but for being used in the body of Christ anything is possible. Hence what I've said abt marriage at the end of my comment. Thank you by the way🙂
@@jabulilenenzhelele2179 Celibacy is when you stop having s*x … Obstinance is deciding to never start having it until marriage.. Rori is doing the latter
Wena you have spoken your truth. And try and until you get where you want to be with God. What age keep on trying don't listen to those who are unsettle by good change.
It's fulfilling to walk with Jesus & there's no condemnation in Him. We are the righteousness of God through Christ. Christian ladies don't claim perfection nor are we Holy,.as no one is perfect except for Jesus. Nje
The past does matter. A good wife/husband comes from a good Girl/Boy. Yes people change but do you really want to take that horrible journey with them? Habits are really difficult to change. If you disagree, try losing weight,eating clean,try to develop a new habit and youll see how difficult it is. And then you want to tell me a person will miraculously change over night because of a silver/gold ring on their finger? Good Luck
Firstly, let's clarify the difference between celibacy and abstinence. Abstinence and celibacy: Sexual abstinence, also known as continence, is abstaining from some or all aspects of sexual activity, often for some limited period of time, while celibacy may be defined as a voluntary religious vow not to marry or engage in sexual activity. If you "Slip" as Siphesihle calls it, and want to try again in "waiting" you are then abstaining from sex . So please let's stop getting it mixed up with celibacy. Just saying.
God requires sexual purity. Celibacy or abstinence may involve other sexual acts but no sexual intercourse. And God requires sexual purity from both the married and unmarried. It supercedes celibacy/ abstinence.
Welldone to her for preserving her purity. I love this conversation. I wish it can lean in the middle, not only on women being pure because no woman takes their own virginity. A man is involved. But i get that she is a lady encouraging other ladies. I sensed some mocking there about ladies who make mistakes. I wanna say even if it was not a mistake, a man would have enticed the woman into the act if she found herself in that position...
You can be a virgin yet still live in impurity bcz there are virgins who do other sexual things guys. The Christ standard is to live in holiness of mind, body & soul. Virginity is not about keeping yourself for a man, it's about keeping yourself Holy for God. So if you're a virgin - Stay like that, it's good. It doesn't define your worth. If you're not a virgin - Be celibate💁♀️ it doesn't define your worth.
As people we are intertwined, our actions affect others as well, directly or indirectly so. If we truly care about others, we then think about the consequences of our everyday actions. I love women and people in general who speak truth and sense like her❤😊
Why you focus on women only because God didn't say women should keep themselves till they get married, both men and women they're bodies are temple of God.
Getting married does not guarantee that the relationship wont fail. Honesty with yourself is the most important thing. Men should also keep themselves for their wives. However, Jesus was not born in marriage, remember Mary and Joseph were not marriage but engage. That is why Christianity is about the individual first before they venture into marriage. So the first pursuit should be Christ and marriage if God has granted you the gift of marriage will follow because not everyone has that gift hence the highest divorce rate is in the Christian faith. Balanced knowledge and understanding is extremely important.
Why r we the only 1ns who r supposed to have a certain standard as women, what about who are on the streets 😢 how many woman have suffered and died bcoz of the man in the streets 😢... Man of the streets are more dangerous and brutal more than woman of the streets, they affect the whole family, Bcoz they are the head of the family
Love this girl. A pure definition, distinctly so, between sfebe and not sfebe. God protects and flourishes her for the nation. Yeap, for the women to learn how to respect themselves. It's tiring to learn that promiscuity is the in thing and the most valued among our girl children and sisters. Brothers, be careful. You might be unlucky and marry a prostitute if you are not careful...
This guy's questioning is not on...imagine "how long is someone allowed to slip foe?" The bible says you should work out your salvation in fear and trembling. It's a constant battle. Also if she's a Christian she's supposed to answer with scripture.
Even if you move to a new environment and become celibate please tell the serious guy you meet the whole truth about your past, he'll still love you if he really loves you. Lying is evil. Especially when you involve someone. GOD, doesn't like lies.
