I'm In $500,000 Of Debt!

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  • @LittleMopeHead
    @LittleMopeHead ปีที่แล้ว +358

    This lady is the prime example of going to college and getting degrees without knowing what she really wants to do and the market out there.

    • @user-mv9tt4st9k
      @user-mv9tt4st9k ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Each new degree is a new student loan and a possible deferral of payments on the current loan(s) with the hope of the next degree equalling a higher salary payoff.

    • @jameywallace5133
      @jameywallace5133 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just looks good on a resume but it’s sometimes bittersweet

    • @bbslabaugh
      @bbslabaugh ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@user-mv9tt4st9kI've said it before and I'll say it again -- go to Work as an Apprentice. Get paid to learn. Invest on a Monthly basis in a Mutual Fund. You'll do good!

    • @TheseEndlessNights
      @TheseEndlessNights ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sounds like she does that for everything in her life. Does things without thinking about them beforehand.

    • @nowaytoisop8776
      @nowaytoisop8776 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm paying out of pocket and am in school at the moment. Still figuring out what I want to do with the degree. It's not that I have no clue on the industry, it's just where I want to specialize that I need to figure out.

  • @garrettholtz8379
    @garrettholtz8379 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    The way they suggest "just double your income" makes it sound like its so easy.

    • @LittleMopeHead
      @LittleMopeHead ปีที่แล้ว +16

      They never said it's easy. You want to be out of debt, it's hard intentional work.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No, it makes it sound like they understand that things that are worth doing are never easy.

    • @intn14
      @intn14 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I doubled mine just by them saying it multiple times.😂

    • @eile4219
      @eile4219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right, let me that, they complain about money. We can just tell her to quit the show and double her income

    • @poptartkilla3718
      @poptartkilla3718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It’s a lot easier when you have a Law degree you’re not using

  • @richthepup
    @richthepup ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Dave’s face when she said she worked for a non-profit after going massively into debt 😂 felt

    • @nicholeknight1893
      @nicholeknight1893 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Dave's face when she said she has three degrees 🤣

    • @rayofsunshan
      @rayofsunshan ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Depending on the job title, nonprofits pay more than some government sector jobs and she may have wanted to work towards PSLF (which is advisable for borrowing well over $100K while barely breaking into it income wise). Still definitely an understandable reaction when actively sitting on a law degree.
      Edit: That’s exactly what she said so my apologies for beating a dead horse. Her problem is she’s not looking deep enough into the job market to leverage her education and experience properly. Potential employers might be seeing right through that.

  • @yep3172
    @yep3172 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I didn't go to college. Work as a manager, no debt, house owned and a good retirement going before 40.

    • @Jedi12789
      @Jedi12789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You don’t always have to go to college to be successful. The drive and want to have a lot to do with it.

    • @drn13355
      @drn13355 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There are a lot of lawyers who are successful. There are a lot of people who didn't go to college who are flat broke also. It is decisions we make.

    • @ronaldov09
      @ronaldov09 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Neither did I and I earn 150-180K, have a 800K house with a mortgage of 80K, no consumer debt...and I still drive a 15 year old car haha.

  • @MrBrewman95
    @MrBrewman95 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    People thought paying off their loans with zero percent was not worth doing. Now that the Fed raised interest rates it is common to have them be 7%. When I graduated in 2017, most of my loans were like 2.5% and I got them all paid in May 2020 and never looked back.

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 ปีที่แล้ว

      I bought a car a year ago at 4.2 percent interest. You can get lower rates if you play your cards right. I had a zero for 60 months car loan in the past and was in no hurry to pay it off.

    • @i.k5143
      @i.k5143 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congrats dude, W

  • @cw5948
    @cw5948 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    “She’s collecting degrees like a thermometer” 😂😂

  • @Tashas_Travels
    @Tashas_Travels ปีที่แล้ว +134

    4:24 😂😂😂😂😂 Just collecting degrees like a thermometer 😂😂

  • @TM_Stone
    @TM_Stone ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Just proves people with a degree(s) are not always smart regarding life choices and this is coming from someone who has a masters degree.

    • @orphancharmander1168
      @orphancharmander1168 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can relate, im on wellfare 👀🇩🇰

    • @formula112967
      @formula112967 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i don't even have a degree (lifetime mechanic) and I carry over no credit card debt, no car loans, and the only debt I have is my mortgage that I make 4 principal payments a month on.
      I know people with degrees that are working at Starbucks and can't even afford rent, much less a mortgage.

    • @wobbled5609
      @wobbled5609 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Annoye MANY stupid peoples get degrees. You can be educated and stupid.

    • @Project-Masculinity
      @Project-Masculinity ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How dare you all my PhD in Unicorn 🦄 Studies Trumps everything (please give me a bailout 🙃)

    • @summerforever6736
      @summerforever6736 ปีที่แล้ว

      They r stupid

  • @James_Hough
    @James_Hough ปีที่แล้ว +27

    When you go in debt like that, you don't get to be choosy about "I don't like it" . Get out of debt, then be as choosy as you want.

  • @esterdrass4964
    @esterdrass4964 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I would advise the future younglings to go to a trade school and learn a money-making trade. Something like electrician, plumbing, car mechanic...any job that will pretty much guarantee you work and well-paid work. Too many people I see and hear with these high student loans and jobs that don't make a whole lot of money. Tell the future generation to go to a trade school we need more of them in this world.

