Nads the way you spoke about nanny di made me tear up a bit ... so so beautiful . I get why Dina was so protective over you after being through so much ... my sis is exactly the same with me ... if I even mention a guys name she goes into protective sister mode ! This was so interesting .. love hearing all about your family xxx
Gosh, I did cry during this. Both of you have had soo much to deal with. Totally admire how forgiving and how much love you have for Nanny Di bless you and she is amazing. Being kind and forgiving and letting go and letting yourself heal x
I am Mark in relation to coming from a small family and marrying an enormous family. I often wept in the toilet at family functions with the sheer intensity and vast numbers of bodies not to mention personalities. It was a Venus Mars type energy. 20 years in and boundaries established my husband can finally see how very distressed i was despite my love for his people. Its Empathy and Kindness. Detaching with Love x thank you darlings. You make a difference
I remember the friction my late husband and I experienced in the beginning of our marriage because of cultural and familial differences. I came from a very Latin family (French mother, Spanish dad) where all emotions and conflicts are expressed out loud, good or bad. We were small in number but very close and shared most of life's moments together. My husband's family were very closed off emotionally and dealt with their problems by not discussing them at all. But I can't help but think, had we discussed boundaries and emotions at the very beginning, maybe we could've avoided a lot of trouble we had early on in our marriage and maybe his death later on. My husband committed suicide at the age of 37, so I have many regrets, especially some of the early, rocky moments of our marriage. Sadly, I can't fix that now. But it does my heart good to see how transparent and honest you and Mark are about your early marital differences. Because of this, you might possibly give someone the courage to speak to their partner and seek practical answers to what otherwise seems an impossible situation. Thank you and good luck to you both!
Wow, what an amazingly honest film. I'm very divorced and have had a couple of relationships, it is a very contentious. The final nail in my relationship coffin was a row about his mother. I packed and left. That was eight years ago. Been single ever since, I'm 58 and haven't got the energy to do it again lol xx
Really interesting and helpful podcast! Love to hear your guys personal experiences with different things! I think we need a whole blog about Nanny Di’s past😂 there are a lot of references that are left unexplained😉 love you guys as always!!
Your vlog was so timely as my son had his 16th party last weekend and there was I all alone with the tribe...I went to work the next day and cried as I felt like an outsider outnumbered by the tribe especially as my son veers more towards their culture than the British culture(which I totally understand)but this video has helped to heal my heart....thankyou so so much! You have so many blessings coming your way for all your amazing work!💜🙏
Mark I really hope you do read this basically you have got 4 beautiful daughters and it doesn't matter how many mothers they belong too. You had three beautiful relationships and you've got the most precious unique children from those relationships. If they all had one mother they wouldn't be the daughter's you have today. Xxx
Hi mark my partner has a total of 7 kids from 3 different women and when I first met him he just told me about his 2 youngest sons and never mentioned his other 5 kids because he doesn’t have any contact with any of them after the mums stopped him from seeing them but I’ve never known what the real reason of that was I’ve moved away from my family leaving my boys in Nottinghamshire I now live in Northamptonshire but my partner doesn’t have parents as his mum was murdered by his half brother and since then my partner has become very cold on emotions and not showing anything I’ve met his brother and sister in law and all his friends xx
I agree my partner has 7 children from 3 different mothers but my partner is a very emotionless person due to his childhood growing up without a mum who he adored and a dad he never knew Cos he was born out of an affair but like his relationships he had affairs on all his relationships and to be honest he’s already slept with his wife who he won’t divorce for god knows what reason but I’m also convinced he’s having an affair with someone now but I can’t prove anything xx
How lovely that you could be honest with your mum mark, about past hurts. Its the only way for healing to happen. I had a very difficult time with my very large family. I had to endure much from them for many years without complaint. In the end I had to cut ties. Very sad 🙄
Love #29, you two were just meant to be. You are with out doubt soul mates just like my Husband and me and we were married within seven months of meeting each other and that was 35 years ago. We had total respect for each others parents but that over the years was earned by them, they were supportive and fantastic. Unfortunately they have all passed away now, my Mum and Father In Law just late last year within two months of each other, so that was really hard. You are both really fortunate to still have your lovely Mum's and Dad in your lives.
I have that connection with my nan, it’s gold. My nan has moved further away, I thought the bond would not be so strong, in fact it’s much stronger. My nan is 89 in October. ❤️🙏
Your sense of reflection and honesty is so refreshing. Love watching this with my hubby. We realise in marriage, through watching you both ,how each other's families baggage can entwine in a relationship.
