You are an angel!!❤ Thank you so much for your inspiration!! I'm 52 years old and 50 pounds overweight and have a late-in-life child who is 9. She wanted roller skates for Christmas so I took her to the rink to see how she would do before I bought her a pair. I have only skated a handful of times since I was a kid and I haven't skated in over 15 years so I was pretty wobbly myself. My little one could not keep her feet under her at all and we got her a skate mate and I tried teaching her the best I could when I really didn't know what I was doing either. We started watching your videos and I got her and myself our own skates and we've been practicing every day on the kitchen floor. Halfway through the second time at the rink she quit using the mate and was skating on her own. I'm so proud her and perseverance. When I was a child I didn't know anything about adjusting the wheels or the trucks and I struggled all the time with my skates that just didn't perform very well. Now that I know, I can adjust my wheels and trucks and my daughters too!!😁 like I said we practice every day on the kitchen floor and we found a local basketball court yesterday to practice some more. My body is sore but it is so worth it to have something so much fun to do with my little one. I have 2 adult children also...My daughter's friend has started skating with us and my son's girlfriend has started skating with us so now I just need to get my two big kids out there with us🥰🤩❤ We are not far from you and plan to go to the Fountain Valley Skate Center soon. We really hope to see you there🤩
Dear Deborah, some people are good at something and can teach that. But a real teacher has empathy. This is making the difference. And you are a very, very good teacher. Thank you for your good work.
Awww Patricia thank you so much for this comment. I think sometimes empathy is thought of as a weakness but I can't escape it. I appreciate beginners so much and want them to find joy in skating.
Just out here crying being so moved by Dirty's words. Ive only had maybe 20days of skating practice and Im so happy with the progress of my plus size body. We can do anything we set our minds to!
I got emotional watching this too! Made loads of excuses to not skate in the past, but I'm going to order myself some next pay day and just have a go at least 😀
I'm 71, over weight and out of shape. I really want to start roller skating again. It's been 43 years so I'm ready and scared. Thanks for teaching this I leaned a lot from you. I will be doing a lot of exercise and changing my eating habits.. Thank you so much for your encouragement...
I'm 370lbs and started skating again a few days ago. I spent a decent amount of time in the rink as a teenager but I was really scared I wouldn't be able to do it anymore because of my size. I'm still having trouble getting up when I fall and this was so extremely helpful. I'm so excited to keep learning and advancing.
@@PS-kv9vb I have the sure grip fame skates. I ordered them from a small business in LA but you can find them most anywhere. I changed the wheels to the moxi gummy wheels and they've been great. I don't know what the actual weight limit on them is but I've been using them for a couple months now without an issue. I wouldn't suggest jumping on them but just rolling around and simple tricks have been great.
I'm wanting to learn to help lose weight, currently am 223 lbs. Last time i skated i was only 91 lbs aged 12. Right now i'm just trying to get around my apartment on my skates - still terrifying though
Don't let anyone steal your joy, some people wish they had the courage to skate but don't so they try to tear you down. Great message today Dirty, one that everyone needs to hear.
WORD! I stopped being a musician because of judgement and discouragement from others. It’s not worth it! If you want to skate but you let other people shut you down, you’ll die inside a little every time you think about it. Don’t listen it the haters. They’re wrong.
As RuPaul likes to say..." whatever people think about me is none of my business" You do you and don't worry about everyone else. If they have a problem with it it's their problem not yours❤
I’ve been practicing in my front garden and people stare. Do I embarrass myself? God yes. Do I care? Hell NO LMAO I love it!! Thank you for the confidence🥰
Me too! People think me skating to the elementary school is an opportunity to tell me their skating injury horror stories! I love to fall in front of them and just get right back up. It shocks them 😭
Idk if it helps, but I am in the same boat. I bought pink roller skates and park my 160lb ass down on them for the whole townsfolk to see^^ But if it´s fun, it´s fun. Greets from Germany^^
I try my best not to ever stare at people but usually when I do I'm thinking "wow! You're awesome! Keep doing that work, you got this" but I'm too far away or in a car so can't actually say it
Its nice hearing deb's words at the end. Theres a lot of tik toks I watch with a lot of skinny people skating, but I don't see a lot of plus size people skating. I feel encouraged by her words.
When i started i was 50 lbs over weight and out of shape. I used to skate 5 times a week for fun and for exercise. It wasn't until I started strength training and stretching consistently that my skating really took off. Quads, glutes, inner thigh strength as well as hip and back flexibility are key!
@@RoxyReyes from skaing alone, no i did not. It is a great way to be active and relieve stress, but i did not start to lose weight and see significant changes in my body until i began strenght training. I was pretty intimated by the gym at first, but i started small (5lb weights max) and made the commitment and progressed from there. The strength training also helped my skating tremendously and i was able to progress so much quicker! So long story short, skating got me accustomed to being active and open to exercise, but commitment to strength training is what really got my ass in shape 💪
OMGness Dirty I work in health care & I tell ppl this all the time. As we get older we need to practice daily getting up off the floor. I can't begin to tell you how many times EMT's get called just to help someone get up off the floor.☹☹☹
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I totally agree. Every morning I do SIMPLE stretches and I get on the floor and off the floor. It is so true that as we age, we MUST practice this.
You are so right! I’m a Paramedic and lift assists for the general public are so much more frequent then they used to be. I’m 65 and returned to skating after at least 45-50 years. One thing is for sure, lol, the first time that I fell at the rink, I had help getting up, but after a few more falls I was like, there won’t always be someone around to help, so I learned real quick how to master the art of getting back up on my own. I was 250 lbs when I started and have lost about 15.
@@siobhandeguerin9221 When I told a friend of mine I was getting skates, the first thing she said was to take somebody with me if I go skate, or to let people know where I am. At fjrst, I was like....why?? Then realized if I'm down at the tennis courts or whatever, and I fall or get hurt, I might not be able to get up or back home.
@@karenmccabe2167 Your friend is absolutely correct! If you take a tumble or are injured and no one is around that can be problem or delay any medical attention you may need. If you do go alone and no one knows where you went that can also pose a problem. Definitely let one or more friends or family know your whereabouts if you do chose to go alone and have them check in with you intermittently to make sure you are ok and if not they can always come to your location and make sure you are ok! Lol better yet have your friend go with you.
@@karenmccabe2167 that used to concern me too but now I just make sure to have my phone ON me at all times. In places where it's actually cold in winter, it's easy to have on a hoodie with a pocket. But in the summer I always have my phone close to me in a belt bag or a fanny bag. I actually did fall on my tailbone once when I was alone and my family was far away! Thankfully I was able to get up on my own... after I crawled to the grass to recover for a minute. LOL. Also some nice people asked if I was ok. Yeah... I only hurt my pride... and the tailbone took 2 weeks to recover. LMBO
I’m 34, 330 lbs and I get my big ass out there and even do the speed round! My love has been there since I was a kid and I’m gonna do it until I can’t no more!
Do you have any reccomendations on skates for us bigger women? Im around the same weight but im brand new to skating and havent chosen a pair of skates yet. I dont want to spend money only to break the plate lol
@@endtimestruthrevelation1407 idk if u ever found out but I'm 330 pounds and moxie boots have proven sturdy and strong after skating every Friday for 6+ months. Highly rec for larger skaters
I'm 260 pounds and when I started a few months ago I could hardly stand up. I'm still 260 pounds but now I can skate for a good solid half hour and I'm learning how to go backwards now! It's slow progress but who cares, I'm loving it and loving not being injured by trying things too fast lol. My legs are also looking TONED!!! :) Getting up without a fence was the biggest thing so far, I get into a crouch position, one foot flat and planted and use my back leg toe stop to push up from the ground. It took some experimenting but I totally agree that you can find an alternate method of getting up that works for your muscles. Your videos have been so wonderful and helpful to me! I love the skate community, I've never felt I couldn't skate with all the awesome fat skaters showing off and the genuine encouragement to be found here.