The mistake a lot of Christian women make is wanting the next person to uphold our boundaries. We must not assume that pursuing celibacy is shared just because you've had revelation and been convicted. Your revelation will require a certain amount of responsibility. That is all.
I guess that is why the Bible calls Christians to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. That way, both individuals can have and uphold similar Biblical values.
I Thank God That Stealing Sugar and Having Sex Before Mariage Is Same Sin To God....Even Any Tiny Evil Thought Without Speaking Is Sin....She's Quite OK.....❤🎉
Ai I don't hear you girl...honestly I pray God will help you to proclaim the gospel fearlessly. The guy interviewing you is giving pressure...next interview or open door please go deep and inquire o the Lord
Bible say if you continue sinning when you come to the light of Jesus, you are crucifiying him again. The moral is that you don't go to fire knowing that you gonna burn so I don't buy slipping issue because before you sleep with a woman or a man you first play it in your mind and heart before it happens. You do it in your mind and heart before you do it physically. No one forces you but you give in to the lust of the flesh which leads to sexual sin.
I don't think the concept that you can slip and continue with your journey is relevant or appeals to this virginity scenario. She is encouraging freedom of slipping😂😂
Celibacy means not having sex for a period of time.... for example if u celibate for three years straight and then the following day you happen to sleep with someone or one nightstand..... Now you can't wake up tomorrow and say am still "Celibate" no! u not anymore. whether u intended to have a one nightstand or slept with someone. kyfana you broke it!!! Im very disappointed with the guest yall brought...cause she's super uninformed and confused herself.
Bro!!! Christians wait for marriage nje and there’s no in between.. There is no “I will slip” but still continue hhaaaybo. We wait for marriage, the Bible makes it very clear.
This is absolute nonsense. You can't be slipping into sex with some guy then when u meet your potential husband he has to wait until his assets have now become yours before he chows. And nonsensical to say u can be celibate once u have had sex.
@@wazha1000 True, that's playing with some poor guy,😂😂😂 God may have forgiven the gal for slipping but it's best she finds a guy who once slipped and is then celibate. Virgin guys should marry virgin gals. Reality is Virgin guys will marry non-virgin gals who slipped😂💔, Non-virgin guys will marry both virgin or Non-virgin gals.
@@leegaleaglenombo9430True but if her goal was to hopefully get married and multiply, it's a waste of her fertile years. She could've invested in healthy relationships with someone whose value aligns with hers and they could've gotten married and made babies. Only if she had that goal but if that was not the case then it makes sense.
@leegaleaglenombo9430 True but if one of her goals was to hopefully to get married and multiply, it's a waste of her fertile years. She could've invested in a healthy relationship with someone whose values align with hers and they get married and have kids. Only if she had that goal if not, makes sense.
@@gisellethebunny You cannot force marriage. If she wants to get married but cannot find a suitable mate, she is wise by staying unmarried! A lot of people have made terribly mistakes by forcing relationships with people they were not comapatible with just because they were worried about age. This also why your reasons should mature as you age. You can start by just abstaining but as you get older involve God so people do not confuse you by projecting their own expectations. God is a long term kind of person, she might not have a family in this short troubled life of 60/70 years but God will see to it bless her in ways beyond our expectations.
It is not about being a virgin. Someone who became a Christian at a later stage in life can be celibate even though they aren't virgins. It's one of the standards of holiness (sexual purity) as it keeps your marriage bed undefiled. This is not exclusive to penetrative sex, it includes all sexual acts. It is also not a standard reserved for women (as many people, including the host, assume).
I love her common sense, she is not here expecting everyone to be holy, but she really want us to see the light and the love of God.... ❤❤
THESE women are a rare find, we want our children to marry this breed. The Rorisang of South Africa are the princesses we want to raise in our families, our daughters must follow and love this
You want your daughter to be a virgin at 35, being 35 and a virgin is def not a flex, if she was such a good woman why no man at that old age has not seen her worthy of marriage.
I'm not saying ladies shouldn't be chaste but virginity is not synonymous to good character. And realistically speaking, a young gal (virgin at 18) can meet a guy (21) at varsity (since men want gals to build with them) how long will take the guy to be ready for marriage financially, around age 28-30. As a guy would u wait for that long for marriage? it will be as though the girl has only virginity to offer.
