"I have NO Friends" | A 36 Year Olds Story
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- I have NO friends... is this the LIFE for you? Thanks for watching!
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Rock solo, until you find people that resonate with you.
If you don’t find it, keep GOING. 💪🏾
I feel the same way bro. I'm 35 (turning 36 in a few months, 1987 baby) and when I left my home state 10 years ago I've only had associates. Since being away from my home state, my travel interest has increased and it has caused a friction among the friends I've maintained from my home state. They are all married, with kids, and unable to travel. At this point I do everything solo and love it.
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Best way to be . No friends means no problems
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Until u get locked up for an unpaid ticket u forgot about and ya family is not in the same state and ya cards are at home and you can’t even dial out os state only In state. A friend would be very good in a situation like this ask me how I know
Great video @Jackson Cooper nothing like hearing someone telling there truth life would bland as hell if everyone just wanted to fit in!
I respect how you have self awareness and not putting all the blame on people for why you don’t click with them 💯
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In general: not having friends isn’t the solution. It’s choosing the right type of friends. If you had friends who smoke and drank abs did crazy stuff but you didn’t want to. Then find friends who are likeminded not iso yourself lol
Dope bring more of this type of content forward , I’m a solo traveler and I agree I wanna move on my own accord. I’m grown as hell I’m not sitting around a round table to try to piece together a travel plan that works with everyone schedules I’m doing wtf I wanna do when I wanna do it! Salute to you brother 🫡
Love Everything you doing bros keep moving the way YOU want, They for you they gon move with you
You should do more of these types of introspective videos. Besides traveling, it would be good to show lifestyle perspectives
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Y’all just agree with anything 🤣, before y’all take it there I’ve traveled abroad the last decade but still chop it up with my bros. But props to him☝🏾
It's best not to have no friends at all because alot of people nowadays don't know what true friendship is
I respect your opinion. 💯
I’m the same age and I can completely relate! Thanks for sharing!!!
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Welcome back from Morocco, glad you are safe.
I acknowledge your position and appreciate your perspective. Friends can be destructive at times, or uplifting, and if you been through some negative experiences, you might want protect yourself from further harm. I totally understand and can relate to that. Sometimes being a lone rider, is to be a sole survivor. Life can be a roller coaster and you have to do what you have to do to survive out there. But I do hope love finds its way in your life at some point in the future. But in the meantime and for future, continue to enjoy life, and continue to love yourself and treat people well, and hope it is reciprocated. But at the same time being mindful that it might not be returned. But either way, respect yourself, be good to others who deserve it and you are good. Stay blessed. Be your true self 🤜🏾🤛🏾💖❤️🖤💚. I say there’s a time to be around people and a time to be alone.🎉
I'm 44 I have 1 friend been friends for about 25 years that's all you need, away good to see a post from JC.
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As an introvert the same age as you I agree. Most people don't understand how introverts operate. I have way less stress being with just me and my women. Friends bring stress and can be toxic at times.
I just turned 60. God has each of us in the place He wants us and has a good and wonderful plan for us.
J coop 💯 good advice
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I’m the exact same way. I’m at the point where I no longer care. I continue to move forward.
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Let's go Coop!!
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Same here and i love it. Yes, i love people but, again i need my own space at all times. I have very few friends on Facebook and Instagram. Am the happiest ever. I can't complain.
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You are smart for staying to yourself. When I was younger, I used to admire people over 50. They seemed to be at peace with themselves. Now that Im over 50, I love my solitude. Its healthier. I wish I was this way much much younger. Stay true to yourself. Be your own best friend. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
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Love your content, but I don't agree with this message, especially to a young audience. Humans are social creatures. Maintaining social bonds is as important to our overall health as is getting the requisite amount of sleep and sunlight. I commend that you can identify that your lack of socialability stems from being an only child, where you were not required to develop the skills of taking into account the considerations of others and integrate it within your own wants and needs. But I see identification as the first step to improvement. When we know better, know the origins of your deficiencies, we have the opportunity to do better. Deciding to put our hands up and say "well that's just me" I believe is a cop out, and an avoidance of self-improvement. No one should be a people pleasure, or compromise what we find to be integral to ourselves merely for friendship, but it is always beneficial to take in the consideration of others into account. And sometimes that means not being the center of the universe, it's ok, none of us are anyway. This grace I believe leads to a healthier, happier more rich life. I pray you take these words into consideration. Bless
As mentioned… it’s NOT for everybody. 💪🏾
Wow well said 👍🏾
Great video.
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I'm 48..same here, life is much better🇬🇾🇬🇾🍻🍻
Sounds sad brother.
Live LIFE.
"Whodini" song Friends says it the best...."There some we wish we never knew at all" 💯💔😢💔
i have no friends either, im 31 , I relate completely
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You travel the world my dude. You’re fine
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You may not have friends but you probably have a good bond with a family member which transpires to friendship. No man is an island, I believe everyone has 1 person they resonate with and if they don't then they have their guard up around connecting with other people. Remember your vibe attracts your tribe, what vibes are you giving off 🤔
I used to be a social butterfly now I'm 45 and a real introvert life and experiences will do it to you.
السفر من بلد الى بلد اخر يجذب لك الكثير من السعادة والمعرفة وراحة البال ❤
يا لها من حياة راءعة حقا
I agree with this guy. I went in the Army and people didn’t understand me. I wasn’t social. I just wasn’t. I didn’t want to go places with people. Malls. I didn’t want to be around smokers. Alcoholics. Drugs. Sports events. Picnics. I only work because I’m responsible. I am not on any social media. I keep my interactions with people to appointments, church, riding the bus. Talking in my phone. I’m not mean but I just can maneuver better by myself. Being like me isn’t for everyone. I see people with “friends” and how for the most part how they manipulate each other.
