I was once in an abusive relationship. It’s true, once a man puts his hands on you once, he shall do it again. I left my abusive man. I no longer tolerate physical abuse from anyone
Awesome job everyone! This turned out really great! 👏🏼 And it was such a blast to be apart of! 😊 big thanks to Vivianne. This story is close to my heart because I was mentally abused several years ago but I thank God for the strength to leave.
I’m glad her friends were able to get her out of this horrible situation! Ladies and gentlemen, there’s no reason anyone should stay in an abusive relationship. Thanks for shedding light on this issue.
Thing is, too many women don't think they are being abused by their partner. In a great number of those cases, one or both of the woman's parents and or guardians are the first ones to abuse her. Sometimes the woman's sibling(s) join in the abuse of the woman in question.
@@jannettsnow2856 Yes I was in that type of situation. In fact several of my ex's and my friends came up and told me that they had noticed my ex being abusive towards me. As in financial, medical, emotional, verbal, sexual abuse. And until I moved out of the metro that I lived in for the majority of my life. I also kept a look out to make sure he wasn't near me. He had admitted to me a few months before I shined up my spine and kicked his rump out and turned him over to the Feds. That he considered me nothing more than his property. His to abuse as he felt he could and or in his opinion, the right to do so.
@@jannettsnow2856 I can tell you that one growing up in the household with a control freak who is misogynistic. Tends to assume that being abused is normal. And assume that being threatened is the norm for how things are.
Hello my name is Brenda littlejohn and I am Domestic Survivor and I was in a domestic abuse by someone I thought, Love me and I was afraid to leave but I have had enough of it,if you are being Abused by your husband or boyfriend or anyone else don't be afraid to leave or speak 🗣️ up before it to late called police department or Family members or either your friends 💪 speak out before it coast you your life
This a great clip about how women are being abused by there partners. And so very true most women stay in these situations due to fear , fear of many things not just of the partner, but many many times once in this situation the abusers have gained all control of every aspect of these women's lives, they many times may have little to no family support, no access to money because the abuser has control of all financial matters, the woman usually are so alienated that they no longer have friends because the partner controls who they can talk to and who they can see including family and friends so the woman that is being abused truly feels completely alone and has nowhere to turn so short films like these are so so very important keep up the good work keep spreading the word so that women and at times men too nobody should have to live life in an abusive relationship
@Jyothi Harshita I'm so sorry that your in a situation like this, but please don't give up hope that this is your only future, because it's not. Getting away on your own is hard I'm not going to lie to you, but dear if there is one thing I have learned in my own life living in abusive relationship's yes more than one ( I had a way of somehow picking the worst of the worst) and each time they got worse or I got weaker and tired idk I choose not to dwell on that. But I can tell you these men underestimated my will and my determination and my love for my children these type of men always do because they think there so smart and think they covered all there base's. But I promise you when you finally finally have had more than you can stand you will find a way it's hard it take precision planning step by step day by day it can be exhausting but you can make it out you have to be ready to make some of the hardest decisions of your life when you can do that you'll get out safely there are many places now that women can turn to they are women's shelters they're not that bad there's private organizations you just have to start digging around asking when you can and maybe you'll find the right solution for you I'm not going to say there's a right solution it's not the same for every woman because each case is unique to the circumstances If I remember you said you're about to have a son have you thought about talking to your gynecologist about your abusive relationship it's just a thought but typically especially those doctors those that deal with women on a daily basis typically they have resources and have knowledge of resources and they may be able to help you I don't know your situation I don't know how violent your partner could be that you have to ask yourself is your partner going to be the type of violent person that may hurt your son my dear I will keep you in my prayers please stay safe you know just ask yourself what is worth staying with someone like that I know it's hard but I have to believe you're truly trying to start thinking of a way out because you're at least starting to speak out, I know it's hard I stayed in abusive relationship for 7 year's, then in another one for 14 years. Did you know most deaths of women are committed by someone they know a boyfriend, husband, ex-boyfriend, ex-husband. That speaks volumes dear be safe,
I hope this group addresses the emotional and mental abuse that often precedes the physical abuse. My ex was very mentally and emotionally abusive as well as manipulative. I feel that young people don't get good information on how to recognize and how to leave those situations.