If her virginity goes, will she lose her good feminine character?
@@gisellethebunny True💯💯 , he might give an example with his granny who got married as a virgin, if he checks the age our grannies got married at and how old our grandfathers were (prolly 20 years while grandfather was 30) there was no dating and getting to know each other and building together. Teaching good character is what's vital, which likely results in a lower body count.
@@gisellethebunny
Your response is full of many contradictions, I applaud all women who uphold an upright moral standard. They are not in lust and that makes them healthy, spiritually, mentally and physically. They will offer loyalty to the one husband rather than have the opportunity to cheat in marriage. Preservation means they will avoid (1) Being slept by different boys before her marriage (2) Different children from different fathers (3) Being delayed from growing in their academics and career (4) To be emotionally mature for marriage in their 30s.
For your information, you have more chances of divorce when you start dating earlier than at a ripe age
@gisellethebunny You are not a born again Christian, one can hear. It's okay, but not all men think like you.
If I may ask, how did I contradict myself? A lady's best years of finding the best mate is age 21 to 30, age 30 the quality of men start declining, as well as her biological clock is on the decline. Age 35, fertility issues surface. Now realistically speaking a gal dating in her prime years is not bad (as she needs to pick the best man she can get while she has time), if she makes the right choice and is feminine she can retain that man, mind you the foundation of marriage takes time to build, during that time while they're building which might take around 8 years if she started dating at 21, can a man wait that long/ can u wait that long? (that was my question.)
What's with the emphasis on women!?I feel like the problem with us is that we make it seem as if God requires virginity and holiness from women whereas that is not the case. I just hate how whenever the conversation of virginity is being spoken about it always sounds like it's expected from women only especially in the christian community which is honestly horrible teaching.Hence we have men who are able to be players and sleeping with different women all their lives but expect to marry a virgin!! 😑
I honestly believe we could do better than to continue teaching virginity to women.
Upright living,a body that is sanctified for God, living a holy life holistically is what God requires from us both male and female.
As a man, who might or might not be allowed to opine on this matter, I must say that *THIS* is the comment that I was looking for🤌
And also we should stop minimizing God's standards to our worldy standards,what God requires is purity(this includes our conduct,speech posture of our heart, forgiveness and so on😮💨). Virginity is not a sign of how good of a person you are self controlled? yes definitely but above being virgins we should really be careful that we don't get deceived to think that we are good but be humble enough to seek cleansing of the heart,be pure.
Every weird how pureness & virginity is centred around women. So men must just sleep around & expect to later marry virgins 😂😂
@@RayOfLetsatsi sleep around with which women that must also be virgins 😢
This is true, God expects both man and women to be holy, and if you read the Bible especially 1 Corinthians , Pauls mostly urges man to keep themselves from sexual immorality. So it’s not only expected from women.
The gospel is about preaching & saving the sinners not for the righteous to judge. There no levels or gender to sin
She answered so well. ❤
He tried to trick her. You can slip no matter how many times, it's a journey you are learning. Man is born into sin, and hence, we will slip, we ask for forgiveness and God's grace, and we keep trying or keep moving. You as a person will know weather you being honest to yourself in your journey or not. If a mistake happened don't beat yourself up. ❤
Why is it is about women only,why can’t boys and men preserve themself as well?
True, she should've asked him that question 😂😂
Hi,
Women are the gatekeepers and we hold more power than what we are aware of!
Right? Why does the woman have to hold herself but these men don't
It's not a must to abstain it's not even a must to engage in sex is all about self decision..male or female
Because it is rare to find men that are celibate. Or they are there but can’t be found just as me. I’m a celibate man but can’t be found.
I personally believe we ought to fear God above all. We ought to obey the whole Word of God. Sex is not a mistake it comes from lust. We are tempted when we are drawn away / attracted by our , OUR OWN lust. Meaning we need to be mindful of what we desire, our lusts and pray about them. I know the power of virginity and celibacy spirituality. We can all repent and start over. But we need to start afresh in God. I lost a lot of opportunities to get married because I refused to have sex out of marriage, but I wasn’t a virgin. Galatians 5:24 is a verse to confess when tempted. Always ask help from the Holy Spirit. Be a faithful bride understanding that you are the church and should be blameless before Christ.