First Mother in law : horrid, spiteful and mean. Second Mother in Law: kind, funny, warm and twinkley. I miss her so much . Thanks for sharing so much with us xxx
My timmy ..(sons dad) ..who dieds family are big drinkers and welcomed me in ..instantly felt at home and accepted !!..my ferral boy.(.even more than me! )could not make it ..sadly so many unresoved issues with his family...it makes my heart warm amidst such saddness that you guys have battled through like warriors.and are surrvivors addiction is brutal .it takes strength and guts for several parties to do this sort of thing within a family / tribe!..xx
Thanks you so much for this. It hit home for me and I am so grateful to know other people also struggle with this delicate dance of having in laws! Would you feel comfortable talking a little more about how you set the boundaries with your families? What did those conversations look like and how were they received? I am having a very very difficult time with my in-laws and know that conversation is long over due - trouble is knowing the best way to approach it without making anyone defensive. I have so much respect for you both and so appreciate your honesty! Thank you
Hi Guys! Nadia your looking very glam 🤩💜 I always wanted a big family, but like Mark ours is a small one as is my hubbies, sounds exciting all Nadia’s family around you, but I try and make the most of what we’ve got, and like Mark I’m sure In reality I’d find it at times too over powering, as we also like our own private times albeit what family we do have we treasure. Love hearing your stories 💕
Adults are just kids + time. Understanding this has allowed me to put my frustrations with the older people in my life into perspective. Nadia's love for Nanny Di made me tear up.
Lots of sensible advice which will resonate with most families guys. I like your honesty and it's always great down the years that your all still a close family that can be honest with each other. It's the only way for longevity. Really enjoyed this guy's thanks 😊
i would love to hear about why marks dad wasn't around. my own dad wants nothing to do with me and i know it can be a raw subject but i would love to know more of his background with his mum not being there and what it was like to be raised primarily by women and if he thinks that has had an effect of him and if he had a male role model in his life. would love to see nadias sisters in her vlogs if they live nearby
Wow wow wow.....what an amazing vlog!!!.....You are helping me sooooo much and I am eternally grateful. My ex husband is Assyrian and I wish I had thought to describe his family as TRIBAL because that’s exactly what they are.....I call them the Klan but tribal is soo much better. My son feels more Assyrian than English and I understand why and have no problem with that.I am like Mark with a teeny tiny family .I told my son that you used the word tribal and he loves his Assyrian family but he totally agreed with this word as an accurate description. Going to make the yummy Medjool dates now Nadia,thankyou! I’ve lost three pounds and we are on day 25 eh Nadia! Love you guys...you’re beyond wonderful 🙏💕
My son lives in Dubai... anyway my parents died when I was very young and I don’t mean to make light of it but I think my partners have got off lightly !! ❤️❤️❤️
I think you both hit the in-law lottery... I don't have in-laws, but if I did, I'd be super happy if I had a Betty, Teddy or Nanny Di in my life! And you two will be amazing and fun in-laws for whoever your girls choose as mates! xx
Hi guys what a great topic !!! Well I've been married nearly 30years and I've never been invited to my mother in laws for a cup of tea let alone a tribal feast lol , it upset me for years that she didn't want to spend time with me and my children ,like you nadia I'm family mad and my side do everything together and my poor husband puts up with so much , I kept saying why doesn't your mum like us , his reply was she wasn't a great mum so she's not going to be a great nannie , I hear mark say he didn't have a close mum son relationship but nannie di is so close to your children which is lovely , this year my mother in law has been quite poorly and I've been the first to make sure she's ok I just feel I've lost so many years yet now it's too late family's hey who'd have them I'm now a mother in law and have a great relationship with him Great chat tonight 😘💃🏽
It can take years of undulations of marriage to bump along with the sinuous history and surrounding personalities. There is never a straightforward solution because there is no perfect family. But when you love each other you do eventually find and learn solutions to these challenges. And that's ongoing as everything in life is. Sometimes we all have to face up to the facts and may have to cull parts of our address books. Family is not always everything. Old peoples homes are full and some with very angry people that would admit that they put up with far too much only wishing they hadn't.
