The pain of losing my mother, child and endless fights with my girlfriend's mother | Summer Family
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- Many of you know James Magalo aka Summer as the man who took someone's daughter and stayed with her for two years without her parent's blessings,
Or the man who was accused of killing his own mother and had so many people wondering why he and his girlfriend Becky were suddenly becoming, "rich and famous,,"...
But a deeper look at Summer and you will realize how broken he is and why these rumors are just too suffocating for him
In this exclusive interview, he takes Lynn Ngugi back to his life growing up, meeting Becky, losing his mother, child, and uncle at only 23, his shattered dreams and why he needs peace and blessings from Becky's mother above anything else.
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Good morning team LNN.
What message do you have for Summer?
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See you tomorrow at 10am for Becky's episode
True story .... 😭😭😭😭James was my high school mate.... Same form but different stream.... James went through alot .... It's a true story 😭😭😭
Poleni
@Lynn I wish my brother could agree to open up. He grew up in the streets alone with no one. He's been in jail several times, he would steal tajen to jail and steal again when he's released simply because in jail there was food and shelter. He's grown up now and has a family. He has not yet made it in life but for me he's an example of there's life even when you have no one.
Take heart sometimes things happen and you are so powerless and people who are close will heart you the most
@@felixmajorvlogs598 woyeee he went through
We rebuke spirit of rejection in Jesus name 👏 I thought I was alone..the only people who hurt us big are family members are relative's..Lyn one day I will open up to you my story.my name is also Becky..I pray for this young man may God open up his ways and may have a bright future.. keep up the good job Lyn👏
Am also a victim 😓 I ran away from my country I'll be back after 7yrs I need to heal 💔
I am with you in this,I decided to cut off but I'm in the healing journey
Same with me, mungu ni mungu,,,,,
7 years from today u will come here happily married with the love of your life and already achieved what you want to do in life
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏
Amen
True his star is big he will shine soon
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I love this young Man, @23 he has been through alot , yet he has remained strong and Brave, i have cried with him,and felt his pain, My advice to Summer is that he should remain strong, he reminded me of my own past, was rejected by my own family, on 3 occasions i attempted suicide, but i sat down and told myself that i will not give them an opportunity to win, God has seen me through, when i stood on my feet, i was hated more than they hated me when i had nothing, the same hatred has been passed to my daughter, like summer i always wear a brave face in public but i break down when am alone but i keep on Fighting, Summer, God created you with a purpose, chase that purpose and put God first, they are watching you and believe me, they will see you on top and will be ashamed of themselves, Mob Love and Blessings.
Seek deliverance from the spirit of rejection.Pastor Ezekiel of New Life Mombasa, Pastor John Kimani, Pastor Rai of Mombasa, Pastor Jane King'ori of Nairobi.....we live because of God's Grace.We walk strong for His favour.
Thank you Lyne for hosting this amazing couple. It only gets better from here🙏 Mungu mbele
And it's because of you we knew wot they were going through....thanks Comme
Amen....and be blessed for the shout out🙏🙏
ThankYou Comme...
I started watching these guys on their first video. Haven't watched them in a while but they're the most genuine TH-camrs I came across last year. Wishing them more success.
What's the name of there youtube channel
@@shufaaesala3511 The SUMMER FAMILY
@@patriciamarcella1360 thanks
Very true
Jemo never give up..God has season for all this..I have watched this and it really broke my heart....And I know you will be the light to your siblings.
Summer, you are young and have a full life ahead of you. Watching you has brought me so much tears , I went through that and much much more. I looked for love in the man I thought would love me. The narcissistic destroyed me and took away everything I had left, even my dignity, and threw me out with my four children , penniless and jobless.
I will be 51 in November and I am finding myself now. I want to fly higher and higher and get all my dreams into fruition. I am praying for good health and a sound mind.
Summer, you are my third born's age mate. Do not lose hope, hang in there. You will be some big person some day and you and Becky will be parents to your biological children and many more in your childrens' home. May the heavens here you. Hugs son.
23 is so young....you have your whole life ahead...your star ✨✨ is bright...dont listen to the naysayers
My dear cousin, you have really been through so much. You are too young for all this. Keep fighting, God does not slumber. He is a God of vengeance, God of miracles, You are a winner already...He is fighting for you on a daily basis. You shall live to testify of His goodness.
