She speaks so well & rather convincing, however I have learned that many women especially those with decent education can speak & articulate themselves like her & you'll be sold a dream... NEVER ever listen to what women say, rather pay attention to what women RESPOND to, it is NEVER about what they say but what they do, or most importantly what they'd rather do.
@@ninobrown1309 that was my thought from the first words she said I judged her purely on how outspoken and sounds educated. Don't get me wrong I love an intelligent woman but not those who will use sarcasm, big words and are very open minded. She can say everything and sound convincing.
I think people value all those things. Money is important yes but I think people who only focus on money are people that are poor and need money in their lives
She's not wrong! She's speaking as an audience of society and not as something she believes or holds value on! She's going to go over a lot of people's heads
As far as I'm concerned, whether rich or not...women are loyal to their feelings, it's all about how she feels about you. If she's feeling you then 80% of your work is done.
Well said! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman. The land was allocated that way, to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke. The ilobola and cattle were a way to thank the woman for putting her life in the line to extend the man's lineage.
@Nthando Well said! This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage. If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions. Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
@NikoBednego This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage. If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions. Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage. If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions. Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk. A man must provide period
Do not confuse money with the actual wealth. The world rewards value with money, but that doesn't mean a man with money is in reverse doing something valuable.
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman. The land was allocated that way, to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke. The ilobola and cattle were a way to thank the woman for putting her life in the line to extend the man's lineage.
I can be both, i dont wear fency clothes but I like to be clean always with shades "self preserved" like she said and seat in the corner alone. I also know how to hlenza a goat and a cow wearing overalls. It just depends on my mood, generally I'm not a people's person. I'm usually preserved than involved.. I need a traditional virgin woman nje, nothing fancy with big vocabulary.
There is no "high value man" rather an individual who might posses certain trait/s a specific women assign high value to. The traits can be arranged according to hierarchy of value and they can change over time.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI I didn't grow up in a traditional environment where I had to slaughter cows and goats, or doing animal herding, or doing traditional manual labour in a rural setting. This woman says she wants a man that can do all those things. Unfortunately, I am not that man. I was raised to pursue academic achievement and career achievement in a strictly modern setting. Yes I can cook, iron, clean, change door locks, unclog toilets and kitchen sinks and take care of a modern household. But to slaughter goats is something I definitely didn't grow up doing.
Hear what? Even in the traditional society a man had to be able to PROVIDE. Period. A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman. The land was allocated that way, to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke. The ilobola and cattle were a way to thank the woman for putting her life in the line to extend the man's lineage.
I think the whole ideology of a society based on social media is pretty vague. There is a very big world out there, away from social media where people make decisions that are not solely dependent on money or the current social media culture. In all honesty, how many men have a lot of money? How many men are married? The number of the latter far outweighs the former. So let’s not only take social media perspectives and use them as a yardstick to measure society.
@Jereza This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage. If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions. Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk. Whether you like it or not, a man has always been judged by his ability to PROVIDE. And there's nothing wrong with that because the woman's burden of giving birth is even heavier, than that if bring a provider. Maternal mortality is real, women die in child birth. If a woman is willing to die to extend your lineage, then the very least you can do is give her SECURITY. You can never erase the stretch marks, roll back the weigh gain, perk up her breasts, spare her the sleepless nights, so the very least a man can do is PROVIDE.
She speaks so well & rather convincing, however I have learned that many women especially those with decent education can speak & articulate themselves like her & you'll be sold a dream... NEVER ever listen to what women say, rather pay attention to what women RESPOND to, it is NEVER about what they say but what they do, or most importantly what they'd rather do.
Word. how can we get your podcask
@VirtueDesignStudio-g5k what's a podcask?
Facts.
Maybe he meant podcast..@@ninobrown1309
@@ninobrown1309 that was my thought from the first words she said I judged her purely on how outspoken and sounds educated. Don't get me wrong I love an intelligent woman but not those who will use sarcasm, big words and are very open minded. She can say everything and sound convincing.
A high value man is a man who fears God, with money or no money as long as you have the fear of the lord you are a high value man.
Rubbish 🚮.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. I totally agree. High value man is a wise man❤
Whether you fear God or not as long as you don't have money , you are invisible to majority
It's true ppl value money than integrity,or principles so yah it's high time we acknowledge Dat we are a mess as a society
Kodwa akukhonakali ukuthi singaba nemali sonke ..ngabe lokhu kuchazani masiyaphambili...
Thank you
I think people value all those things. Money is important yes but I think people who only focus on money are people that are poor and need money in their lives
She's not wrong! She's speaking as an audience of society and not as something she believes or holds value on!