It's so wonderful that you both can talk to one another and share your heart. Unfortunately some of us have partners that take everything personal. They just can't handle any type of opinion other than theirs. I'm not saying that my spouse is a horrible person. He just can't discuss anything. He thinks that any type of discussion is an argument. When you can't discuss and compromise, it causes tension and resentment. All that leads to an unhappy union. Not much more I can say.
I had my second baby boy 2nd December 2017 my mother in law met him once & she lives a street away 😑 at his birthday we heard nothing, at Xmas we heard, my eldest 3rd birthday we heard nothing. I've told my other half she now has nothing to do with our children. She used to park outside my house go over my sister in law's who lived opposite & not make an effort to even come to our house 😩 I finally stopped on my eldest child making the effort all the time going to her so we cut her out of our lives this year for good. I'm sick of her making me upset treating my children different to her other 6 grandchildren.
Yes I do think when I need a break: lets just sit & have a cuppa & see how you're all doing today. Haha. Only one in law, she has remained a friend long after the relationship ended. When there's no power or competition issues the "women supporting eachother" can span generations.
My husband loved my parents so much to the point where he used to call them his parents too, sadly both are gone now, i on the other hand never got on with my in-laws and they never bother with their grandchildren (my girls) all very sad
Awee love to hear Nanny di story sounds like she had it rough too love honesty about your family Nadia and Mark meeting them all think about family in my big fat Greek wedding now 😁🤣ps I'm single never had anyone meet my family yet hugs and love
Oh i have fallen out with my inlaws and i feel sorry for my husband because they just dont care about him, we never see them because they were so controling & only care about there daughter, but he still wants be there for them, i find it so hard! I am so depressed! What should i do? Please help! Xx
Top class vid guys.......you will be sòooo loved by any of your daughters partners.........but if he is not a good egg.....you 2 will so crack him.......!!!!.......xxxx🤗🤗🤗🌌🌌🌌🌌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍👍👍👍👍👌👌👌🙏👁🙏xx
Ha haaa!!...I think you will be wonderful inlaws..you have alot of self awareness and insight ..as well as wonderful childlike spirits full of fun..a positive thing about addiction is that if your willing to tackle it and get better you learn so much spiritually about yourselves and other people ..through putting in all the hard work even though it can be so hard..and probably neverending you've worked through a helluva lot !!you should be proud !! its admirable and will help the next generation of your family..love and peace to you all xx
awwww dont be so hare n each othere you have a lot to do your busy pepole with day to day im with my partner im not marred but we livesd together but been with each other 16 years its only a bit of paper meeting my partners familly was scarrey her dad is an ex amry man and strick but we do get on now but at the time it was verry scarry but my partners mum was fine she wasant so strick and got on srtagtht away my partner has got a sister shes great as well as i was brought up in childrens homes my mum dided of canser wrhen i was 5 and my dad died wrhen i was verry young at 2 years ol so i think it can be verry scary to meey in laws becouse i didant know what it be like to meet them i meet them affter i dateted each other i meet her family affter 6 mounths now my parnters wos deaf at birt and her health isant verry good but we have a greet time as im a carrer but im verry close with her in laws we are verry close well guys another intreasrsing blog look forward to the next one guys take care xxxx
Nads the way you spoke about nanny di made me tear up a bit ... so so beautiful .
I get why Dina was so protective over you after being through so much ... my sis is exactly the same with me ... if I even mention a guys name she goes into protective sister mode ! This was so interesting .. love hearing all about your family xxx
Oh gosh this makes me teary so accepting , kind hearted, and insightful Nadia towards Nanny di xx
Gosh, I did cry during this. Both of you have had soo much to deal with. Totally admire how forgiving and how much love you have for Nanny Di bless you and she is amazing. Being kind and forgiving and letting go and letting yourself heal x
I am Mark in relation to coming from a small family and marrying an enormous family. I often wept in the toilet at family functions with the sheer intensity and vast numbers of bodies not to mention personalities. It was a Venus Mars type energy. 20 years in and boundaries established my husband can finally see how very distressed i was despite my love for his people. Its Empathy and Kindness. Detaching with Love x thank you darlings. You make a difference
I remember the friction my late husband and I experienced in the beginning of our marriage because of cultural and familial differences. I came from a very Latin family (French mother, Spanish dad) where all emotions and conflicts are expressed out loud, good or bad. We were small in number but very close and shared most of life's moments together. My husband's family were very closed off emotionally and dealt with their problems by not discussing them at all. But I can't help but think, had we discussed boundaries and emotions at the very beginning, maybe we could've avoided a lot of trouble we had early on in our marriage and maybe his death later on. My husband committed suicide at the age of 37, so I have many regrets, especially some of the early, rocky moments of our marriage. Sadly, I can't fix that now. But it does my heart good to see how transparent and honest you and Mark are about your early marital differences. Because of this, you might possibly give someone the courage to speak to their partner and seek practical answers to what otherwise seems an impossible situation. Thank you and good luck to you both!
