Difference in courtship, yes. He wanted to rush (I later learned it was due to deep insecurity and fear of rejection) and I said no, because I wanted a healthy foundation… so he dated someone else. A man came into my life who was in complete alignment, and he’s the one I’m with now. I do believe the first one is very different from what I thought he was. He married a different woman who he said he didn’t want to marry, and I grew from the pain of the whole experience. I wish him the best.
I went to college , i know that the books didnt lie. Insecure is one reason many dont go fuether in a relationship. But the other 17 volumes of why people dont settle down or have a deep meaningful relationship may be shocking . This can be positive or negative. Take for instance, root work . If they have two loving parents in a nurturing house hold. They may just wait for the right one that fits what the persons parents did. Some want a person who loves material . Love language of, here is what money can buy. Love the material for i cant deeplly connect my feelings and express it emotionally. Im a robot and give love with material items. Some just want friendship. One good one is hard to come by. So when insecurities arise . It leaves room for doubt . And when doubt is what is offered in a relationship, that is the cornerstone to the foundation. It wlll crumble unless you give the insecurities to the lord. Third party people that i call wedges are a huge part of why society is running a muck. Most go to a friend or family. And what happens is, they ruin the two party connection. Professuonals actually get down to the roots. Honest with self comes first . Then the next.
4:57. Holy crap. It was me. I met someone that I really liked. i thought he might be my twin flame. I knew we couldn't be together now, but I wanted to heal myself so that when the time came I would be ready to be in that relationship. I actually said it out loud: what can I do to heal myself? I don't think he is a good friend. If he's the victim, why aren't we talking about all the gaslighting, the manipulation, the bread crumbing that has been going on in this situation? The stonewalling? When I'd tell him how I felt and he'd ignore me for three weeks until I go over it? I realized he's avoidant and I'm anxious, which I don't like. He definitely played that hand to keep me around for when he did want something. And now I feel sorry for him because I know he doesn't have friends. But I also feel like there is something in that location that I am supposed to do. I had a dream about it.
Same thing happened to me, almost to a tee. He knew how I felt, and he hid, avoided, ignored me, then when I got discouraged and went back to my hometown, he dated other women, then said it was because I left! 🙄 He eventually married someone else, after breadcrumbing me and treating me like an option. And I feel for him why?
I also found out he slept with a girl from his work while he was courting me... it really broke my trust for him & then our relationship deteriorated from there
@@CorrynAlice Same omg, that's what made me go through his phone... not good to invade his privacy like that BUT the niggle wouldn't stop. I feel like this message is in tandem with the "nobody compares to you" message. He was a player who fell in luv & didn't have the tools to sustain. Mind you I also have my toxic ways but I was willing to be real about it.
It always pays to Observe everything & the Twinflame karmic showed me his true colours,mask fell off,a shame to damage a friendship, he was a catalyst for my growth who proved who he is,by not healing his inner wounds.I won't be bullied,manipulated or controlled in any relationship he goes for lustful karmic connections,wich in turn fail,i think this connection controlled him,i was his guiding light,i guided him & he chose not to level up.i had unconditional love for him,it can't be 1sided,i choose to walk away & love me more & take my power back
If someone is married or in a committed relationship, I do not feel comfortable being part of that. Even as a friend, and in all honesty, as much as I respect this person, I do not agree with their relationship.
Wow. How do these readings resonate So accurately, like a detailed, forensic personal reading, for more than one person?? This eas was eerily accurate. Others I f yours have been so too for my situation over the past 15 months. Now. I wish you would give some initials. Thank you. 🙏 ❤
Wow, so on point. I got pregnant and flipped a switch. Ran for the hills got so cold and hurtful despite me staying in my own lane and asking him for nothing. He tried going back to an ex (who I knew about the whole time, and who he had some delusional “plan” with). It blew up in his face. Now he’s trying to come around and make his way into the birth TWO WEEKS from my due date. Boundaries are high even though the unconditional love is still present for him.