Okay! Good to hear! I can only do about 10 min and have to sit down. I mean, no way am I going to stop, but it's great to hear your improvement! Thanks you!!! I'm going to keep going!!!
You have such a beautiful heart! Thank you so much for this. Not only am I over weight, but I am also 53! I was afraid I was too old and my family just stared at me with shock when I said I was getting myself skates for Christmas. But, I was determined, and I am shocked at how fun and exhilarating it is! This is awesome!
As someone who has always let their weight stop them from doing a lot in life, I’m glad I finally started skating because although I suck right now, I feel so happy 🥺💜 Honestly I really needed this video thank you so much 💜💜💜
Dirty Deb, when you teared up, I actually teared up because I GENUINELY felt what you were feeling! My sisters and I skate all the time, and we get nice comments, dirty looks, and all of the above so I understand what you meant when you said that THEY want to do what we are doing and because they don't have the courage to do so, they want to make us feel bad about having fun! Thank you so much for this video! You are a REAL one Deb! Love ya!
i never knew she knew how to walk on shoes!!! good stuff. shes kind of inspirational, and mildly abrasive... not a boring teacher!!! :) that touching end really was quite nice to see how passionate she is!!!
When I started skating it was so hard I would drop to my hands and knees panting, covered in sweat, and I couldn't get up for ages cos I was so tired and worn out. But what people don't realise is that if you build the muscle to skate by practising, you are making your walking safer cos you're less likely to fall. I started walking differently a while after I started skating, and during lockdown I got so out of shape I tripped over recently, and that's something we should all avoid. I believe skating can help overweight people be safer on the streets.
I shared this to my kids, they don’t think bad about their body’s, but get laughed at by kids who only look at their screens. This is a very important message for many people, thanks ! Love to watch your video’s ! ❤
I just started skating this week at age 50+. Age is another factor that stops some folks from trying something new, but not this old gal. LOL. Thank you Deborah for being so inspirational and motivational. You rock and I could not/would not have embarked on this journey without you.
I couldn't hold back my tears it's so true, and realistic, I live in France, I just turned 40 and I had the funny idea of rollerblading, I wasn't sure I wanted to do it until 'until I came across these videos, I did my 3rd session and I am improving very quickly, I will try in my garage to continue my learning, thank you for everything Deborah you are the best I thought it was impossible until 'to what I see your videos, chin up !!! me walking headlong when I train I think that first..chin up ... two words that weigh heavily .... thank you for everything I hope to be able to follow the class room from France !!! thank you for this video I cried I would have loved to be near you I felt this rage to live as we are no matter what people say or think ... if they are laughing it is because they did not have the chin up notch and go straight ahead !! this video helped me even more than the practical advice! i love you from France !! sorry for my english i used google translation 🤣🤣 😍😍😘😘😘❤❤❤❤ big kisses from France
I needed this video so much. I just tried skating again this weekend after a 30+ year hiatus, and a random guy at the rink was TOTALLY rude/discouraging. I almost left but thought to myself “f that guy!” and kept going. Today I found your channel and have binge watched about 15 videos tonight. THANK YOU for your encouragement, your humor, your empathy, your desire to help people, and your uncle. Seriously, you have just ensured I will keep going, in spite of obstacles or falling (but now I know how to prepare for that, too). I love you. 💕
Awwww Cheverly... welcome to the world of skating. I strongly suspect this will be a lifelong journey for you. Random guy has no idea what he has awakened in you. Have fun my skater friend.
This is the video my heart needed! Been waiting for it since you announced it. So emotional after watching it but it feels like I have someone in my corner! Thabk you so much Dirty Deb ❤Let's Skate!
Ailsa ... thank you so much for commenting here. It is good for me to know that I am reaching people with this message. I see it in real life and these videos help spread it world wide.
Aww this was so good to hear, my mom scoffed at me and made fun of me when I said I was going to learn to skate. I decided this time I’m going to prove her wrong, and thanks to a lot of your videos and practice I’m actually doing pretty good :)
Moms can be funny like that ... I think perhaps imagining themselves and reacting to that. You know what you are capable of. Take this journey as a lifelong adventure. This is something you do for you!
I want to thank you for giving me the “ump” to get back on my skates. I’m 51 and decided to get back on my skates. Hopefully it’s like getting back on a bike. I love your passion. You are greatly appreciated. I totally subscribed to your channel. Thanks again. ❤
The ending was beautiful. I was crying and actually hearing these words validates myself. I was so worried about being humiliated if I fell. I had to literally say to myself stop worrying about but falling and being embarrassed just relax and I advanced so well the first time in the rink people were sitting down watching me. That feeling of freedom, excitement and accomplishment was worth it. To anyone doubting yourself give it a try and don’t be too hard on yourself. With practice you will learn. I was so afraid of falling that I wasn’t enjoying myself. I not only did NOT fall I learned a few techniques once I let go of the doubt. Good luck to all beginner skaters, we’re in this together ♥️.
Love the passion and raw “Dirty” emotion 🥰 Preach sister 🙌👏🏻 I am 49 and just got some new skates 🤩 I’m rolling again after a 35+ year break. Super fat and out of shape but I’m out there doin it & having a ball!!! Love it 💜🛼
I almost cried when I saw this. I have been "learning" from all of your videos. I'm 53 and I do have some arthritis and about 30 pounds over weight. I get out on my skate every day in my backyard. It does get easier, but getting up is still painful for me. I won't go in public until I can get up from a fall. I have only fallen twice and both times it was forward falls. Almost in slow motion so I think that is half the battle of a fall. Thank you for all of your tips!
Just tried skating as an adult this past weekend and loved it!! I weigh 280lbs (started at 360 before deciding to get healthy). Falling hurt pretty bad and getting up was hard, but I did it! I’m going to try and go every week!
@@jinriepark7868 thank you! I got my own skates yesterday so I’ve been practicing in my garage. Even just a few minutes of skating I’m sweating and out of breath so I bet it burns a lot of calories. If I ever get the hang of it, I want to join my city’s roller derby training camp. It looks so much fun! But I should probably learn how to skate better first 😅
I relearned bike riding and roller skating this year and relearning skating is a lot harder than relearning a bike for me.😆 But both are so much fun and worth it!
I was watching your outside videos for practice, and this one popped up. Glad I watched it. I’m going through menopause, gained more weight, and honestly lost interest in trying to keep up with working out regularly like I used to. A little depression and poor dieting have crept in too, but I’m doing better and skating regularly every week in small spaces and on the street. With this comes the stretching and strengthening. I just watch your videos and get out and skate. I’m a lot happier when I do. Thank you for your skills and motivation 😘
Once upon a time, I was pretty good going forwards, and was working on backwards when our rink had to close. Fast forward 15 years and a hundred pounds later, I'm overjoyed to hear the rink is reopening and I finally get to go again. EGAD. The rust to work on was really hard to work off, and I sweated and fell and fell again. Took forever that session to get my balance--but I kept trying. Ordered new skates as my former pair were lost in a house foreclosure. Astounded how easily they rolled, and it was really hard for me to bend and get my skates laced up because it was hard for me to breathe.... Sixty pounds and better eating habits later I am a fraction away from getting back my crossover turns, and the muscle memory of days past is finally returning. Even had a fellow tell me I looked pretty smooth and that he was thinking of getting back on wheels. Friends, it really isn't rocket science--all you need is persistence and a lot of practice. Miss, I seriously wish to skate at your rink someday to say Thank You.
I´m 39, not overweight or our of shape but maybe too old in my mind for skating. I got a pair of skates one month ago and started as begginer. Thanks to your videos I am doing things I have never imagined and found motivation to fall, get up and keep trying. I feel it has improved my selfconfidence and energy, so I really encourage all people outhere who want to skate but are having doubts for some reason, just give it a try!
Girl adjusting my skates saved me. Legit GAME CHANGER. It was hard to find the right tools online but a lot of bicycle shops had them. I can finally turn
Candii ... please ... first and always focus on what your body can do. As you CAN do, then you CAN do more. As you CAN do more and better, you will literally view your body differently. I look at it like sometimes ... I am ... a beater of a vehicle but this muscle car can MOVE! I ain't that sleek and shiny but can motor!!!
