Gender Norms in Lesbian Relationships (with Ashley Gavin)

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  • @ltrillium1000
    @ltrillium1000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +522

    You absolutely have straight male fans. My daughter is trying to find her way and I am trying to be a better dad.

    • @ambersjourneysinlife
      @ambersjourneysinlife 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      You are doing great and are in the right place!

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      this is amazing, i love hearing stories like this!

    • @achaudhari101
      @achaudhari101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A better dad based on what?

    • @MadeItOutPodcast
      @MadeItOutPodcast  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      thank you for being here 🥹🫶🏼

    • @blueebird0092
      @blueebird0092 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @ltrillium1000 Loving her and letting her be herself is more than you know. 🤗🥰

  • @fionasedgwick7424
    @fionasedgwick7424 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I like that Ashley makes a distinction between regular male privilege - eg farting, burping in public , not living in fear for their safety and toxic masculinity

  • @blueebird0092
    @blueebird0092 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I can't say how much I love this podcast. I love seeing a more serious Ashley. I definitely hope they keep it as diverse as possible. Look forward to this podcast weekly 🙌🏾

  • @MariaTheDrummer
    @MariaTheDrummer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Hey Mal, I’m not surprised that Ashley views you as the Oprah of interviews. You're truly a rising star!

  • @a.r.rogers4373
    @a.r.rogers4373 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I really appreciate seeing a more tender side of Ashley.

  • @someonesomehow379
    @someonesomehow379 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    I loved the mix of new york and LA vibes in this 😭 a great episode

  • @tgviewz767
    @tgviewz767 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Mal is the absolutely best podcast interviewer I've ever listened to 🤩
    She's such a great listener 😊
    The way she leaves so room much for the guests is so wholesome!! 😚😘
    I was literally tearing and laughing the entire episode 😂
    Love Mal and Melte for all they do 😘😘😘

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      She's truly a phenomenal interviewer.

    • @tgviewz767
      @tgviewz767 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ashgavs thanks for coming on the show too 😊
      I checked out your pod, and I can say "you got a fan" 😁

    • @MadeItOutPodcast
      @MadeItOutPodcast  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      this is so sweet- thank you for listening and supporting us 🫶🏼

    • @InternationalStrategyII
      @InternationalStrategyII หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ashgavs My sporty down to earth humorous laid back young lesbian friends need to chill, we go to your TH-cam channel.
      I have girls sleepover parties at my house, we watch sports while having dinner. Take a jacuzzi break, dry our hair, then we get into my x4 King bed, get our hummus, guacamole, cheeze dips, chips and Chinese deliveries and watch your TH-cam channel. We pause it and talk and take our time watching them.
      We cuddle together like kittens and go to bed. I am a bit older than my lesbian friends. Some had a rough life before they met me so I am like their bigger sapphic sister. I always make sure that at the end of the month, they come stay with me and my gf. We cook together and we listen to each other. I make sure they pay their bills and that they eat well at the end of the month.
      Your optimism of will ripples through our evenings and we fall asleep with giggles and uplift, acceptance and forgiveness.
      @ashgavs we love you so much.

  • @mayrobbinss
    @mayrobbinss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Every time I've gone to TH-cam in the last like week I've prayed this is out

    • @hay-hays
      @hay-hays 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too! I look once a day to see when they will update a new episode!! I have no lgbt community where I am so this is my comfort!

    • @MadeItOutPodcast
      @MadeItOutPodcast  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@hay-hays Aw that makes us so happy that we can be a part of that :) new episodes out every Tuesday and new paywall shows coming soon!

    • @someonesomehow379
      @someonesomehow379 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hay-hays same!!
      take care!! you're not alone 🫂🩶

  • @ziyandandzwanana1011
    @ziyandandzwanana1011 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    This episode felt short, i was laughing and smiling the entire show. ❤❤😊😊😊😂

  • @DeoCross16
    @DeoCross16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Like I have said before, this podcast is a breath of fresh air on TH-cam❤

  • @maddy8736
    @maddy8736 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    wow, @ashgavs , I really needed to hear what you said about what you are working on in therapy right now. thank you so so much for sharing! I lost my mom when I was 20 years old, and I never had those words for that feeling. thank you!