Keep checking on him please
If you are one of the cousins, please help him fight this . He is going to be great,I see him being more than Bahata and Jalango. Just don't be the fake cousins. This is polite . Konye Lemo be
@@azariahval9320 He remains to be my best cousin together with his sisters. They know that deep in their hearts. I consider them as my siblings
@@apparently2972 God is with us. We fight this together. We keep each other stronger through sharing
I urge you to hold this guy close, may you be that cousin that he can vow with his blood that he can count on na utabarikiwa...haikai rahisi aki
We also need to have conversation about children coming from polygamous family and how it affects them...
Summer you are such great Man! Full of wisdom. Very selfless. I would now advice you to lay off everyone from your shoulders and first heal YOU. You have a heart of gold but accept that you can't carry the world for everyone. Kwanza mama Betty, offload her completely! Be selfish for once, retract everything and gather around all energy to yourself. I really wish you can get someone to walk with you even spiritually. You are very close to your breakthrough Summer.
This is powerful.
Nimekuwa Niki watch your videos on YT all along sijawai jua unapitia haya yote kijanaa...usijali, mungu ako nawe...one day you will have a happy life with your wife/girlfriend Becky na mungu atawabariki na watoto wenu...The God we serve halali..I feel you brother❤
This story makes me think that this name 'James' is not, the same things i as James passed through. That part of teacher humiliating him i passed through, i was told that i would never go anywhere in life plus i will not go away from my village... 😭😭😭😭 i was so hurt but i thank my aunty who saw something in me and now look at me. A full grown man,working and with a family.... May God bless my aunty (Mummy)
Yes, many adults have destroyed kids destinies using their vile mouths. The solution is knowing one's self and understanding that you are not others think or say
In a world where you can be anything..be kind🙏you never know battles people fight in private.
With teary 🥹 eyes and I can’t help but whisper a word of prayer🤲 to God!
I was looking for this 💖💖
I hope he finds peace now that he has aired it out there whether people buy it or not. God's sufficient grace and strength locate them 🙏. Be blessed Lynn for providing this platform.
Ooh God bless Lynn for us,please God keep her safe and may she never lack. James God is coming through
I have shed tears James never give up God is there for you,May God heal you completely 🙏
We were put on this earth to learn to truly love however we need some wisdom in its expression, social media is a powerful tool that can be misused and exposing your personal life is a serious gamble.
Parents let's always pray for our kids who are not married yet. Let's pray for their future spouses and the families that they will marry from. They should be God fearing, kind and will accept our children as a blessing to their families. And for our children to be a blessing to them too, love and respect them and become one big family.
That's my prayer always..,sometimes the words don't come out but I believe God hears even unspoken words.
Summer if you get to read this, just know this.
Humans may be done with you but God is not done with you. Younhave gone through the most. He will uplift you in ways that people will have no choice but to give God the glory.Your story will be someone else's survival guide.
Do not give up.You are headed to greatness. It may not seem like it now but one day, everything will make sense. No experience is wasted on this earth.
Your story is not over.This too shall pass.
Hide yourself in God's word. Everyday remind yourself that "This too shall pass"
So long as you're alive you're rich.
Very true
@@gladysmoraa4818 thanks
Your presence was once your future and it will still be your past
Lynn God bless you for giving our beloved summer a platform in your show
Hakuna interview mzuri kama ya Lynn l just love interview zote zenye lynn auleta hi story nimeiona place ingine but iko more interesting hapa as long as imeletwa na our gueen Lynn
James be strong 💪 what I know in life theirs no situation that is permanent.kuna siku Mungu atakuja mwenye na haezi tumana .your smile is coming my brother😍😍hugs 🫂 🤗 from gulf.things will be fine huezi kalia hio kiti ya Lyne na life ibaki same❤❤❤
It's always okey to cry...😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭tears are prayers too🙏🙏🙏,it's gonna be okay someday, somehow James, for now, lets keep the faith
This is sad, try to be strong & continue believing.
One thing have realized in this journey of life, no one owes you anything & I mean no one. Love back those who love you & let them know. Never take anything for granted.
When choosing a life partner, choose the right parent for your kids before you choose that beautiful partner for you.
Woieee,aki he has gone through a lot of pain😭 hugs for him
James has gone through alot but he's strong, caring and humble. Parents should not reject their kids, they need love, support and blessings from them. I salute you Lynn, you're a such amazing soul, more blessings to you.
Let's all speak up
Looking forward to a mental free Society
Oh no!!!!
This guy is going through alot!!!
I totally relate to this story,my dad rejected my boyfriend back then,we tried talking to him but could hear none of it!!