@@Dirtydeborahharry oh my gosh thank you so much for replying and for you kind words this means the world to me and I’m already starting to see things a little differently after hearing that thank you 💗
Dirty, you just made me cry too and your videos are an inspiration to me! Creaky, 40-something rusty skater just getting into the fun of life on wheels again. You are marvellous!!!
Just finished watching this with my husband. I was bawling at the end. He asked me why I was crying and after I pulled myself together, I replied “Just healing from past trauma”. Thank you for speaking your truth in this video. I’ve been trying to find a way to move my body that brings me joy and skating looks like fun. I’ve watched 5 of your videos so far and just love your energy and vibe. I’m going to have to get some skates soon!
When I told my husband I had ordered the skates and I was back skating, he told me there were no skates to carry my weight. Thank you for support, Deborah!
Deb!! Thank you for this video, 4 years ago I fell on my tailbone and it was so painful it scared me to get back on and I went to urgent care and the nurse said I was to big for skating. My husband loves the rink so I went with him and you were there and you were so kind to me but I was a mess with the skate mate lol. I hope to be able to over come my fear. 50 pounds down and I want to be able to skate again.
This is amazing. I just ordered some skates to try something new and to build confidence in myself. Not only did you provide great tips that I'm going to use as soon as (even before!) I take my skates out of the box, you gave just the pep talk that I needed. Thank you
I absolutely am so moved by this woman! You have me shedding tears! To me skating is feeling that freedom and leaving your worries behind as you go forward… over weight and out of shape and over 50 is a struggle to get around when you think about skating! Thank you so much for being so encouraging and helping ppl like me put doubts aside and roller skates on!
I didnt really have any health goals before watching this video, but now I feel inspired to strengthen my body and feed it good things so that I can do what I love. I barely started skating, but you inspire me so much Dirty. Thank you for this much needed video
I’ve been watching your videos and I love them! Your advice is amazing. I fell hard the other day before I adjusted my new skates and I didn’t have pads yet and today my husband helped adjust them and I put the skates back on, and I felt so nervous. I remembered your lesson one and got across my floor, still no pads yet but they are coming. I went back across and took off the skates and had a lot of what you just said, self doubt. I’m chubby and older and I thought I must be nuts! Then I came back here to Dirty School of Skating and watched this video! Now I think I have more courage to keep trying! Thank you!
OMG.. when i balance myself, I feel confident and safe. I love this video because I feel aware and present with skating. The ground is not my friend, but after getting back up again helps saves energy and supports mental health. I appreciate this video from the bottom of my heart.
I love your passion and encouragement. Worrying about what others think has kept me from doing so many things in my life. So that hit home when you talked about how it reflects on them.
Oh Debs! I love your little emotional outburst! And I totally agree!!! I was bullied most of my childhood and teen years! That's no fun! And it keeps you from trying things because you are so afraid that somebody see you. Ice skating was my free zone so to speak. And later I did other more unusual things like uni cycling! That was hard to learn! But as you gain balance you also gain strength - much like roller skating! My biggest struggle now is finding energy as I have ME, and finding a suitable place to roll... Right now there is no where outside - because I live in an extremely snowy country! And we are currently having more snow every day. And to be able to get my car out my driveway I need to shovel that snow away. I have an over 109 yards driveway... That takes a lot out of me right now... But my roller skates are right there on a chair in my living room just waiting for that little bit of extra energy! And I still wait for my brand new Moxi Lollies witch was supposed to arrive before Christmas... But any how - still waiting. Waiting for skates, for spring, for energy, for Covid to be gone... Yes and we recently had a humongous land slide in my area. This was December 30. 2020. 46 houses was crushed, over 1000 people evacuated from their unsafe homes (1000 people from a 7000 people community is quite a lot) and 10 people died - whom 3 are not yet found... Hard times... But me and my neighbour - yes I just have one close by - and my son are safe and our houses are on safe ground! But let's say 2020 went out with a bang... Now we all long for a better year in every way! And I feel sorry for the ones back talking me when I roll by! I need to get to do something fun this year, lots of fun and something healing! Now I'll stop rambling and get to bed. Body is more sore from shoveling snow than from my face-slide-fall on roller skates this summer! Debby! I truly love your videos and think you are a remarkable, passionate, person! I would very much like to meet you irl some time! Love and light from extremely snowy Norway!
I use to skate all the time when I was younger and I was good at it! I haven't skated since before I was pregnant with my 1st child which was over 11years ago. After 3 kids, I had gained a lot of weight! Lol! I had been reading a "Self Care" book and one thing they suggest is to look back into your childhood and do something you use to enjoy back then. And for me that was skating. So I bought my oldest daughter and I some skates this past Christmas and decided I was going to teach her and get some much needed exercise. BUT things didn't go as planned. It was like I was starting all over again! I've been watching your videos lately and I am determined to enjoy this hobby again even if that means starting as a beginner! Lol! I wrote this loooonng comment just to say THANK YOU for your very helpful videos! 💜
Also wanted to add, I honestly didn't finish the video before I made my last comment, and if I could, I would give you a big hug and I wish I could give your vids more likes!!!
Deborah you're my hero. Thanks to you I started to skate. I was trapped thinking that I cannot do it 'cause my weight and age. Now I'm enjoying my life like never before. Love from Chile! ❤
I just started skating again a couple weeks ago. I haven't skated since I was a kid and I never had any formal training. Your videos have been such a huge help to me - I went to the rink tonight after watching your videos about falling and keeping your knees bent and I was so surprised at how much easier it was to keep my balance! I'm not super overweight, but I'm very out of shape, and it makes me so happy to see videos like this one that make skating accessible for everyone, no matter their size or fitness level. Thank you so much for making this content for so many people ❤️
I have pretty bad social anxiety, a lot of it surrounding my weight and the presentation surrounding it. It was one of the reasons I quit skateboarding. I think I needed to hear that last part before I picked up roller skating again.
I started skating when I was about 7 on a school field trip and fell in LOVE with it. Sadly I wasn’t able to buy my own skates but I rent skates every other weekend I went skating. I stop skating once my mum passed away. I’m 22 year old and I’m learning how to skate all over again. I got a pair of outdoor skates and waiting for them to show up. While I’m waiting I go to a skating center and skate. My boyfriend who hasn’t skate at all since he was 8 has been joining me on skating time to time. Cause he knows it makes me happy to have someone to skate with! I’m not the fitness person in the world, but damn I love skating!
Thank you Deb, your tips really have been helping as a beginner, especially skating in the street, is not easy😫😫😝😫 and my lower back is on fire lately loll you're the best😻😻😻
40 pounds overweight and 56 years young BUT my skates came last week; protective gear today. I been on my skates every day since they came no more than 20-30 minutes daily. I found your channel on Wednesday and boy I been hearing you in my ear. I'm going to keep at it-thanks for the content; keep it coming
AWESOME job!! I'm 60 years of age and I'm returning to skating and I see skating as my personal gym. I used to skate in the military about 35 years ago and LOVED it! Loving it again! The place where I go is adult nights on Thursday nights and I've found that there is ZERO judging whatsoever. If you fall, there will be someone stopping to help you up! There's a LOT of calories being burned out on the rink!
OMG! I'm standing here practicing my balancing and you got me crying! Love your enthusiasm and knowledge! You are the best cheerleader! I can do this! ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for your emotional message at the end of this video! I was emotional right along with you! I’ve been afraid to start skating again because of my weight, age and being out of shape. I’m going to be turning 57 next month. I used to roller skate in my teen years both indoors and outdoors. I was not ever a great skater and could barely get around the rink but I loved the feeling it gave me. I’m afraid of breaking a bone so I plan of course on buying all the safety equipment I need. I’m also reluctant to start because I’ve been made fun of by mean people because of my weight and I’m really not all that large. I’m so happy I’ve found your videos and I can’t wait for when FVSC can reopen and when it does I will be attending and hopefully taking lessons someday soon! Your videos are excellent!!! Thank you so much for all the great information! I hope to start skating soon and to meet you someday! Thank you so much for encouraging those of us whom are fearful to get started! Why should we allow anyone’s negative behavior keep us from doing what we love???!!! It’s like you said, it’s actually how they feel about themselves anyway!!!