  • @ashleyholtermann4991
    @ashleyholtermann4991 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Arrghhh I loved this so much. It was even better than I was expecting. Mal is a brilliant interviewer and she got the most interesting conversations out of Ashley, a person who has fascinating views on gender norms. Loved it

  • @scottnelson8037
    @scottnelson8037 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Oh my god, MORE comedians to make Mal laugh please, this one was amazing for that. And just because it came up, I'm a straight man and I watch not only because Mal is so enjoyable to watch and listen to (especially the laughs), but also because hearing about the reality of this side of life is simply fascinating, especially the way modern culture plays upon the erotic entertainment value of Lesbianism without really addressing the difficulties of it in every day life. And on top of that, emotion is emotion, whether it's gay, straight, or somewhere in-between, so there is a lot to learn and think about from these interviews for all of us.
    In closing, let me say that Ashley is 100% correct is saying that Mal is a fantastic interviewer and this episode above most proves that we absolutely need a reaction camera on Matilde - please, please, please!

  • @angelesmoonlight3312
    @angelesmoonlight3312 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I didn't realized that all of my exfriends from the comunity was toxic until this amazing episode, they had such a toxic masculinity attitude, seeing ashley and mal talking about gender roles that the society and us people in the community put on us as well made me realize that they were like all that they said and seeing the difference between those exfriends and mal and ashley, hearing mal and ashley felt like a healthy new fresh air, thank you so much girls for this one💖❤️‍🔥🏳️‍🌈

  • @junevertucci3420
    @junevertucci3420 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Bonus points for Mal, for bringing Ash to tears.

  • @megshogie6123
    @megshogie6123 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love this!! You’re being a wonderful dad, being here for her, and supporting her and loving her throughout her journey means so much more than you even know! Great job, Dad 😊

  • @QuinnOsgood-c9v
    @QuinnOsgood-c9v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    DaddyMommy 😂, my kids call me Mapa. Ashley is so relatable lol

  • @20PoleVaulter07
    @20PoleVaulter07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Ashley Gavin is one of the best live comedians that I have seen to this date!

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      thank you!

  • @naomigates6930
    @naomigates6930 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    IVE NEVER BEEN MORE EXCITED FOR AN EPISODE

  • @NinaMans
    @NinaMans หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    made it out is usually too mellow for me (not a diss at ALL i just like to be really estimulated lol). but i see ashley, i click, and i LOVED this episode! you two were the perfect balance for eachother, mal calmed ashley down and ashley riled mal up, the chemestry was so good

  • @isiyaramuthumuni4676
    @isiyaramuthumuni4676 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "Fuck you" "Awww, I love you, thank you for sharing" 😂

  • @kyrasaturn
    @kyrasaturn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    the “now you have language” made me laugh out loud i love it already

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So funny

    • @someonesomehow379
      @someonesomehow379 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ashgavs you're brilliant dude

  • @mariem.5613
    @mariem.5613 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Wow, I was not expecting this crossover! I usually listen to Chosen Family and Made it Out seperatly

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You gotta check out the WHGS ep w Mal! ❤

  • @movsess
    @movsess หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    i was chewing on a grape when Ashley did the Trump impression i laughed so hard it got stuck in my throat and i almost choked to death 😭 I haven't laughed like that in a while

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      that makes me so happy i cant tell you.