Im soooooooo good Jess. I dont have to listen. I know him better then ANY. Ive confessed and purged ( publically too ) I love you ❤ Thankyou to the Chaos Family who truly cares. Though you were thrown in the Fire with me (Sacred) I truly say thankyou. I ONLY have well wishes for all. Time for all to heal. Miracles Miss Joyce, Miss Joni ❤🎉
wanted to share this with you. a couple weeks ago i heard an owl while i was walking to my apt laundry room. never have i ever heard before. then like 30 min went by and i remembered your little owl sound in the beginning. it was so cool. your readings most definitely resonate 💛💛💛
So much bad happened between us, that by that time, no I did not want to ve friends and I was open and honest about that with this person. I knew his activities.
He keeps trying to connect to me from this low vibrational energy.. to form an attachment rather than a connection. And I’m just not having it. I know he prayed for me but he’s refusing to depend on God to actually make us work. He’s my person, just not this version. God is encouraging me to not pursue, just keep my heart open.
We had the potential with Aquarian vibes, but he hid the seriousness of a life-long alcohol addiction. I could have been a friend and when he was sober, been more but he was not healed, honest, or secure. And it did blow up. What a waste.
He met me on Match, lied about being divorced, and told me that after we were already on our first date after weeks of talking and I was miles away from my home. Now, after he started this relationship, he told me that he loves his wife even though she left him. I felt so hurt and betrayed because we had started bonding, and he love bombed me from the start.
He was nightmare l seen it in him to karmic narcissist player played himself completely controlling very shady l had true intentions but he didn't but knew he's intentions was destroyed me then smile in your face it don't matter anymore she's involved in witchcraft and him lieing to themselves 😮😊😂
No f.... s..... It's called traumabonding. I've called him out on it several times. I've been sick for a year with tension in my upper body. Because I was on three dates with a guy who did not have the decency to end it. Like the rest of the dudes I've been with. Guys, you really need to heal. And then the whole twin flame concept......ufffghhh. And their way of loving you from a distance, putting love into your heart sometimes and leaving you devastated other times. Or having several women at the same time. But all of that is not the worse. The worst is them sucking on your energy and emotional life. People say you can't get out of those things blablabla it's a divine connection. I don't think the divine or the universe or God, and really I prefer the divine because the divine is not only a person, it's a lot of things, really do prefer us to be happy. And free. And this guy has really made me feel extremely unfree and uncomfortable. And I am tired of reading crazy tarot or other weird sh....... I'm out. For the sake of my freedom and sanity. Another thing if the boundaries are clear it's perfectly okay to flirt with another or even having a romantic moment without it meaning that you have to get married or even that you want to end up in bed. What the f..... became of flirting in this world to test the waters? Or just dating? People have gotten crazy. May the divine bless you all.
I told him through your youtube that karmic energy is lustful...and twin flame energy isnt... He has been brainwashed into thinking tht the karmic he is with, is his twin flame and that im the karmic...🤔 So he has lust towards me bcos he hasnt healed and not bcos i am the karmic...he needs to ground himself and balance the higher chakras...he dsnt hv the same shmex drive with the karmic...and he thinks that that is Divine shmex...🤔 How the third parties take advantage😱 of the empathic Divine Masculine is so visible here...and that too he was under drugs and depressed state... And hes also promised her that he wudnt communicate with me... another blunder... hence believes all tht she and others tell him...😱 The tarots all screaming that he is my twin flame...but he wants to believe the karmic...and he is in a pickle...
Survivors of Narssissim and people that are going through this Honestly Life isnt as hard as this its not in your mind See it as it is God Jesus is The Way The Truth And The Life Thankyou Lord ❤😊
Difference in courtship, yes. He wanted to rush (I later learned it was due to deep insecurity and fear of rejection) and I said no, because I wanted a healthy foundation… so he dated someone else. A man came into my life who was in complete alignment, and he’s the one I’m with now. I do believe the first one is very different from what I thought he was. He married a different woman who he said he didn’t want to marry, and I grew from the pain of the whole experience. I wish him the best.
Good for you❤
He is a scorpio and we had it all, or so I thought. Unbelievable betrayal.
