Lesbian Dating: How to Know If a Woman is Interested In You

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  • @taytubeofficial
    @taytubeofficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    Yep. No. I still have no clue 😭 it’s so hard to be a feminine girl that is attracted to other feminine girls. 😭😂 I’m lost guys 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @stargarell779
      @stargarell779 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same gurl

    • @JBR939
      @JBR939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      relatable.

    • @KittyFloof
      @KittyFloof 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Taylor Adair Same 😿

    • @mj-fc3ci
      @mj-fc3ci 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Taylor Adair that’s me, I’m into my bf

    • @gracielee5004
      @gracielee5004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ditto

  • @avidreader2316
    @avidreader2316 7 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Girls/Women wanting to make friends display the exact same signs, so they might not be into you but just wants to be your friend. I have done most/all of these things with women who I do not fancy but want to become good friends with.

    • @TheSpooty123
      @TheSpooty123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      avidreader 231
      I hate you for being right!!! 😭 I can't tell if she *likes* me!!!

    • @gracias8362
      @gracias8362 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yah same here... She wants me as a friend.. But i love her still...

    • @thiana333
      @thiana333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think we have to pay attention if she makes those sings to everybody,or jus to us, manly touching, or let you touching her.

    • @thiana333
      @thiana333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      woww, touching the hair is too intimate, I do this when I have interest in a girl, touch hair knee too. Here in my country, they say that thickling in the knees indicates jealous person, so I always use this "test" as a pretext to touch her.

    • @thiana333
      @thiana333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So... I think she does that on purpose to see your reaction that should be very cute!

  • @scorpionmaiden
    @scorpionmaiden 7 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Rather than lying and saying you like the artist, why not say "No, I've never heard of them, but I'd totally like to check them out." It's telling the truth AND getting the date. Thanks for the advice, Dr. Frankie. Haha, can't wait to be social again...

    • @twoawesomedogs
      @twoawesomedogs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I questioned that too.

    • @Wiaderny42
      @Wiaderny42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My thoughts exactly. Recently there was a guy flirting with me (which I didn't realise at that time) and he told me he loves that artist I was talking about. Later I found out he didn't actually know him and was just saying that to get my attention and that just felt really fake and offputting :(
      (sorry for bad english)

  • @buffy455
    @buffy455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    my girlfriend had to touch my leg and ask for my phone number and my facebook, and I didn't have a clue

    • @nancysethi3113
      @nancysethi3113 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      buffy455
      so u r a lesbian?

    • @buffy455
      @buffy455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah! I'm a lesbian not a freaking unicorn!1 I love Wynnona Earp

    • @LERB423
      @LERB423 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      OMG same hahaha. I have not a girlfriend anymore, but to notice that girl was into me she had to touch my leg twice and ask for my facebook and Whatsapp, and kiss me on the cheek very close to my mouth LOL. A little bit clueless, yes, but I'm also a latina, so I don't trust in the physicality thing, we are very touchy people haha and it doesn't mean we are flirting with every single person that we make physical contact with XD

    • @buffy455
      @buffy455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm mexican so I know what you mean when my cousin who is american came and I kiss his cheek as a greeting, he looked at me like what the hell are you doing? lol, Americans aren't very touchy neither kiss for greeting. So the next time an american or canadian girl touches us or kisses us near the mouth, we will know lol ;)

    • @LERB423
      @LERB423 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah I will definitely notice that more the next time, hoping that there's gonna be a next time haha

  • @NiaNamora
    @NiaNamora 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I feel pretty dumb too because I had this one girl... I said a bad joke. I knew it was bad and I instantly regretted saying it. And she laughed so hard at it, I just watched her and smiled. I kind of knew then "she must like me" but I never acted on it because I was worried I was wrong. Now we're friends and she no longer laughs at my jokes like that. Pretty sure I missed my opportunity.

    • @NiaNamora
      @NiaNamora 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I know, I'm just saying that in the bible, the only place homosexuality was said that it was bad was in the old Testament and even that has some debate. I've been working on translating the original bible and really, the parts where we've translated it to homosexuality, it more closely translates to "Sexual deviancy". I think we correlated that with homosexuality because there was a time we thought that to be sexually deviant... but I think that's objective. I think for religion people have to make themselves feel right with god and it's a very personal experience. You may see homosexuality as sin but there are many interpretations that don't see it as one. I'm not here to debate either, but thank you for your very thoughtful message. I wish us both the best.

  • @flowersun4535
    @flowersun4535 7 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    What if it's a stranger? Like you're at a bar or a restaurant and suddenly you make solid eye contact with say one of the waitress. How do you know if she's even gay?... my gaydar is broken so I can't tell.

    • @musicalone8123
      @musicalone8123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      TheProtectiveMom Of1 waitresses get paid to be nice (and to watch people), so 95% of the time they are not interested. I used to work in customer service, and I wish people got this about women in retail, hospitality, food service, clubs/bars, etc. We are there simply to collect a check and maybe tips. I hated all the attempts to get with me at work.