Natalie Harris ❤️❤️❤️
Wow, what an amazingly honest film. I'm very divorced and have had a couple of relationships, it is a very contentious. The final nail in my relationship coffin was a row about his mother. I packed and left. That was eight years ago. Been single ever since, I'm 58 and haven't got the energy to do it again lol xx
Really interesting and helpful podcast! Love to hear your guys personal experiences with different things! I think we need a whole blog about Nanny Di’s past😂 there are a lot of references that are left unexplained😉 love you guys as always!!
Oh Nadia. If only you had let Mark finish his story about meeting your family. Lol
Your vlog was so timely as my son had his 16th party last weekend and there was I all alone with the tribe...I went to work the next day and cried as I felt like an outsider outnumbered by the tribe especially as my son veers more towards their culture than the British culture(which I totally understand)but this video has helped to heal my heart....thankyou so so much!
You have so many blessings coming your way for all your amazing work!💜🙏
Mark I really hope you do read this basically you have got 4 beautiful daughters and it doesn't matter how many mothers they belong too.
You had three beautiful relationships and you've got the most precious unique children from those relationships. If they all had one mother they wouldn't be the daughter's you have today. Xxx
Does mark have bpd?xx
Hi mark my partner has a total of 7 kids from 3 different women and when I first met him he just told me about his 2 youngest sons and never mentioned his other 5 kids because he doesn’t have any contact with any of them after the mums stopped him from seeing them but I’ve never known what the real reason of that was I’ve moved away from my family leaving my boys in Nottinghamshire I now live in Northamptonshire but my partner doesn’t have parents as his mum was murdered by his half brother and since then my partner has become very cold on emotions and not showing anything I’ve met his brother and sister in law and all his friends xx
I agree my partner has 7 children from 3 different mothers but my partner is a very emotionless person due to his childhood growing up without a mum who he adored and a dad he never knew Cos he was born out of an affair but like his relationships he had affairs on all his relationships and to be honest he’s already slept with his wife who he won’t divorce for god knows what reason but I’m also convinced he’s having an affair with someone now but I can’t prove anything xx
@@TheGemgems19 yes he’s talked about it before xx
How lovely that you could be honest with your mum mark, about past hurts. Its the only way for healing to happen. I had a very difficult time with my very large family. I had to endure much from them for many years without complaint. In the end I had to cut ties. Very sad 🙄
Love #29, you two were just meant to be. You are with out doubt soul mates just like my Husband and me and we were married within seven months of meeting each other and that was 35 years ago. We had total respect for each others parents but that over the years was earned by them, they were supportive and fantastic. Unfortunately they have all passed away now, my Mum and Father In Law just late last year within two months of each other, so that was really hard. You are both really fortunate to still have your lovely Mum's and Dad in your lives.
I have really enjoyed this, what a topic. Bloody well done!! And I feel normal that everyone thinks similar things when people meet in-laws etc.
I have that connection with my nan, it’s gold. My nan has moved further away, I thought the bond would not be so strong, in fact it’s much stronger. My nan is 89 in October. ❤️🙏
How generous you are to share you experience, strength, hope about families. So helpful.
Your sense of reflection and honesty is so refreshing. Love watching this with my hubby. We realise in marriage, through watching you both ,how each other's families baggage can entwine in a relationship.
First Mother in law : horrid, spiteful and mean.
Second Mother in Law: kind, funny, warm and twinkley. I miss her so much .
