Stop Complimenting like THIS - Use These Instead To Leave Women Thinking About You Non-Stop

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  • @Joyanima
    @Joyanima  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    What do you think of these complimenting tips!? Are you going to take them on board?

    • @hansganneus
      @hansganneus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Will do, tomorrow as a matter of fact. Thank you, Anna, great tips.

    • @jacobcutrer
      @jacobcutrer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ll probably try this. I love the way you’re so passionate about helping guys to get better at relationships/dating.

    • @Martin_Priesthood
      @Martin_Priesthood 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤔 might have to give it a try and see how it goes. " high value" compliments requires high value individuals

    • @demonhalo67
      @demonhalo67 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Flattering women has to be done sincerely and infrequently to have impact. I have done it in the past on occasions not expecting more and generally it has been well received.

    • @Martin_Priesthood
      @Martin_Priesthood 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@demonhalo67 👌 too much of anything is not good

  • @BillyBlaze7
    @BillyBlaze7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    "Your ability to monkey branch from guy to guy is remarkable"....gets em every time

  • @drewg7441
    @drewg7441 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    1) Physical compliments vs. character compliments -
    2) Saying she's nice vs. praising her kindness in action
    3) Praising her for being fun vs. her sense of adventure
    4) Typical compliments on smile vs. expressiveness of her face
    5) Saying she's interesting vs. praising her unique perspectives
    6) Saying she's unique vs. specific traits that set her apart
    7)

  • @Amir76fresno
    @Amir76fresno 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hey Anna . Great video, thx a lot. Wishing you a wonderful weekend. Cheers 🎉❤

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you! You too!

  • @Mrbfgray
    @Mrbfgray 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Don't complement at all is best advice. Fine to *show* appreciation when specifically earned but avoid random simping.

    • @Smartcom5
      @Smartcom5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Daily reminder: Simping is a cardinal sin - It's hardly forgiven! ♥

    • @Mrbfgray
      @Mrbfgray 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Smartcom5 Even in my vulnerable youthful exuberance, 'one itis' weakest moment, I never told my little princess GF she was beautiful. She already knew that and it's not the most important thing anyway.
      I might say: "You look good tonight." If I was feeling it.

    • @Smartcom5
      @Smartcom5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mrbfgray I put her -down- _in her place_ all the time, she *loves* it (they all do) and is often glum when I don't call her out _in a lovely manner_ (sometimes for no reason) for a single day. ♥
      *Remember:* She's made to be our helpmate - Solely created for admiring and look up to us, and will always be happy doing so.
      That's why relationships in today's society don't work anymore - All they do is wrongfully seeking _partner·ships_ … Go figure.

    • @invinciblevettel5
      @invinciblevettel5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you can't be serious. Red pill much? your attitude towards women is appalling. @@Smartcom5

    • @1hiddenearth
      @1hiddenearth 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      If you can't tell the difference between simping and giving a genuine compliment, you might want to work on yourself before you ever consider dating to any degree. 👍🏻

  • @nickolaszissimos1189
    @nickolaszissimos1189 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are most certainly a well of information, aren't you? I admire that in a woman. I find it fascinating with your ability to lay out the facts and explain them well. This is something I have always done well, I hate how most people are so generic and just say the same things. Take for instance if someone had a death in the family, everyone saying they are "sorry for your loss" or "my condolences", or something like that. I instead always say something uplifting and remind them that the person most likely want them to thrive. I won't say the generic things, it is too fake to me.

  • @calummitchell-miller257
    @calummitchell-miller257 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Been watching your videos for a couple of years now, just wanted to say thanks for all your advice and hardwork, Scotland appreciates you❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thanks so much! The style has changed a few times over that period hasn't it 😊

    • @calummitchell-miller257
      @calummitchell-miller257 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I suppose a wee bit, your so expressive with everything you say, v mesmerising, you suit your hair like that too, thanks for responding, I feel a bit special now☺️

  • @jimbrown5552
    @jimbrown5552 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks again for sharing

  • @kyotosal
    @kyotosal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Anna. Very helpful video!!!.....Sal : )

  • @axe6279
    @axe6279 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Leaving out the part where this only works if you're 6ft and handsome.