Omg I told you that you couldn't come out here unless I say so ? Nobody is allowed over here and not even your own mother ? He's saying this because he wants control and knows that his mother wouldn't tolerate his bs.
Award winning short story🏅🏆.. Run away from abusive relationship notwithstanding the gender. It has never ended well for the victim. Mental health is something you can't trade. Thanks to the producer for outstanding piece.
I ran….fast! Took my 4 children,no home,no car,no education & no child support! ,I was married @ 15(1960)& …..RAN AWAY! I was scared to death! Didn’t even know how to write a check! That was 51 yrs ago! I got a nursing degree,raised all 4,,they’re all in their 60’s & I MADE IT! There’s help now,there wasn’t back then! Just turn to another woman & say….I need help getting away!
Thank you for putting this out there I'm in a domestic voilence shelter there several types there emotional, physical and financial abuse call 211 if you need help finding a local shelter or to talk to somebody do it before it's too late
Great Teaching Video! Speak Out about Abuse in Families whenever you see it! Be a Hero because You could be Saving Lives especially if there are kids as well as a wife! 👍👍⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Omg,I Would NOT put up with this abuse!, So glad the friends were in the house when the boyfriend started his abuse. Hope he goes to jail for along time!!!
Yes - Great post and this one hit home. This clip hit home for me - you want to leave but are afraid what will happen when you do. I heard that women are abused and end up dead because they left. I had to leave and leave out of state and couldn't be happier. Oh please "Robert saying to his wife "What are you doing in the living room " ? I'm so glad that case worker took her away!
I have never seen where the local authorities respond or react so swiftly you usually have to go through a lot to get their help unless they see it happen and family services never comes out to help but if this is how they are doing it these days then this is a really great thing to happen to a woman in need of help from her abusive husband or other
From someone that's been there, done that on the part of Mrs. Simpson, I thank you for this. Please, anyone, if you see something, say something! It's better to be wrong then doing nothing. TFS
So glad to see you working on your passion Vivianne! I wouldn’t expect anything less than films you care about deeply with real life lessons and morals. Keep at it!
That’s exactly the kind of things I would have done. I would have been outside until someone opened that door! A lot of women can relate to her situation because when someone is abused it’s kept a secret. A good support system is always needed in those situations.
You hit me once, twice, not the third time,I am out a their , nobody will make my body a punching bag, because I am a woman,no way Hosea,I am going to fight back,stop depends on man,learn to depend on yourself, work hard for a living and don't depends on others.Depend on God 🙏 he will help you if you ask him.
Please watch this & send it to others. I had friends intervene for me or i would have been dead. It is not easy just to leave on your own. Help someone if you see abuse.
This is a great movie with a very important lesson. Please never ever put up with any kind of abuse from anyone. Help is always closer than you think. Don't be ashamed to ask for help please. Remember, You are not alone
I wished someone had been around when I was being abused physical emotional and monetary abuse I lost everything when I got away i lost my home and money and self respect
Two things I want to STATE Out, one dcf sometimes destroys families not help them, two every relationship is not perfect verbal negative words will be said sometimes it doesn't mean automatically abuse. When things negatively become physical then it's time for action to be taken. None of us are perfect but it's up to all of us to keep our temper and frustrations in check. Patience, tolerance, understanding and keeping emotions in check especially when blinded by anger is the key. You can't take back what you've said or done without thinking.
I have been abused because I thought that you were not supposed to hit your husband. But when I ended up in Hospital for trying to commit suicide and found out no such thing existed ( my thinking that it was wrong) in the Bible. So I beat him up. TWICE. He ended up wanting Medical attention, instead. But he was too embarrassed to get it. If I had known that, our marriage might have been different. Because he would have stopped hitting me sooner. My experience taught me something. -;Not all skin teeth is laughter. -. I am grateful.