And now as a parent,I will only guide n support my children n pray for them to make wise decisions
This brother still in pain, a heavy pain he need more cancelling to forget the past so that he can move on easily,
The guy is so strong but the pain of the past still hand him, so that he may move on with his life, so sad may God bless this man .
Ata mungu Ako na utajili wake sio setani tu anaeza Fanya utajilike, take heart young man and may God help you to overcome all this
The boy looks together na stevo wa comrades flavor
Kumbe ume notice 🤪
Kweli
😂😂😂
Tuko pamoja
Together,???
Polygamy works but it requires a very strong and inentional man.
He has gone through so much in life, he is a brave one. He speaks so wisely and from his words he is a very caring and loving young man who has a pure heart. May God see him through and may everything in his life change for the better. He deserves everything good the world can offer for him and for the sake of all his siblings whom he so much yearns for to have a better life too.
James you have a great destiny and the enemy has been fighting it. May God fight your battles from now henceforth.
I wish parents should support children no matter what. Depression is killing many. WHY
cut off toxic relatives my mom died on feb this yr and i dont talk to some of my siblings for the sake of my peace
There's a God in heaven, who never sleeps nor slumbers, you are stronger than you think , God will fight for you...
Sometimes I wonder who trained our teachers back then because some used to be very cruel.
I thank God I've got an amazing relationship with my students and we're best of friends.
I correct them in love and they know when they're wrong.
I was so emotional with this story…my tears keep on falling while hearing his story about the family😔be strong Summer…i’m praying for peace in your heart…God is with you,just be strong enough to face all the challenge and trials in life.Forgive those people whose heart is close for love keep on believing that love is within our hearts and i wish you peace and love that never ends❤️God love’s you and He will bless you more…sending love from Philippines❤️❤️❤️Be strong🙏
One of the problems with polygamous union is that it affects the lives of the children. Many people don't think bout that when they get into such unions
Have stick to summer story from where it begun,,I feel how it pains😓,I can relate to my life of living in a polygamous marriage where dad favours one side of the family😓growing up is just by Gods grace🙏,after you have done with secondary level,, that's the end of your education🤔,unless you struggle on your own...Taking parental responsibility is not bad,,but it's a burden my friend,,moreso for someone in a situation like James..you undergo alot and at the same time you sacrifice yourself for the better tomorrow of your siblings...God knows you well, He loves you so much.whenever you feel weak and tired,may He renew your mind,give you strength and energy to overcome the challenges 🙏may the lord use you as a source of blessings in your family.If He can move you from January to December,He will surely move you from story to victory,grass to Grace,shame to fame and from glory to glory in Jesus name 🙏
I start with tear and finished with tears. May God see you and your siblings through.
I have learnt not judge young pple who couple most of them are after love en safety which has never been offered,love u summer family
Thanks for coming out to share your story
Every great man has bad story behind them.
I have learnt that a parent is soo important in childrens lives, this has made me soo sad. Poor guy, so soft spoken and well spoken kid.
Rejection is like a curse it drags from generation to generation, he is going through what his mum went through u just need deliverance and I don't advocate for young love the pre 25 brain is always wrong at most instance but if believe in your love .
So true..at 23 ashsishi na dem for 2yrs? This works easily only in Europe.,kwa Africa ni mashida tu.
Most of our parents got married at that age even at 18 so there's nothing wrong with them being together. All we can do now is to Pray for them and wish them well. Not telling them that it's wrong.
@@FaithGrace_Feeygee we aren't our parents .
Probably you didn't understand the circumstances that made them live together
@@joycemaina1621 I did that why I said I don't advocate for pre 25 marriages they could have easily dated them moved in when matured well enough, what we aren't telling them ni a marriage or settling without parental blessing haiendangi mbali ,na mzazi akiwa na hasira it could led to a curse and this case Iko justified juu the girl was rebellious hence the constant back and forth na mzazi, watasema wanapendana then settle years later the butterflies they thought they felt ziishe then hapo wataelewa for now let wait and see , am talking from a personal experience I thought my mum had bad intentions towards me and married early I was blinded by love 3 years later ,I was dumped broken and desperate with nothing to far back to ,I had to seek for forgiveness but it has been years the betray from the man I thought loved me has never left unless their path is different ,mm nasema I wish I listened to my parent the but huezi elewa hii ,Wacha wapiganie mapenzi hope thing turn out different for them.
Why am I crying aki ..summer God is with you and I wish you happiness
God bless you Lynn, James went home a different man after sharing his story to you.
