Troye Sivan "The Good Side" Official Lyrics & Meaning | Verified

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  • Troye Sivan captivated listeners with his 2015 debut 'Blue Neighbourhood,' an album filled with themes of heartbreak. The viral pop singer experienced a collapsing relationship while making the album, and he reflects on the aftermath of the breakup in his new single “The Good Side.”
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  • @daisyy3631
    @daisyy3631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1606

    this hurts so much?? wtf

  • @user-ts9fp5ig9z
    @user-ts9fp5ig9z 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This song makes me stare into the void and think about all the relationships I’ve never had

  • @aylinitzel.
    @aylinitzel. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This song gets to me every time. Having been on both sides of what this song talks about, he’s absolutely right that someone always gets the short stick.

  • @MANA98
    @MANA98 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    My Tronnor heart is aching

  • @PapiTopher
    @PapiTopher 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You need to interview Bazar -Mine

  • @repita21
    @repita21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG HE WROTE THIS WITH ALLIE X AHHHHHHHHH

  • @ll-ry5ei
    @ll-ry5ei 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    love you!

  • @cgvkayy
    @cgvkayy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHY AM I CRYING, SOMEONE HELP ME

  • @layanib
    @layanib 5 ปีที่แล้ว +521

    Me: looks up Connor franta and Troye Sivan
    TH-cam: this video comes up
    Me:*chokes on tea*

  • @bellabb13
    @bellabb13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2110

    I finally understood the line about --people danced to the sound of your heart the world sang along to it falling apart- .. whenever he sang “for him” people went crazy while they didn’t know what was going on 😭 and in the end, the same song which was a gift for Connor turned into a reminder of what they no longer had. I think this is one of the saddest break ups ever (and to this day we don’t know why)

    • @SkittlesJos
      @SkittlesJos 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      OH MY GOD NOW IM CRYING

    • @dusky7611
      @dusky7611 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      yeah, oh wow, sounds horrible :/ I really liked the song For Him, but now I wont be able to listen to that in the same way..

    • @heck7186
      @heck7186 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      wow i’m crying

    • @HannahG-nk2mf
      @HannahG-nk2mf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      God I can feel the sinking in my chest, it's so sad

    • @cherriesforjm9145
      @cherriesforjm9145 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I think we know why... Troye's song Plum basically tells us he fell out of love with this really sweet guy and even though the relationship is nice and also as sweet, it isn't working for troye anymore 😭 plum is so upbeat but the lyrics are sad af

  • @miledrama6682
    @miledrama6682 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4660

    i wish i didn't know who this song is about bc now I'm crying in the ground

    • @karenalejandra3580
      @karenalejandra3580 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Wow im doing the same

    • @KyuIsCute
      @KyuIsCute 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      SIV4NCIDIO can u tell me who its about

    • @jennyblomfeldt3152
      @jennyblomfeldt3152 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Who is it about??

    • @miledrama6682
      @miledrama6682 6 ปีที่แล้ว +344

      Connor Franta, they dated a couple of years ago, I mean, none of they affirmed these rumors but it was obvious

    • @miledrama6682
      @miledrama6682 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Jenny Blomfeldt Connor Franta

  • @melaniemeier6732
    @melaniemeier6732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1052

    It’s crazy to see how in note to self we can see Connors side of the break up and how it affected him and then flip to Troyes perspective here

    • @mythilivenugopal1991
      @mythilivenugopal1991 6 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Exactly. That's what makes it so emotional for us as well because we kinda get to see both sides of the story

  • @FaithHailey
    @FaithHailey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +696

    the way he looks into the camera and says the lyrics almost seems as if he’s saying it straight to connor and ugh my heart

    • @saulgarrido7460
      @saulgarrido7460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh Jesus, you didn’t have to hit me this hard 😭

    • @hanna9007
      @hanna9007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Faith Hailey BYE

    • @nidhi9652
      @nidhi9652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah, I noticed it too. Some of them, the things he wishes he knew, he said while looking at the camera. My heart 😭

  • @Olivia-vm9pu
    @Olivia-vm9pu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    Anyone else here after Connor's new video??