It makes sense as to why those men couldn't stay, it felt unfair for them.
If you want to get married rather find a guy who is not a virgin but repented to God and is now celibate. Or a virgin guy who myb will try to understand you. Since nothing is impossible with God it doesnt mean it won't be tricky.
Good luck.
@@gisellethebunny For He who promised is faithful.
This is the most kind, loving, gentle and sympathetic I’ve ever seen her be to women…
And I thank God because she is so anointed from what I could decipher from her other videos. Coz you really clinch your teeth throughout to get the gems she was saying.
This! Exactly this. There is so much of you we need to hear. When truth AND love go together, transformation is not too far behind.
Because then a ‘BETTER’ life is accessible for the people who actually need it.
Keep at it (WITH LOVE).
This lady is too wise for her age, we need people like her, who can tell others that Jesus lives and still saves hence people go thruogh so much judgement by so called "holy Christians" who fail to interceed and recieve others with true love of God. . It's just now I understand what it meant to be a virgin and wait for mirriage in my late 30's becuase nobody taught me, or prayed on my behalf as a child. I want to tell someone reading this that The love of God surpases all understanding and judgement from people, don.t value youself by your past mistakes because when you give your life to Jesus, His BLOOD washes away everything. We must not base purity on virginity only,. Others stole, smoked, did all lot of things, even in their heart without acting, thats's also sinning. We must know this: By His grace we got saved and transformed through the Holy Spirit. That's why testimonies of faith and revival saves lives. If a man still judges you by your past, he has not seen or experienced Jesus and has no TRUELOVE. If ever I don't get that man, I won't get married.
I feel that the hoster is a bit biased, When the Bible teaches that the people perish because of lack of knowledge, it's so true!!!.
Let's make it a habit to learn to know the Bible, it has the do' and the don't with love
True with everything you said but the last part is quite far fetched.
Past matters and I can guarantee you people will shame you for it as a way of showing there are consequences to every action so as to teach the younger generation to avoid bad actions. Outside spirituality there is reality, in that reality there are people. God may have forgiven you for your past mistakes which is what matters most as you're building the foundation of your journey to the Kingdom of God but humans are humans, if we don't shame/ punish certain things ppl will keep on doing things in the name of getting forgiven.
Would u date a man that was a "R@pi$t" but found Jesus? I'm pretty sure no.
Even in the Bible(the old testament specifically) death punishment by stoning was prescribed for several crimes. The interpretation of this is that as much as your sins are forgiven by God, as long as you live on Earth reality/ earthly punishment still exists. When u get to heaven that's where you'll get to enjoy the benefits of finding Jesus but here on Earth, it will be hard for you but who cares abt Earth coz u're leaving anyways. It's ohk if u don't find a man, u can teach younger girls who aspire to find love and get married how your chances were messed up thru lack of knowledge and u found it when it was too late. This will teach them to avoid your mistakes and you'll be fulfilled.
Nobody's perfect but there are consequences to all our actions.❤❤❤
@@gisellethebunny I agree it's true, but God works in mysterious ways. You'll be shocked to think you can't get married to a certain type but we know God prepares our heart 1st, and through deep deliverance and baptism of the Holy Spirit your husband can be an ex convict of any crime, for eg..CeCe Winans husband for instance. Only this testimonies are for those Jesus use in His Ministry. If your ordinary it's true you can't marry anyone, but for being used in the body of Christ anything is possible. Hence what I've said abt marriage at the end of my comment. Thank you by the way🙂
people need to learn the difference between celibacy and abstaining ....
What is the difference?
👂👂👂👂
@@Zy-goteyou can abstain from sex but masturbate,so celibacy is a no ejaculation at all
@@Zy-gote abstinence is just staying away from sex, celibacy is staying away from sex for religious purposes
@@jabulilenenzhelele2179 Celibacy is when you stop having s*x … Obstinance is deciding to never start having it until marriage.. Rori is doing the latter
Celebate life is very fulfilling. And the blessing of God that come from the obedience of sexual purity are amazing.