If you're worried about breaking bones (totally understandable), you could get more calcium and vitamin D. I'm in med school and recently researched osteoporosis (not trying to imply that you have it), and bone health is helped exponentially by getting enough calcium and vitamin D. Fun fact: vitamin D aids in the absorption of calcium! Pardon the unsolicited advice
Omg I love you Dirty Debby! I’ve been skating for about 2 weeks or so. I’ve improved so so much because of you and watching this video makes me so glad I have you as my teacher
I bought my skates at 40 and introduce skating to my girls who watch me fall and saw me standing these experiences are lessons in life. Thank you Debora for being a motivation to many continue your teaching. Greetings from Costa Rica. Blessings.
Thank you for the encouragement…I have worried so much about being judged for my age…I went skating last night after seeing your video about making friends as an adult…HAD AN ABSOLUTE BLAST…talked to a lot of people even older than myself…and they too encouraged me to keep up the good work!!! ;-)
I am 46 and about 65 lbs overweight. I want to learn to skate so badddd!!! This video is a God-sent. Thank you for your honesty, passion, and encouragement!! I can't wait to SKATE!!! I am on Amazon looking for skates!!
Thank you so much @dirtydeborahharry ! I'm 55 overweight and haven't skated for over 25 years! My husband thought I was crazy but I've missed skating so much. I was quite good back then but it's a whole different story now. The main problem is not as much balance but my legs need to get strong again, they hurt! My calves, and ankles but I figure the more I get out there the stronger they'll get. I love and appreciate your passion and encouragement!
oh girl! You made me CRY!!!! I havent been on skates since I was 15. I just hit 44. My local rink just reopened and I've remembered just how much I loved to skate. Self doubt, and the fact that my body doesnt quite tuck and roll like its used to lol, has kept me from going back. But this inspired me to take those steps to get back there and do something that was once a huge part of my life. THANK YOU!!!!
I have to say that even if I don't have skates yet, I learn from you. The way you present your videos is by far better than some of the other videos on TH-cam. The way you encourage people to skate is what I like a lot and is what I need.
I finally got my skates today.... after waiting the past 6 months. I was so excited! Years ago, I was an avid skater. So, I was really surprised when I fumbled around like a hippo on wheels when I laced up. Ugh!!! I see ice and lots of ibuprofen in my future.
😅I am 70 but haven't been in the gym for 5 years and miss it , I need to lose weight and exercise. I used to love the rink but so many closed. I'm sure it wouldn't take long to get the hang of it again. I've been watching on TH-cam skating at and they have been kinda like line dancing and so many just follow, it's at a place called King skate and the skating they do is called the shuffle skate and it's awesome. That's the type of exercise I need and want, just worried obout my age?
I've been watching your videos for awhile now.I haven't skated in over 30 years.Im now a grandma of 3 ,and these is nothing I want more,than to get "strong enough " to not only get back into it,but I want it to make memories with the grandkids,And show them why I always loved it so much.Ive had a couple of people say,no its not a go idea ect....But once I put my mind to it,No one can stop me.I just wish you were here in Florida,cause I'd LOVE to meet you snd just give you a big'ol hug.You have a very special soul.I can see it and feel it from you. Who knows maybe one day,I travel with the kids and head your way and have a skate!! Till then,keep doing what you're doing.And Thank you for being you!!!
I LOVE the pep talk at the end. This is something you are very passionate about. I'm fortunate to be following your work and learning from your wisdom. (Recent subscriber)
37 and just over 300. I just got my new skates and I’m gonna go. It’s my first pair in my adult life. THANK YOU. I really appreciate this video lesson and pep talk. I can do this❤
Love this!! Thank you so much for sharing your passion and knowledge! I am over 40, overweight and out of shape due to past injuries. Figure skated and roller skated as a kid a lot, and my daughter and I are wanting to make it a regular thing. My first time out last week, wearing padded snowboarding shorts, elbow & knee pads, and a helmet, and still fell and hurt my behind bad. Nothing is broken except for my ego. My daughter practices everyday and I can’t wait to heal to get back at it! 💕
i used to rollerblade when i was like 10-11 and now i’m 20, but i bought myself some quad skates and i’ve been practicing for nearly a month! i’ve already lost like 2 pound and i’ve gone from 210 to 208!! i love biking the most, but this is an amazing exercise that i’ve been doing in my garage without having to go out in the cold. your videos have been a great help, and my balance, confidence, and skills are improving every day! 💖💖
You're such a sweetheart Deb! Thank you for touching on this topic, your passion for this sport is inspirational to say the least. Soo many skaters will hear your message, and our lives are only enriched by your videos! Keep it up!
I'm really glad I came across this video. I'm turning 49 and have always been interested in roller skating. Not only is this the pep talk I needed it's also extremely practical. I'm excited to take my first skate lesson this week!
You are an angel!!❤ Thank you so much for your inspiration!! I'm 52 years old and 50 pounds overweight and have a late-in-life child who is 9. She wanted roller skates for Christmas so I took her to the rink to see how she would do before I bought her a pair. I have only skated a handful of times since I was a kid and I haven't skated in over 15 years so I was pretty wobbly myself. My little one could not keep her feet under her at all and we got her a skate mate and I tried teaching her the best I could when I really didn't know what I was doing either. We started watching your videos and I got her and myself our own skates and we've been practicing every day on the kitchen floor. Halfway through the second time at the rink she quit using the mate and was skating on her own. I'm so proud her and perseverance. When I was a child I didn't know anything about adjusting the wheels or the trucks and I struggled all the time with my skates that just didn't perform very well. Now that I know, I can adjust my wheels and trucks and my daughters too!!😁 like I said we practice every day on the kitchen floor and we found a local basketball court yesterday to practice some more. My body is sore but it is so worth it to have something so much fun to do with my little one. I have 2 adult children also...My daughter's friend has started skating with us and my son's girlfriend has started skating with us so now I just need to get my two big kids out there with us🥰🤩❤
We are not far from you and plan to go to the Fountain Valley Skate Center soon. We really hope to see you there🤩
I hope that you and your little one are still skating!
I’m turning 50 next month and I’m loving these videos which I often share with friends 😀
@@veronicacole8085 Yes!! We are still skating and loving it ❤
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Dear Deborah, some people are good at something and can teach that. But a real teacher has empathy. This is making the difference. And you are a very, very good teacher. Thank you for your good work.
Awww Patricia thank you so much for this comment. I think sometimes empathy is thought of as a weakness but I can't escape it. I appreciate beginners so much and want them to find joy in skating.
@@Dirtydeborahharry i agree. Your energy takes me back, I could see you when you were young having fun skating because you still have that passion🤗
@@Dirtydeborahharry no you’ve got the right balance. Your def very assertive
At 225 lbs, I just started skating again after a 38 YEAR break. I get out there, have a blast and pretend I still weigh 125 and I’m only 12 years old.
I’m thinking of starting skating again at age 56 so thanks foe sharing! 🙂
@@jacquelinecellian8939 go for it! There's no age limit to having fun!
me too!
@@jacquelinecellian8939 Me too!
Yesssss!
Just out here crying being so moved by Dirty's words. Ive only had maybe 20days of skating practice and Im so happy with the progress of my plus size body. We can do anything we set our minds to!
yes, isn't she just the best instructor?? Yes!!!
Good job sweetie I'm trying to get there as well I have a bad ankle so here comes the physical therapy because I'm to determined to jump back in lol
I got emotional watching this too! Made loads of excuses to not skate in the past, but I'm going to order myself some next pay day and just have a go at least 😀
My skates arrived so it's just about getting started still waiting on physical therapy for the ankle.domt want to injure it more!
I love her so muchhh
Roller skating is the most fun exercise, can’t change my mind.
I like inline skating better.