    • @XXLonelyLittlePillXX
      @XXLonelyLittlePillXX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes

    • @sarahelyse8325
      @sarahelyse8325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      yes. i've loved this song for so long and i had NO IDEA about the context

    • @ashdirectioner2798
      @ashdirectioner2798 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, hello 👋

    • @taeblends
      @taeblends 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      MEEEE

    • @alma1530
      @alma1530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes and being a fan since 2013 is really hurting me because i got to see everything and i'm kinda broken

  • @apricotskies_
    @apricotskies_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +744

    Shit. I already knew that this song was filled with emotions, but having troye actually talk about it makes me so emotional. Especially when I know who the song is about

  • @gothichope4029
    @gothichope4029 6 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    it sounds like a spoken word poem and i love it

  • @Tigris797
    @Tigris797 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3522

    “I’ve been watching him from afar and I’m so proud of all that he’s accomplished”
    Connor has been taking pictures of LANY and several other big people!! he’s like quite a big time photographer!! UGH i’m so proud of how both of you have been dealing with this break up and doing well on your own paths!! also, i’m getting a little emotional 😭

    • @sarayahclark4511
      @sarayahclark4511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      Tigris 797 is it bad that I didn't know they dated. I've even read connors book and read the chapter about his first real love and now that I've seen these I kinda put the pieces today. Wow I didn't know they were actually together I thought ppl just shipped them

    • @MarieFlaaten
      @MarieFlaaten 6 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      TLC FABULOUS LIFE Many believe that Tronnor wasn’t just a ship, and even though neither Connor or Troye has confirmed it, many people still believe that they were dating. After Connor’s book and this song it really feels like they want to talk about it and give hints, but without revealing names. So yeah, they most likely were dating, but we’ll probably never actually know for sure.

    • @sarayahclark4511
      @sarayahclark4511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Marie Steinum good point

    • @KaroKaulitzHilfMirFliegen
      @KaroKaulitzHilfMirFliegen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Let's not forget they're still following each other on ig! T_T im crying again!!!!

    • @kuurak5733
      @kuurak5733 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      and u know, he like, also wrote a book and stuff,,,,,,

  • @carly7698
    @carly7698 6 ปีที่แล้ว +805

    i miss tronnor so much but i’m so happy that they both are happy

  • @eshanair
    @eshanair 6 ปีที่แล้ว +525

    "I've been watching him from afar"

    • @holliebrooke7327
      @holliebrooke7327 6 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Esha N first thing that comes to mind: "some people call it stalking i call it watching from afar"

    • @eshanair
      @eshanair 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      cuddleswithtroye omggggg. Yes💙💙💙💙

    • @holliebrooke7327
      @holliebrooke7327 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Esha N ❤️💖❤️

  • @amandopando7883
    @amandopando7883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    Bracing myself because I’m going to cry knowing it’s probably about Connor

    • @Van-th8il
      @Van-th8il 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I found you almost in every video of Troye lol

    • @amandopando7883
      @amandopando7883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Vania Islas I mean just look at my profile pic XD

    • @bhintunamaharjan4376
      @bhintunamaharjan4376 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amando Pando literally I shipped them so much, and I just found out it was about Conner.... damn

  • @sydneynoelle1650
    @sydneynoelle1650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    That moment when u type TRONNOR in the TH-cam search and this pops up...TH-cam knows what's up

  • @LeBeautiful
    @LeBeautiful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1106

    Troye lookin GOOOOD

    • @GagaBoy1346
      @GagaBoy1346 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      he only shows the camera his *good side* ;) XDDD

  • @__leeoalmeida
    @__leeoalmeida 6 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    my tronnor heart is crying!
    I love u troye, and I'm so proud of u.
    I hope connah sees this and stay ok

  • @emilioKeka
    @emilioKeka 6 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    "The world sang along to it falling apart"
    Truly fucking beautiful but at the same time heartbreaking
    That shit got me good

  • @sergiomanzanares6817
    @sergiomanzanares6817 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1743

    But on the real, this is his best song right?
    Like Blue Neighborhood was amazing, but this song is better

    • @zuzanna9253
      @zuzanna9253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Sergio Manzanares how can u say this when dkla exists