    • @donnafontaine2799
      @donnafontaine2799 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes trades is the way- excellent

    • @artrayus3
      @artrayus3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I say this to my young clients all the time. With the exception of car mechanic. They do not make very much money at all. But aircraft or deisel mechanics can make good money if they get a good education and develop relationships with good mentors.

    • @esterdrass4964
      @esterdrass4964 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@artrayus3 Yes aircraft mechanic and someone that specializes in something like trucks. But I do think car mechanics as well. With the price tag of a brand-new car these days, its likely most people will keep what they have, and they need someone to help maintain it. When a new car averages about 50g's. Tack on interest rates for a loan and high insurance rates for a new car... Plus, with a skill like that, or the electrician/plumber ect...you can maintain your own home or car.

  • @RRAREBEAR
    @RRAREBEAR ปีที่แล้ว +278

    that thermometer line went over everyone’s heads and we need to take a second and acknowledge how good that was 😆 🌡️

    • @currenteventsenthusiast9477
      @currenteventsenthusiast9477 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wait I still don’t get it. Explícame por favor 🤔

    • @sophiarideout9250
      @sophiarideout9250 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Came to the comments to find this one 🤣 Not sure how he kept a straight face after that one lol.

    • @RRAREBEAR
      @RRAREBEAR ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@currenteventsenthusiast9477a thermometer measure DEGREES (Fahrenheit/Celsius), so in this case he’s saying she’s collecting degrees (referring to EDUCATIONAL degrees) like a thermometer Lol

    • @ItsMe-ko6sz
      @ItsMe-ko6sz ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Dave’s had that line in his back pocket for a while 😂
      No way he came up with that in the spot lol. Brilliant

    • @johnmiller8900
      @johnmiller8900 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dave is predictably predictable, and that really applies with his jokes. It may not be one he uses everyday he has certainly used is several times in the past.

  • @shea1219
    @shea1219 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Dave and Jade did an excellent job on this call. The caller was speechless.

    • @carolynmaryscott
      @carolynmaryscott ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you meant to say is "the caller left me speechless ..." clearly she can speak.

  • @dearestdarling9467
    @dearestdarling9467 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    “She’s collecting degrees like a thermometer” made me chuckle 😂 Dave and his southern sayings is too funny.

  • @chrislink73
    @chrislink73 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have to say, the show really leveled up their audio game. The sm7b's and in-ears sound 100x better than those old headset mics. My ears are happy.

  • @ctawresey
    @ctawresey ปีที่แล้ว +30

    There are all other kinds of law that you can practice. I hated litigation more than I hated my $450k in student loans. Switched to transactional law and just finished paying off all my loans.

  • @KENTUCKYUSA1
    @KENTUCKYUSA1 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    After listening to this woman, I think hubby is smart to step aside and let her fall. H seems to be to blame for all her disasters. He is not motivated, not educated, blah, blah. But he is not $500,000 in the hole.

    • @IrishFrank22
      @IrishFrank22 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Husband needs to walk now while she has debt so he will financially come out ok.

    • @nailatiyllufm7325
      @nailatiyllufm7325 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’d bet money at some point he said “you have two degrees already you can’t go to law school” and she said “no the degree will pay for itself don’t worry”. Totally agree if he bails her out shell be getting her fourth degree soon.

  • @lindsayclark4009
    @lindsayclark4009 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It’s a false assumption that all attorneys make 6+ figures. It’s a small percentage that does especially “out the gate.”

    • @drn13355
      @drn13355 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He didn't say "all attorneys". What he says she will have to do white job that pays the most. Whether she likes it or not.

    • @thebullgator
      @thebullgator 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s 3 years out the gate and still making low wages though, she needs to hate the debt more than spinning her wheels in a job she loves.

  • @stewbugz5213
    @stewbugz5213 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I hated working in the medical field at first. I cried all the way to work some days! I also had 3 babies at home! I took overtime and worked until I paid everything off, and I learned how to enjoy what I was doing! She has got to thicken that skin and get out of debt! Wish I could have been an attorney…

  • @tyrisanders
    @tyrisanders ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Husband saying those aren’t his loans 😂😂😂

  • @arielleyasmine
    @arielleyasmine ปีที่แล้ว +58

    As someone who has a law degree and is in compliance she can certainly make more with her experience and degree. Maybe even leverage her IT degree with her law degree and go into cybersecurity or privacy compliance. Hope it works out for her

    • @SkyThoughtss
      @SkyThoughtss ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup GRC can make 150-200k and have a life out of work. Little boring and hard to get into though, but with her degrees its a good start.

    • @robertt9825
      @robertt9825 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah, those two degree's together could set her up for some amazing careers. It's very specialized work but it pays big money with the right places. There aren't many people with both legal and IT knowledge

  • @mustangthings
    @mustangthings ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Yet another “I’ve tried nothing and I’m all out of ideas” call. What do these people want Dave to tell them?