@@dean3789 yikes
Inline is fun. I love exploring the different types of skating.
@@Dirtydeborahharry i guess I’m just better at regular and stick with that.
@@nicholaswalsh9697 I'm gonna play devil's advocate and say how do you know roller skating is the "normal" way and not inline
I'm 71, over weight and out of shape. I really want to start roller skating again. It's been 43 years so I'm ready and scared. Thanks for teaching this I leaned a lot from you. I will be doing a lot of exercise and changing my eating habits.. Thank you so much for your encouragement...
I'm 370lbs and started skating again a few days ago. I spent a decent amount of time in the rink as a teenager but I was really scared I wouldn't be able to do it anymore because of my size. I'm still having trouble getting up when I fall and this was so extremely helpful. I'm so excited to keep learning and advancing.
Omg what kind of skates do you have and where did you get them? I’m 300+ but I only see weight limits for 200 or 250.
@@PS-kv9vb I have the sure grip fame skates. I ordered them from a small business in LA but you can find them most anywhere. I changed the wheels to the moxi gummy wheels and they've been great. I don't know what the actual weight limit on them is but I've been using them for a couple months now without an issue. I wouldn't suggest jumping on them but just rolling around and simple tricks have been great.
I'm wanting to learn to help lose weight, currently am 223 lbs. Last time i skated i was only 91 lbs aged 12. Right now i'm just trying to get around my apartment on my skates - still terrifying though
Wow that’s great well done. How are going now?
@@colz5203 I broke my elbow and lost progress while healing but my skates are still going strong.
Don't let anyone steal your joy, some people wish they had the courage to skate but don't so they try to tear you down. Great message today Dirty, one that everyone needs to hear.
WORD!
I stopped being a musician because of judgement and discouragement from others. It’s not worth it! If you want to skate but you let other people shut you down, you’ll die inside a little every time you think about it. Don’t listen it the haters. They’re wrong.
As RuPaul likes to say..." whatever people think about me is none of my business"
You do you and don't worry about everyone else. If they have a problem with it it's their problem not yours❤
I’ve been practicing in my front garden and people stare. Do I embarrass myself? God yes. Do I care? Hell NO LMAO I love it!! Thank you for the confidence🥰
Me too! People think me skating to the elementary school is an opportunity to tell me their skating injury horror stories! I love to fall in front of them and just get right back up. It shocks them 😭
Idk if it helps, but I am in the same boat. I bought pink roller skates and park my 160lb ass down on them for the whole townsfolk to see^^ But if it´s fun, it´s fun. Greets from Germany^^
I try my best not to ever stare at people but usually when I do I'm thinking "wow! You're awesome! Keep doing that work, you got this" but I'm too far away or in a car so can't actually say it
Its nice hearing deb's words at the end. Theres a lot of tik toks I watch with a lot of skinny people skating, but I don't see a lot of plus size people skating. I feel encouraged by her words.
Search the hashtag #fatskatelove 😊
When i started i was 50 lbs over weight and out of shape. I used to skate 5 times a week for fun and for exercise. It wasn't until I started strength training and stretching consistently that my skating really took off. Quads, glutes, inner thigh strength as well as hip and back flexibility are key!
Did you actually loose weight? Genuinely asking.
@@RoxyReyes from skaing alone, no i did not. It is a great way to be active and relieve stress, but i did not start to lose weight and see significant changes in my body until i began strenght training. I was pretty intimated by the gym at first, but i started small (5lb weights max) and made the commitment and progressed from there. The strength training also helped my skating tremendously and i was able to progress so much quicker! So long story short, skating got me accustomed to being active and open to exercise, but commitment to strength training is what really got my ass in shape 💪
OMGness Dirty I work in health care & I tell ppl this all the time. As we get older we need to practice daily getting up off the floor. I can't begin to tell you how many times EMT's get called just to help someone get up off the floor.☹☹☹
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I totally agree. Every morning I do SIMPLE stretches and I get on the floor and off the floor. It is so true that as we age, we MUST practice this.
You are so right! I’m a Paramedic and lift assists for the general public are so much more frequent then they used to be. I’m 65 and returned to skating after at least 45-50 years. One thing is for sure, lol, the first time that I fell at the rink, I had help getting up, but after a few more falls I was like, there won’t always be someone around to help, so I learned real quick how to master the art of getting back up on my own. I was 250 lbs when I started and have lost about 15.
@@siobhandeguerin9221 When I told a friend of mine I was getting skates, the first thing she said was to take somebody with me if I go skate, or to let people know where I am. At fjrst, I was like....why?? Then realized if I'm down at the tennis courts or whatever, and I fall or get hurt, I might not be able to get up or back home.
@@karenmccabe2167 Your friend is absolutely correct! If you take a tumble or are injured and no one is around that can be problem or delay any medical attention you may need. If you do go alone and no one knows where you went that can also pose a problem. Definitely let one or more friends or family know your whereabouts if you do chose to go alone and have them check in with you intermittently to make sure you are ok and if not they can always come to your location and make sure you are ok! Lol better yet have your friend go with you.
@@karenmccabe2167 that used to concern me too but now I just make sure to have my phone ON me at all times. In places where it's actually cold in winter, it's easy to have on a hoodie with a pocket. But in the summer I always have my phone close to me in a belt bag or a fanny bag. I actually did fall on my tailbone once when I was alone and my family was far away! Thankfully I was able to get up on my own... after I crawled to the grass to recover for a minute. LOL. Also some nice people asked if I was ok. Yeah... I only hurt my pride... and the tailbone took 2 weeks to recover. LMBO
I’m 34, 330 lbs and I get my big ass out there and even do the speed round! My love has been there since I was a kid and I’m gonna do it until I can’t no more!
Do you have any reccomendations on skates for us bigger women? Im around the same weight but im brand new to skating and havent chosen a pair of skates yet. I dont want to spend money only to break the plate lol
@@endtimestruthrevelation1407 I'm thinking the same thing. I want to get some good ones that I wont end up hurting myself in.
@@endtimestruthrevelation1407 idk if u ever found out but I'm 330 pounds and moxie boots have proven sturdy and strong after skating every Friday for 6+ months. Highly rec for larger skaters
I'm 260 pounds and when I started a few months ago I could hardly stand up. I'm still 260 pounds but now I can skate for a good solid half hour and I'm learning how to go backwards now! It's slow progress but who cares, I'm loving it and loving not being injured by trying things too fast lol. My legs are also looking TONED!!! :) Getting up without a fence was the biggest thing so far, I get into a crouch position, one foot flat and planted and use my back leg toe stop to push up from the ground. It took some experimenting but I totally agree that you can find an alternate method of getting up that works for your muscles.
Your videos have been so wonderful and helpful to me! I love the skate community, I've never felt I couldn't skate with all the awesome fat skaters showing off and the genuine encouragement to be found here.
Awesome! This is the inspiration I need!
💕💕💕😊 love it! Way to go
Okay! Good to hear! I can only do about 10 min and have to sit down. I mean, no way am I going to stop, but it's great to hear your improvement! Thanks you!!! I'm going to keep going!!!
You have such a beautiful heart! Thank you so much for this. Not only am I over weight, but I am also 53! I was afraid I was too old and my family just stared at me with shock when I said I was getting myself skates for Christmas. But, I was determined, and I am shocked at how fun and exhilarating it is! This is awesome!
As someone who has always let their weight stop them from doing a lot in life, I’m glad I finally started skating because although I suck right now, I feel so happy 🥺💜
Honestly I really needed this video thank you so much 💜💜💜
Hope you're still skating🥳
Dirty Deb, when you teared up, I actually teared up because I GENUINELY felt what you were feeling! My sisters and I skate all the time, and we get nice comments, dirty looks, and all of the above so I understand what you meant when you said that THEY want to do what we are doing and because they don't have the courage to do so, they want to make us feel bad about having fun! Thank you so much for this video! You are a REAL one Deb! Love ya!