    • @flowersun4535
      @flowersun4535 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      No that's totally understandable in the situation that if it was a waitress because of her work. It just puzzled me when I experienced this 3 weeks ago I was walking in to a restaurant and I made eye contact with a waitress who literally held her gaze at me until she turned a corner. I was with my family and my bf and even through the whole time we spent there she seemed to look my way and it was very hard not to notice. Finally we were walking out, she was in my way so she stepped aside and told me (literally only to me and no one else) "have a great night" and just flashes me such a big smile. It left me confused to be honest lol

    • @scorpionmaiden
      @scorpionmaiden 7 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      SHE GAY

    • @Sarahbuildsstepsequencers
      @Sarahbuildsstepsequencers 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      J Cat she liked you! Go back there!

    • @drfrankiebashan
      @drfrankiebashan  7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Great comments everyone and sorry for the delay. First off, congrats to you for *actually* making eye contact. That's the first step. Second: I will repeat this because it's important and I talk about it all the time: There is NO WAY to KNOW if a woman is gay unless you ask her. Nothing. Nothing about her hair, her fingernails or her dress. Women who are into women come in all shapes and sizes and that's how we like them. Talking to someone new can be risky - yes. But truthfully, it's none of your business what her identify is. If she likes you, she likes you! If she flirts with you, she flirts with you! You don't NEED to know what her identity is to do that. Even a non-gay women reacts to positive flattery. The important part is to be present and engage. If it goes somewhere, great. If it doesn't, great. It's about being bold. Thank you for asking.

  • @absoluteacw
    @absoluteacw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Questions like these were being asked nearly twenty years ago when online community groups began. Started by ordinary women who wanted to meet others and make friends or more and give advice. Now all closed down. Took over by huge social media platforms eventually. A whole new generation it appears are asking those same questions today. It makes me smile. Everything stays the same it feels. Its only the faces that change.

  • @Bels
    @Bels 7 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    OMG. I do all those things that she mentioned. No wonder why my co-workers think i like them hahahaa

    • @EmilyYait
      @EmilyYait 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same) especially if you are in retail and there are many girls haha

    • @keishacarlies5172
      @keishacarlies5172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well do you?

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I 💏💏💋👄🔥🔥💑💑😍😍😍😍

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like u 🔥🔥🍆🍆♨♨💏💏👄👄💋💋😍😍🙋🙋

    • @kathybramley5609
      @kathybramley5609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I do and not just with people I like like that. I think there's an aspect of ND social skills, anxiety, low self-esteem or people pleasing. And also trouble with motivation and task focus for me. I'm recently diagnosed autistic with bad bullying history and waiting in referral for ADHD/dyspraxia assessment.

  • @colinsmith7576
    @colinsmith7576 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dr Frankie looks very confident. I think she is getting plenty of action.

  • @NewYorkHunter
    @NewYorkHunter 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I love watching this and realizing that none of this has ever happened to me 😂

  • @yasmingirl17
    @yasmingirl17 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    MAN! There was a girl who ticked literally all of these signs, and she asked me over text about this art thing, and I said I didn't know it, and when I tried to invite her to something, it was too late and I killed it! I'm hopeless.

  • @timjung640
    @timjung640 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Gay or not, male or female, people convey romantic interest...by conveying romantic interest. Focusing on specific signs is bad advice because everyone's level of friendliness and generosity is different. The better advice is to *calibrate*. What I mean is that you observe how that person interacts with everyone else. If that person is friendlier towards you, that's a potential sign.
    The next step is for *you* to convey interest, and if that person reciprocates, that's a stronger sign.
    If the risk is worth it, it's better to be direct about your interest. But risky places like some work environments warrant indirectness, i.e. conveying interest and observing if it's reciprocated.
    You also have to discern between platonic and romantic interest. I think romantic interest is also predicated on platonic interest; romantic interest just has the added sexual tension. In indirect situations, sexual interest gives rise to certain body language.
    At the end of the day though, we have free will and we can choose to hide our interest and/or body language (although it's difficult).

    • @riesmitzzu4251
      @riesmitzzu4251 ปีที่แล้ว

      ik u prolly wont reply, but damn u right, i ended up asking my friend that is also her friend about how she acts toward her other friends....turns out, its the same and my friend told me to give up, since there is 0 chance that shes gay....losing my hope but im not giving up just yet
      the fact that she hugged me and always reply to my text before sleep does not help either 💀 (ps. i dress as a total masc with a mullet hair...trying to make it obvious that im into girls without saying it)

  • @athenatheshewolf
    @athenatheshewolf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's so hard to find useful videos on this exact question, lo and behold a video that actually helps. Thank you!