    • @moonlite
      @moonlite 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      svt twt for him. exists tho

    • @fettypebble782
      @fettypebble782 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +svt twt with ease

    • @sergiomanzanares6817
      @sergiomanzanares6817 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      svt twt DKLA was his most chill

    • @sergiomanzanares6817
      @sergiomanzanares6817 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      moonlite that song is cute, the live version is even better

  • @ScarlettJ1221
    @ScarlettJ1221 6 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    Troye's voice is a masterpiece just like his face

    • @Andrael
      @Andrael 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ScarlettP thanks

  • @lovehumanity5172
    @lovehumanity5172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    It's so obvious who this song is about i'm crying

    • @00_fab60
      @00_fab60 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      love humanity wut

    • @user-oh7ep3th9h
      @user-oh7ep3th9h 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too I sobbed when it first rumored to have ended

    • @Kyrafromneptune
      @Kyrafromneptune 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      SuperElite11 connor franta

    • @lovehumanity5172
      @lovehumanity5172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      connor (franta) is troye's ex boyfriend and who this song is about. although the relationship wasn't explicitly confirmed it's very obvious they dated for a couple of years as they spent most of their time together and both confirmed they were in relationships at points, and connor's book quite clearly represents the "bad side" as he talks about being lost and in depression. basically, they dated for a couple of years and then broke up, troye moved on quickly like he says in the song. the song is meant to be an apology to connor about the way in which things ended. after the breakup, troye got the good side and connor got the bad. he fell back into depression, which he had stuggled with before and said he lost himself and was completely destroyed in his book "note to self". Connor's spent the last 2 years moving on from that and gaining some happiness in his life, I guess some of us just hope that this song doesn't bring up any bad memories he's trying to forget. he deserves the world. it would be nice if they became friends again and actually sorted things out, but I completely understand that its much harder than it looks.

    • @lovehumanity5172
      @lovehumanity5172 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      same :(

  • @MANA98
    @MANA98 6 ปีที่แล้ว +509

    The Title should've just been *_" To Connor : ... "_*

  • @TheDeafiewithCurls
    @TheDeafiewithCurls 6 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    When ya lowkey (prolly really highkey isn't it) know who this song be about 👀but we love you Troye as you got through it all

  • @yourgaycousins942
    @yourgaycousins942 6 ปีที่แล้ว +565

    *Gosh, his eyes look so pretty* 😍❤️🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @saranggawane4719
    @saranggawane4719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    The song has a completely new meaning post 13 reasons why season 4.

    • @mqple5686
      @mqple5686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what?

    • @rashichoudhary2006
      @rashichoudhary2006 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mqple5686 Far as I know the song played during a very emotional scene. No spoilers though. It got spoiled for me. Don't wanna do the same to you.

    • @mqple5686
      @mqple5686 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rashichoudhary2006 haha i don’t watch the show! please spoil it for me

    • @rashichoudhary2006
      @rashichoudhary2006 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mqple5686 I haven't either but I wanted to so I'm not really the best person to ask. All I know is that one of the two characters who danced (Morty I believe) to the song died.

  • @elinottilia6657
    @elinottilia6657 6 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    These are literally some of the most beautiful lyrics I have come across in a long time. So honest and phrased so beautifully

  • @Joel-io5pk
    @Joel-io5pk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Genius acts like vague lyrics are hieroglyphs that need to be deciphered lmao

    • @jana-rs8fg
      @jana-rs8fg 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ikr like those meanings are such obvious things

  • @camillecedeno2160
    @camillecedeno2160 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Knowing who this about and stanning both of these boys has been so freaking painful these days. My fragile heart can’t take it. I already can’t make it through this song without crying this vid didn’t make it any better. They might already be moved on but now that we’re finally getting to hear about it, I’m the one getting over the breakup 😭😭😭

  • @ScarlettJ1221
    @ScarlettJ1221 6 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I wanted Troye to sing the lyrics 😭

  • @clove9552
    @clove9552 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    it hurts knowing exactly who's the person he's talking about oUCH

  • @lahagemo
    @lahagemo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    I'm here for Troye Sivan being on Genius!! Loveeeee