  • @Ojisan642
    @Ojisan642 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    “He can’t make more money because he doesn’t have the education.”
    THE POOPER SCOOPER GUY MAKES SIX FIGURES! I don’t think that requires a PhD.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He owns his own business but he can make more cuz I make more than both of them as a garbage man

    • @MAXXEDOUTTRANSPORTATION
      @MAXXEDOUTTRANSPORTATION ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I make 150,000 no degree just a cdl

    • @lot2196
      @lot2196 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I make ,$87k with no degree. Wife makes, $42k as s secretary. Our home and vehicles are paid off. Kids grown. Sorry, just felt like bragging a little.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MAXXEDOUTTRANSPORTATION class A otr?

    • @MAXXEDOUTTRANSPORTATION
      @MAXXEDOUTTRANSPORTATION ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@reese85 class a regional hazmat tanker

  • @veronica.baker1
    @veronica.baker1 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    It's recommended to save at least 15% of your income in a 401k. You can use online calculators to estimate how much you should save based on your age and income. Saving at least 15% of your income in a 401(k) can help ensure that you have enough money to retire comfortably. By saving this much, you can take advantage of compound interest and potentially grow your retirement savings over time.

    • @james.atkins88
      @james.atkins88 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For me, I believe retirees who struggle to meet their basic needs are the ones who could not accumulate enough money during their active years to meet their needs. Retirement choices determine a lot of things. My wife and I both spent same number of years in the civil service, she invested through a wealth manager and myself through the 401k. We both still earning after our retirement.

    • @hunter-bourke21
      @hunter-bourke21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's unfortunate most people don't have such information. I don't really blame people who panic. Lack of information can be a big hurdle. I've been making more than $875k by just investing through an advisor, and I don't have to do much work. Doesn't matter if the economy is misbehaving; great wealth managers will always make returns.

    • @rebecca_burns14
      @rebecca_burns14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hunter-bourke21 Interesting. I think this is something I should do, but I've been stalling for a long time now. I don't really know which firm to work with; I feel they are all the same but it seems you’ve got it all worked out with the firm you work with so i surely wouldn’t mind a recommendation.

    • @hunter-bourke21
      @hunter-bourke21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Research and choose someone with a plan for consistent portfolio growth; "Camille Alicia Garcia" has done well with my investments, and I believe she has the qualifications and expertise to help you meet your goals.

    • @Kim.beneteau
      @Kim.beneteau ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Camille. Has the appearance of being a great authority in her profession. I looked her up online and found her website, which I reviewed and went through to learn more about her credentials, academic background, and employment. She has a fiduciary duty to protect my best interests. I sent her an email outlining my objectives and also booked a session with her; thanks for sharing.

  • @lagarde2011
    @lagarde2011 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    She doesn't have to work as a lawyer to use her law degree to make good money. Large companies hire lawyers in high-level HR jobs to deal with problem employees, contract negotiation, staff training programs, and similar positions. Her degree in conflict management would be helpful in that regard.

    • @jacqueline8566
      @jacqueline8566 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And Business Development / Transactions

    • @annorahharris5927
      @annorahharris5927 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yea, but the pay rate for those jobs is about the 80k she’s making now. 80k is actually very standard money for a fairly recent law school grad in many parts of the country. I’m an attorney and I’d say that was about median for my graduating class. Those of us making the money Dave is talking about graduated very top of our class and work in “big law”.

    • @SweetestSadie
      @SweetestSadie ปีที่แล้ว

      I would think that conflict management classes came with the law degree.

  • @KarmaHipster313
    @KarmaHipster313 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Train wreck woman calls in and Dave immediately attacked the man that doesn’t have $300K in useless student loan debt. At least he’s consistent.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      They should have BOTH been attacked.

    • @KarmaHipster313
      @KarmaHipster313 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Agreed

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Dave love protecting women that are foolish

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      For real! I was also put off by her disparaging her husband whe. She said he "Only makes $50k." She went into 300k of student loan debt to make 35k more than her husband.

    • @CroisMoi
      @CroisMoi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He might have begged her not to borrow the money. She sounds willful. I would hate to be married to someone who made stupid financial decisions.

  • @nodrogytsirk
    @nodrogytsirk ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Recently retired Canadian teacher…make a great pension and benefits with money in the bank. I have repeatedly encouraged all my students to look at the trades as a career option. Seeing the insane debt of American students is horrifying!

  • @NTUser1
    @NTUser1 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This girl needs to be a cybersecurity compliance manager/auditor. She'd make 200-250k easy

    • @GackFinder
      @GackFinder ปีที่แล้ว

      NO! We don't need more incompetent people in the IT business. It's already full of incompetent people.

    • @DDDD-of3hv
      @DDDD-of3hv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      sure... you keep telling that to yourself...
      reminds me in the late 90s when people attended 3 week IT courses and were demanding 100k+ salaries for installing memory chips and connecting network printers lol

  • @linonator
    @linonator ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Does anyone else get the feeling that she doesn’t respect her husband due to his income? “he only makes…”
    Idk if it’s because she has multiple degrees and own the house but that just stood out to me.

    • @Theman2075
      @Theman2075 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because if a man does not make more than his woman, she loses respect for him. Most women do this.

    • @Thurgor_Supreme
      @Thurgor_Supreme ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She put herself into a mortgage worth of debt and only makes $35k more than him, and she has the nerve to talk down?