So touching 😢 may you find peace and happiness that you're looking for bro in Jesus name.
Can this woman leave this children in peace?????
The Lord listens and sees every tear that falls...blessings summer🙏
Sorry summer God is in control so dont loose hope continue pressing on n cut off toxic people around you.To our society,polygamous can favour you in person as second or third wife but its the kids that suffer the concequences of your decision.
Why can't pple mind their business,.this is a very young couple and the only thing they needed is support,..may he find peace
I couldn't hold my tears, on this James story
Mama Becky bless this children pliz.This boy is very sharp and you Don't what will aspire tomorrow.
I never knew whether the summer family is going through this😭😭😭, something which they don't deserve,,, but it shall be well Summer and GOD is on your side.
Lnn God bless you alot my God open all the doors of blessings to this young boy my brother believe that there his God in heaven and you will never cry again in Jesus name
May God bless you for the stories you highlight in your channel. I can't resist the tears flowing as i watch....and am one that ever cries even when mourning!
U have got a new subscriber summer family, God bless u mightily
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Even as you get all help… also seek spiritual help.. you need Jesus to arise and break the pain… Pain has been thrown to you… James you’re a great man and God love’s you
My heart 💕 is bleeding 💔💔 ,,,,,this episode as really touched my heart,,,,have never cried before ,,, this one has made me shade tears 😭😭😭😭hugs huggsss bro ,,,,,@lynn ngugu ,,,thumbs up for touching lives
May God come through for him and may he find peace and Lynn thank you so much for this episode 🙏
Kinjana, God have good plans with both of you.
I am sure you will come back to inform us ur Progress 🙏🙏
Dear summer past has turn into summer what you have to know all the scars you have from the past are gonna be budges of honours
Best thing we give to this couple is to subscribe to their Chanel. I just did
no one sees and talks to lynn na asisaidike you came to the right parent you dont need any other.lynn sijui tutakulipa aje aki but God sees what you do na He blesses you with a new day everyday to help us may the Lord keep you safe and healthy.
Lyn i like watch this couple it encourages me to what am going through may God bless them this is 14th time am watching this na napenda my watch nilie stress iishe😢❤❤❤ i like this couple may God always be there for them.AMEN.
So painful... sorry only God can stand with you nobody else so don't worry please and never worry Mungu akiwa please...just pray hard
I really admire you Lyn. What you do is what I look forward to do in future. Do you mentor ladies who admire you??
I would ask this as well.
Lynn?
Hello Mwangi, thank you so much. Yes I do:)
The email is pinned above
Thank you
I'll be sure to reach out to you.
God bless you!!
May God widely open doors for you 🙏🙏🙏 even if you are passing through hard times please keep smiling smile smile smile smile and smile
A great man with positive vibe a parent's love is priceless.. But all in all God brings people in your life and the bond becomes unbreakable.. Your dreams are still on.. Press on God never abandon those who still trust in Him
May God wipe away all your tears and fulfill your dreams, heart desires
Be strong young man everything will be fine just trust in God
Lynn,this boy has a shinning star,I don't know if you can understand,but let him trust God and also find a man of God.
This guy is so strong may God strengthen you and heal you. You will go places coz your heart is pure
Aki I really pray for strength, peace and may all his dreams come true . God cannot put you in a situation you cannot handle, He will be with them and stand with them in every step.
Summer is going through alot. May God see you through.
Anyone who's alive is rich 🥰🥰I like that
Hi Lynn. Am great fun of your show. You've been great pillar to many.
Kindly advice the boy to go to his church and offer sacrifice and he will have peace. May God of Heaven wipe their tears and bless them. Let them not give up.
You are strong I also struggled I thank God one of my uncle's stood with me till I did my forth form. You are going far, trust in God everything will be fine.
God help me be a better parent to my children.... praying for peace of mind to you summer 💯
Lynn you are a strong woman the burden you carry and solve for people may God just always remember you and bless you for James I have one word for you the stone that was rejected later became the cornerstone your story will end well no situation in this world is permanent you are destined for greatness. One day you will testify
Until someone lucks that parental love or lost someone you Love 😭😭plus rejection that when you will understand live is hard😔😔🤦♀️at my early 20s am working hard to change my life just for my future kids 😔🤦♀️I choose my boyfriend over my family 😭😭 this couple isn't alone 😏am in too ❤️ parents still watches my struggles rip though 😭🤦♀️
😭😭😭😭😭this story is hurting....that why mm husema vile I was raised in a toxic home ground, that toxicity I can allow it to happen to my kid's
Mama Becky forgive these children even God knows they are sorry but you have hardened your heart. God will judge you mama becky receive these kids it's not ok . Mama Becky u might get loses on this issue
Young man needs counseling. Classic case of people not being accountable to choices.