  • @shotbyserenity
    @shotbyserenity 6 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    WE👏🏼STAN👏🏼A👏🏼KING👏🏼

  • @TylerDevineScott
    @TylerDevineScott 6 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    I really hope Connor sees this

  • @abby1626
    @abby1626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    wow I never realized how personal this song was to him. troye said it was the hardest to write but I thought he might have meant lyrically, but clearly this is something that impacted him. I thought the song was just a random sad song, but it’s specifically abt Connor (I think). will be so crazy to think about this later and realize that Jacob is who he met soon and everything and ugh I love them sm

  • @yourgaycousins942
    @yourgaycousins942 6 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    *He's sooooo cute* 😍🌈🏳️‍🌈❤️

    • @sef2473
      @sef2473 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Iam Tara try is ga ey sadly

  • @pamelaJoyce384
    @pamelaJoyce384 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    It's nice to hear the opposite side of a break up. Usually we only hear about the person who may feel left behind. It's nice to know that perhaps you are forgotten or easily brushed off.

  • @morethanjustromantic
    @morethanjustromantic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    3:30 the sad thing about that is that i think that had already kinda happened but he wasn't aware of it. i cant be completely sure but in note to self there's a poem about a boy that he saw at a café (probably troye) but before he could notice he was there he panicked and ran away from there :/

  • @trexiemaelacida1633
    @trexiemaelacida1633 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Pretending not to know who this song was for

  • @sofic3275
    @sofic3275 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The video shouldve been him saying: “connor franta” and thats it

  • @jarofpixies
    @jarofpixies 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    He actually looks like a painting

  • @avaware9452
    @avaware9452 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    “how the cookie crumbled”

  • @uhneiceuh
    @uhneiceuh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    3:14 i feel like this was troye trying to directly talk to the person he dated in hopes that they may be watching this

  • @isthisthekrustykrab4895
    @isthisthekrustykrab4895 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The ends of blue neighborhood and bloom are a great addition to note to self if you want to drown in a pool of empathetic breakup tears.

  • @SkytopTheDancer
    @SkytopTheDancer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    okay, so if this song is actually dedicated to connor.. then why would troye write about his break up in blue neighborhood if apparently he thanked his beautiful boyfriend in the album..

    • @nakitarossouw512
      @nakitarossouw512 6 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Skytop he said in this video he was writing as it happened

    • @SkytopTheDancer
      @SkytopTheDancer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      kita rossouw he still thanked his beautiful boyfriend tho

    • @thetrygays5527
      @thetrygays5527 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      this song isn't in blue neighbourhood

    • @MB-xh4gf
      @MB-xh4gf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      byersjpg yeah in the piece of writing inside the album cover of blue neighbourhood he thanked his "beautiful boyfriend". In this video he said that he was writing blue neighbourhood as they broke up. So if they had already broken up by the time he released blue neighbourhood, who is the 'beautiful boyfriend'?

    • @thetrygays5527
      @thetrygays5527 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      M B oh okay i missed that part

  • @sagaricalama7833
    @sagaricalama7833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    13 reasons why brought me till here

  • @faicotone
    @faicotone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I hated it when it came out because I thought it was cruel of him to lay it all out there like that. Like we know who he became and we saw the sad change in Connor but to explicitly say you got the good side and not even let him pretend to be fine, I thought that was too much. But it has been a while and we can see they are both moving on from it and I come to appreciate the way he wrote this song. It’s simple and sincere, none of the flairs other songs in this album have. It’s a genuine apology and I respect that.

  • @isthisthekrustykrab4895
    @isthisthekrustykrab4895 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When he's speaking the lyrics it feels like he's directly monologing to Connor. Ugh. Stop.