My daughter was in an abusive marriage. After she divorced him, I bumped into his mother who told me that "your daughter should have just kept her mouth shut and put up with it. His dad has hit me all our married life and it hasn't done me any harm" I told her that just by saying that sentence proved just how much harm he had done.
I just found your channel today, and I'm so glad I did!! I LOVE your videos! Your actors are so professional! 👏👏👏 I am currently an ongoing survivor of verbal and emotional abuse and former physical abuse, but I'm stuck...he is bedridden and cannot care for himself. I cannot leave him in his condition. However, every day, he verbally and emotionally abuses me. I stay strong and do my best not to let it damage my self-esteem, but I feel that I am stronger than most women. I've been through a lot in my life, including sexual abuse when I was very young up until I was about 20-by different people! I feel like I must've had VICTIM written across my forehead!! I've been raped 4 times by different guys...I was always in the wrong place at the wrong time... But, I found the most wonderful man who is my soul mate in 1985. We were married over 30 years until he passed away in 2016. Now, I have another man who I wish I had never met!! He was so kind, caring, and loving until he moved in with my family. Then, he became a MONSTER. He daily ridicules me and puts me down...he laid hands on me one time in our relationship, but he knew I was seriously angry with him, and I would've made him leave if he EVER touched me again!! In fact, he called his doctor the next day to tell him what had happened. The doctor doubled his anger medication! But, while here, Karma stepped in; he has slipped and fallen several times in the bathtub or in the floor, which has fractured his back in several places! But, being the kind, Christian woman I am, I take care of him... Today is his 64th birthday, but it's not a happy one. He's been very sick and on the verge of death several times in the past few months...I just pray for him daily that he will change and be saved, but I doubt that he will... So, I'm stuck with him until one of us passes away...I can't make him leave because he is a very vengeful person who has threatened to do something to my family just to hurt me... At least, he is unable to physically harm me anymore! And, he is only getting weaker every day as his muscles are becoming atrophied. Please, always treat people with kindness, caring, love, and respect, but do not stay in an abusive relationship if there is any way out!! There are thousands of women's shelters all across the country that will help you get on your feet and help you find a job. For those of you who are abusers, always remember...Karma's a b*tch...and then you die!!
Yes it's great to see the help available nowadays, back in 1983 there wasn't except to go underground, and with 4 children how could you manage that and friends and family turned their back did not want to get involved and the so called church friends did not want anything to do with me, the pastor told me I would go to hell if I left my husband he even wrote a letter to the court recommending my husband get custody of the kids, I was bewildered bcz the church had done family counseling for years my son and walked around with black eyes and bruises all the time so the church was aware, I couldn't believe the righteousness but the Lord be praised with a lot of hard work things turned around for me believe a lot of bad memories but they're just that
Jenny Smith You are one of the few women that had the courage to leave, and it is worse when you have kids. I also had an Abusive husband, and my mother helped me by hiding me in another state. My son was only 1yr old. I lived in a cheap hotel in San Francisco. Several years ago, my ex-husband killed a man, kidnapped a Sheriff, went to prison for life, and died their because he had hepatitis c from being a drug user. So you see, some of us were able to move on. Good For You!!
Abusive relationships in all aspect of life is horrible. More women are abused then men. This is an informative and eye opener to all Race and Greed. Men need to come out and exposed this to the World. Forget about your man-hood and pride. We need friends like the ones in the movies: They did not give up. We need to help and not judge one another. Amen
Being married doesn't give you the upper hand to abuse an control your spouse that's not a safe an healthy relationship !!! Nobody should have to put up with that !!! don't feel that abuse is ok and its normal don't lie or make excuses for your abuser Get the help you need to save yourself !!! Especially if someone is stepping up to help! real friends are there for you they won't stay quiet an ignore the signs of abuse ! If you see something say something !! Very important !!! Abusers are nothing but selfish cowards who deserve to be behind bars for the rest of there life !!!