I started tearing up too! Dirty is right! She is gotdamn right!!
i never knew she knew how to walk on shoes!!! good stuff. shes kind of inspirational, and mildly abrasive... not a boring teacher!!! :) that touching end really was quite nice to see how passionate she is!!!
hahahaha! Thank you so much for this comment. I did laugh when you wrote "mildly abrasive"! I agree with that assessment.
When I started skating it was so hard I would drop to my hands and knees panting, covered in sweat, and I couldn't get up for ages cos I was so tired and worn out. But what people don't realise is that if you build the muscle to skate by practising, you are making your walking safer cos you're less likely to fall. I started walking differently a while after I started skating, and during lockdown I got so out of shape I tripped over recently, and that's something we should all avoid. I believe skating can help overweight people be safer on the streets.
I shared this to my kids, they don’t think bad about their body’s, but get laughed at by kids who only look at their screens. This is a very important message for many people, thanks ! Love to watch your video’s ! ❤
I just started skating this week at age 50+. Age is another factor that stops some folks from trying something new, but not this old gal. LOL. Thank you Deborah for being so inspirational and motivational. You rock and I could not/would not have embarked on this journey without you.
Wow good for you, hope you are enjoying it!
I’m 50 and plus size… I recently returned to skating. Going to a beginners class on Friday to give myself a bit more help.
I couldn't hold back my tears it's so true, and realistic, I live in France, I just turned 40 and I had the funny idea of rollerblading, I wasn't sure I wanted to do it until 'until I came across these videos, I did my 3rd session and I am improving very quickly, I will try in my garage to continue my learning, thank you for everything Deborah you are the best I thought it was impossible until 'to what I see your videos, chin up !!! me walking headlong when I train I think that first..chin up ... two words that weigh heavily .... thank you for everything I hope to be able to follow the class room from France !!! thank you for this video I cried I would have loved to be near you I felt this rage to live as we are no matter what people say or think ... if they are laughing it is because they did not have the chin up notch and go straight ahead !! this video helped me even more than the practical advice! i love you from France !! sorry for my english i used google translation 🤣🤣 😍😍😘😘😘❤❤❤❤ big kisses from France
❤❤❤ I appreciate this so much.
I needed this video so much. I just tried skating again this weekend after a 30+ year hiatus, and a random guy at the rink was TOTALLY rude/discouraging. I almost left but thought to myself “f that guy!” and kept going. Today I found your channel and have binge watched about 15 videos tonight. THANK YOU for your encouragement, your humor, your empathy, your desire to help people, and your uncle. Seriously, you have just ensured I will keep going, in spite of obstacles or falling (but now I know how to prepare for that, too). I love you. 💕
Awwww Cheverly... welcome to the world of skating. I strongly suspect this will be a lifelong journey for you. Random guy has no idea what he has awakened in you. Have fun my skater friend.
This is the video my heart needed! Been waiting for it since you announced it. So emotional after watching it but it feels like I have someone in my corner! Thabk you so much Dirty Deb ❤Let's Skate!
GO TYLA GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Always in your corner xoxoxo Dirty.
..Preach on it... I feel you D. DO you. Your "almost" tears were tears of passion. I absolutely GET IT!!!!
I appreciate that. THank you for watching.
@@Dirtydeborahharry Can you speak on cushions and how it affects adjusting your skates?
I needed this today. I was having a lot of anxiety because I thought I wasn't able to do this. Thank you so much for making videos like this!
Ailsa ... thank you so much for commenting here. It is good for me to know that I am reaching people with this message. I see it in real life and these videos help spread it world wide.
Aww this was so good to hear, my mom scoffed at me and made fun of me when I said I was going to learn to skate. I decided this time I’m going to prove her wrong, and thanks to a lot of your videos and practice I’m actually doing pretty good :)
Moms can be funny like that ... I think perhaps imagining themselves and reacting to that. You know what you are capable of. Take this journey as a lifelong adventure. This is something you do for you!
I want to thank you for giving me the “ump” to get back on my skates. I’m 51 and decided to get back on my skates. Hopefully it’s like getting back on a bike. I love your passion. You are greatly appreciated. I totally subscribed to your channel. Thanks again. ❤
220 pounds and 6 months post partum here… thank you for the confidence boost I needed to get out there and enjoy my skates
The ending was beautiful. I was crying and actually hearing these words validates myself. I was so worried about being humiliated if I fell. I had to literally say to myself stop worrying about but falling and being embarrassed just relax and I advanced so well the first time in the rink people were sitting down watching me. That feeling of freedom, excitement and accomplishment was worth it. To anyone doubting yourself give it a try and don’t be too hard on yourself. With practice you will learn. I was so afraid of falling that I wasn’t enjoying myself. I not only did NOT fall I learned a few techniques once I let go of the doubt. Good luck to all beginner skaters, we’re in this together ♥️.
Love the passion and raw “Dirty” emotion 🥰 Preach sister 🙌👏🏻 I am 49 and just got some new skates 🤩 I’m rolling again after a 35+ year break. Super fat and out of shape but I’m out there doin it & having a ball!!! Love it 💜🛼
I almost cried when I saw this. I have been "learning" from all of your videos. I'm 53 and I do have some arthritis and about 30 pounds over weight. I get out on my skate every day in my backyard. It does get easier, but getting up is still painful for me. I won't go in public until I can get up from a fall. I have only fallen twice and both times it was forward falls. Almost in slow motion so I think that is half the battle of a fall. Thank you for all of your tips!
Just tried skating as an adult this past weekend and loved it!! I weigh 280lbs (started at 360 before deciding to get healthy). Falling hurt pretty bad and getting up was hard, but I did it! I’m going to try and go every week!
Keep up the good work! 🥺 I’m waiting for my skates to arrive to also lose weight. I’m 135 and my goal is at least loss 20-35lbs 🙏🏻
@@jinriepark7868 thank you! I got my own skates yesterday so I’ve been practicing in my garage. Even just a few minutes of skating I’m sweating and out of breath so I bet it burns a lot of calories. If I ever get the hang of it, I want to join my city’s roller derby training camp. It looks so much fun! But I should probably learn how to skate better first 😅
You are amazing. Thank you for your encouragement. Kind of like riding a bike (not). 57, overweight, but determined.
I relearned bike riding and roller skating this year and relearning skating is a lot harder than relearning a bike for me.😆 But both are so much fun and worth it!
OMG your pep talk at the end ...❤❤❤❤❤
I just love you Debbie! You are so animated and adorable. You are really a great teacher!
I was watching your outside videos for practice, and this one popped up. Glad I watched it. I’m going through menopause, gained more weight, and honestly lost interest in trying to keep up with working out regularly like I used to. A little depression and poor dieting have crept in too, but I’m doing better and skating regularly every week in small spaces and on the street. With this comes the stretching and strengthening. I just watch your videos and get out and skate. I’m a lot happier when I do. Thank you for your skills and motivation 😘
Once upon a time, I was pretty good going forwards, and was working on backwards when our rink had to close. Fast forward 15 years and a hundred pounds later, I'm overjoyed to hear the rink is reopening and I finally get to go again. EGAD. The rust to work on was really hard to work off, and I sweated and fell and fell again. Took forever that session to get my balance--but I kept trying. Ordered new skates as my former pair were lost in a house foreclosure. Astounded how easily they rolled, and it was really hard for me to bend and get my skates laced up because it was hard for me to breathe....
Sixty pounds and better eating habits later I am a fraction away from getting back my crossover turns, and the muscle memory of days past is finally returning. Even had a fellow tell me I looked pretty smooth and that he was thinking of getting back on wheels.
Friends, it really isn't rocket science--all you need is persistence and a lot of practice. Miss, I seriously wish to skate at your rink someday to say Thank You.
I´m 39, not overweight or our of shape but maybe too old in my mind for skating. I got a pair of skates one month ago and started as begginer. Thanks to your videos I am doing things I have never imagined and found motivation to fall, get up and keep trying. I feel it has improved my selfconfidence and energy, so I really encourage all people outhere who want to skate but are having doubts for some reason, just give it a try!
YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love it!