  • @jimbrown5552
    @jimbrown5552 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching from Ireland

  • @Hrazoart
    @Hrazoart 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve used indirect compliments with great success. If I say “I only date classy women.” Then she wants to date me to also qualify as a classy woman. Even if it’s just for the validation. Of course this works if all you need is one chance with her.

  • @bracketsthepolicefan
    @bracketsthepolicefan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Best compliment I ever gave a woman was that was worth ever penny 😂😂😂

  • @GLEN-fz3vy
    @GLEN-fz3vy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like this video, us men overlook so much

  • @snoobeagle
    @snoobeagle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yep yep, back up your non-generic compliments with examples. This one I already knew but needed reminding of!

  • @mottorcyle5052
    @mottorcyle5052 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Don't boost thier egos, they get more than enough compliments.

    • @demonhalo67
      @demonhalo67 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can do it without inflating her ego if you just say something nice to her and genuinely, she may start to fancy you.

    • @bw5020
      @bw5020 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sheeeeeesh

  • @jazzman1626
    @jazzman1626 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to say something about a phrase I hear often in the comment section of videos like this. I used to help care for vulnerable people and often had to take care of them after the very cruel way they were treated by people who considered themselves to be “ high value” people. I utterly despise with all my strength, that phrase “ high value person”. All of the most despicable of people I’ve ever known were “high value people” in their own eyes. They are always the most prideful of people. How utterly twisted people can be. I no longer tolerate being in the same room with people I know or even suspect are not gentle or at least try to be understanding.

    • @jazzman1626
      @jazzman1626 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Tel3greamme-Joyanima
      Why?

  • @LOKConstructionSudbury
    @LOKConstructionSudbury 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How about this... when a person, any person does something exemplary more than once. Tell them you notice and respect that. Don't treat women like their something special. They're people and if they're good people let them know and if they're not... let them know.

    • @LOKConstructionSudbury
      @LOKConstructionSudbury 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol I'm not saying don't go find a special women (honestly applies to special person really). Just saying as people we should place our positive investments in either sex as they demonstrate themselves to us. Raising kids, same thing. If we do that, no need for over thinking it, the virtue of the expression will naturally shine through ya?@@Ostracized35

  • @Zim85
    @Zim85 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Solid tips that can work in the right situations.

  • @austinbambooinc2507
    @austinbambooinc2507 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hm.
    1. You have to get to know someone's character, and they need to have a decent character, before you can properly compliment it. When you first meet, all you have is looks, but commenting on their wardrobe and accessories can be more effective than their biology.
    2. "Well you do act kind don't you?" vs. "Well aren't you a nice person?". The first one actually sounds like a sarcastic insult.
    4. "My, isn't your face expressive!" will probably be met with a blank and expressionless face. "My you have a beautiful smile!" will be met with more smiling and a cute blush.
    5. "You certainly have a unique perspective!" is often a nice way of saying you are out of your mind and there is no reasonable way of accepting what you just said.
    Compliments are sculpting language to encourage certain attitudes and behaviors. Is it a good idea to make comments other observation in order to communicate that you are paying attention? Yes it is. Making observations about each other and discussing them is a good way to keep each other grounded in reality and minimize vanity. That in turn can allow for a deeper relationship. Of course you need to have a relationship to begin with.

  • @johnhanson4795
    @johnhanson4795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im 62 now but most people think im 52 or 3 but omg women just ignore me like the plaugue my husband says this and that lol.where i live all women are married outa high school and have one or to kids the rest move away rural farm towns disappearing

  • @roberthocking9421
    @roberthocking9421 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Like the way you look. That gear suits you.