To all respectable women out there don't think twice to abuse back whom so ever abuse you no matter the gender... Reporting to authority should be our second action.
I'm a domestic violence survivor if the next door neighbor hadn't called it in my newborn twins and my 2and half year old son might not have survived. Please if you hear something or see something make that call it can save a life.
I have a friend that is currently in a abusive relationship and she also have to please her spouse with different woman she share's 3 kids with her spouse I tried helping her out now shes stating she no longer wanna speak to me so with that being said if she doesn't want to help her self nobody can
She was acting in the extreme..I think a majority of the abused are much better at hiding the facts. It can be very subtle..abusers are sometimes very careful not to leave bruises where they are visible. Abusers also use a formula of brain washing to the point the abused actually blames themselves for the abuse. YES friends should help but also be aware of how you help so that the person isn't put in imminent danger. Awareness can save a life of misery or a life.
Thanks Vivianne no woman should be abused quietly.
Same thing for men because men are also victims of domestic violence.
Good message to women in similar situations. Don't expect an abuser to change. They never change. Best thing to do is to leave.
Exactly the movie is so interesting, it teach me so many thing😘😘
And to have some sort of plan on how to do it. Like even just having bus or taxi fare to the nearest shelter that deals with abuse.
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I WAS IN A ABUSIVE MARRIAGE IN THE 1960'S, THANK GOD I GOT AWAY.
Good for you!
So sorry you had to go through all of that but thank god your okay 👌
Love u ❤ I'm glad u are safe
Good stay safe❤
Great story. I believe a lot of women in abusive relationships can relate to this story.
Yep
Mental bondage is a lot stronger than physical. Hope someone was empowered by this!
I was once in an abusive relationship. It’s true, once a man puts his hands on you once, he shall do it again. I left my abusive man. I no longer tolerate physical abuse from anyone
A strong message to stay alert and not be afraid to take action to help another person!
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I was physically abused years ago. I decided to leave that day I was the best partner so when he went work I left him never to look back.
@@venusvenustaylor2392 I'm glad to hear you were able to get out of that negative relationship and hope you are doing great!
This was great! I especially liked the background music. Very intense! Glad that abuser was found out and his victim on the way to safety.
Awesome job everyone! This turned out really great! 👏🏼 And it was such a blast to be apart of! 😊 big thanks to Vivianne. This story is close to my heart because I was mentally abused several years ago but I thank God for the strength to leave.
I’m glad her friends were able to get her out of this horrible situation! Ladies and gentlemen, there’s no reason anyone should stay in an abusive relationship. Thanks for shedding light on this issue.
Thing is, too many women don't think they are being abused by their partner. In a great number of those cases, one or both of the woman's parents and or guardians are the first ones to abuse her. Sometimes the woman's sibling(s) join in the abuse of the woman in question.
Was you ever in that situation if not don't say anything it's harder than you think to get out and if your mahe it out it's a relief
@@suzettekath9860 no they know they are there threats and other things
@@jannettsnow2856 Yes I was in that type of situation. In fact several of my ex's and my friends came up and told me that they had noticed my ex being abusive towards me. As in financial, medical, emotional, verbal, sexual abuse.
And until I moved out of the metro that I lived in for the majority of my life. I also kept a look out to make sure he wasn't near me. He had admitted to me a few months before I shined up my spine and kicked his rump out and turned him over to the Feds. That he considered me nothing more than his property. His to abuse as he felt he could and or in his opinion, the right to do so.
@@jannettsnow2856 I can tell you that one growing up in the household with a control freak who is misogynistic. Tends to assume that being abused is normal. And assume that being threatened is the norm for how things are.
Yes we need more brave women like this AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
I had chills all over watching this. It is such a powerful story that so many people can relate to. Well done Vivianne.