    • @nahadoth2087
      @nahadoth2087 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ashgavs I can see the titles coming on drama TH-cam channels: "Ashley Gavin is happy a fan chokes to death"

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@nahadoth2087HAHAHHA

  • @laurabravo8509
    @laurabravo8509 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Mal, your laugh is EVERYTHING 😂😂😂 I laugh so hard by just hearing yours! Also, LOVE this podcast, it's so inspiring actually for younger lgbt's like me. I'm 24, knew I was part of this since I was 16 and never was really a drama for me or my circle (luckily), but hearing all these stories and how the "going out" for yall in the US was like when you were younger, or even rn, it's so amazing and I really appreciate it and find it very but very inspiring. Huge kisses from Madrid, Spain!!!!! ❣

  • @someonesomehow379
    @someonesomehow379 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    been waiting for this one!!!

  • @jordynwheeler
    @jordynwheeler หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The abrupt end with “I haven’t seen em!” 😭

  • @giaanne4699
    @giaanne4699 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love how much Ashley celebrates motherhood; it's really sweet and genuinely inspiring.

  • @chrissy_chicago
    @chrissy_chicago 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Two of my favorites! Thank you for brightening my morning with smiles and laughs!

  • @KayBassie
    @KayBassie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    18:54 "You caught me on the wrong day."😂 Just being introduced to Ashley. I enjoyed this sit down with Mal. Another insightful conversation. As sum1 who presents masc in casual outings[where peeps are trying to clock me to confirm if I'm gay], but femme in more formal outings [where that curiosity doesn't come up.] , it's really fascinating to see how society perceives women that don't align with the traditional gender expressions.

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Ashley's childhood stories are always interesting to hear, but after I watched "Little Fires Everywhere" yesterday, the secret gay relationships as a 14 year old in the late nineties/early 2000s and the relationship with your mom-talk hit different.

  • @jenntwoN
    @jenntwoN 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think Ashley is the first person on the pod who's framed it like, "I'm not U-Hauling over that!" What standards! You go, Ashley!

  • @samcairns7595
    @samcairns7595 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love it, Ash is so funny! But honestly I love and always come back to see Mal - she is an amazing interviewer so earnest and heart felt and always leaves space for everyone she speaks to. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @BrookeButtercup-sx4vw
    @BrookeButtercup-sx4vw หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Having to say "I read an article" in defence of wearing something was so funny 😂

  • @ROCKONplaceboforever
    @ROCKONplaceboforever 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    One of my favorite episodes for sure love Ashley hes so talented and funny thank you as always ❤👏👏👏

  • @litwen1378
    @litwen1378 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When she was saying she didnt think she was attractive enough for dating, i feel that so much. I think im somehow sabotaging myself because i just cant seem to make it happen. Like, shying away, giving skeptical vibes, not being responsive. And its annoying because - in contrast to men - i can really imagine and want to be dating women. Could never imagine that with men, just thought it wasnt for me.

  • @3Oh3metrostation
    @3Oh3metrostation หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ashley is a great guest and WHGS is one of my fav podcasts

  • @SarahGreenawalt-dk1uc
    @SarahGreenawalt-dk1uc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazing job on both sides!!! Loved this so much.

  • @myflyingkidney
    @myflyingkidney 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This is a fantastic episode, fantastic. I am so glad you are getting more masc lesbians. Even though they usually don't fit the mould of coming out later in life they are still important representation. I follow ashley on her other podcasts as well of course, but this is a different type of conversation and it was very well done and very interesting. Keep up with this work and if possible try to find more masc women, I would very much enjoy listening to them.

  • @letmehaunt
    @letmehaunt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i was hoping you’d have ashley on!! great episode :-)

  • @enbycoop
    @enbycoop 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you, both!!👏👏

  • @Raddiebaddie
    @Raddiebaddie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Amazing episode! I love the mix of funny and sincere ❤🎉

  • @DiMon-jd4lf
    @DiMon-jd4lf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i love having Ashley be a host on other podcasts

  • @jul.m.2692
    @jul.m.2692 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Two of my favorite podcasters!!!! 🎉💜

  • @stephben8042
    @stephben8042 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Immediate watch bc Ashley Gavin!