I understand her,it's similar to fasting you slip you try again...that's the idea
In my last relationship I told myself that her past didn’t matter. I learned a very painful lesson.
😂😂Askies
What do you mean then?
😂😂😂😂😂
Haha, a cheetah cannot hide its spots for long. Sooner or later the signs will show.
😂🤣🤣🤣😭😂😭
I love this woman she's straight forward
Wena you have spoken your truth. And try and until you get where you want to be with God. What age keep on trying don't listen to those who are unsettle by good change.
I so love how she is preparing repentance ❤ cz we are different and we will always sin.
I love this lady, she is authentic 😊
It's fulfilling to walk with Jesus & there's no condemnation in Him.
We are the righteousness of God through Christ.
Christian ladies don't claim perfection nor are we Holy,.as no one is perfect except for Jesus.
Nje
I love this. There is a different and better way of living. One that is filled with peace and joy.
The past does matter. A good wife/husband comes from a good Girl/Boy.
Yes people change but do you really want to take that horrible journey with them?
Habits are really difficult to change. If you disagree, try losing weight,eating clean,try to develop a new habit and youll see how difficult it is.
And then you want to tell me a person will miraculously change over night because of a silver/gold ring on their finger?
Good Luck
So true.
You’re right. Marriage doesn’t cure whoredom
True
People don't change just like that phuck no
Yes!
I used to disagree with her, now i finally get her. I love her
💯 changing your surroundings influences your desires and passions in life
Amen child of God may you remain strong. May you keep feeding your spiritual man
Firstly, let's clarify the difference between celibacy and abstinence.
Abstinence and celibacy: Sexual abstinence, also known as continence, is abstaining from some or all aspects of sexual activity, often for some limited period of time, while celibacy may be defined as a voluntary religious vow not to marry or engage in sexual activity.
If you "Slip" as Siphesihle calls it, and want to try again in "waiting" you are then abstaining from sex . So please let's stop getting it mixed up with celibacy. Just saying.
Well said
True
God requires sexual purity. Celibacy or abstinence may involve other sexual acts but no sexual intercourse.
And God requires sexual purity from both the married and unmarried. It supercedes celibacy/ abstinence.
gal u are so full of wisdom.U are blessed
She is smart, and for her age, I can easily tell she has a bright future. ❤
I don't get ppl not liking Sihle she's a gem and so wise ❤❤
Welldone to her for preserving her purity. I love this conversation. I wish it can lean in the middle, not only on women being pure because no woman takes their own virginity. A man is involved.
But i get that she is a lady encouraging other ladies. I sensed some mocking there about ladies who make mistakes. I wanna say even if it was not a mistake, a man would have enticed the woman into the act if she found herself in that position...
Sport on Sihle👌Love your logic😇🙌
She is very wise❤
At 1:30 was epic, the smile on Penuel was priceless.
Hay "oSlipped"! Penuel knows and if you know you know!
You can be a virgin yet still live in impurity bcz there are virgins who do other sexual things guys.
The Christ standard is to live in holiness of mind, body & soul.
Virginity is not about keeping yourself for a man, it's about keeping yourself Holy for God.
So if you're a virgin - Stay like that, it's good. It doesn't define your worth.
If you're not a virgin - Be celibate💁♀️ it doesn't define your worth.
😂when he said mistake I immediately liked the video
She’s a diamond 💎
Damit!! she is smart, I love it
As people we are intertwined, our actions affect others as well, directly or indirectly so. If we truly care about others, we then think about the consequences of our everyday actions. I love women and people in general who speak truth and sense like her❤😊
Where are our BOYS bathong. Why girls have to go public about it, purity is for both
Cause boys are shamed but there are virgin boys
Women despise virgin guys
Why you focus on women only because God didn't say women should keep themselves till they get married, both men and women they're bodies are temple of God.