Need a part 2 to this
Hello my name is Brenda littlejohn and I am Domestic Survivor and I was in a domestic abuse by someone I thought, Love me and I was afraid to leave but I have had enough of it,if you are being Abused by your husband or boyfriend or anyone else don't be afraid to leave or speak 🗣️ up before it to late called police department or Family members or either your friends 💪 speak out before it coast you your life
This a great clip about how women are being abused by there partners. And so very true most women stay in these situations due to fear , fear of many things not just of the partner, but many many times once in this situation the abusers have gained all control of every aspect of these women's lives, they many times may have little to no family support, no access to money because the abuser has control of all financial matters, the woman usually are so alienated that they no longer have friends because the partner controls who they can talk to and who they can see including family and friends so the woman that is being abused truly feels completely alone and has nowhere to turn so short films like these are so so very important keep up the good work keep spreading the word so that women and at times men too nobody should have to live life in an abusive relationship
@Jyothi Harshita I'm so sorry that your in a situation like this, but please don't give up hope that this is your only future, because it's not. Getting away on your own is hard I'm not going to lie to you, but dear if there is one thing I have learned in my own life living in abusive relationship's yes more than one ( I had a way of somehow picking the worst of the worst) and each time they got worse or I got weaker and tired idk I choose not to dwell on that. But I can tell you these men underestimated my will and my determination and my love for my children these type of men always do because they think there so smart and think they covered all there base's. But I promise you when you finally finally have had more than you can stand you will find a way it's hard it take precision planning step by step day by day it can be exhausting but you can make it out you have to be ready to make some of the hardest decisions of your life when you can do that you'll get out safely there are many places now that women can turn to they are women's shelters they're not that bad there's private organizations you just have to start digging around asking when you can and maybe you'll find the right solution for you I'm not going to say there's a right solution it's not the same for every woman because each case is unique to the circumstances
If I remember you said you're about to have a son have you thought about talking to your gynecologist about your abusive relationship it's just a thought but typically especially those doctors those that deal with women on a daily basis typically they have resources and have knowledge of resources and they may be able to help you I don't know your situation I don't know how violent your partner could be that you have to ask yourself is your partner going to be the type of violent person that may hurt your son my dear I will keep you in my prayers please stay safe you know just ask yourself what is worth staying with someone like that I know it's hard but I have to believe you're truly trying to start thinking of a way out because you're at least starting to speak out, I know it's hard I stayed in abusive relationship for 7 year's, then in another one for 14 years. Did you know most deaths of women are committed by someone they know a boyfriend, husband, ex-boyfriend, ex-husband. That speaks volumes dear be safe,
Very touching it’s hard sometimes the woman too scared to leave
Another great message. I will surely have my daughter watch this.
I’m so happy that no one is bashing her for staying.
I even know why she didn't leave with her friends. She knew that would be the first place he'd look.
She came out to get help.
Fantastic awareness video. ALWAYS do something about any abuse you see. Report it immediately before it's too late for the victim.
I wish most people had friends like this. IRL, most people don’t care. They turn a blind eye.
I hope this group addresses the emotional and mental abuse that often precedes the physical abuse. My ex was very mentally and emotionally abusive as well as manipulative. I feel that young people don't get good information on how to recognize and how to leave those situations.
Omg I told you that you couldn't come out here unless I say so ? Nobody is allowed over here and not even your own mother ? He's saying this because he wants control and knows that his mother wouldn't tolerate his bs.
Excellent illustration of what happens in a relationships pertaining to domestic violence. Keep up the great work!
Movies like this will enlighten you and educate on what is right.......
WOW!!!! thank you for sharing this message! Such an awareness to so many without a voice
Parents are to really educate children after watching this.and most of us watching it.it's a lesson for us.
Award winning short story🏅🏆.. Run away from abusive relationship notwithstanding the gender. It has never ended well for the victim. Mental health is something you can't trade. Thanks to the producer for outstanding piece.
so true
I ran….fast! Took my 4 children,no home,no car,no education & no child support! ,I was married @ 15(1960)& …..RAN AWAY! I was scared to death! Didn’t even know how to write a check! That was 51 yrs ago! I got a nursing degree,raised all 4,,they’re all in their 60’s & I MADE IT! There’s help now,there wasn’t back then! Just turn to another woman & say….I need help getting away!
