Women: If a man is spending crazy money on you when he doesn’t even know you, it should be a major red flag. Why? It reveals a lot about his character and his attitude toward money and you. To put it in perspective, frivolous spending indicates poor money management and a lack of character, as he is leading with money instead of personality, creativity, and genuine connection.
The girl on the right is disconnected from reality because of who her kid's father is. She's not gonna understand how men with normal money date. She got Alpha Widowed essentially.
Don't be scared of a confrontation man, I know you're holding back. Tell them raw how it is. A thick girl , she's combative and she try to walk all over you, you gotta put your foot down and stay on your belief. 💊
Ayo! You can tell that these women well before the half hour mark have lost interest in the conversation. They became fidgety as hell i.e: touching adjusting the microphone repeatedly, looking lost and uninterested, playing with hair and clothes. Super annoying. Bravo to the brothers and their poise and patience. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Is it too much to ask for a date to simply be two actually single people just getting to know each other and on a personal level not about some materialistic bs? No games no tricks?
Yeah, I get what you’re saying and it should be like that but even when it’s like that, both partners are still looking for qualities that they want in the other partner, like you wouldn’t go out with the woman that you weren’t physically attracted to
I mean, could I say that it’s materialistic for you to want a woman for her body and her beauty… And for women, most women want a man that has money and she a gold digger? So you really need to rephrase that because everything is materialistic to some base level
@@maryamadedeji24You takking about initially. Ofc initially I want someone who fits into my lifestyle, and as a man, a woman’s beauty is really important just like a man’s status/finances is important to women. We’re all a but materialistic on first impression because that’s how life works. But the main goal should be with the intention of something more meaningful. and that starts before and after an actual date
@@Wade178 oh so we agree with each other🥲.I think a lot of people still care about relationships even though it’s a crazy dating market out here. If we didn’t, nobody would be talking about it, but you’re completely right there should be more dept
Yes. Women value what you can provide as man .. the only women that can provide unconditional love is ya moms And that ain’t guaranteed. They cannot “love you” my guy. Lol
As someone who is a 27 year old married black women also a mom now . Marriage is only right when there are 2 people willing to give 100 % . Please ladies marry the man for who they are not who they can be ❤. Going though a divorce now .
@maryamadedeji24 not exactly he wasn't a man in the beginning I was too native to walk away at 21 he was 27 living at home never worked a real job played video games smoked all day and didn't respect his mom . We got serious anyway literally the first month we had our apartment he wouldnt cook while I was at work clean nothing played games all day and got mad at me . I basically taught him how to be a man finally got a job got his credit together I was guiding him the whole relationship. I thought love was enough until I turned 25 26 after having our son thats when my light came on started to speak up and he didn't like that . He gaslighted me emotionally cheated loss every single job he had in the 7 years couldn't keep a job longer then a year always had a problem with authority.. the icing on the cake when I had to move in with my parents for the 2nd time because he couldn't hold a job and I couldn't take care of a family anymore .
I Feel Like, I Feel Like, I Feel Like blah blah blah Women that weight the same or more then men should work on themselves 1st (To be clear if your 170 plus that's already bad but if you 200 or more....work on yourself) But if they are gonna date, be self aware that you aren't more of a prize then the man. The big girl is a Red Sun fuck a red flag....
she moved that microphone 30 TIMES! for what? It wasn’t in the way, she wasn’t even talking when she moved it most the time. I was soooo blowed watching and hear the mic move for literally no reason. Overly distracted.
Speak directly INTO the microphone!.....is that so hard? also can we please stop with the "i feel" or the "like um a" sounds very low IQ. Is there some reason who we cant use "i think".
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Great podcast. One big reason I see this channel doing well long term is letting the interviewee speak until they’re done. Keep it up.
Dope content even more dope that you provide sources for your argument and studies. This channel brings value.
Thank you bro‼️
I FEEL LIKE' I Feel like' I feel Like' fEel LIKE! 😅
Yo I was about throw my remote at my TV.
What's spending all that money means girl Stop it. 🛑
@@krampus3901Same
Never I think or I know...only "I feel"...... super low IQ.
“I have the luxury of paying…”
Lmao.
Women: If a man is spending crazy money on you when he doesn’t even know you, it should be a major red flag. Why? It reveals a lot about his character and his attitude toward money and you. To put it in perspective, frivolous spending indicates poor money management and a lack of character, as he is leading with money instead of personality, creativity, and genuine connection.
The girl on the right is disconnected from reality because of who her kid's father is. She's not gonna understand how men with normal money date. She got Alpha Widowed essentially.
It doesn't matter she is far outside. Girl stay outside
Ikr exactly
She got a kid and all this baggage but she wants the man to pay for everything. Delusional 😂
Don't be scared of a confrontation man, I know you're holding back. Tell them raw how it is. A thick girl , she's combative and she try to walk all over you, you gotta put your foot down and stay on your belief. 💊
Bruh shorty on the right is clueless. I feel dumber listening to her 🤦🏿♂️. She built like a laundry bag and making some wild claims. I call cap.