Thanks for sharing so much with us xxx
My timmy ..(sons dad) ..who dieds family are big drinkers and welcomed me in ..instantly felt at home and accepted !!..my ferral boy.(.even more than me! )could not make it ..sadly so many unresoved issues with his family...it makes my heart warm amidst such saddness that you guys have battled through like warriors.and are surrvivors addiction is brutal .it takes strength and guts for several parties to do this sort of thing within a family / tribe!..xx
Thanks you so much for this. It hit home for me and I am so grateful to know other people also struggle with this delicate dance of having in laws! Would you feel comfortable talking a little more about how you set the boundaries with your families? What did those conversations look like and how were they received? I am having a very very difficult time with my in-laws and know that conversation is long over due - trouble is knowing the best way to approach it without making anyone defensive. I have so much respect for you both and so appreciate your honesty! Thank you
Hi Guys! Nadia your looking very glam 🤩💜 I always wanted a big family, but like Mark ours is a small one as is my hubbies, sounds exciting all Nadia’s family around you, but I try and make the most of what we’ve got, and like Mark I’m sure In reality I’d find it at times too over powering, as we also like our own private times albeit what family we do have we treasure. Love hearing your stories 💕
Thanks for sharing 💗 I envy your relationship with Nanny Di so much 💖 you are so blessed 😍
Adults are just kids + time. Understanding this has allowed me to put my frustrations with the older people in my life into perspective. Nadia's love for Nanny Di made me tear up.
Lots of sensible advice which will resonate with most families guys. I like your honesty and it's always great down the years that your all still a close family that can be honest with each other. It's the only way for longevity. Really enjoyed this guy's thanks 😊
Last sentence is very fitting. Now during the corona crisis you have achieved your goal. Congrats!
i would love to hear about why marks dad wasn't around. my own dad wants nothing to do with me and i know it can be a raw subject but i would love to know more of his background with his mum not being there and what it was like to be raised primarily by women and if he thinks that has had an effect of him and if he had a male role model in his life. would love to see nadias sisters in her vlogs if they live nearby
Fascinating stuff! Very thought provoking x
Helena 💚
Wow wow wow.....what an amazing vlog!!!.....You are helping me sooooo much and I am eternally grateful.
My ex husband is Assyrian and I wish I had thought to describe his family as TRIBAL because that’s exactly what they are.....I call them the Klan but tribal is soo much better.
My son feels more Assyrian than English and I understand why and have no problem with that.I am like Mark with a teeny tiny family .I told my son that you used the word tribal and he loves his Assyrian family but he totally agreed with this word as an accurate description.
Going to make the yummy Medjool dates now Nadia,thankyou!
I’ve lost three pounds and we are on day 25 eh Nadia!
Love you guys...you’re beyond wonderful 🙏💕
Brilliant, honest podcast. Love how your so open with each other. Would love to know more if Nanny Di’s story.
That’s what you should call us. The Tribe!!!love it ❤️
Loved the chat and the way you talk to each other is inspiring I think. Thank you.
Legend 1 & Legend 2 at their best. Thanks guys. Aussie Bob x x
I heard it once said "You don't marry the person, you marry the FAMILY." Any thoughts on this?
My son lives in Dubai... anyway my parents died when I was very young and I don’t mean to make light of it but I think my partners have got off lightly !! ❤️❤️❤️
I think you both hit the in-law lottery... I don't have in-laws, but if I did, I'd be super happy if I had a Betty, Teddy or Nanny Di in my life! And you two will be amazing and fun in-laws for whoever your girls choose as mates! xx
Gosh Nadia , your advice is amazing with regards to this issue xxxx
Love love this video! Thank you 🙏🏽
Hi guys what a great topic !!! Well I've been married nearly 30years and I've never been invited to my mother in laws for a cup of tea let alone a tribal feast lol , it upset me for years that she didn't want to spend time with me and my children ,like you nadia I'm family mad and my side do everything together and my poor husband puts up with so much , I kept saying why doesn't your mum like us , his reply was she wasn't a great mum so she's not going to be a great nannie , I hear mark say he didn't have a close mum son relationship but nannie di is so close to your children which is lovely , this year my mother in law has been quite poorly and I've been the first to make sure she's ok I just feel I've lost so many years yet now it's too late family's hey who'd have them I'm now a mother in law and have a great relationship with him Great chat tonight 😘💃🏽
Loved this podcast. Very honest and interesting. Love you both. Xxx😍😘🥰👍👍👍
I’d like to see a video about your parents’ childhoods, and how you feel that shaped their parenting
Found this fascinating. Very thought provoking.
Wish I had the forgiveness you have. Xx
It can take years of undulations of marriage to bump along with the sinuous history and surrounding personalities. There is never a straightforward solution because there is no perfect family. But when you love each other you do eventually find and learn solutions to these challenges. And that's ongoing as everything in life is. Sometimes we all have to face up to the facts and may have to cull parts of our address books. Family is not always everything. Old peoples homes are full and some with very angry people that would admit that they put up with far too much only wishing they hadn't.