Friends can be your angel.
Thank you for putting this out there I'm in a domestic voilence shelter there several types there emotional, physical and financial abuse call 211 if you need help finding a local shelter or to talk to somebody do it before it's too late
Great Teaching Video! Speak Out about Abuse in Families whenever you see it! Be a Hero because You could be Saving Lives especially if there are kids as well as a wife! 👍👍⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Omg,I Would NOT put up with this abuse!, So glad the friends were in the house when the boyfriend started his abuse.
Hope he goes to jail for along time!!!
Hope his cellmate is some 6 foot 4 inch 350 pound bruiser, named Bubba.
Yes - Great post and this one hit home. This clip hit home for me - you want to leave but are afraid what will happen when you do. I heard that women are abused and end up dead because they left. I had to leave and leave out of state and couldn't be happier. Oh please "Robert saying to his wife "What are you doing in the living room " ? I'm so glad that case worker took her away!
I have never seen where the local authorities respond or react so swiftly you usually have to go through a lot to get their help unless they see it happen and family services never comes out to help but if this is how they are doing it these days then this is a really great thing to happen to a woman in need of help from her abusive husband or other
Wow what a great job by the entire cast and director!!!
Another well done project, Vivianne! Great message!
Funny how innocent the husband acted,glad that the friends turned him in to the authorities
What a great story! 👍
From someone that's been there, done that on the part of Mrs. Simpson, I thank you for this. Please, anyone, if you see something, say something! It's better to be wrong then doing nothing. TFS
I agree .
I'd try n get here out of there invite her to a brunch or go back at least when the husbands at work
I am so very happy that her friends helped her get out of that relationship God bless her
Another great movie! Keep up the good work! 👍🏾👍🏾
This movie is very educative with a strong message for people in abusive relationship especially women.
It's unfortunate but God will take care of women under bondage. I can relate
Yep - I also can relate.
Me to got out of it years ago never be better get out stay out and never look back
God?
Wowwww this film is so interesting, I really really love it because I learn something from it, Mama keep the good work up👌
in my past i almost died,,,my sister set me up to be beat,,,,i dont trust any one any more,,,thank you for this message,,,great life lesson,,,
So glad to see you working on your passion Vivianne! I wouldn’t expect anything less than films you care about deeply with real life lessons and morals. Keep at it!
why is that guy so into his phone ??? he does not care what his wife is saying????
Great job everyone! I love how this turned out!
Wahooooo , this is another Incredible show film , if you see something , say something !!!. Lesson to be learned.
This is an amazing clip about how women get abused by there partner/partners and its so so very true💞
That’s exactly the kind of things I would have done. I would have been outside until someone opened that door! A lot of women can relate to her situation because when someone is abused it’s kept a secret. A good support system is always needed in those situations.
My husband abused me physically, mentally...for 2 years but I prayed to God and he answered my prayer.God's love lifted me.Amen..
You hit me once, twice, not the third time,I am out a their , nobody will make my body a punching bag, because I am a woman,no way Hosea,I am going to fight back,stop depends on man,learn to depend on yourself, work hard for a living and don't depends on others.Depend on God 🙏 he will help you if you ask him.
Please watch this & send it to others. I had friends intervene for me or i would have been dead. It is not easy just to leave on your own. Help someone if you see abuse.
So happy they found her and that there is people out there who still cares thank u
Lovely script.. I enjoyed it..
This young girl.made the right choice I know I've been there not a good life
This is a great movie with a very important lesson. Please never ever put up with any kind of abuse from anyone. Help is always closer than you think. Don't be ashamed to ask for help please. Remember, You are not alone
Pere I agree
Someone needs to
Know in detail
i love this health worker lady. Congratulate and many thanks for your new chennel
Never go alone please take police with you or friends to please
This is such a great film, it really teaches us about how abused people may live their life day to day and conveys a very powerful message
I wished someone had been around when I was being abused physical emotional and monetary abuse I lost everything when I got away i lost my home and money and self respect
Ms Dorothy, sorry for all the losses. I’m glad you got away. Thank you for watching.