  • @alicelalhrietzing1674
    @alicelalhrietzing1674 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This only made me realise how interested I am in this one person cos I do all these things but I’m pretty sure it’s not mutual sigh

  • @diegoh.4481
    @diegoh.4481 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    There is this friend I totally like. She is really nice to me and sometimes she gives me signals which applies that she is interested in me. But other times it seems like she is just (very) nice to me.
    What can I do? I thought about inviting her to a date, but I'm to shy. Actually she should have noticed that I'm into her and I don't want to ruin anything between us.

    • @TheSpooty123
      @TheSpooty123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      L. H.
      Casually ask her for some dating advise! Describe to her what you're looking for and why you can't find it! And inconspicuously slip the seed of love!

  • @ravenclawsden2103
    @ravenclawsden2103 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Wow, and this is my first time hitting on a girl, but somehow I already knew exactly what to do these past few weeks and I don´t really know if she´s even straight yet! I´m coming out of the closet this year, although I guess I´m going too fast because I´ve seen her like three times in college since I´ve known her but we´ve been talking a lot by audio messages. I can´t stop giggling about everything when I talk to her, and she´s super serious (I don´t think she even knows I´m bisexual but I gave all the signs apparently), I have asked her to join me to the movies next week, and go to a pub next month, and also I signed her in to make a group project together. I´m scared that she won´t feel the same, but ever since I first saw her, I got a really nice feeling about this like "I can build something meaningful with that girl". IDK, I´m so nervous cause it would be my first time doing this.. everything. Wish me luck! any tips will be very much appreciated.

  • @almaalinthia2725
    @almaalinthia2725 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Doctor , do you have a girlfriend?🤔...maybe we can have a cup of ☕ just coffee

    • @nanak3976
      @nanak3976 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      alma alinthia 😂

  • @julas99
    @julas99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What irritating me a lot is those girls who are really "flirtly" with you and are hetero. They are making fucking signals but you know they are hetero! lol I have this friend from school, I spend most of the time at school with her, I'm lesbian but I don't think of her that way, just a friend, she is not my type. But she is acting like she is filtring with me everytime hahah she touches me a lot, laught everytime etc and sometimes as a lesbian I just feel angry lol

    • @julas99
      @julas99 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes she is even staring at me when I'm "not looking" weird way ahhahaha but I know she is hetero like come one or maybe she just don't know she is not. We had this converstaion aboout gay males and I always support LGBT so I was so strict about her "not toleranting". She is religious so that's her deal. I said in the Bible it's written that "if man treats another man like a woman" then it's not okay. She agreed on that but she also said she likes our country because they don't tolerate gays (in our language gay only means gay males) lol and my face when she said "you are hetero" ahhahahahahah

  • @donnlee8534
    @donnlee8534 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Everything that you have said happens to me she's my close friend and my supervisor but the way she's treating me is different from her other friends special I think, but I am afraid to step up from my feelings thinking maybe I am just way overthinking that I am just a "friend"....🙄

  • @suru01
    @suru01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Literally every single sign is a yes and I'm still like "but DOES she?" :D

  • @kiap44
    @kiap44 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    when i was 18 this 16 year old girl did all these things to get my attention I felt there was something there I never acted on it ...years later she finally told me but now she's married with kids I'M DEVASTATED I didn't act on it ...sucks

    • @ohthelovelypoems
      @ohthelovelypoems 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Think most of us have a story or two like that.

  • @Ghe5de
    @Ghe5de 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So this girl is making eye contact with me and smiling sometimes, she’s in my college organic chemistry class and we were using the model molecules and she moved to sit next to me and we kind of touched and worked together, but I’m so bad at deciphering whether or not girls are into me. Honestly I mostly have trouble in that area, and guys just outright ask me out, so that’s who I generally go for. But I really think this girl is cute and sweet and also shy so I’m not really sure what to do. Ughh I wish it was easier!

  • @Rainynightstories
    @Rainynightstories ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg... thank you so much.....she convinced me to have a sleepover at my Friend's house a couple of days back ,but she has a boyfriend...I don't know what to do...I just kept laughing it off whenever she tried to be a little more closer...I'm confused.

  • @TheSpooty123
    @TheSpooty123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need soooo much advice for this girl I am *head over heels* for!!!! 😭😭😍😍♥️

  • @lovegalore681
    @lovegalore681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg, all these things my boss do but she's very careful with what she say but find ways to linger when I come to work hun I knew it thank u

  • @braydened9451
    @braydened9451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whenever we make eye contact she's like-
    😳
    While I'm like-
    🙂

  • @chanyeolpark45
    @chanyeolpark45 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My crush in class always keeps glancing towards me..
    We have made eye contact a lot of times too...and her friends act weird around me....
    Can you give me sum advice???
    I don't know what to do..

    • @riddhishah8899
      @riddhishah8899 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chanyeol Park hi ignore her friends... Try to take step ahead... Take ur chance.... Try to talk with her...

