Good story, but Cindy told Eric who she was when they were dating and he always forgave her for crossing his boundary. Of course she would think he always would.
lies after lies how many times did he have to explain to her because he kept forgiving her she thought it was a game it just made her better at cheating no means no don't ever go back, the moment i realised woman have backups waiting I refuse to deal with any woman who had male friends or had girls night out
You have to set boundaries, and stick to them. He let her cross them twice and get away with it. I also wince every time I hear "If you love me you'll let me do this." I just mentally scream, "If you love him you wouldn't cheat!"
See it is okay to have friends of the opposite sex, just not be alone with them and certainly not the other man putting his arm around the girlfriend. Good story.
I hate that the family couldn't tell that witch to move on when he broke up in college. If the guy was fine moving to an entirely seperate school to avoid her then she is too toxic for the man's mental health! Never cares about the guy's feelings. Switch this around and it is a stalker thriller!
Also, the AH had his arm around her in that first time he caught her. He didn't say she couldn't have male friends. He didn't want her going out alone with other men.
I love storied like this because if the husband's used the same logic the wives lose their ever loving minds. How many stories do they tell where the wife cheats gets divorced, ruins the husband's life... only to gwt played by op the. Demand the ex gets back with them and pissed when his moved on lol
Seriously? Samantha Grosse? My ex's name. About 64. But only a 3 year old curry would think there's anything sweet about her😅😅 You're in the USA, I'm in Australia so it aint but still lolol😅😅😅
I think what makes stories like this, which are otherwise at least decently written, so unsatisfying is that the entire position of the cheating wife is that she needed to go to this other guy mostly for emotional needs and later on a few sexual needs. But they never specify what these indeterminate "needs" are. What specific needs was her husband not meeting? And the implication is that it was somehow just not in her husband's nature to meet these needs and it's therefore reasonable for the wife to satisfy these needs elsewhere. But it's all vague and unclear. Not satisfying as a story. I would think that little detail would be very important to the story.
Kinda creeps me out that OP looked up a old's dress. This is second story in 2 days that the dude ends up someone 1/2 his age. Don't see anything wrong with it but it strains reality.
When Cindy said, "I haven't....haven't had sex with him," that reminded me of Bill Clinton's "I did not have sexual relations with that woman"
She cheated on him twice and he still took her back. Never take a cheater back it always ends the same way.
Not to mention how pathetic people look and sound whenever they take their cheating spouse back. The lack of self-respect is just ugh!
Once a cheater always a cheater sure is this story…
Im married to just my friend…
OP should have never married Cindy. She was a class A manipulator before marriage.
After he escaped from that intervention, he should've just blocked everyone, moved out of state, and never communicate with those clowns again.
@@blacksunday4231 That would have been the best plan.
Her eggs are scrambled ... no moral compass in sight ..they were doomed from the start
@@tangotango256 That is a good analogy.
Pressuring a guy to marry a cheater 😠
Best writing yet! I love the added humor in the dialog!
Good story, but Cindy told Eric who she was when they were dating and he always forgave her for crossing his boundary. Of course she would think he always would.
lies after lies how many times did he have to explain to her because he kept forgiving her she thought it was a game it just made her better at cheating no means no don't ever go back, the moment i realised woman have backups waiting I refuse to deal with any woman who had male friends or had girls night out
Wow! exactly what I've always said: If you don't want to get caught in compromising position, don't put yourself in position to be.
Avoid the appearance of impropriety.
You have to set boundaries, and stick to them. He let her cross them twice and get away with it. I also wince every time I hear "If you love me you'll let me do this." I just mentally scream, "If you love him you wouldn't cheat!"
Preach it 😮
"You're too stupid to live!"
I'm dyin' over here😂😂
Daughter wasn't playing
An absolutely fantastic story. It kept my interest all the way through...
If your girlfriend can't understand or realize that you don't hang out with male friends alone she's NEVER going to be relationship material 😂😅😊
Facts !!!!!!!
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Amen Hallelujah you got that right.
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The first time you seen her with someone else for lunch there was your answer she was a cheater
See it is okay to have friends of the opposite sex, just not be alone with them and certainly not the other man putting his arm around the girlfriend. Good story.