Girl adjusting my skates saved me. Legit GAME CHANGER. It was hard to find the right tools online but a lot of bicycle shops had them. I can finally turn
Thank you so much for posting this I’ve always hated my body and the way I look but now it feels like at least one person cares❤️
Candii ... please ... first and always focus on what your body can do. As you CAN do, then you CAN do more. As you CAN do more and better, you will literally view your body differently. I look at it like sometimes ... I am ... a beater of a vehicle but this muscle car can MOVE! I ain't that sleek and shiny but can motor!!!
@@Dirtydeborahharry oh my gosh thank you so much for replying and for you kind words this means the world to me and I’m already starting to see things a little differently after hearing that thank you 💗
You are a literal queen. Thank you for always being so positive and keeping us all in check. 💜💜💜
It is my absolute pleasure.
Dirty, you just made me cry too and your videos are an inspiration to me! Creaky, 40-something rusty skater just getting into the fun of life on wheels again. You are marvellous!!!
Just finished watching this with my husband. I was bawling at the end. He asked me why I was crying and after I pulled myself together, I replied “Just healing from past trauma”. Thank you for speaking your truth in this video. I’ve been trying to find a way to move my body that brings me joy and skating looks like fun. I’ve watched 5 of your videos so far and just love your energy and vibe. I’m going to have to get some skates soon!
Andrea ... I feel you. I totally relate. I so hope you get your skates and decide to skate till forever because it is life changing.
When I told my husband I had ordered the skates and I was back skating, he told me there were no skates to carry my weight.
Thank you for support, Deborah!
Deb!! Thank you for this video, 4 years ago I fell on my tailbone and it was so painful it scared me to get back on and I went to urgent care and the nurse said I was to big for skating. My husband loves the rink so I went with him and you were there and you were so kind to me but I was a mess with the skate mate lol. I hope to be able to over come my fear. 50 pounds down and I want to be able to skate again.
Awwwww :) Please come back. Let's skate again :) 50 pounds down? Amazing!!!
This is amazing. I just ordered some skates to try something new and to build confidence in myself. Not only did you provide great tips that I'm going to use as soon as (even before!) I take my skates out of the box, you gave just the pep talk that I needed. Thank you
Great to hear!
How are you doing Lydia? May I hear an update on your skate journey ?
I adore skating and I hope to be able to keep skating for decades to come. I enjoy the struggle, the skill, the fun, the freedom and the style
This video is super helpful for me... Even years after it was made. Thank you
I absolutely am so moved by this woman! You have me shedding tears! To me skating is feeling that freedom and leaving your worries behind as you go forward… over weight and out of shape and over 50 is a struggle to get around when you think about skating! Thank you so much for being so encouraging and helping ppl like me put doubts aside and roller skates on!
This.is.it. Life lessons on wheels. What the skating community is all about!
I cried with you Dirty Deb! I weigh 250 and started skating with the guidance of your videos. You are the best teacher!
Marisol! May your skating journey be life changing in the best of ways!
I didnt really have any health goals before watching this video, but now I feel inspired to strengthen my body and feed it good things so that I can do what I love. I barely started skating, but you inspire me so much Dirty. Thank you for this much needed video
I’ve been watching your videos and I love them! Your advice is amazing. I fell hard the other day before I adjusted my new skates and I didn’t have pads yet and today my husband helped adjust them and I put the skates back on, and I felt so nervous. I remembered your lesson one and got across my floor, still no pads yet but they are coming. I went back across and took off the skates and had a lot of what you just said, self doubt. I’m chubby and older and I thought I must be nuts! Then I came back here to Dirty School of Skating and watched this video! Now I think I have more courage to keep trying! Thank you!
This makes me so happy. Usually I’m told I can never do these types of things. I love you so much thank you for these videos.
OMG.. when i balance myself, I feel confident and safe. I love this video because I feel aware and present with skating. The ground is not my friend, but after getting back up again helps saves energy and supports mental health. I appreciate this video from the bottom of my heart.
I love your passion and encouragement. Worrying about what others think has kept me from doing so many things in my life. So that hit home when you talked about how it reflects on them.
Oh Debs! I love your little emotional outburst! And I totally agree!!! I was bullied most of my childhood and teen years! That's no fun! And it keeps you from trying things because you are so afraid that somebody see you. Ice skating was my free zone so to speak. And later I did other more unusual things like uni cycling! That was hard to learn! But as you gain balance you also gain strength - much like roller skating! My biggest struggle now is finding energy as I have ME, and finding a suitable place to roll... Right now there is no where outside - because I live in an extremely snowy country! And we are currently having more snow every day. And to be able to get my car out my driveway I need to shovel that snow away. I have an over 109 yards driveway... That takes a lot out of me right now...
But my roller skates are right there on a chair in my living room just waiting for that little bit of extra energy! And I still wait for my brand new Moxi Lollies witch was supposed to arrive before Christmas... But any how - still waiting. Waiting for skates, for spring, for energy, for Covid to be gone... Yes and we recently had a humongous land slide in my area. This was December 30. 2020. 46 houses was crushed, over 1000 people evacuated from their unsafe homes (1000 people from a 7000 people community is quite a lot) and 10 people died - whom 3 are not yet found... Hard times... But me and my neighbour - yes I just have one close by - and my son are safe and our houses are on safe ground! But let's say 2020 went out with a bang...
Now we all long for a better year in every way! And I feel sorry for the ones back talking me when I roll by! I need to get to do something fun this year, lots of fun and something healing! Now I'll stop rambling and get to bed. Body is more sore from shoveling snow than from my face-slide-fall on roller skates this summer!
Debby! I truly love your videos and think you are a remarkable, passionate, person! I would very much like to meet you irl some time! Love and light from extremely snowy Norway!
You are an answered prayer! I am 54 years old and I'm just getting back into rollerskating. I am watching and saving your video's.
Awesome. Welcome to the wonderful world of roller skating.
You rock Dirty! The skating tips are good but the emotional pep talks are great! Love you, love you, love you💖
I use to skate all the time when I was younger and I was good at it! I haven't skated since before I was pregnant with my 1st child which was over 11years ago. After 3 kids, I had gained a lot of weight! Lol! I had been reading a "Self Care" book and one thing they suggest is to look back into your childhood and do something you use to enjoy back then. And for me that was skating. So I bought my oldest daughter and I some skates this past Christmas and decided I was going to teach her and get some much needed exercise. BUT things didn't go as planned. It was like I was starting all over again! I've been watching your videos lately and I am determined to enjoy this hobby again even if that means starting as a beginner! Lol! I wrote this loooonng comment just to say THANK YOU for your very helpful videos! 💜
Also wanted to add, I honestly didn't finish the video before I made my last comment, and if I could, I would give you a big hug and I wish I could give your vids more likes!!!
Deborah you're my hero. Thanks to you I started to skate. I was trapped thinking that I cannot do it 'cause my weight and age. Now I'm enjoying my life like never before. Love from Chile! ❤
I just started skating again a couple weeks ago. I haven't skated since I was a kid and I never had any formal training. Your videos have been such a huge help to me - I went to the rink tonight after watching your videos about falling and keeping your knees bent and I was so surprised at how much easier it was to keep my balance! I'm not super overweight, but I'm very out of shape, and it makes me so happy to see videos like this one that make skating accessible for everyone, no matter their size or fitness level. Thank you so much for making this content for so many people ❤️
I have pretty bad social anxiety, a lot of it surrounding my weight and the presentation surrounding it. It was one of the reasons I quit skateboarding. I think I needed to hear that last part before I picked up roller skating again.
I started skating when I was about 7 on a school field trip and fell in LOVE with it. Sadly I wasn’t able to buy my own skates but I rent skates every other weekend I went skating. I stop skating once my mum passed away. I’m 22 year old and I’m learning how to skate all over again. I got a pair of outdoor skates and waiting for them to show up. While I’m waiting I go to a skating center and skate. My boyfriend who hasn’t skate at all since he was 8 has been joining me on skating time to time. Cause he knows it makes me happy to have someone to skate with!
I’m not the fitness person in the world, but damn I love skating!