  • @taylortimeless
    @taylortimeless 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My crush is always looking at me and smiling. I didn’t want to assume anything because maybe some people are just friendly. However, we were having an employee hang out and she kept looking over at me. I was talking to a friend who ended up walking away and it was just my crush and I. She blushes/smiles and looks down. When she’s far away she will still look all the way across the building and smile. We were all hanging out in one of the auditoriums and I was talking to a friend about how I was raised in Indiana. She turns around (keep in mind that this girl is like rows and rows away) and her face brightens up and apparently she’s from there. Later after the movie she comes up to me asking me a question about the end credits. Now, we barely know each other and there are tonnnns of people that she’s closer to and could ask. So this threw me off. I decided to test the waters and wear one of my gay shirts. When she saw it, she started smiling. She stared at it for a long time. What does this mean? Is she just very friendly or what?

    • @AkitaMix
      @AkitaMix 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Taylor Evans lucky you

  • @cd71208
    @cd71208 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    (Long short story) once I met a girl in a club we talk till it closed.. after that the day after she sent me a mss on fb...we started to talk and immediately became "friends", i mean in that moment she was in a breaked up with a guy so i didn't try anything with her... as we get more close, she was single (thats what i always thought) she never told me anything and always hidden this type of thing from me, i dont know why... anyways we always made joked bout we were a couple, in fact my friends thought that. Idk i was confused i kinda liked her but i didnt try to kiss her or anything bcuz i didnt want to break our friendship. But we had those closed moments where we were almost to kiss, but never happend... One day we were in a bar calibrating her bday, having lots of fun hugging, laughing, drinking... I was pretty wasted and the last thing i remember is that i dont know how or WHY but i ended inside a bathroom with girl friend of her nothing happend i swear.. she immediately went to knock the door, we went out and she started to hug this girl, i saw that and i leaved the bar . After that night, We were without talk for weeks, I really dont know what happend that night or what happend with us, but we not longer friends :'( i miss her i always wonder if she miss me too.. 😔
    Pd: its longer but i won't write more ) lol

  • @Laynasmuse
    @Laynasmuse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've never really been with another woman but I have always thought about it a lot. Especially now (I'm 40 yrs old) and I would totally be open to a relationship with another woman if its the right one of course. I just don't know what the heck im doing at all when it it comes to this. And how to signal to someone im interested in them that way, without just outright asking about it.

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love u
      I like u
      I need u
      Am alon
      🔥🔥🍆🍆♨♨💏💏👄👄💋💋😗😙😚😘😍😍🙋🙋

  • @tytoalba6573
    @tytoalba6573 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I make frequent eye contact and if I sense them being kind of intrigued, I'll wink at them.

  • @rebeccasimmers9363
    @rebeccasimmers9363 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom was the family scapegoat until I came along then I was given the crown. And, that role as pathetic kicking post, spread to our church and school, and later even strangers who are pleasant at first but then quickly turn disrespectful.

  • @alioks1059
    @alioks1059 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg I'm such a idiot! She literally did Everything you said and she blushed super red and played with her hair while smiling and she sang a song to me Lol. I was so blind! I thought she was just being friendly. 😱😩

  • @shineaishley7750
    @shineaishley7750 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love a girl but she’s in love w another girl. I’m in love w my best friend I can never get her to like me back😭

    • @sizmarthamumbi994
      @sizmarthamumbi994 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shine Aishley same to me,,,, I feel so offended, she acts like she likes but she is serious with another gal, I hate that gal who love her 😏🙄

  • @mahouyzmosa5711
    @mahouyzmosa5711 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I wish I could go out on a date with a girl that I like 😢💔

  • @shakahbrah7934
    @shakahbrah7934 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Or you could be like me and forget all the songs in your favorite band when she asks you so you just say whatever comes to mind and she says "Oh, yeah, that's a great song for when you have a crush!" At this point, for extra flair, you can walk into a door in shock. (-_-)

    • @-trinity-8059
      @-trinity-8059 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      *sigh* I feel the struggle ;-;

  • @TravelCultureMusicExploreAlisa
    @TravelCultureMusicExploreAlisa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s much more difficult than you say .. “easy to say.. hard to have a good result after practice..” The girls I like are no interested on girls..

  • @yumirakurosawa9698
    @yumirakurosawa9698 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm not sure, but i think i have something for my best friend's friend. This week i met her for a very long time, and after that i couldn't stop thinking about her. I didn't remember she was that pretty, i couldn't even properly look her in the eye when we spoke. Ah shit, this is really bothersome! It's like my heart could explode in any second... And especially when she came closer to me and started to talk to me, i was really about to lose my cool. Fuck this, i didn't know i was into girls! -__-

  • @maritia4577
    @maritia4577 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Gay or straight the signals are the same if the person is not a troll!