  • @genechronister7085
    @genechronister7085 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another great vid! Great content

  • @dimpledimple5545
    @dimpledimple5545 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I miss this channel. Happy new year everyone!
    That is true. Character compliments is much more meaningful.

  • @nikedits04
    @nikedits04 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thnk u maam❤

  • @justinbarhorst5531
    @justinbarhorst5531 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Telling her she's fun stop Telling her she's fun . If she doesn't like that she is fun then she is no just ok.

  • @TheOnelemon
    @TheOnelemon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I understand your points but I am sorry, this way of complimenting a woman is the surest way to being friend zoned.

  • @mcmann201
    @mcmann201 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, putting a more detailed picture in your mind. Deepens the effect !!🤔

  • @chadwaitt1447
    @chadwaitt1447 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anna, your insightful Video topic's about woman, are extremely helpful. They pop up on my smart phone regularly. It helps me understand the woman I have been actively showing interest in over 2.5yrs. She is quite shy. But she dresses up well when she knows I will be there. I dress up well for her too! A lot of staring goes on a lot. She sings on the stage on Sunday's & Tuesday's at church. She likes to observe me watching her as she sings. If I am not there for whatever reason; signs of disappointment are very apparent on her face. Every event is recorded; so if I am not there. I can watch the video later. At the moment I help her with her stock's; whether to Sell and stay out or buy. I saved her from a bad market crash last fall. Then helped her to buy back in for the Winter Christmas Rally. So I been actively helping her maintain her profits, as I do for myself. I do want to start dating her, but I need to get my financial house in order first. A good Financial foundation is key, before starting any new relationship. I do not want money to be an issue when we start out dating. I love your videos. You have so much knowledge when it comes to the other gender.

  • @Martin_Priesthood
    @Martin_Priesthood 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cute sweater. .🥰.

  • @zerolbcool
    @zerolbcool 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice one. Liking the expressive and perky intonations...
    Great to see the focus on female internals and personality.
    So extatic that you 'peeps' hopefully and likely finally got over superficial celebs like 'the Kardashian etc' or 'Hollywood types'
    What a relief, since I only appreciate the rare diamond in the rough...
    I would really hate to unsubscribe :)
    So drastic that just might lead to murder or suicide...

  • @justinbarhorst5531
    @justinbarhorst5531 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I only have 2 commitments eather you look good or you don't. Sence women don't like commitments on how they look it's easy I just don't say anything and when they ask my opinion I just walk away and say we'll you don't want my commitment so I am not saying anything and walk away.

  • @ordenax
    @ordenax 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These are great advices, Emilia Clarke!

    • @9tz768
      @9tz768 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      no they are not xd

  • @Maroon498
    @Maroon498 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Anna I have a question, I would be so grateful if you could help me out.
    So I exchanged numbers with a foreign woman on a dating site. At first things were great. We text back and forth, arranging to meet in may this year, but now suddenly this last week, she has gone completely distant.
    I actually asked her what the problem was, and she said she was going through financial issues. She is actually divorced with three children and runs a business alone, with no support. She is constantly busy all the time, or at least that’s what she tells me.
    I told her I would give her space but something definitely feels off about this situation.
    I keep telling myself that it’s not so hard for her to send a simple message but she doesn’t.
    Should I just walk away?

    • @kentfineart3576
      @kentfineart3576 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She may ask for money.

    • @lukegabriel1095
      @lukegabriel1095 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You already know what to do it might nit be fun but its better to stop NOW before youre investing all your money on her and youve never met her.listen to your 6th sense

    • @lukegabriel1095
      @lukegabriel1095 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ah sorry im not anna

    • @gregfitton5512
      @gregfitton5512 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All of the replies ive made to someone writing or messaging me, apparently by women, but who knows in cyber space, have always ended up with them needing money. Then emotional manipulation and personal character attacks when i refuse. Then the messages stop.