    • @asoldierstwocentsrawuncut9611
      @asoldierstwocentsrawuncut9611 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

    • @drtij_dzienz
      @drtij_dzienz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      From watching lots and lots of Kevin Samuels I think a guy needs to make 50% more than his wife to be appreciated as an earner.

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 ปีที่แล้ว

      If she didn’t respect him she will divorce him. He is only making 59 that’s facts. This woman has a history for settling for less, less salary, less from life, less from her husband.

  • @williamedward3198
    @williamedward3198 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Basically, as always, the advice is “double your income” and all your problems quickly melt away.

  • @kleindropper
    @kleindropper ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Why does it always seem like the amount of student loans is inversely related to the overall intelligence of the person?

    • @ToastbackWhale
      @ToastbackWhale ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JayLawsonYou seem to have missed the word “inversely”

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man ปีที่แล้ว +8

    HER house but it needs to be HIS student loan problem. Both gotta give... it's a marriage. I understand his concern though.
    The debt conversation has to be had prior to marriage. Prior to "save the date" invites were sent, I showed my wife my debts (under $20k at the time) and asked her if it made her feel uncomfortable and she said it didn't. We moved accordingly. They didn't do a mortgage application together so he may have not known. Smh.

  • @JayLawson
    @JayLawson ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I'm sure he loves the fact that his wife said "He only makes 50K"

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My daughter makes that much and has no debt. This guy is lazy.

    • @xsgtxbigboy1655
      @xsgtxbigboy1655 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@jimroscoviusthe guy is lazy but the girl is just fine? Id rather make 50 no debt than 80 and 300k debt y’all need to stop slamming the guy just cause they don’t have a pu$$y

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @xsgtxbigboy1655 I said in another comment that they were both at fault. He's lazy and she's a whiner. They BOTH need to work a LOT more.

    • @drtij_dzienz
      @drtij_dzienz ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Kevin Samuels said she should find an average guy making $50k, boom here he is

    • @camxdidxthat
      @camxdidxthat ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jimroscoviusshe’s a winner?

  • @danishhussain8046
    @danishhussain8046 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You are a degree hoarder but not a good employee. What is the benefit of having 3 degrees? I am just an electrical engineer with 10 years experience. I make $110+ working hybrid. You could have just any one of your degree and could make atleast 1.5 times your salary.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that a good salary with 10 yrs experience?

    • @danishhussain8046
      @danishhussain8046 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@reese85 I work for Utility sector which is recession free. 401k matching is 150% upto 8% deduction. My market value is more (around $130k+) and I am underpaid, I will switch soon. Moreover, the Utility sector doesn't pay like one could get in industry but somehow job security keeps your mind in peace.

    • @frankcb11
      @frankcb11 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reese85yes 100% if they live under their means. Congratulations to him/her for making that much and having great benefits

  • @dino450
    @dino450 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    They say double your income like you can just snap your fingers and do that lmao

    • @artrayus3
      @artrayus3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If she dug her heels and decided she was going to double her income she could do it within about 3 to 6 months. If she's more careful and cautious 1 to 2 years.

  • @AngelMartz4
    @AngelMartz4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love watching this show with no Debt on my shoulders.😎

    • @yr2180
      @yr2180 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too

  • @momof2momof2
    @momof2momof2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Why do people not figure this out BEFORE they get themselves into such horrible debt ???? smh

    • @TheFlyingZulu
      @TheFlyingZulu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sometimes the college work is much much different than the real world job... A good example is this... I started out learning to be a professional airline pilot at ERAU, the expense of pilot training and the low starting out pay of a junior pilot was a determining factor in me switching to their Air Traffic Controller program to work for the FAA. I graduated with good grades and a semester early, but the real world of being a controller is was VASTLY more difficult than any training I did while in school. I couldn't deal with the mental workload and my facility told me I needed to resign and do something else.

  • @user-mv9tt4st9k
    @user-mv9tt4st9k ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I wonder if she continued getting degrees as a way to defer her student loan payments? I have a couple of acquaintances who did that, incurring more student loan debt thinking the next degree will make them more money. 🙄

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know someone who went to grad school because she couldn’t afford to pay her undergraduate loans. She went on to become a university professor so hopefully it worked out for her financially in the end.

  • @edmart3815
    @edmart3815 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    You can’t say the husband isn’t motivated without telling this woman the same. You have a law degree but you do t want to litigate? At what point in law school did you not understand litigation is part of being a lawyer? This woman reeks of unmotivated. She want’s everything easy.

    • @gatorgatorgirl295
      @gatorgatorgirl295 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      There are contract attorneys. Litigation is not part of being a lawyer all the time

    • @slimdude2011
      @slimdude2011 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What husband? In her situation she doesn't have a husband because, they're not living like a married couple, when their finances and everything else are individually separated, and not financially supporting each other. That's not a marriage! You can do bad by yourself.

    • @arienfox
      @arienfox ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@slimdude2011Right 👍

    • @chriswilson433
      @chriswilson433 ปีที่แล้ว

      AI is going to kill contract attorneys in the next three years; count on it.

    • @GregTorseth-c5w
      @GregTorseth-c5w ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Most people with law degrees do not litigate. That's a fact!