  • @doristhompson8487
    @doristhompson8487 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you Dr.Frankie, youre so awesome and helped me so much. I miss you.

  • @clementineaneditorandgacha5382
    @clementineaneditorandgacha5382 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My friend and i almost always have had addcidental kisses.
    We'll be talking then one of us will trip and land on top of
    each other and kiss, we laugh it off but she doesnt know i really
    love her. I told her i like girls and she has became way closer to me
    She says shes straight but i think shes bi.

  • @getnaenaed4
    @getnaenaed4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like this girl, let’s call her Frankie. I’ve know Frankie for a couple of years now, and only recently I’ve felt a strong connection with her.We have this other friend, let’s call her Michelle. Michelle isn’t the bestest of friends, she’s a bit mean, she’s mean to Frankie a lot, she hits Frankie, she’s very selfish, etc, and Frankie doesn’t like her, as well as I don’t. Sometimes, when us three are hanging out, me and Frankie sneak off, and Michelle doesn’t notice, you can’t say that’s mean compared to what she does. Frankie tells me secrets, and so do I, and once, she even said she was bisexual. I’m bi too, so I’m quite happy about that. She’s very smiley and she laughs at the most random things I say, but I laugh at what she says, too. I do kind of drag her around sometimes, I feel bad that I do that to be honest, but yeah I really like her but I feel like it’s not the time to say I like her, I’m actually 10, and she’s 11, almost 12, and I just feel like if I were to say I liked her, it might ruin our friendship, and it feels too young to say I like her. Any advice?

    • @alisafedorova190
      @alisafedorova190 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fluffle Pop Im 12 and i totally think she likes you! you totally should tell her that you like her goodluck!!!! Omg Im so sorry for my bad English Its hard because Im on my computer .-.

    • @getnaenaed4
      @getnaenaed4 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Idk, I’m a very shy person and I always think of the negative things

    • @isyourdady7549
      @isyourdady7549 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How about michelle?

  • @goldbullets5534
    @goldbullets5534 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    what if.. this person "A" .. one of my working colleague ..she keep looking at me.. but when i look at her or before i look at her..she turn somewhere else.. but i can sense she keep looking at me from her cabin..sometimes she ask about me to my other colleagues if im absent or didnt turn to work.. there is a incident happened.. during our company party.. we was sitting by row.. knowing she going to sit beside.. so i decide to leave space and sit with my other colleagues from seeing her face.. but few minute later she sit on front table of mine.. im kind of confuse ans awkward with her behavior.. what happened to her.. cause she is higher position in the entire office..

    • @onor404onor
      @onor404onor 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG!!! That things is happens to me. In my case, she is more older than me. I am 37 years and she has 59. LOL!!!!! In your case, i`m shure that she`s in love with u, but she doesn`t if you wannt her, or if you have a feelings for her, and maybe she is a litle shy, and she don`t wanna disturb you.

  • @littledevilblahblah7315
    @littledevilblahblah7315 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Okay, I have a question. None of us is a lesbian (I think so) but...
    My boss was to me one time (at other co-workers) very bossy and yelled so much even if I tried my best. And when we were alone she starts to cuddle me and talking with me like normal people do, she also told me that she likes me a lot (when other people show up she was like mad and angry and yelled lol idk what was that) but could be also sweet and kind. I need to add that I liked her a lot. I asked girl from work what she thinks about it (she haven't see the cuddle thing, just the mad ones) and she was laughing that my boss is into me. I need to add also that before I finish work there, she gets so mad that I am leaving and was doing everything to piss me, acting like a child without leaving any space to explain (other girl was leaving too but she didn't said word to her) and it was adult woman. I was trying to talk with her after but got no chance. Funny thing is that I still think about it and I don't even know what it all means.

    • @yurilily1470
      @yurilily1470 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LittleDevil BlahBlah she's totally into you,.

    • @vniyonsaba
      @vniyonsaba 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your boss is a psycho!!!

  • @paigeburdine5530
    @paigeburdine5530 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Me and my bestfriend😚
    We are like the cutest ship😗
    She always smiles in the cutest way and puts her head on my shoulder😍 and she always puts her foot on mine under the table and gives me a flirty playfull smile😋

    • @theialx
      @theialx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      are you guys dating?

  • @이선민-b5q
    @이선민-b5q 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In my case, everything you just told in this video matches perfectly.. but we are being friends now.. I don't want to be friends, but she always told me she's straight. I'm not sure that I could go further with her.. plz help me:( I m dying....ㅠㅠ

  • @suzie7357
    @suzie7357 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You are so correct😊🌈

  • @minervagalvez4748
    @minervagalvez4748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why do we make it so DAMNNNNNN complicated??? How about polite directness in I like you do you like me?