  • @george-yz4ho
    @george-yz4ho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    13 reasons why anyone

  • @K3LM4
    @K3LM4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    The good side >>>>>> My my my

    • @kassidysorel4631
      @kassidysorel4631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I DON'T KNOW nope

    • @moonlite
      @moonlite 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I DON'T KNOW I like both of them sm but I prefer My My My! just because I like upbeat songs more

    • @zuzanna9253
      @zuzanna9253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      incorrect

    • @blissboy3876
      @blissboy3876 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @daisyy3631
      @daisyy3631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      rt

  • @dinalaursen3380
    @dinalaursen3380 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Holy shit, this was so emotional to watch. I was so invested in Tronnor (kinda asuming that's who the song is about) when they were together, and just getting so much insider knowledge of how it fell apart really made me cry. I'm glad they're both happy now, just sad that con got "the bad side"

  • @alexist4419
    @alexist4419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    M: “Never could’ve done this, dance with you”
    W: “I think you could have, I loved you”
    M: “You didn’t even know me, and I would’ve never let you love me. I didn’t let anyone”
    W:“But I didn’t even get the chance to try. I miss you”
    M: “You miss your idea of me. Listen to me. Live with the living”

    • @tke8981
      @tke8981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That entire scene 😭😭😭

    • @elaichiiiiis
      @elaichiiiiis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭

  • @ana.medina
    @ana.medina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    this was so long ago but it STILL HURTS ESPECIALLY KNOWING WHO ITS ABOUT,,, OWE

  • @nadiadoingthings
    @nadiadoingthings 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just want Connor to find someone and get the good side now 😭

  • @aylinyesilkaya7261
    @aylinyesilkaya7261 6 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    i love how honest he is about the breakup and didn't act like the "victim" like literally every other famous pop singer not particlarly taylor swift lol

    • @samantha489
      @samantha489 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aylin he dated Taylor ?

    • @holliebrooke7327
      @holliebrooke7327 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      PageLit sometimes i just give up with comments like that

    • @11cutiepop
      @11cutiepop 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nicole no they were just saying that Taylor victimizes herself

    • @nicb1005
      @nicb1005 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Emm Taylor doesn't victimize herself. She writes songs about her feelings and what she felt in the relationship. She sometimes blames it on herself but then blames on the guy because of what social media really thinks of her. She doesn't victimize herself at all. She's... Better than she ever was. I'm a Swiftie at heart

    • @11cutiepop
      @11cutiepop 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicolette Buchanan Lol dude dont @ me i was just explaining what the comment meant, i never said she victimizes herself.

  • @txxxnya_6403
    @txxxnya_6403 6 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    poor Connor 😢

    • @lovehumanity5172
      @lovehumanity5172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      honesty, I hope he's happy, con deserves nothing less!

    • @cybilm1759
      @cybilm1759 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      who did he had relationship first?? is it CONNOR or JACOB???
      reply back please .. so painfull for me .. T_T

    • @lovehumanity5172
      @lovehumanity5172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      connor is troye's ex boyfriend and who this song is about. although the relationship wasn't explicitly confirmed it's very obvious they dated for a couple of years as they spent most of their time together and both confirmed they were in relationships at points, and connor's book quite clearly represents the "bad side" as he talks about being lost and in depression. basically, they dated for a couple of years and then broke up, troye moved on quickly like he says in the song. the song is meant to be an apology to connor about the way in which things ended. after the breakup, troye got the good side and connor got the bad. he fell back into depression, which he had stuggled with before and said he lost himself and was completely destroyed in his book "note to self". Connor's spent the last 2 years moving on from that and gaining some happiness in his life, I guess some of us just hope that this song doesn't bring up any bad memories he's trying to forget. he deserves the world. Jacob is his current boyfriend.

    • @cybilm1759
      @cybilm1759 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what?? this cant be happening !!! So all im gonna do is just accept the fact,the truth and stuff??? well if its mean to be then ok ..... BUT IN MY HEAT??? #TRONNORLivesForever

    • @tellingthestoriesofourfaith321
      @tellingthestoriesofourfaith321 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      tXXXnya _ i lived for Spud

  • @92mattster
    @92mattster 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I would've been quite offended if my ex assumed these things, thinking that I'm not doing fine just because he's doing fine. I don't know, guess it's my ego but I truly feel like this is insulting. I know that Troye's intentions might've been good but the other person may not feel like it. It could potentially feel humiliating. Idk, seems a bit naive and self centered. But them again I know nothing about their situation and so on, this is just me projecting. ^^

    • @juniorlks1
      @juniorlks1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He probably wrote the song knowing how Connor was doing. When I had my major break up, my ex knew I was a total wreck, our friends in common told him the mess I had become. In my case, my ex got the good side and when I listen to this song I feel like it's him apologizing for that. He didn't have to assume I was in shambles, he actually knew it.