  • @SavingsMinusDebt
    @SavingsMinusDebt ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Dave is letting Jade know ... this is his show 😂 Dave let Jade get some mic time please.

    • @BetterNBetter
      @BetterNBetter ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right lol he needs to work on not talking over people. We get it’s your show but respect others in the same way you want to be respected.

  • @leemp337
    @leemp337 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    kids, don't go work non profit after college until you pay off your debt and have your finances in order.
    Help yourself before you help others. Wealthy people don't start philanthropy until later in life after they made their wealth.

  • @kensmart1976
    @kensmart1976 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How do people get married but handle finances like their single? This is insane.

    • @johnlanier3616
      @johnlanier3616 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Any man would be a complete fool to pay off 300k of her horrible decisions.

    • @artrayus3
      @artrayus3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnlanier3616 Then by your logic he shouldn't have gotten married. He took on her debt when he married her whether he likes it or not.

    • @johnlanier3616
      @johnlanier3616 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@artrayus3 Exactly

  • @deeplansandbudgets
    @deeplansandbudgets ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am sorry to say this and be so blunt but anyone smart enough to have three degrees had to have known that amassing all of this debt was not a good idea. It is now time to start paying the piper. This can no longer be about what you want, but what you have to do to pay this debt. We need to stop giving out this amount of loans to students. There is no reason that a person with no ability to pay needs to be given loans for a third degree.

  • @EricAndradeMusic
    @EricAndradeMusic ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I don't blame the Guy, I wouldn't want that debt either lol

    • @keiseanb1
      @keiseanb1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He shouldn't have married into it if he didn't.

  • @cutehumor
    @cutehumor ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Collecting degrees like a thermometer!! Savage Dave comment

  • @diggernash1
    @diggernash1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Make money first, then go be charitable. He told her to go to work, but she went back to school instead. Good for him putting his foot down.

  • @laneyluneva
    @laneyluneva ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Also, "I've always wanted to be an attorney"....next she says "I hated litigating" Girl...

    • @jet4415
      @jet4415 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am a CPA. I did auditing for 5 years and hated it. There were lots of other paths. Litigation is one segment of a job choice when you’re a lawyer.

    • @currenteventsenthusiast9477
      @currenteventsenthusiast9477 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’ve always wanted to be a chef but I hate cooking

  • @jhonilocran6077
    @jhonilocran6077 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know ADAs who make less than 100k. Being a lawyer doesn’t guarantee tons of money if youre not sure what you want to do with it

  • @jodylarson4697
    @jodylarson4697 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Real estate attorney. Tax attorney. These people and many other lawyers make good money without having to litigate.

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mediation is a growing field , with courts back logs

  • @curiouscat3384
    @curiouscat3384 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Just Do It and SHUT UP!" The latest and greatest of Dave Ramsey :)

  • @ethxo6734
    @ethxo6734 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Too many people prefer to be comfortable in debt rather uncomfortable in a job that pays well.
    Difficult jobs command higher salaries.

    • @ChangYu-wi4ez
      @ChangYu-wi4ez 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Difficult jobs should pay a lot more but usually pay just a little bit more than a comfortable job.

  • @ryanbreedlove7694
    @ryanbreedlove7694 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Can’t educate yourself out of poverty. Poor people think the number of degrees they have equals wealth and status.

    • @alexthomas4846
      @alexthomas4846 ปีที่แล้ว

      Education is a gateway out of poverty. However, it's not the be all end all way out of poverty. The margin of error for anything when you are poor is very, very small. That includes choosing wrong degree, starting a business without a solid plan or investing, etc.

  • @katinafrancis7643
    @katinafrancis7643 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't understand spending all that money for college and have nothing.

  • @krogdog
    @krogdog ปีที่แล้ว +9

    And women on Eharmony think I’m a jerk for asking if they have student loans. I need to show them some of these videos, smh

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Accountability is Kryptonite to women.

    • @artrayus3
      @artrayus3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At least it's a pretty easy rule out if they have an attitude about a fundamental question. If they get pissy with you for asking that then move on. If you married, they would expect you to take on that debt burden as if it were yours. The least they can do is be transparent about it.

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@artrayus3 Another red flag, next....

  • @garfieldGG
    @garfieldGG ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I feel this woman on so many levels. I can’t litigate either. And if you can’t, then suddenly that law degree is worth so much less than you paid for it.

    • @semosancus5506
      @semosancus5506 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Shouldn't law schools filter people who don't show litigation potential? It's awful expensive to not be able to use it.

    • @rsimmons1980
      @rsimmons1980 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm stuck in litigation too. But luckily I am doing more writing as my employer realized that is my strength. Going to Court is horrible.

    • @rayisnumbaone
      @rayisnumbaone ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There are definitely a ton of transactional jobs out there. I went from doing family law litigation into intake. A lot less stress but also $30K pay cut. I also paid off my student loans with a sense of urgency though.

    • @garfieldGG
      @garfieldGG ปีที่แล้ว

      @@semosancus5506 it’s hard to know at the time.