  • @ChloeASMR91
    @ChloeASMR91 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this didnt help i want to know how to go about dating a girl but not in person online dating

  • @marianniliew6211
    @marianniliew6211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm in love with my best friend, sometimes we flirt, but i dont know how to tell her ,,😔

  • @nor2258
    @nor2258 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know how to flirt a girl but where is it first, it is hard to find a lesbian in a muslim country..i want an arabic girl or an european

  • @Kaffeeisresting
    @Kaffeeisresting 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There was this girl that I loved, I was making all these signs and she knew that I loved her and she said that she liked me back but she wasn't sure. So I waited, waited and waited, asking her sometimes how she was feeling about this and them the next thing I know is that she got a boyfriend that she never even mentioned before. I feel betrayed and lied to and don't know how to tell her how I feel without causing drama...
    Help me QvQ

    • @riddhishah8899
      @riddhishah8899 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kafee the small ...just move on... In life... She was doing experiment...

  • @crimsonsketches8432
    @crimsonsketches8432 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a shy girl around her and can barely get her to look my way... Sigh, forever alone

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love u
      I like u
      I need u
      Am alone
      Make u so so 🔥🔥🍆🍆♨♨💏💏👄👄💋💋😗😗😙😙😚😘😍😍😍🙋🙋🙋🙋

  • @PuruKaw
    @PuruKaw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haha, you totally described me acting when I like someone. Funny

  • @mme6385
    @mme6385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    when I'm liking someone I usually get way and avoid the person...

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need u
      I like u
      Am alone
      🔥🔥🍆🍆♨♨💏💏👄👄💋💋😗😗😙😚😘😘😍😍🙋🙋

  • @shortmocha2005
    @shortmocha2005 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Omg... where have you been all my life! Awesome advice!

    • @alanaban1840
      @alanaban1840 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stupid woman have boyfriend not girlfriend/ woman was design for man not woman / this is y woman have a vergina to accept men to bring fouth child into the world/ two woman cannot do that

  • @irenejames7089
    @irenejames7089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm having a crush on a straight girl but she doesn't have boyfriend yet she is 19th now she never had a bf before

  • @Jhona3304
    @Jhona3304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. No girl ever does this to me except that one guy at work who already have a gf.😭😖

  • @fiorellaespinozaagramonte6857
    @fiorellaespinozaagramonte6857 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All that you said is absolutely true.Fantastic!!!

  • @caraj8949
    @caraj8949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What does it mean when you make physical contact, often. From touching their hair, waist arm, etc... They don't touch back, but they don't move away or ask you to stop?

    • @AkitaMix
      @AkitaMix 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cara J can't make conclusion based on what you said. There needs to be context behind the touching. The person might be sensitive and doesn't like touching people in the first place, or likes the attention but can't process what to do, etc.

    • @caraj8949
      @caraj8949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AkitaMixx thank you for your response. Well, she is not the "touchy feely," type but makes frequent, and long eye contact and her eyes roam. However, I had the opportunity to tell her that I find her attractive and she was flattered, but also stated that she never picked up on it. See, we once worked together so I had to be discreet and professional. I did not want her to feel uncomfortable, or, bring SHC against me. Now that we no longer work together, I opened up. She was not offended and we still interact and it isn't weird. She still let's me touch her, knowing that I am fond of her. But, nothing will come of it. Neither one of us will cross boundaries. I am married and she is engaged. I also know her partner and I am fond of her too--they are both attractive. Nonetheless, I just wanted to know because I am not always sure. But, I am not sure if I am bisexual either. Thanks again.

    • @AkitaMix
      @AkitaMix 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      She doesn't mind you being touchy after you've opened up since she knows nothing will come out of it. She might also think at the back of her mind that you're straight and wouldn't want to do anything to risk her relationship for something that might be nothing. If she does make a move, she doesn't care that you're married (or it's not something she'd be conscious about) and if she doesn't then she still doesn't care but cares more about her relationship regardless of what she feels towards you.

    • @caraj8949
      @caraj8949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AkitaMixx she always allowed me to touch her, even before I told her how I felt. She never backed away, and there were times when I was very close on her. In my confession I told her that I would "come get her" if things were different, I would consider experiencing...time with her. All in all, I believe we respect our relationships and neither of us are willing to sacrifice who and what we have. Thank for your insight.

  • @irenejames7089
    @irenejames7089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She used to say I'm so nice to her and sweet she likes me lot but I don't in what she is meaning that words her name is Jessica bellezza she is a singer in USA

    • @jaydah1998
      @jaydah1998 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      She liks you as a friend... that's all...

  • @doubleaqua8092
    @doubleaqua8092 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My girl works near my house and no way to tell if she likes me, or if she's just nice. Flirting like crazy but I'm afraid to make a move. :(

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need u
      I like u
      Am alone
      🔥🔥🍆🍆♨♨💋💋👄👄💏💏😗😙😘😍🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋

  • @ZoeSummers1701A
    @ZoeSummers1701A 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Or.. just not play childish games and fucking ask.