I went to college , i know that the books didnt lie. Insecure is one reason many dont go fuether in a relationship. But the other 17 volumes of why people dont settle down or have a deep meaningful relationship may be shocking . This can be positive or negative. Take for instance, root work . If they have two loving parents in a nurturing house hold. They may just wait for the right one that fits what the persons parents did. Some want a person who loves material . Love language of, here is what money can buy. Love the material for i cant deeplly connect my feelings and express it emotionally. Im a robot and give love with material items. Some just want friendship. One good one is hard to come by. So when insecurities arise . It leaves room for doubt . And when doubt is what is offered in a relationship, that is the cornerstone to the foundation. It wlll crumble unless you give the insecurities to the lord. Third party people that i call wedges are a huge part of why society is running a muck. Most go to a friend or family. And what happens is, they ruin the two party connection. Professuonals actually get down to the roots. Honest with self comes first . Then the next.
4:57. Holy crap. It was me. I met someone that I really liked. i thought he might be my twin flame. I knew we couldn't be together now, but I wanted to heal myself so that when the time came I would be ready to be in that relationship. I actually said it out loud: what can I do to heal myself?
I don't think he is a good friend. If he's the victim, why aren't we talking about all the gaslighting, the manipulation, the bread crumbing that has been going on in this situation? The stonewalling? When I'd tell him how I felt and he'd ignore me for three weeks until I go over it? I realized he's avoidant and I'm anxious, which I don't like.
He definitely played that hand to keep me around for when he did want something. And now I feel sorry for him because I know he doesn't have friends. But I also feel like there is something in that location that I am supposed to do. I had a dream about it.
Same thing happened to me, almost to a tee. He knew how I felt, and he hid, avoided, ignored me, then when I got discouraged and went back to my hometown, he dated other women, then said it was because I left! 🙄 He eventually married someone else, after breadcrumbing me and treating me like an option. And I feel for him why?
@@EllieM_Travels I'm so sorry. I'm pretty sure that neither one of us need to be treated this way. We deserve better.
You Are 100,000% Spot On...
His whole personality changed when we became committed...
I also found out he slept with a girl from his work while he was courting me... it really broke my trust for him & then our relationship deteriorated from there
Exactly and it’s like my intuition could feel it coming….
@@CorrynAlice Same omg, that's what made me go through his phone... not good to invade his privacy like that BUT the niggle wouldn't stop. I feel like this message is in tandem with the "nobody compares to you" message. He was a player who fell in luv & didn't have the tools to sustain. Mind you I also have my toxic ways but I was willing to be real about it.
In my situation he did this straight after we were married.and by the messages I'd read it had been going on for quite a while.
It always pays to Observe everything & the Twinflame karmic showed me his true colours,mask fell off,a shame to damage a friendship, he was a catalyst for my growth who proved who he is,by not healing his inner wounds.I won't be bullied,manipulated or controlled in any relationship he goes for lustful karmic connections,wich in turn fail,i think this connection controlled him,i was his guiding light,i guided him & he chose not to level up.i had unconditional love for him,it can't be 1sided,i choose to walk away & love me more & take my power back
If someone is married or in a committed relationship, I do not feel comfortable being part of that. Even as a friend, and in all honesty, as much as I respect this person, I do not agree with their relationship.
I swear Jess is telepathically spying on me 😅
Ignore it stubbornly. Close your energy to them. Ignore the sincronicities. The divine only comunicates with kindness. Not confusing crap.
Wow. How do these readings resonate So accurately, like a detailed, forensic personal reading, for more than one person?? This eas was eerily accurate. Others I f yours have been so too for my situation over the past 15 months.
Now.
I wish you would give some initials.
Thank you. 🙏 ❤
Wow, so on point. I got pregnant and flipped a switch. Ran for the hills got so cold and hurtful despite me staying in my own lane and asking him for nothing. He tried going back to an ex (who I knew about the whole time, and who he had some delusional “plan” with). It blew up in his face. Now he’s trying to come around and make his way into the birth TWO WEEKS from my due date. Boundaries are high even though the unconditional love is still present for him.
*he flipped a switch
This resonates for me! Thank you Jess🙏
Im soooooooo good Jess. I dont have to listen. I know him better then ANY. Ive confessed and purged ( publically too ) I love you ❤ Thankyou to the Chaos Family who truly cares. Though you were thrown in the Fire with me (Sacred) I truly say thankyou. I ONLY have well wishes for all. Time for all to heal.