  • @karierina
    @karierina หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved watching this! I’m a non-binary lesbian but very much femme presenting and my gf is the more dominant and mix between femme and masc. I love how in our relationship we have created our own dynamics and rules, not caring about gender norms. Ngl it’s challenging in this world though

  • @MayWoods_Noise
    @MayWoods_Noise 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh wow, this episode really hit home for me.
    When i was graped, i didn't even think it was a possibility. I was very out about my Sexuality and this boy was my childhood best friend. He was very openly excepting of my identity. I never worried about staying over at this house. I had countless times but without even knowing it. I was put in a situation where i couldnt escape since i was basically locked in his house, i couldnt tell anyone since we both shared the same social circle [small mountain town] and without knowing it my mindset of "I'm a lesbian and he is just a friend, he would never do that. He hasnt ever done that." Put me in a situation where i couldn't escape.
    It's scary , thinking that being straight in some way could have helped. Of course, in reality, this happens to straight girls all the time because it is the people you dont expect. But my identity gave me this false sense of protection from the female experience.

  • @s.r.3738
    @s.r.3738 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hell yeah, Ashley! I love your personality, dude 😂

  • @stitchBASE
    @stitchBASE 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    “Uncorked” Ashley is always a delight. Thanks for having her. I’ve listened to Made it Out, on and off for the last few years. But usually out of boredom. No offense. I never felt connected to the pod till this episode.

    • @wweleah
      @wweleah หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually same. I've listened to this pod for awhile. I usually never felt connected to the topics because it's usually femme/stem experiences. I watch because it's interesting to see other perspectives. But having Ashley on really got me! I hope for more masc representation. I thought it was funny Ashley asked if she was more masc than Shannon. I personally don't really see shannon as that far on the masc scale. Love her of course though.

  • @HeatherWright-c8z
    @HeatherWright-c8z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The adverts are a lot better split many thanks love the show

  • @Lolo_Schmidt
    @Lolo_Schmidt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this! Ashley on Made it Out! Yes, please!

  • @ALIEN3966D
    @ALIEN3966D 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i enjoy listening to your podcast very much 😁👍

  • @stephtaylor6292
    @stephtaylor6292 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this as a friendship. So cute. Great vibes

  • @mommyissuesmusic
    @mommyissuesmusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved loved loved this episode! You really took the can opener to Ashley, which fans of her work know she needs every once in a while. Love to see it! Your Bottoms love you Ashley, let us in 🥹

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      bro i cry on the podcast all the fucking time!

    • @mommyissuesmusic
      @mommyissuesmusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@ashgavs you do. I know. ❤

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mommyissuesmusic ❤❤

  • @May-om7ck
    @May-om7ck 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    We need Chappell Roan one

    • @Honeydoyou
      @Honeydoyou 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Lesbian QUEEN

  • @nath9773
    @nath9773 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So...happy birthday to your mom! Great episode as always...

  • @sashsat4698
    @sashsat4698 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I swear, Mel can follow a punch line and loves it! her laugh is hilarious and adds to the humour - watching my sydney Aus!

  • @melanimoreno1201
    @melanimoreno1201 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    very interesting takes from Ashley; id personally might not resonate with it as a masc lesbian but yet a new perspective i wasnt aware other masculine women might have.

  • @FreeCandy979
    @FreeCandy979 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a great podcast episode!! Kudos to you 🎉

  • @natalieshira7294
    @natalieshira7294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yay!!! I love Ashley Gavin💗

  • @farleyandrews7269
    @farleyandrews7269 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mal, You DO have a "Gift", and women's, female, girl power and energy is Best ! I probably should have been born "that way" ! Please keep it up ! No one else does what you do ! - Farley Andrews

  • @AnastasiaAvraliova
    @AnastasiaAvraliova 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, Mal !