  • @roof30
    @roof30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if you're the one person no one is ever interested in, that no one wants to date? I have no single friends and I find that my fellow lesbian sisters tend to actively avoid me. People are happy to make small talk, but I've spent the vast majority of my life single - in comparison to my twin sister who has been single for a week since we were 16. Life is pretty f*cking lonely.

  • @EmilyYait
    @EmilyYait 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hi there! I like one girl from work and now that she likes girls for sure. but the thing is that i think she has a girlfriend although I do not know for sure..i just feel like it is like a magnet..i just always want to watch her and just get to know her better..we do not talk a lot but she is always laughing and smiling when I am saying something..last time we even got exactly the same drinks from starbucks..it is just hard for me to think how we can start talking more..because we see each other only at work..maybe I just should let it go?

    • @filou5835
      @filou5835 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Katherine, i hope you will listen to you vibe. As She said Maybe an event in your town could be the opportunity ?

    • @riddhishah8899
      @riddhishah8899 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask her out... For coffee

  • @kaylaw366
    @kaylaw366 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr. Franky got it going on!

  • @lunamartinezzz
    @lunamartinezzz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So I have a crush on this girl from musical theatre and she’s a gay (I’m bi) and we’ve been texting almost everyday for two months now but she takes a lot of time to reply? But she is the one who keeps the conversation going? Like asks me a lot of things and stuff to make me talk more but idk if she is interested in me:( and we are friends so I wouldn’t like to “ruin” our friendship? But maybe I should ask her out? Idk

    • @AkitaMix
      @AkitaMix 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Luna Martínez shes definitely interested. she's probably overthinking what to text you. Have you initiated texting her? cause that may be one factor. Try being the initiator, and ask her out

    • @riddhishah8899
      @riddhishah8899 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is waiting for ur reply

    • @lunamartinezzz
      @lunamartinezzz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AkitaMixx maybe I should text her a bit more🤔 if we keep talking I’ll ask her out lol thanks for replying

    • @riddhishah8899
      @riddhishah8899 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Luna Martínez 😃😃😃😃 she will definitely say yes.... To u...

    • @riddhishah8899
      @riddhishah8899 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Luna Martínez hi did u talk to her...

  • @a.lexbian
    @a.lexbian 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The problem is the girl I like does all of this with me, but she has a serious girlfriend...

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am alone
      I need real 🔥🔥🍆🍆♨♨💏💏👄👄💋💋😍🙋🙋🙋

  • @ivyk5796
    @ivyk5796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah I hope some people dont see this video because I'm kinda doing all those things with some people

  • @emiliabegani2860
    @emiliabegani2860 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey guys i would love to read some advices from you
    So i have a crush on a really good friend of mine for some months now. My problem is that i can't really find out if she likes me back in that way or is just messing around or having fun.
    So we've been on the same school for about 5 years now and it actually just always was a casual friendship. But last year, our friendship grew much bigger, then i realised after some time that i want more than a friendship or that i just feel different for her than for a "normal" friend. We text each other 24/7 for a year now and always say super cute and flirty things to each other that i wouldn't say to other "friends" . She always touches me in every way when we're at school or somewhere else, always wants to be near me and hugs me really tight, and what i like most is that most times when we're just Hanging around with a group of people or when we're in class, she always looks at me an then we have this INTENSE eye contact for like 5 seconds and she always laughs at whatever i say even if it's not funny and
    I just don't know she also tries to make me jealous all the time she only says this shit about boys and everything when i'm around and extra super loud so i can hear it and then tends to look at me and see my reaction to that.
    She always says stuff about kissing me or just some other gay things haha can't really describe it.
    Okay i know that was much and i could list more things but what do you think, if anyone even read it?? Is there a chance for me or should i just move on?

    • @nikkie9640
      @nikkie9640 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Um yes I think you definitely have a chance! From what I hear she feels the same esp with talking about boys and looking to see your reaction and also talking about kissing u

    • @myblackandwhitelife
      @myblackandwhitelife 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you might have a chance. She's mentioning kissing you! There will be no other way to know but to ask. You should update us :D wish you luck

    • @poonampradhan1595
      @poonampradhan1595 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      go girl! .... u definitely have a chance

  • @1975christi
    @1975christi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good question, it is happening to me but the only thing that she's married. 😐

    • @dgm6778
      @dgm6778 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here but her FB status says Interested in Men & Women sooo? Can be confusing...

  • @kokolovitch56
    @kokolovitch56 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Doctor, I’ve been having a shooting pain in my right abdomen.

  • @saoirseandreapatriciacrowl506
    @saoirseandreapatriciacrowl506 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if i am a BI Poly and i'm not interested in having a relationship? There was a time when i was more willing to be with someone ,lately i'm more interested in my own life. Plus i don't like people who are closeted..