Very inspirational video for a 56 year old who is waiting for his first pair of roller skates to be delivered.
Thanks dirty Debbie 🛼
My pleasure! Do it!
Thank you Deb, your tips really have been helping as a beginner, especially skating in the street, is not easy😫😫😝😫 and my lower back is on fire lately loll you're the best😻😻😻
40 pounds overweight and 56 years young BUT my skates came last week; protective gear today. I been on my skates every day since they came no more than 20-30 minutes daily. I found your channel on Wednesday and boy I been hearing you in my ear. I'm going to keep at it-thanks for the content; keep it coming
AWESOME job!! I'm 60 years of age and I'm returning to skating and I see skating as my personal gym. I used to skate in the military about 35 years ago and LOVED it! Loving it again! The place where I go is adult nights on Thursday nights and I've found that there is ZERO judging whatsoever. If you fall, there will be someone stopping to help you up! There's a LOT of calories being burned out on the rink!
OMG! I'm standing here practicing my balancing and you got me crying! Love your enthusiasm and knowledge! You are the best cheerleader! I can do this! ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for your emotional message at the end of this video! I was emotional right along with you! I’ve been afraid to start skating again because of my weight, age and being out of shape. I’m going to be turning 57 next month. I used to roller skate in my teen years both indoors and outdoors. I was not ever a great skater and could barely get around the rink but I loved the feeling it gave me. I’m afraid of breaking a bone so I plan of course on buying all the safety equipment I need. I’m also reluctant to start because I’ve been made fun of by mean people because of my weight and I’m really not all that large. I’m so happy I’ve found your videos and I can’t wait for when FVSC can reopen and when it does I will be attending and hopefully taking lessons someday soon! Your videos are excellent!!! Thank you so much for all the great information! I hope to start skating soon and to meet you someday! Thank you so much for encouraging those of us whom are fearful to get started! Why should we allow anyone’s negative behavior keep us from doing what we love???!!! It’s like you said, it’s actually how they feel about themselves anyway!!!
If you're worried about breaking bones (totally understandable), you could get more calcium and vitamin D. I'm in med school and recently researched osteoporosis (not trying to imply that you have it), and bone health is helped exponentially by getting enough calcium and vitamin D. Fun fact: vitamin D aids in the absorption of calcium! Pardon the unsolicited advice
Omg I love you Dirty Debby! I’ve been skating for about 2 weeks or so. I’ve improved so so much because of you and watching this video makes me so glad I have you as my teacher
I bought my skates at 40 and introduce skating to my girls who watch me fall and saw me standing these experiences are lessons in life. Thank you Debora for being a motivation to many continue your teaching.
Greetings from Costa Rica. Blessings.
Thank you for the encouragement…I have worried so much about being judged for my age…I went skating last night after seeing your video about making friends as an adult…HAD AN ABSOLUTE BLAST…talked to a lot of people even older than myself…and they too encouraged me to keep up the good work!!! ;-)
OMG. God bless this woman. Protect her at all costs❤❤❤
I am 46 and about 65 lbs overweight. I want to learn to skate so badddd!!! This video is a God-sent. Thank you for your honesty, passion, and encouragement!! I can't wait to SKATE!!! I am on Amazon looking for skates!!
Love you Deb! Thanks for always being so inclusive, kind and fun! ♥️
Thank you so much 😊. I’m definitely out of shape and you’ve really pushed me to get out there and skate. Love and appreciate your videos ❤️💖💖
Last month, I started skating at 33 years old and 208 lbs. I'm still a wobbly baby deer, but I love it! Thank you for your videos!
That is awesome!
i love skating and i was i little fat but know i am not
And ice skating too
Your personality is contagious so much talent. Humbleness is such a beautiful quantity. I'm a beginner skater who definitely enjoys your tutorials
Wow, thank you!
Aww, when you got upset about people being mean was really something. I'm glad you're passionate about this and this really inspired me
Thank you for this. I haven't skated in 30 years and 100 lbs. Honestly, this is something I've been concerned about.
Thank you so much @dirtydeborahharry ! I'm 55 overweight and haven't skated for over 25 years! My husband thought I was crazy but I've missed skating so much. I was quite good back then but it's a whole different story now. The main problem is not as much balance but my legs need to get strong again, they hurt! My calves, and ankles but I figure the more I get out there the stronger they'll get. I love and appreciate your passion and encouragement!
You can do it!
oh girl! You made me CRY!!!! I havent been on skates since I was 15. I just hit 44. My local rink just reopened and I've remembered just how much I loved to skate. Self doubt, and the fact that my body doesnt quite tuck and roll like its used to lol, has kept me from going back. But this inspired me to take those steps to get back there and do something that was once a huge part of my life. THANK YOU!!!!
I have to say that even if I don't have skates yet, I learn from you. The way you present your videos is by far better than some of the other videos on TH-cam. The way you encourage people to skate is what I like a lot and is what I need.
I finally got my skates today.... after waiting the past 6 months. I was so excited! Years ago, I was an avid skater. So, I was really surprised when I fumbled around like a hippo on wheels when I laced up. Ugh!!! I see ice and lots of ibuprofen in my future.
Your video really moved me. I love your empathy and positivity. Thank you!
This video really gave me the confidence that I needed to get over my fears of roller skating! Thank you! ❤️🤗
😅I am 70 but haven't been in the gym for 5 years and miss it , I need to lose weight and exercise. I used to love the rink but so many closed. I'm sure it wouldn't take long to get the hang of it again. I've been watching on TH-cam skating at and they have been kinda like line dancing and so many just follow, it's at a place called King skate and the skating they do is called the shuffle skate and it's awesome. That's the type of exercise I need and want, just worried obout my age?
Dirty! ❤️ Thanks for putting this out there. Everyone deserves this JOY big or small. I hope more are inspired to try now!
I've been watching your videos for awhile now.I haven't skated in over 30 years.Im now a grandma of 3 ,and these is nothing I want more,than to get "strong enough " to not only get back into it,but I want it to make memories with the grandkids,And show them why I always loved it so much.Ive had a couple of people say,no its not a go idea ect....But once I put my mind to it,No one can stop me.I just wish you were here in Florida,cause I'd LOVE to meet you snd just give you a big'ol hug.You have a very special soul.I can see it and feel it from you. Who knows maybe one day,I travel with the kids and head your way and have a skate!! Till then,keep doing what you're doing.And Thank you for being you!!!
I LOVE the pep talk at the end. This is something you are very passionate about. I'm fortunate to be following your work and learning from your wisdom. (Recent subscriber)
37 and just over 300. I just got my new skates and I’m gonna go. It’s my first pair in my adult life. THANK YOU. I really appreciate this video lesson and pep talk. I can do this❤
Love this!! Thank you so much for sharing your passion and knowledge! I am over 40, overweight and out of shape due to past injuries. Figure skated and roller skated as a kid a lot, and my daughter and I are wanting to make it a regular thing. My first time out last week, wearing padded snowboarding shorts, elbow & knee pads, and a helmet, and still fell and hurt my behind bad. Nothing is broken except for my ego. My daughter practices everyday and I can’t wait to heal to get back at it! 💕
Your channel is so much fun to watch. My daughter and I watch you and we get a lot of great tips (for skating) from your channel! Thank you! 🥰
i used to rollerblade when i was like 10-11 and now i’m 20, but i bought myself some quad skates and i’ve been practicing for nearly a month! i’ve already lost like 2 pound and i’ve gone from 210 to 208!! i love biking the most, but this is an amazing exercise that i’ve been doing in my garage without having to go out in the cold. your videos have been a great help, and my balance, confidence, and skills are improving every day! 💖💖
You're such a sweetheart Deb! Thank you for touching on this topic, your passion for this sport is inspirational to say the least. Soo many skaters will hear your message, and our lives are only enriched by your videos! Keep it up!
I'm really glad I came across this video. I'm turning 49 and have always been interested in roller skating. Not only is this the pep talk I needed it's also extremely practical. I'm excited to take my first skate lesson this week!