  • @samirasaab8310
    @samirasaab8310 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was sad when its over, I want to watch moreeeeee haha

  • @alexispraudins3388
    @alexispraudins3388 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love that your having more MASC people on your podcast as a fellow MASC. I was wondering if you would ever do a video about the odd toxisity around the word butch. I identify as butch and I get so many weird looks both inside and outside the queer community for using that term instead of butch. I feel like this should be talked about

  • @angellombness4371
    @angellombness4371 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Need to see Ashley on tour next year! [comment engagement 💜]

  • @emilykissell4015
    @emilykissell4015 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Favorite episode so far!!

  • @barnaliadhikary9421
    @barnaliadhikary9421 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This podcast is like the lifeline in our lesbian lives😊😊😊😊🎉

  • @Liv4SummerWind
    @Liv4SummerWind 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Big fat hug to Ashley💜💚💜💚💜

  • @ritaohara4567
    @ritaohara4567 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great episode!!

  • @csc677
    @csc677 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ Mal is awesome interviewer. Thank you for all this to make it happen. Would be lovely to see here May Martin too :))

  • @Karleyrosenquist
    @Karleyrosenquist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YES another iconic duo

  • @chloes228
    @chloes228 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yesss let’s go I love Ashley!!!!

  • @coolsenjoyer
    @coolsenjoyer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    27:30 a second adolesence is such a relatable concept to me as a trans lesbian. Though it's very different experience since we (not all but probably most of us) go through what is basically a second physical puberty, it's very cool to have something in common with (at least some) cis lesbians in spirit. Makes it feel like we're actually all part of the same queer womanhood, even with all the major differences

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We are all part of it! I think the terfs that claim we haven’t had the same struggles are so silly. No two women have had the same experiences. Look at me and Mal! It’s so different. But we’re both hurt by the patriarchy and trans women are too. We’re all in it together.

    • @someonesomehow379
      @someonesomehow379 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ashgavs PERIODT.

    • @spaghettimonster5650
      @spaghettimonster5650 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Patriarchy? Trans women are MEN. They are the patriarchy you talk about.​@@ashgavs

    • @spaghettimonster5650
      @spaghettimonster5650 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@someonesomehow379Patriarchy? Trans women are MEN. They are the patriarchy you talk about

  • @pura1
    @pura1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    13:26 omg this is so well put great dialogue

  • @LemonAndBeanCo
    @LemonAndBeanCo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    48:04 damn Ashley hit that spot on! Loved this episode!!!!! Totally get called sir or young man 95% of the time and I am the one that will carry too

  • @amarieplasencia6384
    @amarieplasencia6384 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    LOVE FOR MAL!!! ❤

  • @steventostevin3085
    @steventostevin3085 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Crossdreser 98.5 % straight this is because I'm not in prison or drunk. And that's the differance between straight men and cis mem. And I'm a big fan of both of you. Love that your talking and explaining how you both interacted with genders and sexes. Keep it up Please.PS I now want my kids there 35 22 and 18 call me mummy daddy so cool

  • @elliewillians
    @elliewillians 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this episode !!!!! 🤍🤍

  • @RUEGREY
    @RUEGREY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so interesting! Thank you!

  • @JohnRobinson-km4kt
    @JohnRobinson-km4kt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As always I come away with so much value from your ‘pod❤️❤️❤️😎😎😎❤️❤️❤️John

  • @bigstronkgorl2138
    @bigstronkgorl2138 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Off topic but I loved your outfits.