Miracles Miss Joyce, Miss Joni ❤🎉
Before even listening to the video, I can already tell you that you are 1000% accurate just by the video title!
so on point in every way thank you for some good clarity
wanted to share this with you. a couple weeks ago i heard an owl while i was walking to my apt laundry room. never have i ever heard before. then like 30 min went by and i remembered your little owl sound in the beginning. it was so cool. your readings most definitely resonate 💛💛💛
So much bad happened between us, that by that time, no I did not want to ve friends and I was open and honest about that with this person. I knew his activities.
I did what I could to help
22:03 meat and potatoes
He keeps trying to connect to me from this low vibrational energy.. to form an attachment rather than a connection. And I’m just not having it. I know he prayed for me but he’s refusing to depend on God to actually make us work. He’s my person, just not this version. God is encouraging me to not pursue, just keep my heart open.
I suspect serious spells going on here to keep control…😭
Good morning everyone and Jess ❤❤❤
It sounds like the Devine used the good person as a pawn piece for the bad person and not cared if the good person got hurt
We had the potential with Aquarian vibes, but he hid the seriousness of a life-long alcohol addiction. I could have been a friend and when he was sober, been more but he was not healed, honest, or secure. And it did blow up. What a waste.
@@AurielArts vegas?
He met me on Match, lied about being divorced, and told me that after we were already on our first date after weeks of talking and I was miles away from my home. Now, after he started this relationship, he told me that he loves his wife even though she left him. I felt so hurt and betrayed because we had started bonding, and he love bombed me from the start.
Can a man and a women have a friendship When both are single With out having feelings about them sooner or later ????
He is a scorpio
He was nightmare l seen it in him to karmic narcissist player played himself completely controlling very shady l had true intentions but he didn't but knew he's intentions was destroyed me then smile in your face it don't matter anymore she's involved in witchcraft and him lieing to themselves 😮😊😂
It didnt begin his true personality came through God Jehovah and Mighty God Jesus protects their own ❤ Thankyou my God ❤😊
💯💯💯
No f.... s..... It's called traumabonding. I've called him out on it several times. I've been sick for a year with tension in my upper body. Because I was on three dates with a guy who did not have the decency to end it. Like the rest of the dudes I've been with. Guys, you really need to heal. And then the whole twin flame concept......ufffghhh. And their way of loving you from a distance, putting love into your heart sometimes and leaving you devastated other times. Or having several women at the same time. But all of that is not the worse. The worst is them sucking on your energy and emotional life. People say you can't get out of those things blablabla it's a divine connection. I don't think the divine or the universe or God, and really I prefer the divine because the divine is not only a person, it's a lot of things, really do prefer us to be happy. And free. And this guy has really made me feel extremely unfree and uncomfortable. And I am tired of reading crazy tarot or other weird sh....... I'm out. For the sake of my freedom and sanity. Another thing if the boundaries are clear it's perfectly okay to flirt with another or even having a romantic moment without it meaning that you have to get married or even that you want to end up in bed. What the f..... became of flirting in this world to test the waters? Or just dating? People have gotten crazy.
May the divine bless you all.
💯❤
I told him through your youtube that karmic energy is lustful...and twin flame energy isnt...
He has been brainwashed into thinking tht the karmic he is with, is his twin flame and that im the karmic...🤔
So he has lust towards me bcos he hasnt healed and not bcos i am the karmic...he needs to ground himself and balance the higher chakras...he dsnt hv the same shmex drive with the karmic...and he thinks that that is Divine shmex...🤔
How the third parties take advantage😱 of the empathic Divine Masculine is so visible here...and that too he was under drugs and depressed state...
And hes also promised her that he wudnt communicate with me... another blunder... hence believes all tht she and others tell him...😱
The tarots all screaming that he is my twin flame...but he wants to believe the karmic...and he is in a pickle...
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Survivors of Narssissim and people that are going through this Honestly Life isnt as hard as this its not in your mind See it as it is God Jesus is The Way The Truth And The Life Thankyou Lord ❤😊
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We didn’t have a friendship we had a relationship and he told me to get back together just to make out with me and not answer my call the day after