Case worker should never go in alone. Too much can happen.
Two things I want to STATE Out, one dcf sometimes destroys families not help them, two every relationship is not perfect verbal negative words will be said sometimes it doesn't mean automatically abuse. When things negatively become physical then it's time for action to be taken. None of us are perfect but it's up to all of us to keep our temper and frustrations in check. Patience, tolerance, understanding and keeping emotions in check especially when blinded by anger is the key. You can't take back what you've said or done without thinking.
I was in a relationship just like this with my 1st husband so glad her friends intervened
U hope he’s honest to the police Station!!! If not he will go to jail!!!!!!!!!
A woman place is NOT JUST THE KITCHEN
Thanks for the upload, the film is on point, take a stand against abuse..
I wish someone had said something about what they were seeing, before I got the courage to say, "Hell No" for myself.
I was I'm an in abusive relationship when 19 years old and know what its like
It took me 12 years to gather the courage and strength to leave
Glad you go away. You could have died!!!!
If only it was that easy
We all need friends like those two ❤️❤️🙏
I have been abused because I thought that you were not supposed to hit your husband.
But when I ended up in Hospital for trying to commit suicide and found out no such thing existed ( my thinking that it was wrong) in the Bible. So I beat him up. TWICE.
He ended up wanting Medical attention, instead. But he was too embarrassed to get it.
If I had known that, our marriage might have been different. Because he would have stopped hitting me sooner.
My experience taught me something. -;Not all skin teeth is laughter. -. I am grateful.
I just found this channel today I'm literally
watching all the stories! I'm glad I subscribed. I will share on my Facebook
Awesome, thank you!
He should go to jail forever devil
Aww 🥰 awesome 😎 message
This is a great movie. I love it. Great lesson for everyone 👍
Such an important message! 👏
God does not tolerate abuse in anyway.no one should lay there hands on anyone for no reason
I rarely get this kind of response from the authorities these days. It's so unfortunate.
My daughter was in an abusive marriage. After she divorced him, I bumped into his mother who told me that "your daughter should have just kept her mouth shut and put up with it. His dad has hit me all our married life and it hasn't done me any harm" I told her that just by saying that sentence proved just how much harm he had done.
I am happy her friends got into her affairs He is a beast
I just found your channel today, and I'm so glad I did!! I LOVE your videos! Your actors are so professional! 👏👏👏
I am currently an ongoing survivor of verbal and emotional abuse and former physical abuse, but I'm stuck...he is bedridden and cannot care for himself. I cannot leave him in his condition.
However, every day, he verbally and emotionally abuses me. I stay strong and do my best not to let it damage my self-esteem, but I feel that I am stronger than most women.
I've been through a lot in my life, including sexual abuse when I was very young up until I was about 20-by different people! I feel like I must've had VICTIM written across my forehead!!
I've been raped 4 times by different guys...I was always in the wrong place at the wrong time...
But, I found the most wonderful man who is my soul mate in 1985. We were married over 30 years until he passed away in 2016.
Now, I have another man who I wish I had never met!! He was so kind, caring, and loving until he moved in with my family. Then, he became a MONSTER.
He daily ridicules me and puts me down...he laid hands on me one time in our relationship, but he knew I was seriously angry with him, and I would've made him leave if he EVER touched me again!! In fact, he called his doctor the next day to tell him what had happened. The doctor doubled his anger medication!
But, while here, Karma stepped in; he has slipped and fallen several times in the bathtub or in the floor, which has fractured his back in several places! But, being the kind, Christian woman I am, I take care of him...
Today is his 64th birthday, but it's not a happy one. He's been very sick and on the verge of death several times in the past few months...I just pray for him daily that he will change and be saved, but I doubt that he will...
So, I'm stuck with him until one of us passes away...I can't make him leave because he is a very vengeful person who has threatened to do something to my family just to hurt me...