  • @kennysponto6568
    @kennysponto6568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your 🦫 beaver has an adventurous smile 😁

    • @bw5020
      @bw5020 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Eww

  • @keithrogers6876
    @keithrogers6876 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Interesting watch.
    I don't really see these as making an effort to pay compliments, to me these are just normal conversational comments about personality.. though to be fair I do phrase them more casually without drawing attention to it like the lines in this video would..
    Alternative title for this video: "how to be nice to people and show that you appreciate them".
    Also thank you other comments for letting me have a chuckle that people think "treat them mean to keep them keen" is still considered a good idea. Yes it may work sometimes but notice that the people it works on generally have some ...issues...

  • @EPandDSP
    @EPandDSP 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When the girl is Your girlfriend, .....You Say: sorry, i have said You that You are Nice, then she always said: No!, then You should Say: ok, maybe one day I Will say you

  • @justinbarhorst5531
    @justinbarhorst5531 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is nice never comment by telling her that Stat tell her she's ok.

  • @brianwormuth1903
    @brianwormuth1903 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These videos have really helped me since I had some bad stuff happen to me and I trust the English accent

  • @seanhealey5931
    @seanhealey5931 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    The best compliment is no compliment.

    • @Devik666
      @Devik666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why

    • @9tz768
      @9tz768 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      dont worry about him , he is just some redpilled loner@@Devik666

    • @1hiddenearth
      @1hiddenearth 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He hasn't grown up yet... unfortunately. 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @Kaisergang
      @Kaisergang 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@Devik666 women on average recieve more compliments than men daily. So when you happen to be the guy they like and don't compliment her it means she will subconsciously work harder to get your praise.

    • @seanhealey5931
      @seanhealey5931 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@1hiddenearth Can you substantiate that claim or is that just how you feel?

  • @TazerGames
    @TazerGames 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trying to convince us we're watching at 144p, with that background ?

  • @vaughnronald-james7248
    @vaughnronald-james7248 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Men, don’t listen to this woman she is steering you into the friendzone with a brick in the gas pedal. Just do cool shit and tell a girl you like she can join you everything else she will do for you if she’s actually interested in you.

    • @Smartcom5
      @Smartcom5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, that's really not true here. *Anna most definitely gives valuable advice in most of her videos, for the rather unexperienced and blue-eyed that is.*
      Most knowledgeable man can and often will just nod with her advice affirmingly, as it's conform to society's functional red/blue-blindness. However what she always does and what runs through her videos like a golden thread, is, she _always_ tries to underscore how the superficial and typical 'expected' Nice Guy-traits ain't bringing a man any forward and expressively advises to *avoid* these societal traps and little pitfalls at all costs - To the typical blue-themed societal social-conditioning, she's mostly contrary and rather represents rose willow (Salix helix), if you can figure …
      In this video particular, she again *rightfully* advises _against_ superficial compliments only towards the other's outer appearance and recommends to focus on noticeable pleasant character-traits (if there are any to begin with…) and thus against the media-driven blue-tinged narrative that men have to be the typical Nice Guy™ to gain cookie points.
      → This video is just in line with most of her former good videos

    • @Smartcom5
      @Smartcom5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @TonyT2525 Of course these types of compliments _are _*_not_*_ supposed to replace pick-up lines_ - Good Lord, common sense is really doing out …
      I mean, you didn't honestly thought that you're supposed to use theses types of compliments on a complete stranger who you haven't even met yet for a pick-up, ain't you?! 🙄
      Of course it's weird and makes no sense, since it's weird and makes absolutely no sense to do so, hence you don't.
      Glad you already by yourself came to that very conclusion before getting b!tch-slapped in person by the next girl. 🤣

    • @winfriedmaus
      @winfriedmaus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like an advice that works great on teenagers, but not on adults (read: 30+).