    • @garfieldGG
      @garfieldGG ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rayisnumbaone “a ton” is a massive stretch. Hell there aren’t even many compliance jobs like this lady that called in has. And it seems like everything requires you to have litigation experience Lol

  • @shansmith7100
    @shansmith7100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dave said “shut up”, silence! I look down at phone! 😂

  • @Thurgor_Supreme
    @Thurgor_Supreme ปีที่แล้ว +45

    There goes Dave, simpin again. The dude only makes $35k less than her and he didn't have to bury himself under a mountain of debt to get there

    • @9StickNate
      @9StickNate ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They want him to assume stepdad to her Student loans. They don’t seem to mind that the house is in her name though.

    • @Rob-fn1kp
      @Rob-fn1kp ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Always

    • @Sid00077
      @Sid00077 ปีที่แล้ว

      She can make a lot more with her degree, but she said she doesn't like to do the work that pays her almost double her current salary.

    • @franciscunningham1939
      @franciscunningham1939 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dave always goes hard on the guy not matter the scenario

  • @kara2162
    @kara2162 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    ‘I do not want to litigate’ Suck it up. Shouldn’t have taken out 300k in student loans 😂

    • @Nick-gk6hj
      @Nick-gk6hj ปีที่แล้ว

      Or couldn't hack it and can't get another job

  • @AlexKaehler-qc8kd
    @AlexKaehler-qc8kd ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What’s an IT degree? Comp Science, or a two year network admin AAS? Either way, neither is worth much on its own. Certifications and work experience is what matters in IT.

  • @jayman3575
    @jayman3575 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Def should be able to utilize your IT degree and your law degree for compliance with tech companies(especially since you have 3 yrs experience in litigation already)...as crazy as it sounds I'd suggest moving to a bigger tech hub where youd have a big shovel pay and just find a way to live cheap..it will be tough cause of the kid and school districts but possible for a few years then move back to the south after you established some great experience. Might be after 2024 when tech recovers from additional imminent layoffs though...

  • @AnthonyMcNeil
    @AnthonyMcNeil ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Those degrees really don't do anything. Sucks, I hope they can get through this.

  • @LilannB
    @LilannB ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I do not understand marrying someone and saying their $300K of debt is their problem. I am a woman and if I married a man with $300K of debt I would want to help him get out from under that burden. If you help your spouse you are helping your family.

    • @raulgallardo5140
      @raulgallardo5140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh just dont marry someone who is in debt

  • @martinmi5
    @martinmi5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wouldn’t help her pay her student loan either. Dave is cutting the husband down for only making 50K but he didn’t go spending 300K on degrees that he isn’t benefiting from

    • @sikwithin
      @sikwithin ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand this but marriage isn’t about living separate lives.

    • @9StickNate
      @9StickNate ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dave also said nothing about the Mortgage. If marriage is a partnership, put him on the mortgage too.

  • @moniquejames2517
    @moniquejames2517 ปีที่แล้ว

    Look into the personal injury field (car wrecks, slip and falls, etc.) Preferably, a firm where they feed you cases vs you having to advertise and do the leg work. Let them call you an ambulance chaser. Your bills will be paid. You have a goal. Try to stay on the pre-suit side. Majority cases settle prior to trial. May have to do depos and mediations, but PI is lucrative. May take a year with no experience to get the caseload moving, but worth it over time.

  • @Silverdragon517
    @Silverdragon517 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Her house and his loan 😂

  • @rsimmons1980
    @rsimmons1980 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Dave is always acting like lawyers should be making $200,000. I am a lawyer and I know plenty of lawyers who don't make near that. Only big law or medium law firms or some in-house positions pay that. And to get in-house, you generally need law firm experience.

    • @princetonscholar5723
      @princetonscholar5723 ปีที่แล้ว

      She should have been doing “summer associate” working interviews while in law school and graduated to a big, downtown corporate firm. Anything less, is a waste of time.

    • @rsimmons1980
      @rsimmons1980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@princetonscholar5723 GIrl, they don't just hand out those big law jobs.

    • @princetonscholar5723
      @princetonscholar5723 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rsimmons1980 Never said they did: Study, Excel, Compete 📚

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I also know plenty where are making above 200k. How much you make in law depends on you. Some lawyers want thier time and sanity won’t trade it for money. Other don’t care and only focus on money

    • @rsimmons1980
      @rsimmons1980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shachede6828 And then you know that those people are the minority.

  • @carlaritchie331
    @carlaritchie331 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The interest on those loans are fighting against her. She has what it takes to find a better paying job.

  • @kevinb8881
    @kevinb8881 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Collecting degrees like a thermometer, wooooo, I like that!!!

  • @northharriscollege
    @northharriscollege ปีที่แล้ว +32

    She keep throwing her husband under the bus. 😂

    • @luisvigo3777
      @luisvigo3777 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He should run as soon as he hears this video

    • @KingOfSwords720
      @KingOfSwords720 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's because he "only" makes 50k 😂 but he doesn't have 300k in debt. Why would he want to combine his income?

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KingOfSwords720they’re MARRIED

    • @stud6414
      @stud6414 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds about Female

    • @mannyjeanpierre4062
      @mannyjeanpierre4062 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@EsiriEyeah he was a fool to marry her lol

  • @SummaGirl1347
    @SummaGirl1347 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These calls would go a lot better if Dave would listen to the callers rather than just talking over them. The level of condescension he throws at people after listening to them talk for 30 seconds is so disrespectful I'm surprised anyone calls.