At least, he is unable to physically harm me anymore! And, he is only getting weaker every day as his muscles are becoming atrophied.
Please, always treat people with kindness, caring, love, and respect, but do not stay in an abusive relationship if there is any way out!!
There are thousands of women's shelters all across the country that will help you get on your feet and help you find a job.
For those of you who are abusers, always remember...Karma's a b*tch...and then you die!!
Some body needs to whoop his beyond
She knows when she has enough no one has to tell her to leave she will get the F on FRFR
Yes it's great to see the help available nowadays, back in 1983 there wasn't except to go underground, and with 4 children how could you manage that and friends and family turned their back did not want to get involved and the so called church friends did not want anything to do with me, the pastor told me I would go to hell if I left my husband he even wrote a letter to the court recommending my husband get custody of the kids, I was bewildered bcz the church had done family counseling for years my son and walked around with black eyes and bruises all the time so the church was aware, I couldn't believe the righteousness but the Lord be praised with a lot of hard work things turned around for me believe a lot of bad memories but they're just that
Jenny Smith
You are one of the few women that had the courage to leave, and it is worse when you have kids. I also had an Abusive husband, and my mother helped me by hiding me in another state. My son was only 1yr old. I lived in a cheap hotel in San Francisco. Several years ago, my ex-husband killed a man, kidnapped a Sheriff, went to prison for life, and died their because he had hepatitis c from being a drug user. So you see, some of us were able to move on. Good For You!!
Good for you. Fight back with whatever you can d
Find to defend yourself. Don’t stop until hey a bloody mess, knocked out unconscious or deceased!!!!
Abusive relationships in all aspect of life is horrible. More women are abused then men.
This is an informative and eye opener to all Race and Greed.
Men need to come out and exposed this to the World. Forget about your man-hood and pride.
We need friends like the ones in the movies: They did not give up.
We need to help and not judge one another.
Amen
This so sad 😥 this happens and worse everyday
I would always say something😡😡😡😡
Being married doesn't give you the upper hand to abuse an control your spouse that's not a safe an healthy relationship !!! Nobody should have to put up with that !!! don't feel that abuse is ok and its normal don't lie or make excuses for your abuser Get the help you need to save yourself !!! Especially if someone is stepping up to help! real friends are there for you they won't stay quiet an ignore the signs of abuse !
If you see something say something !! Very important !!!
Abusers are nothing but selfish cowards who deserve to be behind bars for the rest of there life !!!
To all respectable women out there don't think twice to abuse back whom so ever abuse you no matter the gender... Reporting to authority should be our second action.
We needs paying attention and cares about other people,,helping each other,,. i think its the strong message of this short movie,,good job
I'm a domestic violence survivor if the next door neighbor hadn't called it in my newborn twins and my 2and half year old son might not have survived. Please if you hear something or see something make that call it can save a life.
A lot of women wouldn't have a problem leaving a man who is struggling financially. But they won't leave a man who is physically abusive
@Stsve Rosensteel..With all do respect those are 2 different situations, Dont judge til you have walked in those exact shoes.
never put your hand on a woman
I have a friend that is currently in a abusive relationship and she also have to please her spouse with different woman she share's 3 kids with her spouse I tried helping her out now shes stating she no longer wanna speak to me so with that being said if she doesn't want to help her self nobody can
Wow. In the middle of a divorce now because of this. Prayers are up for all. TFS Be Blessed
She was acting in the extreme..I think a majority of the abused are much better at hiding the facts. It can be very subtle..abusers are sometimes very careful not to leave bruises where they are visible. Abusers also use a formula of brain washing to the point the abused actually blames themselves for the abuse. YES friends should help but also be aware of how you help so that the person isn't put in imminent danger. Awareness can save a life of misery or a life.
If I could help every victim in that situation I would.😢😢😢
Good flim he gets what he really deserves jailtime never ever hit a woman at all.
I'm very very glad that her friends helped her out
Is a great moving