    • @mernmoon
      @mernmoon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women can't give you advice on how to pick them up. They don't know what they want. That's not the way their brain works. Usually they think they want the opposite of what they really want to subconsciously A smells have been receiving bad advice from females and believing it for most of our lives. Once you realize they have no idea what they want or what they want to hear You will be so much better off

  • @justinbarhorst5531
    @justinbarhorst5531 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stop saying she interesting . Start saying she is just ok . I value interesting people . But if she doesn't like being called interesting no problem she is no longer interesting . Now it's so sad women don't like comments.

  • @theintrancer1910
    @theintrancer1910 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Guys don't say these things, it comes across as contrived, pre-planned chat-up lines and not genuine. It's not what you say, it's how you say it, i.e. the tone and speed, how you express yourself when you say it, your body language, and looking them in the eye to show sincerity.

  • @steveleeart
    @steveleeart 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A woman I care about a lot, but she’s living overseas and came down with Covid and not doing well, I said “sending you lots of love and healing energy” which she hearted. Definitely try to make compliments that are specific… like at Christmas I told her I appreciated some specific things she had said to me when we first met. She definitely has a sense of adventure, as she’s travelling right now which I have complimented her for as well. She has an Amazon wishlist so I’ve sent stuff from it and added stuff I thought she’d like or for example she had a phone case in the list but I knew another that was more robust as she hikes sometimes and if she drops her phone this will protect it very well - and the week it arrived she posted some selfies and the new case was on the phone 🎉

  • @spudskie3907
    @spudskie3907 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One time I told a woman I liked her new hairstyle because it made her look more sophisticated…and older.
    It drove her nuts and she became obsessed with me.

  • @randallthomas5207
    @randallthomas5207 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Comely: An overall attractiveness, with connotations of beauty or prettiness, but with overriding elements of character and personality. I once walked into a store, and without thinking said to the pretty new clerk, "Dam if you're not cuter than a speckled pup and looking to be a lot more fun to cuddle up with on a cold winter night." Luckily, she laughed, and said, that I might want to ask her to dinner so we could get to know each other and decide if we wanted to cuddle up. We are still cuddling.

  • @silentd76
    @silentd76 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've just noticed you're not married, still single, eh?

  • @YouilAushana
    @YouilAushana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don't be a puppy dog be an authority speaking to a subordinate

    • @mernmoon
      @mernmoon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is very true. Feminism has taught women to think that they want to be taught to with respect. But subconsciously, they want you to talk down to them. Every single female updated loved it wouldn't admit it but they I'm editing this because I said it wrong. I think not really talk down but like The main comment says speak to them as if they are subordinate and you have authority over them

  • @Void-uj7jd
    @Void-uj7jd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Compliment the parts where energy moves, the mind and soul.
    "You have amazing eyes!" is so generic. Don't waste your time.

  • @M.Vautier
    @M.Vautier 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So, just lie?

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
    @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yeah ive come upp with few off my own complimenting few spicy younger looking women or younger looking girls ive come into content with as i been out an about in town with my baby puppy puppy dog and ive had alot off now stop complimentings from women an younger looking girls about myslfe an my new 7week old baby puppy puppy dog

  • @kennysponto6568
    @kennysponto6568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like the way you handle a cold day in that tight sweater 😜

  • @Je_suis_Jefe
    @Je_suis_Jefe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤦‍♂️

  • @oliverpetroski4205
    @oliverpetroski4205 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤔Hmmm
    ❤D😘🥰 Nice combination👌

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Testing myself with you Anna: you are sincere intelligent extremely kind protective emotional pretty as well as sooo convincing and an excellent communicator!
    I am being sincere but am I convincing to you?❤❤

  • @andrewmcgee1001
    @andrewmcgee1001 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anna, the dress in the thumbnail was 'designed with you in mind'......but, truthfully, you could wear a paper sack and look amazing in it. Okay, enough about me. Let's talk about you.

  • @Dman425
    @Dman425 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Telling you that you have a nice rack isn’t a compliment?