  • @DG-mk7kd
    @DG-mk7kd ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You lose the choice of doing what you want when you borrow the money
    Yes work is grinding and depressing, but it is also grinding and depressing to not get a loan paid back
    (I own a tiny little bit of bank stock, I pay taxes, and I have cash; so if the loan is not paid back I am injured one way or another)

  • @gregory4154
    @gregory4154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Collecting degrees like a thermometer." LMAO !!!!

  • @nealp885
    @nealp885 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't think most people with law degrees make 6 figures right out of the gate.

  • @RobTzu
    @RobTzu ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wouldn't hire her to fix a speeding ticket.

  • @Bmrk349
    @Bmrk349 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My bet is he told her not to get those extra degrees

  • @Sam-gv6lo
    @Sam-gv6lo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Three degrees and a lot of debt .. I know people who went to community college and got a nursing degree and right now they are making very good money

  • @Gopher31
    @Gopher31 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I liked the degree debt so much, I went back for more…..
    TWICE!!!
    Hope she manages to convert them to income in future.

  • @TheDon6
    @TheDon6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I forgot your name 😂😂😂

  • @pompeiyous2138
    @pompeiyous2138 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You got an IT degree only to realize you don't want to do IT. Then you got a law degree to realize you don't want to fight in court, probably because you're not good at defending your clients. You would have been better just working at Walmart straight out of High School

    • @Fishouta
      @Fishouta ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And then she took courses in conflict management, which "didn't help", to help her with her issues with litigation.

    • @mimi11011
      @mimi11011 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As an attorney that left litigation after 3 years, its not always because you weren't a good attorney, over 50% of lawyers dislike practicing because it's draining dealing with other people's issues everyday especially in family law. You become their therapist and it's also a personality issue if you're not argumentative and you come to realise you don't enjoy arguing in court everyday. A good pay is what keeps most lawyers practicing, not enjoyment of law.

  • @jlava1575
    @jlava1575 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I love when they say things like "if you double your income and he doubles his income you'll be wealthy" like really? Why didn't i think of that? Why don't I strap on my job helmet and squeeze down into a job cannon and fire off into Jobland where double my income jobs grow on jobbies.

    • @jlava1575
      @jlava1575 ปีที่แล้ว

      @triiii1303 what middle class?

    • @CroisMoi
      @CroisMoi ปีที่แล้ว

      @triiii1303. Like any degree, it is only as good as how you apply yourself. Lawyers are a dime a dozen. If she were at the top of her class, she would have gotten a better job. The top lawyers work hard and don’t want lazy ones to deal with.

    • @ChangYu-wi4ez
      @ChangYu-wi4ez 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m laughing so hard THANKS 😂

    • @jlava1575
      @jlava1575 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChangYu-wi4ez sometimes Dave's genius is almost frightening.

  • @herbertscott9575
    @herbertscott9575 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Law, like medicine is one of those gigs that sounds and looks good when you're on the outside. If you borrow 300k, you need to embrace all the suck, work 16 hour days, hustle, study, research for promotions, raises, bonuses, become a recognizable/active leader, master you job, field, craft....until your credit report reads Student Loans.......$0.00. Credit Cards.......$0.00 Auto Loans......$0.00 ECT. ECT. I've seen people do it with basic 30-60k jobs. It's nothing less of a tragedy and irresponsible to be in debt 300k, with a law degree and CHOOSING not to be the best performing lawyer in your area.

  • @wittenberg5
    @wittenberg5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It's a myth that all attorney's make 200K plus. If you don't go to a top 25 law school you will struggle because there is an over supply of attorneys. The high paying jobs are prestigious law firms that have their pick of the best graduates.

    • @drtij_dzienz
      @drtij_dzienz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah legal aid needs good lawyers but doesn’t pay the big bucks

    • @robertmalone1487
      @robertmalone1487 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true. Also sounds like she went to law school later in life. Large law firms are not going to hire a middle aged student unless they have a special skill set or was a top student. There are exceptions of course.

    • @fahlou2019
      @fahlou2019 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that's not a myth. Depending on where you live a Paralegal can make over $150k. I make more than that as a Contracts Manager.

    • @kaiung7542
      @kaiung7542 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fahlou2019
      But the COL is higher in those areas too. Definitely not worth it to get into massive debt for a law degree barely paying 100k

    • @fahlou2019
      @fahlou2019 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't have to get into debt for any degree.I didn't. The issue is that the caller seems to be confused about what she wants and just collects degrees with no goal in mind. She can make a lot of money if she stops running around without a purpose@@kaiung7542

  • @steelrob7917
    @steelrob7917 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lawyers don’t make six figures right out of the gate

  • @markburnham7512
    @markburnham7512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The lesson is this: Striving in an educational environment requires zero courage, striving in a business environment require major courage.

  • @miketheyunggod2534
    @miketheyunggod2534 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What they don’t understand is once you’re married the house is in BOTH names. Doesn’t matter who bought it.

  • @cannedham3774
    @cannedham3774 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Never felt more proud of my GED... 🤣🤣 Great episode!

  • @summerforever6736
    @summerforever6736 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So the husband pays rent to her??