From the mom going into a toxic marriage situation from day one, this affected her kids. Teach our kids the negative effects of yoking with wrong people.
The young man "expected" help from relatives, teach our kids no one owes them anything. When the relatives decided to pay for a course you don't like remember beggars can't be choosers, the way his uncle came through (however little) is a prayer for someone else.
Then he goes into a relationship with a girl and they do "trauma bonding". He was able to take care of himself, with his background, marriage should be the last thing on his mind and expecting relatives to send him more the 1,800 ksh because he has a dependant is being very entitled.
As a mom of a 24yr old I keep telling him his action has consequences. Wrong choices of people marrying in their 20s should be a lesson taught in school. How are you going to have a dependant when yourself are a dependant?
He has gone through a lot, this is true, and all because of the emotional immaturity on his part and those who came before him.
Cycle will repeat itself if he doesn't heal and know that no one owes him anything
So true
Tourism is a very good course way better than iyo criminology. Wenye wamefanya tourism ndio wanarun tour companies, TH-camrs are also making serious money. He really needs counseling to sort his life. He doesn't need eti mama Becky's blessings she is not god
True
I was looking for a comment like this , he is just too young to be fighting a battle like this . Now he should be focusing on securing his future then getting married. Dragging the girl along in this mess is not worth it. And about the criminology thing noone owes us anything, we fight for what we want . He should be glad someone gave him money for his college. Going to his uncle’s place with becky was a big nooo and above all he should stop blaming everyone around him for his misfortunes and just work on himself
@Felister makori you should also listen to the ladys side of the story ,this guy was like a good Samaritan to the lady after her very toxic mom and Nigerian dad and the guy was the ONLY refuge ,Atleast when she could get comfort
May God heal this family,may God wipe your tears n in the next episode am convinced you will be laughing because there's God in Heaven n He's watching over you summer...
May God fight for you and wipe away your tears,the storm will be over soon.
i am praying for this young man with full of life may God see you through and you shall emerge a winner God above all and nothing is too difficult for God, he moves mountains and your mountain is a small hill to our God all i can tell you James is that God loves you just invite him to your life
No one holds your blessings hostage Summer, more so if you didn't wrong them, it's even written in the bible that if you always try to harm whoever does good to you, then pain will be your portion, God is watching over you Summer, he's ever there with you a reason why you're still alive, keep pushing and trust the process, all will be well, stay positive hugs.
Nobody watches you harder than the people that don't like you..
Give them a show!
Very true, they always want to know your every move
Well said:)
Here comes the show
Wow!
Gonna steal this😀
@@damariszuckschwert9489 Go ahead..
I have never cried like this😭😭😭😭God loves you summer we love you it will be ok thank you Lynn you are amazing
These kids have gone through a lot, yet in the midst of it they were a beacon of hope to a young widow called Koko.
They were pouring her with love and grace yet they are also in their own realm of pain.
James just so you know, you can cut off family. Do not hesitate to walk away from tables where respect is not served.
Mama Becky has nothing on you. Let no one tell you she has your blessings. God commands your destiny.
True i like that God commands people's destiny
Very true
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this is where i say you have the right to cut off anyone bringing negativity in your life even if it's FAMILY !!!!! may God open doors for you Summer
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Exactly 💯
Yes it's true Lynn that person being your mum it's very difficult to cut her off Hakuna courage💔
True, that’s what I decided to do
I cut off my parents too. They chose witchcraft i chose God. They are always after my life after they killed my sister. But they sure are paying hard now
I lost my son in 2020 he committed suicide and my friends , neighbors and some relatives said that I sacrificed my son .I have gone through alot I hope one day I will get achance here to share my story .hugs to the summer family
Hugs Joyce, may the Lord keep strengthen you.
May God deal with them
Pole Sana aki
Hugs Joyce🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Dear Mumbe, sending you love and light:)
This young man is eloquent...mashaAllah.. educating a girl..is eradicating poverty......
This has directed me to pastor T's teaching on rejection...for you to get rejected there is something big and I mean a blessing in your way ..summer your are the Joseph in the bible
Amen and Amen
True am a victim of rejection
@@maryfrankngunga6468 me too but I believe that one day my story will change 🙏💪
Amen amen 🙏 🙌
Amen