She's going to go over a lot of people's heads
@@neosindane8958 it's not rocket science really. Chill.
As far as I'm concerned, whether rich or not...women are loyal to their feelings, it's all about how she feels about you. If she's feeling you then 80% of your work is done.
@@saitamadecember2806 facts
Money is the new God 💯 now more than EVER! Money is KING!
Ubuhle bendoda inkomo zayo!
Well said! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman. The land was allocated that way, to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke. The ilobola and cattle were a way to thank the woman for putting her life in the line to extend the man's lineage.
@Nthando Well said! This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo!
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage.
If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions.
Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
Ok
RIP Kevin Samuels. The Godfather will live forever.
Wow my dear sis. Im glad i continued listening. I almost 😂
Yep she's correct
She's king👑💯
She’s so beautiful and smart.. ❤️
She said what every women needs
Nah she's a real one I won't lie she's the best, she makes me have hope in humanity again...❤❤❤😂
Or it could be just words...
Very doomed society we live in and the reason why many of ur woman got caught up and end up been killed of been owned rather than been Loved
@NikoBednego This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo!
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage.
If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions.
Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo!
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage.
If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions.
Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
A man must provide period
Say that again
She's right. It's not unfortunate. It is what it is.
Resourcefulness, daptability, and integrity.
She sounded wise until towards the end.
Do not confuse money with the actual wealth. The world rewards value with money, but that doesn't mean a man with money is in reverse doing something valuable.
Before people got so attached to money as they're today what would have a high value man looked like or they simply didn't exist then...?
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman. The land was allocated that way, to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke. The ilobola and cattle were a way to thank the woman for putting her life in the line to extend the man's lineage.
Resources. Money. Same thing.
Its the world we live in🤞🏾
I can be both, i dont wear fency clothes but I like to be clean always with shades "self preserved" like she said and seat in the corner alone. I also know how to hlenza a goat and a cow wearing overalls. It just depends on my mood, generally I'm not a people's person. I'm usually preserved than involved.. I need a traditional virgin woman nje, nothing fancy with big vocabulary.
No she is powerful, period😁.
What l have realised money is not everything
There is no "high value man" rather an individual who might posses certain trait/s a specific women assign high value to.
The traits can be arranged according to hierarchy of value and they can change over time.
Money is the highest value, stop trying to add moralistic mambo jumbo when you know money is valuable today.
Boss lady!!!
Women are in love with men who are hungry for life... Men who are going places... Period
Yeah. Unfortunately this woman is too traditional for me. As a black man. I didn't grow up that way.
What do you mean my G?
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI I didn't grow up in a traditional environment where I had to slaughter cows and goats, or doing animal herding, or doing traditional manual labour in a rural setting. This woman says she wants a man that can do all those things. Unfortunately, I am not that man. I was raised to pursue academic achievement and career achievement in a strictly modern setting.
Yes I can cook, iron, clean, change door locks, unclog toilets and kitchen sinks and take care of a modern household. But to slaughter goats is something I definitely didn't grow up doing.
@@anthonytesla8382 yeah, she lost me with that one too. I feel you. No Diddy.
Was somewhat convincing but then again, these are the typical women views
I wish most African men can hear this......sbonge Ma'Mhlongo.
Hear what? Even in the traditional society a man had to be able to PROVIDE. Period.
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman. The land was allocated that way, to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke. The ilobola and cattle were a way to thank the woman for putting her life in the line to extend the man's lineage.
S/O to Kevin Samuels may his soul rest in power though, the Godfather ❤❤❤😂
I think the whole ideology of a society based on social media is pretty vague. There is a very big world out there, away from social media where people make decisions that are not solely dependent on money or the current social media culture. In all honesty, how many men have a lot of money? How many men are married? The number of the latter far outweighs the former. So let’s not only take social media perspectives and use them as a yardstick to measure society.
How much is a man's value
What will it profit a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul? Or what can a man give in exchange for his soul?
@Jereza
This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo!
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage.
If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions.
Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
Whether you like it or not, a man has always been judged by his ability to PROVIDE. And there's nothing wrong with that because the woman's burden of giving birth is even heavier, than that if bring a provider. Maternal mortality is real, women die in child birth. If a woman is willing to die to extend your lineage, then the very least you can do is give her SECURITY. You can never erase the stretch marks, roll back the weigh gain, perk up her breasts, spare her the sleepless nights, so the very least a man can do is PROVIDE.
Even if it’s an idiot as long enemali kuphelile
Ke nnete...