  • @wa2k99
    @wa2k99 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    College is awesome. If you choose the right one

  • @harpldlewis7764
    @harpldlewis7764 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    With a Law Degree already, maybe she could do some additional studies in the are of taxation and become a Tax Attorney.

    • @JordanJiujitsu
      @JordanJiujitsu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      More studies??!?!? What got her in this mess?

    • @harpldlewis7764
      @harpldlewis7764 ปีที่แล้ว

      A Diploma in Taxation would be all that is required, not another Degree. This would cost no where near what she has already spent.@@JordanJiujitsu

    • @neisci
      @neisci ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She's a professional student. She needs to make ALL those degrees count for something and maybe later, after paying all debt she could consider going back to school. Which she doesn't need.

  • @stevenmitchell9182
    @stevenmitchell9182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate how Dave always bash the men without knowing the story.

  • @workinonit9562
    @workinonit9562 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This proves that people with all this education are not very smart. At what point would you not ask yourself what the heck am I doing????

  • @FlansyLinny
    @FlansyLinny ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How the hell did she get a loan for a house with that much student debt. I have no student debt and I make 50k and I can’t get approved for a house.

  • @anaisanwar8424
    @anaisanwar8424 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A college degree has been a total waste of my money. I’m in retail and make no money. Anyone could have gotten my job without a degree. People get on the job training . I paid cash for my degrees. I owe nothing thank gosh.

  • @westcoast5681
    @westcoast5681 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Husband. 311K debt, nope not my debt. That's drowning debt, nothing the husband could do anyway especially if he has some debt as well, he wouldn't even be able to make dent even if he tried. That's insane debt. 3 degrees, at what point did she say to herself, enough is enough and stop getting useless degrees and pay off her first degree before getting more degrees. It's insane, she likes to collect degrees instead of them to earn money. Madness

  • @northharriscollege
    @northharriscollege ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Why don’t she just be an attorney for a tech company?

    • @shameekasimon
      @shameekasimon ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sounds like a good plan.

    • @gooserich3970
      @gooserich3970 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Problem solved!

    • @markg999
      @markg999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Proably cause she isn't good enough lawyer.

    • @trent797
      @trent797 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not happening unless she went to Stanford or some other top law school AND has experience.

    • @rsimmons1980
      @rsimmons1980 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trent797 If she gains more compliance experience she could have a chance. Could move over to the big banks.

  • @jeanmethelus6595
    @jeanmethelus6595 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It is sad to see Dave always interrump Jade :( and She's very talented

    • @3str3lla18
      @3str3lla18 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did not notice until you pointed out, but it happened several time in this video.

    • @MichaelCarrPilot
      @MichaelCarrPilot ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He’s consistently talking over his co hosts. Wonder why we see such turnover.

    • @CroisMoi
      @CroisMoi ปีที่แล้ว

      I think Dave is the star. I would not call in to talk to the others.

  • @DewTime
    @DewTime ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why get a law degree if you don’t want to do the type of jobs that pay a high salary? That makes literally NO sense unless you already had a trust fund set up.
    To be honest I think she “hated” litigation because she didn’t have the competency for it. Passing a test is different from working the actual job.

    • @nadiaaguiar386
      @nadiaaguiar386 ปีที่แล้ว

      You said it! Exactly what i was thinking... she prob doesnt like it cuz shes not as good at it. Bt then she should hv thought abt alternative paths

  • @o0usf0o
    @o0usf0o ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not every lawyer makes tons of money

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some are LAZY

    • @o0usf0o
      @o0usf0o ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alinatamashevich3354 not true at all. Some work in government or corporate jobs that just pay regular incomes. One of my parents worked for the state of Florida and never made tons of money.

    • @FortuneSeek3rz
      @FortuneSeek3rz ปีที่แล้ว

      I know a personal injury attn that makes only 85k.

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FortuneSeek3rz That attorney is either lazy OR does not know how to evaluate cases, or in the extreme is a defender of underdogs, IE: helping people with marginal cases.

    • @o0usf0o
      @o0usf0o ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FortuneSeek3rz people act like all lawyers are partners with huge salaries

  • @lynmulnix8475
    @lynmulnix8475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can't wait for the Jade Warshaw show to start!!

  • @willelliott5052
    @willelliott5052 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    So he lives in her house, enjoys her greater income, lacks ambition, apparently has some legal judgement against him for $30k, and does not want to help in any of her debt. I will say it again, that a woman's choice in a husband is likely the most critical financial decision that she will make. Litigating attorneys are basically professional liars and deceivers, so I respect her aversion to that.

    • @Dell7788
      @Dell7788 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I bet he didn't have a say so in getting those degrees. So why should he pay?

    • @dr_pinna543
      @dr_pinna543 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@Dell7788they married each other for better or for worse.

    • @Dell7788
      @Dell7788 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dr_pinna543 and I'm sure he couldn't stop her from being wose

    • @Thesussysuscat
      @Thesussysuscat ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The same goes for a man marrying a women lol

    • @fightsportspace7327
      @fightsportspace7327 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@dr_pinna543So if they married each other for better or for worse are you okay with the original comment saying “he’s living in her house, enjoying her income?”

  • @НиколинаЈ
    @НиколинаЈ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    collecting degrees like a thermometer 🤣