  • @erinvaughn3739
    @erinvaughn3739 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I haven't seen any new videos from Dr.Frankie 💖💖
    2020

  • @yourcelebrityangle
    @yourcelebrityangle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I freaking need your advice guys, there is this girl at work that I know is gay (long story) but anyways at the beginning she used to make lots of compliments towards me but out of the blue she just stopped I think it happened when I mentioned my ex not boyfriend say it was a affair with a man, I am bi btw, anyways sometimes when we sit in fron of each other to eat at lunch I catch her staring at me for long terms.... what should I do?? I really like her

    • @cornellia8206
      @cornellia8206 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Celebrity Angle This was 4 months ago, how are you two right now? If you really like her, go for it :)

  • @blvckdoll
    @blvckdoll 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video was helpful cause I just can tell off of the vibes that I get from them. Sometimes I just know, ya know? It’s hard to explain so this video was spot on.

  • @Shaybouverie
    @Shaybouverie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks for the advice ...... it really helped

  • @emilyemily2903
    @emilyemily2903 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys, I need an advice there is a girl in my class she sits next to me she keeps touching me and she tries to get my attention but she dates guys now I’m confused I want to touch but I don’t want her to know that I like I want her to make the first move but I don’t know how I’m tired of hiding my emotions so I need help.

  • @LonerBecause
    @LonerBecause 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can't wait until I get a gf seriously

  • @kimjhungson5064
    @kimjhungson5064 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love my friend and i dont know if she likes me but when i look her eye i feel an eye contact between us but i dont know if its a love or something

  • @julied915
    @julied915 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are all touchy feely at work. Not sure who likes who. But 1 in particular I do like. I do get alot of eye contact and we are conversing more. I invited her out. Let's see if any chemistry comes about🤔

  • @lateshiachilds3640
    @lateshiachilds3640 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like both men and women. Lately i been more into women then men. I reallt want to know these great tips to know if a lesbian is into me.

  • @TheFactsofLife237
    @TheFactsofLife237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if they text you and call you a lot? Especially after you cut them off? What is that called?

  • @hildaayoo6853
    @hildaayoo6853 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My question Dr. Frank would be, how can I find a girlfriend either far or near? How ?where? Thank you

  • @bjyokums
    @bjyokums 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Number One: Eye Contact

  • @DontComeBack.
    @DontComeBack. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why my heart keep pounding faster than usual. 👁👄👁😀😅 Anyway thank you for the videos, somehow you making me smile and confident. ☺️

  • @rosemarythorn4514
    @rosemarythorn4514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching this makes me realize how obvious I am when I have a crush on someone

  • @nancynorman6015
    @nancynorman6015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is the advice also for older women? Sometimes I am more toughie feelie a

  • @rebahwafula7628
    @rebahwafula7628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So she described me when I like somebody

  • @rainbowdiamond6039
    @rainbowdiamond6039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me and my bff like each other... I think, I think she likes me, she texts me she loves me, and sends me kissing emojis. We've kissed but it was very quick and short. I really want to kiss her again but I'm too nervous. Sometimes I don't think she does but other times I do... Any advice

  • @spirit6134
    @spirit6134 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'How do you know if someone is one of 'Les Bian' and into you?'
    You say to her: "Hi, [state_your name_if_you_don't_know_her_already] I wonder if you might like to go on a date on [state_time_and_place]?"
    Why make it hard by trying to guess???
    (If she is anything like me, she will appreciate you for it - swipe wtf???)

  • @writtenIntheskys
    @writtenIntheskys 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some girls are just too touchy

  • @TheImprovised
    @TheImprovised 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm bisexual, but I can totally be this way about a woman i like that i don't feel sexual about. WTF?

  • @mahouyzmosa5711
    @mahouyzmosa5711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So basically I'm flirting with every body

  • @sabrinaholda9590
    @sabrinaholda9590 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So i have this huge crush in this girl from my school and she knows it and i told her it and she says that she has nothing against it. And we are both in boarding school and and she always comes into my room and always looks at me and makes eye contact i think she had interest but now i dont know anymore its strange

  • @aikolyka828
    @aikolyka828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Someone looking for their significant other in comment section?

  • @cryptotrader121
    @cryptotrader121 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been waiting for so long so for the one special girl in my life but now I think I should give up as I think I will never get anyone by my side 😢😢

  • @ChernellWood
    @ChernellWood ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely have something like this going on

  • @nathaliaceasar796
    @nathaliaceasar796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey! i have a crush on my bff and i told her that i am interested in her. now she is no long friends with me .but i have noticed her looking at me just like for 3 seconds and as soon as i look she looks away why is she doing that?

    • @nanak3976
      @nanak3976 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nathalia Cool she might be scared

  • @sueasadallah1612
    @sueasadallah1612 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is afraid of touching me but she loves me. Does she want me ?