    • @92mattster
      @92mattster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juniorlks1 I think that he did too but I'd personally feel that he'd taken away my pride, especially when people can guess who it's about. I don't think that it's mean-spirited at all and if you would've found it helpful then Connor might've as well. It's my own pride talking, I'd feel like he had told everyone something that's private to me. But I hope that Troye sent it to Connor to check if he felt okay about it, not that he had to but still, before releasing it.
      I'm projecting. I don't think that Connor and I are very much alike. It has a lot to do with what kind of relationship you've had as well.. darn it. Idk, dude.. I guess it all depends. ':)

  • @shubh5614
    @shubh5614 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is so heartbreaking. I feel so bad about connor since I've read note to self but I am also proud of both of them; since they've moved on and they have grown and I love them both

  • @himawariraiden5041
    @himawariraiden5041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Winston And Monty make me fucking cry💔💔💔💔

    • @elaichiiiiis
      @elaichiiiiis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Himawari Raiden same 😭 and everyone hates Monty but I actually liked him

    • @himawariraiden5041
      @himawariraiden5041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just a Potterhead Who Loves 13rw me too girl💘🥺

  • @natalieislame8998
    @natalieislame8998 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm happy that Troye and Connor are in good terms. But like my heart still hurts??? ow

  • @halaotb3192
    @halaotb3192 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I always felt sad listening to this song and now I’m even sadder, the verse of “The people danced to the sound of your heart,The world sang along to it falling apart” it’s gonna always get to my emotion and make me cry every time :(((((

  • @moyglaza
    @moyglaza 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i wrote connor franta and troye sivan this vd came up first

  • @nyosha139
    @nyosha139 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    MyMyMy: *Check* The Good Side: *Check* The rest of his next album: Still need some verification on that, Thanks Genius

  • @hyuckra.7163
    @hyuckra.7163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i wish he would NEVER break up with jacob, i don’t want him to get hurt again.

    • @juniorlks1
      @juniorlks1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It just happened and he wasn't the one getting hurt... lol

  • @nicolebartnikowski
    @nicolebartnikowski 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the fact that i used to be a hardcore troyler stan when blue neighbourhood came out just to find out it was all about connor. i love them all though and im lowkey sad tronler isn't as close as they used to be :/

  • @bellabb13
    @bellabb13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I love Troye, but my heart breaks for Connor every single time 😭❤️ I do hope yall meet in the spring but also that you never hurt him again 💔

    • @cybilm1759
      @cybilm1759 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      trueee... im so sad to deal with this becuzz im late on news ... I thought that Troye and Connor are still on relationship ... T_T

  • @sunols9517
    @sunols9517 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    that song just took a whole other turn for me wow. it’s so honest and genuine

  • @banuuyank739
    @banuuyank739 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching this just right after watching call me by your name and reading a lot of theories about it was not such a good idea apparently....

  • @SteelRaider17
    @SteelRaider17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ever wonder how many people has Troye confused when it comes to their sexualities?

  • @cierra7246
    @cierra7246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ugh I'm relating to this song so hard today. I just got out of my first serious relationship a couple months ago. This person was my first experience with love and I was with them for almost 5 years. The part that kills me the most is "so many thoughts I wanted to share, but I didn't call cause it wouldn't be fair". It's so hard when this person has been my go to to share every thought I have for the past 5 years of my life. It's a disheartening and heartbreaking feeling when you no longer have that. I don't know if I got the good side of MY breakup, but I am blessed with a wonderful support network and I'm so thankful for that, and thankful that I have music like this to get me through it.