  • @TheEpicPlace
    @TheEpicPlace 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I also notice I get a certain pass in fem spaces when I play up my fem side..its very interesting..I relate to the masc phobic stuff

  • @radrag07
    @radrag07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    May I suggest something about the ads? While I fully understand you need them, I feel they come too early in the episode, when the intro has just finished. I find them less annoying when they come later, once I’m already immersed. Just my 2cents, not hating at all! Love your podcast 🫶

    • @4immerda
      @4immerda 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I second that :)

    • @MadeItOutPodcast
      @MadeItOutPodcast  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you for this - we have guidelines from sponsors about the placements but we will try a couple different things in the coming episodes and see what is less intrusive/annoying :)

    • @Honeydoyou
      @Honeydoyou 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MadeItOutPodcast get your coin, girl

  • @carlotamagdalenoruiz1735
    @carlotamagdalenoruiz1735 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this episode ❤

  • @timtam39tw
    @timtam39tw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great episode 👏🏿 👌🏾 👍🏾 🙌🏿 ❤️ 😊

  • @Strawberry_M00N
    @Strawberry_M00N 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My 2 favorites again 😍

  • @BengBalboa
    @BengBalboa หลายเดือนก่อน

    if robby jordan and Ashley gavin plus e.r fightmaster in the same room it would be a chaos.😂

    • @nahadoth2087
      @nahadoth2087 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ashley had E R on her podcast. It was really fun.

    • @BengBalboa
      @BengBalboa หลายเดือนก่อน

      @nahadoth2087 yes i watch it love e.r.

  • @HueScrape
    @HueScrape หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Please have Alayna Joy on the pod!

  • @afrancis8941
    @afrancis8941 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What is the "we live" podcast you mention? Can we get a show name pls now i'm intrigued 🙏

  • @kawaii.cactus1641
    @kawaii.cactus1641 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ahh!! Ashley Gav🎉 finally

  • @matthijsclaessen8152
    @matthijsclaessen8152 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    OMG! It’s Dad from the Chosen Family podcast!
    (And the funny comedian. And the host of ‘The Other podcast’ tm…)
    Ok. I watch too much AshGav content.

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Love you dude

    • @matthijsclaessen8152
      @matthijsclaessen8152 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ashgavsI love it seeing you as a guest. It shows a gentler side, for lack of a better word. (Yes, you’re very caring in the other shows but very ‘in your face’.) You’re totally you, but a completely different energy. Less on a stage and more ‘real’, like you’re a visiting friend.
      A lot of words saying I loved the interview and I liked seeing you this.
      (Probably not a surprise but: me = 57yo man from The Netherlands, mostly cishet but ever so slightly fluid and pan…)

    • @3Oh3metrostation
      @3Oh3metrostation หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same!

  • @kirzaenid22
    @kirzaenid22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The doggieeeeee❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ soooo cuteeee!

  • @J_Themborn
    @J_Themborn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Fantastic episode!
    I’ve wondered if Ashley has a bit in store for her pregnancy on stage lol

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      so many bits

  • @HonestLeighSpeaking
    @HonestLeighSpeaking 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So many things that I find fascinating and interesting, especially the fact that she described masculinity as, “freedom“… And when she describes herself as masculine, it seems like she keeps speaking about masculine being akin to “confident“… so does she think that feminine women aren’t free? 🤔🤔🤔

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I think women have a higher level of standards to meet on just about everything. The way we move, the way we dress, the language we use, etc. Men seem to be less scrutinized around these things.

  • @sircatibus8971
    @sircatibus8971 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Matilde catching strays 😂😂

  • @pura1
    @pura1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    11:48 I think being around men (wyt or not) you can access their privilege by proximity

  • @ELEVATED888
    @ELEVATED888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cruise 1st class ocean liners, upper decks, butler, premium dining venues.. Plush🚢

  • @litwen1378
    @litwen1378 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where can i get the jacket mal is wearing❤

  • @Hidjdjdj
    @Hidjdjdj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was caught off guard at 0:18. I thought she was saying in a creative way that she's dating Ashely Gavin. lol

    • @MadeItOutPodcast
      @MadeItOutPodcast  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      omg what an announcement that would be!! xoxox Mathilde (Mal's girlfriend!)

  • @sepideiv8301
    @sepideiv8301 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Been waiting for this