Peaceful yes
Perfect Sayings Girl❤
I agree that a woman's behavior always gives away her body count. This is why it's important to take time to get to know her.
Too wise in her age. This generation now they don't know anything besides social media
"Accountability would always enrich those taking charge of their life"
Love this girl, her parents must be really proud ❤
Proud of what?
Getting married does not guarantee that the relationship wont fail. Honesty with yourself is the most important thing. Men should also keep themselves for their wives. However, Jesus was not born in marriage, remember Mary and Joseph were not marriage but engage. That is why Christianity is about the individual first before they venture into marriage. So the first pursuit should be Christ and marriage if God has granted you the gift of marriage will follow because not everyone has that gift hence the highest divorce rate is in the Christian faith. Balanced knowledge and understanding is extremely important.
Speak my sister ❤❤
"What mighty contests arise from trivial things" - Alex Pope
Why r we the only 1ns who r supposed to have a certain standard as women, what about who are on the streets 😢 how many woman have suffered and died bcoz of the man in the streets 😢... Man of the streets are more dangerous and brutal more than woman of the streets, they affect the whole family, Bcoz they are the head of the family
3:23 well said Sihle ❤
Love this girl. A pure definition, distinctly so, between sfebe and not sfebe. God protects and flourishes her for the nation. Yeap, for the women to learn how to respect themselves.
It's tiring to learn that promiscuity is the in thing and the most valued among our girl children and sisters. Brothers, be careful. You might be unlucky and marry a prostitute if you are not careful...
Very true hey.You continue ..
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This guy's questioning is not on...imagine "how long is someone allowed to slip foe?" The bible says you should work out your salvation in fear and trembling. It's a constant battle. Also if she's a Christian she's supposed to answer with scripture.
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Well said🙌
Innocent soul , are different than sinners
It's for us who knows the will of God
❤❤❤proud of you Spesh❤️
Feminine women are the most beautiful and will always be the most desirable women ever.
very well spoken
Lukewarm answers.
Noted.
Slip or sleep cacisa Sisi
Ukushibilika 😂😂😂
Yeah Consequences Are Different In Their Severity
How did I end up here
Child of the most favourite??!! Ai Penuel uyadeheleng lol
Did we get the slip part though?
Ndiyakuthanda mntam. Kanti why is this episode soo short?
Even if you move to a new environment and become celibate please tell the serious guy you meet the whole truth about your past, he'll still love you if he really loves you. Lying is evil. Especially when you involve someone. GOD, doesn't like lies.
The mistake a lot of Christian women make is wanting the next person to uphold our boundaries. We must not assume that pursuing celibacy is shared just because you've had revelation and been convicted. Your revelation will require a certain amount of responsibility.
That is all.
On thing about Christianity is harder than wht people think....but again is between u Nd UR God
I guess that is why the Bible calls Christians to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. That way, both individuals can have and uphold similar Biblical values.
Gents, do your research on these women. I don't care who says what
Are those things 😂😂haiboo
Celibacy is deciding never to get married or engage. What most do is abstainence
Accountability: very rare
Just start again is wild . This is how woman say it’s 3 when it’s actually 30
I Thank God That Stealing Sugar and Having Sex Before Mariage Is Same Sin To God....Even Any Tiny Evil Thought Without Speaking Is Sin....She's Quite OK.....❤🎉
Ai I don't hear you girl...honestly
I pray God will help you to proclaim the gospel fearlessly.
The guy interviewing you is giving pressure...next interview or open door please go deep and inquire o the Lord
You don't have to answer the first part........the set up was demon 😅
Penuel is a G, he just wanted to know if she's a virgin 😅😅
Jealous that kicked out of heaven because of it
So she’s done it
rorisang is a virgin
Wow
Are you keeping yourself for married???... That's stupid, never keep yourself for someone people change you can't trust someone.
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There is no marriage in Heaven, Jesus said those who belong here will marry but those who belong to the Kingdom they don't do marriage
Ey amakholwa ayasijaja bandla. 😂
0:50 ish, but our sister stuttered yoh. Lol
She didn’t stutter. She was clear in her answer. Answered her question very well at that. Very sober minded in her thought.