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I feel you, I'm the same way
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Many introverted men neither smoke nor drink....meaning friends pressure people into bad habits
Interesting.
Not me. People who wanted to associate with me tried to turn me into them. Why don’t you use foul language. Why don’t you smoke. Why don’t you drink. Why don’t you get high. Why aren’t you having sex. Why don’t you sneak out. What they didn’t expect was an answer back. Oh they tried to answer for me with, oh you’re afraid of your parents and I’d respond with: Okay. Let’s go with that. They’d call me names but when they saw it wasn’t getting to me they stopped. So it wasn’t so much about me not wanting friends as it was I didn’t want friends that wanted me to be like them. I guess I had values. Integrity. Character. Things they didn’t have or want. Imagine having 6 black girls in your junior year of high school and all of them were pregnant. That was foreign to me. All of them were ignorant believing they were consenting to sex. While in reality. They were all being raped. I felt sorry for them.
Agreed with damn near everything you said
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Its better to have No friends. Than having fake friends
FACTS.
Great topic but everyone has at least associates that we choose to call friends or not. Simply depends on the dynamic of that relationship.
I don’t know about ‘Everyone’. Because we are all different.
I don't have friends I have people I know but I spend most of my time on my own I enjoy my company a lot and I'm a filmmaker people give me their numbers daily I still cant call
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This is real. I’m 29 I only have 2 ppl I consider friends but I still rather be alone most days and travel alone since I’m a sigma it just feels right
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sharee shara SHARE lmfaoooo Coop please....
That word is so FOREIGN to me. 😎
Yeah , I am married and I can relate 😂 lol
I do enjoy my alone time.
I must have my ME time. 💯
Yea you was into yourself bro, you cant be leaving your friends in the club without telling them you gone bro 😂😂😂
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The best friends for the longest time I had were people who shared similar interest regard of physical commonalities, ie. gender, race, culture, etc. And of course those friends who did not want anything tangible from me.
Friends who don’t want ANYTHING tangible. I feel that. Haha
This is your truth but this isn’t healthy in the long term. You can literally tell you are jaded. I respect your view though.
You’re not wrong at all, 30 years old, and I don’t have any, I’m at peace being to myself. I’m literally the coolest cat any human being will meet, but, I’m seriously not a people’s person, I love being to myself.
People all around the world you travel to meet them !!! 😄 close friends 😁
Is that right? 😎
How do you deal with the isolation?
When you’re focused on YOU isolation is a normal thing. Not for everyone though. 💡
😂Imma loner,but that makes me stronger to strive solo bolo by myself...friends are needy and take up your time which to me is more important and significant to give to family members that time. Imo
Respect.
No Click bait because I hate it Yet the Title is what Drew Me to check it out, because I feel the same way! Whoodi had a song in The 80's is a Great Way to describe what a friend is Also!
I had Friends when I was younger however Seasons Come to an End, but I keep Living!
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0:34 you’re not the only one ;) before I became 36, i had many many friends, in one day they all disseapered 😅 (i must start praying, because they are waiting for me there… or else, it’s me myself and I) 😮
To clarify my above message, after a certain age, you change, the few that do not change, stay behind. It always has to be spiritual: like religion or marriage… next level, you are now caught in the middle (satan’s life)
You don’t need no friends when you get to travel
Don't worry about it, you choose who you click with.
I’m 47 years old fin to be 48 in January and I’m married and have 4 kids, I have acquaintances but no friends I’m cool with that
Respect.
I’m an only child I’m 41 now I have a similar experience
Real Life.
once ppl start having kids and work a shtty job 24/7 it's done so meh I'm fine by myself i already have more stuff to do than the day has hours
Maaannn WHAT??? Definitely can relate, just don’t have kids though. But working a stressful job 24/7 definitely takes it toll on you. Smh
No kids. That’s a FACT.
One day you will hit your mid 40s or maybe in your 50s and being alone will kill you on the inside. You will want someone. Everyone wants someone eventually, it's just difficult to find that someone who is also you that you would never dream of leaving behind on your next trip.
Friend comes from the quakers it means fiend aka enemies
Interesting.
coops, where did you get them shades?
Coops there is no prob not having friends. I am tired of hanging around with dudes and males also. I am only into hanging with women or dating a woman. Thats it for me.
Respect. The shades are a brand called ‘James Oro’
wonder how being affects your parenting Do you feel a disconnect?
It doesn’t effect child support. That’s what matters in my situation. 💯
Mo friends, mo problems, im 51 could careless about friends. I think the whole having a lot of friends thing, is overrated Im at peace. My friends are my wife and my 2 young kids.
Blessed.
Damn you and Rio fell out?
Damn smh that’s all I gotta say
Niner Gang!!
Coach Prime 💯
You need to actively change being selfish, people don’t want to be friends with those who are self centered. Just being real, some of the scenarios have nothing to do with being an introvert, it’s just being self absorbed and rude (for example, leaving without saying anything? That’s not right). Golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated. Love thy neighbor.
Lastly, I pray this isn’t how you treat women you are in relationships with. Please seek inner healing, Jesus is knocking at your door.
So you still don’t drink
Maybe it's because your a niner fan bro.
NINERS!
Coach Prime was on the feet! 💯
Read your Bible yo good friends is better than pocket change everybody needs somebody get a wife and make her your best friend not telling you how to live your life but in life no matter how bad our experiences we need to be like Jesus and forgive and stop making pride and ego make us not seeing the bigger picture in life you travel a lot and see so much people and different cultures you should have a different take on life