HA HA HA you said it took the words right out my head and she a big girl thats going to get bigger
Naw bro them claims probably true her baby daddy is Trevon diggs
I gave up on dating 🤷🏾♂️
The big girl everything is going over her head
Bubble head 🗣️🗣️
They both big 😂
@@bosssetent7180 thats a fact and will get bigger
when yOu Did noT Really Even need Him Nor Her (Either)
Ayo! You can tell that these women well before the half hour mark have lost interest in the conversation. They became fidgety as hell i.e: touching adjusting the microphone repeatedly, looking lost and uninterested, playing with hair and clothes. Super annoying. Bravo to the brothers and their poise and patience. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Anything that can be split during a divorce both parties should contribute too.
Is it too much to ask for a date to simply be two actually single people just getting to know each other and on a personal level not about some materialistic bs? No games no tricks?
Yeah, I get what you’re saying and it should be like that but even when it’s like that, both partners are still looking for qualities that they want in the other partner, like you wouldn’t go out with the woman that you weren’t physically attracted to
I mean, could I say that it’s materialistic for you to want a woman for her body and her beauty… And for women, most women want a man that has money and she a gold digger? So you really need to rephrase that because everything is materialistic to some base level
@@maryamadedeji24You takking about initially. Ofc initially I want someone who fits into my lifestyle, and as a man, a woman’s beauty is really important just like a man’s status/finances is important to women. We’re all a but materialistic on first impression because that’s how life works. But the main goal should be with the intention of something more meaningful. and that starts before and after an actual date
@@Wade178 oh so we agree with each other🥲.I think a lot of people still care about relationships even though it’s a crazy dating market out here. If we didn’t, nobody would be talking about it, but you’re completely right there should be more dept
Yes. Women value what you can provide as man .. the only women that can provide unconditional love is ya moms
And that ain’t guaranteed. They cannot “love you” my guy. Lol
As someone who is a 27 year old married black women also a mom now . Marriage is only right when there are 2 people willing to give 100 % . Please ladies marry the man for who they are not who they can be ❤.
Going though a divorce now .
Damn…
Girl, what happened? Was he not who he said he was
@maryamadedeji24 not exactly he wasn't a man in the beginning I was too native to walk away at 21 he was 27 living at home never worked a real job played video games smoked all day and didn't respect his mom . We got serious anyway literally the first month we had our apartment he wouldnt cook while I was at work clean nothing played games all day and got mad at me . I basically taught him how to be a man finally got a job got his credit together I was guiding him the whole relationship. I thought love was enough until I turned 25 26 after having our son thats when my light came on started to speak up and he didn't like that . He gaslighted me emotionally cheated loss every single job he had in the 7 years couldn't keep a job longer then a year always had a problem with authority.. the icing on the cake when I had to move in with my parents for the 2nd time because he couldn't hold a job and I couldn't take care of a family anymore .
@maryamadedeji24 he claims a wife shouldn't leave a man at his lowest but he dragged me down over and over again. I can't hold a man hands anymore
@@Life23Live Wait… the icing on the cake was when you had to move back in to your parents?
There were two or three icings that was skipped.
The more she kept talking the worst it got... Fellas, gentlemen stay safe out there but also stay dangerous ✌
Needed me PHONY living in NYC'S GARBAGE 🗑️
Side note
Trucking fuckin pays…
Iykyk
I starting to loose brain cells listening to this one girl she do not get it smh
She doesn't want to get it
The girl on the right babbles and caps so hard fam it's insane....
Light skin girl talked too much. The brown skin girl had more sense and understanding, she should have spoke more
There are a lot of 35-40 ratchet women still trying to date a rapper or ball player.
I’m not going to be 100% everything while you do 0%. If we both end up walking away from each then we both grew from this so there no wasted time.
I worked at Chipotle😅
has nOt OptiOns why not ?
And they not looking for husbands
Loyal For Who Though ?
I like this host and pretty women.
Example, what iF yOu worked For 4 weeks And yOur "sO called" BOSS Only wanted To Pay yOu For 4 Days (what would yOu Think of It) ?
42:20, be careful with throwing the word “trauma” around. I think the word is outplayed.
Oh wOw yOu why would A man Tell yOu nO (Hipocracy) ?
I Feel Like, I Feel Like, I Feel Like blah blah blah
Women that weight the same or more then men should work on themselves 1st (To be clear if your 170 plus that's already bad but if you 200 or more....work on yourself)
But if they are gonna date, be self aware that you aren't more of a prize then the man.
The big girl is a Red Sun fuck a red flag....
she moved that microphone 30 TIMES! for what? It wasn’t in the way, she wasn’t even talking when she moved it most the time. I was soooo blowed watching and hear the mic move for literally no reason. Overly distracted.
DEEEEEEE-LULU
50:50; for a man, that might take a long time…
Y’all need to start challenging the things they. Y’all can be a little more aggressive
AquiTted
The main host should've spoke more...The brother with the hat is way to long winded....
Speak directly INTO the microphone!.....is that so hard? also can we please stop with the "i feel" or the "like um a" sounds very low IQ. Is there some reason who we cant use "i think".
The host needs to control the over talking. Sounds like noise.