@@thattechgirl2979very confident young lady
Bible say if you continue sinning when you come to the light of Jesus, you are crucifiying him again. The moral is that you don't go to fire knowing that you gonna burn so I don't buy slipping issue because before you sleep with a woman or a man you first play it in your mind and heart before it happens. You do it in your mind and heart before you do it physically. No one forces you but you give in to the lust of the flesh which leads to sexual sin.
I don't think the concept that you can slip and continue with your journey is relevant or appeals to this virginity scenario. She is encouraging freedom of slipping😂😂
Full of wisdom🥹❤️
Celibacy means not having sex for a period of time....
for example if u celibate for three years straight and then the following day you happen to sleep with someone or one nightstand.....
Now you can't wake up tomorrow and say am still "Celibate" no! u not anymore. whether u intended to have a one nightstand or slept with someone. kyfana you broke it!!!
Im very disappointed with the guest yall brought...cause she's super uninformed and confused herself.
Okay❤
fail but get back up is what i got but you did not so sure
She is very confused because she conflated african cultures with Christianity which was honestly jarring.
Bro!!! Christians wait for marriage nje and there’s no in between.. There is no “I will slip” but still continue hhaaaybo. We wait for marriage, the Bible makes it very clear.
Who is making up these rules?
This is absolute nonsense. You can't be slipping into sex with some guy then when u meet your potential husband he has to wait until his assets have now become yours before he chows. And nonsensical to say u can be celibate once u have had sex.
@@wazha1000 True, that's playing with some poor guy,😂😂😂 God may have forgiven the gal for slipping but it's best she finds a guy who once slipped and is then celibate. Virgin guys should marry virgin gals.
Reality is Virgin guys will marry non-virgin gals who slipped😂💔, Non-virgin guys will marry both virgin or Non-virgin gals.
Where are you with the whole thing? Are you positioned to judge her ?
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My girls sister is 32 and a virgin. My question to her was why is she not married. That’s a waste of her good fertile years.
It's never a waste if one's objective is to please God!
If you were a Christian you would have never said that to your girls sister😏
@@leegaleaglenombo9430True but if her goal was to hopefully get married and multiply, it's a waste of her fertile years. She could've invested in healthy relationships with someone whose value aligns with hers and they could've gotten married and made babies. Only if she had that goal but if that was not the case then it makes sense.
@leegaleaglenombo9430
True but if one of her goals was to hopefully to get married and multiply, it's a waste of her fertile years.
She could've invested in a healthy relationship with someone whose values align with hers and they get married and have kids.
Only if she had that goal if not, makes sense.
@@gisellethebunny You cannot force marriage. If she wants to get married but cannot find a suitable mate, she is wise by staying unmarried! A lot of people have made terribly mistakes by forcing relationships with people they were not comapatible with just because they were worried about age.
This also why your reasons should mature as you age. You can start by just abstaining but as you get older involve God so people do not confuse you by projecting their own expectations. God is a long term kind of person, she might not have a family in this short troubled life of 60/70 years but God will see to it bless her in ways beyond our expectations.
Are you a virgin is an inappropriate question
The example you gave with Rorisang was good enough
How so?
Waiting for marriage is not a christian thing
Sihle is not a virgin. She could have just said so 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
It's not important
It is not about being a virgin. Someone who became a Christian at a later stage in life can be celibate even though they aren't virgins. It's one of the standards of holiness (sexual purity) as it keeps your marriage bed undefiled. This is not exclusive to penetrative sex, it includes all sexual acts. It is also not a standard reserved for women (as many people, including the host, assume).
It's really none of your business
Nothing funny here. So what if she’s not?
@@I_am_Gee_ then she's not...
Asking questions is okay, but the way you ask them is everything I ddnt like the way he asked.
I liked❤Siphe
And this is not about ladies
What a dumb conversation! Why is it about women abstaining? What about men? The line of questioning is so annoying. And a bit condescending.
Pushing a one sided agenda lmao.
Asking questions is okay, but the way you ask them is everything I ddnt like the way he asked.
I liked❤Siphe
And this is not about ladies
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