Loved this vlog, brought tears to my eyes! ❤️x
Your just a match made in heaven 😍♥️
It's so wonderful that you both can talk to one another and share your heart. Unfortunately some of us have partners that take everything personal. They just can't handle any type of opinion other than theirs. I'm not saying that my spouse is a horrible person. He just can't discuss anything. He thinks that any type of discussion is an argument. When you can't discuss and compromise, it causes tension and resentment. All that leads to an unhappy union. Not much more I can say.
This was an amazing conversation. It was so relatable, I don't no where to start. Thanks for the vlog. Hugs!!!
The 4th emergency service! Love it
I had my second baby boy 2nd December 2017 my mother in law met him once & she lives a street away 😑 at his birthday we heard nothing, at Xmas we heard, my eldest 3rd birthday we heard nothing. I've told my other half she now has nothing to do with our children. She used to park outside my house go over my sister in law's who lived opposite & not make an effort to even come to our house 😩 I finally stopped on my eldest child making the effort all the time going to her so we cut her out of our lives this year for good. I'm sick of her making me upset treating my children different to her other 6 grandchildren.
such a nice couple, lovely x sad that Mark has low self esteem as he is such a love x
Honestly I love listening to you two.
Bless you two 💞
Lol lol...you and Dina.........🤣🤣🤣🤣👊🤜🤛💪💪💪💪💪👍👍👍👍🌌🌌🌌
Yes I do think when I need a break: lets just sit & have a cuppa & see how you're all doing today. Haha.
Only one in law, she has remained a friend long after the relationship ended. When there's no power or competition issues the "women supporting eachother" can span generations.
My husband loved my parents so much to the point where he used to call them his parents too, sadly both are gone now, i on the other hand never got on with my in-laws and they never bother with their grandchildren (my girls) all very sad
Good job guys
Awee love to hear Nanny di story sounds like she had it rough too love honesty about your family Nadia and Mark meeting them all think about family in my big fat Greek wedding now 😁🤣ps I'm single never had anyone meet my family yet hugs and love
Love this podcast a very important subject it is hard coming into a new family it is tricky melding of both lives.💕🦋
Donna Leifels
Oh i have fallen out with my inlaws and i feel sorry for my husband because they just dont care about him, we never see them because they were so controling & only care about there daughter, but he still wants be there for them, i find it so hard! I am so depressed! What should i do? Please help! Xx
Top class vid guys.......you will be sòooo loved by any of your daughters partners.........but if he is not a good egg.....you 2 will so crack him.......!!!!.......xxxx🤗🤗🤗🌌🌌🌌🌌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍👍👍👍👍👌👌👌🙏👁🙏xx
I thoroughly enjoy your vlogs, always so honest about everything, you’re both great! 👍
Great advice from you both x
Ha haaa!!...I think you will be wonderful inlaws..you have alot of self awareness and insight ..as well as wonderful childlike spirits full of fun..a positive thing about addiction is that if your willing to tackle it and get better you learn so much spiritually about yourselves and other people ..through putting in all the hard work even though it can be so hard..and probably neverending you've worked through a helluva lot !!you should be proud !! its admirable and will help the next generation of your family..love and peace to you all xx
Great podcast guys xx
This was very interesting guys! Coming from a newlywed xx
I love HTSM SO FAR 😊 loved this vlog xxx
The word is Tribal (family) Nadia ......
Nice Video
Hi guys xxx
Your going to be brilliant in laws😍
Nad u never let mark talk your always butting in so annoying
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awwww dont be so hare n each othere you have a lot to do your busy pepole with day to day im with my partner im not marred but we livesd together but been with each other 16 years its only a bit of paper meeting my partners familly was scarrey her dad is an ex amry man and strick but we do get on now but at the time it was verry scarry but my partners mum was fine she wasant so strick and got on srtagtht away my partner has got a sister shes great as well as i was brought up in childrens homes my mum dided of canser wrhen i was 5 and my dad died wrhen i was verry young at 2 years ol so i think it can be verry scary to meey in laws becouse i didant know what it be like to meet them i meet them affter i dateted each other i meet her family affter 6 mounths now my parnters wos deaf at birt and her health isant verry good but we have a greet time as im a carrer but im verry close with her in laws we are verry close well guys another intreasrsing blog look forward to the next one guys take care xxxx
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