    • @andie-castillo
      @andie-castillo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      africkso your feelings are 100% valid. i, too, can relate. fortunately we all have friends in life and perhaps also family members who look out for us :-)

  • @SoTypicallyMeh
    @SoTypicallyMeh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    anyone in 2020 looking up TRONNOR videos and reminiscing about the good times? 😭😭😭

  • @HannahG-nk2mf
    @HannahG-nk2mf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The lyrics cut so much deeper because we, the fans, also got see what the "Bad Side" of the breakup looked like from Con's book

  • @user-jy7bc2vx5u
    @user-jy7bc2vx5u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    am i the only one here who's never watched a connor video?

  • @sydneynoelle1650
    @sydneynoelle1650 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I understand these lyrics without the explination...I just want to see what he tells the public....now I'm crying again

  • @bisquit2203
    @bisquit2203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am I the only one imagining Oliver singing this to Ellio in Call me by your name?

  • @sierra5155
    @sierra5155 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    i love u troye 💕💗💘💞💞💕💗💕💓💞💕💞💘💞💕💕💓💓💕💘💓💕💗💕💞💓

  • @imivanlouis
    @imivanlouis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why does Troye look like he just woke up from a very good sleep. 😂

  • @mary-gx5cl
    @mary-gx5cl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    knowing who this is about just makes the song even more heartbreaking

  • @chawshiningstar
    @chawshiningstar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    if you listen to this after reading note to self, you'll cry twice as hard

  • @lucybagnato8558
    @lucybagnato8558 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    if anyone knows who this is abt its affecting u and ur crying!

  • @sndssss
    @sndssss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i wish i never knew who this song is about but i do 😭

  • @cahi8501
    @cahi8501 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Spud anyone?

  • @sa_yoonie
    @sa_yoonie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Team tracob all the way✌😍❤😙

  • @yuvedat6631
    @yuvedat6631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm crying in the corner

    • @flypatrick132
      @flypatrick132 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yuveda T and I’m crying in the club

  • @karenalejandra3580
    @karenalejandra3580 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well i'm trying not to cry here. I can feel Troye literally saying these things directly to him (u know who) and it makes me sad

  • @EmaAtwell
    @EmaAtwell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i adore this song so much still and will forever because (obviously yes i know who its about and was there back then as a viewer just quietly picking up on all the clues and quietly to myself, knew what was going on) its so real and raw and beautiful. Its like hes directly talking to him. it seems so SO personal almost like im not supposed to hear it honestly. like its just for him. ive never heard such a beautiful song so clearly not meant for anyones ears but for the ones it was written for.

  • @HugoLacchiaOfficial
    @HugoLacchiaOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG does anyone else is confused by the following lyrics and wants an explanation ? Wait Bae, does it mean you cheated on him ? :O He just says it and doesn't explain it as if he just wanted to avoid it and now I'm really curious to know x)
    "Then I got the good side of new
    Found arms to fall right into
    I know how it looked, it wasn't the plan
    And some day I hope that you'll understand"

    • @laurenhyacinth2328
      @laurenhyacinth2328 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think he means that he found a new boyfriend really soon after their breakup (jacob bixenmen) and so it looked like that was the reason he broke up with him

  • @nyoomyum
    @nyoomyum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thishurtsthishurtsthishurts

  • @riverviewsky2614
    @riverviewsky2614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    so, i watched this video when it came out and it broke my heart bc i knew he was talking about connor and watching this again, agh still makes me so sad, it’s almost as if was my break up too, i been following both since the begging and it’s just heartbreaking

  • @ASH-ye4di
    @ASH-ye4di 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was dealing with it till this video came out it was hard for me to hear all of this a shiper for this old relationship when he said "of course we were not getting engaged'" I was like why the hack:"

  • @parallel4
    @parallel4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    now can y'all stop shipping them because they've broken up and have literally confirmed the breakup?

  • @velvetr0s3s
    @velvetr0s3s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i’m here after thirteen reasons why because i was SO EXCITED and also so sad that this song was in the show. i love troye so much. he’s come so far.

  • @Cristobels-Green-Boots
    @Cristobels-Green-Boots 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🏽💔🙏🏻

  • @captnemmy
    @captnemmy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i have been listening to troye cuz i stopped for a while when they broke up and i’m sobbing right now my tronnor heart hopes one day the time may be right for them😭

  • @camjohnson3523
    @camjohnson3523 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    God he’s adorable