Twice she went outside his boundaries and yet he still married her. He's to blame for all of the BS that follows.
Of course he isn't.
Only you are responsible for your emotional fulfillment.
She just couldn't buy a clue!! Why would she think that things had changed! He was lucky to find a the love of his life.
Nice story very enjoyable with a lovely romantic twist at the end.
I hate that the family couldn't tell that witch to move on when he broke up in college. If the guy was fine moving to an entirely seperate school to avoid her then she is too toxic for the man's mental health! Never cares about the guy's feelings. Switch this around and it is a stalker thriller!
Also, the AH had his arm around her in that first time he caught her. He didn't say she couldn't have male friends. He didn't want her going out alone with other men.
If more people thought like this guy and women knew it there would probably be less cheating.
When married emotional support comes from each other. Not someone outside the relationship
good story!!
Love listening to the long stories at work!! ❤
Glad you like them!
I also appreciate when the stories don’t get raunchy
I listen in the gym and in the car lol... they are really good
Simping brings nothing but misery 😂
Just like too many Dr.'s have this viewpoint. The God complex. They are smarter and better than everyone else, or so they think.
A true alpha story.
Tyvm I really enjoyed this one,the op has backbone ,which makes a nice change from the norm ie blind simps or doormats.
I love storied like this because if the husband's used the same logic the wives lose their ever loving minds. How many stories do they tell where the wife cheats gets divorced, ruins the husband's life... only to gwt played by op the. Demand the ex gets back with them and pissed when his moved on lol
The daughter Olivia is 25 and Dad Eric is 46?
Why not, we had our first daughter when I was 22.
My son 21 years younger than me. It happens
Some people have kids early
I had my son at 21 years old he came ten days after my 21 birthday
Best Story so far! Really enjoyed.
At 18.21 that sould have been the end he married a 304
he should never taken her back
They live in McKinney and drove all the way to Round Rock for IKEA?
So they are not engage so why so be so strict about friends?
Wow hubby always have a nerd stupid dumb answer.. funny comedy story Lol😂😂😂
Damn. That’s some serious gaslighting
They wait until the last possible second to throw the gay thing in and it completely ruins the entire story.😡😡😡
He should've known all along. Once a dumb hooah always a dumb hooah
So he is going to date a women younger than his daughter?😮
Her being fulFILLED is the problem!!😂😅😢
Once ... Twice .... Three times a cheater ... and I still love you ... yes I do ... LoL !!!
Seriously?
Samantha Grosse?
My ex's name. About 64. But only a 3 year old curry would think there's anything sweet about her😅😅
You're in the USA, I'm in Australia so it aint but still lolol😅😅😅
Bravo! Great story!
Daughter's and kid's help him 😅😅😅
Love the voice
I think what makes stories like this, which are otherwise at least decently written, so unsatisfying is that the entire position of the cheating wife is that she needed to go to this other guy mostly for emotional needs and later on a few sexual needs. But they never specify what these indeterminate "needs" are.
What specific needs was her husband not meeting? And the implication is that it was somehow just not in her husband's nature to meet these needs and it's therefore reasonable for the wife to satisfy these needs elsewhere. But it's all vague and unclear.
Not satisfying as a story. I would think that little detail would be very important to the story.
Kinda creeps me out that OP looked up a old's dress. This is second story in 2 days that the dude ends up someone 1/2 his age. Don't see anything wrong with it but it strains reality.
After her track record before the marriage why wouldn't he put prenups in place.
Great story. Good man…
I love it❤
5:20 White man? So...shes not white? Hispanic? Black? Asian?
Its...somewhat more interesting when the New Love call the BH as white boy.
This story is great, but Cindy was so over-the-top crazy that it made it borderline unbelievable.
Good story. Ignore the cynics
Creepy
Friends with the opposite sex, ok. Dates, not ok.
Dude be talking to his sister a bit funky
The daughter and the daughters friend nah dude this is off
Boring
He should have never married her in the first place once a cheater always a cheater a leopard can't change it spots
Emotional fulfillment? You mean that doesnt come from cooking and cleaning the house??? 😂😂😂